he's just not that in to you!

miranda tells some girls the truth.

[@writerspen010]

I recently heard: If a guy's into you, you'll know. If he's not, you'll be confused.

[@bluerayindigozzz4112]

if a person, it's not a rule for only guys. Yes I've also read that :) it's so simple

[@MsSonnencreme]

That is very very true

[@Kate867]

Live by this. It will save you much time and energy.

[@alenciaga21]

@@Kate867 I guess I'll try then! There is this guy, he actually said that he wasn't into me which is fine but he kept flirting and sending me signals. And I am very confused. I guess I'll just stop wondering. No time for that

[@Kareragirl]

Anna Akana?

[@alexandragatto]

*If he wanted to, he would.* This mantra will literally never let you down ladies, if a man wants to call you he will call, if he wants to marry you he will propose, if he wants you to be happy he'll work his ass off to make you happy. If you ever have to question his intentions he doesn't care to let you feel secure, period.

[@thedyslexicwebdev1654]

Exactly!! unless you give him the sign you are not into all that, and you just want to have fun :)

[@avantikapathania22]

Periodt

[@hahaveggie]

I wish someone told me this growing up...would of saved me a ton of time...

[@nanka2002]

would have

[@aidepaul534]

@@nanka2002 Thank you!

[@bluenomadbruh]

@@fionalouise6617 that doesn't matter. It is wrong.

[@mariezforbes]

yup..

[@koolaidman6251]

Someone probably did tell you, but when we are young, we are stubborn and arrogant and we think we know everything (just like the young women in this clip). They told you and you made up all kinds of excuses why they were wrong and that guy is like TOTALLY gonna call you.

[@patrickbarnwell492]

Is it me or Miranda got prettier as the show passed

[@salvolondon]

Patrick Barnwell less butcher . In the beginning she dressed like a lesbian .

[@btslolita3859]

She does

[@gerardkwok5774]

It's about the make up and especially the hairstyle

[@jrmetmoi]

Patrick Barnwell better styling because they say that Cynthia Nixon asked for better outfits, hairstyles and more makeup because she was tired of how she was dressed compared to the other actresses on SATC

[@kymbatism]

@@jrmetmoi , that's reasonable! She definitely started looking better over the time in the series. Makes no sense they dressed her badly, especially taking into account that she's a highly-paid lawyer.

[@loriwise236]

They made a whole movie out of that line..

[@aarinmade]

Lori Wise and one of the best movies ever!

[@roboppi6368]

And it was long as hell

[@rebeccataylor135]

Actually they made a movie out of the book.

[@ruzzelladrian907]

I was expecting these girls would understand. I'm so disappointed with them.

[@cliu6020]

ruzzell907 how could they understand？hehe

[@rhiannam4895]

They were in denial

[@p.art4705]

That's the thing. Most people dont listen at all and love to be in denial. Miranda here, warned them like an angel with a warning card but they didnt want to listen.

[@jayjacobo5430]

Everyone learns eventually and if not then it’s a lost cause lol

[@sumatisspectrums4632]

nobody will ever learn when they are blind folded!

[@gdaymates431]

"He is so gonna call." Yeah, in like 4 months when he is bored and wants attention. This applies to all genders lol.

[@cario6554]

God if I would have known this back in high school I would have saved myself sooo much time, energy, conversations in my brain. When I met my husband he was totally into me. No mixed messages. It’s true people

[@CobraDove1111]

It's actually exceedingly simple: If you know he likes you; He's into you If you're confused/unsure; He's not into you simple.

[@mariewilliams194]

He's just that into you is the story of my life. It's better to know straight away that he is not interested than to date a guy then get dumped after 2 months

[@mermaidmoon2254]

Or the guy is an asshole.

[@juliaandrews5613]

Same story

[@MsSonnencreme]

Marie Williams ugh tell me about it 😒 honesty is always better

[@michaelmesa2660]

Exactly. It’s just a WASTE of time!

[@DigiDestined55X]

Or worse, getting dumped 2 months in, but not realizing till 3 months in because he didn't have the decency to call.

[@majatadic549]

Every girl needs to have Miranda!

[@naxhellicarranza9410]

Or be one.

[@btslolita3859]

Amen! I go by this Gospel, ALWAYS and I'm the happiest woman alive 🙌🙌

[@dustin.foreal6132]

Miranda is the friend we all need, that’s it period.

[@lindaleelaw5277]

Truer and wiser words were never spoken.

[@bagelbenji]

Ugh I miss this Miranda!

[@RavenDanzig]

Thank goodness that I'm not single anymore. The dating scene has always been a nightmare to me. If someone told me this years ago, it would save me a lot of time, a lot of patience, and a lot of tears.

[@MA-yc7pz]

Exactly ....I am single and it is how you describe it

[@Adrianafaith123]

Love it!! "Have a great day"!!! hahaha

[@corinnadrust6857]

Lol exactly, she is right!!!!!

[@KatGlo]

It’s so hard to hear but it’s gospel. I don’t why some women can’t accept that.

[@rocketracoon4365]

C'est un mélange d'immaturité, un manque de confiance en soi et peut-être aussi de l'arrogance qui fait que certaines femmes ne veulent pas l'accepter. J'ai été dans ce cas là et j'ai perdu énormément de temps. Environs 4 ans jusqu'à ce que je me prenne brutalement la vérité en pleine face. Mais au moins j'ai ouvert les yeux et arrêtez de voir des "signes" là où il y en avait pas. Le personnage de Carrie est littéralement comme ça d'ailleurs sauf qu'elle n'ouvre pas les yeux et reste dans ce délire.

[@antithoughtpolice7497]

And dudes... Most people in general

[@ozyvillanueva9277]

What Miranda should’ve done to come off less rude is give them context on her advice. She could’ve said she was in the same boat recently until a guy explained to her that certain signs mean “he’s just not that into you”. Then they’d get it.

[@ekNYC]

"To accept that harsh comment you gotta have the wisdom to actually listen to it, this girls haven't got it yet."

[@anne-mariezack]

No. They still wouldn’t have “got it.”

[@antithoughtpolice7497]

She smiled, didn't want them to waste their time, didn't insinuate anything was wrong with them, and wished them a great day... They just want to be delusional.

[@martinwolek1802]

Just because he’s not into you doesn’t mean you’re no interesting/attractive. It’s just one man’s opinion. There are plenty of other people who will give you the attention.

[@Estheryaaa]

I’m so aware of that, if a guy is into you, he would make the move, not leaving you alone thinking about those “signs” and self comforting. Believe me if a guy is interested in you, he would make it happen, so girls wake up and move on building up your own life instead of wasting your life on someone who doesn’t give a shit about how you feel.

[@rebelheart8360]

Carrie needed to heed this message for Mr Big.

[@KishBish]

"bitch!" 😆😆 that always cracks me up

[@mariezforbes]

Yeah it’s really just that simple, a man that wants you will let you know. Wishful thinking is dangerous.

[@charlottelpn4613]

Bring this miranda back!!

[@fuzzylon]

There's the other side of the coin too - "Really? Are you sure you're that in to him?"

[@suzuka3610]

Miranda looks really beautiful here

[@captinzoom]

this miranda needs to travel in time and give just like that miranda a talking too

[@stoichr3324]

Miranda is so pretty here!

[@tigereyes5]

Lol Miranda so converted by Burger's gospel she thought she could go around evangelising to strangers right away

[@fsol4595]

And yet, those ladies didn't take her advice, even though she is right. Most likely that guy didn't call her, if he is interested he will pursue her. If he is not maybe he is trying to be nice (or trying to keep you just as a back up). And that leaves women wondering what happened. So ladies move on, (yes I am a guy, yes I have dated women and men, I am bi, yes, men are simple creatures, there's not much mystery if they like you, it shows).

[@rose_yts]

yep! perfect words!

[@fuzzylon]

And, frankly, we'd want a man where it does show!

[@zitronentee]

You'll be surprised how many people hate unsolicited advice, no matter how good the advice is.

[@uppanadam74]

I wish Miranda told me!! I would have appreciated it!! I had to learn the hard way!! LOL!!

[@EB-tr2ly]

This is so epic that they even made a movie with that statement!!

[@johnmandrake8829]

My philosophy prof sent me here for bad faith loll

[@LataraMashups]

Those girls at the end should have been more grateful. 😒

[@cez19]

Legend tells that to this day that girl is still waiting for the guy to return the call 😁

[@georgegabriela5737]

I wish Samantha in 2021/2 can see this

[@ChanelleFT]

Every young woman should watch "He's Just Not That Into You" at least once, or even annually to drill it into their fucking heads. You're time is way to precious to waste on someone who is stringing you along. And that's probably what Miranda should've said to those girls

[@GeekyFleeky]

sometimes I wish I had an older sister like Miranda

[@yorangel1979]

I love this! It did help me!!! :P

[@janeleary9915]

life is more complex than this silly saying

[@KS-el4th]

those two ladies are in denial

[@copyright1982]

The whole truth is, "He's just not that into you...because he probably has grossly unrealistic expectations, considering what he brings to the table" lol Men typically think they can land someone who is clearly out of their league. Shout-out to all the thoroughly average looking 30+ year old guys who are still trying to date 19 year old stick insects lol

[@rayyana.8538]

lol

[@ienitatnemra1333]

As a 20 something who swam in the 30 pool, they talk to you like you're a child, but still want to get into bed together?? Blehhh

[@femalesupremacistoverlord6800]

LMAO “stick insects” like Bridget Jones 😂

[@nickgreu4ever]

That’s a ridiculous generalization… there are many good guys out there that want a relationship. But a lot of women are very superficial with what they’re looking for, especially concerning money and looks.

[@kuramacabre]

​@@nickgreu4everWe just want to feel attracted towards the man and hopefully he will not be a financial leech, that is what we all want, but we are considered shallow for that lmao.

[@silkwave5200]

the friend we all need lmao

[@honeypeaches7736]

Miranda was 100% my favourite on satc, she was such a badass.

[@sayitallnow]

He didn’t call

[@Tripp393]

Their reaction is so real 😂

[@sumatisspectrums4632]

after a week they will remember samantha

[@GB2595]

Miranda had a point but her delivery was way off. She just basically walked up to strangers said a sentence and then just walked off. Of course they weren’t going to listen. They didn’t know her so why should they listen. If she had instead built a rapport with them so they knew her and liked her (just like Berger had done with Miranda when he gave her this information) they might have actually listened. Instead she just barged up to them and barked this out. Totally wrong approach.

[@jeppeaim3039]

Should've used the DENNIS system

[@antithoughtpolice7497]

At least she smiled and wished them a great day, I thought that was cute

[@greendestinyph]

"Who asked her?" 😂😂

[@EmyN]

Words to live by

[@zwowwasmr]

I love this cuz that really is how people react lmao

[@cat66333333333333333]

Yasss miranda! Hahahhah

[@psychopeticahermetico9478]

Btw, he didn't call her.

[@rycroftphilostratem3536]

Miranda is so hot in here omggg

[@faizakabir3393]

A wise comment from a random video of youtube once said "If his train doesn't stop in your station then it is not meant for you". If he is into you he will let it be known otherwise move on with dignity and grace carrying your self respect along.

[@prettynerd4779]

B*** who the hell asked her, not me.. HAHAHA the realest reaction

[@andrewrocha9766]

0:33 I die every time. Haha

[@oc2538]

I loved that they called a B**Ch. Haha Miranda is hilarious to think you can walk up randomly and tell total strangers something like that.

[@davidjones9325]

Its not just a girl thing. Guys need to suck it up and respect the womans decision and move on

[@eduardochavacano]

Miranda being a total Karen in this scene.

[@exas4791]

No good deed goes unpunished.

[@minnbeef]

“He is so gonna call you!” How’d they work out for you sweetheart?

[@kevinbergin9971]

Wonder if Miranda doesn't have to say that about Che?

[@yosoybalta]

Ugh, I hate that relationship, the writing for Miranda was terrible.

[@frederiquelavigne5649]

@@yosoybalta yes.

[@MrWegosolo]

Oh he's into you...just the You that exists in his head and doesn't remind him of his Mother.

[@richiejohnson]

Word 👍👈

[@j.pablop.1998]

LOL 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@CrazyJamaicanCook]

Public service announcement this.

[@c890306]

and yet.....

[@odedweigel]

The alternative truth is that he had diarrhea

[@donnabillet9750]

Miranda got prettier.

[@PanWolven]

I wish I were that direct when a date isn't going well. Just say the words and move on. It would be so much better for both me and all those women who can't help but fall in love with me.

[@ChanelCoco-pk7mp]

Bahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha sure keep telling yourself that :D

[@blablalala4492]

i wanna have ur confidence

[@Kareragirl]

@@blablalala4492 There's a difference between confidence and narcissism. But the guy was hopefully joking.

[@WH2012]

In other words, "it's not a match". There is nothing wrong with that. Move on.

[@kagey03]

😂🤣😂🤣

[@minnbeef]

I love the Asian gal.

[@Aleksandra-fw1uz]

Se-Ep?

[@EddValdez]

Liza Lapira!

[@karfeelye9942]

Who the hell asked her? Not me lol

[@kanalichishi82]

Dude he's just not into you

[@anne-mariezack]

Lol

[@PanWolven]

Not big on humor, are you? :)

[@frankylo5857]

Reality sucks

[@FemaIeficent]

WTC?

[@ivanaciric3334]

Plz...I'm gonna throw up

[@abhilashmishra3601]

Yes Miranda..Che is just not that in to you!! move on! smell the coffee..get a life

[@catchmeintherye2102]

If women would just stop sleeping with men too early ( during the confused state) they would save themselves so much heartache. Its that simple.

[@queenvictoria8947]

2006 waaaw

[@TMPreRaff]

This show didn’t seem to age very well… the humor has turned corny.

[@jazylou]

So did he call? 🤣