He’s Still Interested | Talks with Tony

[@ashtonpatrice6137]

Babyyy that spark aint bout NOTHING!! Run from the spark! Ciara gave an interview saying there weren’t any sparks or butterflies when she met Russell, there was safety and peace. 🙌🏾

[@33watch55]

Awesome! That is what I am searching for - safety and peace.

[@KR-XtremeAlchemist]

That’s the route I’m going when I’m ready for a relationship again (safety). I’m gladly keeping Pandora’s box under lock and key. I made the mistake Tony is talking about here though with an ex who was obviously bitter and came back seeking revenge recently after about 5/6 years later to get it. When he came back I had been abstinent for that long. I was on a spiritual path working on me which I still am but he caught me vulnerable with a weakness for him that I didn’t know I still had until I gave in and let him back and now with your help Tony I’m realizing it’s because I didn’t sever the soul tie I had with him. Sista definitely needs a therapy session! 😂 I’m not mad at him though cuz the difference between me and him is that currently I’m not in my ego state. On hindsight I now know we both made a lot of assumptions about how we felt about one another but never really discussed it until years later after the fact when we stopped seeing each other due to my “fight or flight” tendencies. Communication was awful and with me being a silent sufferer as I was I wasn’t about to let my guards all the way down and make myself vulnerable so I thought. Joke’s on me, right? As it turned out I was vulnerable all along STILL due to not cutting the soul tie! 😱

[@fatiie]

Yes! I feel like the spark for me IS the comfort, assurance, safety, and genuineness his presence gives 💟💟💟 you can completely feel and see the difference between "grown boy" trying to spark with you and a grown man who gives you the spark of peace/safety.

[@roja_xo5527]

He's not lying about them sparks. I'm still trying to break from a soul tie from "sparks" don't even want to be with this man anymore and what he did still hunts me. Please protect your essence and your spirit.

[@relld.1157]

Resonated so much!!!

[@mochahontas4840]

@B Real WOW. I've never heard that...but it makes total sense. THNX 4da info.

[@freckledfacedbeauty151]

This‼️‼️

[@tsjordan31]

Facts!! 💯💯

[@ms.j.w.4208]

AMEN!! 🙏💯😎

[@Samerootsdifferentbranches]

"He could be your husband or he could be your nightmare." Woooo that was goood!

[@cherh]

Whew!

[@carolynwilliams4926]

Most woman today is sleeping with the enemy today.

[@QueenQueen-qw2ix]

@@carolynwilliams4926 True, and those women don't even know it.

[@mymakersdaughter6041]

@@carolynwilliams4926 Gurl!!!!

[@gracefrazier2732]

U r so right Me.G. keep up the awesome job, handsome. U and your wife r beautiful ❤️❤️

[@nandyzoo]

If he’s not what you want or if he’s not what you need, gone bout your business -TG 💃🏿💨💨

[@Dr.Elaine1]

“If he’s not what you want, gone ‘bout yo business! TG

[@andreawright3829]

...gone ‘bout yo business😂

[@intentionalgreatness]

Never try to force an attraction because he is nice...it's not what you really want so keep it moving. It will only hurt you and him in the long run.

[@honestlyonnie]

I can attest to this and wholeheartedly agree. Just leave him or her alone, it’ll save you and them in the long run

[@jzzsuccess]

Just got chills hearing Tony speak on the dangers of sparks. 😰 I had sparks and butterflies with my ex husband that turned into anxiety at the sound of his voice. He definitely had a seducing spirit, demonic spirit. I tell no lie. Sparks/butterfly are DANGEROUS. Gave me chills and made me watery eyed hearing it Tony warns us.

[@dolcesweet5173]

This is EXACTLY how I felt. Just receiving a text from the guy I was dealing with would trigger my anxiety. That's our feminine intuition to run. So grateful for a valuable lesson learned though, now I fully trust my intuition. Once I get that butterflies/antsy feel I am tying my laces and making a mad dash.

[@jzzsuccess]

@@dolcesweet5173 lol, that part. 🏃🏾‍♀️ got ta go!

[@IshanaeS]

Every time he grabs those headphones and puts them over his arm, I’m hollering! 😭😭

[@melaniegonzalezart8506]

Yes!!! And the other day he made it a crossbody bag, LOL.

[@IshanaeS]

@@melaniegonzalezart8506 yooooo which one? I must of missed it 😭😭😭😭

[@mymakersdaughter6041]

@@IshanaeS I must have missed it too and I didn’t think I had missed one! Please tell.

[@teshaparx4802]

Chile me too

[@teshaparx4802]

Wait, what...which is it I missed the crossbody bag!! Lmbo...🤦🏽‍♀️

[@lizzylewis5793]

He is definitely not lying about those "sparks." I know a man like that from down south very handsome, perfect facial features, with beautiful light skin looked like its been dipped in gold, two different color eyes, muscular, mesmerizing, and very seducing. Women been after him since he was a teen and they still chasing him. Women even comment on his social media that his eyes are very hypnotizing. But he has terrible grown boy character-drinking, going to bars/clubs, gambling, always ripping and running...It took me years to get over him. I had to pray to God to release him from my mind. I'm glad I didn't get a chance to be in a relationship with him and finally got over him. Preferences vs standards? Let character be a man's currency. Standards is definitely the way to go, wait on God!

[@s.r.125]

Gurl, yes look up "STD" sexual transmitted demons" they are real. I had one. I got delivered by the grace of God 🙌🏽

[@lizzylewis5793]

@@s.r.125 Will do! Thanks

[@s.r.125]

@@lizzylewis5793 but be prepared! I was prayered up before and after looking into it 😩 because we know the devil is real.

[@trueabby1162]

@@s.r.125 wow never hear it that way before with using their term Demons instead of deceases.

[@s.r.125]

@@trueabby1162 lemme tell😩😩 because they will drive you crazy and make you feel all kinds of way. Aint no jk. Real story I picked up his traits and behavior and I felt him thousand of miles away. (He was in the states I was in Germany!)

[@drummerboy91productions63]

Thank you man. Don’t waste my time, because I don’t won’t to waste yours. I rather see you happy then questionable about how you feel.

[@purelyme5488]

In the words of Breeny Lee that spark is anxiety, that spark your looking for might be the toxic part of yourself

[@radiantly_fatime]

Thank you for this. I knew I heard that from somewhere but couldn't recall the source.

[@jobossbaby369]

Desperation is real... your husband will come. Continue to focus on you 🙏🏽

[@BreeziDeezi]

Best comment 🏆💚

[@brittanyb5942]

I had NO sparks for my ex but I stayed with him because he "seemed" to be respectful...turned out to be a complete NIGHTMARE!!

[@tabitaeguangs]

Some of those ugly ones have hearts as ugly as their face

[@jnu-fw6ls]

@@tabitaeguangs 😂😂

[@Samerootsdifferentbranches]

Congrats on 300,000 wow!!! Headed to that 1 Million 💥💥

[@officialwatchamber]

Yassssss 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@TonyaNicole7]

I’ve been on a Tony Gaskins marathon all weekend and laughing so hard Tony is funny but spits All truth!!!!

[@shylosymone3714]

ALL truth!!!! Yes ma'am!!!

[@coachshenamajor]

He sure does. I’m constantly cracking up 😂

[@33watch55]

He is hilarious! There are days that I burst out laughing while listening to him. I love his truth though.

[@nikkinanette8807]

Every time Tony says, “blockedt” 🤣😩😂🤣😂

[@shylosymone3714]

She said she wasnt attracted to him (*like that*) in the first place. She called it off for someone else and she moved. 3 yrs later she is lonely so now she MIGHT be interested. Dont waste that mans time!! You didnt want him in the first place...said so yourself. She needs to be honest with him and herself and move on. And sis, don't settle if he isnt what you truly want.

[@frenchvanilla7109]

I actually think she was more settling rathar than trying to use him. It seemed like she was lonely, maybe time went by and she didn't meet a man that was up to her standards. So she figured let me just settle for him and see how it goes. Which never works out well for both parties in the end.

[@pinata985]

@@frenchvanilla7109 thats also using someone dear

[@KaesCozyKitchen]

So true about the sparks. With every guy I had a "spark" with, the relationship was emotionally intense and ended badly.

[@officialwatchamber]

Hit that 300k!! Congratulations Tony 🙌🏼🙌🏼 Gods Plan!! Here for the Lessons & Blessings 📝❤️

[@lindalovehearts]

Im finna take a course, cse im starting this business, maybe itll help i think it would 🤷‍♀️

[@cortnieb0118]

The punching toward the sky & “Leave my wife alone” bout took me out 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 CRINE

[@Courageous_Motherhood]

Me toooo😭🤣😭🤣😭

[@youmatter2god552]

Hollering😂😂😂

[@mymakersdaughter6041]

All the way out😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😅

[@destinyb90]

😂😂😂

[@unicorn4137]

😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂

[@earthangel8399]

A woman can not be friends with a man whose crushing on her. If this young lady is not interested in this guy romantically she needs to leave him alone. By entertaining him she's giving him false hope....and blocking him from meeting someone who returns his affections. Many times women enjoy the attention of an admirer ...and forget the risks of a one sided relationship. He'll be angry and bitter when he realizes she's wasting his time. Heed Tony's warning.

[@misst72]

Welp. Looks like Tony has once again accurately described all but one of my exes. I dated lil ugly, and got dogged. Man, I was lost and confused as a youth. Thank you, Tony!!!

[@vchild]

Sparks are dangerous. That's a WORD right there, in and of itself.

[@Jess0410]

Thanks Tony for your videos. Your 99% video was the truth. Seeing you so emotional about the love and appreciation for your wife moved me. It validated what I always knew. That black love can be achieved as long as you love your mate right and put God first. God bless you and your wife and family.

[@33watch55]

Girl that video had me too! A few minutes in I tried to comment, but he had turned the comments off! I was ready to shout in the comments section. He really moved me and his passion was clear!

[@DD-mg2se]

The way she came back so comfortable going out with him after ditching him makes me question why would she go out with him now knowing long time she never liked him, what changed now? I would really watch my back in that case. I know he wasn't just waiting for you.

[@eesynopsis7393]

THE HEADPHONES USED AS A PURSE STRAP I LITERALLY DIED 😂😂

[@user-ln6dk9fg1n]

Best relationship coach on the internet. Point blank periyord!

[@beefaye18]

"The whole ghetto in her booty"...... Im dead 😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Lord I need oxygen😂😂😂

[@gabrielagarza5811]

Tony is serious about the queen!!! Praises only ❤️

[@michelletiaraharris]

I'm always leery of sparks because spirits are so real. I have no time for entertaining a devil.

[@itstimefortea4582]

It’s really crazy how Tony is wise beyond his years and can pin point literally everything that goes on in relationships today. But what I love the most is how protective he is of his wife. Lord knows when it become my time I for sure will need a man like that😩🤣

[@cupcakesparkle4335]

I LOVE THE WAY YOU PROTECT YOUR WOMAN!!!

[@jchicas1345]

I love the earphone “purse” 😂😂😂😂

[@shylosymone3714]

💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@AdriannaLegit]

Hey Tony! Congrats on 300K! ⭐️ 🥳 You are seriously out here on the battlefield saving hearts, you’re straight from God. You are leading the genuine-love movement. Thank You x1000! ❤️

[@KellyMonet76]

Thank you for being transparent about your own thought process in regards to your preferences. I was married twice to men that matched preferences that I had at the time and now I'm twice divorced. Now that I am older and wiser, I understand that standards are very, very important and shouldn't be disregarded.

[@33watch55]

Tony, I know that you do not try to be funny. It seems natural for you. But, you have me cracking up! "My wife was looking AT me"! I love it! Blessings for a lifetime of joy and love with your wife and children. I swear - you make me smile every day. Thank you.

[@awesomelyblessed1848]

Make sure its rooted in a pure purpose- Tony Gaskins

[@j-tenn226]

What’s funny is even if I’d watched your videos when I was young I’d probably be too stubborn to listen. Now, almost 30, I am ready to apply what I am learning in Tony’s class.

[@IntricatelyDesignedbyGod]

I Love it!!! Don’t speak on the Queen.... you will get BLOCKED..🤣💕💕💕

[@nonikaallen2030]

"Her booty got the whole ghetto in it"🤣🤣🤣. Tony you a life coach comedian extraordinaire...point blank periodt!😂

[@BreeziDeezi]

Similar situation and after watching this video I know exactly why I never took him serious : he isn’t a man of faith. You can be respectful, dress nice, be educated and generous - but to hate my savior makes you the most unattractive. Oh and about the sparks - I run from those now. Usually related to my trauma . I learned that from coaching. I’m pacing ! 💚

[@krissyhall2838]

Amen sister!!

[@christineporter9914]

Am here ready to learn 🤗 got my notification and click fast. God bless you Bro Tony and your family .

[@carolthomas107]

Tony, I love your advice from the man's point of view! I have been watching a Tony G. marathon for the past week. I had been a subscriber for awhile, but only just now really started listening to you. I said " wow!" This man is the real deal! He knows what he is talking about! Thanks for all you do! BTW, I love hearing you talk about your wife! It is so obvious to everyone how much you respect, love, and cherish her!

[@brittanyb5942]

I always end up getting left by an ugly man after he's got his self esteem built up by me. So from this point forward I will only date a man that I find very attractive so if and when they leave me it will actually make "sense" 🤣🤣

[@noorbokore2802]

Girl, lol!!! Had the experience and SMH like what????!!!!

[@CtianC04]

🤣🤣🤣 it will be easier to take in!

[@godsfavor6939]

Gurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrlllllllll ain’t that somethin?!!!!!!! The nerve of him.

[@alexrocksman]

PREACH!!!! And then you’re left wondering like.... 👀🧐 .

[@Raiinydaylove02]

Gurlll u2 funni..lol

[@victoryahwalker7884]

To Mr. & Mrs. Gaskins, God bless you both.

[@TakishaDanet]

Thank You Tony for guiding us women how to date correctly and look beyond our preferences 💛

[@silentdreams2415]

Mr, Gaskins! I'm ready for class!

[@silentdreams2415]

Mr, Gaskins! Congratulations on 300,000 ! u deserve it! I love ur Channel! Be blessed!

[@charismahouse1039]

Women complain all the time about men stringing them along, please do not do that if you don't want a man to do that to you. (I am not saying that is what she is doing)

[@shylosymone3714]

That's exactly what shes doing

[@vernita0216]

great point... I realized last year I was doing this with a man who was interested in me. I had to call myself out on the table for my bs. Apologize to him, clear the air and move better.

[@cherh]

Congratulations Tony on your 300k subscribers ❕❗❕❗🥳🎊🎉🎊🎉 You are appreciated! 🙏🏾😌

[@Glamrocs]

I was so excited when I saw that. It’s an amazing milestone.

[@cherh]

@@Glamrocs it is! That's amazing!

[@officialwatchamber]

@@Glamrocs yassssssss

[@mymakersdaughter6041]

Absolutely!! Thanking God for blessing this faithful servant!

[@cherh]

@@mymakersdaughter6041 Amen sis!

[@zanastrange1878]

Conversation and personality develop a relationship and Trust. That’s when you begin to feel a connection and “spark”. If you don’t enjoy the conversation and values on a deeper level, no matter HOW nice someone is, that may not be the person for you. Physical features don’t have anything to do with real attraction. Listen to Tony. He is spot on.

[@caramelmosaicmosaic7940]

Absolutely love the way you broke this down. More of us need to hear this .

[@khocolateable]

I used to believe in "sparks", and if I didn't feel a "spark" from a man I was Gone 😂 But now I know they can dangerous 🗣️

[@journeytojourdan]

You literally be having me crying “I’m gonna get me someone fat black & ugly” omgggg 🤣🤣🤣

[@rc6307]

Listened to Tony's entire message, but it can be summed up in 2 points given by Tony. 1. Make a choice based on YOUR decision and be confident in YOUR decision. No regrets, no doubts because God teaches us through experiences and speaks through intuition. 2. A man will "fight" for HIS Queen regardless. True love endures and sees the love. He will respect HER decision, but SHE must communicate to HIM respectively. Truth will understand and move on.

[@thirtymiles6851]

I agree sometimes someone would be very handsome but the mind refuse to overlook their flaws as their flaws scream so loud !!

[@gemmerouge8828]

I needed to hear that part about the “sparks” today. Thank you Tony!

[@grad2479]

Real talk. Not surprised..that's why I took your certification class. But just had to say it and the video isn't even over. 🙂

[@КапитанКопейкин-ф8ю]

24:45 YEP!!! Thank you! 🤣 Can't let nobody dig through your marriage, that's right ! You 2 are blessed, to be a blessing! Forget them "wise all knowing" folks... Thank you for such a ridiculous amount of wisdom! !!

[@giantonamission]

Great revelation here. Sparks are that seductive Jezebel spirit. That explains soooo much. Thanks Tony!

[@joycenash8271]

Well, I was driving back from lunch and listening, Mr. Gaskin was talking about wanting a certain man to validate you. Wanting a man in your preference because of your insecurity to say your beautiful. I had a David and Nathan experience "you the man!" It shot me so tough, I think I hyperventilated in the spirit! But I received it because I told God I was willing to learn in this season and grow.

[@sherrynelson365]

Marry your standards not your preferences

[@KR-XtremeAlchemist]

True to that. The only thing we need to be mindful of about that is that we are magnetic beings who attract according to who we are. When I realized that I decided I don’t want a relationship or to even date until I’m the best me I know I need to be and like I said in a previous comment I made on this video, I’m working on me for me! When I meet anyone, I’m not looking someone to make happy, whole or fulfilled. I got the Lord for that so I bring that with me and in terms of standards they need to be bringing it too and there you have your standards! Yes I need that certification to be a life coach. Sista girl needs that course! I’ll be in touch.

[@Laur_r.]

That’s right, Tony! If you got sparks right off the bat, something’s wrong. Feelings and love take time to develop.

[@breewelch5982]

I'm a woman that's 6'2 & I'm willing to hold these men accountable regardless if he 6ft, my height or taller. I'm believing God to send me a handsome man of God. He is faithful. I done talked to some men that's really good looking/tall (6'2,6'5...) but he a loose booty & rotten on the inside. Allot of women want a tall man so they breaking they necks to serve these men like they a King. Giving them treatment they have not earned (wife benefits), so they choose them over me. I'm not doing that. I know my worth now. At the end of the day I want a man of God that I can look at with the lights on lol.

[@KayBeOnline]

Hey Sis, I don't have nothing to add. Just wanted to tell you that you are so gorgeous! And your skin is flawless in your pic! May God bless you with everything you want in a husband 🤗

[@breewelch5982]

@@KayBeOnline Awww thank you so much! God bless you!

[@KayBeOnline]

@@breewelch5982 you're welcome! Love complimenting my sisters 🥰

[@ms.j.w.4208]

OMG Mr. Tony G u are the best!!! I love listening to you. I'm trying to turn over a new leaf that's going to enhance me overall. AND ...I had to make a conscious decision to leave these grown boys alone once and for all. I'm 46 and I've never seen so many grown boys in my life!! And yes I understand about what you are saying about"preference"... U STILL had me laughing towards the end though.... OMG you're sooo funny but absolutely CORRECT!!🙏😎💯🙏😎💯😂🙏💯

[@Qutypie22]

Yes there are ALOT of these grown men boys out there...broken, lost men

[@Momof7kids]

Hey Tony hey 🙋🏾‍♀️ congratulations on 300k 🎊🎉

[@veelove2226]

What are you really attracted to🤔, bypass the sparks, this is some good info right here! Boah good looking dogs, and bad looking dogs👀, get beyond your preferences! speak on it Tony Gaskins!!!! Blessings to you and the Queen🙏🏾

[@tatianac1992]

My ex-husband did me that way we got married when I was 18 he was 21 we broke up 2 years later 20 years later we got back together. We was together 5 years and he did me wrong I really believe it was a payback

[@tiffanyp.1784]

I see your channel is growing. You are over 300K subscribers! Congrats and thanks for the messages!

[@syoung1564]

LMAO! Sidenote: I love when you read an email and the writer includes lingo/sayings that you use like this young lady who wrote "He was not 'little ugly' or 'looks challenged'." Anyways, be blessed 😆

[@victoriamassie6017]

The way you grabbed your charger to demonstrate a woman leaving is hilarious 🤣 once again on point with your video, I agree, a specific preference will leave you single & alone if you're ready for a relationship. Be Blessed Tony🙏🏽

[@noli4111]

Thanks again Tony. Always hitting it right. Enjoying your videos, your wisdom, each and every time, all the way from The Netherlands, Rotterdam. Blessings Tony.

[@iamcoachcourtney-letstalka4906]

Another awesome message. Huge take away Tony, "stop giving credit where credit is not due", and "stop looking for preferences over standards". My girlfriends are always looking for a man who doesn't exist.

[@ashley_audacious]

Am I the only one that was hollering at the part where he punching the sky saying leave my wife alone 😭😭😂😂😂😂😂

[@WanyReyes]

Preference will keep you SINGLE or UNHAPPY for LIFE!! Tonyyy!! Tell them! 😂😂👌🏽

[@temerawhyte2942]

Thank you Mr Gaskins for your lessons 🙏🏽

[@urbanq432]

Never go back to anyone in your past. If he left you do no go back to him. He hasn't changed from the first time he hurt you. If you left him do not go back to him. He only looking for revenge. He will use that against you and things will just get toxic.

[@dtpbach]

it all depends. I had no sparks with a man and it slowly built up over the year and he was a CHEATER AT THE HIGHEST LEVEL. I have had instant sparks with another and they were fantastic soul mate lover. People need to use their discernment all the time - every day!

[@lneal2800]

Hi! Tony! CONGRATS! ON 300K!🎉 I'm listening!

[@carolynwilliams4926]

Ladies stop playing with these men. Just cause he have money or a nice car.ladies die everyday to grown men that have issues or even lost today. Just let him go if he not your type.

[@love7loyalty-MHA]

March 7th my bday.. Life coach certification will be my bday gift for me

[@michelletiaraharris]

@love7 loyalty my bday is March 16th and I'm gifting myself with the same thing!!!

[@tiarachiffon8131]

Congratulations Tony on 300K!!

[@godsprincess465]

I saw the video you did talking about narcissism. I know a lot of people now days throw that word around like they do the word love. Not all men are narcissists. Ive dated a few and married twice. None have been narcissists except one. He is extreme. Most men are selfish, a lot are childish but a narcissist is trying to gain total control over their spouse, significant other and try to destroy your life. There is a major difference in a narcissist and a selfish person. Narcissism is complete evil; demonic.

[@BrittaniaG]

The sparks part and spirits is the TRUTTTHH!!

[@christnasumpter3619]

💀💀💀💀 “My heart sank” lol I love how dramatic you make things sound at times.

[@godsprincess465]

This video right here makes a lot of sense. Thanks Tony.

[@jovialjae]

Gosh dang, right on time brotha! I refreshed your page to see if you uploaded. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@officialwatchamber]

Amen & Amen 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@Godislove818]

agree ! Those sparks was the Jezebel spirit mistaken for love had to learn the hard. “don’t date fantasy”

[@adventurouspeach9043]

Happy 300k Tony G...God bless you and your family..here to the next 300k🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💛

[@Myareah]

Blessed tribe 🙏🏼

[@dashafenty9969]

He could be your husband or your worse nightmare that's some real shit .

[@annpreacely3256]

Truth, And...sent by the Lord is Mr. Tony Gaskins.

[@Queen_EL11]

Ooooo the U.S. Virgin Islands is my hometown! St. Thomas to be exact! 🇻🇮

[@tmj2016]

Respectfully, I JUST LUV AND RESPECT YOU VERY MUCH. GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY.

[@Legacychaser_777]

Man I appreciate your vids so much! Always 99.9% on point! Them sparks will send you to hell. Trying to defeat them now! Thank you.

[@soulfromgizeh3988]

This time was strong. Please Tony more Videos of this. :) Thank you!

[@cynthiasoka]

Praises for the Queen!! I love her fashion sense, smile and strength 🤩🤩🤩

[@RUNWAYBEAUTY]

My brother TG always dropping gems 💎

[@Mila-md2wx]

Thank you Tony for reducing the price of the life coach certification!! I appreciate you so much bro!! Please keep it up!! 🙏🏾

[@kronos1017]

Mr. Gaskins is so funny and informative!! Keep up the good work sir.😂❤️👍🏾