He's never works and always too busy getting treatments!! [Hello Counselor ENG,THA/2018.10.08]

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Hello Counselor EP.382
Baek Bonggi, Oh Nami, Cheon Iseul, WJSN'S Bona & Luda
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[@andrewk2658]

he doesn't seem like a bad guy at all, this dude just needs to be some real friends around him

[@melanihan169]

Yes, he is nice and he is just insecure about himself. Those hosts shouldn't have said that he got ps

[@user-ly1zt2ly5p]

Yess that's what i think too

[@jeremnis]

True. If he was an asshole he would have walked out or talked back to the host or the guy. He seems really ncie and sensitive.

[@heavenlee6464]

@@melanihan169 Because they think getting plastic surgery to much is bad for you it's a problem

[@plaguewater]

He seems like a really nice person. People shouldn’t bash his looks because he already has a low self esteem. Judging his looks will only make him get more treatments done. I think he just needs better friends that will support him. I don’t care that he gets treatments done, he just gets too much done and it’s interfering with his work. I honestly feel really bad for him because having a low self esteem sucks honestly.

[@bassma419]

broken oppar I can relate to him because I spend 300 every month trying new skin care and makeup to cover my skin because I had acne they are mostly gone but I just feel naked without makeup

[@dt4654]

@@bassma419 hopefully you can afford the $300 a month cost of maintaining your skin and looks, sounds like a good idea until the day you no longer can afford the maintenance.

[@superlifer1732]

That's just it though. He looks bizarre and made up. He has a joker smile, and you could tell he's been through lot of surgery, and this should NOT be normalized and encouraged by his friends.

[@llllll1897]

He was on the verge of crying when talking about his childhood. My heart goes out to him. This is another case where I honestly think they should have a trained psychologist on the cast.

[@itsjovanka]

Exactly, how can they help if they dont know any better?

[@cypher-melonybuchanan]

When you have a proper physiologist on the cast it changes an opinion and veiw at least with the cast its with them trying to look and adguts from a personal view physiologists don't really do that they look at mantal points and I have had many physiologists and only one looked at me like human veiw

[@heavenlee6464]

He should got to a trained psychologist not hem being one on the show

[@asyrafzulkifli2584]

Irony..the person who sent the concern looks more handsome than the others two..

[@agustin5855]

Lo,you are so right

[@charnellepocka2572]

Did you watch the video he become like that because of people like you who think they have the right to judge people appearance your words hurt and here in this situation they hurt even more Really not necessary or helpful

[@AlphaSubs]

Charnelle Pocka you're right

[@jessicaa3739]

Asyraf Zulkifli no he is not

[@lomyhrahsel6438]

Truthfully ... i dont think so

[@vanillaar655]

some of yall have no empathy omg he's suffering from childhood trauma and inferiority complex. i hope he gets therapy. he seems like a nice caring guy but i do think he should start focusing more on his work and not disturb his colleagues. other than that i do feel bad for him and relate to how he feels.

[@munaaliah8191]

Omg, so true! When he started to oem why he becomes like that, i sympathize on him cause he had to go through it when he was a child 😔

[@wisbaely]

They blame him for being obssessed but the whole nation is obssessed with looks

[@chocaren4602]

Not the whole nation, but ok 😂 generalizing much?

[@chocaren4602]

@Bleacheu well, my husband is korean and I live in Korea and of course, certain jobs will require people to have certain looks. That happens everywhere. Korea its super competitive and believe me, if you dont have skills or the skin to deal with 12 hours plus jobs, you won't make it, period.

[@chocaren4602]

@Bleacheu it happens that's a fact but not every company works like that and that's what I was trying to say. Skills matter a lot too, for Korea productivity is the essence of every company. The person can be physically pretty but if it doesnt work well, it will get fired right away.

[@barrylilt]

Cho Caren you try to defense your theory, but you can’t deny that Koreans pays more attention to looks during hiring process. Don’t just say there are companies who doesn’t care about looks, you need to look at the percentage of companies who do consider looks important. Still you can.’the deny that Koreans is too obsess with looks.

[@chocaren4602]

@@barrylilt nobody said otherwise bro 😂 companies around the world do that especially asian companies in which they ask people to put their pictures in their resume. For example, China likes to do that a lot. But with that being said, not all the companies are like that, Asian companies are really competitive and need hardworking employees, if you can't keep with the rhythm, you can't work. So it doesn't matter if you are pretty, if you can't give a good service, you're not a reliable product, is not that difficult to comprehend. 😂

[@leejojo3739]

The friend that sent the story caught my eyes more..

[@emi-rh6yz]

same 😂

[@nannanonni2820]

Looks like a good guy.. 💚

[@marilynskyz]

SAME😫😂😂😂😂

[@jess.i.ca02]

lee jojo yesssss!!!

[@midnightstream6723]

Yup...his good looks are totally distracting me the whole time 😍😍😁 like his smile is too bright ✨✨

[@kamalia7858]

at first I thought he was kinda obsessed with this skin thing but when he revealed that because people talk bad about him then I fully understand him bcs I relate to him so much and people keeps talking abt my skin its not like I want this kind of skin smh

[@lil_tyong6691]

Same

[@anasian8894]

I relate to this guy as wel

[@zien5380]

Am I the only one who like when he smiled? The director guy

[@plaguewater]

Indeed, it’s nice too see him happy

[@yerimstangerines9685]

Truee

[@martamilojevic3140]

OMG yes he's so attractive actually

[@jandinguyen4616]

Im late but yea hes fuckin cute omg, i cant move my eyes to anywhere but him

[@user-jv3mk1lp7p]

trueeee 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 dayum charming!!! but I also agree that the guy who sent concern is super handsome too 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@achiibat9466]

I don't think people seem to understand. Everyone's telling him to make his health his priority. But do you think, as a dermatologist/counsellor, he doesn't know that he is putting his health at risk? Like, he probably has a medical degree, duhh. He KNOWS. But the experiences he had as a child must have traumatized him. Those comments that made him insecure about himself, went deep into his heart. Real deep. It must be to a point where he knows all those frequent treatments are bad for him, but still feels as if he deserves to be tormented in that way. Simply because he never "was" good enough. So now, even if he knows that he looks good, and that he shouldn't be so harsh on himself, he can't help it. It must be emotionally staggering for him. I can't imagine how much he must have hated himself growing up. God knows for how long he's been dealing with such a low self-esteem. You may disagree with me, but what I believe will be the most effective treatment for both his body and soul, would be someone who truly cherishes him, and is also loved by him. If you think about it, the emotional scarring he got as a child lies deep in his heart, right? Just look at him get emotional when it's mentioned. So it only makes sense, well at least for me, to have someone as intimate to get just as deep in his heart, and heal him from within. If he's constantly feeling loved for who he is, and that looks don't necessarily define how beautiful of a person he is, it may be the biggest of help. I mean, who would want to risk their health when they know that it hurts and worries the person they love the most? Sometimes you do things for others that you wouldn't do for yourself. However, until he finds that someone, or even maybe some people, I don't think that being complimented or warned by strangers would change that much for him. I truly hope that someday, soon enough, he will realize he doesn't have to be so harsh on himself. If you're reading this and you relate to him, I truly wish that you remember you're beautiful just as you are. Best wishes. And thank you reading until the end.

[@ninajeanmarquez2884]

Thank you!

[@hafizahzainil3967]

thank you . i'm glad someone finally talked abt this issues and understand us well.

[@achiibat9466]

Hafizah Zainil you're very welcome. Stay strong. I'm glad to see that people supported my comment as well.

[@akiumie]

Such a lovely crafted reply... his eyes seem to cry out for help. He prob knows all the ill effect but doesn’t know how to crawl out from his inner hatred/mess... it’s been his sole purpose for a long time after all, the task of making himself look better. :/ Also wish everyone who is hurting the same to reach out to friends and family that matters. >

[@evviolet8370]

imo he needs to go to therapy, if he has medical degree, he knows this better than anyone else, im pretty sure every person who has medical degree has gone through 'psychiatry' department n posting, not sure how it works in Korea though, he should have known that he has huge self esteem n insecurity issue, thats his main problem

[@ermahgerdwut1418]

"Everyone has different standards of beauty." Then why are you telling people they need to change THEIR faces? What if they're perfectly fine with how they look? I mean, after all, EVERYONE HAS DIFFERENT STANDARDS OF BEAUTY! Damn, telling people to get plastic surgery because you deem them unfit in your eyes is just plain rude and wrong. This dude needs some serious help. With the amount of treatments and who knows what else he's getting, it surely can't be healthy.

[@ermahgerdwut1418]

So this obsession with outer beauty began when other people criticized his appearance.... Unfortunately, that's exactly what he's currently doing to other people.

[@tylerjune4120]

It’s a trauma. Have you never had anything you did not want others to see.

[@ermahgerdwut1418]

I've definitely had times where I get self conscious about my face or body, but this guy is taking it to a whole new level. It's trauma, and that's exactly why he needs to get help. He might have body dysmorphic disorder, which shouldn't be taken lightly. It's affecting his work, his financial stability, and the people around him. Getting 3-4 shots a week of whatever he's taking is likely unsafe. People are worried for him, and I hope he gets the support and help he actually needs.

[@arianamiranda3660]

It is rude but I guess in his eyes he thinks "I can tell you what's wrong with you, buuuut you do you" Still annoying tho 🤷‍♀️

[@leyzbryan]

First of all he didn’t force them to come to him they’re the one who wants to change themselves he’s just suggesting lol

[@xXxNeonPrincessxXx]

The fact that the actual translation about the comment in his skin was not even "what's wrong with your skin?" But "why does your skin look dirty?" Says a lot.

[@stephanie8621]

The guy who sent the story slightly looks like Kim SooHyun

[@barrylilt]

Stephanie that is what I thought so! So much like!

[@jonalynvillanueva2789]

Stephanie yeah me too! Haha he looks like soo hyun

[@SN-db8mv]

15:21 he was on the verge of crying right there

[@arikaakami2811]

Omg he looks so kind and innocent

[@Najmi107]

medical point of view it should be the biggest concerned coz this young man injected himself more than his age and his immune system. Please ponder on these things before pressing the button. It also reflected the image of society and culture, which is quite alarming.

[@shegotit143]

Bleacheu No it shouldn’t. You can’t address childhood trauma unless you are healthy and say not fighting autoimmune disorders. Of course he hmmmm the underlying problem needs to be addressed but health is also quite important.

[@paulinawinter8188]

@Bleacheu calling people idiot while that person is right..is a concern too.

[@hoahuynh7708]

Concerns about looks always start with someone calling another disgusting names. I feel bad for what he got call by and it was by his relatives

[@purplearmy5464]

LOVE YOURSELF! LOVE YOURSELF! LOVE YOURSELF! LOVE YOURSELF! LOVE YOURSELF! LOVE YOURSELF!

[@averystinkyperson6084]

that's not going to help

[@SabaFrida]

Bleacheu LoL I don’t know what u said but I agree sorta but don’t

[@SydneyShin]

a very stinky person lol it helps others, i read this comment and smiled. this person is just stating to love yourself, why do you have to be so negative about that lmao; you're not helping.

[@SabaFrida]

sydney s. Exactly

[@saferoundhouse5910]

Well it's not that easy, you can't suddenly decide hey I'm going to start loving myself and after that your life is going to be 1000% better

[@lollipopyay2156]

I totally relate to him when he mentioned about his experiences. Having low self-esteem is indeed a problem😭

[@divinegrace_8094]

*Idk why but I was reminded of LOOKISM*

[@yose25]

Omg I love lookism ❤️ and sameee

[@chuugi7769]

Lookism ❤️

[@chuuu4610]

Ohh I just read the new chapter

[@yos33tdr3ams]

Omg YESSSS Eli and Zack got me shookedd And Vasco is just a baby☺☺☺❤❤❤❤❤

[@cokdabee]

Tabsacoo

[@talibaozibang9321]

OK... The Director clearly need a good Therapist but he is still cute.

[@bomunited6892]

Alot of these comments here are REALLY not getting what this is actually about..I feel very sorry for him and I hope he finds the mental help he clearly needs. A good support system around him. I wish him well

[@ItsBrittanyLajoyce]

Plastic surgery is so common in Korea they don’t even care it’s just a joke to them but this is a sad situation

[@lindare9476]

Idk but I just felt like I wanted to go there and give the plastic surgery guy a hug and tell him that we are all beautiful already, that nobody is perfect and perfect is boring, and teach him a little bit of self-love to grow a bigger high steem on him 😭😣💕💗💗💗

[@jaejaeshroom]

Poor guy seems to only see flaws within himself. He needs people in his life that will encourage him based on his looks and people who can tell him he doesnt look bad. He needs encouragement :(

[@winniethepooh8353]

Why would you say that to a child? "Why does that one look like a mutant"

[@phmx182]

lol i feel him, family tends to say mean things without thinking first

[@sitimunirah1298]

Not only family ...your friends and even strangers did the same too....

[@nicepurpose4909]

Welcome to korea

[@baptongsesame5978]

Adults and children alike do it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Humans are just mean in general,especially Asians

[@danitea912]

look at his smile when youngja said "you alr look charming" omg im in love

[@cheria9399]

He was tearing up when they started to talk about his appearance...his trauma is deep

[@chynalong3945]

Cheria his eyes teared up just mentioning his childhood I feel for him

[@riptideanaklusmos5721]

honestly I really the guy who sent the concern because it feels like he's the only who seems to really care

[@Mar-ik5mh]

Y'all don't see how this man was and is still so insecure that he gets so many treatments. And still,he's getting laughed at on national televison. The hosts are so disrespectful, pointing the places he got some work done, like they're better.

[@sitinurain2058]

Seriously. The one that sent the concern is good-looking. He does seem like Kim Soohyun 😍

[@Prishahy]

I agree but soohyun oppaa is more handsome

[@sitinurain2058]

@@Prishahy hahaha. That's for sure.

[@srawanins3914]

Yay I m also thinking that

[@eatthebaek7748]

His voice when talking is quite calming.

[@melissanavarro1020]

To be honest, the director needs a therapist. To be honest, he's cute & seems super nice and his smile is what caught my eye about him first. But, I feel like he needs a couple friends that will boost his self confidence. But, he looked so upset and looked like he just wanted to breakdown and cry, but he kept a smile on his face. But, I wish I was there to at least hug him and try to help out a little bit.

[@misimatokastanley]

I feel like its a worry because the guy is worrying about having too many shots would cause a lot of errors making it a botched crisis so the main thing is that its not a concern mainly on the fact of having too much surgery and its hard to take care of their looks by being different i mean no one will care on your looks just be yourself what people will want is not on looks but the way they do it

[@feminaik9984]

I feel like this is a genuine case of body dismorphic disorder .. it's hard to live in a society where looks come before character and personality .. if only we concentrated on the latter more ..

[@constel-lations4343]

His concern are very understandable, I hope this guy will get a professional help regarding his self esteem and the feeling of always not enough. His reason beneath all the treatment is because he is traumatized at young age and the people around him are not helping too. You won't understand it until you face it yourself, he seems like a decent guy. I just hope he will change his attitude of skipping work and won't be troubling his co-workers plus love himself more. To the people who said the person who send the concern is more handsome and stuff you're not helping by judging them, you can just say he looks good. But since you wanted to judge and become the reason why a person like this guy exist, go off. Say something nice or just shut up.

[@ikiaslemonapple3031]

Nami so cute. Bubbly and happy 😊

[@didakissy]

Honestly the first thing that came to my mind was: 'He probably has low self esteem..he was bullied for his looks.' Because if you've been around korean culture for a while you know how importand is beauty for them. This is a concern because of the people around him he's gonna ruin his life. Getting so much treatments is not good for his skin- quite opposite. But I understand how he feels. I'm just like him. But I wouldn't spend money for something that would do worse than better for my skin. I hope he'll find someone who will help him gain self esteem. It can he the guy who sent the concern. Both of them look like very nice and kind people. Best of luck to him

[@yourBELLATRIX]

The director is already handsome not only on the outside but inside as well.. it's all what matters.. I think he just needs someone to help heal his heart and make him feel special the way he is.. P.S The director's smile is 💕

[@palpashakarki8606]

I hope he knows that he's just as beautiful, and health is always more important

[@graciagisela]

The real gangnam beauty, I bet many koreans have the same problem since koreans tend to perceive good looks

[@jaquemartinez7822]

been waiting for this to be uploaded..

[@ny9296]

the guy who sent the concern... so handsome 😍

[@islalarose4750]

He was on the verge of tears. He really needs a huge hug and a couple of good encouraging friends ☹😭

[@themightyvomit8065]

Who wouldn’t get self conscious and thus superficial if everybody around you is so critical about your looks. What a sad community to live in where many ostracize their own people for being themselves

[@ummmhyeahhh3090]

Why do I feel like they are just lowering the director’s self esteem by calling him out, and it already seems as if he has low confidence

[@renzpaoloramos6300]

That Director guy doesn’t look like a celebrity what is noticeable in his face is that IT HAS ENDURED SO MUCH TREATMENTS and now he looks like it’s molded from WAX. Love yourselves guys!

[@evviolet8370]

yeah agree, though from his reason n his backstory living in such a toxic place i could understand why he's becoming like that, just who in the world calling their relative a mutant?? this is absolutely a worry, u never know what else n how long he's gonna keep doing that to himself

[@AdeenaHussain-nl1hb]

I hate how the root cause of every addiction and problem is because of what people around us tell us about ourselves. He just needs more real people around him, see a therapist and try healthy exercises to improve his self-esteem

[@ch3rry149]

I really wonder how these peoples lives play out after the show , lol like did dude get fired for putting the director on blast ? Some of these concerns are deep, they need Updates to these things.

[@Kimeesunshine]

They sometimes do updates special after one year.

[@leilyn8287]

From the first sentence, I knew that what the director needs is not this show but a competent psychologist because this can already be considered as psychopathology.

[@elivlogs3171]

The director looked like he was on te verge of tears during the whole show..

[@aint_dat_riah]

I like how half the comments are worried about the looks of the guys more than the actual concern

[@aeriise]

Ok but that dude who sent the concern looks rlly hot tho

[@Kayhq99]

Build others self esteem by telling them to change their face, got it 😂

[@fendim4071]

I grew up being insulted as ugly. And my mom's friends made an insensitive comparison choosing my brother's look over me. But today, I feel good, I hope I look good- by proper grooming.. no needles touch my skin (other than for medical purposes such as vaccinations) and never intended to have one (no BOTOX, no plastic surgery). I'm happy with what I'm blessed with and am ultra contented with my life. Truth is, beauty is from within.. our character makes us beautiful. Being hygienic and properly groomed is also part of good character and discipline. There's no need to go extreme to look good. Looking good doesn't guarantee great personality but having a great personality can lead to looking good.

[@sillyirene7329]

cheon iseul!!!!! its been soo long since i see her in dream team

[@vineveronica2805]

At first i thought that he is selfish but when he revealed about his past i can understand him...Because it's very much relatable to me.i lost my confidence and I became more conscious about my skin. sometime i would even fell that I have crocodile skin.

[@yxnotmin9814]

the guys who sent the story in gives me Kim soo hyun vibes especially when he smiles.

[@gakkibear]

I feel the same. Although I still don't wear makeup and just go anywhere, I'm afraid of meeting someone to date or be out there. I judge people and judge myself harder...

[@Lili-tr7vu]

The person who send concern is so cute or must i say handsome😮

[@srawanins3914]

That guy who sent the letter looks so pretty 😍like Kim soon hyun

[@COSETTEBMN]

He's so cute and so handsome

[@blaisha]

oh my god the guy who sent the concern, heart eyes

[@Balqissuraya96]

Dude, natural beauty is the best.

[@sitinabilah1211]

he is smiling but his eyes crying for help, this is heart-breaking💔😭

[@alleyahblancia3546]

This guy is scared if he gets a single imperfection on his skin.... Then there's me. My face is full of blemishes and some acne but I don't care what people think ;p

[@Jam-hr4ju]

there's no need to bash this man.. y'all can stop

[@zeeglasb25]

Why do I find him so handsome 💕

[@BobaWithChaitea]

Nami you go boy! Your already handsome! LOL but for real, I feel his pain when he's the one dealing with all the work when the other is gone treating their self. Its not fair.

[@Strawberrisgals]

Omoooo he so handsomeee😍😍😍

[@nilanjana99Ji]

He is so handsome 😍

[@golisopod7322]

all three are super cute

[@Jenny-cb9qs]

Who is more handsome less handsome doesn't matter. What matters is your inside. Your heart. 저는 사람들은 어떻게 생겼어요 관심이 없어요. 힘내세영. 저두 제가 한국에 있으면 안녕하세요 보고가야해영 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

[@ainializa8100]

😂😂😂 lawak kampus cikgu Noodle yang perangai hampeh macam ni.

[@user-es2xe7ue5e]

14:17 i am leaving this time for myself cause I need a daily dose of his face

[@ny9296]

"the youngest must be a mutant" OMG SO HARSH :( no one should ever said that to someone!

[@asdfjgkhl8807]

th fren is so cute

[@eshaawadh4289]

is it just me or the director's lips are like seo kang joon when he smiles

[@bekah_park]

I'm korean so I understand everything and its funnier to hear and understand the severity of korean words which can't be sufficiently expressed in english 😂😂

[@alyssiafernandez713]

I can relate honestly if i don’t have makeup on i don’t go out anywhere like i just don’t feel good about my face

[@ariesfairy4444]

The guy who sent in the concern is cute asf😍

[@13diamondboyscarat87]

Somehow i got entertainment from this story 😂

[@valerie0091]

All these guys are cute. 😍

[@anawkwardsweetpotato4728]

I lost it at "살~짝" 😂 he's so cute xD

[@glacierasmr871]

This is sad and many people go through this every day with trauma from childhood or pressure from the public 😔 I honestly feel as if he should really talk to a therapist on his own terms

[@joelinepretty79]

No wonder why he looks so hella young than his own age! Despite the fact of his health issue, he looks very luxury face than nature facial. I was little surprise that his grandmother didn’t recognized grandson because YOU KEEP DAMN HELLA TREATMENT, the more you are already obsessing.

[@misslombokturah7625]

Woooaaa.. that guy remind me to min hyuk. Miz u uri min hyuk

[@sheFEISTY.43110]

😂😂😂😂😂 when Nami dabbed his lips with the tissue. I wish I was that brave lol

[@rkpragyajitsingh3074]

Bona is so pretty

[@cupoftae9751]

Both very handsome HAHAHHAHA

[@sirilim4261]

Omg is it me that the guy who is in stage looks more like Kim soo hyun??? With that small eyes🤗🤗 so cute 🥰

[@michaelamickisch0594]

The one who sent the concern is more handsome 😂❤❤❤

[@SeeSaintZee]

You know you're lying tho. The director was generally more handsome

[@michaelamickisch0594]

@@SeeSaintZee 😂😂😂 maybe we have different taste and point of view but I like the one who sent the concern 😊😊

[@killua123333]

Its a horrible addiction problem. But at the very least i felt that compare to other cases where they disagree or refusing to see the inconvenience they are causing others that is so frustrating, at least this guy knows how he is affecting others n agrees to it but felt that he cant help it becuz he is addicted to it.

[@stefaniea966]

Love yourself brooo

[@shainastyles6363]

Lmao! I'm worried about the person who sent the concern... The one who he wrote his cocern about is one of their shareholders. 😅

[@Putri-ani]

The guy who had concern reminds me of kim soo hyun 😯

[@alinalama8931]

please support him,,,,,and it is really okay to get surgery its his face and his life .one thing that is problem is he gets to many shots and all he have to do is stop getting to many shots,

[@zimzalabop8585]

he already has low self esteem, talking about his surgery on tv isn't going to help... smh i just want to give the surgery guy a big hug, he needs real help not some actors laughing at him

[@user-ly1zt2ly5p]

In fact this is so funny 😂😂😂

[@kyungsoosangel9510]

Not related to the topic but Luda is beautiful

[@sharmaineflores3036]

Appearance is everthing in Korea.