Heart-healthy food prepare in 20 minutes | Five months post-op update after open heart surgery

[@sikdarpradip4491]

Very well cooking demo. Please take time to do what you like to prove yourself. ❤

[@baybongdiary]

Thank you so much 😊

[@alisharatwad851]

Hi how are u …I really feel motivated on seeing u… my son also hav bicuspid valve and dilated aorta ..he is just two years old. I really get tensed and worried all day and night ..I try to keep myself normal in front of people bt I am broken from inside … plz suggest me what to do .. how to take care of him…I want to give him the best education healthcare n everything from my side … pls tell me

[@baybongdiary]

Hi Alisha, I’m truly sorry that your two-year-old has to face this issue. I understand how challenging and overwhelming it can be for you as parents. It's important to understand the situation clearly and explore all possibilities, as uncertainty often leads to anxiety. And you cannot live day and night with anxiety. While I’m not an expert, I’d like to give some information that might help you navigate this. About 2% of the population has a bicuspid valve, a congenital condition. Typically, it doesn't cause symptoms until a person is in their 30s or 40s, and some people may never experience any problems their entire lives. Aortic dilation can occur for two main reasons: either the aorta itself has a structural issue, or a leaky valve causes uneven blood flow, which places abnormal pressure on the aortic wall, leading to dilation. You mentioned that your son’s aorta is dilated. Dilation usually develops over a long period, often decades. This raises the question of what the current diameter of the aorta is and how the cardiologist determined that it’s dilated. If the aorta dilates further (beyond 5.5 cm) or if the aortic valve is leaking severely enough to require surgery, given your son’s age, the surgeon might recommend the Ross procedure. This is considered the best option and can allow for a normal life afterward. In the Ross procedure, the surgeon replaces the diseased aortic valve with the patient’s own pulmonary valve, which is then replaced with a donor valve. Now, Let's say the valve is working fine and only the aorta needs to be replaced; then, if they place an artificial tube to replace the aorta, that tube itself will restore the valve geometry, and that should last for a long time, if not forever. I know this might sound overwhelming, but the key is finding a medical center experienced in the Ross procedure. Although we don't hear a lot about this kind of problem, it is very common in the medical world, and help is available. Your son will have a normal and healthy life. I hope this helps. Please let me know if there is anything else I can do to help you. I will be happy to do some research for you when you need it.

[@alisharatwad851]

@@baybongdiary thank u for all the information that u gave me 🙏I’m really thankful …my husband always motivates that I will make my son the best person …n I really want to do the best for him …even his paediatrician motivates me a lot . I know he will do his best in every field .God is with him n I’m always with him …being a mother I’m worried … When I see motivaters like u n Arnold … I always boost my self that nothing will obstruct my child from being the best person . My god will always protect him 🙏🙏 thank u for such kind words 🙏🙏 I will always be my sons the strongest support n every field

[@baybongdiary]

​@@alisharatwad851 Parents play a crucial role in building children's personality, character, and values. If we demonstrate the best example, they will certainly follow it. One of the difficult parts of being a mother is that you will always be worried about your child. My mother still tried me like I am a little boy :). You do your part; everything will be perfect 🙏 I wish all the best for you and your son. Take care.