HELP! Pick My Wedding Guest Dress & A Man From My Past...

A man from my past contacted me and I need your help picking the right dress for an Aug. 5th wedding! I share with you the makeup techniques that will help me look my best. Dancing shoes? High-Heels? Do they exist? Yes they do!
I asked you 3 weeks ago to help me pick your favorite outfit for me to wear and the winner was Christian Siriano - Chalk Dress. Now I have 4 more dresses for you to look at today and so the final winner will be crowned after you all weigh in! I love you so much for helping me!
It was an emotional week for many reasons...all good.
I am discovering my new city, my new home...and the new me.
I guess it's never to late to group all over again...suddenly, all brand new.
Thank you so much for voting and helping me feel confident in the right outfit.
All suggestions are welcomed!
Please know we love you to the moon and back,
Susan & Desi
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[@JenFlutterby]

“Are ya ready for a fashion show Desi?” -Susan ❤ * side eye * - Desi 😂

[@LittlePoet]

I SAW THAT!!! SIDE EYE FOR SURE!!!!! That little devil!!!!

[@tammi67able]

@@LittlePoetlol ❤

[@Cindy-bee]

Susan absolutely number 4. It is elegant and very appropriate for a wedding. Very flattering on you also. I like number 5 too but it is more for a garden party but also flattering on you. In the end you choose what you feel great in. That is the very best way to wear an outfit.

[@cottagecute3690]

Definitely # 4 the Jaclyn Smith dress for a Wedding guest. Very subtle, really brings out your pretty face and hair. A really pretty vintage straw purse would look nice too.

[@ncsprung1847]

YES! Love the straw purse suggestion!

[@sandyodle3876]

I vote for the Jaclyn Smith dress. It is formal enough for a wedding, but neutral enough so you will stand out for all the right reasons (not the attention grabber), but for being the sophisticated, elegant, and lovely lady you are. You will look lovely in whatever you choose, but this dress is the perfect choice!

[@kdmil2002]

I vote for #4, the Jaclyn Smith sash dress. It fits you perfectly and It is classy and more formal...perfect for a wedding. The only thing I would change is the purse. The dress would look great with a clutch instead of a large bag. The other dresses look great on you, but #4 is the one, in my opinion.

[@catherineclinton4887]

YES!!!!! 🙌💯🙌

[@ValerieGriner]

Exactly what I said...it needs an elegant clutch bag(not the large white one).

[@vemer100]

#4. SMALL PURSE

[@catherineclinton4887]

@@vemer100 💯

[@louisenurse1234]

I agree! Totally!

[@carylc7891]

By all means, #4! Tres chic, figure flattering, you look suitable for framing in that dress, Susan! #2 was nice as well, but #4 is stunning. I didn't think I'd care for beige on you, but the color is creamy dreamy. As for men - well, I'd written off that part of life at age 70. But there's a nice man, a widower, at my church who's been paying me some attention ... oy! You just never know, do you? Have a great week, pretty lady!

[@maricegreen4473]

I like the Jaclyn Smith dress. It’s very flattering and perfect to wear to a wedding.

[@mariasantelices8901]

You look stunning in dress #4 and very appropriate for a wedding!

[@donnamccall6950]

Same

[@ilduarita09]

Yes, that one is My favorite 😊#4❤

[@lyndareymann2980]

Agree, but with a clutch purse.

[@sherrycampbell9196]

I agree #4 was stunning..it flowed perfectly..with a slimming effect.the jewelry was perfect also..as was the strappy open toe shoe..a small clutch with a hint of the jelwery color would make a better picture..perhaps with a small metal handle or a chain shoulder strap..nothing big ..a larger purse takes away from effect...have a fabulous time...and strut it girlfriend..❤from a Indiana girl living on the Virginia Tennessee line

[@valerieanderson7995]

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[@rosalindd1386]

Love dress number 4 ! Very classy & elegant ! It looks so beautiful on you!

[@aujkalenic4203]

Absolutely #4, the color, the cut, everything about this dress hits the mark on you in every way! Have fun at the wedding 🎉

[@LindaGillespie-v4j]

Oh I just think you look like a class act in number 4. Looks so elegant and fits you beautifully. Looking forward to seeing what you will wear. I have no doubt whatever you go with will be absolutely lovely on you.❤

[@shelleysquires7225]

#4 is absolutely stunning on you! Very flattering!

[@LexiesMidnight]

Susan, words can't describe how wonderful your videos are. Everything - your narratives, the magical video montages you create, your kindness, and omg Desi... I feel blessed that you are here to talk to us.

[@Ana-Maria-Sierra]

Susan, All the ensembles are beautiful. I’m voting for #4 because I think it’s understated elegance will transition from afternoon to evening perfectly and the sandals are dynamo. As for Desi, he’s soooo happy and at peace. It gives me so many smiles to observe him.

[@mmcs4973]

No contest, #4 chic, flattering and perfect for a wedding 😊

[@Blueyedgal227]

I vote for #4 as well. Very fitting and classy. Enjoy the wedding and thanks for being an inspiration and sharing your life with us!

[@jolynnmulder1655]

Hands down the Jaclyn Smith dress!! The fit of the dress and the way drapes is so flattering on you. I think you should carry just a smaller clutch. The dress is simple, but elegant and the white purse would be too bulky for the outfit. You're going to look marvelous da---ling❤

[@rmcf1053]

Dress #4 looked amazing on you. Have a wonderful time.

[@JanetMcBrideMedia]

My favorite dress is still the Christian Soriano floral, BUT the Jaclyn Smith dress is what I think you're trying to achieve for this wedding: looking your best, but just a little understated. That dress is very flattering on you. ❤

[@angelwhisper239]

#4 with a small neutral purse. Stunning!

[@KELLSEY444]

#4 Is understated sophistication. It's alluring without a sound. It lets you shine and looks fantastic. A nude heel like your black ones, or a nude wedge (so you can dance) would be perfection.

[@blancagarza2365]

❤Dress #4 it's beautiful and elegant

[@J.Walker-i1l]

Oh yes! Without a doubt, #4 is a winner. It’s sophisticated and extremely flattering. Have fun!!

[@wieslawagajewski6918]

Dress #4. Very classy & elegant ! It looks so beautiful on you!

[@michelea1823]

Dress #4 but with a small gold clutch purse ( not large white one ) would be my choice - have fun at the wedding you will look beautiful no matter what you decide to wear .

[@colorfulcreations9364]

Hi Susan, My vote is for the Jacklyn Smith dress. You look so elegant and classy wearing it! 💕

[@m.a.aliceinwonderland4612]

Definitely #4 enhances your silhouete and does not age you. Change the bag to darker color. Enjoy the wedding!

[@ritawilkinson401]

I am just so happy for Desi--at last he has his own back yard to play in. He is precious.

[@Ginamayy]

Me too. I tear up whenever she shows him in his yard 🥹

[@rosaliemervolion2207]

I loved dress #4 on you. I think it is the most elegant in its simplicity. The color is perfect for a summer wedding, and you look stunning. No belt required!

[@TheHappyBookMaker]

I love #4! Very classy. Also #5 for a pretty garden wedding look. (With a hat) 😊 All beautiful! ❤

[@sirtedricwalker2979]

I think #4 dress is so classy and flattering style and the color really compliments your face and hair color. I like #5 too.

[@cheriefisk5615]

Hands down, Dress #4! Flatters your figure, timeless, and classy, like you!

[@janellesanchez3784]

# 4 definitely!!!!! Floral makes women look 10 yrs older always. No belts , to much distraction from you. # 4 is beautiful on you!

[@MM-hk8om]

I agree. Florals especially large florals aren’t truly flattering and I think belts interrupt the lines and call attention where we don’t want it!

[@srobs1216]

Hi Susan. All of the dresses are lovely, but for the wedding #4 is the one. It's so flattering with a sophistication that works well. Love your make up choices too. Kiss Mr. Desi for me and see you next week.

[@annarose4828]

Love the jaclyn smith the most! You look beautiful in everything you wear! You make the clothes! Your beautiful inside and out! Love the love you and Desi have for each other! You remind me of my furbabies and l. My furbabies current 10 and 11 year old and past have always been rescued in one way or another like your precious Desi! ❤❤❤❤❤ you and Desi!

[@jadent33]

#4 is PERFECT for a wedding in my opinion… It’s soft and very classy. Hope you have a wonderful time !

[@elliegarcia8956]

I love how you look in #4❤❤❤

[@junecarole-via3436]

I agree! I like the gold accessories and sandals. The white purse is too big and distracting. A smaller neutral bag with a small shoulder strap or chain would be perfect! You will be a knockout without appearing to upstage the bride! And you will look great in any wedding photos that you might be in!!

[@lenetteshaw4833]

#4 is definitely the most elegant for an evening event.

[@jayemowrey1416]

Elegant yes but not summer fun ! #5 is fun flattering & gives her Color!

[@marysmyth8288]

@jayemowrey1416: on reflection , i do agree now that number 5 is summer fun 🫶

[@karmicsheila63]

Is the wedding in the evening? If so, she could add a little color with accessories.

[@arlinwherry5252]

You look beautiful in all of the dresses, but I feel #4 dress by Jaclyn Smith (Draped Sash) is perfect to wear to a wedding. 😊

[@MM-hk8om]

#4 hands down! The solid color is elegant and flattering and just perfect for a 6 pm reception. Smaller bag might be a nice option. ELF shadow palettes are my favorite. Your makeup looks lovely! Am ordering up the foundation. Hugs to sweet Desi❤🐶

[@bgreen2561]

#4 looks the best to me. Sophisticated, flattering and the closest to semi-formal of them all, I think. The color suits you, in my opinion.

[@sherribrink5664]

Girl, by far dress #4. The Jaclyn Smith one. I don't think I've ever seen out of all the dresses you've had on air that flatters you more than this dress. It's beautiful and you look beautiful in it.❤

[@sharonarrendale8418]

I so agree. She looks really pretty.

[@dianepruitt7600]

I vote for dress #4. It is stunning on you!

[@christineanne554]

Dress #4 is so classy looking and you look beautiful in it! They are all nice, but that one is special. Loved the video, thank you for putting on a fashion show for us. 💃

[@lorriegasses6865]

Dress #4....It's so good to see Desi running around in the backyard. Enjoy your week Susan and Desi!🌺

[@maryclausius6062]

#4

[@angelawacky2716]

#4 is stunning and very flattering, #5 playful and more casual

[@sandrabrooks2711]

4 is great.but you look so nice .you make me feel good about myself at 61 being a senior.

[@pamelabackstrom9873]

4 and 5 are my favorite s. 4 elegant 5 flirty & Fun.

[@dianneengelen3138]

Wow you could get away with a really sexy dress. Number 5. Have a lovely time x

[@julierutland3307]

The Jaclyn Smith Draped Sash dress is perfect!

[@derossman9214]

Oh! #4 !! I love it. The only change I would make is a smaller, maybe straw handbag. I have an Aug 19 wedding and would DEFINITELY wear this,!!!

[@tonihendrix6652]

Me too😁

[@trishd8373]

You look so happy and wonderful in each one. Afternoon wedding #4---you're totally rocking' that number!!Wear your hat and change up the necklace to have a connection to the shoes---tying the two together for this special occasion. If I was ever in downtown Big Rapids, I would love to sit and have coffee with you!! You must be the most refreshing and comfortable girl out there!! Have an amazing time at the wedding!! Desi always looks so awesome in any outfit---Have a great week Susan and Desi 💕

[@goldiecaulfield3266]

#4 is stunning on you. Very flattering. Understated elegance. I will agree with other posters, a small clutch purse would work better or a pretty Summer straw. 🥰

[@__76--_-646]

Love them all. But #4 looks fabulous on you. The coloring and very flattering fit. Hope you have a wonderful day ❤

[@tamaralerette3669]

I love #4. The color and fit is so flattering and elegant. #5 would be my 2nd choice. No love is ever the same, because that chemistry can only exist between those two unique individuals. However I think we can look for the same feelings of excitement, anticipation and dare I say butterflies. I can only hope and pray I can find this kind of love in my future. Have a wonderful week Susan and Desi!

[@debbieocasio4455]

Dress number 4 looks amazing on you! Great wedding guest dress.

[@brightpurpleviking]

If it is a day wedding, then 5! It’s youthful, gorgeous, happy, incredibly flattering cut on you, and you seem very confident in it. If it is an evening wedding…then 4! It is dramatic and rich looking, beautifully understated color, and very flattering. But girl, you could choose any one of them and be a stunner! Thanks for the video. God bless you with everything that is BEST!

[@janebarnes5]

Hi Susan All the dresses are pretty, but the Jaclyn Smith dress, dress #4, is the most elegant and fits you well. Your move suits you, your home is lovely and Desi is so happy. Have a great time at the wedding. Your friend Jane

[@Vickie-ed3wk]

Dress #2 with black jacket, makes you look younger. . Also,#2 makes you look thinner. Very young and very thin.

[@WindyCityWoman]

#4 - The draped sash softly defines your waist. It's a keeper!

[@elizabethmaloneorlando217]

Definitely #4 it's chic & sophisticated!!! I think the man who sent you the E-mail wasn't very nice because he said, oh you don't look any happier than you were, you look like you just found peace. Well I think he's holding a grudge that you chose to live near your grandchildren instead of moving with him. I think you do look happier than before & you don't need a partner to make you happy, we make ourselves happy, it's not someone else's responsibility to do that. You have to ask yourself, why is he watching my u-tube channel? I hope you & Desi & Ricki Ricardo have a great week. 🐕🐕💄🌹

[@shirleycurtis622]

Hi Susan, my vote is for the #4 Dress - Jaclyn Smith Draped Sash dress. It looks just stunning on you, so elegant but it looks comfortable as well. Enjoy the wedding!

[@virleneprice9848]

Hey Girl, each dress would be great. You could just close your eyes and pick one. Pick the one that you feel beautiful in! My pick would be #4 the movement of the dress is right on. Enjoy the wedding!

[@barbaraimrie745]

DRESS # 4 LOOKS great on you, and more for a wedding than the navy I voted on last week.

[@donnabraccio8170]

The white polka dot dress...winner...winner...chicken dinner. Let Desi know Jane thinks he is so handsome.😊 I just learned today that my Mother was born in Benton Harbor!...she passed away yesterday at 89 after 5 long years of dementia. It was a blessing. Hospice got her through with no pain. We were not close...she was an alcoholic. My Dad is the perfect codependent 😊...they were married 71 years. He missed her when she went into memory care 3 years ago. He fell apart yesterday...it broke my heart. Enjoy the wedding!!!

[@monicabardot2492]

Dress #4 fits you like a glove, and is so flattering!

[@Karen-c3d7i]

In my humble opinion, #4 is elegant yet understated for an afternoon wedding - and a semi formal hotel reception! Whatever you choose will be perfect - none of the dresses would be a ‘mistake’.

[@gretchenburns6729]

Like most, I thought dress number 4 is perfect for a wedding, and you looked perfect in it! Enjoy the wedding!

[@gracedebrouwer4687]

The Jaclyn Smith dress is, hands down, the most flattering dress!! It is so elegant on you and you wear it with such aplomb!! The necklace is well paired with the dress. Enjoy the wedding. 🌹

[@guambyguambelle1864]

Love the last two dresses for a wedding with #4 being my favorite. It's so understated and quietly elegant. And the fit is almost tailored.The necklace or neckline looks great with your hair and coloring. But truthfully they are all very nice!

[@maryannlee9427]

Love 4 and 5 also but I think 5 would be best

[@fairviewim]

I think I have to go with number 4, too. 😊 It looks great with your coloring, it's just a perfect look on you. Understatedly elegant and classy.

[@valarieklein2766]

Definitely # 4 Jacquelyn Smith for a wedding. That really looked stunning on you. The sash was elegant on the waist.

[@anydaynow7755]

Number 4!!! Beautiful on you, elegant, moves well for dancing, gorgeous style!

[@cactuscottage2167]

I vote for number 4. It is such a beautiful soft color and you look absolutely beautiful in the dress.

[@elainereese8902]

I love dress #4, the sage green one, it is so sophisticated and looks beautiful on you.

[@silestepalmeri8340]

My favorite was dress #4. It is sophisticated, great accent on the waistline. White bag and sandals, jewelry are perfect in my book. All that said whatever you choose is going to be perfect. The dresses are all great!!! I love the makeup info.!!!

[@tammyaswell4562]

Dress #4 was my favorite on you for a wedding. It was so flattering on you. Maybe you’ve already done a video like this, but I would love to see a get ready with me video (putting on your makeup and doing your hair). ❤

[@mudlarklady3835]

For me it started with the polka dot dress until I saw you in the Jaclyn Smith dress which looks so classy on you and perfect for a wedding

[@LizzyAlexis]

#4 is just right! I love how the fabric drapes. The dress is a perfect blend of simplicity and elegance, which never goes out of style!

[@jillyincali8480]

Dress # 4 is the perfect dress for a wedding and you look fab in it too!

[@dd4run]

Still amazed by the blessing of your new home and awesome surroundings! Love #4 on you. ❤

[@marileigh9913]

They all looks great.4 looks perfect for wedding ☺

[@tammi67able]

You look beautiful in everything and you hair and skin is so radiant. I also love seeing Desi enjoying his back yard. But for the wedding I would say #4 you look beautiful. ❤God bless u be safe.

[@lesliegrant4789]

Dress 4 looked stunning on you and lovely for an evening wedding!

[@pambohnhoff2163]

The Jaclyn Smith dress and your accessories are very sophisticated and well fitting. I also love the 5th dress--such a romantic, summery dress. You'll look lovely in whatever you choose.

[@pennywoodson9787]

I love the same in that order.

[@ncsprung1847]

Me too

[@user-ww9so8pe6n]

#5

[@norahdelagarza775]

Dress 4 is pretty but dress 5 without a belt looks best on you and the floral print is lovely and romantic.

[@lindajames4922]

Dress #4 is lovely, understated, classy, but the white purse would not be my choice. #5 is beautiful, love the colors, it’s perfect for an afternoon wedding, I would not wear it with a belt. Can’t wait to see the dress you chose! You will be stunning!

[@dianafajardo3642]

#4 Jaclyn Smith dress looks beautiful on you and I think it’s most appropriate for a semi-formal wedding.

[@lisaruiz3799]

Dress #4 by Jacquelyn Smith looks fabulous and most appropriate for a summer wedding 🎉❤❤❤

[@arell56]

I think that all of the dresses were beautiful! But for a semi-formal wedding after 6pm, #4 Jaclyn Smith Draped Dress would work the best for the occasion. Plus, you look so beautiful in it. I think you should carry a smaller bag with it. I hope you have a wonderful time at the wedding! Xo.

[@grannybee573]

Dress #4 looks so elegant and definitely flattering. ❤

[@SheilaEnglish2]

I vote for dress #4 - the most dressy and suitable for an evening hotel reception. Pair it with a darker bag and do your hair just like you have it when modelling this dress and you will look sophisticated and perfect.

[@susanbeal4322]

PS As stated previously # 4 is outstanding… color, fit, perfect ! Looking at video again… 4 is perfect for a wedding at 6 pm All other dresses are cute fur lunch or afternoon tea but here goes… ditch the belts .. they cut you off… the dresses without belts are much more flattering and stylish !

[@marysmith861]

I agree. The belts do nothing for the dresses.

[@lucyo.4397]

# 4 looks great. Don’t forget the navy blue one you showed before. It was beautiful!

[@cindyfreihofer2093]

I really liked dress number 4. The color is lovely, fresh, and perfectly subdued for a wedding. The fit is perfect and drapes beautifully from head to toe.

[@annmliner84]

Dress #4 was just stunning on you! Very flattering and the color is so pretty!

[@sharonarrendale8418]

I love all of the dresses. But, I think for the wedding the Katlyn Smith dress. You looked so beautiful.

[@gerrybowbia9270]

Dress number 4 appropriate for wedding 💒 looking beautiful 🤩

[@bluemermaid8139]

I''m going to go with dress #4 as it's so elegant and enhances your figure.

[@darlakay6810]

Jaclyn Smith surely designed that dress just for you! Everything about that dress is perfection on you. I do love the Christian Siriano floral maxi on you because it captures your fun personality and would be perfect for a summer wedding. You look gorgeous in any of the dresses. Wear whatever you feel most comfortable in for the crowd you will be around, and have a ball!

[@LittlePoet]

You are so sweet!!! I need to call Miss Smith and tell her THANK YOU!!! Happy new week! Susan & Desi

[@bethfromva6375]

I vote for dress number 4, very elegant for a semi formal wedding in August. I think your make up looks amazing! And your hair :-) Can you please consider doing a video on how you apply your eyeliner and what products you use? I enjoy your videos so much!

[@cheryl4338]

I like all the dresses but I feel that Number 4 is a perfect, classic choice for a wedding. You look gorgeous in that style and color.

[@donnam.7079]

Oh my goodness! You look beautiful in every dress! Here's my vote: #4 is elegant for a day or night, an indoor or outdoor wedding and reception. It shows off your slim waist. #5 is lovely and happy for an outside daytime wedding and reception. Btw, the belts don't look too big. I like your wooden Poet 1939 sign, formally a stool. I don't mean to tell you what to do but if you spray it with clear shellac or a sealer it will last longer outside. Please give Desi a kiss on the nose from me. Donna

[@heatheredwards7923]

I think the most flattering dress for the wedding is #4! In fact, I think it is perfect for the occasion and fits you perfectly as well. However, you look absolutely beautiful in all of them! 😊❤

[@martha7811]

Dress 4.....perfection for a summer wedding. It looks cool and comfortable yet very sophisticated. Your jewelry looks perfect with it.

[@PatriciaDonahoe-wh6vf]

#4. But not the purse, something smaller and more delicate and also may be a necklace that is lighter and has pearls.

[@lisataylor8149]

Dress #4 has my vote. It's perfect for a wedding.

[@cherylthepearl4085]

Yes, especially a church wedding. If outside wedding, I may have chosen the Christian dress, off white with flowers. Or the dark rose dress.

[@artistcarolyngrace1711]

Oh yes!!👍