I'm already way too bold so let's go with Reacclamate ,learning who I am & how I'll be navigating my new situation. My cats ears are in antenna mode every time Desi sings😹

Hi, I love your reflexions. I’m a 60 young woman looking for early retirement, I’ll never give up, there is so much I want to do in this new stage of life. I admire your view of life and people . I have learned that the people who have passed through my live were travelers,who had a purpose,and the best was retained from all of them. Blessings!

Hi Susan! I wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday! Best wishes for you always. ❤🎉🎂🥳

Joyous.

Greatful

You dodge a bullet by breaking up with him. He’s got a cold side to him. I think he said what he said to hurt you. Interesting video.

Well you always nail it💯✅👍I appreciate you very honest look at life the highs and sometimes lows… I will be 69 in April and definitely know it is a true gift and privilege from God 🙏🏻The best is yet to come . always working on myself to be a better wife , momma, friend, sister , etc . Love myself and except the lumps and bumps 🦋Keep up all your beautiful videos, Thank you❤

My son told me the other day,” Mom, haven’t you noticed, that older people that had made bad choices their whole life end up bitter and pissed- but as they are checking out, they gotta drag EVERYONE DOWN WITH THEM!! 😡

I love your house. It looks so cozy and beautiful . ❤❤❤

I knew you were gonna say Robert Redford

@LittlePoet I am new to your channel. I started watching in December and am so happy that it showed up in my feed. You are such a positive person and it is so nice to listen to you. I wanted to wish you a very Happy Birthday!!! We share a birthday although I turned 61. I also live in Michigan. Looking forward to the next video with you and Desi ❤

I also have a Desi. My Havanese is now 11 years old❤

I really enjoyed our visit today Susan, you're the best! 😊❤

Your home is as beautiful as you are❤❤❤❤❤❤

Eleven years ago, you were looking to remarry. Now, only you can answer if you are content to be single, keep your own home, but still have companionship and friendship with someone who is probably at his best in the morning. Thetwo of you would perhaps bring joy and a smile to each other when meeting up for a walk, or a cup of coffee and breakfast somewhere.

I have always loved Robert Redford!!

Today is January 29th!!!!! And I’m watching this video. Happy Birthday!!!!!! 🎈🎉🎂🎊🎁

They aren’t gray hairs, they’re wisdom highlights. You just happen to be extremely wise! Here’s to a year filled with new adventures, exciting opportunities, and lots of love. Happy Birthday to a amazing Lady! 🎊

❤ur soul and spirit are so beautiful also, they match your face❤

You are SO beautiful ❤ ur very blessed

Naravanta oil from India is great for thicker hair it smells horrible but I used it for my arthritis and my hair and as my husband got older I had him use it to thicken his hair and it looked great. It's an aryuvedic remedy so it's good for a few things. It contains real camphor not like our arthritis creams which are chemicals . I didn't really have to shave my legs much but when I started using that on my knees I started having to shave again that's how fast it grows hair

Thank you for this. I am coming up to my 60th birthday and if I am honest, I am feeling a bit up and down, it depends on the day. I got the message I needed today. I think you are such a beautiful, classy, elegant lady and your channel always makes me feel good.....and as for Desi ❤. Thank you, Laura in London x

I was in a wildfire in Paradise CA 6 years ago and lost everything. I have now replaced everything in my home with thrift store items and I love it! Thanks for your videos! I love it!

"Fair enough...I'll leave you to that!" (exit stage right) 👋

Love to you n Desi❤🐾

Yes I agree about the goodbye days

I always liked Paul Newman. Those eyes and of course his acting. I had an English teacher that looked just liked him. I blushed everytime I walked into his classroom. I think he knew I had a big crush on him.

I always say that when people talk about you that it is because they want to be like you. Of course there is that old saying Damned if you do and damned if you don't.

Courageous…more Courage

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Hello Susan and Desi, Susan i akways relate in some way to something you say or do. I was born in 1955 also. This time i related to alot. My 1st husband was ten yrs older then me. I was only twenty two years old. Three months in i knew i made a big mistake. He was alcoholic. I did not know it was a disease. I left for good but soon found out i was pregnant. I tried so many times for our babys sake but bottom line was he loved the booze more then me. At 63 years old he died all alone. He drank till the day he died. You made the right choice. He lied saying he never thought of you. He surely did but sadly King alcohol almost always has to come first in the alcoholic s life. My love to you and Desi.

You are such a great inspiration. Enjoy your videos, immensely.

I truly enjoy your videos ..But also want to say that I have absolutely and honestly fallen in love with Desi...no kidding.

There is so much I would love to say, but I know you have limited time. First, your site is beautiful and well done. Very calming with a casual elegance. I am 72 years old so I can relate to where you are coming from. I love your honesty and willingness to share your heart and soul with us all. I am still growing as a woman, learning myself better, making decisions based on what is good or healthy for me. I spent most of my life doing everything possible to make my husbands (in my second marriage for 44 years now) and sons comfortable, happy and well cared for even when it took it's toll on me. Since my husband is 12 years older than me, I feel that I might have 10 or 15 years that I will possibly be living by myself. I am not afraid and actually look forward to those years. When I see women like you, it is inspiring. Life will not be perfect, but I know it will be good. Please keep up these talks (I am new to your site.) as they are uplifting. May God bless you in your life path. You are a special woman!

watched this last week and gave it the thumbs up, here i go again have a good week,

Beautiful video! The Goodbye Days appear in my thoughts a lot, especially at night time which then keeps me from getting sleep. I think about my Son and how he would deal with me being gone. We text each other every day . I live 2 1/2 hrs from him and I know he worries about me , which I wish he wouldn’t . He has always been the best son and his life has not been an easy one. I wish I could be there for him forever when he needs to share things with me about work, his grown up children, or anything else that concerns him. At least he is happily married and that gives me comfort to know that someone is there for him. All of us love you, and we hope you will continue your videos for many more years. ❤

My mother is 77. She had to have shoulder replacement surgery. She only had use of one arm for several months. She ordered a castor oil bar shampoo - it was like a bar of soap but shampoo. She said her hair grew and grew. That is another way to get a healthy oil in our scalp and hair. I love coconut oil too, but the castor oil soap was a win for her.

My husband had amazing strength in his forearms & I loved it & his long hair he never lost:) &wild green eyes he was my Sam Elliot &my worst nightmare. I remember in last days of hospice putting my head on his chest and he still smelled like smoke & sex. He had bipolar 1 very high manic,super charming & frightening. Watching him waste away I thought I can't wait until this is over.. We didn't exchange gifts very much but he always used to say what do you want for your birthday and I said not a lab-created opal.xmas b4 he died he told me there was a package coming to the house and could I please bring it to the hospital, he had been working with a jeweler friend of mine for 6 months by text he had gotten a 10karat real black opal from Bangkok in a handmade handmade silver setting. I couldn't believe it but it told me alot about how he felt it also told me that he knew he was dying because otherwise I would have never gotten anything like that from him. I miss arguing for 2days to get a 5-minute picture hung up but I also don't miss being ignored or watching the crapshow that I had to clean every few years when a big manic episode wood literally turn our lives upside down..ps happy belated birthday Desi🎉

Susan, I love everything you put on your channel. You are always so open. Thank you! I just don't understand why anyone would make bad comments on any You tube channel. If they don't like a particular channel - why don't they just stop watching it - rather than thinking they have to make a nasty comment. Anyway - keep up the good work - and stay warm!!

Nobody told me. So hard to figure out for sure. I was not prepared whatsoever. Just starting to get in my groove and I retired in 2017. Yet had lost a son and father in 2015. Left my job early because the grief was too much. Was divorced 22 years ago after 20 year marriage. No family left except a daughter 4 days drive away. Unfortunately we are not close like we used to be. Finally forcing myself out the door and becoming happier. Thanks to you and the many wonderful women on here in their comments.😊

Nobody told me. So hard to figure out for sure. I was not prepared whatsoever. Just starting to get in my groove and I retired in 2017. Yet had lost a son and father in 2015. Left my job early because the grief was too much. Was divorced 22 years ago after 20 year marriage. No family left except a daughter 4 days drive away. Unfortunately we are not close like we used to be. Finally forcing myself out the door and becoming happier. Thanks to you and the many wonderful women on here in their comments.

Happy Birthday, Susan! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

You and Desi just make my day. You never disappoint with your sing alongs. Plus, your view on Goodbye Days I had to share with my husband. We talk about that often and how you explain everything made us both feel like we were "normal"! :). Thank you for that.

I just found you! You resonate with me. I think you are lovely and so talented. Thanks for sharing your life, creativity and heart. I wear cosmetics FOR ME. It lifts my heart, pampers me and I love color, It is art on my face. It's self-love, just as skin care. We need to be loving to ourselves, nurturing.

Happy Birthday, Susan! Beautiful video! You and Desi are so.special!

Your videos are so good at making me reflect on topics. I especially love you and Desi singing at the end. Desi is living the best life. 😂❤️❤️❤️

I love when you n desi sing together😂😂❤❤❤❤

So funny! I paused the video to think about who I thought was the sexiest celebrity in the world and came up with Robert Redford in "The Way We Were"! Lol!

Robert Redford ❤. Always a favorite of mine.