HERBERT WIGWE AND HIS PASTOR'S WIFE...Who cares?

[@katezuokumor4252]

Others might not care, but some do care sincerely.

[@awemsrichard4611]

Wow your counsel had changed my life entirely, thanks so much Father

[@olusegunfadare706]

Good morning sir, thank you for your ever impactful insights. On wigwe family actually pointed at something in the body of Christ in Nigeria that needs to be addressed. Three billionaires in parish died, I mean at the same time. They were not passive especially with finances and a mere wine and dine could not be postponed 😢. These are thing that makes Christians loose value and others are watching seeing how valuable they are. In my opinion, that disposition of the parish headship is neither befitting of a Christian nor proper

[@blessingonodegba]

Never ever live my life to please people.

[@princeobi-ne1ht]

Isn't About Pleasing People But God..

[@chituruwoke451]

Good decision, cos people are something else

[@blessedhighlyfavored4227]

Thanks for your wisdom. Do not live your life based on people. Have fun, live your life not to please others but build heavenly treasures. That’s the place we will live forever. ❤

[@anitabrown932]

As a pastor’s wife and a leader of a Ministry with this family who have died once attended she should be mourning with this family as the Bible said in the book of Romans 12:15,we as leaders should not think hardly of ourselves only,but meeting the needs of the people we serve. This birthday could have been postponed to the month of April.Let us all remember when we are called we deny ourselves picking up our cross and follow Jesus daily Luke 9:23 which also means putting others needs before yours also, being sensitive to others problems. To God be the Glory.

[@Carrymedeygo-h3j]

Thank you Sir I really follow your wisdom

[@righteouschosen4178]

It was a huge mess by the church both spirtually and physically

[@awemsrichard4611]

No one really cares, it's the reality God's Servant 🙏 more grace, more strength

[@olukayodeokunowo4631]

Thank you so much Pastor. You have spoken the truth. More grease to your elbow. Your ministry will flourish. Amen

[@tolusanwoolu5663]

Nice take sir. Please permit me to chip in that as Africans, we jubilate at the funerals of ELDERLY parents not because we are not in pain, but because it's a cultural requirement - to celebrate the person's long life, and that he/she has been outlived by the children, which is prayer of every parent. Thank you sir

[@jss.2020]

how are you celebrating that life if your response is "Who cares?"

[@Jessyisblessed]

We seen to place too many expectations on people and they disappoint us and do not or can not deliver. Trust God only, people are limited. Mere humans...

[@user-if6oi1qb5u]

Actually no body care but sir,not all women will rush and marry ,I have lost my husband for four years now and am not joking or trying to say what am not,since that 2020 till today I have not see man nekednes. And am just 33 years of age now.my caring is how to established my self to train the kids he left for me and not to jump from one man or bed to others.

[@vanessafeltham1202]

Well done sister but he said that statement as a general assumption please don't take it personal God bless you abundantly in all your endeavors IJN 🙏🙏

[@otibhora]

God will grant you capacity to take care pf yourself and the children

[@kolapoolaotan1108]

That's discipline. Good of you. How many children?

[@heavenlybenson2369]

Sister.its not wrong to remarry.even the bible encouraged it.pls be encouraged.God is your strength

[@zainabbusari120]

​@@heavenlybenson2369leave the sister alone,she has chosen to face her children. Life is not all about getting married. She may get married and get messed up by one nonentity of a second husband. I commend her effort.

[@benedetteenemuoh8534]

Thanks Dr. Apoki, you are doing a good work, creating awareness that is strange to most of our people. Wife, husband, children, wealth, careers, etc are all we gathered in our web to be happy and will all disappear one day. Reminding ourselves that we are mortal beings will bring certain amount of awareness in our lives.

[@jss.2020]

Ok, but don't you think having honor is important in our lives if we expect it back? If someone close to us dies and your response is "Who cares? They were going to die anyway." How then does it honor that person's life? How does it honor the God that created that life? That was the point of Dr. Apoki's wife's comment. Yes, we have to move on at some point but moving on that quickly seemed to disregard the life of Wigwe who contributed much to that church & Nigeria. Would you be able to throw a party a week after someone close to you died? If you can, that shows you didn't really care about that person that much or valued their contributions.

[@wisdomogbuagu4290]

Chai! Am always happy hearing your voice on this platform. Remembered the very first day you came to Ojike lane. Rev. Daniel told us this is not the man he invited but when you handled the mic 🎤 that was the end of that man. You became a regular face in our Church than, Wisdom conference inclusive. Your impart still speaks till date, am now a Pst with one of the leading Pentecostal churches in Nigeria today. Thank you sir, i will forever remain grateful sir. Sometimes in my teachings sir , the congregants will laugh extravagantly and excitedly while imparting them I will always say in my mind, this grace is coming from Dr. Apoki ooooooh. Love you sir ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤. We will meet someday sir.

[@drcharlesapoki]

We give all glory to God.

[@CExcel]

You are right ✅️ sir. No body really cares.

[@user-yf2zm9eu4s]

some ppl do..but its hard..

[@josephmutimushi383]

Boss you look young and great, God bless you... continue serving humanity, am so encouraged by your works, inspiring

[@drcharlesapoki]

Thanks sir.

[@jeremyexalted8572]

Love your approach to life, Dr. You remind me of the Word that says laughter is medicine 😂

[@drcharlesapoki]

Wow, thank you!

[@stanGodson001]

This is why other religions take Christianity for granted... Its a crying shame😢

[@seunosho4946]

Of your all your videos, I must confess this is the one I LOVE the MOST!!! 💯% TRUE!!!

[@edwardagba8001]

The dead is dead and gone,facing judgement right away,and life goes on.

[@sliceofzionsliceofzion1137]

That pastor celebrant na ASHAWO proper.

[@drcharlesapoki]

Too harsh ooh!

[@japhethodudu6445]

You Always Deliver

[@drcharlesapoki]

Glory to God

[@namubirubrendah391]

Thanks

[@VG61]

Very true sayings...

[@nengiskitchen]

People don't truly really care! That's just life...

[@heavenlybenson2369]

Who cares really?.if a poor man who donated his time for evangelism died,would people be telling pastor not to do birthday.would anyone speak up for that poor man or just because Herbert is a billionaire and is known?would Jesus give more honour to Herbert than the poor man giving his time to sweeping the church,his widows mite? Again,was Herbert giving to church or to God?would God pause his kingdom activities to mourn Herbert?.pls let's put things in perspective.Who cares really.

[@drcharlesapoki]

For the poor man they won't even mention his death. Who cares.

[@Chainbreak2023]

That is the reality of life! Life is very unfair! We despise the nobodies in society!! And celebrate the rich 😢

[@drtoluham]

Thanks for all your insightful videos. However, I think it is not in all situations that people don't care but LIFE GOES ON and will not stop for any man. So the bereaved have to continue with life daily struggles. To do contrary is to go into depression. On the other side it is not acceptable to be over excited or rejoice during a time of bereavement.

[@lesotv1056]

I am sorry your words has some kind of wisdom , but sometimes people who loves you will still care. I lost my dad ages ago , till today I still miss his impact on my life. Those particular church are the only one's who knows what exactly is wrong with them. You don't show such high level of insensitivity ,common now that is the body of Christ for God sake. And I believe very strongly that , their actions will still come back to haunt them.

[@olatundeibrahim8011]

Thanks. My dad died 6yrs ago and i still miss him so much.

[@SamA-wx9zq]

Thank you sir

[@dunamiscup3482]

People don't really care about you, such is life 😢

[@jss.2020]

God does - your life doesn't escape his awareness like it does with people

[@edwardagba8001]

You're wrong.They care,only Christ meant anything,after death.

[@dunamiscup3482]

@@edwardagba8001 thanks

[@flourish5blessing424]

I thought the donations he made were supposed to unto God via the church?!🤔

[@user-kz9jb1ik7f]

Because it is a pastor's wife that did that abi...abeg

[@Adebayobamidelealfredmoses]

Hmm ! D truth sir.

[@beautyjewels9045]

It was a party breaking with circular musicians and politicians and society movers and shakers. City of David servants, ushers, and faithful labourers of the vine yard, shine your eye

[@fayanjumodupe2604]

Mostly if you don't have money

[@mbomboyo]

But this one had bastard money na... So please it's not about money please!

[@avigrett1484]

The world moves on .

[@joshuaibemgbo2533]

That last part of enjoy your life.. it goes deeper than we think

[@jacinthelliott185]

Things happen in life as a wakeup call to all who are left behind. Everyone of us has to look at ourselves and try to turn our lives around. We all make mistakes in this life. Not one of us can cast a stone.

[@mairue903]

Romans 12:15b, and weep with them that weep.” I think it was insensitive to hold a birthday party especially since the actual date was in January! Please let them return Wigwe’s financial contributions. They never liked him, even as a brother in Christ! I wonder what was really being celebrated!

[@joshuaibemgbo2533]

Words that should written on marbles.

[@nerliehumphrey7637]

Those who dont care dont place value to life. ...haven said, some do care even when we r not related. It depends on our level of insensitivity. Sad a church he donated hugely to...it shows some r after ur money and not ur person. Chose ur religious mentor wisely

[@opaul7500]

*When that day comes* ◾️ _You turn in your assignment!_ ◾️ _You submit your finals!_ ◾️ _You turn in your visitor keys!_ ◾️ _You punch out the time clock!_ ◾️ _You submit the signed closing documents!_ *Let's just give praise to the Lord!*

[@drakintundeseunjohn]

What you are saying doesn't really apply here, a pastor is someone who lives above board... Not someone who doesn't care...

[@princeobi-ne1ht]

What Of The Scriptures That Says Mourn With Those That Mourn...And Then Why a Worldly Musician Invited by a Pastor's Wife? Speak Truth & Not Blind Support/Loyalty To Evil..The Whole Thing Reeks Of Shame

[@ifeanyiduruaku529]

Be responsible Be Reliable Leave a tangible memory behind Have some fun😂

[@jss.2020]

why if no one cares ?

[@onyourcoffeebreak2476]

I think people don't understand church..if you understand, you will not be disappointed. Even the people given money are the same as people accepting it. They are all same same

[@chriseseigbe9768]

Many churches especially in Nigeria are money making businesses and many people stupidly fall for it by donations of their hard earned money to the church. I will never donate money to a corrupt church where the Pastors will use my money and others money to build nice houses and drive nice cars while the congregation suffers. Also people in this part of the world respect the Pastors more than God. But who is the Pastor, a mere human that will pass away like the rest people some day!!!!

[@bernardbenjamin5598]

Pure truth indeed, Who care's? Remain Bless by God Almighty sir.

[@drcharlesapoki]

Amen my boss

[@ifeanyiduruaku529]

Reality check😂

[@CookwithYemmy]

Those that care really truly care, it just pathetic that most people at the top don't really don't have genuine people that care about them. It's not just a position thing. Having the gift of men is a blessing, genuine , intentional and unbiased men who truly love you but these days, lot of people love you for what they benefit. It's now your primary. duty to learn how to deal with such people. Don't bring them close to you and always seldomly be found with them. Help and love them from a far.

[@gracechrist]

“Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.” ‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭4‬:‭29‬-‭32‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

[@chituruwoke451]

So what are u telling us now? Teacher of the word..

[@gracechrist]

@@chituruwoke451 To mind our own business, it is important to act in a proper way when dealing with other people. Talking behind someone’s back in the form of gossip and slander can be extremely damaging and offensive, as well as a violation of many laws in the Bible. You are not the parents of departed ones. Let God have His way . KZbin need to stop paying you people for just anything. Your country Nigeria need mercy of God but you people continue to add more and more sinful things. What a shame on engaging on unnecessary. Are you a family member or what? If you don’t have anything to do please engage yourself reading BIBLE to know more about ALMIGHTY GOD!!! May God have mercy on you and others.,No more conversation. Just repent and be converted. Bye there!

[@chituruwoke451]

Abeg Park well.

[@fredameh3791]

Don't forget Pastor Kumuyi of Deeperlife bible church married just a month after he lost his dearly beloved wife and ever lived enjoying the new wife ......... Who cares , if you no know na you sabi.

[@samuelokon1524]

Stop spreading falsehood. First wife died 9th April 2009, he married his present wife on October 13th, 2010 (18 months later).

[@chituruwoke451]

Are u sure Pst Kumuyi married 2 months after his wife died? Tell me o..cos I don't know.

[@samuelokon1524]

@@chituruwoke451 18 months later not 2 or 1

[@fredameh3791]

@@samuelokon1524 time keeper ,

[@obiuwevbiochuko1431]

If he decided to mourn for 10 years, will his wife come back to him? Does mourning for the dead affect the dead in any way? 🤷

[@collinsodige3670]

Good morning mentor sir . Please I would like to join the group.. Thanks in advance sir

[@drcharlesapoki]

Thanks please send a WhatsApp message to+2347052136763

[@piusutoro2024]

Where is the seminar 😢 please details please

[@drcharlesapoki]

Online

[@ancientwisdom-ty4nb]

did he donate for the pastor's wife to remember him? The pastor's wife may not even know who donated what? Is he her husband or brother? This is soft gossip. My only issue is a woman of God leaving all the singers in her church to go pay a world singer. But if she invites her church singer she will not expect to pay her.

[@drcharlesapoki]

Even if the man did not make any donations the death of a husband,wife and their son who are members of your church in a tragic accident calls for sober reflection. Insensitivity is insensitivity.

[@Dabusbaby]

For real who cares!!

[@gbakasefanu2564]

Because Wigwe a big donor to a church died you want the church to mourn and remain in mourning mode tilll he is. buried or for a yyear? Is that the policy for every church member or you think it should bw for the rich guy? Remember the story of the offering from the widow in the Bible! There is a possibility that God may not necessarily be pleased with Wigwe's donation!

[@Astfhz]

Let God decide the offering and donations He will accept. After all the donations are to God and not to man. We should never be insensitive to the plight of others. There is a time for everything. We should not been seen as not giving a damn to the happenings around us. We should do things decently and in order

[@gbakasefanu2564]

@@Astfhz Brother, i am not attacking Wigwe but the insensitive man raising issue about his church!

[@niyiojo5194]

NO one asked them to mourn for 1 yr...It is the callous mindsets like yours that led the Iluyomades to this error in the first instance.. That Party was just after one week. The tragic circumstances of the Wigwes death is enough to dampened the Spirit of those who claimed to be his spiritual fathers in the Lord. Millions of people that condemned their action don't even know Wigwe but are touched mostly by the circumstances of his death with wife and Son..What manner of Wife, Mother and Friend is Mrs Iluyomade to move on to merriment one week after such incident to someone who is so close to their Family?????? It is truly Shocking..Karma is a bitch , you know..And such wickedness will be required accordingly. Fingers Crossed.

[@niyiojo5194]

I read your post all over again and I am so sad inhabiting same planet with you..Every evil words that comes to mind seems so inadequate to capture what I truly feel about you..But then it is your view and you own it. May the Lord that sees you and your callousness reward you accordingly.

[@oluwadamilareakinyede1453]

​@@niyiojo5194lol! So it's possible Karma hit the billionaire and the pastor is preparing for his own karma, and maybe the pastor will repent before his exit from this world. Only God can tell. Well life goes on..... Good luck to you all. 😂

[@tonywyse9201]

Oga, does your wife not cook food for you at home? Why did you go to a restaurant to eat ?

[@drcharlesapoki]

Only bachelors eat in restaurants abi or those whose wives don't cook abi? I am learning every day ooh😂😂😂😂. I saw families eating in the restaurant, next time I will ask the wives why they did not cook at home? If anyone slaps me, I will 😭😭😭😭 and call you to receive your on too😭😭😭

[@calistermadukwe7977]

Truly no one cares

[@jss.2020]

if no one cares why did his death make national headlines

[@danielarinze486]

Honestly, nobody cares

[@fayanjumodupe2604]

Huuuun

[@oluwatoyin6348]

Life goes on, but sincerely, when you love someone sincerely, their death can leave a pain that never quite goes away.. And that's not trying to be melodramatic. My mum passed almost 9 yrs ago and my dad four years ago, and there are times I still shed tears when I remember them. And I'm 50yrs old, so its not like Im a young orphan... they lived long and good lives. It's just to tell you that when you truly love someone and they die, the pain lessens, but it never really goes away. The fact is if you can hide your pain enough to dance to Flavour and have a sumptuous party after such a TRAGIC loss of your church members, then it really was not grief you were feeling. Its different if the 4 people church passed away were OLD, even if you grieve them terribly, such a party can go on because afterall their funerals would still be a merry party. In such a case their funerals would be a CELEBRATION of LONG lives well spent... But we are talikng about people in the prime of their lives and even a young man of 22 - 23 yrs. And the HORRENDOUS manner in which they died ! How HEARTLESS Siju and her husband are !!

[@raphaelnkemakonam5430]

I have been defending the pastor's wife everywhere that she is living her life and i see nothing wrong in her partying one week after Wigwes demise. Jesus said let the Dead bury themselves. To me, life goes on.

[@adebayoadedugba589]

Kiaaaaa. Too bad

[@raphaelnkemakonam5430]

@@adebayoadedugba589 What is too bad?

[@Jessyisblessed]

Exactly, what is she supposed to do? Not enjoy her own 60th? It was his pastor, not his wife or children. This complaint is too much. People are miserable. How does anyone know how she feels about his death? But at least she was probably planning for months for that birthday. People are too much.

[@raphaelnkemakonam5430]

@@Jessyisblessed When you take out time to watch the birthday party from the church service to the reception hall, she kept paying tributes to the departed Wigwes. What else would she do than to pray for their souls repose? Her diamond celebration that has been planned for weeks to months before now. Happy birthday once again ma'am.

[@samuel-9524]

if the person who passed on were to be a member without much financial influence in the church would anyone expect her to stop her celebration because of his death? or would wigwe stop his celebration if it were his pastor that passed on? just asking!!!