He Wants To Date Your Mom?! Weird Situations In The Philippines!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

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[@slainteron4027]

Guess it's better than saying he wants to date the daughter. LoL

[@49525Bob]

The first story is similar to what I experienced on my first visit to my future Ex-Filipina wife. She was allowed to be with me without a family member present during the day. By sunset she was required to be home. Six months later I met her and her mom at the Manila airport. Seperate hotel rooms for two nights. The purpose of that trip was to go to the U.S. embassy for her visa. After that the three of us flew back to Butuan, then a van for an hour to her home. She'd arranged for a hotel for me in the nearest small town. Since I'd proven commitment, her parents allowed her to stay with me. If her parents intent on that first trip was to protect her chasity, they missed it by a couple years, but at least she had no kids. PS. She was MUCH younger than me. Probably a record in the age gap you talk about.

[@49525Bob]

Story three, reminded me of my last trip to Northern Thailand. I'd gone to meat a 32 year old Thai girl who had a young daughter. We stayed together 3 weeks. By the end of my trip I decided to get her a visa. She had an identical twin sister who made it very plan to me that she too was available. The real shocker to me was that her parents approved. I can only assume they were just looking for a support sucker. By the way, as I said they were identical twins. The only differnece I could find was one had a C-section scar, while the other didn't. While I was not new to Thai strange, having lived in Bangkok for three years while in the army, this was a little above my comfort level, but it was a fun 3 weeks. I did not finish that visa process.

[@topjames-b8e]

When listening to stories of LDR's I feel lucky that my Pilipna and I were True and honest from the start even tho her sisters and her friends tried to discourage her as my family and friends did the same to me ....Luckily we both didn't listen to them and we followed our heart and now on our 10th year together .I know I took a crazy chance as did she and I do not recommend anyone doing as we did because the risk now would probably not turn out like our story . I am 63 and shes 51 now .

[@americanandpinay]

On this episode of the Filipina Pea (Jerry Springer Style): He came for me. He married my mother.

[@spincube5734]

In the "west", dating in my 50's is like looking for a parking space at the mall. The good ones are taken & the rest are either too far away or handicapped. I always enjoy that mailbag. Thanx Pea !!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

🤣🤣🤣🤣👍

[@Alopen-xb1rb]

It’s like that everywhere.

[@xiaobao4757]

😂😂 Great analogy!

[@PhillipP75]

Or looks like they play for the Chicago Bears!

[@valdez1d447]

I love the analogy

[@alexbonner2128]

I agree with your advice on all 3 stories. When you started talking about the first one I immediately thought it’s not her brother but husband or lover.

[@johnl9977]

My wife was 24 when I met her, and she has 6 brothers and a very traditional family in Almeria. She met me at the airport. Her brother's are cool, but no, she's 24, no brothers.

[@lovemyFilipina]

I have the same exact thought that is not her brother

[@michaelladigo2395]

I would bet my butt that is NOT her brother.

[@DubaiCanary]

I met this stunning but slightly older woman at a bar-absolutely gorgeous, confident, and charming. We hit it off, and as the night winds down, she leans in close and says, "Would you like to come back to my place for a little mother-daughter action?" I’m thinking, This is my lucky day! If her daughter’s anything like her, this is going to be amazing! When we got to her home we both went inside and then she shouted out...... "Mom.......... I'm home" !!

[@tuberNunya]

That's a joke right?

[@racebiketuner]

Grannies need love too! 😉

[@Guest-u5c]

I hate it when that happens.

[@twofarfromhome]

😂😂🤣

[@roderickjones5984]

😂😂

[@jasoncatron1039]

Great video and great advice. I love when you told Garth that even if you knew a way for him to get his gf back you wouldn't tell him for his own good.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And I said it with love, too ❤️🤣

[@altoclef6688]

@@TheFilipinaPea I knew one girl who actually dated two foreigners - who knew about each other! She let them compete over her, like two deer clashing their horns. Never heard a similar story before or after.

[@johnsmith-gs4qf]

@@TheFilipinaPea And that's why All your subscribers Love The Filipina Pea!😍

[@crafty24]

Hi Pea! I like this format of video. Great information and advise. P.S. You're cuter than a basket of kittens 🤗

[@rockersheart]

Dear guy 1, that's 100% her husband !!! Don't fall for this trick. She's expecting you to not know the language and probably told him you're a long distance friend. It'll get way worse if you go and meet her in person, trust me !

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It’ll be interesting to see what he did 😊👍

[@broderickhennington5336]

I'm with you.

[@GEOFFREYMARKOVIK]

Nah, the husband knows… he is there to make sure you spend & don’t get any pussy. Common trick… especially played on older expats.

[@VinceDee]

Agreed 100%!

[@TraditionalAnglican]

Pea - Your advice to number 2 was spot-on and kind - We men often keep trying to save relationships that are unsalvageable!

[@jeremiethomas8005]

It’s the western scarcity mindset.

[@jinnrose]

I'm a Filipina came from a traditional family. I'm 25 years old when I met my bf online. Corey, a sender of the first story should know that its not her brother but her lover and they're trying to use him so they can enjoy the vacation with his money. As for the second story, there are a lot of good filipinas out there, you just unfortunately found a bad one. You should know your worth and don't try to win back a girl that once cheated on you. She will likely do it again and be more cautious about it next time. Hi Pea, I appreciate that you showed the picture of our former President for the "Mano po" 😊

[@RCFSULAW]

When you date a woman you date the entire family once you meet the kids. Although it is different, when I was both the CEO and program director for a nonprofit youth corporation I had so many kids who wanted me to date their divorced Moms. They would even ask their Moms to meet me. What was even weirder is these kids knew I had a gf. It was in Key West(you should have visited there in Florida) and what was even more awkward was everyone knows everyone and I had to tell my gf every time. Why? She was a pediatric nurse and most of these same Moms brought their kids to see the Pediatrician where she worked. What a tangled web we weave.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Talk about being in demand! 🤣🤣🤣

[@PassportBrosBusinessClass]

2:28 that ain’t her brother lol

[@chrisdavisunofficial]

100%

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I did try to warn him 👍

[@genericchannel5899]

Alabama Filipina?

[@rasheedkesington7506]

That's her boyfriend or her husband

[@badbobby11]

Thanks!

[@ARDEMDE]

For the first story, that is the boyfriend, not the brother. She just want to take advantage of him.

[@ensconced-in-velvet]

I have seen this before. That is her boyfriend or husband. No way that is her brother. Run away from this, it can be dangerous! I've seen it twice with guys I know.

[@smooth1nz]

Absolutely. It’s the boyfriend pimping her out to make some money.

[@altoclef6688]

Not necessarily, but possible. If she is from the province, I'd say 50-50, if she is from a big city, then bf/husband is more likely. When I met my first Filipina gf, things were similar. We could do stuff together the two of us, but only in public in daytime. No possibilities of anything naughty. At night someone from her family was a chaperone. Until we became engaged a year later and everything changed like magic. So it wasn't so much chastity as they wanted to make sure I was serious and wouldn't leave her with a big belly to take care of herself. (Then the whole thing took another turn, but that's another story).

[@mpeugeot]

100% that is NOT her brother, that is the boyfriend or husband!

[@Ghekko-kw3zz]

​@@altoclef6688yep same here, hymen costing diamonds & guarded like the crown jewels. A marriage, 2 children & 5 family passports to Australia later- she's my nemesis.

[@donmorris4399]

In my experience... If the girl's family expects me to take care of them financially, the female family members have to earn it!

[@christopherturco197]

🤣🤣🤣 I'd have been worried about you if you held the males to the same standard.😜

[@josephmontezuma5089]

Earn it how?

[@haroldwalls6591]

Our own precious Pea hits another home run! I loved the Forest Gump references. Not only do you speak flawless English, but you also speak our culture in the USA! It makes your content so much more relatable. WOW! Did you ever find some dark unicorns in this episode!! I was gobsmacked when you suggested that Julia's "brother" might be her husband, but it made perfect sense! We all love you, Pea. Thank you for engaging and providing a safe bridge between East and West. It appears that renowned writer Rudyard Kipling may have to stand corrected when he wrote "Oh, East is East and West is West, and never the twain shall meet". Perhaps a modification is called for : "Oh, East is East and West is West, and if ever the twain shall meet, expect to find a Pea at the meeting". Pea, I hope you never underestimate your worth. You began as a humble province girl, and for thousands, you have become an icon, a guiding light, Ate of the Islands for so many Western men. Sometimes, I will muddle through other vlogs about the Philippines, and there is NO COMPARISON, not in your English, your wit, your en pointe experience, and wisdom. I tend to get wordy and must constrain myself otherwise I will begin gushing. Thank you.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Well thanks Harold! Comments like yours keep me doing what I do ❤️

[@christopherturco197]

Gush away! With Pea it is never effusive.

[@Galahad54]

And if a woman will introduce her husband as her brother, she certainly is willing to fake a cenomar.

[@dwkeleher1713]

And I agree 100 % with Harold, as you truly deserve some kind of award, especially in journalism ​@@TheFilipinaPeaStay safe Miss Pea from those, whose tactics you have exposed. I've learnt so much from you but also learnt the hard way a few times also.

[@ECA2]

I love the 40+ year old Filipinas. They're queens. The classical beautiful woman. No games. They keep it real. Time with them is time well spent.

[@eyeofhorus99]

Agreed. Miss the one I was seeing when I was in my late 20s here in the US.

[@tranquility4921]

Mine is 40+ and she's always very sweet , and caring and always straight to the point no games

[@heartlessangel1460]

If I did't need children, I WOULD date a middle-aged Filipina.

[@andrewc2670]

Hi Pea, I totally agree with your remarks to Garth, he's definitely getting played. Regarding the last case - he should just move on too. If you're attracted to more than 1 member of a family, whether it's mutual or not, then it's not going to end well.

[@christopherturco197]

Makes me think of the song "Did You Ever Have to Make Up our Mind" by the Lovin' Spoonful.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It simply can’t end well, no - especially not in this society 😳

[@ClarkKent-pz4wj]

Maybe the young girl was looking for a guy for her mom? Does that happen?

[@chriselmore1969]

@@ClarkKent-pz4wj I think Pea explained that. Not like that, especially in the Filipino culture, Superman!

[@seattlesix]

Definitely not in the provinces! The scarlet letter is alive and well in those areas 😅

[@chosen_one1602]

Shout out to the foreigners that like the grannys. Not everybody is a cradle robber. I can't imagine showing up to an airport meeting my Filipinas brother/ husband and family. That is diabolical work. The Philippines is just built different.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Very different indeed, yes 👍😊

[@etfremd]

That’s the beauty of a young single mom just make sure she is not married…the family is not going to be overly protective…I met my 20 year old Filipina who had a 3 year old son at the time we met…with her sister that was 24…it was so nice to have her sister there and kept the diner conversation going those first 3 days…yeah I would decline and move on if any male members of the family where playing a blocking role…

[@garywiseman5080]

I love your Gillian outro!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

❤️❤️❤️❤️👍

[@awclewis]

13:03 "doing whatever we can to get off..." ahaha, your funny pea, i picked that up right after u said it. 😂😊😂

[@TheFilipinaPea]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😉👍

[@George-ux6zz]

Yeah, family dating is a bad thing. If you try and it wasn't mom's intention you just blew up both possibilities.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Exactly 👍👍👍

[@etfremd]

Disagree totally! You have to be honest let the young one go…let her know there is no chemistry…then soft approach the mom no harm no foul…don’t go public if Mom is interested until the young one has moved on and is in deep with someone else…by then when you bring the romance out or the shadows nobody is likely to notice and there won’t be hard feelings…keep it under wraps until then..if Mom says nada then no harm no foul…move on…

[@jerryfritz374]

Goooood Morning Admiral. I DO have a Slightly Warped sense of humor. That being said I've been embarrassed at times. But the majority of times the Laughter I get is worth the chance of sounding inhumane or worse. Good Advice as ALWAYS Admiral

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It’s good to hear you’re still enjoying the laughs 👍😊

[@JGTaylor62]

Always love a good Mailbag video. 😁 Please ma'am. I want some more.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍

[@johnmurphy8791]

Great mail bag video. Thanks😎

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I do love mailbag videos 🤣👍

[@ScooterOnHisWay2024]

Hey Pea, do you have any updates on those 3 young people that you set up with food & drink businesses?

[@bruceb7747]

Great video Pea. I was thinking the same thing during Garth's letter. Run Garth run😀

[@7thsluglord363]

Hey Pea, thanks for your videos! I never had intention to try and date a Filipina, but I haven't participated in the dating market for about 6 years now, and randomly decided to try a new dating app since I don't meet many women out and about where I live. Shortly after, I was messaged by a Filipina, she started the conversation talking about a shared interest from my bio, and we have REALLY hit it off over the last several days, talking like good friends, a spark and connection I almost never have with anyone I've ever met. And now I'm thinking about leaving my country for the first time ever, at some point in the future. Your videos are giving me some insight into an unfamiliar culture that I really appreciate! So far, not a single red flag, only good signs. And I'm not an old guy, yet, so the age gape between us isn't nearly as big as seems to be common, I hope that's also a good sign. Anyways, I'm doing my research to learn as much as I can about her and her culture, and trying to be as wary as possible without being off putting, and keeping up with your videos is definitely a big part! So, thank you again for all the information you have shared!

[@jimbarrow9638]

Great information as always add lots of wisdom

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Jim 😊👍👍

[@gyorgymakay8042]

Really entertaining...congrats!

[@microsoftbighard]

Yeah Corey don’t sweat it and don’t overdo it. It’s 2024, many women think like “Men are replaceable” in the preliminary phase and at times even throughout. Don’t ever compromise, no negotiation. You’re the one doing all the work already.

[@robinsandhu5632]

I agreed with it 💯 percent man should stand up for themselves

[@MarksWay7]

This is MARK from "THE VILLAGE THAT SANTA FORGOT" FAME.. :) I wanted to help you assist NANA, and I did receive your message that she has passed away. The reason I showed more than average interest in NANA is this: a year before my father passed away, I mentioned that I was going to take a vacation in the PHILIPPINES, he had the most unusual reaction; he told me about his experiences fighting in the Philippines during WORLD WAR II and asked me to find a FILIPINO SOLDIER to tell him that it was HIS HONOR to fight alongside them. I didn't end up in the Philippines until 2014, a twenty-years after my father's passing, but when I heard NaNa's story of the video THE VILLAGE THAT SANTA FORGOT, it reminded me of his wish. Although Nana was not a soldier, I thought that letting her know my father was happy to help the Filipino people would be just as meaningful, if not more so, than acknowledging a veteran. I assumed I would not find a living Filipino World War II veteran. Anyway, that's why I wanted to meet Nana to tell her in person. Thank you, PEA, love you. just please acknowledge you saw this...

[@gregwilliams2792]

Informative, trustworthy, compassionate, and a strong commitment to providing the audience with knowledge and wisdom, all of these qualities under one umbrella, and the winner is PEA!! ❤

[@TheFilipinaPea]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👍

[@selwyncallender399]

And you forgot Funny and Entertaining 🤣🤣

[@gregwilliams2792]

@ yes that too 😀

[@jayfoil4037]

Great Video, Pea! I liked your advice for the first situation. Honoring her family and their traditions is very important. In the last guy's defense, Filipinas don't appear to age, they appear to stay beautiful! I don't mean to make fun of the issue, but I do find it funny that there is a Filipino term for the situation. Keep up the great work!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And if we have a word for it, that means it must happen, occasionally… 🤣

[@jayfoil4037]

@@TheFilipinaPea I find that so funny!!

[@bigdawg7405]

After 45, they lose their attractiveness. 50 forget it, 60 heck no.

[@fhorst02]

​@@bigdawg7405 You need to look around 😊.. Lots of +60yo that look more attractive than 20-30yo. Genetics and taking care. No one, guys and girls need to look like a sagging Jelly pudding. Some kegel exercise and down there is as tight as anyone can like

[@johnpapa8681]

I wnjoy these videos. She knows how to get to the point. I think her advice is sound and could help anyone.

[@dogbones4592]

More interesting mail, your responses are masterful, things could get pretty dark for those guys quick.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks, and it’s my job to try to lead them out of the dark alleys 👍❤️

[@JodyBerryhill-f4r]

Thanks!🤪

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Oh my, thanks Jody! What an unexpectedly nice gift 🎁 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@JodyBerryhill-f4r]

@@TheFilipinaPea consider it a tip for a job well done,

[@erriconeale6924]

Your favourite cabbie here. I will watch soon. Filipina Mums are gorgeous too!❤

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Yes, they are indeed 🤣🤣👍

[@JoeDMailman]

Be careful Errico! Don't make Pea's mom jealous! :)

[@markJones38133]

Good story. When I was in the Army and station in San Antonio TX in 2000, there was Filipino women at the hospital working. I was a nurse in the Army and work for a agency at different hospitals in San Antonio TX. I realized how close the Filipino was at the hospital on the floor, so I decided to date one so I could be part of the crew and it worked. I even started going to their church there, the thing was she was separated from her husband and he was always around. We dated for maybe a 1 yrs until got transferred to another state, but she would come out to see me, I then realized she cared about me. After 6 months of long distance relationship, we broke up, but it was a learning experience. There is always a lot of Filipino nurses at all the hospitals and I was the only male on the floors back then. I just couldn’t get over her being married and her husband being in the house just as much as me.

[@stevenrobberts3238]

Excellent video as always Pea!!! Excellent advice and lessons.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And it was fun, too! 🤣👍

[@brettogata4410]

Hello, on your first one I’m surprised but it is common and if he really likes her it might be worth it. My story, my kuya met a girl at a pizza restaurant in Olagopo back in the mid 80s (ya Navy) he told me to go with him on the date I was like why, I would only get in The way. But sure enough she brought a friend Carolynn as a chaperone long story short we dated and fell in love ❤

[@johnstreckfuss3068]

Good morning! Blue is a great color for you. Keep up the great work!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Blue just seems to go with my skin color, I guess 👍❤️

[@DCToney]

Pea....you are a wonderful actress. We should all call the producers of Almost Paradise and demand you be put on the cast

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And I’d accept, too! 🤣🤣

[@garyjacobsen4990]

Wow the last story was a good one

[@waynewilliams6999]

You give the some of the best information on your culture

[@BrettWatkins-s1m]

Great video pea very interesting stories just love the mailbag some people just amaze me 😘🙏❤️

[@TheFilipinaPea]

People are fascinating - and capable of almost anything 😳🤣

[@BillyBoy444]

It's not just the brother or sister at the airport. Sometimes they bring the aunties, uncles, cousins and even their neighbor 😅

[@TheFilipinaPea]

@@BillyBoy444 It’s often the whole family, yup 🤣👍

[@sharhune2735]

Good video, Pea. Take care of yourself and I'll see you Friday.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

You know I’ll be there! 👍😊

[@TruSigma712]

Thanks Pea, just when I think I’ve heard it all, I always learn something new.

[@PassportBrosBusinessClass]

Young moms = young grandmothers.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Very true 🤣

[@StevenBond-e3s]

such a great episode thanks

[@sisyphus883]

I like your thoughtful approach to these questions. Even though you're right, they do seem like they have common sense answers. Keep up the good work

[@TheFilipinaPea]

If only they’ll listen! 😊👍

[@Mr.Gibbs980]

🙂very nice Pea

[@michaelhaack3298]

Tuesday evening in Taiwan and suddenly it popped in my mind: its Pea day ! The sun cam up again from behind the horizon! Always happy to see Miss Pea.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

You’re not allowed to forget Pea Day! It’s against the rules 🤣👍❤️

[@curtisstockton7890]

Happy Ms Pea Dsy

[@michaelhaack3298]

@@TheFilipinaPeaYES SIR!!!😂😂

[@gibblespascack1418]

Oh.... I love Bee Cheng's spicy pork. Just down from the Sogo in Taipei.

[@miahconnell23]

@michaelhaak3298 Michael !! Taiwan is a GREAT place to meet good Filipinas !! I didn’t live there single there long enough to figure this all out, but I heard that there are a couple pubs where Filipinas hang out when they have time off (even though most don’t get enough time off if any). And on the weekends, right outside Taipei main station in the park areas you can meet people-workers-who are from someplace else. If a girl is brave enough and non-snobby enough to go work in Taiwan, that can be a sign that she’s cool. And if you don’t meet the Filipina of your dreams at one of the Filipina bars, you WILL meet a girl or two who can help you meet a cool Filipina who is stuck at a factory bunkhouse in Taichung, or wishing for a guy like you back in the home country. Getting to meet when both people are there for work and not 100% trying to “relationship” seems good. You’re not “on the prowl” or “abroad just to be duped,” and similarly she’s not there to manipulate a foreigner.

[@henrycarlson7514]

So Wise , Thank You .

[@JoeJennieJourney]

Wow very good mail bag kaibigan Pea awesome video po

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks, J3! I always appreciate your being here 👍❤️

[@JoeJennieJourney]

@TheFilipinaPea walang anuman syo kaibigan it's my pleasure po

[@stevexaxa3619]

Great video

[@auticusg]

Keep making those videos

[@TheFilipinaPea]

That’s one thing you can count on! 👍👍❤️

[@ZEGO24x]

This was actually very good advice all around! Love your work, Pea!

[@JoeDMailman]

Hello Pea! You're the Doctor Ruth of the Philippines! Thanks for your hard work Doctor Pea.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I heard about her, that feisty little pervert 🤣👍 Yup, sounds like me alright

[@ronfindley2874]

@@TheFilipinaPea bwahahahaha

[@clydekimsey7503]

😅​@@TheFilipinaPea

[@TheTonyEd]

Thank you for the video. Wonderful information and great entertainment.

[@scottguessit]

Thank you again Pea for another lovely video. Also another blue dress Good advice 💖💖💖

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I'll keep the blue dresses coming - my wardrobe is practically all blue now 🤣🤣

[@scottguessit]

You look great in 💙 blue 💙 ​@@TheFilipinaPea

[@frankkie3849]

Nicely said,,😊

[@LuisHernandez-ft9uo]

Thanks for another great video Ms Pea amazing mailbag and your advice is the best part of the videos 😅 .

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Awwww, thanks Luis! ❤️❤️

[@shavan57]

Your videos get more and more amusing every time. Congrats

[@richardbishop6527]

Good morning sweet Pea. Good video. ❤🎉

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And to you as well, Richard! ❤️

[@gaufrid1956]

Lucky I married a Higaonon baylan who is now 60 years old, and we married in Australia when she was 52. So none of the problems mentioned in your video today, Miss Pea!

[@benlaw4647]

Great video Pea! I love the mailbag! Always interesting and great advice! Love the Royal blue dress 👗 Pea! It looks fantastic on you ! Good night ,and God bless! 😊💝🙏

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I got this one at a vintage shop … It’s my new favorite! 👍

[@paulhuval]

Always insightful advice...👍

[@JoeSann-q3h]

Good evening Ms Pea! Thank you again for all your hard work. I don't know of any other vlogger that has so many people being early birds to leave a video comment. Then again.. no one is as punctual as you! Thank you!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’m as punctual as a German train 🤣🥈👍

[@christopherturco197]

@@TheFilipinaPea Or an Italian train under Mussolini. You're the Swiss watch of vloggers, Pea.

[@anthonybahn]

Another classic from the Classy Pea. I love the mailbag videos. Keep up the good work. Happy Holidays!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Anthony! I love mailbags too 👍

[@jpl317]

Another awesome video with rock solid advice. Way to go Pea, and Thank you!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks for tuning in, JPL ❤️

[@KJ-of6lf]

Love the outro! Mary Ann was my fave!❤

[@gecko2000405]

Crazy how rational you are to every other female I see on YT or in real life for that matter. Very solid advice, and one thing I noticed when I dated a Filipina 20 years ago was how much influence the mother has on your relationship with the daughter. I thought I had to win the father over. Nope. The mother had 100% of the say. I think with the last story, the mother may have been asking him indirectly, "Hey, do you have any friends I can date?"

[@TheFilipinaPea]

The mother is the power center inside the household, yes 🤣

[@pyroishere]

Awww poor Kevin, I think he should go to the mom..they may have more in common anyways, hahahha. Is that a plus? Thanks Pea for the entertainment and honest information. Much love Pea!!!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Pyro! Good to see you 👍❤️

[@kalanos4660]

A society that chaperones its young women is a good sign.

[@axelhens7831]

I have donne b4 & every man should do that at least once in their live. Gives a different viewpoint.

[@miahconnell23]

@@axelhens7831chaperoned a friend or sister to help her out ? Or gone out on a date where an Aunty or a friend is there to insure the safety of her friend or family member ?

[@lengabel9479]

Another fun and interesting video, well done as always. Love ya Pea.

[@Niftynorm1]

Good morning Pea!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Norm! We all know your name 🤣❤️

[@anteperic2836]

Hey Pea! Looking gorgeous in blue as ALWAYS!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Well thanks for that, my friend! ❤️

[@anteperic2836]

@TheFilipinaPea blue is your color

[@oldschool5990]

Good Evening Pea you're on target and looking good as always 🥸

[@tomwende5529]

WRT Corey, I respect that. I've been on chaperoned dates; it's usually aunts that the woman is close to who also satisfies the tradition. I was raised by women and I have some idea of how you work. When you get together, you look at all the facets of something. So, having a second set of female eyes on a prospect is a good thing. A brother may not mean to be overbearing or a choice by the family to drive you off. He could be who she's closest to, so he's being over-protective. I'm quite comfortable with chaperoned dates. She matters to her family. That already says a lot about how I might get along with them if I make the cut. Absent a chaperone, once I was serious about someone, I made a bee line for the parents. Whatever the dynamic in the family is exactly the dynamic she would re-create between us if we stay together. I was aware of my own dynamic too, which took some growing up. But I looked at how they got along. And if I put my best foot forward, if I showed that I wasn't some smirking douche, they accepted me and all the rest of relationship building was easier because they weren't throwing sand in the gears. If I didn't like what I saw, I bowed out. Well, after learning that the hard way. I was also rejected by a family because I made a crucial mistake and the relationship withered quickly. That took introspection to learn from, too. The bottom line is that if we link our lives, we link our families. It's prudent to get our arms around how all that would work before we get too deeply involved. It's quite pragmatic.

[@s.c.6367]

Ha ha you’re so funny. Gilligan’s Island and Marianne, my favorite always a pleasure. Thank you.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks SC 🤣🤣❤️👍

[@user-yz8jj2gu7h]

You are very smart and well spoken.

[@barte3822]

Thank you, Miss Pea for the mailbag segment. You always give sound advice. I was hoping you could a walk around the Dumaguete area to show us what Christmas in the tropics looks like.✨️🎄🏝🎅 ✌️❤️

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It looks just the same as every other day here 😢🤣🤣

[@barte3822]

@TheFilipinaPea Lol, I heard it is spectacular and starts in October and lasts until late January.🎄 ✌️❤️

[@Crazykid949]

Pea: Sorry for being late to the party, but I made it just as all the mess was being cleaned up. Was out helping a family member all day. The second email reaction was too funny! Love the reference to Forest Gump (one of my all time favorite movies). In a way I can understand how he would get to emotionally tied up with a woman who actually pays some attention to him after dealing with all the lack of it here in the west, but ... just because you are getting attention from a few thousand miles away, doesn't mean she isn't giving attention to someone just a few inches away at the same time. it's hard to aviod seeing the hand in the cookie jar on that one, don't tell me she isn't searching for a new cookie to treat herself with. Keep up the great work my friend.

[@JoeDMailman]

"Bad boy Peter!" We can Always rely on your humor Pea 😅🤣

[@TheFilipinaPea]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍

[@Guildofarcanelore]

Great advice, as always. I was very concerned about Colin. My first thought was a husband /girlfriend scam. The document you mentioned was a great idea, maybe a pic of it from your phone. As for Peter… things indeed move very, very fast. I’m just concerned that you might have to move!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

If he hits in Stiffler’s mom, he’ll probably need to move! 🤣🤣

[@Guildofarcanelore]

@ with literally millions of beautiful, loving and caring Filipinas to choose from, pick the ONE that will cause the most division in the family! As bad ideas go… this is a terrible idea! My uncle ran off with his brothers wife in the 1950’s and my family STILL talks about it! That brothers children are not recognized by the family, and I can’t repeat the things my mother said about the brother..ex-brother who did it!

[@terrencastelow2753]

The Kool Aid remark on the last show was golden .😊

[@TheFilipinaPea]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍 Thanks ❤️

[@axelhens7831]

Yeah, not planning on going there or date abroad. I'm just here for the humor 👍🏻

[@Jeremylouallen]

Hi pea. I enjoy your mailbag segments. I haven't watched many of your videos lately because I have been busy working two jobs, trying to plan my trip to the Philippines next year, but I had to tune into the mailbag video. It is interesting hearing other people's stories. Thanks for sharing.

[@simon_illyan]

Good morning, Pea 😊

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Best of mornings, Simon! ❤️

[@SuperMVOMarc]

Great watch!!👍🏻👍🏻❤️💚

[@michaelwilbur4320]

Good morning, Miss Pea , I've met some Asian women where their mothers could pass off as their sister ,they were very attractive and vibrant. As for me, I look older than I actually am .lol

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Then it’s lucky for you that we like ‘distinguished-looking’ gentlemen 🤣

[@theverdict4322]

Some pinay that are 45 look 30

[@agypsychild]

Your outros are always fire!

[@erikgeorge3770]

❤❤❤ the beautiful Pea ❤❤❤ have a great weekend ❤❤❤ mailbox segments are always fun

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Yes, I need to do one every month instead of every two 😊👍

[@voice_of_change]

I had a sort of similar experience when I visited Davao to meet a young woman I met online and chatted to for months before visiting the Philippines. And yes like the first guy you reviewed found her with a close friend who never left her side, haha, obviously to protect her chastity as Pea says. At least I got to know some really nice ladies and effectively dated two for the wekk I spent in davao.

[@fhorst02]

Davao is a really nice place and getting a date is so easy. I had a wonderful time there, mout Apo, hot springs and lots of... "LBFM" must come from Davao area😜 (google it) While amazing.. traffic is horrendous. GSC has almost all the charms from Davao, except the congestion.. I'm not a tourist hotspots guy, Walking in the malls here.. If you want, every day someone new. So much flirts! If you're looking for something more serious... Church!

[@aicsusa]

Number one he is not her brother!

[@DavidECoy]

Wow that last one was a new one for me. Lol love these mail bag videos Pea.

[@George-ux6zz]

Goodnight sweet dreams and sleep well Mary Ann. Take care and God bless you 🙏 🙂😊😇❤

[@JodyBerryhill-f4r]

Another great video ma’am! Thanks! And in case you didn’t know: blue looks good on you! Have a blessed day!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I'm glad you're enjoying the content - and the dress! 🔵💙

[@rhonda-my_honda_cb500x3]

@@TheFilipinaPea Hey Pea, I think the specific colour designation of your dress is 'Ultramarine Blue'. It's my favourite colour, and AFAIK it's also the 'Royal' blue! 🤩

[@marclietzau7239]

❤❤❤😂 so much drama …good advice P So wise beyond your years ..😢 I don’t think Marianne ever got rescued😂

[@TheFilipinaPea]

She’ll still waiting to get off! 🤣🤣🤣

[@christopherturco197]

@@TheFilipinaPea Can you blame her? Look at her choices!

[@teddybear-cb3kc]

Pea and her honesty and smile is a couple of things I love about her