Here's what a man should NEVER say to a woman!

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"I can't live without you"?
"I want to marry you because I love you"?
What is the correct approach to creating a lasting bond?
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[@CatsAgainstCommunism]

"I can exist without you. But without you, it's not a Life." so powerful.

[@karinsvanback7497]

G-d is Love, we are already married to Him. We are His bride. All of us both men and women are His bride.

[@we_thrive]

I’m an atheist and I enjoy listening to this man regardless of our differences in beliefs..

[@roxyperson8328]

“You don’t use another human being for anything, even if they agree to it.”

[@samikor-jv4bc]

....why not??

[@roxyperson8328]

@@samikor-jv4bc because you understand their worth even if they don’t.

[@brookdyer6620]

@@roxyperson8328~ “Good for You Roxy”…Well said!👍

[@gabrielleperret1187]

? Roxy? ​@@brookdyer6620

[@sr3821]

As an engineer by training, I have to admit that understanding calculus and algebra are easier than understanding love and women.

[@lcd1063]

😂

[@blablabla55555]

To be fair, understanding how to deal with men is harder than understanding complex analysis and Lee groups. And I say this as a mathematician

[@mR-dc4oq]

The reverse- understanding love and men is equally difficult. We were created to be different. It’s not a bad thing but sometimes a challenge- our hearts and egos are involved. It hurts sometimes. No one likes that- man or woman. Thank goodness for the human race there are people who want to do it.

[@logiramasamyr5955]

Hahahaha 😅

[@cafe-tomate]

At least with math you have the feeling that you are advancing even if it's a few steps wise

[@kimlersue]

Happily in love & married nearly 50 years it must be said..the wisdom of man is worthy of your time..

[@zbenlevi]

This is the best lecture I have seen about Intimacy and Marriage. Thank you Rabbi. I knew from when I was a teen that Intimacy is the way to go. Now people are just realizing how important and valuable it is after they took away privacy.

[@Born2Losenot2win]

So simple and yet so fundamental I’m not Jewish but I really needed this talk in this time of my life

[@Tamar-sz8ox]

Universal wisdom ❤

[@MartialistKS]

@@Tamar-sz8ox No, true wisdom.

[@bradleymorgan8223]

It seems like in this world, a man's lot in life is to be judged by how useful he is. To hear it spelled out so clearly is refreshing

[@angusseletto1511]

Sadly what Hes worth is no1 then he's decent,then he's reliable

[@Levandetag]

@@angusseletto1511 Decency has many other layers.

[@angusseletto1511]

Youre such a Humaine Rabbai.Far from unreachable,comforting,Humanities Brain on a podium.Humerous self deprecating.Wonderful for the privilege to learn.Many Thanks

[@sarameiragootblatt1819]

I Can listen to this message infinite times. That’s how you know you’re hearing the truth

[@Chasing.The.Red.TheBook]

Very true.

[@okhuibutala1640]

What is the truth?

[@beavermcdoogles]

@@okhuibutala1640 chewish women are satanic 304s

[@jillfryer6699]

You must be joking. Or easily amused. Or

[@mancient]

What a wise man! As an eclectic monk, I find great comfort in learning from people who has integrated rather than succumbed to the teachings.

[@paulhenryangus3688]

Rabbi Friedman has a gift for putting the poetry back into everyday life. ❤

[@susanjaneleitner7670]

Thank you for the laughter and talk. I learned much!

[@DennnisTheGreat]

The single most helpful lecture I've heard by you Rabbi. Thank You so much.

[@dennismuleya575]

Wisdom from another planet. Well said

[@vonwolly2]

You're very wise man it's been a pleasure listening to you

[@shawnmora9558]

This Rabbi really makes you think. When listen, I can follow and I think at the end I learn something. I really appreciate this Rabbi's talks and lectures. I'm

[@elizabethbooth5446]

Thank you rabbi

[@stanleykowrach1957]

Great video never heard such wisdom.

[@josephsekavec5232]

It worked… You earned my subscription.

[@jeffreyrwilliams9345]

Thank You

[@callycat6660]

Thankyou Rabbi ..I always learn from your wisdom

[@user-dy8tn3mo7c]

Thanks, Rabbi Friedman, for the excellent lecture! ❤👏👍😎🙏

[@christymeredith452]

Great lesson

[@abraxadabra4224]

I do love how the Rabbi is able to teach you a lesson through humor.

[@LenSheppard-sc2vw]

Very insightful and funny guy. Makes it relatable.

[@robinle9699]

You are the best share , and intelligent ❤❤thank you!!

[@123antimiro]

Eye open lesson, thank you.

[@samirasharmeen1124]

Very well said. ❤

[@desousamarquesferdinandama4264]

So true, thank you sir 😊

[@cafe-tomate]

The words of wisdom of this man soothe my soul

[@counsellor3474]

Great lessons. God bless you.

[@counsellor3474]

Thanks for liking etc please.

[@phildorge2052]

Thanks for that.

[@mandic4998]

You explain this amazingly! You are so on point. Intimacy ( into me you see) sex isn't a thing but society has a treating it like it's a thing.

[@Levandetag]

Love his humor :) And the Deeper Wisdom with what Intimacy really Is. Lovely to listen! Water drops story Wonderful! Simple as that, and Profound understanding.

[@aurelianfreeman1800]

B.H. Another one just made it onto my "Best Of" video list! Great approach, insight, and presentation, Rabi! ... you`re an inspiration.

[@zenmaster6979]

This is true for both male and females not just the male

[@jillfryer6699]

I tumbled into this rabbit hole because I was so sick of seeing males talking about this and that. I just wanted to hear a woman talking about this and that. And this is what I get. Extinct because bored with sex (not impossible), off goes the human species, Who cares? Stop performing.

[@nomorecensoringme]

Wonderful!

[@joubertmondesir9934]

Oh my God,so amazing!

[@nomorecensoringme]

Fabulous!

[@orlandopizano9432]

Rabbi, I was raised catholic and I dont think there is similar wisdom in my close circle as the majority of the things you say. I have either validated a lot of my own personal experience, or have learned a lot from watching you. Especially in marriage. To add to your point, once a man has the conviction that he is perfect and acts in theat same order, good women will come to him without him even asking for it. Man should work on developing his convictions and then once he has them, work on never act opposite of them. Women will come, money will come, good things will come. You just need to make sure your convictions are well grounded in truth and wisdom. thank you so very much!

[@Tittelintuure04]

"Yeah everything just comes"

[@jordansjul]

Catholicism has a very strong theology regarding love, marriage, and children. Look up the Theology of the Body and Pope John Paul II writings on marriage

[@mariebarrett7177]

Seeing yourself in someone helps 💜

[@Tamar-sz8ox]

Rabbi is on point ❤

[@nacktepoesie6194]

Crazy soup talk and I had a headache yesterday, and I love my husband because God made me for him we were basically born married happy birthday 🤍🤍🤍

[@nomorecensoringme]

'Jackie Mason', 'soup scene' - priceless.

[@krishnamayimarianni8026]

Wonderful to meet you Rabbi.

[@DivineLogos]

Actions must not be done for outcomes. But for the action itself.

[@ruthdanielson919]

As a Catholic, priests are celebate unmarried, nuns celibate unmarried, so presents a question as to which life to lead. Some of us plain chicken and never marry, a most unfulfilling life, but many opting to do so in modern times when women can work, support themselves and not be subjected to abusive husbands. Men should be loving, kind, respectful as women should be. Find each other, marry and a blissful and rewarding life together, the ideal as G~d has planned.

[@iletaitunefois11]

These are the best advices I got in 33 years.

[@mareksozolins6347]

Thanks

[@terrorists-are-among-us]

Dating is so terrible that at one point I started to desperately try to find reasons to like the guy and could only come up with things like "I like his name" or "I like his hair" 😂

[@heightsofsagarmatha]

That's sad

[@herelookinatu]

I didn't even come up with that.😁

[@terrorists-are-among-us]

@@herelookinatu I stopped trying once I realized I needed to invent reasons because people were so awful. "Maybe I should give it time" was always a bad idea too.

[@iamtlc4u]

Dating sucks. Maybe I should’ve stayed with my ex husband.

[@folkeholtz6351]

Splendid lecture, the best I ever have heard. Such wisdom it is in Judaism. It is G-d´s wisdom indeed. it is the truth.

[@corym.johnson7241]

Hello sir/ma'am, Good day to you. If it's not too much trouble. What is your reason/wisdom for not spelling out His general name? If there is I want to understand so I may apply this wisdom myself. If there is and you don't have the words to do it justice but do know the source material. Will you divulge the source material? Thanks.

[@tumslucks9781]

The God of Judaism was a demonic being masquerading as God. When the real God appeared they crucified him.. Oh dear.

[@raomkrao5293]

​@@corym.johnson7241 🎉😢

[@joemesulam352]

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[@lizlovsdagmara5525]

The question of sleeping with the beard over the blanket or under the blanket was answered in the 1947 movie "Miracle on 34th Street".

[@caseyhill636]

The night air helps the whiskers grow ❤

[@hectormorales5211]

This is so good.😅

[@samuelmangah7879]

It’s indeed a real life lecture

[@karenkimsey7259]

How Hebraic! Lovely word plays!

[@jaimegoenaga7273]

Great to listen to such a message. Thank you for teaching something I should have been taught before.

[@rbfarrell1]

Married in the U.S. for a man is much like go into the casino when you go in you must know the odd's are in favor of the casino or woman. You might win a few times in the beginning but if you keep playing usually you lose it all.

[@dalesands1291]

As I get older I am beginning to wonder why I should marry again. At 63 I find most of the advice is for younger people to get together to procreate. I get that. Not much advice out there on how to view marriage once your are older

[@dalesands1291]

@@AG-re5vw. My career offered me promotions to a different city and she didn't want to move. Before that the love had died anyway.

[@dalesands1291]

@@AG-re5vw. Not likely. That ended 33 years ago and I am 2500 miles away now.

[@iamtlc4u]

You view it the same way as when you first got married.

[@mariebarrett7177]

The thing is with questioning women "like me" is too feel the love... 💜

[@MrHichammohsen1]

Wisdom walks upon his tongue!

[@garryyeung6286]

Difficult to change from man to husband

[@georgevladimirovich7190]

This wisdom transcends above anything which is called religion, regardless what that religion is.

[@zeveisenberger6605]

That’s because religion is a series of beliefs but this is truth which does not need belief in order to exist

[@sarahthoni8046]

Beautiful

[@paweex3655]

Magnificent

[@Notthatguy23]

Life is the journey from birth to death. Nobody can tell you what to write in your story, and you're the one that sees which characters to remember. A symphony of goals coalescing as a force bringing the world closer to perfection.

[@sherylcomptonpeters8737]

There are no words I can say to you I just love you because I do Theres nothing you could do or nothing you could say It's just there, it doesn't go away

[@tonym.s.8686]

Wow you are wise.

[@terrorists-are-among-us]

When I was dating guys would want to be my boyfriend just because they didn't want to be single and sometimes because they didn't want me to be happy. Anytime I'd leave they'd cry, then if I'd think perhaps they learned something they'd go right back to failure.

[@crystal-vu2rg]

Rabbi....you are wise....

[@nomorecensoringme]

Thank you for sharing this teaching so full of wisdom, knowledge, humor and Jewishness.

[@hilarydrinkwater5392]

The narcissist trotting through the dark?🤕

[@nomorecensoringme]

@@hilarydrinkwater5392 what 'narcissist' would that be?

[@mosharrafshafiq3005]

Impressive

[@godstomper]

I'm looking for love. And all I attract is people looking for lust

[@Diana-bb5wc]

❤🙃it’s always a pleasure to listening you’re wise words full of humor!Dear Rabbi: I’d be curiously to know what you d say about the sentence; „I love you, Cauce I need you, or „I need you cauce I love you! (Cauce you can need a lot of people, what is the difference between „need“ and love someone?im confused)is „need you „ enough?!?😏 Shalom from a „Christian“!🙏

[@akinkugbeakintunjigabriel7845]

Does anyone here remember the movie HEAT? This is Neal said to Eddy (... can't go on being alone without you)

[@adebowaledavid5938]

I literary understand that nothing last forever.

[@esthergoveaperez7966]

Let's enjoy life together. That would be amazing. Alone is not fun.

[@stainlessgladys]

If u say it's not a life .Life is living

[@nancylohe986]

Marriage is a Divine Affair❤

[@sarasohaib6765]

one sided love is nothing

[@fzs164]

Revolutionary

[@ary-shalom8356]

Im loosing hope on getting married 😂. Do we really love people JUST for who they are? Do people really love us that way? Can we bypass wanting to see virtue in a man, and just “love him for who is is?”. I wish to have an answer 😢

[@mikekoen6314]

Try just living & praying that you’ll find your mate Don’t look for the perfect mate here’s a secret there are no perfect people out there but there are some who are close Each person needs their other half not someone lesser half or what they think is the perfect person

[@fernandomelli9395]

I think the answer to your questions is another question: what do you expect from marriage? From what you say, your question is whether you can truly love, so it has nothing to do with marriage (and you don't lose hope in anything, to begin with), you see? The answer is in you?

[@ary-shalom8356]

@@fernandomelli9395 Thanks. It’s food for thought. I don’t know what to expect from marriage because I have never been married, but I would like: companionship, partnership, a best friend, romance, to create a family. To answer the other questions; perhaps because I don’t totally accept myself with all my flaws it’s hard for me to fully accept others. So, no, I don’t believe we “love” people just the way they are. Sounds Pathetic?

[@Vlad-bs1js]

​@@ary-shalom8356 After giving it some thought, I think that I like women for who they can be, not necessarily who they are, and end up loving them if I see that they're willing to try to become my ideal version of them, regardless of how much they succeed in doing so (it's all about the effort). I know that this may sound like a selfish view, but this is something that I would reciprocate. If anything, I would to be the one who initiates "the change" because I believe a healthy relationship, be it romantic or otherwise, is one in which all the involved parties are actively and consciously trying to make each other's lives better. As for what to expect from marriage, I don't see why it should be any different to a relationship that you're taking seriously. At the end of the day, it's just a formal way of declaring your commitment and it shouldn't change anything.

[@obaroaluya3762]

@@Vlad-bs1js this is so true. Bt few can understand. Every one must be very willing to undergo d changes dt shud evolve them frm just raw materials to finished products..! It's madness to expect ppl to accept n live wit ur raw attitude just the same way u will cringe n scream if d waiter put up raw meet b4 ur table 4 u to eat. U want finished processed meat. Right..? Bc it's tasty. Right..? D same way d guy or d lady wants u to undergo some processing so u can be edible & nt to raw pissed off yakky meat. I too distaste dt & I guess dts what d dude here try to xplain wen he's say: be modeled to wat I want. Don't get him outta context pls..! Liking wat dey can be nt wat they re is d real deal that is subject n needs to change. Bt few seldom realize this necessity neither wud they wnt to go thru d rigors & motions of change n evolve. It is far frm being a selfish view bt a well tot out balanced view. U even talked abt d effort wch can be perceived. As in d effort of giving it a go or a try however little dt is. D willingness of trying to metamorphose into decent finished products. Every one loves finished processed stuff. D modern day car is loved bc it submitted to undergo process. U must be willing enough to undergo process until u become d finished product dt is d desire of all men & nations..! Otherwise, u re just close to being a raw material wit all d toxicity...!!

[@emki542]

😂😂wow wonderful.. wonderful

[@abelgovender4115]

I love Rabbi Manis!

[@terrorists-are-among-us]

Mmmm, soup. Yummy soup. Joy bringing soup. I could have soup everyday.

[@Spitspin3]

And where does this beautiful wisdom come from? Where can I find it? Please make a video about this.

[@davidlitchke4964]

The why, is an age old question. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. No easy answer. That's from a guy who's been married almost 43 years.

[@adambantawa]

I have many questions to ask. Teacher im confused. U said love is thing and intimacy nothing comes in between partners. But about love i love my mother and father unconditionally. If even they dont love me i will love them without any reason. And regarding intimacy psychology says couple tends to have it more when they are arguing. And most of them likely to patch up again.

[@harryloibl5183]

Would like to ask you something thanks

[@gordanavukasinovic2649]

Thank you Rabi Friedman, so funny and true 💝 Thankfully I can sleep 😂😂😂I do not have beard yet since I heard as you get older beard can appear 😂😂😂

[@aritranaruto]

He is like sadhguru, the whole vibe

[@generalconsulting]

Chemistry is "chemistry".

[@user-rlaalswndkQk]

No thing…. Great metaphor.

[@SimonHlophe-yq3bc]

True

[@daraabdullah293]

I found someone to get married, but her mother she was like a dictator on fire 🔥 the marriage never happened 😳🤷‍♂️😁

[@terrorists-are-among-us]

What I wanna know is how much soup is in the beard. They don't call facial hair a flavor saver for no reason.

[@joanpelpinosas]

Yes. Now I understand. I want someone to marry me for me and I'd wholeheartedly do it vice versa 😊

[@jillfryer6699]

are you kidding? You have to be told this by a religious man with a long beard?

[@rosameijering5161]

The truth

[@Leira-et9bw]

I wonder why couples love some character traits at first and later maybe get angry about them. If the couple are one, so whose those character traits then are? Or are they mixed and what about if they divorces?

[@pippilongstocking.]

Lust and not love

[@Bittzen]

Good point. When I dated someone before for a few years, it bothered me overtime that it seemed the person would say they liked me for my intelligence and humor. But I was like what about this or that, I'm an economist or what about all these Jewish teachings I can share with you, or what about my looks, etc. The rabbi makes it clear that both of us were looking at it wrong.

[@arielvangrichen4480]

I have a difficulty to understand sex without intimacy. It is like ordering a tea and getting only hot water. The soul of tea is the tea bag. I might be wrong but that is how I have felt in the past. Two souls not able to be one.