Headstrong Mum Forbids 28-Year-Old Son To Move Out Of State! | I Love A Mama's Boy

[@LisaLGruman]

Boundaries are being crossed: mother and son time as a “date”, “couple’s massage”, their holding hands.

[@songbirds3712]

It is disgusting!

[@clayclabaugh5573]

I agree totally weird.

[@Alyinaz]

Creepy!

[@apervertindeed]

Seems weird but if my mom was alive I'd hold her hand forever

[@LisaLGruman]

@@apervertindeed I understand.

[@wm8666]

It’s disgusting when a parent tries to hold back their own child for the their selfishness.

[@ronaldlee7566]

This is sadly true Ma'am.

[@mariaphares4783]

Exactly. 💯👏

[@macyjorgensen5078]

Right?

[@XSemperIdem5]

She's the type to call his boss and put his job at risk, isn't she?

[@carieb6396]

Yes she is.

[@tatacousin]

Seems like it

[@MissTeeFy]

Yup

[@buttery88cups]

😂😂😂 I was thinking the same exact thing. More like get him fired though.

[@uk9383]

Oh you can go to your nearest gas station and bet on that

[@michelefreeman6512]

"Couples Massage?" That shows how delusional and controlling she is.

[@songbirds3712]

Exactly. 🤮🤮🤮

[@briannabates7261]

So creepy 🤮🤢

[@msrainbowbrite]

they have "dates"

[@patriciabjeijeh909]

Right and she calls it a date. I never had a date with my mom I would take her out but we didn't call it a date. It makes me wonder since this lady is married just her husband get the same treatment from her like she gives to her son. Ijs.

[@sunflowertulip9346]

Creepy asf

[@blythe2732]

She sees him every weekend and she cries everytime he goes home??? She's wacko

[@veronicalidstrom5424]

🤣🤣🤣

[@FionaChandoll]

Crazy. He has a family. EVERY weekend.

[@Alyinaz]

A complete nut job

[@spoooook]

She needs to respect boundaries and realize he's not a little boy anymore.💀

[@boredGrinch]

@@spoooook they're married to eachother at this point and she probably can't even spell boundaries

[@magnoliab928]

She is scary crazy. I’m a mom of a son this guy’s age. The point of raising kids well is to have them be independent thinkers by age 18, get an education, have your mom and/or dad be supportive but not up in their business like he’s a 5 yr old are you serious? I’ll bet the daughter-in-law is very distraught over the fact her husband’s cajones haven’t dropped yet.

[@tejana7776]

Cojones lol..🤣

[@misterijeSREBRNA]

You are so right. My son, way younger boy is more man than this guy... But, man when she said - couple massage... Its cring 😱

[@amberroberts3031]

If you raise them right they will do right when your not around. I don't want my son to be in a different state either but if he made that choice then that's what he wants to do. Also for the wife I hope they do move!!!!!

[@tayofftherails]

22iI

[@alibaba-ub2rd]

Imagine thinking your own wants come before your son’s success and his new family. This woman is unhinged straight up.

[@knowbodiesfull5768]

Straight up, side to side, up and down, and all around! (3/16/2022)

[@spoooook]

The mother has absolutely no say, he's not your little boy anymore, you don't own him. He can make his own decisions by himself. 🥴

[@emiliosa934]

Right! She looks and sounds crazy!

[@corinnek3030]

He can but clearly won't.

[@rosesmith3948]

Grow up lady

[@mariaweston5477]

That’s the problem. Mommy is most important to him.

[@1sherba]

I'm surprised he hasn't moved faaaar away!

[@roachqueen1973]

Couples massage isn’t for mother and son. Stop making your son your emotional husband. Doesn’t she have a husband of her own?

[@Yd33lovelyyyy]

That’s the thing, she does have a husband that she pays no attention to at all from what I’ve seen. And she also has a daughter who clearly is the one that doesn’t exist to her, she even said so herself that she’s very aware that her brother is the mom’s favorite but she’s okay with that. Her son is literally her entire universe and it’s just so…creepy isn’t the word to describe it.

[@uk9383]

@@Yd33lovelyyyy you just described my ex husband and his mom. Thats why hes an ex

[@aquariuswoman97]

@@uk9383 Exactly my angel! He's an ex!

[@heidiheisele8608]

@@Yd33lovelyyyy or maybe these husband's don't pay attention? But who knows?

[@deborah8887]

So very strange. Poor Jason is being twisted into a pretzel by a very selfish, desperate woman.

[@stellarosebelladonna6872]

I cringed when the selfish mom said "we're here for the couples massage" and "date"

[@loki-oq6gm]

same its so creepy

[@nurtenkocaman1699]

Agree & holding hands like 😬😬

[@mrgiraffelover7388]

If this was a father saying this about his daughter, people would find it disgusting.

[@melanielowe6321]

100% dissgusting!!!

[@woodyssnake8562]

Some of yall want to make it something it's clearly not

[@sarahhumphreys3980]

Never as my time as a massage therapist have I seen a mum and son come in for a couples massage.

[@kelliazzam1594]

Me either! I've seen mothers and daughters do it but never a mother and son couples massage. I'm a single mom and a former massage therapist and I would never engage in this behavior with my son. It's rather unnerving.

[@debfox]

That would be so freaking awkward.

[@Mrjulianifyable]

@@kelliazzam1594 just curious why wouldn’t you get a massage with your son, and why is that strange?

[@Robbiestarduzt]

Same yet 😂

[@criticRN]

It creeps me out so much. I really dislike this mother. She’s a controlling toxic presence

[@sarabarcelos441]

The way she always finds a way to blame something on Justina is just so ridiculous

[@Melaninkumi]

Away from her

[@ifkica1822]

I feel so bad for Justina. She deserves better

[@minnowstv15]

I'm pregnant and this is giving me horrible nausea 😭😂 what's wrong with this woman

[@loki-oq6gm]

same i wish you a happy and healthy pregnancy and delivery

[@uk9383]

The real problem is the son tho. Hes the spineless one

[@Itspulchra]

I vow to never be this kind of mother to my son. He deserves every dream he can reach, and I would support him.

[@aquariuswoman97]

Exactly

[@jasminegonzalez3573]

Even the baby was crying cause she had to go with her grandma 🤣

[@hellobin1689]

I noticed that to 😂

[@somewhereintx828]

Its so sad to see grown men who are actually mamas boys and dont really see anything wrong with it. Its also sad that a mother would be so selfish to want to keep her son around like that and not let him grow up. Mothers need to know and accept the fact they are raising SOMEONE ELSES HUSBAND OR WIFE. Someone elses mother or father. THAT IS THE END RESULT YOU NEED TO BE PREPARING YOUR CHILD FOR!!

[@corbinconsic]

Yeah I totally agree she's very cringe like he married Justina not his mom and she acts like he needs to hold up some end of the bargain with her haha very sus

[@aquariuswoman97]

You can say that again my love 💕!

[@middylou]

I honestly think he humors her now. Bc he goes along with it to keep the peace. But you can hear it in his voice that he’s over the shenanigans, and knows what will happen if he goes against her. It’s the lesser of 2 evils. Out of all of the boys on Season 1, he’s the only one that isn’t still attached by the umbilical cord no matter how much his mom thinks they are.

[@louloumagoo2512]

Emotionally incestuous. Really unhealthy.

[@mintyvampz1668]

The fact that she kept emphasizing that it was a ‘couples massage’... 🤢

[@realbambinofox]

you don’t think they’re thinking straight ? ma’am . your son is a general manager of a hospital . he is providing for his family . his wife is supporting him because of the career and because it’ll help their family and they’re not thinking straight ?!

[@Mercifulfatification]

She’s a selfish, obsessive, and immature woman. She can’t see past her own obsession and feelings while completely ignoring the actual _needs_ , not wants, of her son and his family. She would rather have him risk his job, his family’s livelihood, over her selfish want for attention and proximity. Seriously, some of the quotes in this video are far beyond unhealthy and have reached creepy/extremely uncomfortable to even -listen- watch to let alone experience.

[@laceypatterson916]

She's just lonely. She doesn't have a man or anyone. All she has is her son. Sad for all involved. The mother needs therapy.

[@ellaynuhh]

@@laceypatterson916she does have a husband most of these moms do have husbands they just let it happen and don't intervene for whatever reason. i assume its easier to let it happen than argue with them

[@sherylmoss9958]

What a selfish lady Get a life Stop smothering him He's a big boy with a family of his own

[@pinkicecrm]

She keeps saying its not healthy for any of us,what she means is that its not healthy for her. She needs boundaries, but he is too much of a coward to tell her how it is.

[@songbirds3712]

Yep, exactly. Jason is a coward!!!

[@boredGrinch]

it's healthy for her also. she learns to let things go and start living like a normal person who's not a freak

[@purplestingstress]

She is so selfish! My daughter is my pride and joy and it was very difficult to watch her leave and move across the country for her education. But ya know what? I LET HER GO! It's not about what I want as a mother, it's about making sure that I support her and her decisions for HER life. That woman - I hesitate to call her a mother - is trying to sabotage her son's marriage and ruin his life. I feel bad for the son and his wife.

[@pamelalansbury94]

Her attachment is way past the line of being healthy. Couples massages and calling it “a date”!?

[@Nbubs-1]

This mom is so awful, she honestly gives me the creeps.

[@jodonthesith7172]

I at least appreciate the fact that he didn’t back down and crumble when she tried her attempt at emotional manipulation.

[@hyperbolic-time-chamber-strand]

The second hand embarrassment is unreal she is seriously the Norman Bates Mom.

[@geribriggs6713]

That woman needs professional help

[@gillygilly3423]

She cries when they leave an hour away? That woman needs therapy! She’s so manipulating. I feel so bad for the daughter-in-law. That mother is going to bring toxicity into their marriage.

[@lml445]

😆 right

[@professionalcommenter]

I married a man that was under his mother's wing. I would never do that again.

[@truthseeker8752]

What happened if you don't mind sharing?

[@Soulfulshal1962]

This is really not normal 😱☹️. I feel for his wife. The Mum needs to remember how it felt for her when she was in a relationship. She should be doing these things with the wife, to build a relationship with her.

[@angelsweet9611]

That’s probably how she felt so maybe that’s why she’s doing all these things to her future daughter in law

[@mrsanonymous414]

@@angelsweet9611 yep!!

[@debstrout1844]

Oh my, they're holding hands during their spa time. Ridiculous! He needs to put mom in her place and quit letting her baby him. He likes it enough to let it continue so..... So it's okay for his wife to live far away from her family but not okay for him to live far from his mother?

[@sehajkaur4167]

honestly, he's pretty mature and responsible compared to the other mamas boys ive seen on these shows. he made a lot of well-thought-out decisions and his responses to his mom are respectful yet firm.

[@personwithlogic3336]

“When Jason and I go out on a date together” what?!!?!? This is literally insane

[@sallyfaatiliga1651]

If you were smart you would have wait till the day comes and tell her straight to her faces rather it's right or wrong . He needs to tell her when the times comes instead of tell her now.

[@sallyfaatiliga1651]

That's just me

[@melissayoutube]

The mum needs a husband/wife. She’s clearly lonely.

[@kai3e]

believe it or not, she already got a husband😭

[@HONGRYYYYYYYYY]

n. Yeah.. her son lol

[@troubiedoobie-doo6697]

The husband knows he’s chopped liver 🤣😂🤣😂

[@KChao47]

She’s like that crazy stalker lady from Misery, they even look alike.

[@mississippimud7046]

I totally see that 🤪

[@jenparry718]

Thought that myself on the first video, when they were shopping for wedding clothes. Mum picked her sons suit so she could match it. Gave no heed to his fiance. Even the staff in the shop were embarassed.

[@catch2322]

Mom needs some friends and a hobbie . If she gets pushy and demanding about the Son and his wifes decisions , she will loose her son . She always brings up how much she has helped tbem as if helping them means she gets to run thier life .

[@gypsydancer6477]

She will never lose her son. She will however lose her daughter in law and her grand daughter. Because a normal self respecting woman can't put up with that much longer. And that man is a man child. He needs to divorce his wife and marry his mom.

[@flossymelton7658]

That son will NEVER leave or stand up to this woman. My guess, he will lose his wife before he disappoints his mother. Best situation, young wife stands firm or leaves and moves on.

[@shayleem7621]

This mother is totally insane. She doesn’t care about anyone but herself.

[@xxmelanniexx]

she needs to make this much of an effort in her marriage

[@pamelalansbury94]

Yeah do we ever even see his dad??? What does he think of her behavior?

[@xxmelanniexx]

@@pamelalansbury94 I have no idea but I know she is married

[@heidiheisele8608]

@@pamelalansbury94 he even thinks it's crazy, but makes me think what isn't he doing for her?

[@Anthonydavis65]

@@pamelalansbury94 we do he got a sister too but the mom dont care about her as much as she does her son

[@anonimas9301]

I’m an only child, so when I turned 28 and told my parents I was moving 6 hours away my parent did not take it well, we’re close, family dinners, family outings so I got why they were against it but by the next day they were wishing me well and helped me move, I understand missing your child, fists couple of weeks I missed my family terribly but we grow up and we move on, it’s the way life goes.

[@lindamontague1967]

She is just living in a world of her own.

[@msoda8516]

Calling an outing with your son a date is weird. I'm saying that as a mother of a son. I would want to be this woman.

[@Kimberly0807]

Makes me feel like she wants validation. And wants everyone to agree with her feelings, even tho she’s 100000000000000000% wrong!

[@PrincessKarrah]

Exactly I feel like I’m listening to a whinny teenager. How much do you want to bet that the daughter in law was secretly doing a happy dance when she learned they were going to have to move away from the mother in law.

[@marymcdonald3778]

Couple massages? Plan B? Not fair? - Who is he planning a wedding with? Anyone see his mom opening a "Bates Motel"?lol

[@midwifeohyeah22]

Out of all the mom's I feel like she is just really scared to be alone.

[@PrincessKarrah]

I can’t imagine or how relieved Justina had to be to hear that they have to relocate and how much better she gonna feel when they’re far away from the smother in law.

[@susancorlett9768]

Man has partner and child,and goes on a spa date with his mum? What a strand weird set up. He needs to wake up and get away from her as far as possible.

[@skunkie110]

.... kind of a weird time and place to be having this conversation... awkward for the ladies who are rubbing their feet.

[@LisaLGruman]

“Respect” would be the mother not meddling.

[@PrincessKarrah]

The mom needs to realize that she not gonna get her way because she throws a tantrum and needs and needs to stop blaming her daughter in law for everything.

[@dianevess8216]

This woman needs to get a life. She's controlling and self serving.

[@thelanguageofthebirds]

The entire couples massage is creepy

[@cfg1110]

Holding hands too.. ew lol

[@deniesedennis6126]

Moving to another state is gonna be the thing for Jason & his girlfriend!!

[@emilayy9203]

She should always support her childs decision if he wants to let him leave let him leave!

[@nellefiasco3573]

What she wanted to say is “your not thinking of what’s best for me.” She is delusional.

[@sierraroberts1274]

Everyone needs to grow their own way. Like he said “he needs to support his own family”. At least he knows he needs to do that. Obviously this mother needs to grow up and get herself therapy about this stuff. She’s crazy!

[@ruthhansberry6361]

He needs to tell his MOM SHE IS ABSOLUTELY INAPPROPRIATE!!!!!!!!!

[@highro13]

I come back here from time to time when I need to be reminded of how crazy my mother in law COULD actually be

[@xXSammieManXx]

She has an obsessive attachment to her own son. As she doesn’t have a partner, she’s put all that “love and devotion” onto her own son and him leaving is like a break up to her..

[@mymyMelly]

She says he's not thinking of her feelings like no she is not thinking about his. She's wild man

[@sl_sabourin]

So wrong on so many levels.

[@traceypace4299]

Seriously these mothers make me cringe. And quite frankly the so called men need to grow up and respect their partners

[@blancalopezguzman]

Being a mother to two boys I can understand her sadness...but he has to take care of his family. She doesn't have a say in that, he's a man with a family and priorities.

[@susanbeckett9699]

Wow I can't believe this Mother doesn't want her son to grow and be with his family he has. This is so scary Mother stalker. All about her and not the son.

[@cread32]

This person is extremely selfish and toxic. Run DUDE!!!

[@cintaindonesia6382]

He is a family man now, has a big responsibility to his own family. Mom has to let him go.

[@debbieedwards420]

Catch up? He's there every weekend. Let him go mom. I want to know what happened.

[@Nunu-_985]

Boundaries are a very important and necessary step, healthy for everyone involved. Cutting the cord was the first step nurturing until they leave the nest. You continue to care, pray, love with boundaries. Sacrifice is apart of everyone's life.

[@EvadoCouto]

Excellently said

[@Belluser-we1uc5cb2l]

Mom, you need to cut the Umbilical cord that you have not emotionally cut. He is a grown man. You're being selfish.

[@NaturesPixieArt]

This woman is so unbelievably selfish. Let your son live his life.

[@brihirschi6202]

This is manipulative behavior. You should always be proud of your kids for their accomplishments. Not guilt shame them into staying with mommy and daddy.

[@aliciadouglas905]

No idea how these women don't leave immediately after meeting the mother

[@knowbodiesfull5768]

Couples massage with his MOTHER?!?! Are you kidding me? If that's not sick, I don't know what is. ALL ABOARD, CRINGEVILLE U.S.A.!

[@lillianjessepe7808]

Aw the baby girl talks and plays so well. She's smart!!!

[@deborahb.gerken5837]

Whoa! this is so wrong! This mom has no boundries. Jason, you are not married to your mom. It's not about you.

[@lucyziegler]

She wants so so badly for him to need her and not be able to function without her and that's disgusting and horrible of her as a mother, she should be happy for him and whatever he chooses. He's not your husband he's your son and he does not always have to consider your feelings over his own

[@blondevulcan2]

When she was holding his hand 🤢😳🫣

[@Gloriatp7]

Its pretty obvious she's dating her son. Listen to her language dating , couple outings ect. He's not two you don't have to hold his hand in the spa. She claims she cares about her son and she used the word (but....... ) she is selfish

[@haynesb1705]

I genuinely believe the mother is in love w her son. How could she not be!? This is just so weird. It’s past crazy lol

[@BeautyQ94]

I always said when my boyfriend and I get pregnant, which we have been trying for some time now, that I want our son of daughter to be close to him. There is nothing more beautiful than seeing a father and daughter/son have that great bond together. I would never ever act like some of the crazy moms on the show because that’s just wayyy toooo much. Just how she says couples massages makes me 🤮 There is nothing wrong with a mother and son being close to their mom and my bros love our mom but they literally do not act this way. You can be close to your mom but some of these guys are extremely close to their mom 🤭

[@roxannemoreno2012]

This lady is in love with her son! She needs help!!

[@elizabethtavarez7115]

She needs help!

[@coraline1503]

and he too

[@stepherson13]

"Go out on a date"? WOW, a "couples massage"? WOW!!

[@jackyavaa3459]

This man has a family of his own, which should always come first. His parents/ siblings come second. This women has an unhealthy attachment to her son that is absolutely inappropriate.

[@songbirds3712]

Jason needs to grow a pair!! At this point, this is all up to him.

[@BeautyGoddess_101]

jason's mom: "we're here for the couples massage" "when jason and i go out on a date together..." 🤢🤢🤢🤢

[@janetmecham1059]

Wow, this was so triggering for me the way this mom is behaving. 🙄😡

[@aroseyglow]

This mom needs therapy.

[@itsjust_dip]

Obsessed is beyond the definition of this lady run away fast

[@tatertott2390]

This has GOT to be a show just for tv! It HAS TOO.

[@sandym2427]

I agree. No mother would act that way with her son.

[@pamelalansbury94]

I’m really hoping it is.

[@jenparry718]

I'm starting to think this is 'woke' based production. I'm switching off.

[@TheKatiness]

Maybe it's scripted but I see my husband's mom in all these mons on the show. She was so toxic.

[@tericivitello9618]

She is obnoxious and doesn’t know boundaries.

[@nanlev613]

Also this woman has no concept of boundaries!!! Who holds hands with her son? And does she actually think she has the ability to make decisions for a grown man?

[@cw2921]

The mother is so manipulative and selfish and the son just needs to grow some and be straight up with his mother.

[@pammyjams7529]

She is terrible! What’s “not fair” is that she will not let this grown man start a family of his own. She needs therapy! They need to run!

[@PrincessKarrah]

Justina is gonna be so happy when they move because she not gonna have to deal with her smother in law everyday

[@sallyfaatiliga1651]

I understand but you only have one mother. But I also understand what the son is going through. It's not selfish. Mom misses her son . But honesty talk to your mom everyday. He need to step up and tell her the truth. Either way settle it now.

[@miawillowson1141]

So your telling me you should also sign up for this show ??😂

[@sallyfaatiliga1651]

No did not say that . Never mind you have your opinion I have mine .

[@chloeelizabeth2174]

Stopping your child progressing their career is selfish…which is literally what’s she’s trying to do.

[@jodeesalt4435]

This mother gives me so much anxiety

[@Kristina-tb7sp]

Me and my mom go get pedicures together and we sit ACROSS from each other 😳 this ish is weird

[@tracythomas1414]

He needs to man up

[@baileysmith2646]

I think he needs to move as far away as possible

[@beaglemama7928]

Yes!

[@EmmanuelJDavis]

OK seriously hear me out. Kathy Bates needs to play this lady in the movie because this is outrageously scary and I think only she could Could capture how terrifying this lady truly is