He Won't Stop Looking At Other Women Online

What do you do when your significant other won't stop looking at other women online...even if you've asked them to already a ton of times?
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[@JazmineRose.]

I sympathize with her. It all hurts. Choosing to look at other women online consistently after knowing how much it hurts your wife/partner is devastating. It erodes self esteem and sabotages self love. Choosing to lie about it just adds another layer of betrayel. We all can be self-centered, selfish, and make mistakes but at the end of the day, the person you married is YOUR PERSON. Act like it, behind closed doors or to the rest of the world. I truly hope things got better for this couple ❤

[@samanthaarwood1125]

Yep.. lie to your face and say they aren't doing it yet you have proof of what they are looking at... makes me feel like crap and hurts my feelings and he obviously doesn't care. I'm almost done with all this because he is a married man and I feel that's a form of cheating. I was raised differently and I absolutely do not look at other men , or do I want too. So how the heck can this problem get fixed?? Edit to this... I believe he is watching stories about sex as well.. So yeah, definitely feel useless and not loved at all. I would NEVER do this to him. It disgusts me that he is doing all this 😭

[@PolumbiusTheThird]

time to lose weight if this shit is happening.

[@sarahjones5136]

Mine does it all the time. They won’t stop looking at women online but they will for sure lie to you and tell u what u want to hear. He even gets infatuations with other women and likes to come home and act nervous while talking about them . Yeah it’s great , I love it so much . Love what my life has become

[@bjg4002]

They will always do it .only telling you what you wanna hear .

[@kiaadams104]

I like looking at other butt cheeks. This is why I won't get married. There are too many cute butt cheeks in the world. Look. No touching. Should be fine.. Also he shouldn't lie. The lying is the issue.

[@victorialavenderasmr]

Looking at half naked, women is one thing but interacting with them is another. It’s it’s a complete disregard of a girlfriend‘s feelings and how it makes her feel I’ve dealt with this in my current relationship, where my partner has repeatedly liked or commented on half naked women’s pictures on social media on top of that I caught him Sexting four other women on Snapchat. And he purposely cheated because he admitted that he thought that I was fooling around with his sister’s baby daddy and I want nothing to do with him so he cheated on purpose because he assumed that I was doing him wrong at the time, he didn’t see it as cheating, but it is flat out cheating.

[@bjg4002]

He just got caught he wont quit lol . Believe me i know my man is an addict and a liar

[@misaki6100]

Really?

[@melissaonthefritz6380]

Well, this is my life. Seeing that he's looking up hot women micro bikini haul try on videos. All while telling me I'm losing my butt since I lost weight. Yet he doesn't see why I'm upset. Are men really that clueless?

[@marcelawestberry6071]

Porn addiction is killing marriages all I can say

[@atm1425K]

100% true Pornography

[@EadsB7002]

yup! OF and porn is causing so much of the issues in relationships and marriages.

[@gipsygirljannie]

Walk away hun he will always do it sorry to here this

[@superamanda]

I think the problem with this is he wasn’t just glancing at photos now and then, he’s obsessed and fixated on other women. Which means he’s clearly not centering his wife or significant other which is why she needs to end the relationship.

[@EadsB7002]

agree....this is usually a character issue and most of the time they won't or can't change.

[@mikkixo2242]

At this point. Either deal with it or leave. I understand everyone plays the fool but after a certain age, you have to stop being the fool. Moe* is right she needs tough love

[@rickinahmata]

💯

[@laurancurtis7853]

It sounds like he has a sick obsession, one I wouldn't be able to keep dealing after all of this time.

[@EadsB7002]

been there and no it's not worth it! you have to take your dignity and self respect and leave!!

[@CrissaKalifornien]

I am in this situation right now. I had to dump him and block him. What’s also sad is that I would have to force him to take me out on dates and then took advantage of me because I was homeless for a while. I am definitely hurting.

[@Islandgirl198]

How would they feel if the shoe was on the other side ? I know he wouldn’t like it. They are not prepared to look after his women her heart it’s damaging it does destroy what that person thinks of the relationship

[@heatherrose526]

I’m definitely in pain over this happening to me

[@caroldorsett8170]

Three strikes your out!

[@samanthaarwood1125]

Very wrong 😑... I replied to a comment about all this but I am saying it again..... Its not fair for the woman to be put through this stress and feeling worthless 😢

[@samiksharai8612]

Just happened to me and he turned it on me saying why was i looking at his phone. Backstory: I was playing a game on my phone and kept losing so i turned to him and said "i hate this game" but saw him going through that girl's profile.

[@samanthaarwood1125]

@@samiksharai8612 it's not right at all! I believe that if you are married or in a serious relationship then he/she should not be looking at other women on social media or watching trashy videos of women half naked and doing "yoga poses " or whatever... I don't look at men or go watch videos of men. I was raised up that way. It really hurts my feelings and me ego.... I am sorry you are going through this 🫂

[@Katarzyna-h2z]

​@@samiksharai8612what is your plan?

[@samiksharai8612]

@@Katarzyna-h2z I told him I am leaving him and he apologized saying he would never do it again. I figured I'd give him a chance since it's the first time he did this. I told him I can't fully trust him again and he was okay with that.

[@Katarzyna-h2z]

@@samiksharai8612 so he doesn't care

[@flotaylor8170]

I agree with Moe on this one. I personally wouldn’t care if my husband was looking at women on the internet, naked or otherwise, but it clearly bothers her. More importantly, the lying is getting out of hand. Now, his lying says something as well, not sure what, but it could be that his looking at the women is a compulsion and he doesn’t want to disappoint her (or he could just be a liar). But either way, they are clearly not right for each other. She needs a man that doesn’t look at other women on the internet, and he needs a woman that is ok with it. Nothing wrong with that, just go your separate ways. 🤷‍♀️

[@Cc-fj9bf]

Can I ask why you wouldn’t care? Bc my bf of 5 years won’t stop it breaks my heart to the point I feel numb and don’t care anymore

[@JB-jh7fw]

​@@Cc-fj9bfomg that's me rn too. I'm also at a point I've become numb. I've emotionally and mentally detached and I'm glad because at least I'm not hurting anymore. I hope you're doing better ❤️

[@Cc-fj9bf]

@@JB-jh7fw thank you so much 💜

[@JaNaRoyal913]

@@Cc-fj9bfseems like that's what they want us to do.. get numb to the point we don't care about it and just allow if because they may think we don't think we can find better or won't leave them!!

[@JaNaRoyal913]

@@JB-jh7fwthat's what they want seems like! To keep on doing it

[@saraelisabeth9038]

I think it would be times up for me

[@teresadragojevich7691]

I guess it depends the level of looking. Scrolling on Instagram looking at strangers 🤷🏻‍♀️. Is it any different than porn?

[@Cc-fj9bf]

Stop making excuses for your lack of discipline smh .. pathetic.

[@bjg4002]

Always lying 🤥

[@joanitucci7889]

Mine had 2nd fb Lies

[@annpinheiro2918]

Psycho

[@victorialavenderasmr]

Looking at half naked, women is one thing but interacting with them is another. It’s it’s a complete disregard of a girlfriend‘s feelings and how it makes her feel I’ve dealt with this in my current relationship, where my partner has repeatedly liked or commented on half naked women’s pictures on social media on top of that I caught him Sexting four other women on Snapchat. And he purposely cheated because he admitted that he thought that I was fooling around with his sister’s baby daddy and I want nothing to do with him so he cheated on purpose because he assumed that I was doing him wrong at the time, he didn’t see it as cheating, but it is flat out cheating.

[@joanitucci7889]

Mine had 2nd fb Lies

[@misaki6100]

Same just found out I don’t know what to do