He's Just Not That Into You | Love Advice | Warner Bros. Entertainment

[@ComicalRealm]

"Be careful who you start dating. A lot of people ain't looking for love, they're looking for help" - Johnny Bravo

[@freshstart4423]

Some guys are cowards. Its not you at all.

[@silverkitty2503]

help me....🤣

[@CoCo-eu1hg]

Story of my life

[@gemmadoyle3926]

…or someone to toy with…

[@CherylSlanee]

Yup.

[@Iggybart05]

the beauty of this movie is it gives you the answer. he spends all this time explaining how guys are not that into her and he's obviously right, but it also tells you and shows you a guy that is into her. and the answer is stupidly simple, guys gravitate towards who they want. i love this movie.

[@icysnow57cold64]

I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. It seems like it's impossible for men and women to emotionally connect with each other. Women do emotionally connect with other women, better than men do. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotionally intelligent, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more selfless, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women regulate emotion better. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Also, girls that are friends touch each other in ways that guys just don’t.

[@loveGG3]

​@@icysnow57cold64It's a bit cliche but the old saying is 0"opposites attract". Do you want 2 people who are highly emotional together? No, that's a trainwreck. Men and women have different strengths and weaknesses that compliment each other in a relationship and in a family.

[@icysnow57cold64]

@@loveGG3 Men don't have the same depth of connection with their friends as women do with theirs. Men do not share their emotions like how women do with each other. Men also don't talk about their feelings like how women do with each other. Platonic affection is very common between female friends, while it rarely happens between male friends. Boys don't form intimate friendships that girls do, so men tend to be more platonically lonely than women. A reason why women tend to handle romantic loneliness better than men do is because so many men are not better than being lonely. I heard that women value platonic friendships more than men do. Many men are consciously deciding that platonic relationships have no value.

[@icysnow57cold64]

@@loveGG3 So it's impossible for men and women to connect and bond with each other.

[@bar9849]

​@@icysnow57cold64 not all men are the same, and not all women are the same.. according to psycologist, a loving couple is just two neurosis getting together... they connect in that level

[@ninawestlake14]

I've watched this movie a million times. I love everything about it.

[@jjgems5909]

Im not kidding when I tell you, this movie helped me break up with an on and off again relationship I had at the time 😅. I was in my early 20s and so much of this movie had some similarities to what I was going through. In the end I just accepted that he just wasn’t that into me and if I was honest with myself neither was eye and I was living a delusion lol. A year later I met my now husband, 9 years a 2 kids later 🥰

[@emilyau8023]

More power to you

[@cormacbowman6595]

Hope you’re doing great!

[@augustaylissaevans9088]

"Remind myself NOT to tell the story about my molars" "You can tell me the story about your molars, Id love to hear it." DUDE

[@anakinslucien7193]

Dude down bad doesn't even notice it

[@Some_Idiot_on_the_Internet]

The signs scene is so agonising knowing that he's just going to shoot her down but also knowing she's completely right.

[@SamDavidJr]

She IS right…but it’s because she made it into a whole thing. She should’ve played it cool, but no judgement to her…I’ve been her before, lol.

[@janeryan2709]

@@SamDavidJr Nah, not really! She got what she wanted in the end. There was no reason for her to do anything differently.

[@sherede1442]

“Oh you’re busy. I shouldn’t have called you at work… oh wait, you called me!” Not me 😅

[@Truechildofgod]

the writers for her character and his deserved an award. I didn't care for the other characters and their storyline. She played her part so well as did he.

[@Jg-rv5oj]

Nothing is better than honesty. Be honest tell her you're scared! The truth is we girls are scared too. And there is no spark when you first meet each other. When you lower your guards that's when you enjoy the company.

[@jdcharlie]

This is it. You need to lower your guard and stop waiting for who will sneak past/tear down your defenses.

[@JoJo-mm8sn]

Women are so daft

[@adampasternack1481]

Except, he “wasn’t” into her. That’s the entire point. Women cannot accept the idea that a man might simply “not” like them. He’s always “insecure,” or “doesn’t know what he wants.” No. He just doesn’t like her. Learn this.

[@Paula-kr2gj]

@@adampasternack1481 agree with you, but i think she’s talking about the especific case on the movie

[@TeaCup1940]

@@adampasternack1481Not all women are like that, but many. Rejection is difficult to accept. Maybe men should just be more straight forward. Not promising to call and then don't do it. Better to be honest.

[@jenniferwilliams5478]

Just one of the many movies that had an All Star cast and everyone was linked to eachother

[@g.benoit17]

You’re right, I’ve seen other movies like this but I’m blanking on names. Are you able to name a few for me to go rewatch? 😅

[@Fan_Girl-xd8wy]

@@g.benoit17 New years eve, valentine´s day, love actually

[@tttttt0205]

This guy was a rizz master...loved him ,he was my favourite character from the movie

[@agenttheater5]

It's not so much the advice I have an issue with, it's his attitude. He just comes off as really condescending with his whole 'why do you always do that' and 'you guys fall for it every time'

[@user-gg2sg58jl58l]

Exactly

[@janeryan2709]

It only works because he experienced those feelings he was mocking the whole time in the end!

[@antithoughtpolice7497]

More like her nativity. This is stuff you should know, and it is pretty obvious

[@spencergsmith]

@@antithoughtpolice7497*naïveté But I agree

[@Jg-rv5oj]

He was into her all along but scared to admit it.

[@tryingasigo.6854]

He is !

[@benjamen7118]

He wasn’t tho

[@jclyntoledo]

Both could be true, maybe he didn't realize it at the time. Except he was really into helping her and did feel bad for her at the time.

[@Bestcoastxx]

I recently watched it again and he definitely was…

[@dunkagamingTV1226]

Maybe he was but just didn't know it

[@idoye5112]

This is one of my all-time favourite movies❤❤❤

[@patsalas5170]

This movie was a gem ...these 2 were excellent and a great supporting cast...love that she is home on Saturday night watching Some kind of wonderful ❤😊

[@lavieenhazel]

Love their pairing.

[@Adrianne519]

I honestly just watch this movie just for them and their plotline, lol

[@elcivilista]

The great Justin Long

[@superduper5949]

That spark thing is genius and absolutely to the point

[@karimam1275]

My favourite couple I watch and rewatch the movie just for these two❤

[@juliette_lummm]

I would only watch the scenes with them in the movie.

[@serin3139]

That Movie has many messages.

[@mariosolis4337]

i loved this movie back when i was single lol and needed a pick me up

[@gregoriasamsa9793]

Seeing them ending up together gives me false hopes🙄🙄

[@aashishbaral3260]

Same bro 😂

[@designstudio180]

There are so many signs .... then look places for destination wedding! 🤣🤣

[@rosettejones5050]

I love this movie!

[@Hinata4u]

Finally watched the movie "Some kind of wonderful" now I fully understand the reference 4:29. I feel complete!

[@emmagormally6841]

I love Gigi so Much

[@gabysoto7663]

Does every woman go through this? Because it happened to me, and almost every other woman I know hahah I've learned my lesson.

[@MzNatalieMoon]

That’s my favourite actress Snow🥰

[@carlkaholi]

Love this movie

[@estherscotlenzey2370]

Blessings I love her personality

[@shrishtisinha6692]

I feel like because of movies like this all guys have a self-perception of being ‘straightforward’. No. You are not straightforward when you make excuses about why you want to watch the game and not do the dishes.

[@hollybigelow5337]

Relationships are negotiations. Anyone has the right for anything to be a dealbreaker in a relationship. If it's important to a guy to always be allowed to watch the game without being interrupted, nagged, etc. that is absolutely his right. And if a woman refuses to be in a relationship with a man who always wants the right to watch the game, that is her right. It's only not straightforward when someone lies about their expectations and desires. For example, if a guy lies to a woman and says he loves her more than the game and will never prioritize the game over her just to get her into bed, and once he gets what he wants he immediately does the opposite of what he said, THAT would not be straightforward. If a guy lies and says he will do the dishes and then never does them, THAT would not be straightforward. But if a guy says he can't stand doing the dishes, but he's willing to do the laundry, clean the toilet, and take out the trash as long as he never has to do the dishes, and if he does the laundry, cleans the toilet, and takes out the trash, he not only is being straightforward, he is also being perfectly fair. If he says that watching the game is important to him, but he will make sure to do the dishes before 7 pm and he will take her out on a special date next Friday so she can feel special and have every chance to talk and be heard that isn't him being selfish, manipulative, or just making excuses. Women are often hypocrites on this. The very same woman who insists that a guy not prioritize a game over her would come unglued if he expected her to miss an important episode of her favorite soap opera. Or in a more subtle way, a woman might get mad at her husband for wanting to watch the game with his buddies, but at the same time would get mad if he said she couldn't go shopping with her girlfriends. Being in a relationship does not mean you own the other person or that you don't still need to negotiate an arrangement that you both can live with. If a man refused to let a woman spend time with her family and friends and do some of her favorite hobbies, people would rightly say the man was abusive and controlling. Well, the same is true when a woman won't let her husband spend time with his family and friends and do some of his favorite hobbies.

[@antithoughtpolice7497]

Depends... When men work more hours, and they typically do, and men still have to do all the manly chores: yeah, women should be doing most of the house chores. When she works more, like my older sister does, THEN he does the chores.

[@k.h.6991]

​@@antithoughtpolice7497that's assuming the woman isn't doing unpaid work like taking care of the kids.

[@leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259]

😂😂

[@Advoc8te4Truth]

It's kind of ironic how many women 'hate' this movie. And the major reason is that there's a man critiquing women and their preconceived ideals and beliefs about dating and love. ❤😂

[@Marion-uw9iy]

I always wanted to see this movie

[@uyangabattulga9653]

I got second hand embarrassment from the scene she kissed him. Glad it worked out in tye end tho

[@14omoon]

Same!!! 😂😂😂

[@DJikram98]

me too hhhh i love her but i always skip this scene 😂 but glad they made it at the end

[@bergamotblonde1645]

Ok people, a guy isn't scared to admit it, he is or he isn't. Don't bind yourself up trying to figure it out or waiting around. It's not your job to be responsible for his emotions. If he wants something enough, he can go and get it. Look at all the work you put into relationships, does somebody deserve that for nothing? Don't you need to know they're going to do their best to match you? I hated the way this movie made Ginnifer Goodwin so desperate. I think his coming around at the end is unrealistic. Too many women throw away too much time, energy, emotion, even money, on relationships that are not going to pan out. Believe in better for yourself. Please.

[@graciegracie]

Thanks ❤

[@ceecee4729]

Fact that this actress played snow white and is now at the huntsman's den is a lil ironic

[@patsalas5170]

Ginnifer also was Johnny Cash's first wife in walk the line 😊

[@roseforeman-rp9sy]

❤😂😢great movie

[@dianaj7103]

Nope this is why I don't get my hopes up. A no call no show is a he isn't thay interested. If I reciprocate and the other person doesn't either I'm not his everything or there is someone else. Either way men will complain mean while they themselves make no moves

[@DerekHoscorner]

Awesomeness job

[@martajorgenson8011]

Truth brother

[@ChrisM-zm4li]

Most of what he tells her throughout the movie is total BS. It's what all guys wish they could think.

[@michaelversace456]

Very true. However it educates women out there on just how we think.

[@lsjt8924]

What’s BS ? That the spark exists or that it’s a lie? That if a guy is into you he will tell you, or not?

[@michaelversace456]

@@lsjt8924 No, what he is saying is that most men aren't as smooth as Justin Long's character portrays. However anyone who has been around females would know that what is said in the movie is rather accurate. So it actually reveals more about Chris M than he intended it to. That maybe Chris isn't that experienced or has been recently hurt.

[@lsjt8924]

@@michaelversace456 ooh… « females » edgy.

[@mst-pierrem5729]

@@lsjt8924 if a guy is into you he wont even have rules. He'll just drop everything for you (pretending not to ). Trust me when a guy wants you there is no rule for him... -A married woman

[@emmagormally6841]

She's very Pretty

[@parthetis74]

Her recycle shirt while couch tv watching..😂

[@roseforeman-rp9sy]

❤great movie

[@bbria28]

Someone said Capricorn and Libra perfectly.

[@patriciaojigbo2976]

At least he is into a bit. I can use that little feeling he has me to get favor from him

[@koushiken6641]

This movie is the best when compared to KGF 2

[@anakinslucien7193]

Alex was into gigi since the very beginning, or the ending doesn't make sense

[@virginiaarthur5]

I mean it was kinda obvious my husband is like oh he likes her if he didn’t he would have seen her as a crazy stalker at the bar and ignored her

[@user-rebelnature]

Snow White in the Huntsman's Den. Clever.

[@megane0125]

Wait a minute

[@ToriHarris-lb6zg]

She was thirsty asf through almost the entire movie😂

[@dianalyespiral]

He was into her since the beginning but he didn't accept it

[@Karen-i2e]

What is the movie she is watching in the scene??

[@gretarose101]

Some kind of wonderful

[@figuringitout796]

Uh waiting the last minute for a deadline or a phone bill is more me procrastinating or having a hard time doing the deed due to overwhelm because it would require a lot of energy for me to get myself to even start. Its got nothing to do with drama.

[@IgnacioOnDrums]

It's a shame that this movie had interesting and realistic scenes like the ones in this clip until its generic romcom ending, wanting to please the typical Disney's consumer audience.

[@Pomagranite167]

Same. I don't think those two should have gotten together. He clearly wasnt interested in her. If anything, he saw her as easy and desperate and thats why he chose her, and ppl do that in real life. But they should have stayed not together in the movie.

[@virginiaarthur5]

@@Pomagranite167a man that’s not into you wouldn’t have kept talking to her and going out of his way to help her call her and all that he liked her if he didn’t he wouldn’t have talked to her after the first meeting and labeled her a crazy stalker

[@DJikram98]

​@@virginiaarthur5exactly! each time she calls him ,he leaves his busy work or his making up with the girl only to ans her calls and talk with her...he was interested in her from the beginning ahd felt empty when ahe left him

[@kubabryczynski6653]

Can we make a new show "The Bearstain Bears" only on Cartoon Network?

[@Person1865]

Why is this very beautiful woman taking dating advice from this guy? I haven't seen the movie but this seems like odd casting.

[@happypyps2368]

Whaaatt?? He’s charming

[@belaorhideja4020]

are you kidding me?? He is attractive!! Had a crush on him for years. But Ginnifer is adorable, I will give you that. In the movie, she doesnt really have a problem with guys not finding her attractive, it is more she keeps finding guys who treat her badly and do not care about her.

[@Person1865]

@@belaorhideja4020 he's cute! I just don't think he suits the role of a confident ladies man.

[@TheresFuckeryAfoot]

What does her being beautiful have to do with her man radar? Millions of attractive women don’t have discernment regarding men or recognize red flags or have healthy boundaries.

[@drepop803]

Watch the movie then Emily. There's women that didn't like a man until they see their personality more then the guy becomes much more attractive. I didn't think this actor could pull it off either but he did great in this movie. Same thing a lot of women said about '"lip" from 'shameless'. "He's not even that cute". After a while "oh I love him. I see why girls are into him"

[@ally-nb1cx]

didnt like how she ended up with him

[@rayanog]

I used to feel that way. but on a full movie rewatch, it makes sense tbh

[@wabisabi4717]

Name of lead actor?

[@aprilbeson2073]

Justin Long

[@dlalitha5428]

Movie name?

[@lucasballestin9085]

same as the title of the video

[@testa670]

Its true

[@winterspirit3734]

More interested in watching the movie she was watching. Anyone know what it is?

[@loulou9336]

Some kind of wonderful

[@anchyzas]

🙄 Sorry to disappoint y’all fellas, we’re never quite this ridiculous. He has to be thoroughly vetted.

[@coneil72]

Is this entire movie just mansplaining?

[@Laura-e5b]

Who? 😂 There's no one on my radar.

[@emmagormally6841]

💜💗💗💗💗❤❤❤❤💙💙

[@a12i9]

I hate that last scene.Why on earth would they be so excited about the conclusion that he must like her without even asking the question if she likes him? Is it all just about having someone who likes you nad then you have to say yes whoever it is? I don't get it.

[@Vixen743]

They are totally jumping the gun with a destination wedding thing she was dating him or if she thought she was..it’s a little much…

[@fancy6893]

Much to do about nothing

[@RoxanaSierraortiz-mx8jg]

Va a sali con un chico

[@Leslief103]

Only Jennifer Connelly could put me on the side of a cheating husband. I did not like her character

[@jonathanroman5437]

I stay home on weekend says Jonathan Roman ok

[@mohinidagar1253]

Why did I not see all these videos before wasting a lot of my time on losers :(

[@mrelite9424]

...Mmmkayee...This is A "STRAIGHT TO DVD"..ROTTEN TOMATOES MOVIE..A BETTER PICK FOR THIS *SCENARIO:..WHAT WOMEN REALLY WANT WITH: MEL GIBSON...

[@kubabryczynski6653]

Maybe is a straight delicious scenario.

[@michaelhampton8936]

I like gigi she is really a strong female cause she wasn't afraid of her truth She really didn't know her own strength. I'm not dating anymore but I get it people in general are far way too exhausting and dramatic for me.

[@NicholleChristineEdwards]

So.

[@Heather-vd3ki]

Love this movie