HELP, My Spouse Gets on My Nerves! with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

[@tamicabanks1081]

I love, love, love when you say that "you actually married right, when the devil is trying to convince you that you married wrong." That was perfect!!! ❤🥰

[@gailmcgill5727]

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[@SB-ze9xs]

Pastor Tabatha, You have such a sweet spirit and take criticism so well. I. admire your humility and grace. ❤

[@heygiirltv]

Tab, you aren’t talking too long. Don’t rush or downsize your message. We need to hear all of it and we’re listening.

[@keciadoleman6740]

Amen

[@eslyramirez766]

This is so very real and I love it 🩵 anyone that’s in a marriage understands the truth to this and it’s great that this is shed to the public to show that marriages are not fairytales and we won’t forever be in the honeymoon stage 🩵 best way to kill the annoyances is laughter which is exactly what you guys are doing! Thank you Pastors 🙏🏽

[@heygiirltv]

Honestly, this was one of your best episodes yet. It was raw, real, and authentic. We were able to truly see you all, and see how real marriage can get. We aren’t always using our sweet voices and church tones when the cameras are off. I respect the fact that you both acknowledge one another’s perspective of the reality of situations. We all experience life through our own lens, that’s been molded by our life experiences. Blessings!

[@bettybrezill7143]

This teaching bless my soul, so very helpful. I Thank God for this message. He so awesome

[@deniseslaughter1965]

I absolutely loved this segment! Ken and Tabatha....you are both a breath of fresh air when it comes to relationship advice (Good GODLY advice/counsel). However, I do believe that Ken needs to learn to listen to Tabitha more. Work at not cutting her off. Women and men communicate differently. Be patient and enjoy the ride! When we as husband and wife, stop trying to make the other be who "we" are and expect each other to do things the way "we" do them, we will live a more peaceful and joyful partnership. Kingdom Blessings to you BOTH!

[@glendahenley]

I have been married for 8 years & you guys have been married for 20+ years. I think that it just shows that as men and women we all seem to struggle with some of the same things. But it also shows that we are constantly being molded into the image of Jesus. Whether we are a new believer or a believer that is further in our walk. I love the transparency of your marriage and how you guys are not afraid to show that despite how long you have been married, there are still things about your spouse that will get on your nerves. But God’s grace and mercy and you being firm in prayer and your word is what keeps you together. Just wanted you to know you are changing lives through these podcasts. They are saving and are going to continue to save marriages. Just watching your podcast saved mine. So I’m sending nothing but prayers and blessings your way that you will continue in this. Never stop being transparent. Having this relational aspect of your marriage shows Jesus in the most profound way ❤️

[@robynwade1277]

My God...I needed this at this exact time! Revelation - the real enemy - is the enemy, not my spouse. thank you, Lord!🙌👏👏👏❤

[@caymusic17]

Ooooooh I needed this. Hubby and I have been married 7 years. I thought being opposites was a problem, this has seriously helped me!

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Our recommendation is for you both to sit down and watch and make it a weekly thing you do together.

[@AshlanHernandez]

So thankful for your vulnerability! There is so much power in realizing that me and my husband aren’t alone. Also, it’s so helpful to see y’all hash it out for us all to see and say “that’s exactly what me and my husband sound like”! Love the practical Godly take on a real attack on marriages!

[@denisejones2639]

As a single-in-relationship, your podcasts inspire me to look forward to a lasting committed marriage - you are an excellent and practical model of marriage. 👍🏼👍🏼 Another great episode: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

[@Natasha-iv2qq]

Love, love, love this couple. You're so real nd honest. Blessings❤

[@elisha-marielevy3393]

I love you guys! You can tell you’re getting on each others nerves, being real but not disrespectful and still be loving! ❤❤

[@emilylliah]

If you could double subscribe, I would. For me, this is the most transparent, funniest and best video you guys have ever uploaded. Thank you so much for doing this! May both of you be showered with more grace, wisdom and peace!!

[@robinsonreads2626]

Ken and Tabatha, I was praying on the subject of submission to my husband. I was so confused on the idea and it felt so wrong to me to give myself over to another person. I didn't want to be controlled by a man. I had that attitude of "I don't need a man" and with my husband now, a man of faith, my attitude towards submission was tearing our marriage apart. So I prayed to God and asked him to show me and explain this idea to me in a way that I can understand it. I was directed to your youtube channel and found your video on submission. It changed me, I felt a complete shift in my mental view on submission and had a conversation with my husband about it. I have to say that this has been the best decision of my life, to submit to my husband. I felt so connected to it when you both said that "I trust the God in you." I just want to thank you for praying that your message reached who it needed to reach, because it reached me and it has turned my marriage completely around. It feels so easy to submit to my husband. Thank you both, God Bless.

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Amen!! So glad it was helpful to you and your husband. Thank God for bringing you to our channel 🙌🏾 God bless you and your family

[@maryroseidu4661]

So, I just listened tho the dangers of blame shifting before this podcast and I hear Pastor Ken blame the kids for leaving the lights on 😅😅, his 5/10 showing up while Pastor Tabitha not living up to her 10/10 or 6/10 though. I love your podcast and I listen to it every Wednesdays. I am always blessed.

[@Essy_B]

The way y’all were fussing at each other nearly gave me a headache 😩🤣. Ken be easy on Tabitha cause you be throwing some sly insults okay! You not slick. Also, listen to her more 🙏🏽 women really require that.

[@cyncoach]

This is so true. He is prideful and she is wrapped in grace and never speaks against him. She has a lot of patience. Whew!

[@myaj5080]

Yes, I love watching them, but I pray he will begin to listen to her more & stop cutting her off when she’s expressing her thoughts. A man leads, yes, but a good leader listens intently. It’s kind of like we’re watching the “Ken” show not Ken & Tabitha podcast.

[@sunflowermama4297]

Most podcasters plan their content before coming on the air, so I’m sure a good amount of their banter in the beginning was planned to teach us a lesson. Let’s look at the bigger picture of what they’re trying to share, and allow God to teach us through their experience.

[@MrsYoung-in9ov]

Seriously I’m 5 minutes in and he’s already annoying the crap out of me. She’s so sweet and he’s being so rude.

[@3333falcon]

I appreciate the realness from both of you, but listening is the key and for both partners to work on the things that bothers the other person. Her husband needs to bring the pride down a notch though. Especially if you really love the other person and try to keep the peace. Not that you will do it perfectly, but the fact that you acknowledge it.

[@viviram9803]

Hahahaha I LOVE THIS ONE! 🫶🏼 best couple

[@lookandfeelgorgeous]

Very helpful. I’m still learning not to be overly critical of others. My list would be never ending lol I try to keep in mind there’s more serious matters to worry about and I don’t want to make that person feel bad about themselves.

[@2601selah]

LOLOLOLOLOL I am cracking up! Thank you for this. I love watching your podcast. For real! 🙏🏾🤎🤎🤎

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

❤️❤️❤️

[@Peperu22]

This is so entertaining.. but there's truth in it.

[@battle.rhythm.pursue8892]

19:50 35:10 36:00 Great tips🔥🔥🔥

[@kdt272]

Y'all are such a blessing. Anointed and funny, you rife off each other, its a beautiful thing.

[@donnaleeflowers5820]

Very practical. Love this show

[@keyrobinson]

I love this! Soo helpful. Thank you both!!!

[@monicamccain3772]

Tabatha’s list is about 5 out of 8 that my husband does too. I’m annoyed hearing that she’s annoyed too 😂😂😂😂 God fix husbands, selah.

[@godsamazingcreaturez5959]

I really needed to hear this. Thankyou. Listening to you guys tell eachothers annoyances was like looking into the mirror.

[@yvonneudeagha9577]

I loved this so much and it spoke to me so so deeply. Need to find a way to get my man to listen to this 😭🫶🏾

[@maruqv]

Hahah I have laughed soooo much with this episode 😂 Tabatha is just as strict with organized and clean stuff as I am. And the arguing…. Sooo funny 😂

[@Keonahawk24]

Thanks for being so transparent! I like that you all can talk about this. Gives me hope that myself and future spouse can talk about these things. Very mature ❤

[@beatricenudi]

I wish men understood that nothing says I LOVE YOU more than him just LISTENING. Yes you got places to be and have little time but can i get 10 mins of your undivided attention without you trying to FIX the problem . Ken you may know the whole story but Tabatha just wants to be heard. Look at her as she speaks, empathize, sympathize. Men are to love as Christ loved the church and thats actually listening even when you know how it ends.

[@valentine_music]

I am not married , but this is good advice ! God Bless you both

[@SisterEmm]

The Lord lead me to your channel about two weeks ago. I made it a routine to watch at least one episode of your podcast every day because they’re just so good and I learn so much. But today I feel like this podcast blessed me like no other. This was indeed the real deal. And because it was so real, it was freeing for me to watch. I don’t even know how to explain it, but it’s like there was a shift in the way I used to see and understand certain things. I love your ministry and I’m incredibly blessed by it. Thank you Ken and Tab❤

[@jamio6768]

Marriage is like a sanctification crucible. Thank you for showing how you stay in the heat so something new can come out on the other side. Blessings to you both. I really enjoy how real and honest you are. So refreshing to hear Pastors mention the unmentionable. We are living it all so showing how to bring things into the Light with love is so helpful.

[@angelafichtel3878]

We are so pleased to find this pod cast. It is so refreshing to hear other Godly Christian couples experiencing similar issues. My husband and i plan on listening to your message together.

[@ChristIsK1ng]

Man, this is just awesome. I truly have so much respect for you two for doing this segment. So much truth in this. Love how when you started complementing him after talking about some of the things that got on your nerves about him he started blushing. 😂😂😂 My man’s had the biggest Koolaid smile on his face. No, but for real though, you two are truly allowing God to use you. It takes a lot of humility on our part to allow God to do a work not only in us and on us, but through us as well. Thank you two for being obedient to His calling in your lives. Even if you don’t see the difference that you’re making, God sees it and is recording it in the book of life. Blessings!

[@magicmya]

Lol! This topic is made to make us LAUGH! Thank you Ken and Tabitha 😂❤

[@EagleMegaStar]

Thank you so much for being so open and so real. This Podcast has blessed me in so many ways. By the way, I watch your Videos all the way from Munich, Germany. Please keep doing what y'all doing❤❤❤

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Thank you for watching!

[@qnt859]

We relate so much and I'm hoping my husband watches this video bc we have arguments over petty stuff like this and I love that we aren't alone in this and its okay bc like Ken said we are two different people

[@lynngevity3724]

Just found you all today…was looking for a marriage podcast I could relate to, being married 28 years…LOOOOVE this conversation…I found my people! I found some light timers, so that guarantees lights will go off and keep my nerves down!! This is sooo good, me and my husband need to do this to relieve some pressure!!!!!

[@Atypical82]

This is a good one you guys!!

[@elizabethkazhinga3014]

I love this one, it's eye opening. Thank you guys

[@cynthiahillian]

Communication and Consideration... this is good!

[@michelletrausi3071]

This was amazing. It made me laugh so hard, but so much truth in the message. Thank you for allowing us to do life with you guys! ❤

[@gloriaparham8489]

I love this a real insight about Christian marriage and how to navigate love without losing love for one another. It’s healthy to get everything out and move on to things that we love about one another. That spoils the devil attack against marriage thank you

[@stellanatukwasa4452]

Ooohh Ken i think God has made u the best husband for Tabatha,God bless your marriage 🙏

[@lorimurguia880]

This was very enlightening. Thank you both! ❤

[@evamukisa1348]

U guys u are real

[@crystalmarie8931]

Getting married again soon and this helped me so much. This gives understanding and clarity. Great show

[@sineadjason1703]

You two had me laughing so much because man I’m so similar to Tabitha I like things a certain way. I have so many pet peeves but the Lord is working on me. Oh Ken I felt you because my husband is like Tabitha with the very detailed stories. This use to annoy me so much I would be like can I have the short story but this year I’ve been appreciating the way my hubby tells a story in so much detail. That is how God wants us to come to him, even though He already knows all things He still wants us to come to him with the details especially in prayer. Our Heavenly Father truly cares and takes delight in the details. Well that’s the revelation I’ve been given recently. Thank you! This is so beautiful! I love and appreciate the transparency my hubby was laughing and said “oh good to know we aren’t the only ones”. You guys are such a blessing to us! Love you both 🙏🏽❤️

[@bettybrezill7143]

This is so good, getting so much out of this. Sometimes it hurts when the truth is being told. But so helpful to help us change. Love u guys

[@TheHealthGuy305]

Loveeee y’all!!!!

[@paulinendlovumsonzah856]

Thank you fam for uploading this video. You have demystified some aspects of our lives as married couples.

[@cynthialocke2269]

As real as it gets! Love, love 😂❤

[@alethomas8496]

My friend sent me youe KZbin info this morning and I’ve already watched so many of your videos. Thank God for you! Cant waste too much time on this comment because I have some more videos to watch before the day ends! 😂❤

[@COOLJONESATL]

Great episode family!

[@krystlesmall2626]

Wowww, I love this!!!!!! Thank you guys as always your content is valuable for the season we are in. I sincerely enjoyed this episode and it give me great perspective.

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Glad to have you listening!

[@KayQhosa]

Appreciate you both so much. 😂❤️

[@jmiredd362]

She just need to scoot the seat back a bit... lol 😂😂😂😂😊❤

[@sandrashavers1516]

enjoyed this podcast so much

[@carolinamacorin]

Hi guys. I’m from Brazil 🇧🇷 and I have been watching your videos and I feel so bless. Also think it’s amazing to know that somebody want to share the true about marriage 😅

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

That is awesome! Thank you so much for listening!!

[@tamicabanks1081]

Y'all did well settling it. ❤️💪🏽🥰

[@reneenunez4627]

You two are so cute together and inspirational! 🙌🏼🤍

[@shemeka1986]

This is one of my favorites 😂♥️Love your ministry!!!

[@liramotsohi7282]

Tht intro was sooo funny 😄 both of yall getting on each other's nerves during the broadcast 🤣🤣🤣

[@kikijames333]

Its normal to feel that but change it!

[@blesslarkins7987]

This is dope🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@foreverloveDonAlex]

Dope video 😂 Yall list is about the same as ours down to me teaching my wife how to drive and not liking how crazy she drive lol. Been together 20 and married 16 years with 3 teens 🙏🏾💪🏾

[@IamROYALTY_]

I was truly entertained & informed at the same time!! This was dope !!! I love it!! I laughed soooo hard during the entire podcast- I now see my issues! I am a control freak & I had an issue with everything my boyfriend does when it comes to clothes , food etc!!! This was Great! I luv u guys sooo much!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤

[@adafihkeith868]

Marriage is 4 the mature..i eh know if i readyyy🎉🎉.this was good..she has to be his mom..with the cleaning.. he deflects alott..but has alot of wisdom..

[@donaldg4243]

Thanks...for being a HOT(humble, open,and transparent) couple. Our marriage small group is going to listen and discuss it next meeting.

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Love to hear it!

[@debbiedorsey2371]

This is a great video! Thank you!

[@sibodee]

This has been a reality, topic well treated and yeah thanks for genuiness through out your postcards. May God keep you and I like it qhen you bring the court on air😅

[@ashleycarothers6285]

😂😂😂I’m cracking up. Chile I have a fiancé and he gets on my nerves everyday lol😂 and he talks a lot and I always zone out lol

[@alexisstrickland1820]

I love this episode! ❤

[@gjackson8811]

❤❤❤❤❤ this!! Amen!!!

[@beccaboo304]

I so needed these laughs y'all gave me today!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@maritzaxiloj6709]

This episode was great! ❤

[@bernadettejohn3055]

This is a great topic it makes me laugh…it should make couples just love each other more……we all are different in every way…..love never fail 😊

[@sandrashavers1516]

Funny stuff, we do get on each other nerves. We have to learn how to except one another for who we are with God's help

[@brownsuga985]

This was so on time. Thank you guys

[@sophiaentzminger5011]

POWERFUL message :)

[@muteehall]

My wife needs to see this because I swear we married the same type of women...

[@supermodeljaz6829]

Lmao y’all are so cute “Praise GOD”😂💕

[@Audria_apdesigns]

The way how I'm laughing as trust me...😅😅😅😅

[@sherrynelson365]

I’m laughing so hard… if she was a Uber driver she would get low scores lol 😂😂😂😂😂

[@hollyrosario5355]

This was so good!!!❤😂

[@rachelcook3606]

Just listen😊

[@kimberlybradshaw1195]

This was good. Communication is key and if couples are able to communicate to better their relationship. This took me to Romans 12 where it talks about the different motivational gifts God gave to us all. Each gift operates different. If we take the time to get to know each others gifting we would understand why we act the way we act. Also Ephesian talks about Love and respect. Husband love your wife and wives respect your husband. When husband don't show love ( however he shows it) the wife may show disrespect (however she shows respect). Vice versa. I feel it all comes down to how we communication with each other.

[@denisevarnado5491]

My husband gets on my nerves but I love him dearly

[@melissamelissa8769]

😂 you guys are so cute and funny! 😂😂😂

[@keciadoleman6740]

Actually. Im just i to the first part but I thiught it was funny. This is life but to actually be transparent means you both are in a good space of recovery quickly because that's what 25 years of marriage does

[@Natasha-iv2qq]

Funnyy as well😂😂😂

[@rachelphillips5576]

This podcast is hilarious. Who else would be in the house😂. You just appear. Lol Tabatha is funny. Im glad you two can laugh at your idiosyncrasies

[@SaharaKnows]

Please don’t dismiss women. It’s a pattern with christian men. Don’t ask and then belittle. He’s not the best listener and very dismissive. That would be my biggest pet peeve. His stuff sounds very petty from my perspective. Calling someone long winded as a preacher is comical. He literally never responds to anything she says but expects the same in return. Lol.

[@MrsYoung-in9ov]

Yeah I’m 5 minutes in and I can barely listen to this

[@1jazzjasmine]

I agreee…he seems to be very condescending and I don’t understand why, she is very graceful and patient.

[@rachelcook3606]

😅😅😅my husband does the same thing with his stuff and a mess

[@Natasha-iv2qq]

😂😂😂😂 this is real stuff

[@Fluerdelsdedigbstar]

The smell is not 3000 miles away. When you cook the smell gets circulated THROUGH THE VENTS IN THE HOUSE!!! The air in your house is moving because of the heat and a/c air circulating. Im the same way, y’all can cook when I sleep it wakes me up!!!

[@ashleysharingthegoodnews]

😂😂😂 I’m sorry I’m only like 15 mins in but it’s funny!

[@laurahelena9399]

Yeah ppl, this is a part of what a marriage is about 😂😂

[@MrsYoung-in9ov]

Him - *has a rebuttal for every point his wife brings up even though he clearly does the things she’s saying he does* Her - I have a rebuttal Him - I don’t care