Hello Counselor - Kim Nayoung, Bae Jungnam, Lee Yeongjin & Kim Yeonghui (2015.11.02)

[@7th_soulchild801]

I CAN'T believe the father from first concern said that Yeongja is not married because she's big ! She's almost 50 years old, if she's not married, that's probably because she doesn't want to. There's more than one guy who would date Yeongja either for the good reasons or for the bad ones (she's rich, don't forget that). She looks so upset from that comment, she couldn't keep up with the topic..

[@srkambbs]

+Barbara Gould Exactly. Just because they are celebrities doesn't mean you can just say whatever you want to. He knows really nothing about her personally. That was so rude.

[@noviajonatan1550]

+Barbara Gould That father is just amazingly horrible... i'm an asian myself, but i never understand these kind of parenting. And yes, not all humans are meant to get married and bore children. geez.

[@Sone2395]

+Barbara Gould Also if he keeps nagging her and saying those words like Pig all the time. Then it will make it even worse and stress her alot. Which leads to that she gives up losing weight and maybe gain more. I think he should rather say in a more nice way and help/invest in helping her to lose weight. Also i feel bad for her to live in a soceity like Korea where they focus on appeareance a lot! I hope she lose weight in the future for her health sake. I know how she feels since i have experienced the same too where my aunts especially tell me to lose weight everytime we meet -_- And im not even that fat or overweight.....

[@carakadibyadewangga]

+Barbara Gould yeah, that father is like a human trash that only judging other people but not look in to himself, and to boost up his confident he need a scapegoat to take all the blame and insult instead of him , so he put it all on his daughter so other people can overlook him who is the same or maybe in worst situation than her, so he is just coward and rude man with trash talk

[@arabnoura8382]

+Barbara Gould He is rude

[@nigelinoooo]

Before I continue watching this, I just want to say I feel sorry for Yeongja at 19:50. The way the dad talked about her was so mean... I also thought yeongja would cry. She tried to laugh it off but i know it was painful for her.

[@queencasey1742]

+nigelinoooo she always laughs off the fat jokes thrown towards her but its obvious they hurt her.

[@nigelinoooo]

I mean this 1 in particular. Its hard to be confronted especially infront of million people with something you don't have.

[@jcho6751]

Ya its verbal attack

[@diamcole]

The daughter in the first concern isn't ugly at all. She's actually quite pretty! She's still young and I'm sure she'll lose weight as she gets older like most people do; her father is just being cruel and it's completely unacceptable. Why in the world would you treat your child like that? "She's already ruined." That's not coming from someone who wants to genuinely help her. Her mother needs to step in and fast before this poor girl ends up needing therapy.

[@Shadedancer05]

+Diamond also they asked her is she should lose weight out of spite if she does try it that way she could get an eating disorder also that would be really bad to

[@Nothing-ll2sl]

'She'll lose weight as she gets older'? Did you even hear her concern about her brother being 'favored' because of a burger. She isn't willing to give up the food despite the signs of sickness she's getting at 13. I agree that the dad is being way too harsh in the way he's getting the daughter to lose weight but if this method doesn't work, there's a high chance that nothing will.

[@diamcole]

Benedict Borja There's nothing about his method that will help her, physically or psychologically. When you're verbally abusing or attacking someone, they're bound to feel high levels of stress and anxiety. People who are already drawn to eat large amounts of food usually do so as a way to cope with whatever it is they're feeling. So attacking her and making her anxious is only going to add gas to the fire and make her turn to the one thing she's most likely learned to use as a coping mechanism. What WILL work is, as a family, changing their lifestyle. If he truly cares, he will bring the family together, let her know what about her eating habits is unhealthy and how they will affect her in the long-run and he will join her in the change. That's what you do when you love someone and want to see them live a long and healthy life. You encourage them, let them know you want to see them succeed and make the necessary changes to ensure that they feel like they're not in it alone.

[@Nothing-ll2sl]

+Diamond It's my bad that I said nothing will work, I was halfway through her concern and had to look at the comment section. I definetly agree with you on that one. What he said wasnt even a compliment. But if I had to classify him, hed be a stereotypical father who hardly displays emotion. I just hope it works out for them.For me, theyre both in the wrong and it was an unecessary to be brought onto the show.

[@diamcole]

+Benedict Borja Oh he's displaying emotion alright. They're just negative and fairly abusive ones. I just hope she's okay and his behavior won't have too large of an impact on her life. Sad thing is, she's only thirteen and he's her father so the chances of her being able to casually brush it off are slim.

[@MrZanetha]

I feel bad for Yeongja...she always endures such mean comments for the sake of laughs. I don't know, maybe she is super professional, but i can't help but feel this job must take a toll or her heart and self esteem. She is lovely and already jokes about her self enough.....

[@drainsalleh]

Yes but this one is too much

[@lucpers]

The first dad is just mean. Why would call your own daughter a pig and make her feel like shit? She is only 13, it's a very sensitive age for her self esteem. Also he attacks Yeong-ja unnecessarily and you could see that she was upset...

[@SoffyLoves]

Ikr. I feel so bad when they criticise Yeonja. These people are merciless man.

[@gabriellasvensson4384]

+soffy2002 I went to South Korea once and they are crazy about being thin. For a girl the perfect weight is having a BMI of 16, it's not healthy. I feel so bad for Yeonja! They are so mean to her every time.

[@SoffyLoves]

+Gabriella Svensson My BMI is 21 so I guess I'd be fat in Korea then. Lol. Different strokes for different folks.

[@ayana_e]

I agree, that man is emotionally hurting his daughter that is in a growing state. If he wants her to loose wait, there are other methods to encourage her to do exercise, not just going around pointing out how much she is eating, how much she weights, etc.

[@siapaaku6763]

the girl fr first concern is pretty ;; i mean its not look like she's obsessed or what

[@silkkk4500]

That father is just horrible, the way he puts her down is unbelievable. I can't understand why he's putting his daughter through this pain, that's unbelievable. She seems like such a bright girl and has an amazing smile. Her dad should be ashamed of himself and her mother should speak up more. I feel so bad for her, the way he treats her is unacceptable.

[@Hazel0283]

Bae Jungnam is really handsome. He has the manly charm to him and his deep voice just adds to it

[@Mochacha2020]

wow... the dad from 1st concern is just unbelievable. how can he be so mean. I literally cried with her. I can really understand how she feels.

[@kaien76]

I hope that Hello Counselor can have a professional psychologist on the panel, because the psychologist would probably offer better advice and also more people would probably heed his/her advice as he/she is more professional than the hosts, even though the hosts have been doing this show for a long time and probably our have their own ways of counseling, but I feel it will still help to have professional advice. Also,most would be good if they could invite audience to say their opinions.

[@cinnarenaroll1292]

the first concern... (i'm only like 11 minutes in so they may mention this later idk) but he was talking about how he was tall and thin at her age??? does he not know that guys generally have less body fat than girls?? also she's like 13 =.= she needs to eat well and grow at that age.

[@mizkelo7348]

The first 2 concerns had my blood boiling. I hope the father changes his attitude towards his daughter and start talking to her with more affection. The mother too she was sitting not even defending her daughter. The one with the older sister, ooooh thank goodness she is no sister of mine. How can someone be so selfish. Personally I think she is jealous of her younger sister and she needs to get a life of her own. And also to have the nerve to treat her own mother like that, she had no respect at all. I hope she will reflect on her actions and change her ways.

[@lele-vl9cz]

There's a limit to how much you can tease a person, even if she's a comedian who is used to taking all sorts of serious or playful insults. Yeongja is obviously hurt by the tall girl's father's words in the first story. Her colleagues tease her all the time but we know they're close and they definitely don't say things to hurt her, but here comes a stranger who straight up tells her she's fat and that's why she can't get married. The guests, some of who are comedians themselves and would laugh and joke about anything, couldn't even bring themselves to laugh after hearing what the father said about Yeongja being unmarried. Neither could her colleagues who always tease her. She had to end the awkwardness herself by joking about marrying jungnam.

[@deeeeeeezzzzaaaa]

I think the Dad from the first concern is projecting his own insecurities about his weight onto his daughter. I wish the Mum would stick up for the daughter and so she knows she's beautiful regardless.

[@tragiedy6051]

as an overweight girl i can relate to the girl in the first concern. her father was too harsh on a freaking 13 year old girl! he probably treated her like an adult bcs of her height but she is just a freakin kid! when i was her age, my aunt did the same things as what her father did and it just made me give up. i was so hurt emotionally and cried everynight. my self-confidence was low, and i was self-concious. i hated myself. a kid should not ever go through such things. the father is just ridiculous. mind my language but, its his fcking daughter for gods sake! what the hell, what do you mean by saying that she has no strengths? omg i feel like slapping him and also give a hug to the poor girl.

[@MSxhavhiie]

+violetxx i feel the same way as you, if i can slap him i will.... saying harsh things to a kid... it will give her a low self confidence and it will hurt her feelings...

[@tragiedy6051]

+NaChick100 yes, but he have to talk to her and not just insult her because that will just make her feel useless. He needs to encourage her or just simply control her diet strictly.

[@Sweetiepie15652]

+NaChick100 Do you think that the girl would be on the show if her dad sat her down and tried reasoning with her? I really don't understand why you're even bringing up your situation because it's not comparable at all. The entire point of the concern is that the dad is mentally and emotionally abusing his daughter by treating her like shit; that's clearly not the way to go about expressing "concern" over your daughters weight.

[@ilovememyselfnidw]

+NaChick100 saying that someone is 'ruined' is NOT tough love. there is nothing loving about that. you can just see how small the daughter felt when he said that. I don't think people realize how damaging it is to hear something like that at such a young age! My heart literally broke when I heard him say that she was ruined. He treated her like an animal saying she's a pig in her pig stay, he doesn't want to be seen out with her because he fears people will laugh. What kind of Father is embarrassed by very presence of their own daughter in public? I can go on and on. I know this is a bit late but I can't stand to think people for what ever reason would find this acceptable and sympathize with the father.

[@rachelajeng6475]

i really wish someone would stand up for yeongja sometimes.theres nothing wrong with her,i feel so furious with his ignorant comment.she is wonderful and her personality is inspiring.she should know that she is loved by many because of that.

[@milafanway1]

The first concern......so frustrating because I was eating lol but wow....wow that dad needs to wake up and talk more with his daughter but wow "she's ruined anyways" someone needs to give him a kimchi slap ughh

[@saraelouazani5457]

ikr he is so annoying how can a father be like that to his own daughter

[@rc.8436]

+milafanway1 god i wanted to shake him. it's like, oh my daughter needs to be skinny, but i wont go on a diet with her cause "she can't do it;. she needs to be skinny but i cant help her exercise. she needs to be skinny but i wont help motivate her. she needs to be skinny but we eat fatty food in front of her. her mom eats at the same time so why is she fat? not like every person is different right? she lost 10 kg but she needed to lose more. i want to raise my second kid correctly cause i messed up with her. she went to the hospital and so i teased, like a child, her with food. i embarras and humiliate her infront of everyone, from strangers to family. i call her a pig and tell her about her weight every chance i get. its like wow so crappin selfish; he's such an asshole, skinny this skinny that, but i wont help you so do it on your own even though your just in 6th grade which is a pretty sensitive age and don';t know much about exercise or diet. and the other family members too; they should freaking stop him like what the heck, is it so much the norm that you can't stand up for a 6th grade child??? like oh my god.

[@rc.8436]

+Rebecca Choe sorry just needed to rant... haha

[@limjunrong8471]

why is it so hard to talk back in korea

[@ohcharlotte7172]

I love Yeongjin! She was so done with that older sister the second concern.

[@destinygirlful]

I love how Bae Jung Nam just looked supremely pissed off during the first concern. He never laughed and knew that the dad's way wasn't right.

[@gimmysumsugar123]

PLEASE get Big Bang on this show!!!!

[@GreyCookieWeirdo]

The first dad... sick. Why can't he just accept her as she is? It has nothing to do with her happiness, and all to do with his pride. Encouraging your kid to loose weight or get in shape can be good, but a kid doesnt need a bully at home. They get enough of them outside.

[@tao3648]

The boy at 15:50 is gonna grow up to be handsome I can tell

[@aegib4e]

yesssss

[@sarahjeung]

YEP

[@laylac]

Poor yeongja she was really mad at the comment :( I don't think she wants to get married actually...she just jokes about that sometimes for variety

[@mial.6418]

I admit that the girl in the first concern is big but she's NOT fat. Heol, what's up with this dad ? Is he even a dad ? Okay, the daughter should lose some weight but she's only 13, she'll lose weight naturally when she'll grow up, stress only make you gain weight.

[@JohnSmith-sq6uj]

+JK lollipop I think her dad is worried about her fatty liver. It is pretty serious.

[@mial.6418]

+John Smith I know it's pretty serious but he shouldn't say it like that. Just imagine your dad telling you "you're a pig" or embarrassing you in front of your family and strangers. Of course the girl would fell bad. But like the other one said (the mannequin) he should play some sport with her, go on a diet with her (Not starve, you only gain more weight when you starve)

[@7th_soulchild801]

+John Smith That's what I thought first, but now I'm pretty sure he wouldn't care much if his son was this big. Listen to him talk, he wants a pretty daughter and apparently he dislikes fat women.

[@diamcole]

+John Smith Then you handle it in a serious manner. Making her the butt of the joke and actively going out of his way to try and make her feel unattractive has nothing to do with caring for her health. There are ways in which you handle situations like this and he's just being an ass.

[@Mafi19]

+John Smith Oh please. That was just a lame excuse. I think he's just ashamed to hang out with her in public.

[@SriRatnaWulan]

I cry a little bit when he said those mean words to Yeong Ja T_T but I am so satisfied when Yeong Ja pushed pillow to his face. Haha

[@GENZsirosais]

I was literally crying on the first concern :'( how can he say that his daughter is already ruined and just want to raise his son beautifully.

[@icey102]

Oh yeah the father was very rude to yeonja.i shed tears when he said that. Big props to yeongja for handling like the boss she is!

[@alimamalice]

I really understand the first concern, my mom did the same thing with me but my dad was always there to say that's alright because i was growing and once my growth stopped we did a diet together. I think that the father should just let her and remind her to eat in regular hours even though her parents aren't there because of their business like my parents did.

[@beelzeebubub]

stop obsessing over physical appearance please, Your make-up and body may catch eyes but personality catches the heart.

[@TheSosoo95]

The first concern... The father got problems. She's so cute and pretty I actually cried a little. I would also feel stressed if I was her.

[@yeongji07]

The father in the first concern will regret it one day, whether it be pushing his daughter to the limit and resulting in a huge incident, and/or severing their ties to the point where the scars he created will haunt her emotionally and psychologically. His choice in words and actions to show his "love and concern" are not positive and encouraging, but more or less abusive. She is at the age where she is growing and considering her height, as well as her bone structure, it is obvious she will stand out more than the average kid. It is people like her father that cause society to be so uptight about image/appearance nowadays. He is more or less saying he will accept and treat her like his daughter if and only if she looks how he believes a human being at her age should look like. Rather than putting her down and kicking her to the curb, he should reflect on his behaviour and realize that abuse will not change anything. After all, a person is more prone to change and compromise through words and actions of love and encouragement, and not from abuse and disgusted looks.

[@erikah843]

I always thought Yeongja was one of the coolest hosts. I hope she doesn't take any harsh comments about her appearance to heart because I swear some people are born just to make sure there is misery in the world.

[@FashionKawaii53]

I love this show thank you for always putting English subs :3

[@HaneulPink]

The best show ever! This and 2 days 1 night

[@fifi121]

A lot of Yeongja’s body is muscle, anyone can tell that. She does what she can to stay in stay in shape, and has a large build. She isn’t overweight at all. She has a lot of muscle that is often times mistaken as fat. I know she’ll never see this but I hope she knows I love her the way she is and if someone doesn’t marry her? They’re missing out big time

[@vmatthews142]

OMG!!! the first story- there is a different between encouraging and bullying, and he is def bullying her, the mother should stand up to the dad more. The 2nd story, that older sister needs to get a grip on reality, she needs to leave her younger sister alone and needs start to live life on her, if i was her sister id slap her cause she is really annoying the 3rd story i think it wasnt too bad, but like one of the panel said, she shouldnt put it over everybodys food, and maybe have a little less.

[@kimballinaseelua4481]

i can relate to the second concern but im older and the younger one acts more like the princess in the house i can relate to the younger sister

[@Tina-vn5cn]

+Kimballina Seelua Yeah, same for me. I'm the oldest sibling of the family, but my younger sister is a selfish princess. Yeah sure I boss my siblings sometimes, but I don't depend on them to do everything for me like the older sister in the second concern.

[@Tina-vn5cn]

+Vicky M I agree with you with the first concern. Puberty hasn't even fully struck the daughter yet. You never know if she'll become a super model when she gets older.

[@vmatthews142]

sometimes when i watch this show, i wonder cause of cultures that i think sometimes that what people get away is crazy

[@Tina-vn5cn]

Vicky M Yeah, I understand. It's different in every culture.

[@safiqaha]

yeonghui look very beautiful in here ... ^_^

[@josheillehufana8875]

Kim Na Young is newly married during this time. Now she's divorced. She has two beautiful children though. I'm glad 😊

[@thandekadaydream]

Youngja knows every single restaurant. And it always kills me😂

[@syafiqahsyazanar1814]

Yeongja is not married yet, but yeongja is a fun person and she's successful. She can date, but probably she focuses on work more than relationship.

[@boramuffin12]

The second concern are just really annoying for me. I usually don't get easily angry but this one concern get me.

[@happyheartslee]

Yeongja has a really strong heart!

[@oowalldecorfinish]

Sorry to say this...Yeongja is my best, she's one person that l enjoyed, when watching this show...l just like her style

[@haqita02]

That first dad is simply spiteful. How can he body-shame a child like that? And his family cowers in his presence too. He's so bitter. It's hard not to hate him. If he does not change his way, this sweet girl will grow up to be bitter and he'll simply lost her due to his own spiteful words. It will slowly break her from within, those words. In front of people! To customers that are strangers! In front of her friends! Too much. Just too much.

[@spiker2309]

oh my god~!! my favourite comedian Kim Young Hee lost so much weight and look so pretty! i cant recognize her at first glance..hwaiting Young Hee-sshi~!!! ^o^v

[@ishaberryvery]

THIS MAKES ME CRY... 😭😢😔😞

[@StarLightGurl16]

The second concern pissed me off to the point where I literally yelled "BITCH DO YOUR OWN DAMN LAUNDRY, DISHES, GROCERY SHOPPING etc....!!!!" I am an older sister that has a younger sister and I don't treat her like servant. I love her dearly that there is NO WAY that I would treat her the way that older sister is treating own younger sister. She needs to GROW UP! And STOP being cocky. Ughhhh, what a disappointment. And she calls herself a older sister. WOW.

[@ilovehotcheetos2779]

I don't get why the first concern didn't win. I think that the father is unappreciative of his daughter. She's 13 and is very vulnerable. That's the time where her emotions are all over the place. Getting teased daily is hurtful but what makes it even more hurtful is that the teasing comes from the father. The father is spiteful, rude and completely immature. He doesn't have any concern for her feelings. He doesn't have the sympathy and focuses on her flaws; like as if the daughter doesn't see her flaws already. A parent should be able to see beyond the flaws of their children and love them with all their heart. However, this "father" doesn't do that. He is rude, stubborn and completely disrespectful. He disrespected yeongja, someone who knows her flaws but chooses to have self pride, even if it is a small amount. The mcee's tease her but she can hit them with her cushion. The father, on the other hand, she can't because she has what he needs, respect. He needs to go learn some manners

[@enidranoel]

haha, the third concern though. Adding yogurt to food... At first I thought adding hot sauce to everything was a horrible idea, but then it sounded like it'd be delicious too. Could relate to her since I LOVE ketchup as much. But Americano sounds a little iffy.

[@nadiah2605]

Lee Yeong jin really looks like Krystal. Her personality too makes her almost similar to Soo Jung. Love her.

[@juneseongmin]

oh man i want all those sriracha sauce. we don't have it here in Malaysia so when i went to seoul back in september bought a bottle and finally tasting it. that sauce is the bomb am loving it gonna buy more of it when i go back seoul.

[@ciktikaa]

i totally can relate with the second concern, mine was not so bad, but it comes naturally for me to cook, and do things for my sister.. I'm so.mad at myself.

[@unknown5211]

He has no respect toward her. He is just destroying her self-esteem, not helping her. If he doesn't stop doing that, she won't be able to respect herself afterall

[@supernaturaladdictxx]

feel so bad for the girl man and I can relate since I've been overweight since I was her age, the worst thing to see is people treating you differently from other children just because of your size. That dad is so fucked up I wonder if he even knows that your supposed to lover you child unconditionally and not just because of their appearance, cause that's what it is if she was thin/pretty ( she is pretty in my eyes and shockingly big) then he would love her and that disgusts me tbh. I'm 18 now and I hate my father more than anything but it took years for that hate/resentment to grow, she also seems like she'll grow up to hate and resent him. My heart really breaks for her cause he doesn't seem like he'll change. I don't get her mom either why is she's letting him treat his daughter that way and why cant she help her daughter loose weight ( she's only like 11-12 in western age). I got so angry man and ughgh his comment towards yeongja was disrespectful/hurtful and down right mean, what as ass wipe.

[@akh5436]

that dad in the first concern is so rude how could he say those things to yeong ja!!!! i feel sorry for the girl

[@9810655767]

The first concern was seriously... wow... I don't know how to describe in words... I really feels so sorry for the daughter... I was in the middle of having my dinner while watching this... I even cried a little with foods in my mouth... I was thinking that her dad is really lucky that he had a strong daughter like her... she's only 13 and he's making her stressed about her weight purposely... I don't think it's a concern... when my brother was the same age as her he was also quite chubby but after puberty hits him he grew taller and became thinner, he didn't even do any exercise other than playing at school... it's not like she's excessively fat... although the liver fats was kinda a problem, if her dad helped her that won't be any problem... I thought if she's too stressed she might do something dangerous like suicide (forgive my wild imagination) calling her piggy daughter and stuff... especially telling his customers about her weight... giving her a scale to weight herself before everyone... that's really too much... and the second concern... waaaaa~ I'll just stop here... I'm all annoyed and frustrated again...

[@yarib6479]

The mother in the first concern is useless. That's how I would have stored her on my phone. How could she just sit there and hear her husband degrade their daughter.

[@StarEmpress30]

Noticed: for all the especially selfish concerns, every guest that sits at the end of the line is the one who ends up getting really mad, Yeongjin at the older sister here, and L back with the "trendy" older brother.

[@tvtoms]

You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. It's called positive reinforcement versus negative reinforcement. Very few people respond well to negative criticism. 10kg is 22 pounds! That's a lot of weight. I've lost 34 pounds in the past 6 months and if someone just told me to lose more without a nice word I might just offer them a nice selection of rare expletives.

[@maluell738]

I‘m so sorry and felt so sad forYeongja . Being humiliated openly,that‘s just too much. She is an intelligent and a successful woman and she is more than her weight. I do not understand such mindset. So rude and unkind.....😤😡 Am just glad Yeongia is that smart to let stride such cruel remarks. Am an avid follower from Germany 🥰😘

[@shirleyzhou4537]

I'm like the hot sauce girl I put sriracha in a lot of things I eat but I don't go overboard with it.

[@leannemariano]

I am so damn mad on the first concern. This is why some people decide to end their life, too much pressure. She isnt fat or ugly and the fact that her father is the one who is giving her a hard time is really a concern i hope the father change or else her daughter will drift away from him.

[@KamilaDalmate]

The girl with the first concern isn't overweight at all it looks like she has a big build

[@gurungck6662]

felt really bad for the first concern girl,I also lost 15 kg for my health problem but it was really hard and I had to do exercise and diet to lose 15 kg for whole summer and she lost 10 kg but her dad didn't even courage her,her dad is really mean. And for yeongja,seriously why would he even talk about her?She was speechless and really unhappy.

[@alexhuynh2621]

Wow, the first concern is extremely serious!! The Dad is just so cruel, I mean, not only he mentally abuses his daughter-a 13 years old kid, but he also encourages the world to do that...WTF??! Shouldn't parents protect their children??! He's acting like a bully to his daughter. Watching him making all of that comments about her make me swear more than the total times I've sworn for 3 years. The girl has an adorable smile and she shines in her own way, I'm glad to hear that she said she's confident. "She's already ruined" Fuck you, If she's ruined then you is the one who's responsible for it Mr. I-Love-To-Bully-My-Daughter.

[@melt.2213]

The first dad is disgusting. I hope someone tells him that. And if there's anyone in that family who's ruined, it's him. Why does this concern only have 135 votes? Seriously.

[@DedexxxArthur]

am i the only one who imagine myself coming to this show and talking about my concerns #idontevenliveinkorea

[@yunjiechung6144]

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[@ShajneenAkhter]

The first concern is disturbing, I mean she's not even that "fat". She has a large build, and is tall. But if her father does truly want her to lose weight he's contradicting himself. He's simply making her feel bad, and telling her to lose weight, but at the same time saying she's already "ruined" and that she "can't diet". If you say it's too late for her, or that she can't diet, then how can you also keep telling her to lose weigh without actually helping or motivating. He contradicted himself!

[@mairakhadzar9230]

Im 13 years old girl....yes i at same age as her but im a little bit taller than her and i was at the same weight as her...my dad used to said that often but suddenly when i enter swimming and netball sport , won medal on competition....he started to praised me and say "please grow taller my precious daughter"....i think her father could change if she make some effort with her height......

[@tahsien1802]

Kim Yeonghui❤️ >.

[@meghandeguzman6416]

The daughter in the first concern isn't fat! She's almost 90kg but she is tall, she has a large build. She doesn't look fat at all. Koreans always exaggerate their standards

[@v0idling]

i feel so bad for heavier people who live in south korea. i know it is a normal, every day thing to nag at people about their weight, but it can really hurt a person's self-esteem, especially if it's as bad as this girl's father. i'm honestly surprised she doesn't have an eating disorder. but extreme dieting and working out is the norm over there, which is just so harmful not only to your physical health but you're mental health, too. and i know not many south koreans talk about mental health, like it's just a thing no one talks about, which is really sad! a lot of these concerns on this show could honestly chalk up to some mental health issues like OCD, alcoholism (then again drinking is super common over there -- south koreans MUST HAVE STRONG LIVERS), etc. i know south korea has pretty much made a giant leap tech wise and they're now a first world country, but from what i've read, a lot of their customs are still... really behind. i can't say much since i live in the US and the media is constantly bombarding us with the ideal body and beauty, but we are slowly making strides to be more accepting of others and to love our bodies for what they are. i hope that this trend carries over to south korea as well. i love my k-pop idols, but some of those girls are truly unhealthy and a few have come forward to talk about the eating disorders they had developed bc of the extreme dieting and the need to be that ideal body type. eating one sweet potato daily or one for each meal is just totally unhealthy -- you are not going to get the vitamins and nutrients your body needs to thrive. and starving yourself is going to slow down your metabolism, which is going to make you gain more weight! i'm sure i'll get flack for this comment and people will tell me it's the culture and i don't understand (which is true, i really don't understand how blase people are about being so rude about someone's weight), but this is just my opinion. i've been reading a lot about k-pop idol diets and the eating disorders that spring up in that industry lately, so...

[@aishaali7418]

Sometimes I just wish I could step inside the show and give those thick-headded people a long lecture so they can go home with their sorry-ass. This is one if the few times I have tears of anger in my eyes with the first concern. Especially when he revealed her weight with some random customers. That dad needs to grow a brain and fix his shitty attitude if he truly wants to raise his kids? After all the girl is 'ruined'. Watch when he thinks otherwise in the future. I can relate so much to the girl since I'm 14 and also 176CM. I also have a big build and receive simular pressure from my parents EXPECIALLY my dad. I wish I could go over and talk to her to make it easier for her.

[@rabiaali8377]

+Aisha Ali tbh I believe she is "ruined" bcuz she's stuck with a asshole father like him :/

[@rmy87878]

if the father on 1st concern teases her daughther like that, im pretty sure when she grows up, she wont talk to her father anymore, her father might become her biggest enemy and doesnt respect her father anymore.

[@eyelandgal]

The first & second concerns really pissed me off. The dad is a complete asshole & I feel so bad for the girl having live with someone like him, he's disgusting. Her mom's also a problem cause she doesn't do anything to stop him from ridiculing their own daughter. At first I thought "how could it get such little votes?" but then I remembered this is Korea & they like telling people to lose weight to become prettier 😒😒

[@eyelandgal]

The sister in the 2nd concern is so lazy & manipulative, just cause she's 2 years older she uses it to her advantage. My brother is also like that, whenever my mom asks him to do something he tells her to ask me instead & he's always complaining about something even though he does nothing. I just want to strangle both him & the wretched girl. The younger sister should do what I do & say "fuck you being older, I'm not your servant!", what if something happens to their mom or the younger sister? Is the older one going to still wait for them to do things for her instead of doing it herself? It's so freaking disgusting how she has no remorse, she just expects that because she's older she should get treated like a princess. And I also think she's jealous that her sister has a man & she doesn't so she's trying to ruin her sister's relationship. I hope the younger sister wakes up soon & start living her life properly.

[@arabnoura8382]

wow ! Kim Yeonghui looks like she lost more than 9kg. great jod dear Yeonghui

[@lc4152]

I haven't seen any Hello Counselor episodes for a while, now I'm back and WHAT HAPPENED TO THE INTRO? I liked the song so much T_T

[@gopelat6403]

Omg the last girl's concern looks like Hyorin from SISTAR

[@IsmaAragto]

The first concern, I cried with her. She is 13 for goodness and he is psychologically, emotionally and mentally abusing her.

[@jazminejackson4587]

the first concern is just so upsetting instead of making fun of his daughter he she help her lose weight 😞😳

[@Maya-dw5jz]

The comments towards Yeongja was unnecessary and I hate it when they mention her because its fricking disrespectful. I'm glad she she back and mentioned about the good looking actresses who are pretty and not married. If one wishes to get married then they will one day. Yeongja is beautiful inside and out. 2. If the girl is happy how she is then leave her be! She is young, she shouldn't be going through this stress. The Dad is a ... how the heck can you embarrass your own daughter like that? (I know this is old but I would like to see a update)

[@MinteeMusic]

I TRIED ALL THOSE DISHES WITH HOT SAUCE ITS GOOD

[@MinteeMusic]

Yogurt with buckwheat noodles is good I would think xD

[@SoulDeepZim]

The sister in the second concern is so brazen!!! Oh my word

[@rabiaali8377]

im sorry but im not okay with the first concern at all, i mean im crying just thinking about it but how can a father say that to his own child. i feel so bad for her, nobody is taking this seriously and you know what i hope for, i hope she grows up and becomes a successful good person and shows her dad how wrong he was. If there is any way for me to talk to her then what i would like to say is this: DON'T GIVE UP!!!!! right now it feels like nobody is listening or understanding how your feeling on the inside but it's okay because i understand and i know your trying your best to stay strong and it get's hard but dont give up, use his hatred to make you stronger become a good person that you wish he would've been to you, become some one great that he thought was impossible, make him regret for ever making you feel like this, stay strong and dont lisen to you hater father, because your beautiful and one day he will see it to but even if he doesn't atleast you should. Fighting :) i hope someone let's her know this

[@user-kb9qs2sc7i]

the sister in the second concern is cute

[@myeshawarthen5436]

A father should be the first man his daughter loves...he sets the example for the men that will later on come into her life so she knows how a man should treat a woman but with the first concern I dont think that he is doing his job

[@amandas.5126]

That first concern though...I can't believe he is even a father of two kids. I would never treat a 13 year old like that. Saying that she was "already ruined" made me so furious. When she said he talks to the customers about her weight it made tear up a bit. I also don't like the fact that he's caring more about the son because he's given up on his daughter. She still has lots of time and many people have different body types, some people lose weight more easier and some don't. I really hate people who favour one kid over another. My mom favours my brother and it really shows which made me feel really stressed and depressed. I really want to go to their family restaurant and talk about how fat he is and laugh at him sooo bad.

[@Jess-gr5hp]

Woahhh the sister doe!! I'm so mad rn! The younger sister is too nice. If i were her i'll leave the older sister alone! Idfc.

[@nazlieelisme8582]

Everyone was laughing but Yeongja looked seriously looked hurt, like she could cry The dad should try losing weight with her and appreciate his daughter instead of wanting her to be like other's.

[@imports4lifetoyotalexus98]

I was surprised that Kim NaYoung is married. When this happen? She is cute and pretty.

[@bellasara1233]

OMG that girl in the first concern.. She is not fat at all. She has just a big build -_-" And I cant believe that her father was so rude to insult Yeongja. He should propably take a better look at himself :P In my opinion Yeongja is amazing and that she isnt married yet doesnt define her -_- I feel so sorry for the girl, in her place I wouldnt be able to survive that terror for even 1 day. He should go to visit a psychologist and stop abusing her like that.. Horrible

[@eyelandgal]

Isn't that Yeonghui from Mamma Mia? I miss that show, her mom was hilarious.

[@aishaali7418]

I feel like I can relate so much with the girl from the first concern! I'm 14 and I'm 176CM and I have a naturally big build. I was always tall but when I hit puberty I became a giant 😂😂😱😂. What that ignorant dad needs to understand is that she'll still have a big build even if she looses weight. You can't expect her to be fricking 40KG like some barbie. Come to your senses...!!

[@queencasey1742]

Dont even get me started on the first concern. i love korea but the weight issue over there is something i will never understand in their culture. of course its good to be healthy but i have seen so many concerns of parents degrading their children because of their weight and its disgusting. There are better ways of handling it. Im a plus size woman and im proud af. Nobody in America says shit to me about my weight, we support it over here. If the person is happy then who tf cares its their body. When i visit korea you best believe ima show up pretty af and plus size as hell. bYE.

[@Kimberlytan99]

as bad as it sounds, i'm also asian and my father has also done every single thing that the dad did to chaeyeon in the first concern. now with puberty i appreciate my curvier figure better but the scars from the verbal abuse are still open and they really result in one having very low self esteem... i guess its asians who are very conscious about image and weight and all...

[@queencasey1742]

Well you slay babygirl. im sure you are abslutely gorgeous and embrace your body. women are meant to full figured and have curves! be happy and be you

[@Kimberlytan99]

Queen Casey thank youu dear

[@melissaivy8860]

😁❤️❤️😁😁😁💙💙💙

[@AdibahAdnan58]

IT'S Sriracha! It's definitely good lah!

[@iooooo_eythere5220]

In the first concern, I wish the MCs would make everyone, especially the dad realize the severity of the problem. Although it's not as evident right now, they have to realize that this can lay the foundation towards a lot of eating disorders and mental illnesses! If this continues, then she may really suffer from this, especially because she is in such a sensitive time period in her growth as a person and in her perception of relationships. They didn't address the core of the problem and that really bugs me, mainly because this is a show aimed at resolving problems. This huge error in problem solving can occur in other concerns and can affect a lot of lives! People may think that I'm over-reacting but I know how easily your life can be affected by self-esteem and your mental state.

[@suonami]

the 1st and 2nd concern are just...ugh!who the hell calls his daughter a pig?!thats just mean and "u lost some weight' isnt a compliment!but the 2nd conernc waned me to slap the older sister so hard like so hard cuz she is so selfish!

[@Ameiaru]

i love sriracha too but i only add drops in when i wanna add in flavor...

[@olenakson2642]

the girl in the third concern looks like Hyorin from Sistar o: