The husband with ocd seems to be a kind and warm person but his ocd keeps him prisoned in his caged world. I hope he will get help to manage this.together with this sweet mom and wife
@Roasty_Toasty_8 жыл бұрын
I felt the same way. He didn't seem like a bad person and even went to a psychiatrist to seek help. He tried on his own but mental illness is something still stigmatized in Korea so I don't think he was treated well. I hope they work out okay.
@beesknobblyknees19068 жыл бұрын
Guys....I just got a chill in my spine. If we're already seeing all these TERRIBLE husbands...imagine the monsters who are hiding and would never allow their wives to submit a concern...
@norag19908 жыл бұрын
Bees Knobbly Knees Not just in Korea but globally, abuse is a very big concern.
@PakistaniGOOGLE7 жыл бұрын
not like this.... i think guys are stubborn in south korea. but i want to marry korean guy. lol but i now have much info about korean guys.
@keroppi10046 жыл бұрын
not all korean guys are like this lol
@MadMax-us9ih6 жыл бұрын
keroppi1004 obviously not but it seems like a lot of them are which isn't good
@Cassie97328 жыл бұрын
For everyone saying that the first wife is Anorexic you know she can just be naturally skinny right? Besides her husband basically says she mainly eats fruits and vegetables which wouldn't put a lot of weight on her anyways. Plus she lost 10kg probably from all the stress she got from her husband so that also adds to the super skinny look.
@lyna15148 жыл бұрын
thats right.
@balooroo86843 жыл бұрын
i have to quickly say im quite impressed with the man in the second concern, he definitely has severe symptoms of ocd that are negatively affecting his everyday life and the wellbeing of him and his loved ones but he's showing clear signs that he wants to change and despite it being incredibly uncomfortable he tried so hard to go with the mc's suggestions and requests. i have hope for him and his family!
@k-dramaurge66363 жыл бұрын
2016: The 50-year old son is considered weird and strange... 2020: The 50-year old son is a knight in shining armor who mastered the skills of combating the covid-19 virus before we even knew it existed.
@Girlxlemon8 жыл бұрын
I think the third man was quite smart when he didn't oblige with Yeongja's requests. Maybe it's not comfortable to sit like that whilst wearing jeans and he certainly did not want people to know where he went to the restroom (what if his co-workers would see or wait for him?). The MCs really think they can do everything even if it is embarrassing to others and although it is part of the show, it is good someone stood up to it.
@Deli2815 Жыл бұрын
it's not embarressing tho. That is part of the show ( since it is a tv show, they need to make it interesting ) and he was asked politly.
@PandaAndFazer8 жыл бұрын
I really hope the husband with ocd gets better! His wife seems so tired of it and I just feel so bad for her... Fighting!
@ekimozkranlar69424 жыл бұрын
he certainly survived the corona tho lol
@salomeabdaladze9898 жыл бұрын
#1 : If he wants fresh food for breakfast, dinner and supper, he can damn well cook for himself. I just don't understand why these women won't divorce these men. I understand the culture is still stiff and unforgiving to divorcees, but once a big group of women speak up for themselves and divorce, everybody will get used to it. do they have those dramas about being brave and truthful to oneself for nothing.
@whatblank41578 жыл бұрын
The culture is indeed one of the reason why they don't get divorce but another reason is their children. It's crystal clear that these women are just house wives and don't have proper careers. Many women in Korea are like that. Once they get divorce, it's hard for women to financially support themselves and of course, their children. This is why it's important to finish with school and get a proper job before you think about marriage. Hello counselor never fails to makes my blood boil but it also reminds me an important life lesson: Don't get married unless you are able to support your self both in mentally and financially.
@whatblank41578 жыл бұрын
wow seriously? well I respect your opinion but I must disagree with you. If you truly love someone, you are suppose to ASK them with RESPECT NOT MAKING DEMANDS. The guy here is clearly don't have any respect or appreciation for his wife at all. I don't see how this is clear to you that this couple are in love.
@mrreeow7 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. I understand that divorce is uncommon in Korea and it may not be the answer to every solution but some of these concerns has me yelling at the computer screen "JUST DIVORCE HIM." I really think a lot of these people don't properly communicate with their significant other before getting married. I've mentioned this before but I always think its important to move in with someone before marriage so you can get a feel of it before committing and I think that's something Koreans lack in doing. I understand its uncommon, but maybe if they started doing that there may be less of these boxed in miserable house wives.
@StarEmpress308 жыл бұрын
After listening to the whole of the third concern and Taejoon's comment about the mono-tone, I wonder, is the husband ... maybe... I think he's a sociopath... without the criminal aspects (as far as we know, but the wife did say he gets mad). I don't mean that in the way where everyone thinks psychopath and sociopaths are interchangeable, but sociopath by the official definition of "a person with a personality disorder manifesting itself in extreme antisocial attitudes and behavior and a lack of conscience" and " [Sociopaths] make it plain that they’re not interested in anyone but themselves. They often blame others and have excuses for their behavior."
@InYourFacePeaceOfSht7 жыл бұрын
sounded more like autism
@elledumble3 жыл бұрын
@@InYourFacePeaceOfSht he laughed at the mean things he said to her.
@kristinesharp62868 жыл бұрын
Will the hosts please stop saying rude things to the female host. She seems a lovely person who comforts the guests and asks goods questions and gives sounds advice.
@bwingbwinggwiyomi8 жыл бұрын
They've been all very good friends for a long time now.. I'm sure she knows that they're just joking mm Kay? Don't take it so seriously.. It's like when your very close friends joke about you, do you take it so to heart? No right? Especially if it's been said in a jokey manner then no right? Exactly, same situation
@kristinesharp62868 жыл бұрын
Words add up over time. I don't believe their intentions are bad, but that doesn't mean it never hurts. Why must there often be a remark at her expense?
@lavinder118 жыл бұрын
lol nah. Yeonja has spoken about this on other shows. They're close friends and coworkers, but that doesn't mean that the jokes don't hurt. Not only that, but the entire nation is laughing at her when the other hosts make jokes at her expense, plus the guests join in because they think it's OK to do. She's said that she doesn't like it either and frankly, I find it really cheap.
@nasri70277 жыл бұрын
kris Sharp its a scripted show.... now that doesnt mean they plan everything beforehand but like yeongja complies to the little humorous jabs abour her weight. but i do hope that koreas culture can come to a place where weight itsnt as big of a deal.
@kristinesharp62867 жыл бұрын
I find it s scripted then my comment goes to the writer and not her fellow hosts. It doesn't really matter where it comes from. It doesn't really matter how well she endures it. It's hard to watch people be like that to a lovely person who was well chosen for the show because of her heart and ability to communicate. It can't be a good feeling to be paid to say things another decides is funny at another's expense.
@FeeOJLee8 жыл бұрын
So the second husband has ocd which is an anxiety disorder... He needs to seek help. I dont know what nonsense doctor gave him medication when most professionals say that cooping training and non aversion training is the best medicine for this disorder. He needs help REAL help.
@beaesmundo17746 жыл бұрын
Jesuferanmi Jebutu I know that this is kinda late but I think nowadays psychiatrists usually just give meds instead of doing therapy. I know a couple of people who goes to psychiatrists and that's what they always complain about.
@MsSHINeeTVXQSuju8 жыл бұрын
SUPER IMPORTANT NOTE: I don't know why this hasn't been done yet on this show, but...I've been watching for quite some time now and seeing some of the people who end up here...I really think KBS should hire a psychologist/psychiatrist as a fixed member on this show...they don't have to MC/carry the show, but having someone there as a consultant could be really (truly) helpful to some really troubled people...
@user-gt1qm7jg2w8 жыл бұрын
I love Youngja♡
@nalad93878 жыл бұрын
The subs are late but watching my neighbor charles has taught me to be grateful that its subbed at all LOL
@btsisbae24308 жыл бұрын
is Choi Tae Joon an official member of hello counselor now? Because they didn't introduce him :/
@karinsionov25128 жыл бұрын
yeah he is and he did introduce himself :D sorry i don't remember which epsiode it was on
@btsisbae24308 жыл бұрын
oh thanks❤
@StarEmpress308 жыл бұрын
I'm probably at least half the age of the guy in the last concern but I have a similar habit (sitting-wise, not the bathroom part) where I always sit with at least one leg up like that or cross-legged (even in class I sit cross-legged on those chairs that are attached to the tables) and I've only been doing it constantly for the last 3-ish years and I already have knee problems, how can he be perfectly fine?
@m.r.49907 жыл бұрын
I love this show 😂❤
@aishal23608 жыл бұрын
I love the MCs
@xyoopridex8 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one who was surprised about the 2nd dude? He looks more like a husband rather than son lmao.
@londy31277 жыл бұрын
xyoopridex the stress from his ocd probably made him age
@VibrantBLVCK8 жыл бұрын
I think they've been reading the comments because they consult a specialists
@kpopruinedmalifeu76258 жыл бұрын
osd is no joke i suffered from it for a long time it's not just the oppressive rituals and the unstoppable oppressive thoughts only you feel so lonely and isolated the son needs help he even said that he is suffering and he want it to end medicines only can't fix he needs a long organised therapy and it takes time he shouldn't give up in the beginning
@OkamiKazeGuWatashiwaStar8 жыл бұрын
Someone get that guy a squatty potty 😭 the female guest on the show mentioned it she needs to give him a link 😂😂
@whatblank41578 жыл бұрын
That's why it's important for woman to get their education done and have proper careers so you don't solely rely on your husband incomes. It's truly sad that many women in Korea just become housewives after they get married and don't think about pursuing their careers further.(I am not saying that all women in Korea are like that) I heard that in Korea, Marriage is sort of considered as obligatory where you have to get married once you reach up to certain age whether you actually like that person or not. I guess that explains why so many Korean couples are ended up shitty marriage.
@kristinesharp62868 жыл бұрын
Life for a divorced woman in Korea is not fun. She may have a hard time finding employment. Her kids are more likely to be picked on at school and they may also have a hard time finding work. It's not just about having a degree.
@whatblank41578 жыл бұрын
true to that. But my point was that it's important to get a proper job and be financially stable BEFORE you get married. I do agree that divorced women don't treated equally as others in Korea. I guess Korea still has a long way to go...
@pf20648 жыл бұрын
Are these hosts that clueless about OCD?
@jWh9705038 жыл бұрын
Well culture plays a huge role in mental health care availability and accessibility.
@Andysnyc8 жыл бұрын
Also, this is a condensed version of a 2 hour-long taping, not everything is seen here.
@jWh9705038 жыл бұрын
Plus, to add, you have to have tact. You can't just - on national TV - say, "well it sounds like you have a pretty serious mental disorder" or "that's a pretty big problem, ever think of doing to a doctor?" It's not appropriate. Plus, like the person said above, you don't know what was edited out or said backstage. These MCs have been doing this show for a while now. They certainly have compassion for people. I'm sure - or I'd like to hope - that they offered some extra words of advice in private.
@vvvvveroeverythingtodo8 жыл бұрын
지혜송 actually the host and guest treated this case waaaay better than other older similar cases, they actually consult before with a specialist to give a little recomendation, the lady in yellow insisted him on going to a doctor and take medication, they know is someting he cant control and didnt insist much into changin him, but they are not profesionals so they cant go saying "oh yeah you have OCD you have to take this and that" is irresponsible, they cant diagnose anyone and saying stuff like that can lead to more ignorance regard the condition like I see so often on the west when someone is a little obsess over someting and they go like oh yeah you have a metal condition OCD....OCD is much more than just that
@sarahmo1777 жыл бұрын
....they did consult a professional. Did you miss that part?
@VibrantBLVCK8 жыл бұрын
the 3rd guy is like L from death note
@laughytaffy198 жыл бұрын
Marianne Francoise omg L is the first person I thought of when I saw him
@RT-zr4th7 жыл бұрын
Marianne Francoise I'm surprised this comment didn't made 1k... L the first one you think of when it's come to that legendary position. Plus this guy's doing it everywhere so...
@elledumble3 жыл бұрын
I hope people can tell the difference between second guy and third guy. Second is aware that his behaviour is affecting his loved one and he even tried therapy! Third guy doesn't care. He laughed about the mean things he said and did to his wife
@hope77138 жыл бұрын
(: was just about to sleep but sleep is so over rated
@ellanora95 жыл бұрын
The second man has “ocd”(I belie that’s what it’s called) and it is a medical condition that is very different to get rid of. You cannot just tell someone with ocd “stop washing your hands” as they can’t,it’s a automatic thing they do. Also this problem is not a valid problem you can fix on a reality show by simply saying “don’t wash your hands” Haters don’t come after me as I have a friend who also has this type of problem
@nora49818 жыл бұрын
I am sick of these concerns about immature husbands. These Asian chicks just date and treat the relationship like it's some kind of k-drama subplot, test their bfs love by the gifts they buy for them or take silly couple photos but never really take the time to address any character issues thinking it will all change after marriage. I've seen it happen to friends and relatives. Asian culture is a little conservative, so relationships (especially marriage/dating) aren't always 'handled correctly' ...
@diamcole8 жыл бұрын
Be careful about making broad generalizations about "Asian culture". There are over forty countries in Asia lol.
@cameronm77998 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Diamond! So many angry women in the comment section generalizing Asian culture and Asian men as if the extreme cases on this show are common.
@UnknownDarknessOfLuv8 жыл бұрын
this isnt just the case with "asian culture" (btw korea, japan china doesnt equal asia, and you shouldnt group a whole continent together... that doesnt makes any sense). if this show existed in north america, or anywhere, you'd find the same issue. the issue is that, generally, men are put on a pedestal in most societies, which is why you find these selfish entitled husbands so frequently. there are also concerns on this show where it's the gf who's selfish as well, so it isn't just men. but my point is, that isn't just the case in east asia. and if you actually think these women married their husbands after a few selfies and gifts then u need to get ur head out of ur ass.
@nora49818 жыл бұрын
Mya A you need to chill girl, I'm Asian and I know how it is. Read my comment again and then see if you don't regret writing that stupid reply. Tell me where I generalised *Asian husbands* ... ok then ...
@nora49818 жыл бұрын
Diamond you girls must be bad at reading and comprehending what's written lol
@aimeesaunders18805 жыл бұрын
I really wish the guys with OCD didn't stop seeing the psychiatrist and stop taking the meds. Usually it takes quite some time before they begin to take effect. He could be so much better by now.
@sunny-gy6ch8 жыл бұрын
These concerns pissed me off so bad -_- but anyways I love the mcs ^_^ The cast for this episode was great~ ♡
@linhdiep79098 жыл бұрын
I feel exhausted when i watched it 😒😒 OMG! I really really and very hate the first husband If i were the wife i would told him to divorced 😒😒
@cutecharms17557 жыл бұрын
OKAY SOMEONE TELL ME THE LAST PERSONS SON LOOKS LIKE PARK JIHOON!!! HAHA SO ADORABLE! !
@musiCiSeVerythingG8 жыл бұрын
umm whats the name of the fourth guest the guy in the grey sweater with the R logo that they didn't introduce? >
@chillychews8 жыл бұрын
Choi Tae Joon. He was a guest for two episodes but then he was made a permanent MC afterwards.
@musiCiSeVerythingG8 жыл бұрын
aww really? i didnt know that thank you so much for informing me :D Kristine Liu
@queenregina18192 жыл бұрын
the guy in the audience when the woman said they pulled each others hair lol
@jangtoy7 жыл бұрын
Alex♡♡♡♡♡♡♡
@MsSHINeeTVXQSuju8 жыл бұрын
1. annoying, difficult, and he's just gonna keep hurting his body like that... 2. highly possible that he has psych issues like OCD (needs to clean things repeatedly and preserve any cleanliness that's been achieved) 3.....
@halleyanntm2 жыл бұрын
I know this is 5 years later, but it is disgusying that it is okay to shower once a week. I think it is quite contradicting with the rule of someone with cleanliness obsessiveness
@PBWK8 жыл бұрын
I appreciate the humor so that we all can laugh for them to lessen their tears. However, it is not solving their problems. What happened to the updates? Plus, there are many people who come on here because they are very desperate and once the voting outnumbers them, they are just an old story. That's not helping them. That's using them. Come on. This isn't just neighborhood gossip. This is supposed to counseling.... but then again, no one on here is certified. It's basically a Korean Dr. Phil.
@amalshefeek60018 жыл бұрын
does this show air every Monday or Tuesday??
@StarEmpress308 жыл бұрын
Depends on what time zone you are in, that's always the problem... and then it's uploaded about a week and a day after it is aired so...
@StarEmpress308 жыл бұрын
Second concern: Anyone else thinking of Lady Macbeth from Shakespeare's Macbeth?
@nnpz_xvjguizl8 жыл бұрын
"As Good As It Gets" :)
@realmnthrwknives8 жыл бұрын
Wait so someone fill me in. Taejoon is the new official MC? I know hes been in all the episodes as of late but I don't think it was ever explained all of a sudden. Not that in complaining lmao hes great, im just so used to the normal set up of the show.
@niamahealani86268 жыл бұрын
Ty Monae ♡ yup they added him a few weeks ago! He is now officially a MC
@realmnthrwknives8 жыл бұрын
Thanks! That's pretty cool
@anoil1257 жыл бұрын
thanks to the third concern, somebody finally shut youngjua mouth. She was so excited in the beginning.
@fifi1213 жыл бұрын
Ngl that comment of yours can come off as rude.
@knjjah27768 жыл бұрын
im looking for the mamamoo episode?
@kardsh7 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for OCD he looked very uncomfortable
@humancake1153 жыл бұрын
The first husband acts exactly like my dad.
@fleabag64778 жыл бұрын
The first guy was so funny it was almost unreal, too entitled though
@kpopdream86288 жыл бұрын
The 2nd man who washes his hands all the time has ocd. They like things a certain way. A lady i saw on a show had severe ocd she would clean the whole house and made her kids shower after school when they came home. She wouldn't let her kids live at home with her and her husband til they reached the age of 7. She didn't want to deal with the mess and germs,so the kids lived with her mom. Only the oldest daughter got to stay at home cause she was 9.
@elwhy695 жыл бұрын
the kid is so cute
@user-go3yj3xv7z2 жыл бұрын
徳永万里子さん本当グォンサンウさん好き残って愛して忘れない
@cutecharms17557 жыл бұрын
Is Tae joon back??!?!?
@dbzfan2002708 жыл бұрын
She is way too skinny. She's not healthy and must be anorexic or something. O.o Anorexic or a underlining health issue like hyperthrodism or something. Know that can make you loose weight if not treated. She even said that her and her husband got into a fight and pulled one another's hair? Wow, there are some serious issues going on with them. Anorexic behavior and abuse. Sad that people just don't see the obvious issue here O.o
@dbzfan2002708 жыл бұрын
Vegetarians are not that skinny. There's a reason why everyone was so shocked when she came out. Seen plenty of vegetarians, and none looked like her. She looks malnourished.
@dbzfan2002708 жыл бұрын
Still think she's not at a healthy weight. Maybe she was normal before she lost the 10 pounds because of stress, but she doesn't look healthy now. It's not naturally skinny anymore for her here. Eugenia Cooney claims she's naturally skinny, but that girl is lying. This woman here may be thin normally, but as of this airing of the show, she looks malnourished. Can say whatever you want, but doesn't change the fact she looks malnourished and anorexic in this episode.
@bootybarbz76468 жыл бұрын
She may seem skinny to you(skinny is a pretty broad word) and to our western body type standards but she is perfectly healthy. Asians have different bone structures than others, including a fast metabolism due to common genetics. For a lot them, it is hard to gain weight and withhold fat tissues as they are constantly burning them(notice how the husband is surprisingly thin for his protein and unhealthy food intake) A lot of them could change their diet, lose weight, and look just as thin depending on the person(which is exactly what happened to this lady). Travel to korea, japan, china or thailand and you will see thousands of people who look just like her. She has a very nutritional diet which is why she remains the weight that she is. Calling her malnourished is an overstatement.
@scholarcat1018 жыл бұрын
The wife isn't anorexic, though she is very thin. Anorexia nervosa is a mental illness. The wife acknowledges she is skinny due to the stress caused by her husband. She didn't lose weight because she has an intense fear of being/getting fat nor does she restrict her calories. She is not in denial over her low weight either. These are all criteria according to the DMV for anorexia nervosa. Please don't throw the term around without giving it some consideration. Saying she "looks anorexic" is demeaning to both her situation and to those with the eating disorder.
@joycehan75717 жыл бұрын
Can I just say that the man who is germaphobic DOES NOT need medication.... he just needs to see a PSYCHOLOGIST and get some sort of intervention going. This is a self-battle. Medication won't get to the root of it all.
@arijitbharali16 жыл бұрын
The second concern is quite pitiful, from all sides. I feel sorry for his family but on the other hand, I feel sorry for the man too who is trying hard but losing the battle to this illness....but it's bad how the hosts are trying to force the man to express his feelings publicly......it's too hard for an introverted man, who on top of everything suffers obviously from a obsessive disorder!
@gracefulbooks73207 жыл бұрын
I get that people love jumping on that hate train when it comes to the husbands but is it possible the first guy might have a selective eating disorder or something along those lines?
@dt46547 жыл бұрын
the first wife literally has no choice and has to go vegan but of course,husband must have meat even tho his wife has to go puke if he wants to eat meat
@jenniferli12548 жыл бұрын
I know the 1st guy is a little selfish but he's really funny lol
@linhexists8 жыл бұрын
the guys at 26:30 were pretty cute tbh😂😅
@user-go3yj3xv7z Жыл бұрын
甘い辛い好き徳永
@jenniek9828 жыл бұрын
GUYS GUYS, I know this may sound crazy...BUT NOT ALL PEOPLE ARE THE SAME. So stop generalising cause no one be liking that ish.
@Amoodz7 жыл бұрын
the mother in law lowkey looks like xiumin
@EroiKuma6 жыл бұрын
54:04 that's my country
@nurain29424 жыл бұрын
So get married or not?
@basiktrolls44187 жыл бұрын
overall the husbands from 1st, 2nd, and 3rd concerns are all hilarious ohmygod i'm too speechless, the three of them would be a great match, a meat lover who hates vegetables, a neat freak lol, and another one who travels 20 mins just to use a toilet and do his fave squatting position or whatever it is lmaooo who wants to join the club?
@nikeshhekka61368 жыл бұрын
why haven't TWICE come to the show ???😔😔😔
@liitle28 жыл бұрын
The woman on the first concern is dangerously thin. I hope she doesn't have an eating disorder and she is well just thin without trying... I just hope that..
@almostatami8 жыл бұрын
If I married that third guy,our marriage would last for a week. Ugh.
@fractionpassion8 жыл бұрын
I thought Taejoon left because of We got Married
@CookiesTriedToEatMe8 жыл бұрын
I never got why people quit permanent, stable jobs in Kpop like this for semi-permanent, fake jobs like WGM
@UnknownDarknessOfLuv8 жыл бұрын
i doubt he'll leave when he just got added to this show as an mc
@StarEmpress308 жыл бұрын
Pretty sure his addition to this show is what gave him his new jump in fame that landed him the WGM gig in the first place
@babyolman16223 жыл бұрын
OCD
@alrehmanmehmuda73404 жыл бұрын
The man is having OCD I guess ,it's not possible for a normal person to Wash hands 30-40 times in a day
@jarkynkyishieva41408 жыл бұрын
Where is the wife of a germophobe husband from if she isn't Korean? I feel like it's Central Asia but I am not sure tho.
@reinax89557 жыл бұрын
She's from the Philippines
@user-go3yj3xv7z Жыл бұрын
暗い悲しい
@aight336 жыл бұрын
why does the son look older than his mom wtf
@BetrayalKnowsMyName8 жыл бұрын
The second guy seems like he's mysophobic... not just him being a clean freak lol.
@갓솜8 жыл бұрын
Nah, the only thing that makes him different from most of the people is him being clean about his hands. Also, wanting to wear clean clothing.
@BetrayalKnowsMyName8 жыл бұрын
dldrlfjqj623 True, but germaphobes are typically the same. Some only care about their face/hands/feet etc. I think in his head its "his clothes are clean which means his body is clean and guarded" whereas his hands aren't and no one's really touching your face etc. You could tell from his body language that its a mental thing and not just him wanting to be clean.
@갓솜8 жыл бұрын
Royal Neko I guess that is correct. Some can only care about few things to be clean and still be considered germaphobic. I guess it is the difference of "how germaphobic one can be" and being a complete germaphobe I wanted to point out.