He reports to GOD and his future wife reports to Him. Says modern women have that order confused.

[@johnbrowntheprophet]

He says, “I’m the provider,” yet he wants his woman to help him pay the bills. You can’t have it both ways, Bruh. Either you’re a provider, or you’re not.

[@eon001]

"men die alone too" Indeed. Some of us men are falling for this lie that we get better with age. Time is ticking for us too. It might be longer but we have an expiry date fellas.

[@nekneversleep]

And I applaud you for your honesty.

[@belizeanqd]

Thank you for being real, but when we Actually look at statistics women live longer. Also a quick Google check shows that the men to women ratio is pretty level except in China lol, men outnumber women there. At the end of the day people just need to find who they are compatible with and do what works for them.

[@brishaberries0101]

Y'all mentality is what expires y'all first.

[@dangdeionn]

@@brishaberries0101 he said their time is longer lol I’m dead . The internet is really toxic

[@nekneversleep]

@@dangdeionn All they wanna do is compete with women in every possible way…

[@quinslion4563]

Man I swear Kendra is a dangerous woman 😂 A lot of men don't know how to properly express/explain themselves to a woman when it comes to what we want without triggering them. I built my family on the concept of we stand before God " I pour into my wife, my wife pours her love into our children" and when properly raised our children will return that to us before we return to the earth. To me that is the statue of order. My wife doesn't submit to me, she submits to the order. She keeps me up and running so I can work hard for the family, I replenish her energy by loving, protecting and providing.

[@Reneesaidit]

Pour my brother

[@cassleahg487]

We need more husbands/fathers like you giving dating advice to men…and woman. Respect ✊🏾

[@tcg1972]

Finally, someone who gets it. Most of these dudes who are screaming for a woman to submit to them, know nothing about God, Christianity, or the order. They just want someone they can control.

[@tataliciousdelicious9840]

Preeeeeeaaaach!

[@runwind8955]

@Quinslion love it❤

[@lordblackwood4417]

I get that he wants a traditional relationship with his wife. One problem...he seems to want his wife to contribute to the household thru financial means. Which is ok. Thats what I believe. He must realize tho, that it's no longer a traditional marriage after that. If she's working and bringing money to the table, she has plenty of say so to how things are to be ran. I accept that. I justwant a respectful and understanding woman thats willing to do what it takes to make that marriage work with me.

[@johnbrowntheprophet]

Yeah, exactly. Well said. 👏🏻👍🏻 He doesn’t seem to understand that a “traditional woman” isn’t expected to pay 50 percent of the bills.

[@HeCreative]

100% right king a man can require anything he wants as long as that queen is well provided for if y’all both contribute no matter how much she has a say and it’s about compromise now if you pay for everything and her needs are met at home then she as the women needs to take care of said home and everything involved in it.. that’s the trade off can’t ask for what you not giving brother .. good synopsis black 👍🏽

[@HeCreative]

@@johnbrowntheprophet that’s a fact

[@nekneversleep]

Very well said. Many of these Kangs want a submissive woman to also work full time and pay bills . And it doesn’t work like that .

[@chrisscreven1931]

@Zolaad1 it’s not about capability, it’s about structure. When there is structure the family operates smoothly. Also there’s two types of energy, it’s not that either person can’t tap into either energy, it’s that each person taps into a specific energy naturally. Also this hierarchy isn’t only established by who makes more, even men who make less than their woman can lead the family. Fun fact, in America did you know that the African American home is the only home where the standard is that the man and woman are “sharing” the leadership. Also African Americans have a high rate of divorce as well as single parents, and 80% of these divorces are ended by the woman. Leadership is not to be shared, doesn’t work, statistics show it. There is never two head coaches, it’s a head and assistant head. Same with managers, teachers, doctors, etc. literally in every area of life there is a hierarchy and there is always one leader. Man > woman > children.

[@candycrusher2024]

He totally avoided the question about why he has never been married at 44.

[@karyt1375]

I'm glad he said a man is suppose to earn a woman's submission, which essentially is a woman feeling safe enough to submit fully to trust any & everything a man says & does. Modern men think that submission comes without any prerequisites on their behalf. I didn't hear anything crazy in his demands & I hope he finds someone.

[@R.Yvette.X.]

I'm so glad he understands that submission has to be earned. I wish more men could grasp this concept.

[@kerbysaintil3774]

The moment you decide to become someone's wife by saying yes to his proposal, you suppose to already be willing to submit no matter what. Like why would you marry someone you're not willing to submit to If you feel like he's worthy of being your husband? Don't marry anyone you can't submit to. If submission have to be earned, then you can flip that and say being taken care of and being proposed to has to be earned as well. In my perfect world, both men and women should try to prove that they're marriage material from the jump, and try to make the relationships work for the future.

[@karyt1375]

@@kerbysaintil3774 Submission requires trust & yes trust needs to be earned or better yet vetted...just like a potential marriage partner. And no! women arent the exemption to this, men should equally require a woman to prove she's worthy of provision, protection & marriage. So again asking someone to submit i.e completely trust you, is a process & not a "right" that some men tend to think it is. But I'm willing to agree to disagree.

[@Lazyeyeblindman]

@@kerbysaintil3774 I was gonna say this exact thing like what?? What woman is walking not feminine already 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@thegiftedseer6764]

Saint Paul wasn't talking to all women and all men. He was talking to The Church.

[@kimberlyrenae]

To answer your question Kendra, it’s because he hasn’t been able to attract the type of woman that he wants to marry, because the type of women he wants would never accept the game he’s running.

[@CosmicGlitterGoddess]

How can he want a “traditional woman” that has her own career and takes care of her business? That is a modern woman. She has her own career, money, currently provides for herself and what nots. I don’t get these dudes that want tradition accompanied with careers. If he really wanted a traditional woman, why don’t he get a woman and settle down years ago? Asking for a friend…

[@bella28498]

Same shit I said smh. Doesn’t make sense at all.

[@NinaAngelina25]

Same thing I said. Sheer, utter confusion.

[@NaturalMackie]

@Marie Baker these types don’t get it. Traditional women are focused on the home not going out to work. If the man needs her money then he doesn’t want a traditional woman.

[@NaturalMackie]

@Far7rom well my bad but you don’t know me either darling. I work and I work some more when I get home. This isn’t 1900s in South America. This is 2022 and the dynamics of relationships are quite varied. Most men who say they want a “traditional” woman want a working woman who share the bills. So all I’m saying is if you want traditional then take it all the way. If I stayed home everything would be clean and food cooked (I do that now). I assist in everything. Most men say traditional, meaning they’re insecure and want to rule over someone like a child. I will have my say respectfully because you can lead me, but you won’t lead me off a cliff. Back then the order of the day was complete obedience and must accept a final decision even if it’s wrong (I know I’m generalising). Different time and perspective now. That’s my take but there are women who are ok with being led even if it’s being led astray.

[@NaturalMackie]

@Far7rom hahahahahaha ok I’ll go find some chickens to raise just now. Then I’ll be the perfect wife. I never knew having a penis made you the end all and be all of wisdom and virtue. I wonder why the world, run by men, is so full of conflict. Does God tell you all to kill, rape and war too? The egos of small, insecure men is something else. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@denisesmith8303]

Lord, let me get myself together Good men are still out there

[@valpooh7532]

She made it seem as if he was so out of line. When she starts to dislike people or disagree with them she gets disrespectful. Nothing wrong with what he said in my opinion.

[@WittyOne37]

Exactly. It was all good until he started getting in her business lol

[@Only1Dizzle]

Thank you. Kendra does too much.

[@runwitvision47]

I agree.

[@ogralph803onig6]

She's turning into an old maid

[@valpooh7532]

@@ogralph803onig6 😂😂😂 but she said she had been asked to marry many of times but she turned it down lol

[@liveyalife08]

Why havent you married yet? - Kendra G "Im not looking to bring a clown in here and create a circus" LOL salute!

[@Dimples_807]

He is speaking truth, Don’t change your beliefs and standards for people. Sometimes Kendra have to listen and move on especially on certain topics.

[@kennettabradford6566]

Who truth are you talking about

[@katrinadeago1768]

He is speaking about the biblical structure of things . God being the head of all, Man being the head of the household a protector and provider, Woman being the helpmeet of the man supporter nuturer teacher and the children being further support ,learners and falling to under subjection. The point being they all are under subjection to God . So as the husband submits to God and goes to God for guidance , the women comes under subjection/submission to God and her husband when he is walkinh correctly and the children coming under subjection of God father and mother . Operating under the Lords perfect will. No one is less than Man and woman ie husband and wife work in tandem

[@kourtneydouthard-becker1501]

Preach! You broke that ALL the way down

[@tinacrenshaw3559]

💯💯💯💯

[@Nico-is1ck]

Absolutely!!! Well said. This is me as a wife…that’s because of my personal relationship with God. My mother shaped me into being a Proverbs 31 woman💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽👩🏽‍🎤💕

[@blahblahblah3722]

Yes! You should have explained it to him cause I don't think he meant all that 🤣🤣 dude came off like the husband is the mediator 😂 we all submit to God. Wives go to God for guidance as well. Only Christ is our mediator

[@DJ-vj4vi]

It’s 2022

[@dspenderella9671]

Actually their sperm count goes down by 35 the same way a woman's eggs degenerates. Older men's sperm quality also goes down; researchers have found that older defective sperm has caused disorders & defects in children like down syndrome despite having young healthy mothers. It's rare for elderly men to have children the same way it's rare for women to give birth in their 50s, but it happens. They have a shelf-life too.

[@yakzivz1104]

these fake religious dudes are not reading any science journals. all they know is that bible.

[@royalty085]

What's with BM calling themselves kings but have no kingdoms yet expect all this submission? He's right about one thing, a man needs to earn submission but not in the way he described. That wouldn't get me to submit.

[@bruceleeroy8302]

Ironic coming from a person with "royalty" in their name. Women call themselves queens all the time. 😂

[@madebydade305ify]

What's with BW calling themselves Queen and no Kingdom or King to stand with? So man must always earn a submissive woman but a woman can't believe or stand by the structure of the family. Which leads to a out of control house. 🤔 the double standards are real fellas

[@CoCo-yv3hl]

Right

[@cynthia6568]

This comment litterally tickled my heart. He’s a so called leader and has lead nothing consistently but himself… I think I’m gonna stop waiting for a man and just continue to build myself…It just hurts how manipulative Men are.

[@slimgrande4666]

This is the type of guy a lot of sistahs would pass up. However, If he truly is a man after God’s heart and he finds a woman that fears the Lord , that marriage would be built on a solid foundation. I don’t know about y’all but I rather I have a marriage with good foundation .

[@Missmewbs]

That could be reversed too, as you see a lot of Christian men marry worldly women (Devon and Megan, Keion and Shaunie to name 2 couples) But I agree with you on building a solid foundation on God and not on a checklist .

[@slimgrande4666]

@@Missmewbs that’s true ! However, Shaunie was a PK. Megan has her own personal relationship with God and Devon was trying to have Sarah Jakes in the making.

[@Missmewbs]

@@slimgrande4666 I just named them because they were in the news recently. TBH, Megan and Shaunie don't carry themselves as women of God. Very few Christians would say they are women of God. In fact a church woman called out Megan due to the way she dressed and Devon felt the need to defend her. There really is nothing wrong with it, as long as they are committed to making the marriage work; however, it becomes harder to fit into those expectations of what a Godly man and woman is, because often times they are unequally yoked. Be blessed. You really are spot on with your comment and I agree with your thoughts on the matter.

[@LB-bu5xf]

Amen!

[@chbry1050]

Nope, the ones your attracted to pass up unfortunately black men are bad at choosing wives, lots there a number of sisters on here who like him however black men like him should seek black service where there's more women suited to his taste a lot of women are not taught to be wives.

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

To be honest I don't see anything he said was wrong 🤷🏾‍♀️ especially about the black family structure and the roles of a husband and wife.

[@bruceleeroy8302]

Me either. Kendra proved how she's a modern woman by how much she kept pushing back on him for no apparent reason. If he had said he only wanted a woman under 30, then maybe she could have pushed back but no, he wanted a woman within his age range.

[@lordblackwood4417]

Getting proposed to and getting married is not an accomplishment. There's plenty of trash that you can get married to. Finding the right person for you and cam build a life with, is

[@eddieelliott1496]

I agree with the brother too he knows what he wanted he won't settle for less.

[@evonne437]

@@bruceleeroy8302 How can he expect a woman his age to obey him and turn everything she made for herself over to him to determine what to do with it. That "order" makes no sense unless the man wants to always be above her.

[@divinefem8793]

Yup and she erased my comment about saying that she’s not mentally, spiritually or emotionally ready to do a job like this. And if you erase it again Kendra I’m gonna keep putting it right back get your life bish

[@Noname-hc5uw]

I can see why this guy is single. If he gets married, divorce will be in his future. His mind is not expanded enough to make a marriage work.

[@perfectDOE]

I'm modern and I can accept this. He seems fair , just, and willing to reciprocate.

[@legginglovers966]

He lost the thought because those aren’t his thoughts…

[@jones2277]

he still needs help paying the bills and going on trips, yet he feels like he's going to make all of the decisions. this fool.

[@HolyHotSauce]

Black people y’all gotta remember that every black person ain’t a Christian or has the same belief system.

[@itsallgood1922]

I was with him up until his thoughts about shelf life. MEN, you have a shelf live whether you want to believe that or not. You will continue to age. This man is 44 years old and he looks every bit of 44! I guarantee you no younger women of childbearing age is going to want this man unless he finds someone vulnerable with daddy issues. The fact that he’s 44 and claims he hasn’t found a woman of value let’s me know that he’s the issue.

[@janaism]

Agreed not everybody wants a old man

[@KeelyB2318]

He sounds like a great man. I hope he's able to meet his future wife soon.

[@bella28498]

He waited too long to get what he’s looking for. He’s bald and he most likely don’t look like what use to 15 years ago. At best he should’ve settled down 8 years ago before he became jaded, set in his ways, and bald.

[@KeelyB2318]

OMG 😯 that is so mean. There's nothing he can do about being bald. Besides, a lot of women find bald men attractive. My husband actually keeps his head bald and I love it.

[@bella28498]

@@KeelyB2318 what does this have to do with your husband? If you think what I said was mean read then re-read what I said again. Men like to wait until their bald, teeth is missing, jaded as hell, old, not as attractive as they once were, boring, acting like a militant, now they want to settle down with the woman of their dreams. Good luck. My husband is older and have a head full of thick salt and pepper gray but if he loss his hair that’s fine he married me with hair not when he was bald and ready to settle down barking off a list.

[@Briyonti]

@@bella28498 Exactly like most BM, and they swear younger women desire them🤣🤣

[@bella28498]

@@Briyonti you get it. Everybody, men and women want good looking ppl in their prime. Not broke down, smoked out, jaded, trying pimp, and hoe their way thru life.

[@Elehcim82]

I Iike this dude's ideology. He sounds like a solid, stand up guy. Kendra can be too modern. Most women, especially women of color, don't want to submit to the devine order. I applaud this man. He deserves a good women.

[@GepsenLuv]

You ma'am sound dumb as hell. Tell that divine bs to our grandmothers who still ended up broken and damaged. How the hell did submission to the divine order work out for them?? I thank God for being a modern woman, because I refuse to be under ANYONE and choose to invest in my self actualization. F the divine order.

[@khennimahmud4006]

He deserves a good woman, but wants a beautiful woman & that is why he's still single.

[@brishaberries0101]

He talking about fornication and not providing but "helping out" he doesn't want to be there for a women out emotionally, he speak about being romantic and married as if it's a chore. This doesn't sound like a union with him will be happy. Y'all too worried about appearing holy versus actually being holy. The quality of the marriage matters. Can't go into a divine order marriage starting off with a fornication shacking relationship. Stop saying WOC have a issue with this because most of us were raised in church and often stay throughout our lives. It's the blk man that has a issue submitting to anything and anyone.

[@idontplaygames3k296]

@@khennimahmud4006 Did he mention beauty or someone who takes care of themselves? 🤔

[@khennimahmud4006]

@@idontplaygames3k296 Did he mention this ass whoopin?

[@queenivy8600]

He sounds like a logical, reasonable, worthwhile man. I like what he has to say minus the religious talk.

[@KingNez89]

It's not even really religious, it's the way that works....

[@getoffmygrass4857]

Nothing wrong with a belief system. As long as that belief is for the betterment of the humankind then I'm all for it.

[@genuinevibes437]

@@KingNez89 Christ wasn’t religious or Christian.. That’s the misconception about his whole being on earth. He was/is holy and taught us the law(10 commandments). God is a God of order and no respecter of man

[@Missmewbs]

@@genuinevibes437 Jesus did not teach the ten commandments. The 10 commandments were given to Moses from God for the Isrealites in the Old Testament. Jesus taught Love and Obedience. I agree that God is a God of order and He is not respect or of persons.

[@ThroughtTheFirePodcast]

You should reach out to him

[@tvlacy]

I know him personally and he is a great guy. He is stable, owns his own home, has a successful business, and has a great heart. ...and even though this video doesn't show it ....he is funny as hell.

[@kreneeh79]

He seems like a good guy. He rubbed Kendra the wrong way and I don't think she could over look it but over all I still think he has very good intentions.

[@evonne437]

I bet you don't know him behind closed doors.

[@magicworld3242]

You forgot to mention, You're his mother. 🤣

[@vicky4912]

Then why aren’t you dating him if you a woman? Don’t try to set up naive women please 🙄

[@tvlacy]

@@evonne437 I grew up with him. He was my next door neighbor.

[@VSmPharmacy]

He is On Point! A Healthy, Wife-Ready woman will understand this.

[@wudacudashuda_]

I agree.

[@evonne437]

The thing is she can never get out of the box she put herself in. He wants exactly a ready made wife that will remain the same way years from now. There will be no "I was thinking about".

[@misshaynes3594]

Cause I understand EVERYTHING. Every point he made. I get it.

[@cynthia6568]

Most of these Men say all the right things but have nothing to prove. If he’s 44 and still hasn’t been married why hasn’t he found a woman that wants to be lead by him. He knows how to talk though.

A healthy, wife-ready woman is probably ALREADY married with a HUSBAND. Just saying🤷🏽‍♀️👰🏽

[@mrs.w8193]

It’s not an accomplishment to be in your 40s never married without kids. That’s when people are solidifying their legacies. Something is wrong with him. Reject

[@mrscolvin1]

He lost me when he brought up Kevin Scamuels 👎🏾

[@martymcfly9480]

She mirrors her approach after him tho

[@mrscolvin1]

@@martymcfly9480 but her show was 1st so his mirrors hers only she listens and doesn’t try to humiliate her guests

[@jennevamadison3803]

Same!

[@kiesha2k11]

He says all the right things. But I think underneath all of that is control. Words are easy, he’s the picky one.

[@madcobra2444]

Men and women are equal in value but not the same

[@bruceleeroy8302]

Yes, Kendra really tried to compare a 40+ y/o man to a 40+ y/o woman. There is no comparison unless the man doesn't have his shit together by then.

[@thegiftedseer6764]

Correct.

[@goldengirl7625]

@@bruceleeroy8302 Two humans, both created by the same God. You don’t triumph women just because you are a man. That is your own sexist, misogynistic mentality convincing you other wise.

[@dspenderella9671]

I literally volunteer with vets who are mostly older men dying alone who share their stories of playing around &/or thinking like him when they were younger & believed they were the prize who still had time to get the woman of their dreams even through their 40s & 50s... They die alone and terribly lonely just looking for anyone to come see about them and sit with them and listen. I used to feel so sorry for them until I started seeing how too many grow older, but not wiser and believe these double standards between men and women ignoring all the cautionary examples out here before them. Only a fool doesn't take heed.

[@KimmieB1993]

The Vets I work with that die alone do so because they had poor family structures (multiple sets of children, sketchy marriages, extreme age differences between Vet and new wife/girlfriend) not because they think like this man. The men who think like this man are the ones whose families are calling and checking on daddy and granddaddy, husband, or brother. Women do have a shelf life when is comes to fertility and so do men but it's not as risky.

[@dspenderella9671]

@@KimmieB1993 You completely contradicted yourself; clearly their "sketchy" poor family relationships is a byproduct of THE WAY THEY THINK (EXACTLY like this man), which dictates poor behavior choices leading to broken family dynamics. Not once did I say or indicate they don't have children/ relatives - I indicated they have REGRETS b/c they're now LONELY... On the contrary, most do have biological children who have NO relationship with them. I know, because I've had the tasks of calling several of them trying to find just one who would assist with their discharge, but they often won't show up for them, and it's for a reason. I disagree with you. Men have JUST as much a shelf life with their decreasing sperm count and defective sperm after age 35; it's also as rare for them to father children in/after their 50s as it is for women to give birth with those who do being the minority. It's VERY risky for men too, as recent research has tied older fathers to miscarriages and disorders within the children like Downs Syndrome despite the mothers being young and healthy. I don't know the purpose of your comment discussing fertility and such when my comment wasn't even talking about that, but it seems you just wanted to jump up and say something to defend men who should be taking heed to cautionary tales. I don't respect that.

[@Ugofitness711]

Feminism at it’s best SIGN language the tool of the oppressor to destroy the black community what is a woman of a man’s dreams about a masculine feminist?

[@georgehouston2310]

@@dspenderella9671 but Kimberly B didn't though... if you re-read what she said it's the men who think like this guy, their family is checking in on them

[@dspenderella9671]

@@georgehouston2310 I'm telling you what I witness is their family neglect/ abandon these guys who think like this & end up alone. I've tried to call their children, siblings, etc they have listed on their intake paperwork, and they won't come to see about them or take them home. Their families are NOT usually checking in on them like you two are trying to claim to make them think they'll still be taken care of and never suffer the consequences of a foolish &/or flawed mentality. They suffer for refusing to humble themselves, and it's usually not until they're older that their chickens come home to roost as the old people say... I've witnessed this for myself, so people online making up things just to have something to say to opppose the facts I've witnessed is irrelevant. You two aren't even trying to comprehend what my comment is saying. Idk why people who don't pay attention love to reach out to me commenting to me under my comments.

[@Pisces_Light]

So many men now days repeat everything they hear from Kevin Samuels. Be original.

[@tcg1972]

Yup. It's a cult. They don't have their own minds so they follow an old dude with baggage from 2 failed marriages. What a great role model to look up to and follow blindly. It's quite sad.

[@JayLawson]

He's repeating biblical principles. Many men have believed this for a LONG time. And this way works. KS just brought the info to YOU.

[@Pisces_Light]

@@JayLawson Smh. I rather listen to couples that are happily married and have years together.

[@jankam2418]

This is how it works in my home . But just know that you never have to demand submission if you lead properly.

[@thekaerichtexas]

Why did he ask kendra if she was marrried......you're not married either sir. And you're the one on a dating show looking for strangers.....he's a dustball

[@tperrien]

If you're a believer, what he's saying makes perfect sense. Maybe he didn't articulate it in the most eloquent manner, but he's spot on. I hope he finds a great mate. However, in any relationship there will be growth and growing together required. No one comes preassembled, out the box ready for their role in the relationship.

[@Rashard_D]

I’m glad you added “If you are a believer “. Hopefully this will serve as a witness for those that are not.

[@berenic90]

I understand exactly what he is saying. I think Kendra did not like it too much bc she probably thinks he said something else

[@nm1raider758]

Yes, this is biblically correct and IF a man interprets this correctly, then that's one thing! God also talks about how awesome it is for a man to find a wife!!! For a man to Cleve to his wife, for a man to LOVE his wife like he is to love the church, that a woman is a man's help mate ect..However, for the most part, when a guy is beating his chest about I AM THE MAN, RUN!!! Because usually the interpretation and the application of this is usually about control and abuse! BOTH physically and mentally! This is DEFINITELY NOT what God means! This is the problem...

[@tperrien]

@@nm1raider758 i guess I didn't get beating his chest. More, inarticulate. I actually spoke to this young man. Although my friend and he wouldn't have made a good fit (the reason I reached out) I got a genuine decent vibe from him. I hope he's successful in his search.

[@berenic90]

@GeofnLeo I don't understand your comment

[@tancart35]

This is a fool. He can’t even answer the question. Kevin Samuels messed these men minds up.

[@BBenn-qq1um]

Why doesn't a woman want to marry you?.... "Seeee". He's going to die alone; just like he says a woman will. At 44 years with no wife and no kids. Obviously, he's not such a great catch.

[@BBenn-qq1um]

@@kappaflappadappa I guess you’re the designated defender. Lol. But let’s be logical; when should a king like he describes himself; propose to a woman. Any race woman. He can’t get or keep the ones he wants; he needs to date and marry in his lane. That’s just pure logic. Watch in 5 years he still won’t have a wife.

[@wizardofahhhhhhz]

She asked him some good questions that you can tell nobody had ever asked him. He had never stopped to think about what the things that he is saying actually mean. He wasn’t wrong about most of it, but she is 100%, he needs to take a look at himself and maybe evaluate if he is part of the problem. There’s no way that you’ve met all bad people in all of those years of life…

[@catierollins8493]

Yeah that was a little odd to me. If you’re a person who wants to get married. You’re telling me, you haven’t met one person to propose to. Sir, who have you been dating ??? But what do I know, I’m 20 something lol

[@bla9ckcob5ra]

She look she was in her emotions as soon as Kevin Samuels and God- Man- Woman- Child came up.

[@dredey1971]

He has the same problem many women have in the dating market. It just looks different in your eyes because he is a man. There are not enough wife ready women that he is attracted to. Sure, he could settle.....

[@idontplaygames3k296]

@@dredey1971 The hivemind don't hear you brodie bro, we just gotta look for the ones who get it

[@dredey1971]

@@idontplaygames3k296 100%

[@blackbelt524]

I truly respect the way this man thinks about family structure.

[@swillie7141]

He knows what he wants and has his head on straight. Seems like a good guy.

[@iwashere5956]

How does a know what you want to talk about traditional woman then said he wants a woman who's got a career. What is man is looking for is a subservient woman

[@soniawiththelocs]

I enjoy watching Kendra’s show but it gets cringey when Kendra battles with the guest about certain things that she doesn’t agree with. It almost feels like she takes it personal.

[@yoanneM]

thanks! It shows why she is 40s and single

[@simonbell8957]

Because she does. You can see how hurt she was when he asked if she's single or if she have a kid.

[@angiewoods9697]

Totally agree and uncalled for

[@bjohnson2u]

Agree completely

[@BellaNoir3]

I can agree.... agree becomes very combative and takes it personally instead of just diverting back to the interview.

[@salisha31]

He isn’t even that handsome with all this extra requests smh 🤦‍♀️

[@BAych-mx2ep]

but he has character.

[@ItsmeCR-g8j]

Towards the end it seems like Kendra wants to have a philosophical conversation or debate and the expectations of men and women. For this show, I think it’s too much. The way it was done brings tense contention for this show.

[@ll9212]

Put NO MAN Before GOD!!! Ladies U hear this 🥴😶 No Man Before GOD 💙💜💙💜

[@d.uduvall2460]

We all came in this world alone and we leave this world alone....

[@johnbrowntheprophet]

Gee, you’re just so positive.

[@nekneversleep]

Another high value older Kang with all these options yet on KG show begging for a woman. 😴😴

[@johnbrowntheprophet]

😂😂😂

[@nekneversleep]

@@johnbrowntheprophet got all the options in the world , yet single , childless , never been married and on a internet show begging for love. Go ahead and tell me it’s me tho 😂😂😂

[@greenytaddict]

Kang kang

[@MajicGurl]

😩😩😩😆

[@johnbrowntheprophet]

@@nekneversleep - You’re too funny!!! 😂😂😂 But he a *KANG,* girl!!! 😂😂😂

[@leramfreeman2950]

He's 100% right in everything he said. He explained everything perfectly and Kendra kept asking him the same question hoping for a different answer. She knows there is a difference between men and women. She just exposed herself as a "modern woman." She actually was getting offended by what he was saying. A lot of men want to marry her? Guarantee the reason why she's not married is she's hoping to hook one of the so called celebrities she interacts with. She wants to keep that option open. There is a hierarchy in a positive relationship and the man is on top! Anyone who has an issue with that, talk to God!!

[@Tienatra]

Yea I think she got alittle hot in the video I can tell but it's not about what he said she was hot In the very beginning of the video maybe she just got something going on behind the scenes it shouldn't be no surprise for a celebrity to be unmarried so you not really taking a shot at them with that response because most of their marriages are arranged by the people higher then them they tell them who in not to marry actually the unmarried celebrities do alot better then the married ones because that other person is more likely just your handler of some sort of drugs so many of them see what's going on in they dont have a choice but to stay single if they want to avoid all the other crazy stuff going on but you on the other hand is a regular guy that seem like you have a good head on your shoulder in have a choice to choose to be happy so what's your excuse Sir sometimes folks might be jealous of you because you still have a choice not everyone has that real talk 💯

[@emerysutton5430]

The majority of men between 35 to 45 have no children in this modern time. Men watched how women moved in their youth and made decisions.

[@marissa2408]

Is it maybe because she's never heard of this logic? Me personally, I have never heard of this until I read these comments so now I understand where he's coming from. Without that clarification, I would be confused just like Kendra.

[@thegiftedseer6764]

@@emerysutton5430 so who are impregnates these women? Ghosts?

[@emerysutton5430]

@@thegiftedseer6764 one man can have 3 to 4 women pregnant at one time.

[@LadyAngela678]

Any man that says a woman has to report to him is insane.

[@nikmartin809]

Yessss Kendra! At 44 he has gone through probably about 120 women. Women don't want no ran through man neither! If men decide when marriage is going to happen then why he not married, he said he's ready. THEY WOULDN'T NEED ANY DATING HELP!!! His wife should be right there 😑. Us women definitely need to value ourselves better! Use the mens same criteria. MEN SAVE YOURSELF FOR YOU WIFE! LMAO

[@juniorleslie4804]

How do you know that? It is easier for a woman to be ran through, than a man. Men can delay a lot of things in life, women can't.

[@ceeb107]

@@juniorleslie4804 exactly and even if he did he has NO kids no baggage. That’s better than a man that’s been with 8 women and has 6 kids by 4 women. He preserved his value

[@KayP32]

Men love talking about “shelf life ” when having kids and value, like they won’t be 70 years old with a high school graduate. You get too old too!! Can we stop this thinking? Lol

[@tperrien]

Shelf life is a crass term when referring to a woman. But what they are really talking about is fertility. There is a biological timeframe that is a consideration for those who want biological children.

[@KayP32]

@@tperrien I get that. But the truth is men should have their kids in a specific time frame as well. Men die before women mist the time. Just because you cAn make a child at 55 doesn’t mean you should. But hey 🤷🏾‍♀️ I’ve been seeing women have healthy children in their 40s.

[@tperrien]

@@KayP32 I'm one of those women. 😊 But it was definitely not an easy road. I hear you though. I don't appreciate that term either. It's crass.

[@KayP32]

@@tperrien God bless you!!! Congrats on a healthy baby at 40+.

[@omniking9631]

Men and women age differently. Women age like milk and men age like wine.

[@goldengirl7625]

Both wife and husband report to God. A man is not my God.

[@darmadusa]

Unpopular opinion here... There was a saying a while back that was used when someone was talking, and you'd hear suspect ondertones in their conversation with you. The saying was, "He was talking out of both sides of his mouth" Now, if you're religious and subscribe to a religion's dogma, or (scarier and concerning yet) subscribe to the woman-hating spewings of KS, then yeah, this guy is a catch. For the rest of us who found ourselves squinting harder and harder as he spoke... 😳😬 The whole "shelf life" and "woman's value" bs is repulsive. Why he's not married yet? 🤔 Gee, I can't put my finger on it. 🙄

[@sharonhicks-jones5471]

A zeal 🤦🏾‍♀️🤣🤣

[@misskris117]

💯

[@vagabondaloner5650]

😅THANK YOU. This fool talking about a 'shelf life' of a woman, as if we get stale like chips or something. He said that being married and having children reduces our value. How?? I always thought marriage and children complimented us and added to our quality of life and womanhood. Your opinion may be unpopular on this video, but truth. He honestly believes he is going to find a 35-48 year old woman with 1 child, who will subscribe to his misogyny 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@darmadusa]

@@vagabondaloner5650 Yessss! This man said these things and in the same breath gurgled on about buying roses and running bathwater. 🙄 Sadly, people hear this cliche crap in which something tells me that he's not the type of guy who'd do that kind of stuff, and overlook his disturbing outlook about women-that basically women are beneath him. How is it a person talks about God and make statements about what another human being is worth?

[@vagabondaloner5650]

@@darmadusa EGGGGSXACTLY

[@christella-zj7wd]

As a believer of God, I 💯 agree.

[@Ugofitness711]

Keep believing and you will win sister don’t give in to the pressures of the modern black feminist.

[@angelinarobertson2130]

I agree 💯

[@Creamiie26]

Reading these comments, I disagree with many of the sentiments expressed. This guy rubs me the wrong way almost like he is reading a script of everything that he knows women like to hear. But I don’t get the impressions that he does or believes half the stuff he says. When he started using “shelf life” to describe women I knew from that moment not to take him seriously. He states that he is religious but he is so judgmental ready to point out the dirt in everyone’s eye as if he has the right to look down on them. Honestly hearing him speak many times in the conversation he put himself so far above the women that he was describing himself as a ‘god’. His verbiage went further than simply leading his home. Good luck to any women who comes across him in the future.

[@Creamiie26]

But I do agree… Kendra was triggered.

[@CookBookRooks]

AGREE!!! I’m looking at all of these comments like WTF are these people seeing… 😆 that’s why people should have better discernment and listening skills when it comes to others talking. When you read between the lines you realize that he was saying a bunch of nothings and empty words. If he was as ready as he claims he was/is, he wouldn’t be on Kendra’s show.

[@kerbysaintil3774]

That's funny, because it's thinking like that which is keeping a lot of women single in the 1st place. How in the do you have a problem with a man who knows his worth and just wants a woman to play a valuable role in the relationship?! This man has a spiritual foundation and is level headed, but also is a leader and relies on God and himself to lead his family in order for the wife to have an easier life, and you have a problem with that?! That's crazy.

[@Creamiie26]

@@kerbysaintil3774 I literally wrote out exactly what I had a problem with. At no point did I mention that man’s supposed worth. My issues, that were not addressed by you, still stand.

[@omgimover4075]

I’m wondering the same myself. Like maybe he is a narcissist. The type of man that nitpick at a woman all day. Men that can’t be satisfied & end up ruining their relationships.

[@ksmilesknowsmoney5986]

I agree with him. I just think some things are difficult to express but overall I think he got it!💪🏽

[@JaxxOxx]

“King” head of household. I don’t see nothing wrong with that

[@bernardtalbert6729]

Homeboy should stop using Kevin Samuels' lines like "I report to God and you report to me" unless he knows what he's talking about.

[@Missmewbs]

No this is biblically based and it does not originate from KS. I'm not sure why ya'll keep posting inaccurate information.

[@bernardtalbert6729]

@@Missmewbs Maybe because we heard Kevin Samuels use the same line. Duh?

[@Missmewbs]

@@bernardtalbert6729 Grow up. I don't care that this man has used this line. Surely you are not ignorant enough to believe KS made this up. Not when there are many Christians in the world. Once again, I'm telling you this is a biblical principle. And I hope moving forward you do not continue to repeat this non sense after being informed of where this originates from. This man in the video is actually correct in how he wants his family to be structured and he should not be shamed for it. Especially not when you have men and women with ridiculous requirements for dating.

[@bernardtalbert6729]

@@Missmewbs I could give a rat's ass about bible thumpers and hypocritical Christians? Most men don't even go to church anymore. So like I said they probably heard Kevin Samuels say it.

[@DEMediaDrive]

Well he doesn't have any baggage and has his own business so he can say whatever he wants as long as it isn't illegal. He's done his job. Now time to reap the rewards on his terms.

[@dhqbrandi]

He seems nice decent guy not sure where all the push back come from Kendra when jail birds come on you more supportive

[@liveyalife08]

😂

[@msteachlove]

Only a believer will understand his stance and his faith. Everything he is saying is true.

[@brianrobinson5377]

Men get crucified on here 🤣🤣🤣🤣 she always tryna flip the script lol when she doesn’t like what she hears but at the same time allow Kweens to get away with MURDER🌚

[@peacefaith560]

It’s official.. there is NO hope for singles lol 😂 these ppl are naive , delusional, unrealistic, and pure crazy!!

[@leeleeloveshurdcrew]

🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♂️ Husband Ready? Run!!!!! Who made all of his rules that he says are facts but are not in reality because it’s happening otherwise he would be married. This Man needs to take accountability.

[@MrReal333]

I dont see why Kendra had to keep going back to how he wants his house run. Even the title for the video can be misleading. He wants to be the man of the house - that seems pretty simple and straightforward. He even explained what that means and how he would earn his wife's respect and submission. The fact she got caught up in semantics is in and of itself a red flag lol

[@divinefem8793]

Yup I agree I don’t think that she is mentally, spiritually, or in a good headspace with experience to do a job like this. Experience don’t always come with age

[@kamala80]

She went back and forth because Kendra and many of these modern women hate God's word. Yes, they'll go to church but these modern churches don't preach the harsh but fair word of God.

[@evonne437]

What is submit other than considering one another's feeling. The man just want the woman to deny herself, take up her cross and follow him. Men seems to think a wife has to give up being human and just give up her God given life and let the man rule her every move. Question...If Kendra got married, and if her husband wanted her to give up all she accomplished, should she? Should she turn all her worldly goods over to him to distribute to her ? Is that submission?

[@SuperTruthful]

Kendra is not going to date him so what red flag are you talking about?

[@professorxslave1500]

@@SuperTruthful As famous as she is, Kendra is in no man's land and she knows it.

[@misstiff29]

Kevin samules are gonna keep these men single. He's traditional but he Want a modern woman who bringing something to the table. Plz

[@tperrien]

This was actually a great conversation. Two intelligent people with different perspectives. We can agree to disagree.

[@moehammondmedia]

Well said TP

[@elizabeth70038]

He said he reports to God and the woman suppose to report to him. But then he said if they lived together he would be the man of the house. But God says get married before you live together.

[@ladylady8745]

He never mention if he goes to church often. So he quotes the bible and a famous preacher but is not that religious. He is just inconsistent and a liar.

[@Proverbspsalms]

Right! I caught that too. Why would a real Christian be seeking a woman from an ungodly platform where the host has no knowledge of the Bible? At least in this area? He’s obviously not reporting to God. He’s reporting to Kendra.

[@Proverbspsalms]

@@ladylady8745 thank you

[@GameOver-cg3jx]

I understand how Lavin explained the divine order of things...God, man, woman, children & I agree with him totally and I pray he find his wife, take his time and get a female ...everybody ain't wife material, some women are only "mattress" material, Levin make sure you're equally yoked with the lady you choose as your wife

[@brishaberries0101]

How you saying you support the divine order, but saying some women are "mattress material" part of divine order means no sex before marriage both men and women. So no women should be used as a mattress...how disrespectful.

[@trudiamond30]

@@brishaberries0101 this is the hypocrisy of it all. Especially in the blaq community. The men say they want virtuous, righteous and holy God fearing women. If that was the case then we would have higher marriage rates because no one would be having premarital sext. The truth of the matter is a 304 is what the blaq community and blaq church produces. And that's what it was designed to produce. Did you know that Aretha Franklin's father got a 1 2 yr old preggo while he was a "pastor" in a church? He may have been married. So tell me, can a 1 2 yr old consent? But about women who are only good for the matress. Didn't she come from a blaq kings seed? Why is our community creating these types of women when other communities are creating "wife" material.

[@MajicGurl]

@@brishaberries0101 "female" was the kicker.

[@Chloeeezyyy]

You’re a gross person

[@rvwilliams100]

What exactly are these men trying to build 🤔

[@k.nicolexoxo9732]

More broken homes

[@emerysutton5430]

My mom almost 80 she always said 2 heads are better than 1. Like women in her age range she was married till death.

[@deeplyk506]

@@k.nicolexoxo9732 Spot on!

[@goldengirl7625]

Broken homes, stash of money and goods not from their own accounts, and their fragile egos.

[@MajicGurl]

Lmao GURL don't get me started.

[@Miss-Ann-Thrope]

Kendra, your facial expressions 🤣 I kept replaying your reaction to his foolishness. Black men die younger than every other demographic, but so many live a miserable existence with this short shelf life.

[@CookBookRooks]

Obviously yall can’t read between the lines… this man’s cognitive dissonance is so noticeable. On paper is he a catch? yes. But once he opens his mouth it’s so clear to see why he’s still single and on Kendra’s show, even though he is “marriage ready”. Whew chile… I’ll pray for him.

[@shondarenee3186]

You speaking nothing but facts. My God....help him. Ladies please be careful. 🙏🏿

[@Tienatra]

I think I understand where you coming from you talking about all the extra talking he was doing I did notice she like had to stop him to get a word in he could of been nervous I sometimes get nervous when I'm talking to a bunch of people about something I find myself talking in circles but still trying to bring back that point most people will just say just enough then shu#t the f#ck up I'm still working on that I almost got it though sometimes when you end up talking to much you do might sound alittle foolish but he strikes me as a decent person hell we all Express ourselves different under certain situations

[@TiannaEss]

It was a DUB when he mentioned KS.

[@pzbartender1574]

Why he just don't go to all the Bible studies, choir rehearsals and deacon board meetings at all his county's churches to find his woman.

[@fangiscool1]

He seemed pretty reasonable a composed, despite Kendra being trying to be shady and attack him the whole time. Props to this guy

[@latinaherbert8759]

Married people watch this show to thank God for not being single...this is entertainment at its best Wishing all the singles the best Cause ooooh chile

[@HAIRmeoutWEIGHmein]

This man understands God's structure of family. If this is the structure that is followed today, the world will be at its best. The world will change when that family structure is in place. Put God, Man, Woman and Child in their rightful places, the way God intended when He created life and watch how the world would change. It's because things are out of order, the world is so chaotic. As a Christian woman, I would NOT date or marry a man that is not submitted to God...that's my biggest NO NO. I am ready to submit to a man who has submitted himself already to God. Like let's go do great things for the Kingdom of God.

[@theveryplumdarcey]

Oh dear

[@suminahmcfadden4350]

He never mentioned that he actually submits to the will of God or is a Godly man. He's aware that man should follow God, but he never admitted to living a life where God is the center of his life. He will find what he's requiring once he does part.

[@antithesiscoaching]

That comes with lots of contingencies because some men will abuse their authority due to abuse, personality disorders and dysfunctional behavior. Unfortunately, this structure only works for a man who is living a righteous life behind close doors with his wife and children not pretending with a mask on to the world.

[@aubriellelucille1762]

aman🙌🏾

[@iamshesheisme8954]

No, the people who think like this should stick together and stop trying to change the behaviors of the people who don't..... simple!

[@Fly2fitchick]

On point, like him and I hope he feels that special woman.

[@quettiageter3352]

A very smart Man .very wise before his years. He not abt to bring anything home . good job

[@HighMaintenanceMinimalist]

Damn right. He won't be bringing a damn soul home any time soon.

[@Ugofitness711]

@High maintenance definitely not a clown like you.

[@NaturalMackie]

My husband can lead but he won’t lead me off a cliff. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Techsi751]

There are plenty of traditional women in their mid and late 30s and early 40s who would fit his criteria. So I’m kind of confused why he’s single.

[@trudiamond30]

Yes... Especially in most of these churches. He can definitely find what he is looking for. I've heard some ladies in these KZbin streets say that these men DON'T want the woman who WANT them. You know, those women who are ready to serve a king. They say these men want the woman who DON'T want them. Which would be the OPPOSITE of what he is describing. Could this be true? Because by now he could have been had a woman. And why is he dating modern women anyway? Could it be he is actually ATTRACTED to them???? Hummm 🤔🤔🤔

[@tcg1972]

@@trudiamond30 They contradict themselves all the time. They are most attracted to the IG model types but want a traditional woman. Make it make sense.

[@jonathancoleman6482]

@@trudiamond30 the church is full of 304s in former 304s

[@trudiamond30]

@@jonathancoleman6482 yes.. it is because that's all these churches was MEANT to produce (304s) That was from the foundation. Church is a business and h0en is part of the business plan. You cannot have the blaq chuch without the 304s. But besides that, there are some women who still "believe". And are committed to following God's word. But often times those women are NOT what the men want. Now I'm telling you what I know because this is what MEN have told me. They don't want those women in the church. The quiet ones, submissive ones and ready to be a good wife ones. Usually those women don't "look" the way they envision their woman to look. Having a baddie comes with some other things that men say they don't want to deal with. But honestly, what comes out a man's mouth and what they really want are complete opposites.

[@trudiamond30]

@@tcg1972 I've had male friends tell me they didn't want these women in the church. One guy told me God himself came to him and told him who his wife was. Once he saw her he said, "Ewww NO". He flat out rejected the woman. Now mind you, this man was a former crackhead, his teeth was rotted out, and he basically threw his life away, lived off women and was now living off of social security. But he wanted a baddie. He met one woman who just used him to have sext with her then she dumped him because he was broke. Hunni it was a mess but I learned a very good lesson from that guy.

[@Nature-ep5cu]

He should have just called Kelvin Samuels to match him up with his "kind of attraction"😁

[@jetshark970shark4]

Bro you are well over 40, traditional women are already married and thriving. You are old, bald, and out of shape so what you will attract will be a reflection upon you. But best of luck to you

[@ceeb107]

I agree to an extent. There are more people who make 100k per year than their are men who have 21 inch arms and 13% body fat. He has the mindset status and he’s decent looking but not jaw dropping handsome and truth be told as you stated men aren’t held to the looks scale like women are especially men his age. But in today’s society black marriage rate is %30 and in 1960 the black marriage rate is 60%. Im sayin that to say if it was 1970-1985 he would be married cause women weren’t as picky and preserved there value more back then. He doesn’t want a woman with more than one kid and I’m sure women with 3-5 kids have tried to marry him and he doesn’t want that much baggage. Social media dating apps have damn near ruined the dating market it’s way harder now. He a a great catch to a wise woman but the social media air heads he won’t be fine enough. He’s decent looking for sure I’m jus saying if he was on swole he would have fine women chasing him women can’t tell how much money you have off they see how you look first.

[@ceeb107]

He can still reproduce easily vs a woman needs ivf likely so who has more value for marriage isn’t marriage about legacy children providing?

[@jetshark970shark4]

@@ceeb107 You know that is the problem guy keep talking about they can reproduce at 40 and 50, but who are you going to reproduce with. If you made it to 44 and still haven't found the one, better yourself and lower your tone(standard). I am 24 in shape, D1 athlete and in medical school. It is funny when in go out and see all these dudes in their 40's who let Kevin Samuels boost their heads. A woman that is in shape, feminine, friendly... Etc DOESN'T WANT SOME OUT OF SHAPE GUY IN THEIR 40's then when they don't have success on the dating market they run to Kevin Crying. Then some women will date the old guy for his money but have the young guy they are hoping to start a family with on the side, that is when old guys start the bull shit telling woman they can't have social media, they have to dress a certain way, it is because old guys know they are only good as their money is coming. I just find it funny because if women didn't want you in you natural physical prime, then why the hell would they want you over 40, out of shape, and making less than 6 figures?🤔🤣🤣🤣 Also after 35 quality of sperm drops exponentially, that's if you ard healthy, in shape, and eat proper diet. If you are old drink, smoke, fat, with bad diet quality of sperm will drop it and even earlier age. This can lead to a litany of issues if woman gets pregnant by old sperm guy. These women have clearly shown they would rather get a dog and die alone then be with some clown who makes little money, not a great decision maker thus he is broke and alone at over 40 yet want to lead. If a man can't lead himself to the path of success what makes them think they can lead in a relationship where the stakes are high. The whole thing is funny to me

[@jetshark970shark4]

@@ceeb107 Also if you think this guy is a good catch shoot your shot. The issue is pride, some of these incel or beta males let a guy making money off them boost their heads and now they think they can get a beautiful in shape young woman who is ready to be a wife and they can't. It goes both ways some of these fat sloppy built women with million dollar dreams and $2 work ethic thinking they can marry a man that makes over 6 figures with status is just a fantasy. With that I know some guys who fit the criteria these women want who will have casual sex with these women, and these women are mistaking being used like a human flesh light for opportunity for relationship, then when they figure it out that's when they start that celibate born again virgin shit which is why they end up 40 and alone. If black people would get it together and stop buying into lies then the marriage rates will go up.

[@movies1342]

The king gotta clean a lot of cars.

[@rarebutreel99]

I am not a religious person but I'm spiritual and believe in a higher power and I felt his point.... Some women jus can't take the facts. Women wanna be the man and the woman jus be quiet and listen sometimes dam..... Everything isn't a debate or argument.

[@getoffmygrass4857]

Exactamundo🤌🏿

[@vagabondaloner5650]

😂 y'all tripping😅

[@evonne437]

And everything isn't a "my way or no way" either.

[@rarebutreel99]

@@evonne437 🤣🤣🤣 glad I'm off the market..... Wheeeew good luckk tho💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

[@vicky4912]

@@rarebutreel99 more like it’s men who want to be women but still have the advantages that men have in society, but go off sis. He didn’t speak any facts. Men pick and choose what they want to follow from the Bible and use it to abuse women. Bms idea of submission is “do as I say”. It’s all about control. Y’all also forget the part where men also submit to their wives. Both partners submit in different areas. Anyways worthy men and true leaders aren’t begging anyone to lead. Have a nice day

[@k.nicolexoxo9732]

I guess a better question is, what MAKES a King a King, besides the manosphere talking points?

[@k.nicolexoxo9732]

@@kappaflappadappa I heard his answer and it didn’t mention some of the key qualities of a God fearing man. His answer was textbook manosphere rhetoric

[@MajicGurl]

Well let's start with the obvious kings own kingdoms... Our time land & property & businesses. This is for starters. Need more?

[@k.nicolexoxo9732]

@@MajicGurl What kingdom let along kingdoms do black men “own”? They lease a lot of things but own very few! If you all don’t govern anything or control money this “kingdom” that you speak of only exists in your head.

[@mrfrench821]

In the same light, do you know what makes a Queen a Queen?

[@ChannelFiend]

He wants a traditional woman who contributes financially. When & where do traditional women do that? When & where do traditional women build? They don't. Then he said that the woman should come to a relationship ready to submit. Yet, he should be ready to be a husband. What happened to him submitting? Men are supposed to submit as well. He has a narrow view of what a marriage looks like. I hope he finds what he's looking for. She's a rare breed. Or he's going to have to prepare to be single or lower his standards (like how BW are told to do). Nothing about him sounds loving. Nothing sounds caring. Everything is either black & white. No gray. And, he subscribes to the idea that there's a shelf life for women? WoW! YET, stats tell us that women outlive men. Children or no children. Men need women to be there to take care of them in their old age. He sounds controlling. He's wrapping everything up pretty with that God Bow, but he's a controlling 'king' who believes in God.

[@MajicGurl]

Lol Channel read mine.

[@youtubecreationyc.9956]

yaaaaas

[@shayemoore]

Exactly💯💯💯. Black women can be so desperate and dumb when it comes to Black men. These lonely women are in the comments saying foolish things like, "Oh he's 100% right!". These women sound like they are straight off the f'kn plantation.

[@ChannelFiend]

@@MajicGurl I am searching for it Sis. Smiles. I know it's GOOOOOD!!!

[@MajicGurl]

@@ChannelFiend it is I went in as always lol

[@mizsopinion]

That double standards with these men are funny..

[@badnews12431]

This man was on point with everything he said. Some women just don’t want to face reality

[@effem9366]

What is the supposed reality?

[@AlanaBTV]

Exactly

[@JimmNeutricity]

She was nice nasty

[@suminahmcfadden4350]

Anyone can say something that's "on point". It's just talk if you're not living it. Does he actually report to God, does he live like the Godly man that a woman should feel safe and at peace following? When you're so focused on how everyone else should carry theirselves etc, it's hard to see what you might be lacking.

[@vagabondaloner5650]

😂Reality??🤦🏽‍♀️

[@moehammondmedia]

He seems like a decent guy who is firm about what he wants. I wish this brother well.

[@KezzyBoo]

Kendra was a little irritated on this day. 😂 Y'all men better come on this show with the language to explain your point of views. He tried. I think Kendra was trying to ask, could you explain in detail what your wife would be reporting to you (man in the video) about but it didn't come out like that and he didn't quite get it either or felt it was self-explanatory from a religious pov. The good thing in all this is the conversations are being had. May everyone find someone that's like minded and live a full life.

[@Dretexashustler247]

Who go around talking about all the proposals like it a badge of honor like that something to be proud of but a lot time wasted and could have been married smh

[@tcg1972]

Not everyone wants to be married and not everyone wants to be married to just anyone. There's a thought.

[@Dretexashustler247]

@@tcg1972 well she chose those man to be with but doesn’t give a reason why turned them down but now she up in the age and think she still have a chance no man want a test tube babe and be stuck with a old head lol

[@palmoilquinoa8079]

1 Corinthians 11:3.... He's absolutely on point!🙌🏾

[@LindsayAmelia]

So refreshing. He gets it.

[@ThroughtTheFirePodcast]

You should reach out... Brothas like him need more than just moral support... Step up..

[@texasbelle333]

@@ThroughtTheFirePodcast who’s to say she wants him? You can agree with a person and not want them sir.

[@dahmertookblkmnoutthefridg5279]

A traditional wife that gets a w2 form every yr??🤔🙄

[@barryswindles6570]

I been married 6 years I love it and I must say this man has figured out a lot. I hope he’s married by now cuz he can def lead a unit with that mindset.

[@Ugofitness711]

The brother spoke of order and thats why she disagreed with him feminist hate order and structure.

[@milkchclt4u]

I completely agree with everything he said! The man is the head of the household. That’s how I grew up, my dad was the head and my mother respected him. They made decisions together but my dad had the ultimate say in what was best for the family. This is the dynamic I want in a marriage

[@jones2277]

then why does he need her to pay the bills?

[@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164]

Best of luck to him. I do think its laughable some men assume love can't be find at any age for women....

[@courtneyj.4043]

I can understand many of his viewpoints about both a man and women coming ready to a relationship, because that it very important. It takes maturity for that. What I think needs to be understood on that note is that it takes time for someone to be ready, and to learn and grow for that type of commitment. Therefore, why would a woman in her 40's be of less value than him in his 40's if they share the same beliefs? Fertility in women decreases with age and so does a man's ability to produce a child. The shelf life decreases for both. You can't be a king who values a queen and believe you're better than her with age. Ironically, if she had kids and was played out in her 40's or younger, that would be an issue.There is no secret that there are just as many no good men as there are woman, but there is an implication that something must be wrong with her if she's single in her 40's, but he is prize the older he gets. You are condemned if you're promiscuous and condemned if you're worth waiting for 🤷🏽‍♀️. As a woman in her 20's listening to a 40 year old and you older men and women in the chat with this mindset shows that people never grow up and don't want a real change in relationships as they claim. Men don't value good women, and women don't value good men. He said you have to come to a relationship ready, but he's still not ready.🤦🏽‍♀️

[@handled99]

Women are valued for their youth and beauty. Men are not.

[@courtneyj.4043]

@@handled99 Which is a very childish and immature mentality. That's superficial and what I expected from guys in middle and high school. Not grown men who claim to be followers of God.

[@handled99]

@@courtneyj.4043 it's not a mentality. It's biology. You can't argue attraction. Whether you think it's fair or not.

[@courtneyj.4043]

@@handled99 Where are your stats to support your claim? Grown people never grow up, and trust me, a younger woman is not very attracted to older men biologically, as you call it. Actually, that's what would discourage a younger woman. The only thing an older man may have that a younger woman wants comes from a materialistic viewpoint, and "most" don't have that. Attractiveness is definitely not why a younger woman would go after an older man on any day. There are too many younger guys who are attractive biologically and in many other ways, too. Older men don't want to admit that they are outdated or even more outdated than their counterparts who they are trying to shame.

[@handled99]

@@courtneyj.4043 Stats? That's like saying what are your stats to show 1+1=2. If this has to be argued to you then it's probably the case that you aren't an attractive woman who gets attention from the men you want. Not trying to shoot or be disrespectful, but any attractive feminine women understands innately what attracts a man to a woman. . .because they themselves attract men. So by virtue of you trying to argue this, in a way you tell on yourself that you aren't the kind of woman men you desire are checking for. Attractive people know attraction can't be argued or debated. Either you are attractive or not. That is why self-awareness is sexy. If you gotta go to the gym to improve your body then go to the gym. Many people work for their attraction.

[@KayP32]

Somebody has been watching Kevin Samuels 💀

[@rachelwright8229]

Seem like he was just repeating something he heard and he liked it but didn't really understand what it meant. Lol

[@blahblahblah3722]

I wish men understood that men being the head has nothing to do with their intelligence, wisdom, and ability to lead. It's ONLY because they came first; man then woman. Therefore, men should use their wife's intelligence, experiences, and perspective to make decisions for their family. God even refers to wisdom as a woman!

[@VeeStandingOnBusiness]

Say what? 😒