Living with ‘Kathy Bates’

[@TalkswithMellow]

When she appeared on Judge Judy my heart literally broke for her. It appears she hasn’t recovered from the loss of her child. Which is understandable. I pray she finds solace.

[@lilyi7732]

Omg I want to see that episode. Losing a child must be the most unbearable pain to ever overcome!

[@gwentinaingram8570]

😅

[@helena3631]

Oh no

[@daniellereid7576]

Yea she will forever be hurt of loosing a kid

[@Proverbspsalms]

@@gwentinaingram8570🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@Nevaeh1]

She does seem miserable to live with

[@brionem88]

Exhausting

[@vivianpullen4936]

Right!

[@jenniferhiggins227]

Which one​@@brionem88

[@Headnotthetail2]

Mental illness.I pray she is able to live on her own.

[@kizzyrock]

To all my fellow empaths...please pray for discernment because our empathetic hearts usually ends up with this type of mess.....helping ungrateful people...

[@sereneamani1713]

But, IMO, the plaintiff has mental health issues, more so than being ungrateful. I am empathic with my clients (mental health & substance abuse), but I would not do so in my home because that represents my peace.

[@kizzyrock]

@sereneamani1713 I understand your point, and I don't disagree . My point is, as empaths, we usually want to help everyone, mental health or not. Sometimes, we must think from a logical rather than emotional stance.

[@kizzyrock]

Ironically, I just made a video on this topic today. It's time for empaths to invest in SELF.

[@sparkle.a2665]

Hmmm this is so true I am currently dealing with someone I let in my home and they are extremely ungrateful and disrespectful never again would I allow someone in my home,because I felt sorry for them. Lesson learned 😔😔

[@kizzyrock]

@sparkle.a2665 I totally understand!! It's a beautiful gift but we must use it accordingly. Sadly, we are rare. Most people are takers, and we are the complete opposite. The funny thing is , we are always blessed because of our hearts and the takers stay down on their face...Hence the reason they have to always come to us. Don't change your heart... just discern who you give it to ❤️

[@Uhh-No-Comment]

I constantly wonder why people agree to appear on national television and voluntarily embarrass them selves!

[@sereneamani1713]

It is the times we live in.

[@mmmfun77]

Money

[@kattiethomas4687]

What a mess!

[@jearl3054]

Sometimes it’s their last resort.

[@mitzimitchell6813]

5 minutes of fame.

[@ramiyna]

3:35 the minute she started with “I was forced to be homeless” , I knew she was going to be unreasonable. 😒

[@wearenottogetheranymore2658]

Exactly Tf I’m tired of ppl and the fake excuses

[@BritDavid]

Lmao i was forced to be homeless once upon a time! I damn sure didn't stay homeless. 7yrs is crazy, unless your an addict or suffer from mental health and cant help yourself.

[@NKAB4]

When she raised up on her tiptoe’s with the finger point…I knew she was gone be a trip…

[@daniellereid7576]

Ryte how u was forced I heard I was unable to keep this or that up due to this or that

[@serenityfranklin7943]

the buffet correction took me out 🤣

[@jstew1990]

I’m glad the judge finally saw the plaintiff for who she was. RIP to her daughter tho.

[@khard9000]

He knew she was crazy from the beginning 🤔🤦🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤣🤣🤣

[@jstew1990]

@@khard9000 😂😂😂

[@malibug9889]

The defendant was too hype for me I was waiting for Judge Mathis to tell her to be quiet 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@sundaymiles8856]

The way the defendant ate the plaintiff up throughout the case and when she said if you ever see this face to run the other way I couldnt take no more. 😅🤣😂

[@cynthiavaldez7127]

The worst thing you can do is help someone THAT much in need. The minute they start crying, walk away! It's only downhill from there. Trust and believe.

[@ebonyqueen3699]

This case was so funny 🤣 I’m happy JM didn’t get mad when the defendant kept interrupting because each time she had me rolling!!

[@kizzyrock]

I thought he was going to dismiss her. ...im glad he didn't ... I was sitting on the edge of my seat 😂

[@malikahharris8810]

I laughed so hard I watched this three times 😂😂😂😂

[@kimf442]

@@malikahharris8810lol it was funny 😂😂😂

[@lavidaloca2344]

The defendant was so over it 😂😂😂

[@hellochely687]

🤣 yesss these are the spoilers I appreciate!!! Let me watch lol

[@nboy24]

Personally, I believe that the loss of her daughter, and the trauma behind that caused her to have a battle with her mental health which caused her to become homeless.

[@daniellereid7576]

Could be I feel she will forever grieve she hurting u can tell in her tone she forever be hurt but if she acted a way it’s no way to act that way when loosing someone to be a asshole

[@nboy24]

@@daniellereid7576 I believe everyone grieves differently, but your statement is definitely true.

[@Iwas_MsBly]

She’s a scammer!! No way you live in a car for 7 years and can eat at the casino Buffett and look that together! She wanted a free trip and hotel stay!

[@opulence_prime]

If you spend enough time and money at a casino they comp rooms and meals. So it’s possible. It’s a sad life but it’s a reality for a lot of ppl.

[@Iwas_MsBly]

@@opulence_prime I know this!! I get comp rooms, meals and shows. However you have to spend money to get comped. So yeah she’s a scammer.

[@helena3631]

U would be shocked how u can live unhoused

[@cushe83]

No you can, homelessness is a lifestyle. Some people think homeless people are destitute drug addicted bums but if you live in major cities you know there’sa culture of people who have whole lifestyles living out of their cars in expensive areas just getting by using money for whatever they want instead of necessities like rent

[@Succeedin2]

That shows you are ignorant to the subject of homelessness. Try volunteering for an organization, and catch up. Casino’s are free and who is to say she was not invited by a friend? Showing up put together just shows the respect she has for herself. A colleague of mine’s testimony was she lived in her car for a couple of years. She became a successful. People don’t always look like what they are going through.

[@adrianknight1406]

It's hard to live with anyone nowadays. Serious talk! Folks just got too many problems and issues personally to be living with someone else with their own set of problems. Life's too short to be dealing with anyone else's issues. Got enough of my own

[@sereneamani1713]

Your last sentence was possibly the realest comment I've ever heard from you.

[@dawniipoo322]

This is exactly why I will live in a studio before getting a roommate,I dnt even want a relationship 😂

[@linettesterling4683]

😂👌🏾

[@Brandiflu_]

Nah the plaintiff is a problem. From how she came in with that “pity” story and how her true character slowly came out. Yes she not all the way right. Unfortunately we hear the defendant more but the plaintiff is who needs to be watched.

[@sereneamani1713]

The story was pretty pitiful and tragic. It was her mental health issues that came out.

[@suhooo]

@@sereneamani1713mental illness & being a shltty person are not mutually exclusive. Stop excusing victimizers.

[@sereneamani1713]

@@suhooo Can't stop what I'm not doing. The way your mind works is driving you to think that I am excusing victimizers.

[@shalanathomas7751]

Exactly

[@SamuelsReview]

The way Judge Mathis said "a girdle!" 😂😂😂

[@hellochely687]

lol and her head bopping response 🤣 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@KayB-l5h]

The courtroom is a circus and the litigants are the clowns 😫

[@ieshaanderson1317]

Hahaha

[@michellegeorge6628]

I hate she lost her daughter but she's a piece of work

[@PositivitySpeaks101]

Yes she is!!

[@okeon1993]

This is why mental hospitals needs to be a thing again this lady needs help along with lots of other people in America and I mean a lot 😅

[@vivianpullen4936]

Exactly

[@sereneamani1713]

Without reading comments (to avoid being prejudiced), it was obvious to me that the plaintiff has mental health issues based on the trauma related to her daughter's death and her ongoing conversation and behaviors. However, the defendant is a mess.

[@joh.n]

I was thinking that, the voice over said she lived with the defendent but the first words out the plaintiffs mouth were about the tragedy, and I don't think I'd be able to live with someone after that..

[@sereneamani1713]

@@joh.n Are you tying the defendant to the original tragedy? I'm just a little confused.

[@joh.n]

​@@sereneamani1713 yes, when she said she was sued for the vehicle on judge Judy by the defendent (right?)

[@Reigntaylor333]

⁠​⁠@@joh.nno she said she was on judge Judy being sued on judge Judy for the vehicle her daughter passed away in. There was a lady who let her daughter drive her car while in her care (not the defendant) and the daughter recked the car and died. The woman then sued for the car damages. It takes two clicks to research on Beyoncé’s internet before we speak and make careless judgements on people’s tragedy and trauma. 🚮

[@Reigntaylor333]

And when they give the background, they clearly explain that they did not know each other prior to living together. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@amayamattis4205]

The plaintiff def takes psych meds 💀💀💀 the way she turn that laugh on and off

[@sereneamani1713]

Or needs to.

[@zinziwilliams105]

Both ladies are unhinged

[@sereneamani1713]

The plaintiff, yes mentally. The defendant (like JM alluded to) just mean or worn out and unsympathetic.

[@DyanaB]

Dead set on that Kathy Bates 😂😂😂

[@roclee8138]

"Not just the casino, the buffet at the casino" So wtf you live at the buffet ???😂😂😂

[@de2296]

😂😂😂😂

[@im_chantell]

We can all agree that the defendant was loud and ridiculous from the jump BUT the plaintiff is something else entirely! She just went from a boohoo/pity party to getting spicier and louder as the case went on. 🙄 Seems like this living arrangement was a disaster from the jump.

[@kizzyrock]

Facts! This is the kind of person who takes advantage of people with big hearts. Smh

[@Orlandoloc83]

Defendant sound like Monique when she was a big girl lol😊

[@ieshaanderson1317]

@@Orlandoloc83 hahaha

[@terrencenelson176]

I NEEDED THIS LAUGH!!😂😂😂

[@Ziamondthegreat]

Her saying she suing bc “ I didn’t need a tv before I moved in” sent me to hell

[@shebasanon4936]

I’m at work at my desk ctfu!!!!!! This case was hilarious!!! The plaintiff is a lil cra cra

[@jacobestevez7570]

... a girdle ... Doyle's expression had me rolling ...

[@Happey67]

You cannot feel sorry for people, they are evil as their situations.

[@sofantastic35]

Notice how the plaintiffs voice changes from when she talks to JM? Oh she’s crazy alright!😂

[@gt43025]

I would’ve Neva rented from the defendant in the first place. She looks like drama 🎭 😅

[@AddLoveTM126]

Ohhhh Thank You for the 👏🏼👏🏼😂😂😂😭🤣🤣At the End Defendant said, "I want You to know; when You See THAT FACE, RUN!!🤣😂😂😂

[@babygroot81]

I remember her case on judge judy. Judge ate that woman up for trying to sue for that car. She gave her son the keys and gave them permission to drive

[@sereneamani1713]

Did she seem emotionally unstable on Judge Judy (who, IMO, is the opposite of empathetic)?

[@TalkswithMellow]

@@sereneamani1713She had just buried her daughter, of course she was emotional. The plaintiff and judge Judy did majority of the talking as she sobbed.

[@Nevaeh1]

I need to find that episode

[@opulence_prime]

@@TalkswithMellowi believe it. I’ve noticed that if JJ thinks you’re guilty the other litigant doesn’t do any talking.

[@ieshaanderson1317]

I wonder why the plaintiff doesn't have her own place 🤔

[@jennevamadison3803]

She said she was evicted.

[@sereneamani1713]

It seems obvious to me. She has deep issues. Possibly or at least partially related to the tragic death of her daughter.

[@suhooo]

Because no one is giving her one for free at the moment.

[@ieshaanderson1317]

@@jennevamadison3803 I know that but that was several, several years ago 🤷

[@ieshaanderson1317]

@@sereneamani1713 possibly but she will be the only one who knows why.

[@NKAB4]

A lady at the casino She lost all of her money She said don't feel sorry for me no Don't feel sorry honey But if you want to do a lady a favor Here's what I want you to do Just loan me two dollars Until the next time I see you ~johnnie taylor~…I’m sorry when she said that the song popped up in my head 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️…

[@crystalshanks2867]

😂😂😂😂😂but these last two dollars /I’m not gon lose 1 for the bus fare and the other to hear me some down home blues

[@YACKYSNACKY]

​@@crystalshanks2867Thank you, I was trying to figure out the song. Thought it was ZZHill. DOWN HOME BLUES???

[@sereneamani1713]

💯♥ the BLUES

[@KPbouj]

@@crystalshanks2867Ayyyyy that’s the part I remember my grandma playing when I was little 🎶

[@Lynntheintuitive]

That's an expensive ass girdle lol

[@folaringal]

1:56 Doyles laugh 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@BritDavid]

I love it he so silly you can always hear his laugh 😂

[@mmmfun77]

Um...maybe the Plaintiff should remain homeless. She's been doing well in her vehicle thus far being in the casino like she was. Thought she would be dismissed

[@melyndaduh3501]

I love 💕 the plaintiffs hair. The defendents braids are pretty. 💕

[@misslisa6675]

Whoever put those two hideous gold braids in the defendants hair needs to be charged with a felony

[@225gifted_friend6]

😂😂😂😂

[@ProfessorBae08]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 what about a misdemeanor not a whole felony 😂😂😂😂

[@LuckysPoeticJustice]

7:32 how i laughed at your comment! 😂😂😂😂 HILARIOUS!

[@ambzcloud]

I can't believe people let strangers move into their houses. How unsurprising that she's crazy. Defendant is lucky she wasn't a serial killer.

[@grizzakaduke2331]

When your two unhinged aunties goes at it at the family function. Take away their cups

[@wordplay6665]

I see judge didn’t call her for purposely calling the police routinely. It’s sad the loss of her daughter, but it cannot excuse her behavior

[@nycmamii]

I’m not gonna lie… I was like … “girl 🙄” to the plaintiff before the defendant even called her out for her antics lmao. It was too much from the jump.

[@jays.5978]

Why does the defendant have funeral home makeup on? 😂😅

[@ieshaanderson1317]

Hahaha

[@Crystal-Love]

👀

[@de2296]

😂😂😂

[@hawihawi9260]

Coz she is dead serious about her innocence lol

[@ieshaanderson1317]

@@hawihawi9260 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@suhooo]

This Kathy Bates lady is an absolute manipulator. Everyone loses a close loved one at some point unless we die before they do. But she uses it as an excuse decade’s afterwards to sponge off others. Many people have trauma & loss. Some of us have too much respect for others to become a parasite.

[@sanogene5698]

I seen it when she started crying then moved to eye rolling.

[@asiaanderson5556]

Wow. I just watched the episode of the plaintiff on judge judy, it's beyond heartbreaking. The lady that attempted to sue her on judge Judy is a demon

[@everythingOKforever]

can you link it please?

[@sabrinasamilpa9380]

I remember that episode, will never forgot it 😢ridiculous!

[@NYRealtorLovitt]

What is the name of the episode?

[@QueenOfTheDepraved]

@@everythingOKforever kzbin.info/www/bejne/gKWofJt6g9d8pLsfeature=shared

[@QueenOfTheDepraved]

@@NYRealtorLovitt kzbin.info/www/bejne/gKWofJt6g9d8pLsfeature=shared

[@KiraAntoinette]

The plaintiff definitely seems a little coocoo for Coco puffs

[@msholliday3935]

They need to spread the medication out more evenly between the two of them.

[@panchris00]

"THAT'S JUDGE MATHIS... YOU ON JUDGE MATHIS"‼️🤣🤣🤣

[@TOOTIELUV87]

7:36 how JM was looking at the plaintiff. 😂😂😂😂😂

[@jenniferhiggins227]

My mother lost a child my sister my mother know what this poor women going through my only sibling died at 31 in 2018

[@JenelleScanterbury]

Oh yea hear Doyle in the background laughing 😂 he has me weak yes 🤣🤣

[@Mirarashi]

This is legit new-age “Grey Gardens”

[@traceeshannon]

Doyle know he be cracking up!!!😂😂😂😊

[@jamescooper7318]

The defendant reminds me of the comedian Monique, lol

[@Ravenwind999]

Yes!

[@Ravenwind999]

I thought that too! Has the same voice as her as well.....

[@brenttucker3933]

Did y’all hear that “OMG” ad lib at 7:56. I think it was an audience member😆

[@shoogasweet5847]

The defendant clearly said that...

[@jennevamadison3803]

If you watch if the defendant says it. You can see her mouth moving.

[@lynetteblackwell9827]

I had to watch this twice… tooooo funny 🤣🤣🤣

[@infiniteblayze]

Not the TV 😂😂😂

[@Dayoungrockstarjay]

That min JM knew she was a lil off, had me rolling

[@fundifferent1]

It's not funny because you know something is a bit off with the plaintiff but the way the Defendant explained it 😭😭🤣🤣

[@Zenobiadream]

Omg I’m dying “Kathy Bates from misery”

[@PCross38115]

The Plaintiff does kinda look like a black Kathi Bates 😂😂😂

[@ieshaanderson1317]

Hahaha

[@lashawnw3870]

Madea character 😂

[@jamescooper7318]

Exact same thing I was thinking when I saw her...

[@nycmamii]

7:32 DEADDDDD at JM’s reaction lmao

[@Headnotthetail2]

Looking like madea 🤣

[@vanessacampbell7110]

THE PLANTIFF DOES REMIND ME OF KATY BATES THE FACE AND HAIR AND THE VOICE ! 😮

[@edithr08]

“Thank you, my friend” lmao

[@DaughterLayLay]

Judge Mathis face when she did that laughed I was on the floor😂

[@rondaallen7211]

greg mathis was in his element with these two!

[@coreywest9155]

Why when I first clicked on here she looked like “MADEA

[@ravenjarrell4386]

She called her Kathy Bates 🤣🤣

[@quadera]

The defendant @5:40 & Judge Mathis' face at 7:37 🤣😂😂😂🤭

[@Headnotthetail2]

The white gurl in the back chest bouncing from laughing 😂

[@jabulanimadlingoziblondes981]

This was funny as shit. But the plaintiff must get an acting role. She is lovely maybe not completely well but lovely. I like the defendant too.

[@jillcabler2186]

Whew Chi Cathy Bates Dho Chi eye was crying lmao 😂

[@j.g.3719]

This was hilarious! Funniest case I've seen in a while

[@KayB-l5h]

@7:32 I understood everything 😳

[@DC45193]

😂😂😂😂so true...mental health is real

[@sereneamani1713]

Did anyone find the Judge Judy clip? I didn't, but I did find a Daily Star newspaper article about it. Very tragic.

[@sabfit1520]

I saw it before but can't find the whole clip

[@adriennelockhart5381]

I remember that Jj case it was sad

[@jasmincollins9541]

Do you remember the episode I works like to see it

[@marlahernandez3370]

😂 Judge believed she took her spanx and she celebrated like she won.

[@dariusmoore895]

Naw, he gave her the money cause she put her clothes outside

[@tamekiowilliams3892]

Obvious mental health issues praying for healing and help with steady housing

[@blessedwomanof1447]

AMEN THE ONLY POSITIVE COMMENT

[@shantiTHElook]

this was so unserious 😂😂😂

[@TalkswithMellow]

A little biased here, because I saw her as the grieving mother in a horrific accident and case. Really wish Judge Mathis offered her grief counseling.

[@wavynaturalista]

This the umpteenth time I’ve heard some mess from a Ms. Bailey. I hope they not all crazy 😂😂

[@EDub-en9yw]

Lmfao well she was right she don’t have to bother them if she have keys

[@opulence_prime]

7:39 JM face 😂

[@sequanamcclary8753]

I'm not moving in with anyone I don't know. That's crazy

[@alexusfx763]

This one was Gooooooood 😅 Lady crazy fr! 😂

[@kareemabrown85]

A girdle 🗣️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mindymaria871]

He only awarded her that money to avoid the headache lol

[@maiaboone8953]

I believe the defendant for some reason 😂😂😂

[@kianaCAB]

I really believe that homeless woman might have some mental issues and the defendant is just mean!

[@nbd6213]

“Dumb dumb” at her big age is hilarious

[@Provostialish]

I remember seeing the plaintiff’s case from Judge Judy! It was sad she was being sued and I’m glad JJ ruled in her (the plaintiff’s) favor.

[@ChoosenGemini]

Wait, she was on another court show?🤔🤔

[@drelex9845]

​@@ChoosenGeminiyes Judge judy

[@Provostialish]

@@ChoosenGemini Yes, she was sued on Judge Judy because her teen daughter wrecked a lady’s car (and died in the crash)! That was back in the mid/late 2000s.

[@GoatCharles]

If you can find it link it 🫡

[@jaegardenlovetx]

7:37 his face 😂😂

[@comealongwithceceadverture1544]

Hello there from Cali🤗🐕🐩🐕🐩🐕

[@ManChildMin1]

How are you forced for a length of time to be homeless…forced eviction i get…but forced to be homeless and stay that way? I don’t know about that

[@bajanb3auty2nv]

Funny from start to finish 😂

[@SB-tc2jr]

What did we miss? A hundred dollars for a spanx. What was the proof? Something about the defendant set it out? I dunno, that sounds bogus!

[@silethaking279]

Kathy Bates!!🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jasonturner763]

He only gave her $100 because she was homeless.. them damn spanks aint not $100 lol 😂 😆