He Spin Kicked A Woman Nearly Killing Her - All Because She Gave Him A “Dirty Look”

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[@acanadianfarmgirl2667]

In Seoul South Korea 18 years ago I was walking home from the subway station when an American man caught up to me and started walking at pace with me. He said...don’t look back but there is a man (Korean) following you. I think you should join me for a coffee at the next place and once he is gone then you can safely go to your home...I will never forget his act of protecting me and for the fact of his situational awareness which most likely saved my life.

[@southchum101]

There’s a group of K-pop looking teens who took advantage of the fact that K-pop is now popular. They would travel to poorer countries in South East Asia and rape the young girls there. You can look like an innocent K-pop star yet be a violent rapist. This is happening in the Philippines with Korean foreigners.l

[@irbiswirbis]

​@theoverunderthinker you're just contributing to women's fears, thanks a lot

[@Klaatu731]

Be aware of your situation and surroundings. Don’t play on your phone while walking alone at night. Carry pepper spray or a weapon of some sort. Wear comfortable shoes with no heels. Don’t rely on someone saving you all the time. You know the risks. Minimize them as much as possible. As a man who has faced violence on the streets. You have to understand it can happen to you too. But since I was ready for it? I’m able to type this today. I often wonder what color his eye patch is.

[@tribefenatic]

tell that story to the police

[@irbiswirbis]

@@tribefenatic statute of limitations

[@Perilsphere]

UPDATE ON THIS CASE: The victim requested that DNA testing be REDONE on her pants instead of underwear and it matched! He will now be in jail for 20 years instead of just 7 !!! (The court tried for 35 and got 20)

[@lygiabird6988]

THANK YOU! 🙏 putting my mind at rest a bit.

[@wendychavez5348]

Smart girl! Thank you for letting us know.

[@2pacEEzGacha]

YAYYYYY

[@Ninjaaaa9999]

They wanted 35 years, but he only got 20 years

[@TornEars]

TYSM i can finally sleep 😭

[@rembbokie]

The way he used the “I’m drunk excuse” is so ridiculous because he literally did a perfectly coordinated spinkink that knocked her unconscious, yet somehow he “didn’t know what he was doing”? It’s obvious he knew exactly what he did and felt no remorse. He even bragged about it to his friends. Horrible. *edited to fix a small typo

[@mysticloverfairy1]

Not to mention taking her to a blind spot to possibly SA her where he probably knew that he wouldn’t be caught on cctv .

[@bear.hugsubzz]

@@mysticloverfairy1exactly, it’s crazy to think about

[@mikeblalock9380]

Saying I was drunk has landed many people in prison. You can't consent if your drunk. I'm drunk works I guess

[@lipglossandluv]

@@mikeblalock9380 unfortunately in Korea the I’m drunk excuse help them out of jail time and just probation n a settlement

[@peachkittyyy]

@@lipglossandluvi came to say exactly this!!! unfortunately this excuse STILL works in s korea which is fucking ridiculous.

[@katho9978]

Being a women is so scary. I was followed by a man for like a good 30-40 minutes and when I asked an older man with his wife for help he said “Just tell him to stop.” I was taken aback. Thankfully his wife was kind enough to tell me to stay with them until the police arrived.

[@hot_salsa_dipping_sauce]

Like that would've worked 🙄

[@FocusedFighter777]

..my god men dont live in reality.... Of course men lsitens to us women, especially when we say 'no' and 'stop'...... .....wow!!

[@Telashar]

​@@FocusedFighter777That honestly depends whre you live. In the city I live you can just go out at 2-3 am, phone in hand, and you dont even look if someone is walking behind you. i imagine if you told someone you feel uncomfortable they would either accomadate you, or look at you like you are insane cause noone would hurt you here. I think I heard about 1 single attack on a woman in my 30+ years of living here, and that was still when soviet communist party ruled the country.

[@treeclimbers1416]

Yes it takes good men to look out for our women. It’s shouldn’t be a men vs women like the creator is trying to promote. She’s basically saying the law shouldn’t be blind and that killing a women should have a bigger punishment. She lost me on this one, especially since males are victim to violent crime at a higher rate than females. Murder is murder and rape is rape and it’s wrong no matter the victim to culprit. And the fact she’s saying a schizophrenic’s POV on women is the norm shared by all men is insulting. She even doubled down and said “I’m not making this a man vs women thing but if your male and have a opinion different from mine then shove it and go look in the mirror” is extremely narcissistic. I love women, would fight wars and die for the girls in my life but she lost me in this video. Feminism should be about equality and not superiority.

[@treeclimbers1416]

But again *** she lost me in this video

[@catblue4690]

“Without the victim’s testimony” Welp, there you have it guys! Murderers can’t be convicted because the victim can’t be there to testify. RELEASE THE MURDERS ON TO THE MASSES

[@gabibellebb]

there should be a law that makes it so that if the doctor of the victim (or emts) states that the victim was in a state of unconsciousness they should be treated as UNABLE to consent and a fine. There’s probably something like that but it’s probably mostly used for people intoxicated. And intoxicated vs straight up unconscious but sober is completely different.

[@purrrrrrrple]

I saw the same excuse on a close CP case.... I hate the "justice" system, once you realize with how much you can get away make sense why there's still so much crime...

[@ribertfranhanreagen9821]

That is bs reason, the real reason probably they have influential parent, and the victim no

[@Im4r-ic2pm]

I can’t understand why doctors could not state whether there was abusive sex or not, dna test for sperm or something else

[@christina4012]

Don't 😂 they might even consider it

[@seykadagmar]

Misogyny. That's why he did it, he expected her to smile and kiss the ground he walks on and of course she chose wrong by minding her own business.

[@joshualanghorst3972]

i doubt thats the reason hes just a dickhead who doesnt have a father he def shouldve gotten max sentence though

[@chuckg7185]

Coffee

[@chaoswitch1974]

I haven't finished listening to this whole thing, but I think his motivation was SA and the "dirty look" was a lie.

[@joshualanghorst3972]

@@chaoswitch1974 yeah thats true

[@joanam3070]

​@@chaoswitch1974Sadly, it could be both. SA is about control and asserting power. So...my theory is, he felt insecure because she didn't act like he expected (admiring him or submissive) and -in his twisted psychopathic mind- he needed to humiliate and dominate her to regain control (in his twisted view).

[@KahenaRocha]

Attempted murder should have the same sentencing as murder. Ok, they didn't die, but you still had the intention of killing them! This should count too

[@shinichikudo3515]

Correct! Same intention! It's as if we're giving the victim injustice because they lived? Tsk

[@piya6929]

right? why should the criminal get off easy just cause he was too incompetent to even commit to the crime

[@yin4296]

@@shinichikudo3515it’s the same with dui charges. Like you only get your license revoked for drunk driving once you kill someone? It’s so stupid

[@purple66666]

This should be premeditated murder. Atempted murder is when you want to kill someone and then you back out. This makes no sense to me. It's like everyone was agains this poor woman.

[@piya6929]

@@purple66666 true like if I point a gun at someone but don't shoot or miss the shot or gun gets stuck then that's attempted murder...but when I shot the bullet at someone's chest but the victim didn't die should not be considered 'attempted'...cause the victim was shot with the intention to kill...but just cause the victim managedto survive suddenly it's 'attempted murder'

[@sweetb2750]

This literally happened to me in Seoul getting off the subway, I felt him from going up the stairs from the station. When I realized I was getting closer to my friend’s place. I turned into a shop and called my friend’s husband to meet me (she was at work and I went out for the day to sightsee until she was off work). The guy stayed out there as I waited and I only turn to look at him when my friend’s spouse met me, that’s when I met his eyes and he stood there for a while before turning away. He looked confused and surprised at the same time. After, I told my friend about it and they said they won’t say it’s common, but it happened enough to not be shocked. It was the weirdest experience, especially since I am a dark skin black American woman. Im kind of invisible during the day in Korea, definitely never thought to get that type of attention in Korea. I’m glad my spidey senses were still on alert then to notice and my friend’s husband was home playing LOL

[@franypany1]

"Not common but has happened enough to not be shocked"..... so common? I'm sorry but wtf kind of response is that?

[@robinjung8953]

Couldve been a cult person trying to recruit you. You just never know

[@sweetb2750]

@@robinjung8953 I’ve already had a cult experience, I definitely did not get that vibe from him.

[@abeeromesele4331]

@@robinjung8953 and that makes it less scary or dangerous?

[@robinjung8953]

@@abeeromesele4331when did i say that?

[@4thUlquiorra]

As a SA survivor I just burst into tears listening to the introduction and the talk about the 7 unaccounted minutes. So much cruelty, so much violence, so much evil was done. I've experienced this type of violence first hand and my heart just ACHES for this victim. We can't even walk home without fear of someone committing potential violence against us. Edit- I just want to say thank you to those who commented their empathy, sympathy and absolutely kind words. I've been going to therapy the last 3 years for my SA and I've worked through a lot of things and am in a considerably more healthy and happy place.

[@c4y9]

i am so sorry for that i hope you are doing so much better🙏🫶

[@louisevee7542]

I feel you deeply. It's happened to me 2010. It was traumatic, I had to leave out of the country. Years later I've found my strength again and refused to live in fear.( Virtual hug)

[@c4y9]

i am so sorry and hearing this for you getting sa in my birth year is now stuck with me forever😭but i really do hope anyone and everyone who has been in this situation just to let you know things will get better and i really hope they are so i send love and prayers to you all🫶

[@jenniferkleininger9191]

My heart goes out to you, I hope you can find peace one day , please try and stay strong ❤

[@AlissaSss23]

My heart ❤️ goes out to you, I have experienced DV for many years. I hope you are healing and feeling safer now

[@serioussam27]

My friend was killed in 2015 at 22 y/o by her husband because she "Was caught getting out of the house when he was out partying". Stabbed over a dozen times (she was approximately 100 pounds). He got 9 years because "He showed remorse"...got out on weekends after 3 years, got out on probation after 6 years - attempted on doing the same with his new girlfriend. A guy (only a few weeks ago) live streamed the murder of his wife because she dared applying for a restraining order because of "a few slaps". Her last words before she got shot in the head on camera were "I was scared of you". Only a few days ago a woman got bitten on her face by her ex husband in broad daylight. While a stranger defended her, the ex said "That's my woman. I can do as I please". I myself woke up one too many times in the middle of the night with my pants suddenly down or fingers in where they do not belong while I was sleeping and unable to consent. His excuse "It has been days - I couldn't help it". Not all men...but oh boy - there are enough of them. And the damage the wrong ones do, the right ones spend a life time and then some, to put together...if we even live to tell the tale.

[@Hextin]

YAWN a majority of men that are either dead or in prison because of a bitch is over 70%. Just because women are too weak to do it themselves doesnt mean theyre not just as responsible. The amount of men dead because a dumb bitch decided she didnt like a man is amazing

[@NehaSingh-tj8ng]

​@@nagato.1007you really need not to .. what you just have to do is to accept.... that their are horrible people out there...I I'm not that...and I should not connect myself to them...and also not defend them just because I'm having same gender although I don't know them

[@Kiraa000]

Yes it's not all men but ALL women I know were harassed or SAd by men, even here in Switzerland. And so many are scared and take precautions when going outside. I was even attacked in the middle of the day.

[@nyphira]

@@nagato.1007why do you feel the need to? Nobody is attacking you or all men. This comment was literally about a bunch of psychopaths who did things wrong, so why do you feel the need to defend men? That’s honestly pathetic. If you didn’t do anything wrong, theres nothing to be afraid of and there shouldn’t be a need to defend yourself

[@snailart9214]

​@@nagato.1007almost all violent crimes are by men, these stats don't lie. It's a fact and your feelings about it aren't as important as the thousands of people getting killed by violent men. If you aren't like this then we aren't talking about you, but you are the minority.

[@celedhion]

Classic cases of "men are afraid women will damage their ego, women are afraid men will kill them."

[@copperredd]

ιт waѕ "мen r aғraιd woмen wιll laυgн aт тнeм and women r aғraιd тнaт мen wιll ĸιll тнeм"...

[@kgs2280]

Quote by Margaret Atwood, the author it The Handmaid’s Tale.

[@beverlybalius9303]

Thats what hand guns are for. Self Defense….

[@abominationdesolation8322]

No, men are afraid women will get other men to gang rush them. You know nothing about the real world to say something so stupid. There is always some simp looking to fight. Guys who say "you got a problem" when a foul woman runs her mouth insulting and provoking people in ways men simply wouldn't because it's a death wish. Then when a man is provoked they have to consider fighting an entire room of people plus the police. Women, especially in the west, are not afraid of acting like a (very immature) man 99% of the way. And it shows. "Not all women/men" goes without saying, please don't be daft.

[@Danny-ew3zj]

​@@beverlybalius9303I need more boulets

[@Ellie-El]

“How many women will have to die for our country to change?” my heart really goes out to these Korean women.

[@Slasla1610]

Same all around the world, it's time for women to start an organisation to protect ourselves. Just because they are physically strong, they take everything granted. God will punish them and karma will speak.

[@euneiros]

There is no such thing as "random" "inexplicable " crime. There is a reason. Its hate crimes against women. Its femicide. "This incident is being regarded not as a specific episode of a mentally disturbed man attacking a specific woman, but as a symbolic example of what happens in a misogynistic society."- Lee Na-young, professor of sociology at Chung-Ang University. (about the Gangnam/sashimi murder)

[@sparklestar2732]

Perfectly said

[@deepergodeeper7618]

ok Susan

[@msmissy9976]

That's literally what it is, there's no way he would've done that to a man.

[@meh4991]

He's for the guillotine

[@bradleyroberts6050]

This dude would of kicked a smaller guy too.

[@fruitrollup2790]

As a woman you can smile, not smile, not even look at someone and still be seen by these gross men as "stuck up'. I remember just minding my own business at 711 and this random man just told me to stop mugging anf smile and mind you he didn't say it in a nice tone he practically yelled at me. Just because I walked by and didn't smile. Wasn't in a bad mood at all.

[@elephantdoodoo]

Having been a bartender for many years, I’ve heard that so many times. I also have a bumper sticker that reads “Don’t tell me to smile” 😉

[@missb9103]

Unfortunately, there is a lot of mental illness in the world today that comes in many forms.

[@msmichellewinchester]

The thing is, if you actually do smile, these men will take it as an invitation.

[@miinfl7143]

​@@msmichellewinchesterexactly.

[@ohara.]

identify as a man, problem solved

[@davepost7675]

I can understand keeping the criminal's name out of the media because innocent until proven guilty, but once found guilty, the name should be released.

[@Mr.WestcottX]

For real. With proof in courtroom .

[@Emmi.0902]

Is it innocent until proven guilty or guilty until proven innocent?🤔

[@monkeydog8681]

@@Emmi.0902 What a stupid question. Are you stupid or something?

[@nouun]

@@Emmi.0902It’s supposed to be innocent until proven guilty.

[@Tumbleweedpassingby]

The law likes to protect criminals.

[@Thessair]

As a man, I don't see how any decent man could see this as women vs. men cases Honestly, these (and so many of the cases covered by this channel) are very clearly men vs. women cases. So many of these would never had happened if the victims were not women and it's absolutely infuriating to see how little women are regarded around the world (including where I live). The amount of victim blaming, direct targeting, and the lack of support from authorities and the so-called justice system are nauseating. I don't know how to help. I wish I did. But it's difficult to know what to do when your very presence could be enough to trigger someone who has been a victim of a man. I feel tremendously for the suffering women have to endure. At best, I can empathize but (even as a man who has been the victim of SA) my own position of privilege is such that I can never truly understand the atmosphere of fear that women have to live in.

[@FocusedFighter777]

Every day I wish I had superpowers to right wrongs.... I so, so wish. -Jill

[@melanielewis2779]

Thank you for saying that. There is something you can do. Be that protector when you see something with your own eyes. As someone who has been assaulted I'd much rather someone try to help them to watch. It's awesome of you to understand that you could be triggering to some in certain situations but your empathy along with your respect will be respected. The women in your life are lucky to have someone who holds them in high regard

[@charmainekhin4784]

it’s exhausting being a woman, i’m just shocked that this is still happening in 2023

[@fxckpam]

i feel like it’s getting worse

[@zola__]

​@@fxckpamMhm, or atleast it feels like it.😞

[@user-42069]

Sadly I feel like there will always be these types of crimes against women.

[@crvshh8663]

​@@KokosNaSnehu2do u think women dont work 💀💀 its 2023 jus stfuu

[@indyjoy]

​@@KokosNaSnehu2mf what 💀

[@rbcbcs]

girl, if you're with someone that defends this kind of BS or has the "but what she did to deserve tho" mentality... RUN

[@territimmerman140]

Yep as fast as you can to get a restraining order!

[@ThatPurpleFlounder]

additionally, if you *are* someone who defends this type of BS, please reevaluate everything you've learned and maybe get help cuz there's just some clusterfuck of discrepancies there

[@badadodgen]

@@ThatPurpleFlounder its psycho behavior and sociopathic

[@fxckpam]

right they always try to find a way to blame women like huh

[@suzimonkey345]

No rape kit? Not even a couple of swabs? 😡 This case is infuriating!

[@Mr.WestcottX]

Ikr? By Korean 🇰🇷 police 🚓😒

[@dplj4428]

It is only recent that usa has started using rape kits. And some have a backlog of unprocessed. So, its not just a problem in korea. The disappeared in Mexico. And some countries or customs the families harm the raped family member but protect males who rape.

[@almezamorra1021]

This is the main reason why korea has low crime rate

[@RonLarhz]

It's korea. Women are trash. They just hide it better with kpop and kdrama.

[@mootato239]

It's 2024 and the discussion of "would you rather be stuck in a forest with a man or a bear?" became viral. This story adds to the point of choosing bear. People would rather die than have the physical, emotional, and mental trauma of being SA'd. It's exhausting to be a woman and life's more terrifying for victims.

[@ChiZillaaa]

So... They found her completely disheveled with her underwear half on and she was bleeding from her rectum for a month, but she seemed totally fine and walked normally throughout ALL the CCTV footage PLUS the doctors couldn't get good DNA samples because they were trying to save her life. So like... Do they (the court/judges) think she somehow unzipped her own pants and took a single leg out of her panties just to put her pants back on before or after she was assaulted? Like... If she was fighting for her life, at what point do they think she had the time to put her clothes back on like that??? Idk. I get that some of it is "circumstantial evidence" but look at the portfolio of concrete evidence around all the other things. Like, I'm not a zoologist but if an animal quacks, can fly, can swim, lays eggs, has a bill for a mouth, has short legs, orange webbed feet and waddles, I'm PRETTY inclined to assume the animal is a fucking duck. As humans, we're intelligent enough to deduce what happened without having to always SEE the crime happen. I cannot believe people want to "debate" about what happened because there's no video evidence. How disgusting.

[@TheRealdal]

He should be buried under the prison. Set an example of him.

[@NehaSingh-tj8ng]

I wonder how majority of judiciary behaves like specially abled human ..when it comes to crime... although they portray themselves as highly educated smart wise experienced human of the society 😂

[@EarthIsNotFlat]

Apparently in S.K. with cameras being everywhere they now literally want proof beyond all doubt in order to prosecute any crime. It’s gross.

[@lscherehazade_317]

Korea never fails to disappoint☕️

[@ve_rb]

Yea why do we even need evidence we should be able to convict on women’s words alone

[@sofiamainetti8397]

Here at my country we just had a case last month about a girl that went partying with some friends and drank too much. A "friend" of hers called her an uber and let her brother know she was going home, but the brother didnt see the message because he fell asleep. The girl passed out in the car and after they arrived, the driver tried to get her inside but wasnt able to, so he left her sitting against something at the sidewalk. The girl didnt last 6 minutes passed out at the street, some guy immediately grabbed her and brought her to an abandoned field, and raped her. When Steph said about the drinking culture at South Korea, but then complemented saying typically women dont pass out from drinking at the streets, all I could think about was that the victim of that case wasnt even able to be left alone for 10 whole minutes, the moment someone laid eyes on her, all they could think about was abusing her.

[@Forevagabby]

If I was the uber driver I wouldn't leave her there wth why would he just leave a drunk girl on the sidewalk like that. At least take her to a police station

[@sofiamainetti8397]

@@Forevagabby yes, so many people failed her... the friend who didnt get into the uber with her knowing she had drunk a lot, the brother who didnt think to stay awake even though he was the only one at home while his sister was out late, the driver who just left her there, and of course the monster who assaulted her. The saddest thing is, within 6 minutes she was taken away, and there was a hospital within a 6 minute drive from her house. I dont really have the full details, but makes me think if all those people were men, including the friend. People do say that the only culprit is the guy who assaulted her, which is true, the other people didnt really have the responsability to take care after the drunk girl, but they could have, and it would have taken near the same time it took for her life to be ruined.

[@Forevagabby]

@@sofiamainetti8397 Did she get justice?

[@sofiamainetti8397]

@@Forevagabby she was sent to the hospital the next morning and the guy was caught right after, but we dont have much more information about whats going to happen next

[@Forevagabby]

@@sofiamainetti8397 hopefully he gets life in jail for this heinous act and I hope she heals from this traumatic event🙁

[@with_yarn_through_life]

The first case: did the man live in the same apartment building as the victim? If not, I don't understand how you can argue that this wasn't a premeditated crime, when he knew the exact location of the blind spot with no CCTV cameras.

[@U-Gozoo]

He didn't, he just followed her from the bus station or something past that there is no connection with them.. 😕

[@octopus8978]

@@U-Gozoowhat the fuck? Is that not proof for them?

[@U-Gozoo]

@@octopus8978 it should have been but apparently not first time he was charged and got 12 yrs the second time he got another 20 yrs both are laughable for the crime he committed

[@ma.2089]

@@noname-zg2xf I’m so sorry

[@mogroot5790]

​@@noname-zg2xfkorea, Japan.

[@jessicareynolds8011]

If the victim doesn't get privacy neither should the perp.

[@libibiju4236]

Thank you for bringing attention to hate crimes against women

[@_La41]

Not only women but men too🫶🏼🙀🙀😻 (had to edit my comment cause people are such snowflakes and won’t shut the fuck up💀)

[@st4rtenma]

@@_La41this aint about that now is it??

[@luvphobia]

@@_La41do you see a man getting harmed in this video?

[@Dippy666]

@@Silverr_.lol You can have attention brought to both without Thinking it takes away from the other issue violence Against men Is a huge issue that is swept under the rug because guys are told to suck it up

[@ina4405]

@@_La41shut up

[@monoceros.9310]

Reminds me of this recent story in Germany were a American male threw a American women off a 150+ foot bridge because she didn’t want to sleep with him….these crimes against innocent women make me scared to leave my house

[@L.-I.]

What? Can you elaborate on that story? I haven't heard of it as a German citizen but since it's a bridge and US citizens, it seems to be a tourist attraction.

[@swanhill5759]

@@L.-I.This year at Neuschwanstein castle. He actually threw two women off a ravine. He tried to sexually assault one, then threw her friend over when she tried to intervene. The friend died. Then he threw the other woman into the ravine and she barely survived her injuries.

[@L.-I.]

@@swanhill5759 Thank you, I looked it up just now and it's terrible! This happened in June and we were there just last week and now I'm glad we didn't go up Marienbrücke because that's where he met them and led them astray. I think I know which trail they took because it's a shortcut for many but it's very steep and dangerous. No wonder they blocked some routes to the Pöllat torrent, where he pushed them off to. This is crazy, I only heard from hikers falling into their demise and dying from Zugspitze and vicinity when we were there. But ofc, they live off of tourism, so bad news have to be dispersed asap.

[@silviahannak3213]

In Vienna, about 3/4 am near a Underground Station...in public, ppl walking by though she was screaming for help. One other Guy was interacting .only one..he run behind him. That Guy was caught. It boggles my Mind that it's getting dangerous in Vienna. Actually it is pretty safe here. Even at Night. Well i have never experienced it in my 20ies but time changed and nowadays i am thinking..if even older Women can get attacked..(other Event) even i should by a Pepper Spray.

[@silviahannak3213]

This Neuschwanstein Case ..i've heard of it. Never heard that this happend before. Now we have to build more Fences around it cause of crazy (American!) Tourist. I don't know if these Women were with him or Strangers, Touristen from another Country.

[@sageseeker9197]

You know it's not really an "I couldn't tell you" case when the motive is obviously sexual assault and misogyny. Also, it's obvious what happened in the 7 minutes, he attacked her and knocked her out so that he could easily SA her without her fighting back. She was just a convenient vulnerable target. He was obviously playing out a fantasy.

[@alylouuu]

RIGHT!!

[@reneeharper84]

Yes!! Like, I'm sitting here going we ALL know what happened during those 7 minutes....

[@TheOnlyLadyBella]

Look, this is not a Korean issue, this is a worldly issue. Point blank period. An African American woman in America was recently attacked for turning down a man's advances. I heard one woman commented and said she just goes ahead and gives the guy her number so she won't be attacked. But why should I have to give a man my number if I don't want to?

[@mkay2925]

Look. You’re dense.

[@unicornashes8447]

Don’t forget the incident when a woman got attacked while out with her big friend group in public, outside after saying no politely. I think he shot her or hit her with a brick. I can’t remember but it was horrible

[@sc33h3o3]

No one presented this as a "Korean issue?." Korea is one of the safest countries in the world, things that are violent or random happen way more frequently in the west, but she just said they are on the rise there and gave the name that apparently was given for crimes that are so mysterious and random

[@ohsnapitsemmie]

A woman was just attacked in the Bronx , suffocated until she was unconscious , and SA ed on the street.

[@ColRusSer]

My question is: how high on the psychopathy scale would the judge score? This is outrageous. What kind of a system defends perpetrators and not victims? Insane.

[@YTZSoLo]

​@@roryg7773 Why are you trolling? Do you not see how psycho you appear randomly yelling at people about your delulu beliefs?

[@sulpherbratigh7936]

I mean insanity plea is a thing so I can see why

[@aleashacasarez855]

Here in California, criminals get so much leeway and protection to the detriment of the public. The public is split between "they didn't know better! It's how they were raised. They had to feed their families!" and "do you even care about victims and public safety? Lawlessness leads to more lawlessness, and these light sentences create repeat offenders and more victims." And not that it matters because the public can't do anything about it anyway. The rich politicians live separate from the criminals they release, but appear on media and talk about how compassionate their policies are.

[@MusMasi]

@@aleashacasarez855 they come down like a ton of bricks on self defense cases though.

[@MrSeagull26]

In that very Junko Furuta case, the government hid the identities of the perpetrators simply because they were minors

[@nazhoni]

i’ve heard of this case and i am of the firm belief he assaulted her after he dragged her off camera and sodomized her. this poor woman, he was following her and targeted her because she was alone and most likely drunk after a long night out. i disagree with the laws that protect drunk individuals who commit crimes and lighten their sentences. a person makes the choice to drink, they should be held accountable for any acts they commit after that. for example, assault or drunk driving.

[@regerde2711]

I fully agree. People also tend to forget that alcohol does not make you a different person it lowers your boundaries. If you could never even imagine to hurt someone when sober you would not hurt them drunk either. Alcohol just makes you forget the consequences.

[@knightcool7769]

💯 agree

[@MartianCandies]

I completely agree but that same sentiment can be used against victims. Well they made the choice to drink so they should be responsible for getting assaulted. I have actually seen people use this sentiment and it's heartbreaking

[@artsywoodz]

@@MartianCandieshow about just not assaulting anyone?

[@miinfl7143]

​@@MartianCandiesperps deserve the full extent of the law if victim is sober but if victim is drunk, they should get a lighter sentence? Make this make sense.

[@catherinerangasamy8332]

Hi Stephanie. Please read this. I'm from a small town in South Africa. A few years ago my cousin Percy was dating a girl who was cheating on him with a police officer. One day, Percy found out about the cheating. He ended things with the girl. The same day, he went fishing with his friends when the cop stopped him and put him into the police van. The cop and his friends beat my cousin to the point of Him almost dying before throwing him in a jail cell. There was another guy in the jail cell that tried to help him. Percys mother tried to see him in jail and they didn't allow her to. The guy in the jail cell sent a message to percys mother that he needed to talk to her and that he has something he needs to tell her about Percy urgently. A few hours later, my cousin was found hanging in the cell. The cops told my aunty that he committed suicide but both his legs and arms were broken. How could he have tied the rope? The entire thing was a cover up. Both the guy in the cell and the cop disappeared and his death was ruled as a suicide. My aunt tried to get a lawyer to fight the case but they didn't have enough money to proceed. We know he was murdered and that's what the guy in the cell wanted to tell my aunt. But the cop got to him before he could say anything. That guy is missing till today. Even his family hasnt heard from him. Please could you cover this case Steph? I want people to know about my cousin. Thank you so much. 😢❤

[@pandabubu101]

bump if this is real!

[@ruffalo1643]

Is there a case for it?

[@jasannahmarie888]

What’s the cousin’s name? Where did this take place

[@enjoyenglish1721]

With only a first name there is nothing nobody can do to research your case!

[@KokosNaSnehu2]

This is a toxic feminist channel, they don´t give a shit about your male cousin... I bet most braindead Mango fans reading it think that he must have been another diabolical man and deserved everything.

[@rogue8903]

You need to show this to some girls out there who are so brainwashed by the unrealistic K-drama descriptions of korean men to give them some reality check.

[@Kalakeiko]

As well as the men that have no idea why women are scared and cautious of them or why the "just say no" argument often doesn't work.

[@JoyNova]

It's so scary how men can become so conditioned to believe woman are not human to them and to act so evil against them. Society needs to change and it feels so helpless everytime these crimes happen.

[@yasmeen9592]

Sadly this is common around the world but there are degrees of how horrible the men are in different countries. In the case of South Korea, they view women as their property the misogyny in Korea is horrendous.

[@JuliRat]

It’s 100% the extremism on the internet that causes this sick mindset. It’s truly a cesspool, this society.

[@abominationdesolation8322]

Maybe stop encouraging women to take over masculine roles while leaving men to the wayside --- and at the same time telling them they can take care of themselves, all their problems are their own fault, and if they are helpless or vulnerable then they're not real men (and thus are unsexed). Also basically telling men to never challenge women. Women from non-western countries think the west is so great and progressive compared to traditional countries --- until they don't have a functioning family unit, or a respectable man, and they don't understand why.

[@teodorasavoiu4664]

​@@abominationdesolation8322you need therapy, my guy

[@teodorasavoiu4664]

Well, there's a lot of media that treats women like objects, pretty much in all cultures that have a global influence. Including the majority of porn, which men tend to watch more of, from a younger age. I can imagine that fucks with their developing brain. Add a patriarchal culture that is dominant in that area, and you have a loaded gun.

[@JamTakano]

This is ACTUALLY a gender-based crime. * - This is a woman not wanting to smile 24/7, and a man getting mad becos of itー to the point of almost killing the woman. - This is rape.

[@Lalit02Dhanwani]

why woman need to smile to a Stanger she doesn't know.

[@uselesswriting3092]

@@Lalit02DhanwaniShe shouldn’t need to, but since the man expected her to, her not doing so warrants “punishment” in his eyes. It’s disgusting, like women are expected to be pretty decor and smile and wave at men, regardless of if he’s a stranger to her or not, at all times.

[@durandus676]

People do this to men too. I got SAd by a woman cause she thought I liked her. If I defended myself the cops would have thought I attacked her even with me being the one bleeding. People are just insane sex be damned. I still have the scars and they still hurt and reopen 8 years later.

[@TamWam_]

​​@@durandus676I'm really sorry that happened to you, and the fact that people might not even believe you just because of your gender..its awful. I hate discrimination so much. Hope you're doing better

[@mverdugo39]

@@uselesswriting3092 Thats honestly so true, I keep to myself at work and have RBF and I’m constantly told to smile by men. Like why do I have to? If I’m having a good day I don’t have to have a smile from ear to ear.

[@gennguerra]

1:16:42 I love the last quote: "Women do not exist for men and men would not exist without women. So let's just all be nicer to one another." AMEN.

[@ve_rb]

Women would not exist without men

[@YumiSumire]

more like, AWOMEN

[@nomercymanagement2316]

this is a clown statement using this depraved individual to cast a negative light on all men, this guy is 1 out probably 100,000 who would never do such thing. This individual also assaulted other men, its just behavior of a psycho

[@Tsubahi]

Good that women are are there to make babies. 🙄

[@azure5584]

Women also wouldn't exist without women. Stupid take.

[@robinjung8953]

As another Korean, I give the utmost sympathy and respect to the victim that chose to exit recently under tremendous pain and trauma caused by this horrendous event. She fought hard to serve justice to this piece of shit until the very last moment, when she broke down completely with helplessness she felt how the justice system only cared about protecting this fucker. RIP, my prayer goes to you.

[@betealvarez]

It seems pretty clear to me that he followed her with the intent of raping her. So he attacked her, left her unconscious, and raped her during those 7 minutes away from the cameras. Maybe that’s not common in Korea, but here in Brazil it happens all the time! 😢

[@auroralex_]

Hope y'all stay safe and be cautious everytime.

[@Nonyah123]

it happens every where all the time. Any country men exists it happens.

[@Akideoni]

Sounds like the Korean justice system is deeply flawed. Thanks for sharing and let us know.

[@Mr.WestcottX]

For real. Justice ⚖️ system needs fixing

[@rachel4339]

Oh yeah, and it’s way worse than these cases alone. You should watch some of her other videos. 10 months of probation for the SA of a disabled minor is beyond flawed, it’s borderline archaic.

[@DSS712]

It's more rooted in a general culture based on power dynamics (based on age, gender, rank, etc) and way of thinking bleeds through into the justice system.. This is obviously changing with each passing generation, but we are still currently at a point where a lot of the people in power are older men who grew up learning that the well being and reputation of men, especially high ranking men, are literally more important than that of women. IMO the male-only military draft is a major aspect of sexism that continues to persist in Korean society. The male half of the population and female half of the population are essentially split off for the first couple of years of their early twenties and during that time are taught different things about how to behave and what their societal roles are.

[@laqwonmcclenton2226]

If you have money, you can get away with a lot more

[@MsJyll]

Thailand system also flawed 😫😭😭

[@hayleymahaney]

It makes me sad that you have to make sure men's feelings aren't hurt by pointing out a few examples of what regularly happens to women. We, as a society, worry more about men's comfort than women's safety.

[@mfknbumblebee]

💯💯💯!!! I've literally already seen at least 3 clowns in these comments pulling the obligatory "it happens to men too!!1!!1" bullshit

[@BavarianHobbit]

@@mfknbumblebee Both genders deal with their own shit. Don't act like men are doing just fine these days.

[@dianaisabelquinoneslezama1604]

@@BavarianHobbit Men face THEIR own shit, not this specific kind of violence, so don't act like woman are not constantly in danger because of sexism

[@tenisawhite4660]

@@BavarianHobbitNobody said otherwise. Men don’t deal with these probelms is the point so theirs point in bringing up the OTHER shit men go through in a video bringing awareness to a female victim .

[@BavarianHobbit]

@@dianaisabelquinoneslezama1604 Read OPs comment and then mine. OP is acting like we have no problems. I know this video is about sexism against women but I won't just have misinformation like that sit unopposed.

[@wrennie658]

I’m schizophrenic and the thought of harming someone makes me feel sick. Thank you for clearing up the misconceptions about schizophrenics (& other mental illnesses) for “being violent” & preventing the spread of stigma. :)

[@zakjones7101]

Some are violent though. I think it's unethical to assign misogyny to someone who was apparently the worst case of schizo the doctor had ever seen. The two cases in this video should not have been discussed together imo.

[@wrennie658]

@@zakjones7101 Ohh don’t get me wrong, there absolutely are. However- you can be both a misogynist & schizophrenic murder. He blamed women for his crimes which were simultaneously wrapped in his delusions. That is still misogyny, even if you are sick.

[@zakjones7101]

@@wrennie658 but he's literally delusional so it's wrong to blame societal attitudes toward women rather than his mental illness. This is literally the same as the 'violent video games create serial killers' argument. No some people are prone to becoming serial killers and something just triggers it.

[@wrennie658]

@@zakjones7101 I think you misunderstood what I said. He can be both delusional, a misogynist, and a murderer. I do think there was misogyny in this case- since his targets were women who he deemed “in his way” ect.

[@zakjones7101]

@@wrennie658 I'm talking about what was said in the video. If a scirzophrenic person murdered someone and said 'God told me to do it' do you think it's fair to call that murder religiously motivated? Or would you discount the religious element because its obviously just evidence of their mental illness?

[@avg7444]

I’m so sick to my stomach… why is being a woman so depressing…?

[@Alexis-ev8ry]

because men

[@mira-by4kt]

Actually men make women's life harder .

[@ohara.]

identify as a man, problem solved

[@blinkanimals9720]

Because being human is so depressing. Men suffer from depression and suicide at rates insanely higher than women. This is a bad human issue, not a gender one

[@eviezucchinimartini]

@@blinkanimals9720men have higher sui rates bc they're more likely to use more violent ways of dying, not because they're more depressed or have more issues than women. please, for the love of god, stop trying to downplay women's issues by derailing it to talk about men. i'm sick of having to cater our conversations around men and their feelings. the fact the most you have to worry about is dying by your own hand and trying to say that is even comparable to the issues women face is hilarious. please stop. please.

[@Layah-z9l]

I genuinely hate it when immature men say “women with victim mindset are the problem” I was literally in the 4th grade when I was being followed around the store by some old creepy guy which I thought I was being paranoid until I seen him following me out of the store, and then waited for me outside when I went back into the store after realizing I left something and he only stopped following when he realized I was with my mom and another male family member, yes it’s sad but true that women can never fully feel sure about their safety

[@Kalakeiko]

And people still have the nerve to say that misogyny doesn't exist smh. I'm really sorry that happened to you.

[@eveelee4152]

And if I hear “what did she did to make him do that” I will scream because don’t matter he could of killed her

[@vkim3149]

What did she did to make him do that?

[@kat5418]

@@vkim3149😭 this ain’t the time or place chief

[@Luvhlix]

What’s wrong they’re just curious because why would anyone do that to someone

[@uintothat732]

​@@LuvhlixWhy would they assume that it's the victim's fault? 😭

[@diannelopez2021]

I feel really bad for the victim... I want to accompany her day and night just to make her feel she's not alone. I can't imagine the panic attacks, the overthinking, the physical pain, the insomnia she's experiencing. 😢

[@ruruiris9970]

Hi

[@Tomatowithchocolate]

Me to i just feel bad for her

[@ve_rb]

Ok white knight

[@LilacFairy1]

Honestly its terrifying how normalized the fear is for women to do anything alone that it's not seen as something that needs to be fixed, it just exists and we have to live with and no the rules.. make sure you're not alone, hold keys between your fingers, lock all doors and windows, carry paper spray, have a guard dog, dont tell a man no, dont dress provoking. ETC..

[@ohara.]

this dude was clearly HATEFUL a kick like that, he wanted to empty his hatred onto her watching it you feel it also this women identify as men BS creats more unsafe places imagine having that thing in your only spaces you should be safe

[@cookielover5838]

Lucky for me, even though I’m not old enough to have one, my sister gave me her old taser. Edit: no I don’t, my mom threw it away when she re did my room ☠️

[@DM-nw5lu]

@ohara. How do y'all transphobes manage to make everything about being anti trans? Do you actually think predatory men would go through the trouble of pretending they are female identifying to enter women's spaces? They wouldn't.

[@julieoluna8887]

Exactly! The authorities are always warning Women not to go out alone and shouldn't go out at all after dark and yet they say nothing about the scumbags, they don't say "Attacking Women and Children makes you a filthy coward, not a man! If we catch you even following a Woman we are going to put you in prison for life! They same absolutely nothing, basically saying loud and clear that Men are vile creatures, that's how they are and nothing can be done about it and so if you don't like it... it's up to you to protect yourself. People are saying it's only some men who commit these atrocities, Judging by the number of Women and Children that are being raped and killed every single day! It proves that it's not "only some" men, even the seemingly nicest guy turns into a monster when you reject his sexual advances. Poor young lady 💔

[@julieoluna8887]

​@@ohara.STOP making excuses for appallingly vile behaviour.

[@gngrblls2thwall]

Hold up. Dissociative amnesia seems like an overkill explanation her not remembering anything. The whole thing started with her getting clobbered in the back of the head. She was still semi-conscious before getting kicked again before going fully out, but it's extremely normal with something like that to have no memory after the initial hit even if you're not out after the first hit... It's not a psychological phenomenon, it's just what happens when your brain gets clocked. It doesn't really matter, I'm just confused as to why anybody felt like that needed an explanation beyond the obvious.

[@icarus4302]

Usually because the "law" needs a very specific excuse as to why the victim is actually a victim, for example if she was even the tiniest bit conscious, everyone in the courtroom would twist it beyond recognition till it eventually became "consent", not to mention not everyone has the "pass out" reaction, infact most people don't pass out, and instead get a rush of adrenaline so they can fight or flee, but after such a severe and sudden attack to a vulnerable part of her temple most people would knock out, it's just people in a courtroom usually go to college for law, not common sense or medical knowledge

[@syddhuh]

when she said “zipping up his pants” i literally gasped.

[@Kristine_202]

You said her doctor testified about her injuries. What about the hospital? Why didn't they do a rape kit? Or at least a thorough exam? She clearly was injured in the genital region. I don't understand how the cops could say, "We can't prove SA" when they LITERALLY could prove it. That's so infuriating.

[@tr4sh37]

You didnt watch the video or payed attention huh? You truly do have the brain of a woman. She said they couldn't do a test on that because they were so busy trying to stabalize and save her life

[@TheRealdal]

Patriarchal society where they didn’t want to find out further as they blame the woman somehow. They look for excuses to find a reason that she must have asked for it. It’s disgusting.

[@lat7324]

Lord the logic behind the police investigation is horrible. The first case was not a “don’t ask crime” he followed her to SA her.

[@marslara]

Exactly, it's one thing if he just attacked her and left but he knew where a blind spot was to take her body to??

[@evayam2584]

Now people understand why in this country women want to be single.

[@samiayunus6882]

My dad and I were watching this one together and he was like any man who think a woman owes him anything is and will never be a man. My dad has four daughters and sometimes violence on women affect him more than myself or my sisters. B/c as women, sadly we’ve learned to live with the fear. So my dad who is someone that is very careful and alert b/c he was once a victim of violence, struggles so much knowing that this is what women all over the world live with. And 9/10 their government or Justice system fails them. Thank you for sharing these stories, and talking about the victims. I hope one day the world will be safer and kinder to us, until then we keep fighting for each other❤

[@ManiyaVinas]

no true scotsman fallacy, as if your dad never made a woman uncomfortable, does he even do the dishes?

[@euneiros]

"I want to be alive at the end of my work day" "Im alive because i didnt use the bathroom that day" "Women do not exist for men and men would not exist without women" Such powerful and depressings sentences :(

[@mikeblalock9380]

No one would exist without everyone else. It never one sided.

[@Astronomica999]

​@@mikeblalock9380what a dipshit thing to say

[@tuxedo_ri]

@@mikeblalock9380 thats true. woman is the one who gives birth to human tho. she has the last word in literally giving birth to human. and she risks her health and life to do so..

[@vneo42]

@@mikeblalock9380 reproduction in humans is pretty one sided, women undeniably bear the brunt. It’s worth acknowledging that every person on the planet is physically built by, and born from, a female body. That’s not mentioning childcare, nursing and nurturing….

[@sambur6480]

@@mikeblalock9380 Actually science disagrees with you. The female came before the male. Y chromosome is a mutation

[@TwichMcvey-mc3pv]

One of my friends as a girl was assaulted and so badly her womb had to be removed. Her father threw her out after ut all for not being a "woman anymore and how can he marry her off now?" That she was no longer his "good Christian girl. Just damaged goods and must have wanted it." She eventually grew up to decide to transition to male. She had no womb, or fallopian tubes or even overies and was forced to take hormones anyway. Now she is a man. I asked if it was what she had always wanted and he told me, it is to be more safe in this world of men. Being one was safer and now works and lives as a man. It has been a huge change but now he feels safe and is not even being pressed to marry or have kids. No one is upset about him living happily alone with his dogs and home and travling the country. No gay, not gender queer, just safer and already was "destroyed as a female medically." So he felt "why not?" Also now that their father is dead they get to reconnect with mom and siblings!😊😮

[@marslara]

That sounds awful, I hope on top of everything his decision to transition doesn't affect him negatively or at least provides some level of happiness.

[@osmanhazan1499]

Damn I will be praying for her hopefully she's doing good now

[@TwichMcvey-mc3pv]

@@osmanhazan1499 thanks! He seems to be happy. 3 Corrgies and a job that lets him travel, no kids and a mom that is just happy he is safe and living a sweet life. She isn't even mad that he left the religion that hurt him as a youth and drove his dad to think like that in the first place! Great mom. One of the brothers is still odd about it and keeps dead naming though. But he is an ass much like their dad was soooo..😅

[@TwichMcvey-mc3pv]

@@marslara thank you. He seems well adjusted and happy with his Corrgies and job. He travels and gets to see his mom and siblings. His mom isn't even mad at him for leaving the religion that caused so much of the toxicity and hurt between the dad and his daughters in the first place. One of the brothers is an ass much like their dad though so, yeah.

[@janelleflowers51]

@@TwichMcvey-mc3pvpls tell me the mom divorced that guy….

[@watchanimeandstramkpop8195]

Regardless if he was drunk or not he completely changed the direction of this poor girls life. She will never live a normal life again and she may never live the life she wouldve wanted for herself. And he doesnt want to take responsibility after lying about being drunk. Insane

[@valeryvarelaaya1701]

looking at the title makes me question how evil someone could actually be i love the fact that stephanie tells stories from different countries to bring awareness to not so "popular" cases.

[@benedicta4898]

This story breaks my heart because us women we don’t know when we are safe.. Women are more likely to be harassed, SAed etc. Men experience it too but statistically women get it on a daily. The attack was premeditated When I heard it on the podcast I was devastated and the fact that his sentence was short was pathetic. His behaviour was disgusting. I love how you spoke about his history as well. t

[@starryuranium]

Probably not daily unless you live in a area where people see it as normal,

[@shainafullerton2433]

@@starryuranium Where are these places where this isn't seen as normal?

[@sour5620]

@@starryuraniumthey probably meant that sa cases probably happen all over the world daily

[@starryuranium]

@@sour5620 ah okay

[@mikeblalock9380]

Not really. It's literally equal. They don't use SA or the R word when it happens to men by women. Man on man is called the R word. When it's done by women it's called " forced to penetrate" look up that stats. Men are at the for front door violence. Men faces violent crimes more than women. When it happens to men it does not make the news

[@PrimeTimeSanders]

I’m positive Korean system and USA system are both in on it 🤷🏾‍♂️ just dang horrible no where is safe with these horrible judicial systems 🤦🏾‍♂️😭😭

[@addison_07]

This reminded me of a gender-based homicide that happened in my neighborhood. Especially the part about how women can't reject men without potentially fearing for their lives. A few years back, in 2016, my neighborhood and the entire city was rocked with a horrible crime. Caroline Nosal worked at a local grocery store with a man named Christopher O'Kroley. They shortly became friends, but not too far after, she would be shot dead in the parking lot and her murderer was the man she had been friends with. He started having feelings for Caroline, and she didn't like him back. He sent her a bunch of explicit, horrible messages and then she told him not to talk to her anymore. She tried to get him fired, and he finds out, he shoots her in the parking lot. He did get life in prison, but it's a horrifying reminder of how women are treated in modern day society. Rest in peace Caroline.

[@jirou6228]

men think is ok to s3xualize their women friends... in fact most men befriended with a women for a potential mate... if you refuse their s3xual advance, they will stop being friend with you... the friendship was all a lie to cover up their nasty thought... there is true friendship between opposite gender but most of them have a high chance of a male fantasize about their female friend which is not great for a sustainable friendship... so be careful who you think your friend is... they probably won't treat you as their friend

[@ve_rb]

Maybe don’t try to get him fired next time

[@addison_07]

@@ve_rb ur literally sick. he was making sexual remarks and constantly stalking her. she had absolutely every right to want to get him fired. he's fucking creepy

[@myothethnin1224]

If a schizophrenic woman went around stabbing only men, let’s see if the Police will say the same

[@shapexifterr7067]

Idk what you mean, but at least where I live. She’d be arrested for murder. Please I beg you to remember that this ISNT A WAR BETWEEN MAN AND WOMAN. please understand. This is not to attack you, just bring awareness that misogyny still exists because it does, all throughout our history. The fact that you seem to be offended is scary. It’s a fact that women and children are attacked more than men and that children and women get SA’d more, I’m sorry to tell you the truth. Men do get SA’d and my country is trying to fix that issue too, women who commit crimes get punished. We just need to end misogyny, that is the purpose of this video.

[@SUN_MOON_SKY93]

Nah the woman would have been locked up threw away the key and they would be stuck in there for life . The double standards for men is crazy .

[@iamnemoo]

I dunno, when's the last time you heard of a woman on a male only killing spree? Because there's a list of incels doing it for the past few years

[@BavarianHobbit]

@@SUN_MOON_SKY93 You do know men in the west go to prison for the same crimes a lot longer, right?

[@Valentino016]

Korean law is very double standard

[@marwakassem1600]

They should start teaching self defense for girls in schools all around the world cause this is honestly getting ridiculous.

[@delilah28100]

or maybe teach boys to learn to respect women and their boundaries. Teach boys that a woman is never their property and should be treated as their equal.

[@reolabranch]

Yes! Females should be taught self-defense, and males should be taught that their desires are not an excuse for any sort of violence. Idk wth is so twisted here?!?

[@Ennn117]

I also agree with the replies, but I think the punishments should be harsher too

[@territimmerman140]

​@@reolabranch You're completely correct!!

[@melissamoonchild9216]

he took her out from behind, she didnt even have the chance to defend herself

[@ITSASIMP012]

And then men get mad when women choose the bear.

[@gerberadaisyluver]

It’s so frustrating that crimes against women don’t have major consequences in some countries, and men need to be educated that women are not there only for them to do ad they please like you mentioned Stephanie. So sad, may all the victims rest in peace.

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[@marisamartin3664]

Why aren't their brothers or fathers doing something on their own? It's Biblical by the way, and especially when their is no justice or protection from the State.

[@ktwanders2813]

Being a woman is exhausting…it’s true. I think all the time, wow, that could’ve been me. I used to go out every weekend to bars/clubs. I had some scary incidents, but nothing life threatening…and the first case? We might as well never leave the house. It’s all so terrifying.

[@JuliRat]

Women shouldn’t have to live in fear of these demons. Stay strong.

[@chenmae9747]

​@@JuliRatty

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[@JuliRat]

@@chenmae9747 Np. It should be a given, but safety is still an ongoing issue. I gotta wonder why people can be so damn violent.

[@princesskristan]

I was almost kidnapped over two years ago, and just hearing the first case made me get emotional. I appreciate you bringing more attention to crimes against women because its a huge problem. And honestly, fuck that guy. Being drunk isn't a excuse

[@Fatima-xw7oe]

Im sorry to hear that , no eoman deserve this , i know your feeling well caus im minor that always get attacked by ped,,ophila , mans honstly suck .

[@nicolerolug]

This isn’t the first crime in SK that I hear about but what surprises me is SK’s ability to do a poor job at almost everything… This is unfortunate for the victim, being a women in this world is such a struggle.

[@BloodMoonCosplays]

It shouldn’t be a crime to take away the protection of a PREDATORY ASSAULTER. If the cops wanna be scummy, the people will do their job for them. I thank the KZbinr who in his making of that video saved many, MANY women, and pray that the system doesn’t try and incarcerate him for a beautiful thing, a strong and kind thing.

[@Vincent-ed6ge]

Women must be protected by all cost, they deserve everything nice in this world. These kind of men make me rethink how women feel when I approach them. I dont ever want to make a wrong impression.

[@melissamoonchild9216]

you're sweet, your comment is needed and appreciated here ❤

[@ohara.]

they can identify as a man problem solved

[@anniej1834]

You're a true gentleman ❤️🥰 the world needs more like u x

[@isobelbroddrick1631]

That’s so kind as long as you aren’t pushy on anything I don’t think you’ll make them scared or anything but this is so sweet me heart goes out to this comment

[@Dave_of_Mordor]

I'm for protecting people, but the beginning of your sentence is just...eww

[@theparkourlady894]

And ppl wonder why women go to the bathroom together....

[@peter9162]

One of those post-it notes reads "Your death is my death". Another says "I hope you'll be born as a man in your next life and fulfill your dreams". I think that's a sad reflection of how many women must feel in these type of society- Women are always under threat and men are free to live 😔

[@aransiosaenakeena]

WOW 😳 if that happened to my sister I'd be hunting him down... there's no way a criminal will get away with something as ruthless as this...rape,attempted murder causing bodily harm, stalking and premeditated rape. This guy has a history of sexual abuse and violence..needs to stay locked up and the key thrown away.

[@siewbengwee4530]

Just remember this happened in a country where there arent sufficient laws to really protect women. in fact this is a global problem but worse so in Asia and non European countries.

[@1123NE]

The fact that an actual schizo will got longer sentence than a guy pleading drunk rage is a baffled to me really... Like w..t...f...

[@kaskettx]

Hearing the first story and hearing that he did this only because of the way she looked at him in passing is so terrifying- I was told recently that my friend’s boyfriend’s friend has a deep unshakable hatred for ME because i supposedly gave him ‘a look’ over 5 YEARS ago. I didn’t even know what he looked like or his name until he had showed up to my best friend’s party after learning I would be there because he had intended to confront me about that day 5 years ago. He luckily does not know my personal information about my workplace or home but hearing this makes me think about how safe I really am- what lengths will he go? My heart goes out to this poor woman

[@dbouterse9170]

I am a friendly person. The type who'll talk to others while waiting in a check-out line, hold doors for men & women, assist others when I see them struggling..my question is this & I wish someone could answer it for me. First, only men have posed this to me...I smile a lot. Random men will quite often ask "what are you smiling about?" in a very confrontational tone. Then if I'm not smiling, a random man will tell me "smile!" or ask "why don't you smile?". Seems I can't win! These are always men I don't know, total strangers. I've had some suddenly acuse me of being a tease for smiling.?? I do not dress provocatively or present myself in a way even remotely flirty. Is this a norm I've somehow missed??

[@yumtaco7376]

This kind of hatred towards women is based on cultural expectations and stereotypes. For example in my culture women aren’t expected to raise their voice when talking to men and if they did so they would get shouted at and shut down no matter how important the issue that they are discussing. Women are expected to be vulnerable, weak, fragile, and if shown any sign of “masculinity” they are viewed as crazy, or unworthy of trust

[@copperredd]

dυde ѕoυndѕ pѕycнoтιc... 😧

[@acuteparanoia]

that's so fucked up. did you tell him you didn't even know who he was?

[@thelostpacket6688]

Just looking at domestic violence sums up everything. Men will continue to abuse women without any problem. He will only end up in jail if he kills her. To escape she either has to die or be jailed.

[@jonmartindeiii962]

And then men would say "men too", this is actually the first time I don't see a "men get SA too" on a video Abt women being SA

[@jonmartindeiii962]

@@cheeryberrie no way 💀

[@PrincessofKeys]

​@@jonmartindeiii962yeah but anyone can get SA in general. It just seems so one sided discussing matters like this when kt comes to terrible human beings in general. Men aren't hesrd either and probably get laughed at more so thsn a woman on this kind of situation. But I get it the topic is this video and we are talking about this video alone.

[@jonmartindeiii962]

@@PrincessofKeys the thing is PPL KNOW. And when men voice out they'll also bring other women down. I know u might respond with a "no not many ppl know" but they do all know, it's only the cops and the justice system that are ignorant. So instead of protesting on social media where u most likely aren't going to be heard say it somewhere more effective. I've seen comments and videos of men who were abuse and they in the meantime bring women down, also most of the time the comments on their videos we're women and they we're all very supportive, u don't see the same thing happen when a women is talking Abt their SA instead u'll suddenly see a comment from a guy saying "men too" and other hurtful things like "she shouldn't spread her legs" or comparing women SA and man's SA. Many women are being SA everyday anywhere on earth and most weren't even heard or got the justice they deserved, men act like ALL of them do. There's a story of a women who was SA by three man, a father, a 'kind' neighbour and another unidentified man, while her 2 yr old daughter was in the same bed staring at her. She didn't get justice, instead the police laughed and ignored her

[@DM-nw5lu]

@PrincessofKeys Excuse me what? Just look at Johnny Depp. Despite him being essentially as messed up as Amber he got all the sympathy. Nobody is laughing at men being SAed. That's just a bs excuse to trivialise what women go through.

[@QUINTUSMAXIMUS]

It seems too many Korean policemen and judges accept the drunk excuse. In Canada, US, the UK , alcohol is never an excuse.

[@RedDeadReverie]

6:07 We all know what happened when he had her alone without the cameras. This was a carefully planned SA. He needs to be charged to the full extent.

[@suzimonkey345]

He was a predator looking for ANY excuse to lock onto his prey! 😡

[@Mr.WestcottX]

For real Innocent woman minding her business

[@kc7886]

These videos make me so angry 😭😭 I get so enraged by crime against women especially when there’s literally no reason behind it (well besides plain old misogyny)

[@kamorracousins9952]

Le

[@abbydudu]

he was a criminal since he was a minor and basically Korean laws and regulations allowed him to do whatever he pleases, How can someone with so much criminal record be allowed into society. Shame on the korean goverment

[@ChiM97]

I'm lost at how he wasn't held accountable when he's the one that refused to take meds and receive help with his mental illness

[@PS-we3zs]

Don't want to sound like an asshole but it just seems like everyone was awfully nice to him tbh. Imagine the work conditions for his colleagues, I can't imagine the smell and also he worked at a restaurant for god's sake!

[@nyx0838]

I'm inclined to think the psychiatrist was a woman so he didn't want to cooperate. People can be so scary sometimes, you just don't really know what goes on in their mind.

[@pop70715]

Exactly like it doesnt matter how bad your mental illness is it still cannot be the reason someone else looses their life. Your mental illness may be really bad but it cant be worse than dying

[@rachel4339]

People say mental illness so often that it has lost its impact… paranoid schizophrenia is not just a run of the mill mental illness like mild depression or anxiety. That person was having serious delusions. It doesn’t excuse their action. Saying “they should have been taking care of their mental illness” is a pretty ignorant statement though.

[@tokebak4291]

Delusion make them not wanting to take meds because its perceive as poison

[@policis]

Being drunk while committing crime, makes you get lesser sentences is wierd. In my country being under the influence of a alcohol or drugs makes you get harsher sentences.

[@janelleflowers51]

As a girl, at this point I don’t even wanna bother with walking out on my own at night in the future (I still live with my parents) but yeah, exactly because of stuff like this. I feel so bad for this woman and others who gone through the same thing she had

[@ve_rb]

Big sad

[@alishac5096]

Never let anyone shame you out of using the buddy system for the bathroom. It’s important to be careful in stairways like this, especially in car parks or buildings with multiple businesses or public access. Check in with your surroundings and always trust the vibes or the gut instinct of friends and animals. ❤

[@Stop_It_Just_Stop]

lol imagine thinking that you can’t possibly be a misogynist just because a few women liked you at some point in your life 💀 imagine thinking that literally mudering someone is equal to accidentally flicking a cigarette in your general direction 🤦🏽‍♀️ it’s so insane….

[@hotteoki4498]

I've lived in Seoul for years now and I consider myself a pretty empathetic woman... It just drains me to go out in certain crowds. With so many people, you just don't know who might be one of these incels or men with terrible thoughts about women. With all the stabbings and events recently, Korea is just a ticking time bomb-especially with the lack of support for mental health

[@Inconsistent-Dogwash]

I’m sorry this is happening so often to you ladies over there, I hope someone new comes to office soon and starts changing things.

[@Inconsistent-Dogwash]

@TheDongstaI was thinking the same, plus I’m obviously foreign and I woman.

[@kant.68]

Is one of t he safest places in the world even today

[@dorothypage7410]

Go away. Forget the constant excuse of mental illness. There is such a thing as selfishness, narcissism, pure evil, etc.

[@breetoldyouso]

@@dorothypage7410narcissism IS mental illness lol

[@diannegreenshields7421]

I studied/practiced Kickboxing from 17 years old till I was 32 years old. I used the 360 Crescent kick ONCE...and ONLY ONCE!! Never again! It really is a powerful and sometimes fatal blow. THIS was the post I had spoken about...sorry! Lol. X

[@diannegreenshields7421]

OH BTW, the person I dropped was a male! U may guess from my name, I'm female?! LOL

[@aoi_lovesart]

Damn , that's some kick 💀

[@diannegreenshields7421]

@@aoi_lovesart It was, so I decided to drop out of Tournaments and just keep up my training from home.

[@aoi_lovesart]

@@diannegreenshields7421 I think that's for the better👍

[@diannegreenshields7421]

@@aoi_lovesart 🤣😗

[@dablakespace]

I understand more why the 4B movement exists

[@hiimhungry7381]

I’ve never been more pissed off about a case than this literally the fact he had the audacity to say “I was so drunk” blablabla “I should only get 3 years” like wth and now she has to live in fear the rest of her life like wth. like he should be in jail honestly for life…

[@yunhua._]

i feel so bad for yeji. Poor girl really didn't deserve that, she did nothing, and i also feel so bad for yeji's boyfriend. Schizophrenia is scary, not saying all schizophrenic's become serial killers, there are many schizophrenic's who take really great care of themselves, but still, schizophrenia is just such a scary disability. And did people really say that it's wrong to reveal lee hyunwoo's identity? I am losing faith in humanity, fr.

[@faithbrown126]

i love how you talk so carful and loving about this poor woman

[@lana24993]

Living in this world as a woman is so sad and terrifying...

[@rezq9109]

it's not that much better for men you are gonna get punched two times harder in same situation

[@Sinevarming]

@@rezq9109pls just stop

[@Yourhandleneedstobeatleast]

​@@rezq9109🤡🤡

[@shineecrystal]

​@@rezq9109nobody cares

[@Nonyah123]

​@@rezq9109you'll never understand the specific trauma that comes from SA until it happens. It is 50 times more violating than a fight between men. Which is why men will easily admit or even brag they've been in a fight, but NO one talks about SA. sex is meant to be a loving and procreative act. For it to be violated in such a way, WHILE unconscious. It's not comparable. And it happens 98% of the time to women.

[@Mon_amourx]

Every day I realize that the world actually is a cruel place and we’re all just lucky too not be in these kind of positions. Thanks Stephanie for your great storytelling, everyone stay safe out there ❤❤❤

[@Whateverforever510]

Seriously! The older we get, you do get that unfortunate reality check that the world is fucked everywhere. All we can do is live selfishly, because so much pain, violence and beyond is all around us. It’s so sad. And you just feel so numb or helpless because we literally cannot save everyone :’(

[@havinesun720]

What I find really disgusting is how some of the commenters have the audacity to call this that it's not gender based violence. OMG!!!! What else should happen to this poor woman for this to be considered what it actually is?!!!!! And the other sickening part is how the law protects these predators, allowing them to keep engaging in their destructiveness!! Why so much hate towards women!!!! What did we ever do to you?!!!!

[@moorningdawn]

this is horrible, im a man and I wish this f=cked up sh1t wasn't happening. I want my woman coworkers, friends and girlfriend to feel safe. Love all woman, they are strong af

[@JuliRat]

Stay safe, sister, I wish our brothers can learn to respect women 🤦

[@moorningdawn]

@@JuliRat more men need to respect women (im a man hehe)

[@JuliRat]

@@moorningdawn ah mb, Bruther. Also, I found a rock outside an hour ago.

[@JuliRat]

@@moorningdawn it was a really nice rock

[@lindasmith3135]

I am so shocked with korean law. Korean judicial system cannot be considered as the law. I am quite disgusted, law in all countries are biased against women but "oh my God" korean law is a complete joke. My heart really bleeds for Mini. I truly hope she can get through this eventually, and I truly admire her incredible bravery.

[@xpmedia8660]

There is not justice....there's. Just us.

[@Lara-EL]

Wow, I thought that the justice system in the U.S. was pretty eft up...but hearing how this guy had more rights and protection than the victim is gobsmacking!!! 😮

[@Mr.WestcottX]

Likewise. South Korea's justice system is the worst as the USA

[@Shribble]

A mans fragility is UNMATCHED. Its dangerous.

[@JollyGoodJewWitch]

Schizophrenia is one of the saddest mental issues to exist. I do believe that in some cases, like this one, where they need constant care, these patient should be in proper government funded live in facilities with proper care. If that happens all the time we would have less crimes by schizophrenic people. They need protection from themselves and for the general public safety.

[@kierbaudy]

This is not schizophrenia! The guy is a Psychopath

[@AmoreMiu]

Men will never know the fear us women face. We can’t even go for a walk let alone reject a guy without fearing for our lives. This case over all reminds me of that guy that pushed a girl and her friend off a bridge just because she rejected him. Like WTF! Edit to add: WHEN WILL THE KOREAN LAW AND JUSTICE SYSTEM CHANGE?!?! ITS DISGUSTING!

[@dodgyyoutuber9560]

I mean, probably in high crime areas men could know this fear. Where refusing to give a guy a cigarette could get you beaten up, and yes, even raped

[@nanouberthe7598]

@@dodgyyoutuber9560its by men though

[@qazielynn2580]

​@@nanouberthe7598what do you mean? Does that mean they aren't really in danger or something because it's men to men? I do agree women in general are more in danger because they're seen as "easy pickings" (children even more so) but we can't just disregard anything men could have gone through (by men or women or otherwise) because they're men. It's quite dismissive, inconsiderate, and even hypocritical right? I'm sorry if I misunderstood your comment though.

[@dodgyyoutuber9560]

@@nanouberthe7598 OK so if you’re being victimised by someone of your own gender, it means you’re not being victimised? What? Are you one of those people who believe men can’t experience domestic abuse, and always takes the woman’s side?

[@ve_rb]

@@nanouberthe7598I guess women who get body shamed by other women have nothing to be upset about

[@mr.haanya]

I don’t comment often, but I think this is a good time to chime in. I think Stephanie covering these cases of violence against women is so important because it happens every single day. I can’t tell you how many female friends I have that experienced sexual assault, rape, domestic violence, or harassment by men. All I can do at that moment for them is listen and empathize. I feel powerless myself, I can only imagine the pain and trauma something like that will cause. To that point the whole, “not all men argument” is not working. The bar is hell, truly. It’s only it’s getting worse. So if you are good man, prove it, and stay a good man. Pass your good nature onto your those around you as best as you can. Guys we need to understand that women are not for your desire. They are human beings that deserve respect and dignity. We need to understand how to listen, empathize, and understand. Maybe then things will get better. Until then be safe out there. And for the guys listen, the one thing people value the most is to feel SAFE, like to actually be SAFE around you, don’t break that!

[@immyg_563]

i find it so interesting how almost every "inexplicable" crime is a hate crime