Heartbreak? Watch this...

#heartbroken #motivation #selfimprovement #core #jockowillink #chriswilliamson

[@fardeen2466]

"Remember but don't dwell"

[@agagqbq]

"moving on and dont look back" becomes a lot harder when you work at the same place and you walk into this person multiple times a day lol bonus points when she gives super mixed feelings, one day she acts like you just made her day seeing you then the next day she just stares at you this is why you dont date at work, kids

[@samreet25dhillon]

even if you work at same place, it's still possible to just ignore herand concentrate on yourself.

[@agagqbq]

@@samreet25dhillon ive been working on this the past weeks but its complicated when i can literally hear her talk multiple times a day trying to stick to as little contact as possible because i have to focus on upcoming exams

[@BENSTER489]

His one size fits all approach is absolutely ridiculous. What helped me get over my breakup was getting on antidepressants, exercising (which I already did anyway), drinking alcohol and sleeping with other women. Doesn't sound healthy does it. If I was to take his advice, worse yet, be sat face to face being given his advice I'd have taken my own life. End of discussion.

[@agagqbq]

@@samreet25dhillon yes ive been going no contact for the past few weeks because i have to focus on uni exams. its helping a lot, its super awkward because i have to move past her to get to my desk and if i decide to look her way i just catch her staring at me

[@agagqbq]

@@samreet25dhillon yes ive been going no contact for the past few weeks because i have to focus on uni exams. its helping a lot, its super awkward because i have to move past her to get to my desk and if i decide to look her way i just catch her staring at me

[@onebridge7231]

Pinning over a lost girl is a young man’s game sourced from inexperience. Some guys never mature enough even with age and stay mentally weak doormats. Others mature, evolve, and continue forward without the need of a woman to complete them. They can easily walk away if the relationship goes south.

[@fakiv2682]

What the hell are you saying bro. If there's a person you care a lot about, and she cares about you. Even tho leaving is the right decision at the moment, ofc you're not just gonna "walk away easily" without atleast giving it a thought or experiencing a lot of pain.

[@AbcAbc-th4yl]

​@@fakiv2682That is what being a man is about. Minimal attachments, pragmatic view of the world, comfortable in solitude

[@gerardford9706]

Twobridge7231

[@crusader2112]

@@fakiv2682 I think what onebridge7231 is saying is that if there’s nothing between two people, don’t be afraid to walk away. Obviously, if there was a connection it’s gonna hurt a bit more.

[@mast3rchief536]

My last relationship was exactly the same as my first and I hate how much I predicted and knew where it was going to end. My first I started seeing a girl in September and New Year’s day was the last time we spent together, my second I started seeing a girl in September and the last time we spent together was New Year’s Day this year. I feared the same thing was gonna happen this time again and it did. I think by the time Christmas rolls around they both brought me into their family, got me attached and then when the Christmas spirit wears off and the blues kick in they lost feelings. Then both times there was just over a week of uncertainty, messages became dry, suddenly too busy to meet up. Exactly the same and I hate how I couldn’t prevent it. Think there was a fine line of only so much I could do without being controlling, I can’t control her feelings and the more I would’ve tried to prevent it probably would’ve made it worse. Anyways, it’s done and it’s now June, took a while but I seem to have improved. Just next time I’m gonna avoid dating girls in September into Christmas lol.

[@Hazama91350]

Memories can break you or make you move on, it's your choice.

[@B4R7H0L0M3W]

This is something I wouldn't believe but yet again It happened to me before I saw this video. This week my 1.5 year relationship ended. we lived together (she is still here waiting to move out) We fight a lot A LOT. We say we are over then I walk back to her and get her back this is basically the last few weeks on and off... She never did that she agreed with that and waited for me to win her back. How do i know that? Yesterday we ended things and I said I'm done. I'm exhausted. She finally said the words I've been saying all this time "Let's try again" Sadly its too late, we've been trying for too long, she is moving out in two days. Also f... you google for listening. I literally started getting breakup video recommendations yesterday.

[@NSUNS243]

The Google part is too real, it's the same for me pretty much 😂 And yeah the video is spot on. She gave me the cold shoulder after an argument and ignored me, so i ignored her too and didn't try anymore and just lived my life. Now 2 months later she came back wanting to talk. I almost became soft again because i truly love her, but i just walked away.. Idk if i'm wrong for that, but i still kinda hope that it's gonna work out in the future, if she's serious about it and tries again then i'll talk. Otherwise, go and no looking back even if it's hard..

[@amineouerdani8692]

we're getting stalked for real , i broke up with my GF 5 months ago because of a dealbreaker related to kids and the moment we end up things , i started getting content about what to do when ur girl dont want kids haha , i was like WTF is that , just leave me alone dealing with my pain

[@Elmo914]

Yeah walking away is the best strategy, if they love you they will run their way back to you.

[@martijnmusschoot]

some people don't have the power to fight for you, if they just got dumped don't walk away if you yet want the other person to fight for you... don't play stupid games... even if there is a chance of success, not every dumped person is able to handle the pain and get you back... most people don't find themselves worthy enough and are so broken that they will let it happen...

[@ffl2000]

Heartbreak has nothing to do with love. It’s the ego that breaks. And if that happens than there was no love at all. It was only a relationship based on admiration and expectations.

[@rcg1111]

There's a big difference between having your feelings hurt and genuine heartbreak. There are some people in life that it is difficult to go on without. People are not replaceable. If you truly love someone, you will pray they find happiness, but that does not mean you won't have a permanent gap in your life and heart where they should be.

[@ffl2000]

@@rcg1111 I know what you mean because I live it too. Who is creating that gap? The person leaving (or dying) or me? And who is holding on to that suffering? That pain, to me, is a great mirror showing me how I deal with suffering in my life. For me the gap represents fear (of death/change). But in truth my life got richer because I had the unique chance to spend life time with that person. That memory fills that gap, for me.

[@urmomma2688]

I have broken up a lot of times but my heart was broken only once. I have a narrow range for love so saying that i loved 5/6 people i happened to date is a little bit hard to believe

[@thundersong15]

@@urmomma2688you sound like my ex

[@vincenzorossi4828]

Ego ...not ego. Heartbreak is heartbreak and it s painful. Told enough

[@A.F.M]

I did this with my first girlfriend... i loved her, but she doesn't look feel or show the same feelings for me, with a bunch of other actions from her, i wasn't happy she doesn't feel give a shit so i decided to finish... i felt really bad for 2 months so eventually everything was just memories...

[@SahilKumarSah12]

Remember, but don't dwell. Thanks! Needed to hear this.

[@davidlee6117]

This is gold!

[@Boiknoikchesshero]

Thank u Jocko, you are a real guy for stating this so clearly

[@Queenbg1]

"Walk away, don't look back". Next 100 suggested videos in youtube and FB: "How to get your ex in 5 simple steps..."

[@ii_Prodigyyy]

Put down the phone then. Get moving/ productive king.

[@GsnaGs]

True.

[@june20886]

So very well said

[@MalesuImmanuel]

You are right, even when they knock tryna come back, just forward, they'll get the memo. Thank you Jocko Sir yes sir..

[@yapangnrongsen5864]

I needed to hear this. Thank you🙏

[@Morgcore]

Glad it was helpful!

[@gaman4cv836]

That is all well and good and I agree. But it can be a bit more nuanced and challenging when it is a divorce with shared custody of the children and you and her are doing your best to co-parent and do right by the kids. You still have to see each other, communicate with each other, plan things, discuss, make joint decisions, etc. Walking away and not looking back is not an option (well it is, but that won’t be what is best for the children). You have to figure out how to work every day to be diplomatic and a partner with someone where there is now likely bad blood between you two even though you used to love her and she used to love you. So now you have to emotionally move forward and not look back in the romantic sense, while figuring out a way to work together as a team putting the kids first. You have to compartmentalize these things. Move on and don’t look back in one aspect of your relationship but focus on building a separate part of that relationship.

[@TheOutlierToday]

It's sooo hard for me to do this. 25 and I've never been capable of walking away.

[@Morgcore]

Do it now king...

[@newaccount4319]

You can brother, we all learned to walk away, i never thought i would be able to but i did. The truth is when a limit of your patience is crossed or your trust is shattered, then your logical mind develops a shield where you no longer care and will not handle todic behaviour, after that anything that destroy your peace, you will instantly cut it, i am also amazed by this

[@gc19901]

It’ll get easier the more you have to, trust me but man up and do it now

[@TheOutlierToday]

@@gc19901 I'm doing it now with a girl I like. Girl is all over me when she sees me then is gonna tell me she's not ready for a relationship and I should forget about her. Haven't seen her or texted her since.

[@ElephantWhisperer222]

Do it now king.

[@stepbro3739]

Young Jocko in the thumbnail looks like gigachad Theo Von

[@beboysub]

I remember

[@Jp-ww6kh]

True

[@anthonyisgro7185]

I saw him in person at one of his shindigs. Good speaker. Good storyteller.

[@eddyer3393]

Wow Jocko you could have been a carpenter. Congrats on your daughters win. Of all the tings we do - death is difficult the other is love and loss. Which all go hand in hand.

[@mw3fanatic]

I disagree. Speaking as a medic and a nurse dying is one of the easiest things u can ever do. U just gotta let go. It's everything to do with living that's hard

[@eddyer3393]

@@mw3fanatic I was rather thinking about the other side - My Dad died, I ddi CPR. My Mom died, I wiped her ass like she did for me. My sister I found the body after days - the smell I will never forget. Living with death - the memories of those who have gone on ahead. WHen my time comes, I am fine I know the Lord and he me - Been "near" death a couple of times - why I am still here, idk to share with you - others too - When my mentors died, at the funerals I cried - because I loved them, because taps does that to a person - something Ai (and I guess sociopath's) will never understand. My guess is - you don't understand or have become numb. No, Sir or Mam - death is not easy on the ones we leave behind. It is however, as I said part of the circle of life. I am old now - hardened to the truth like you - unfortunately.

[@thestrivingbeliever]

good

[@eddyer3393]

Or not - clock is ticking - in a way I agree if she does not show interest - better not get the ♥involved - it is easily crushed - difficult to mend - & the scars prevent future entanglement. I only speak for myself. I read the book of Job many times. Why would anyone want that many camels and goats.

[@MGP2210]

1:20 - 1:22 😮 🎉🎉🎉

[@jamilschoolfield]

I really wished i saw this video 9 years ago

[@simongail8428]

Google must've been listening to my argument with my girlfriend in my pocket, cuz wtf.

[@Malumbrus]

Walk away, don't look back, and don't ever be tempted or distracted by them again. Love and loyalty don't exist.

[@memos9103]

So what‘s people keeping with you when it‘s not love or loyalty? And what makes your mother and father care for you then?

[@Malumbrus]

@memos9103 I mean romantic love. What keeps people with you is that relationships are a transactional exchange. Their life is better with you than it is without or with someone else at that time. Once the transaction no longer benefits one or both parties, you go your separate ways.

[@fakiv2682]

Wrong, very shallow perspective.

[@Malumbrus]

@@fakiv2682 I've seen it all. I'm old.

[@Mutthalbaaz_____Official227]

It's difficult to move on knowing that she was perfect for you, and yet your ego ruined everything. All I have now is my ego once again, i guess.

[@user-zh5fh2li9u]

Is he married ? What is his current situation? Sometimes, something/crime, may get in the way. If two individuals are meant to be together, they will find a way....

[@Morgcore]

Yes, he is married.

[@user-zh5fh2li9u]

@@Morgcore good for him ! When I speak of this, I am speaking within my situation, not his.

[@Morgcore]

👍 alright man