He Said, She Said

[@mellig6466]

The amount of secondhand embarrassment I felt during this case 🫢😳

[@chrissygoodrich1856]

How did a classic “You are odd sir/ma’am” not make it in here from JM😂

[@Pawsum1tiger]

Man what a ⏹️. This was so embarrassing

[@RLMassey16]

The post scene the was the most cringe 🥴🥴

[@supremeclientele1356]

I was thinking the same thing…like what?! 🥴

[@shannaholmes833]

Right! They slow lol

[@MyGoodenessGracious]

They're both pretty awkard. She's calling him weird but she's odd too.

[@TSR228]

still didn't want him

[@dawniipoo322]

​@@TSR228she made him think she did that man ain't lying

[@urluvizmyluv1999]

Very much so

[@candicelockhart5197]

😅😅😅

[@ryangray9988]

There is a pookie down the street with dread locks and tats with no job 2 babymamas getting all her love 😅

[@LB-mb8vb]

This was a weird case. Sir, she’s not into you at all. Take the hints and move on to someone else who will appreciate you.

[@KayB-l5h]

Exactly. She wanted the wallet but not the man.

[@kimf442]

Right!!!

[@Rg11195]

It was convenient to use him when she needed him but when he reciprocated the energy now he’s weird. Make it make sense.. stop using people cause you don’t know how they will respond

[@NKAB4]

That’s so true bt be wise enough to know when someone is playing you…I’m sure it was some signs there they probably wasn’t even intimate that’s a for sure sign…

[@Rg11195]

@@NKAB4 true but we live in a world where everyone isn’t mentally stable. This guy just happens to be a simp… the next Man or woman may respond worse.

[@MrsClean1]

He seems like a good guy he's just socially awkward

[@theboydoose7047]

That’s why she has kids with no man cause she be picking the wrong men he’s good enough to use but not good enough to date

[@ULTRXBLXCK]

He's a little socially awkward, and it's obvious. But she's a little manipulative and awkward too. I feel bad for both of them. I hope they both find happiness with other people, or together. The real villain here is the mom, trying to pawn her off and basically leading him to believe if he just changed himself, she'd finally like him. I also wouldn't be surprised if the mother had told her something like "let him take care of you," based on the way she was shocked to see her mother's texts. Maybe they should both sue the mom for emotional distress.

[@ddavis8988]

Mom was trying to keep her from being a lonely, butter single mom. She actually tried to do her daughter a favor. Cause there are no top level doors knocking down the faughter's door trying to take care of her.

[@thomashilson4158]

She gets it from her MOM!!!!!

[@ShanaeFlower]

Moral of the story, the Mama is behind this from the get go.

[@dedra744]

He tried to buy her love and affection, it backfired on him and now he’s suing. It’s too many people in the world to be wasting time on one that doesn’t want you

[@ladybugbrack2834]

💯

[@JazzyJeffRealTalk]

This dude was the definition of a Simp. He tried to buy her affection, even though he knew she didn’t like him.

[@marcoman234]

She got pregnant by another dude with no Ring. And was looking for a step Dad to play games with

[@Jsarmy87124]

​@@marcoman234but the ring don't mean a thing

[@ladybugbrack2834]

​@@marcoman234Exactly

[@themadmillionaire]

There is nothing wrong with him, he just needs to be with a woman on his level. Clearly she learned how to use men from her mother and there’s nothing you can do with that. 👩🏿‍⚖️

[@spreadpeacespreadlove6020]

🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@Jsarmy87124]

She look like the cheesecake factory girl on tik tok 😂😂😂😂

[@Jsarmy87124]

The guy have no self esteem though

[@Yourilodl]

Yea my brother is like this n that’s what I be so worried about him he not weird just different

[@opulence_prime]

There is. He felt entitled to a woman who didn’t want him and made it worse trying to buy her affection. Had it been mutual I’d agree it was her or her mom. He doesn’t want a woman on his level, he knows he’s slow and what that looks like in a woman.

[@mulaaworld.hunidz]

The plaintiffs be killing me when they claim the defendants says they will "pay back" on paper evidence then when the Judge reads it or have them read , NO SUCH THING 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@msd4743]

Poor guy. I hope he finds someone who treats him the way he should be treated. Ladies......treat men the way you would want your brother, cousin, father, SON treated. Plain and simple.

[@ShesFromVenus]

“GO HOME ROGER!!🗣️” You got played buddy. 😩🤣🥴

[@NKAB4]

😂😂😂 he most definitely gonna harass her tho…

[@thinkglobalactlocal4898]

not ROGER DODGER,,toooooo funny he do look and act like ROG !! 🤣🤣

[@jqualls7901]

@TootieTootie how come we have to feel sorry for females WHEN THEY GET PLAYED?!! 🤔🤷🏿‍♂️💯💯

[@marcoman234]

By a Single Black Mother like yourself

[@Jsarmy87124]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@tom11zz884]

She got the nerve to call him weird when she's a weirdo herself. They are made for one another..lol

[@TUUHH..]

😂😂😂😂😂 YUP

[@Jmarie0134]

Exactly 😂😂😂😂

[@ggboot1]

He's too good for her.

[@leonardjones9110]

I feel sorry for the dude. He tried but he doesn't deserve anything back. Poor guy. He is going to get used quite a bit. He seems like a trick

[@MrLenroc82]

Dont feel sorry for him....very condescending and arrogant fella

[@ronniemushiwokufa2508]

Judge Mathis can easily change his career from being a judge to be the best stand-up comedian.

[@kimf442]

Right 😂😂😂

[@mulaaworld.hunidz]

I agree 😆

[@Jsarmy87124]

Hell to the noo he can act properly watch is new show

[@karenoconnor4180]

He’s not funny

[@mulaaworld.hunidz]

@@Jsarmy87124 The older he get the grumpy lol

[@royaldavis640]

She played him all the way to the end😂😂😂😂 Even with the cold handshake

[@karendorsey4780]

The defendant used the plaintiff! She knew he liked her! The plaintiff needs to find a woman who appreciates him!

[@sheliapea1387]

Yes..the right one makes all the difference. Blessing to him Lord his mate according to your will.

[@yvettefrancois8192]

She used him!

[@wearenottogetheranymore2658]

Please stop!! 😂😂😂 he’s a weirdo tf

[@wearenottogetheranymore2658]

@@yvettefrancois8192no she didn’t did you watch the case

[@rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324]

This young man went to serve his country and returned to find out the 18 year old girl had children and then her mom tried to rescue her from a toxic relationship with baby daddy and tried to get him hooked up with her....this girl passed up a real good guy and I do believe at 15 she rubbed up against him and her grandad put her in her place...I hope they both learned a lesson.

[@mirarose1830]

Facts!!!!

[@yung1717]

Why does she have to like him just cause he’s a soldier? I hope they’ve learned something too but they’re not meant to be

[@haywardsmartin1923]

She was definitely flirting at 15 if she a baby mama at 18

[@wearenottogetheranymore2658]

Girl bye u just as weird as him😂 gtfoh she ain’t gotta like that creep

[@13outsidecenter13]

@@haywardsmartin1923 multiple kids at 18

[@sheldoncole7276]

"Nice to meet you sir" 😂😂😂😂

[@jimmcdonald9490]

Omg he gon need therapy after that part lol

[@Chavon2012]

Right why she do him like that 😂

[@jimmcdonald9490]

@@Chavon2012 cuz that’s what y’all do lol

[@TheeMichellesMind]

Lawdddd I was so embarrassed for him! Bruhhh 😩

[@lovethisdarkskin2172]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@hoodsupastar864]

Bless his Heart!

[@yungReparations]

😂😂😂

[@theresadrakeford1921]

😅😂😅

[@ThatSureAintNormal]

What a strange situation, by two awkward individuals 😀

[@Maulleygxxx]

You can’t be a square and a simp at the same time bruh🤦🏾‍♂️

[@VerselliSays]

Yes you can

[@_MoneyMike_]

What? Who you think be simping? Squares!!!

[@queeenhoneyb]

that’s the whole point

[@Maulleygxxx]

@@queeenhoneyb Nah, squares pay and know what it is. Simps really be in love.

[@badseedent4827]

She most definitely was flirting he came back she had kid(s) 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@God-Love-Freedom]

She wasn’t flirting. She made it clear she didn’t like him like that. He probably thought what many men in the “culture” believe: that a woman indefinitely ruined by sx and blk children should be desperate enough to accept any man that shows any awkward interest in her.

[@norahramz]

The plaintiff reminded me of Dave Chapelle when he yelled “Nice to meet me?!!?” 😂😂😂😂😂

[@garyyarbough6597]

Urkel should have not brought this case to court! as he says did I do that!

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

I Agree

[@JM_HUh]

He’s weird af… how u start off saying u love & care about her dearly then proceed to try to convince the judge “he was never really into her like that”? Thennn saying a 14 year old had a crush on u is cringey af & never should have left his mouth 🤢

[@saturnladee110]

that is my issue with the whole case. Why would he even agree to date his friend's little sister. The family was just ok with that?

[@JM_HUh]

@@saturnladee110 that’s what I was thinking too! Bcuz my family would never in a million years allow anything like that

[@tiabia111]

Exactly ! And it’s so many comments saying they feel sorry for him he’s such a nice guy she just used him blah blah . He’s GROWN been grown since she was a 14 year old “making moves at him” which he never stated he stopped or felt uncomfortable by . Then to say the mom asked you to date her and you just agreed to agree , THEN goes to say he gives the mom money too ! She cooks for him do things for him like this whole thing was weird he saw he could get her through her mom with money and they saw they could use him for his money I’m disgusted with him and the mom the most !

[@JM_HUh]

@@tiabia111 🎯 bcuz first of all what mother would even try to set their daughter up with a man that was grown while she was a teen?! Stuff like this is exactly why those parents involved with the R.Kelly nastiness should be in jail too! It should be an actual crime to sell your child off for money or opportunities smh

[@God-Love-Freedom]

It’s obvious she seems him as predatory and cringy. But in our “culture”, the man is always coddled and the victim even though he’s the one pursuing a child trying to finesse and seduce her.

[@tishmonikemassey3781]

Somebody please save this young man...He need some serious help before he gets played for more than just a few dollars.

[@keera2487]

No worries! I'm looking for him right now.. he's about to come up off of some more 🍞

[@mikeprice8307]

​@@keera2487what you sell pus?

[@sdot.1701]

@@mikeprice8307 🤣🤣🤣

[@charannaneal3042]

​@@sdot.1701CRINE I CAN EVEN!

[@colletteee]

@@keera2487lmfaoooo

[@wellthatsinteresting1]

This was probably the weirdest judge Mathis case I've seen; Especially the ending

[@jimmcdonald9490]

Lol wat part ? The ruling or the post case hug refusal 😂

[@nickib9463]

@@jimmcdonald9490 definitely the hug refusal 😂😂😂😅

[@chocolatecoils4205]

😁THEY ACTUALLY MAKE A PERFECT COUPLE KIND OF SOCIALLY AWKWARD AND WARPED VISION OF THE WORLD

[@ObeyJae]

All I gotta say is .. if you didn’t want me b4 you had kids, hold that same flame after you have kids💯

[@LeshaFBaby]

​@@ObeyJae😂😂

[@ObeyJae]

@@LeshaFBaby rt.. i feel for buddy, but I’m not simping over no female that’s doin worse than me.

[@MrLenroc82]

The end was crazy 😂😂😂😂😂

[@egotistical83]

I'm still over here cackling about it. Lmfao 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@MrLenroc82]

@@egotistical83 there was an awkward silence in my home at first.....I mean its just me and my cat but still 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@BiancaJBaskins]

😂😂😂😂

[@knightclassic1]

He was just trying to please people, he must have been picked on by other blacks at his childhood. This ratchet chick wants another THUG, not him. She'll be lonely for the rest of her life

[@LoisBrooksHarris]

My husband treated me like that when we met. My SNL told me that I would be meeting him before we met. He's pretty much like this guy, but I fell for him hard and we've been together for almost 17 years, married 10. If he wasn't so anxious, ignored her a bit, he would win her because I believe she will regret it as she ages. Her cousin may be the bride..

[@Yayoluvzu]

💙💙💙 I love this

[@joecastle9993]

"Hug?"..... Years and years from now, that will still be haunting him

[@amayamattis4205]

Lmao this case was ….. DIFFERENT!! 😂😂😂

[@mrsgaines2231]

How is the ending even weirder 😅😅😅

[@tebonytorain4794]

This is an example of a good guy who, if he does not get a woman who does not take advantage of him, will allow hurt, offense, and bitterness cause him to treat women differently. Also, this is why SOME women wonder "Where did all the good guys go?" ALTHOUGH HE WAS NOT PERFECT in this case ( and has things he needs to work on), he seems to be a good guy that needs a woman who will compliment him.

[@starrjohnson1327]

The mom set him up. He looked at the mom as his mother. Shame on her!

[@islandgirlruby2750]

Dude sues because he got his little heart broken

[@God-Love-Freedom]

Broken ego, not heart.

[@eniyyah]

The nice to meet you at the end TOOK ME OUT!!!! She is funny man. She don’t want you sir move on! 😂

[@helgapataki4156]

"My love don't cost a thing" 🤣 The WHOLE Family was in on it 🤣

[@WithBrit]

“You tricking with this woman sir!” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ericadixon1471]

Technically was whooping her ass

[@ThatSureAintNormal]

😂😂😂

[@asiaanderson5556]

Omg I was sooo embarrassed

[@crystleshea883]

And This is the comment I was looking for 😂

[@nuimproves6906]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@TheeMichellesMind]

Yessss!!! 😂😂😂 I was like ma’am just STOP 🛑 it right now!!!

[@Nekoblack352]

Buddy is a lil weird

[@nicquema]

Yea I came to say the same thing

[@CEOcean]

very**

[@bresymone8761]

Whew 😮 I’ve never said this about a case, but im so glad it’s over with. This was…. Weird 😵‍💫🥴

[@mongrelgtv]

Captain save a garden tool

[@ObeyJae]

1. If you didn’t want me b4 you had kids.. hold that same flame🔥after you have kids. 2. I’m not simping over no girl that’s doing worse than me.

[@God-Love-Freedom]

I’m glad she didn’t want him before and after her children. He was banking on her low self esteem, because our “culture” teaches this.

[@bp900]

I never know what is gonna set JM off

[@chancest.thomas5160]

Breathin' Blinkin' Smilin'

[@MortalKowboy]

It's those certain tones in his voice 😂

[@cebronettethomas3674]

The ending nice to meet you sir lol!!!

[@gabrielleashley8939]

Lmao "nice to meet me!? "

[@07labelle]

I embarrassed for both of them 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@ELBONYBEAUTY27]

Not only is she funny looking, she looks sneaky and conniving.

[@Sheherhis]

She's not funny looking I think she has beautiful nice glow to her face and skin.

[@AgingLikeWine]

He’s corny. He needs to get with the yt woman he’s destined to be with 😂

[@TSR228]

you sound bitter. I bet you see a lot of yourself in dude.

[@ShyannJohnson-ml5ce]

@@AgingLikeWineshe lying like a mf, used dude for his money then gets more money out of him, sad asf

[@CamaryMurray]

She just needs a food diet

[@misterbee66]

Even if her mother did ask him her mother would be liable.

[@God-Love-Freedom]

How?

[@badseedent4827]

Never ever ever sue a female in judge sassy presence...

[@danib8669]

Heavy on the sassy part 😂😂😂

[@emulaplayz6818]

Y’all just want him to win because he’s a man y’all the sassy 💁‍♂️ ones 😂😂😂

[@TSR228]

what did she owe him? you sound bitter af

[@badseedent4827]

Misandry alert 🚨

[@badseedent4827]

@@danib8669 big facts

[@jughead156]

Why bring her to court if you know she doesn’t have any money?

[@RocketSpam0]

I just love The most Honorable Judge Mathis. Great sense of humor ( no I do not have a case pending 😂) and yet professional. God bless you Sir. Comedy & Class

[@Jsarmy87124]

Watch his new show and we can talk about comedy and class 😂😂😂😂

[@RocketSpam0]

@@Jsarmy87124 I only have local on the air..(re runs).why whats up?

[@AgingLikeWine]

He’s weird like she said. And he’s corny. But she is too 😂

[@iSing757]

He be saying crackhead left and right but won’t say hoe…come on Judge 😂

[@JM_HUh]

I’m hollering 😭😭😭 he wanted to say captain save a hoe SO bad lmao

[@veeee3247]

Who’s a Ho here?

[@TheeMichellesMind]

😆😆🤣

[@RaqiIsrael]

Right !!

[@virgo_hershey_kisses2990]

Lmao!! Not her mother texting him 😂

[@spreadpeacespreadlove6020]

She was using that man cause she knew she could

[@glowwithmebri]

nice to meet you sir is crazyyyy lol

[@jenniferconley1192]

She better cut the ties. It can be dangerous dealing with someone who you don't like the same way they like you. She said nice to meet you sir 🤣🤣🤣

[@diofiglio1]

From Yu-Gi O cards......I got chills at how embarrassing this was.........

[@KPbouj]

Yeah I couldn’t watch the cringe fest after that comment 😬the defendant was in the comment section earlier. I just came back to try and watch again.

[@topnotch3112]

Bruh she told you she didn’t won’t you🙄

[@neededtobesaid4275]

She used the "weird guy" that liked her after her baby daddies did help her out! SMDH. Hopefully, he'll find someone who is in to him & not just what he can provide for her.

[@God-Love-Freedom]

Hopefully it will be a woman in his age group and not another child.

[@cjohns1005]

I used to be him. Now im told im heartless and cold. Checkmate

[@God-Love-Freedom]

You used to be a man who liked a 14 year old girl?

[@Itzmizzypooh]

That's too bad you let your experiences change you in that way...

[@God-Love-Freedom]

There are two types of people in this world. 1. Those who had bad experiences with others and still treat people with respect. 2. Those who had bad experiences with others and choose to treat people badly.

[@loveification1]

They so weird 😂 idk how he thought he was gon sue for some birthday money back

[@liberiarose6565]

He is a creep

[@sheldoncole7276]

He seem like one but that's a mean thing to say

[@sheldoncole7276]

I got to admit he is corny and weird but none of us are perfect

[@prettyroses4742]

They both seem slow af, this case irritated tf outta me.

[@quedugar408]

She lost a good man and she's going to wish for someone like him in the future.

[@meghanwilliams4295]

Captain Save A.........😂😂😂

[@icetrain11]

I hope he got a good job because he gone be paying for 🐱 the rest of his life.

[@EnemyMarcus]

JM straight simping again, but to be honest this is a very odd case 😂 dude why?? Lol you're definitely trickin 😂😂

[@etiquetteplaya]

She dropped on him with the "nice to meet you " at the end 😂😂😂

[@kimberlyhampton5332]

She was making it clear there were no feelings for him. He should thank her and run.

[@generationalcursebreaker5397]

Lol when he said he cared about the defendant she turned her head like 😂😂😂

[@isiahwarner3087]

13:18.........The moment when Laura Winslow and Steve Urkel first meet!! This was truly a weird court case. ⚖️

[@lafiosamusic5531]

He reminds me of Damon Wayne when he played blankman! 😂😂😂

[@1SummerSpeaks]

He tried to buy her love and it failed miserable like always. He's weird AF. And he would have to stay away from me.😂

[@cjohns1005]

Before or after you use him like she did?

[@1SummerSpeaks]

@@cjohns1005 I wouldn't use anybody.

[@wearenottogetheranymore2658]

@@cjohns1005after

[@arananation]

0:42 she gave a look that says the care isn’t mutual 😂

[@showienelson9163]

Nice to meet you SIR’ IS WILD” 🤣😂

[@ashliebrown1909]

Buddy gotta take that L , lol

[@sabrinamitchell2974]

He's A Good Guy, He Basically Got Played And He's Actually Not Street Smart AT ALL. HE'S A SQUARE AND KINDA WEIRD ACTING. PERIOD. 🙄

[@yolandahall2615]

She played him and he fell for it. Boy bye! Go get yourself a grown woman.

[@cgogetit]

He reminds me of a grown up Jordan from Berine Mac!!!😂❤

[@amybrooks2604]

He might be low-key crazy. It’s something off about the plaintiff for sure.

[@KayB-l5h]

When he said he cared about her and she made a face like she was thinking he delusional I already knew they were about to tear him to shreds. The mama was trying to get her a good man but she wants a man she probably has to take care of. He is as naive as a 10yr old. He was trying to buy a girlfriend and she led him on knowing she didn't want him she wanted what he could do for her. Both seem a little dense tho. No shade.

[@nowyukno7981]

Lol shady 😎 🕶️

[@God-Love-Freedom]

She was the child when they met. He was a grown man. He’s been in the military. He’s not naive. He was trying to buy a young girlfriend who he thought was “tainted” enough to accept him. She let him and everyone in her family know since childhood that she didn’t like him romantically. Like Judge said, he was playing trick games on her. I’m glad she has just enough self esteem not to fall for him.

[@missmandy2049]

@@God-Love-Freedomthey were both children when they met. Where are you hearing that he was an adult when they met? From what I understood it he is like 2 years older than her. Am I not hearing something correctly?

[@VerselliSays]

He said “love you long time” 😂😂😂😂

[@nettejones8276]

Reality and the plaintiff need to be introduced. He is definitely living in his own world. Poor baby

[@fwb1012]

Oof he’s gonna be a problem for her if he doesn’t get his own wife or girlfriend 🥴

[@Jben73]

My man got finessed dang smh

[@kimberlywilson7453]

She was a user periodt

[@Nursecarter115]

9:00 the faces and silence when he asked them questions 😂🤦🏾‍♂️

[@CEOgpoole87]

They both weirdos 😂😂😂

[@generationalcursebreaker5397]

He really thinks he’s part of the family 😂

[@raynecarter7200]

She’s right he is weird AF‼️🤣🤣

[@101KANDYCANE]

He wired as hell

[@virginiapurvis3917]

He’s bat shhhhiiiittttt crazy

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

I Agree 😳

[@sheldoncole7276]

Yes he is 😂😂😂😂

[@yannabon3273]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@DarlinReal]

Weird is an understatement! He should have let her mother sponsor what she expected of him. "Hug?" Hahaha.

[@choolwehakamangwe8833]

Were they ever intimate 🤔..i applaud him for being a virgin at 23. He needs to find something else to do.

[@metalface7283]

He's a socially awkward weirdo. We might see Doyle arrest this guy on the news

[@baldheadronbhr76]

He’s too old to be getting simped by her young ass. He is very odd! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@locafly]

“Nice to meet you??!!!” 😹😹😹😹

[@mauriciowilson42]

Dude took a hold hour to tell him what’s going on