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@sexidex61652 жыл бұрын
When EJ said... "Fun is being on my 🛋 couch watching Law & Order" I fell to the floor because that's me ALL DAY!!!! 🤣🤣🤣
@awalker83712 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂 this is me.
@Erica-mm3cz2 жыл бұрын
I know that's right
@bbfuturemrsp12082 жыл бұрын
How bout the whole ION channel. I got a show for everyday of the week. Chicago Fire does it for me
@hazelwitherspoon27212 жыл бұрын
I can do Hallmark all day.
@heidiely32432 жыл бұрын
CSI Las Vegas here ALL DAY
@copster_2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for normalizing stay-at-home, introvertism. I feel seen! 🙌🏽👋🏼
@gloriaalex112 жыл бұрын
Same! But I don't really want to be seen because I'm in my house, dressed down, hair in a ponytail, bare feet, and no makeup.
@dr.braxygilkeycruises1460 Жыл бұрын
Amen! As traumatic as the pandemic was, it was still a little bit of Heaven for me. No Karens at the office or anywhere else. Working AND going to church at home. BLISS!!!!
@knittylane3016 Жыл бұрын
Oh yes. I’m not alone!
@missygrando19652 жыл бұрын
We need a support group. Imagine a convention full of awkward, questionably dress hell naw dancers.
@FiestyImp852 жыл бұрын
If yall make this happen im there!! EJ I hear a major project in the works. I will admit I can dance though. 🤗🥴
@sheelfjohnson2 жыл бұрын
I'm in.
@lkeke352 жыл бұрын
You Know the Black Lady Sketch show gotchu with: The Basic Ball! It’s on KZbin! It’s hilarious. It’s for all of the rest of us like EJ!
@maqclark2 жыл бұрын
I mean, I would go. But I'm probably gonna leave early.
@lisabell79342 жыл бұрын
this right here.lol
@janettefowler18252 жыл бұрын
“The spaghetti is only on plates. It’s never in the straps.🤣🤣🤣🤣
@creativequeenconsulting38112 жыл бұрын
🤣
@consciouslyka2 жыл бұрын
No drinking, smoking, no fancy clothes! I can relate- this is me all day! Every bit of this video is a testament to my friends, social life, and wardrobe!
@calenajackson8772 Жыл бұрын
I’ve always been this way even in college. Nah I’ll pass on the club and just stay in my dorm room lol
@rachelmoten9122 жыл бұрын
EJ every other video: “don’t invite me no where cause I’m not goin” Also EJ: “oh that looks fun.. I wonder why they didn’t invite me 😅😂❤
@bornagainchristian37422 жыл бұрын
I was about to say that🤣
@scentsbda2 жыл бұрын
That’s me too 😂😂😂😂
@adriaward45392 жыл бұрын
As a fellow introvert I want to be invited but I ain’t going.
@QueenGail Жыл бұрын
@@adriaward4539 me too! I’m like they could have asked even though I ain’t going 😂😂why we like that?😅
@miatamar2 жыл бұрын
EJ we missed you! I hope you took the time you need to reset. We alright and we gone be here no matter how long you need ❤️
@Jesus.SaVeS772 жыл бұрын
I 2nd & approve yur mesg. EJ & Every1 needs a break, a Vacation.
@MzPCollins2 жыл бұрын
Yesssss indeed
@FiestyImp852 жыл бұрын
I'm totally there!
@luxartesian89712 жыл бұрын
Yes!! We love you enough to wait!! Mental health and self care checkups are a must!! We gone be alright.
@theselfcarechannel2 жыл бұрын
I second this comment!
@JB-gy4ub2 жыл бұрын
I'm an introvert too. I'd run into other introverts, realize we have that in common. But we can't be friends because neither of us wants to be bothered.
@cyvonn2 жыл бұрын
It's like you were speaking from inside my head. I approve this message!
@lindamcallister90082 жыл бұрын
I can relate to needing to catch my zzz's. I'm done by 9 , 930 at the latest.
@cyvonn2 жыл бұрын
@@lindamcallister9008 And that's IF I go 😂
@carlajones21692 жыл бұрын
When EJ started dancing, I turned into my mama and kept saying “Don’t do that. Do-don’t do that, EJ! Stop girl😂
@Jesus.SaVeS772 жыл бұрын
Gdeve. @Carla Jones, 😀 Yur Funny! 😆😂🤣🤭
@dannybryant31412 жыл бұрын
I just hollered 🤣🤣… EJ matching her same hip move to whatever beat is playing…. Hilarious 😂 🤣… too bad EJ didn’t drop the vocals though.. 🎼🎤🤣
@HurricaneReba2 жыл бұрын
You are Seen! My wardrobe is dressing for comfort. I usually say no to invites and, if I say yes, there's a moderate probability that I will cancel. Introverts are wonderful! Why do extroverts expect introverts to change when they aren't willing to join you at your level?!
@pc64612 жыл бұрын
Extroverts always think we wanna be like them! Gets on my nerves.
Introverts LOVED the shutdown. Everyone else was suicidal. For once they got to see how we feel being at work all day assaulted by their commotion.
@lkeke352 жыл бұрын
Frt! Sitting down is as fast as I get! Okay sometimes a slightly quicker walk but that’s it!
@jaslyn55012 жыл бұрын
Yes introverts are the shiiiiit!
@younglaster2 жыл бұрын
My besties are introverted. They'll come over bc we made plans, but we'll cancel plans in the parking lot. There have been visits when they came over, we had lunch and a nap. That was it. Introverts need introverted friends!
@monique93542 жыл бұрын
I know no other introverts. I always wondered how it would be to have introverted friends 🤗
@raynettetyson66892 жыл бұрын
@@monique9354 It's great. They understand you in a way your extroverted friends can't because they are wired differently. Also, they are super happy when you cancel plans because they didn't want to go either. 😂
@omegasage7772 жыл бұрын
Yes!! These are the best friend "dates". Just hanging, not doing much
@moniquejordan2712 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I cant..lunch and a nap..oh I can so relate🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@prudencek70872 жыл бұрын
I went to an event last weekend because I determined in myself that I will try to be more sociable. Folks were surprised when I walked in... because I usually say no.🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ I chatted with some people; ran a few jokes, etc... Did I leave early? Yes! Yes I did! What can I say... I like my house.🤷🏽♀️
@cpwwjd692 жыл бұрын
The important thing is that you went, that's a plus. They should be happy you went.
@QueenGail Жыл бұрын
Good for you, if and when I go I tell them I decided to grace you with my appearance 😂😂
@prudencek7087 Жыл бұрын
@@QueenGail 🤣
@Wealthybaby Жыл бұрын
What you did was completely healthy and actually and you shouldn’t apologize Passing around this quote I read from a book about the power in introverts called *quiet* "Spend your free time the way you like, not the way you think you're supposed to- Susan Cain
@calenajackson8772 Жыл бұрын
Fr like I’ll go out for an hour or 2 and then I’m ready to go home 😂 you can come over my house but after a few hours or at most a day or 2 I’m ready for you to go home, family or friend sorry lol
@sandranynj71182 жыл бұрын
That's me, and I am so happy with my lifestyle, no wrinkles, drama, sleep deprivation, DUI, hangovers, sore fit, cheating rumors ...... 🤣😅 but I love to hear the stories from friends about their night out-hey I got secrets!
@Future-zx9ts2 жыл бұрын
Same!! I want to be able to control the amount of drama I have to process. Leave it at the door, but call me on the phone and tell me about it. 😂😂😂
@NiijiAl-Haqq2 жыл бұрын
🤣💅💯
@silvernblack212 жыл бұрын
That one dance move 🤣🤣🤣 But you made me realize something, as a fellow drug free introvert: I don't wanna go out knowing so many people now DO use substances. And I can't be the designated driver, because if I find any "stuff" was brought into my vehicle, we tusslin. I won't wait for the heauxs to sober up either, it's happening. I don't have time to be around demon activities, to sully my squeaky clean and non existent criminal record, or to get caught up in drama. So they can keep not inviting me, I'm good.
@cck67402 жыл бұрын
I hear you...that's why NO ONE rides in my car...I have seen far to many episodes of the first 48 where the person was guilty because they drove someone and a crime was committed.
@kaylawaters26912 жыл бұрын
Same to all of that. I think one of my biggest (and what seems to be a reasonable fear) is someone bringing drama or substances that I have never done and will never do and messing my life up by associating with them.
@omegasage7772 жыл бұрын
I agree with you about all of this!!
@ninalewis9933 Жыл бұрын
"Heauxs"? I'm dying!🤣🤣🤣
@hisgloryourstory69369 ай бұрын
Might be dating myself, but "Word!"
@kimakoadamssmith93342 жыл бұрын
Gurl when u did that slow fast hip move I fell out.🤣🤣🤣
@naeshelle2 жыл бұрын
On a serious note, this was really validating to watch. This is where I’m at & where I’ve always been. I don’t get to do a lot with my peers, who wonder why I’m acting like a “granny” & don’t wanna get gussied up to clubs or brunch or whatever despite being 25. I’m comfortable at home lol. It makes finding friends hard, but knowing you have friends who accept that you’re just not a partying gal gives me hope.
@luckzthesecond16942 жыл бұрын
Try Meetup and Eventbrite in your city. I found things to do with a small group a week. No drinking needed and another good thing; I don't have to go every week 😂.
@omegasage7772 жыл бұрын
Shoot, we would get along! You just have to find the right friends who are also chill. I promise that they're out there
@iheartmia2020 Жыл бұрын
@@luckzthesecond1694 she said she's comfortable at home, who wants to be friends with people who just wanna sit at home? What is the friend supposed to do...sit in the house with u?
@cleohall6775 Жыл бұрын
I totally understand
@nickoletcampbell46572 жыл бұрын
Im the introvert who didn't know she was an introvert. I would get invited, I would go but I wasnt dancing and I wasnt socializing. I damn near didnt want to be there, but did🤔. Very confused. I was and felt out of place. My place was in the house. Thats were I was comfortable. Not the club and not around a group of people that I dont know, not comfortable around but am expected to socialize with that probably think Im weird cause im "quiet" but Im really just an observant Pisces🤷🏾♀️. That was in my 20s. In my 30s, I can now identify why I felt and feel those feelings. Im not boring. Im not stiff. I'm just NOT comfortable. Im not grumpy, its just been several hrs and my social battery is now depleted, I want to be out of my clothes in my own company breathing my own air. Im now the introvert that while im out, while my battery is charged, you would swear I was a total extrovert holding conversation with serveral people at once. Im the introvert that now knows being an introvert is not about where you spend your active time BUT where you refuel yourself. I now know im gonna need to mentally prepare for certain things. So Im no longer confused "I do like to be around people and go outside, but theres a limit and when that limit is up I want to re-energize by MYSELF". Those are my boundaries and I wont apologize for them.
@dejamcneal30112 жыл бұрын
Wow! I relate to what you said about being looked at weird by people because you’re too quiet for them. I got tired of hearing “omg you’re so quiet. Why aren’t you talking?” as a child/teenager. Now as an adult I love having the power of who I want to be around and when I want to socialize. If I’m in any social setting please believe Im too busy observing everything that the talkative folk would never notice! Kudos to the introverts that don’t need validation. Our silence is golden 😂😊
@nickoletcampbell46572 жыл бұрын
@@dejamcneal3011 YES! and whats MORE validating is because I now understand what im feeling and can describe it through *words* and I can explain to others. My 20s was a tug and war with myself. It was "well Im gonna go cause I dont want them to think Im boring. Cause thats my friend" when only 10% of me wanted to be there. Im so much more emotionally secure in my 30s. Im not going. Im not comfortable in that environment. Thats NOT my scene. I rather be doing something by myself, maybe another time. Cheers to maturity, SELF awareness & knowledge🥰
@yvonnewebb50372 жыл бұрын
#ObservantPisces that's me! 😉
@lynnewilliams3241 Жыл бұрын
Nicole you described me. I'm in a black sorority and the social aspect can tire me out.
@KC-YouTubeName2 жыл бұрын
You killing my with that one dance move!! 😂😂😂Don’t ever change EJ!!❤
@kikibigbangfan35402 жыл бұрын
Introverts unite, but let's be real...none of us would show up to the meet up. Fr fr😭
@silvernblack212 жыл бұрын
No, we wouldn't 😂
@younglaster2 жыл бұрын
My list of excuses would break a scale.
@LotusFlowerBmb2 жыл бұрын
Lol we're with you EJ 😁 Introverts unite ✊🏽✊🏻✊🏿
@whosthatlady29232 жыл бұрын
Introverts unite but separately in your own home😔
@Evie_Michelle2 жыл бұрын
I feel you EJ. Law and Order was 3 hours tonight. I'm never up past 10. Dick Wolf needs to be more respectful of people's bed time.
@lcam92412 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣 right
@Love-dc5tq2 жыл бұрын
Right? My friends laugh at me because I’m in bed at 930
@JonezCee2 жыл бұрын
Listen. I'm 🤣 because I was so pumped for the premiere then saw it was a combo type deal. I said why is Mr. Wolf playing with me??? Doesn't he know I get up at 5 and my eyes already burning!
@michellerobinson35722 жыл бұрын
He need to be more respectful😆😅😂
@lindseyhussey6450 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@denisenunya26192 жыл бұрын
The fast hip move made me fall out my chair 😆😆😆
@veronicariley75952 жыл бұрын
It was kinda like a hula hoop situation 🤣
@denisenunya26192 жыл бұрын
@@veronicariley7595 yep, that's it! 😆
@hiimniasha2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@sherikalockhart30202 жыл бұрын
The invite should still be extended. I have become such a home body but it’s still nice to be invited and the dress, SAME SIS, SAME !!!! Dancing too!!!
@alo20132 жыл бұрын
This is so me! They don't invite me and I'm alright with it. 💅🏾
@refinedbutterfly73492 жыл бұрын
"The spaghetti, is only on plates"......... I WHOLEHEARTEDLY felt that, and it took me all the way out at the same time! 😂😂😂
@genxx27242 жыл бұрын
There a funny KZbinr named Trey. He did a spoof about wives. The comment on underwear: “Got the ring - lose the string!”
@rdavis48182 жыл бұрын
I am shaking my head in agreement. I guess I'm more of a home body and I am not hurt not being invited anywhere. I'm true to me.
@07roxx2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I'm not alone with this! I'd rather stay home and out the way and be in the bed playing bingo or wheel of fortune unbothered 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦♀️
@robindrush2 жыл бұрын
😁😁😁
@NancyGooGoo2 жыл бұрын
EJ, stop living my life, Girl! There's a class reunion that I just found out about from Facebook - guess who didn't get invited! I ain't mad at 'em - they know I'm not goin! However, when I read about how it went and all the stories, I know I'm gonna feel some kinda way - but then I'll remind myself, "Girl, you didn't wanna go, anyway."🙄
@APTTMHYforever2 жыл бұрын
Same! My 20th class reunion was last year and I didn’t get invited… and I was senior class homecoming queen!!😁 but they already know that I wouldn’t go🤷🏽♀️🙃
@kaylawaters26912 жыл бұрын
Mine was 2 years ago. I was barely friends with any of them anyways. I wasn't interested in going either. Sadly I still live and work in the same town I grew up in (never could afford to move away), so by default, I'll see (and try to avoid) some of them anyways. I deleted FB about 11 years ago because I really could care less about what my old classmates, random former coworkers, and people I used to go to church with (and were never close to) are up to now. Lol.
@HeyChandra232 жыл бұрын
Yuup! This is me! Invite me so I can say no or “maybe”. I always take my own car anywhere I go so I can leave before the parking lot gets packed. Lol
@kikibigbangfan35402 жыл бұрын
Gurl, my spaghetti straps are whole lasagna sheet noodles, okay! 😜😂🤣
@elusivemayfly75342 жыл бұрын
I recognize that hip move! Going to a wedding this weekend, and I’ma do that all night
@trishasmith23032 жыл бұрын
This intro preview! 😂 glad to see you back! The spaghetti is only on plates-PREACH IT EJ!😂 I have the munchies for my pillow! I want these phrases on a shirt!! I don’t get invited places for all of the reasons you said but also… my friends have different lifestyles than I do so they know “don’t invite Trish!” 😂 I feel like I can identify with Alessia Cara’s song Here 😂😂
@MsWhitneyS22 жыл бұрын
When you see that EJ dropped a new video and you feel like ur about to cry when Celie was reunited with Nettie in the Color Purple 😯😢😭🤣
@latashaslaughter37012 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 OMG I CAN'T!!!!
@kathymarshall76032 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@tyroberts31 Жыл бұрын
You and me must never part🤣🤣
@shellthomas64212 жыл бұрын
I'm definitely an introvert who always say no. My sister had a party at my house that I didn't attend..🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@tjax55342 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@denisebuethe94622 жыл бұрын
YES! SO MUCH THIS!!! I am every single thing you mentioned. But, it still hurts my heart to not even be asked, invited, or included 😔 I do have a couple of friends that, even though they know I will decline, they WILL ask me because they know that what's important is to ask & offer for me to join. 💕
@Glamchic012 жыл бұрын
That’s ridiculous why would you want someone to ask you out to say no. Aren’t they tired of u saying no? It makes u feel good to reject them?
@matxalenc84102 жыл бұрын
@@Glamchic01 It makes her feel good to know that people care about her and enjoy her presence enough to want to ask.
@Glamchic012 жыл бұрын
@@matxalenc8410 sounds like a sociopath to me but hey! keep saying no
@denisebuethe9462 Жыл бұрын
@@Glamchic01 no.
@blackbutterfly83382 жыл бұрын
I am an introvert. My girlfriends like to travel. I don’t, not really….it’s too much work to get the right wardrobe and hair together, and then looking for tickets at a decent price in the season, you’re planning to go….it’s just too much to do. Oh, and ain’t nothin’ wrong with binging on Law and Order, any day of the week
@leighmassey76382 жыл бұрын
😂😂 you are so funny! Last night I went to dinner with work colleagues and it started at 5:30. At 8:00 I started yawning and was looking for an escape. Then I just announced “I have to go because it’s almost my bedtime”. I go to bed at 9:00. They all laughed at me and I was serious. And it was a school night!
@JamesBaldwinLover2 жыл бұрын
I did the designated driver thing twice before I said no more. Heifers wanted me to take them to IHOP and Waffle House and Church's when I only agreed to take them home
@tjax55342 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@itsmyopinionnotyours16832 жыл бұрын
BACK LIKE YOU NEVER LEFT BLESSED TO SEE YOU 💕🙌
@Jesus.SaVeS772 жыл бұрын
Gdeve. @It's my opinion Not yurs, 👍🏾 That Part! RE: EJ, I'm Glad she took a quick break,but Glad & happy she's back on Tube. I'm a Faithful Sub as well.
@itsmyopinionnotyours16832 жыл бұрын
@@Jesus.SaVeS77 💕🙌LOVE PEACE AND BLESSINGS TO YOU AND YOURS YES I THINK SHE IS AMAZING AND EVERYONE NEEDS A BREAK FROM TIME TO TIME GOD SPEED 💕🙌
@teresapatterson95212 жыл бұрын
😆, I just love you! I love how you keep it real! And I love the fact that you don't use a whole lot of profanity to get your point across. You are a highly intelligent and insightful African-American woman! Keep on being you! I enjoy it.
@IAmTheoracle0072 жыл бұрын
😂😅🤣 I made a commitment that I was going to go hang out this Friday, but I really didn't want to. I was so happy when I was told I couldn't come. 😂 After my shower, comes my after party of stir fry rice from the local Soul Food haunt and then ... I am off to bed!
@robindrush2 жыл бұрын
😆😆😆 love this
@FiestyImp852 жыл бұрын
I definitely feel you on the wardrobe. I feel like I have forgotten how to dress these days. But I be killing it in my scrubs though!
@hazelwitherspoon27212 жыл бұрын
Great to see you, EJ. My friends knew that if I came to an event, at some point I would be in the corner with a book. More than six people trying to interact with me at the same time is toooooo much. I also try not to be the designated driver because I can pull up when I want. My wardrobe is functional not stylish - I can rock cargo pants which for some reason is not party wear. My idea of a great evening is being on the couch with a big cup of tea in my jammies doing recipe research on Obama's intranets or splitting my time knitting, crocheting or painting.
@lisaclingingtochrist52952 жыл бұрын
Yessss!! That part!!
@nicoleduckery40672 жыл бұрын
When it becomes socially acceptable to attend an event with a good book on deck, count me all the way in!
@silvernblack212 жыл бұрын
@@nicoleduckery4067 Me too! We can sit a comfortable distance from each other with our cups of tea, silently reading and only looking up to side eye talkative people who come near us 🤣
@robindrush2 жыл бұрын
❤ kindred spirits
@genxx27242 жыл бұрын
There’s a man at work who finds a quiet place to sit by himself. I think its so adorable, because I understand. It also makes me happy to know a high-functioning, well-liked person wants peace and quiet even more than I do. His wife is outgoing and energetic. She goes out hiking and dancing, and he stays home.
@3019nene2 жыл бұрын
I'm with you on the clothing situation. I use up valuable time just on that. And then don't go.
@jesslynsears90902 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 I love you EJ, it’s the honesty for me 😌
@sweetcaramel47502 жыл бұрын
It would be respectful to at least invite You as a Friend and even if You decline most of the time it would be Nice of them to still invite
@glad2balive2 жыл бұрын
You invite me to something that sounded like fun at 11a.m but after I get home from work, shower, change into those comfy clothes and start talking to the remote.... It's a wrap. What plans?!🤭🤭😆😆 You shoulda caught me in my early 20's! 😂😂
@tjax55342 жыл бұрын
TRUTH!😂😂😂😂😂😂
@OppositeofHATE72 жыл бұрын
I get invited to one on one stuff and only sometimes group stuff...it does feel bad when you know they could've invited you, but I also don't do a lot. I work and don't have many close friends 🤷🏾♀️
@nywcreations1232 жыл бұрын
You made me laugh because I really relate💯🤷🏽♀️🤣
@daniellebenson102 жыл бұрын
Not quite an introvert, but I will FORGET. A friend of mine invited me to an event over the weekend, and I FORGOT. I don’t even have an excuse…damn shame really 🤦🏾♀️
@lcam92412 жыл бұрын
But see, I feel like you deserved a reminder text😄. The friend should have texted and said, "Don't forget about the get together on Saturday!" 🤷🏾♀️🤭
@risingphenoix92922 жыл бұрын
Babe...I am 40 and all of my partying, drinking and smoking occured in high school and college. Those days are beyond ova! I enjoy watching all things by Marvel Comics, anything dealing with the supernatural, magic, dragons and swords..basically anything on Amazon Prime lol. #IntrovertsUnite #MyInnerChildIsHappy #TeamHomeBody
@daughteroftheking43012 жыл бұрын
Chile! Lol. I can relate. I love being home. Fun for me is sitting in my sofa, doing word search puzzles and watching a movie. I hate going out but would appreciate at least being asked if I want to go out sometimes. But it is what it is. My husband and dogs make great company. 😁👌🏾
@ceb25442 жыл бұрын
I am LITERALLY watching Law and Order right this second! Ain't nothing wrong wit us. I don't care what nobody says I'm good company for myself. Me myself and I have great times together.
@chocolatebeauty16882 жыл бұрын
The fact that I don't drink or smoke is a reason why I'm never invited. Also everyone around me is single and I'm married so I can't partake in single chick activities. I completely relate to this.
@Mracle325i2 жыл бұрын
I'm just the opposite. Everyone around me is married and I'm single.
@cjohnson_2 жыл бұрын
What are single chick activities? I'm married but can't stand the way some married women talk about single women like they go out giving bjs in the middle of the street.
@Love-dc5tq2 жыл бұрын
Girl this didn’t give what you wanted
@quelquun20182 жыл бұрын
@@Love-dc5tq right! They act like marriage is the end all and be all. They be married but their husband is not married to them.
@lucyb28802 жыл бұрын
@@cjohnson_ 😂😂😂😂😂
@1jazzymommy2 жыл бұрын
Looking good, EJ. We all can relate. Mad chair dancing skills, girlfriend. #grown #stayreal
@shalawndudley20942 жыл бұрын
Introvert and non drinker here. Last Saturday I went to my high school class reunion and had a blast. They gave us a ticket to redeem for an alcoholic beverage. I didn't even use it and still had fun! I meant to give it away but forgot. Love you EJ! Glad you're back ❤
@ricardoj42502 жыл бұрын
EJ! You are hilarious! I haven't laughed like this in a min! Thank ya!
@xtubeit82652 жыл бұрын
I’M SO HAPPY YOU ARE BACK!
@JasmineNicoleCogdell2 жыл бұрын
You’re my kinda girl EJ 😂 I love this video sooo much! I pray you’re feeling better! ❤You look fantastic girl 💁🏽♀️
@deniseu252 жыл бұрын
This is me cause I love being at home on my 🛋️ with my babies💙I definitely say no so fast🤣🤣🤣my home is my place of peace
@bealight2232 жыл бұрын
I can relate 100%
@shrimpgeisha2 жыл бұрын
This is me all day (except the no drinking part). I’ve found a great way to compromise with the not going out thing; I tell them I’m good for breakfast, brunch or lunch. I’m a morning person but if it’s after 6pm, I better be in the house with my ugly clothes and no company. Brunch, breakfast or lunch is the perfect compromise because you don’t have to be overly dressed up for any of them and you still get to hang with your friends and you’re guaranteed some food. Don’t invite me to the club, but definitely invite me for breakfast the following day.
@knittylane3016 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely.
@tiffanywhite14722 жыл бұрын
Most of my friends are introverted like me. We’re leaving at the same time or we just decided to sit at someone’s house and chill.
@starrhayes93152 жыл бұрын
I hope you enjoyed talking time to yourself. I love your content.
@ColtraneAndRain Жыл бұрын
I felt that in my soul! I can have a few drinks, I can dance. But I don't want to!
@Kayrenar2 жыл бұрын
That dancing! You playing with us, EJ! 😂😂😂😂😂
@tiffanyblue12422 жыл бұрын
OMG!!! Everything you described in this video is all me. Don’t feel bad. We introverts are out here, and it’s okay. Keep being you and doing what you doing. We love you! 🤗
@mbyrd67132 жыл бұрын
Now see, I have people who will get mad about not being invited KNOWING FULL WELL they didn’t want to go in the first place 🤦🏽♀️😂
@lesliejefferson54532 жыл бұрын
Yessssssss!!! This is me, everything I mean everything that you stated is me head on🤔🤦🤷 yup, yup, yup 👍🙋... enjoying myself on the couch with some snacks and watching my favorite series of whatever on Hulu. Yup, that is some me. I am too myself, a introvert, not very sociable, but sociable. Yup, Mmhmm 👎 I be so content
@ashleyhw43882 жыл бұрын
We are the same person. Introvert, don’t drink or smoke, don’t dance, sneakers only. 😂 I like to be at home, festivals, or shopping.
@Wealthybaby Жыл бұрын
For the introverts “Spend your free time the way you like, not the way you think you're supposed to- Susan Cain
@bnadira2122 жыл бұрын
Not the hip move! 😂😂😂
@shirleyjensen4172 жыл бұрын
“I get the munchies from my pillow, I need to catch up on my snoring.” 😂😂😂😂😂 Love it!!
@deoncapass-tatum14242 жыл бұрын
I relate all too well to everything you said. I’m not going, but I still want to be invited!
@zanegood8552 жыл бұрын
😂 I used be at the club tuckered out by 10:30 & like: “we really got to stay ‘til 2?!” I’d go ahead & dance, but if the driver would’ve called it at 11:03, I’d’ve been there for it ☝🏾🤣
@lindalou19282 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate, we need to be friends Ej 🤣. Glad to see you back at it ❤️! Funny like always.
@melaniecurtin64022 жыл бұрын
Yeah I’m a homebody! If someone yelled fire, I’m gonna ask how bad is it & how close to my apt is it! My clothes are COMFORTABLE & I’m a sneakers girl.
@lifeissamood2 жыл бұрын
Girl you are hilarious 😂
@Gin422 жыл бұрын
That sideways snap with the body roll took me out😂😂🤣
@hiimniasha2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@paigethomas11282 жыл бұрын
The way I hollered when my good sis described her dance moves🤣🤣🤣🤣
@hsalle002 жыл бұрын
I relate to you so much.❤️
@bossladykey22 жыл бұрын
I’m the same way, people stopped inviting me cause they know I will say no. But I fell out when you said Spaghetti 🍝 is only on plates 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@yvonneallen46932 жыл бұрын
I don't due any substances also, never felt I needed them. I prefer to be alone, simply because my idea of fun is the Museum. My mind also is on building things. I am constantly going over what I need to build in my backyard to add joy to my family and myself.
@NapturalDiva2 жыл бұрын
I don't usually comment but I can seriously relate to some of this!🤣 I say no. I love sleep and start yawning early. I'm usually the designated driver because I don't trust many people driving me. I love my couch and prefer my animals over people most days. I can't wear high heels very long any more..... the list goes on! The funny part about all of this is that I'm am extrovert (with introverted tendencies)!!!!🤦🏽♀️🤣
@kimsummers77452 жыл бұрын
Your dance movements had me hollering 😂🤣🤣🤣
@lacy19912 жыл бұрын
"If the song is fast" HOLLERINNGGGG🤣🤣🤣
@tdallas37432 жыл бұрын
EJ we are definitely from the same tribe 😂😂😂😂
@FuchsiaSquare2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes, Being invited does NOT mean you’re welcomed. 🫣
@jaymoe87052 жыл бұрын
YES!
@bnadira2122 жыл бұрын
Big facts!
@live.love.lakay.97852 жыл бұрын
Preach Preacha!!!
@jaslyn5501 Жыл бұрын
This is a word!
@joanneanderson1273 Жыл бұрын
From one introvert to another, I felt this in my soul. I am good with one or two folks at a time, but more than that and I need a weekend to recover.
@omghi952 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you shared this with us lol
@shaelahgoss2 жыл бұрын
“I have the munchies for my pillow” 😂 Absolutely!!!
@tashaphillips52892 жыл бұрын
EJ, why you got me disturbing folks…wit my loud a** laughing!!!! 😂😂😂😂 Cause I agree with 9/10 (more like 10/10) ☺️🙏🏾💕
@angel_numbers2 жыл бұрын
Yasss sis we good on the couch! We need full straps on those cute caged bralettes! President of the Tig ol' bitty committee.
@kaamya9212 жыл бұрын
Don’t worry EJ, just wait until the kids are grown. Right in between the kids are out of the house and no grandkids yet, you are going to Live your Best Life! Now I don’t didn’t go clubbing now, but once a month there’s a live music show on the last Sunday in the month 😂 and it’s for grown folks. So me and my husband would go to that along with all the local politicians in Tallahassee. Then I discovered Groupon and I went to Paris France and London England. This past May I went on my 8th Cruise. And once a year we plan a family trip with my kids, my grandkids, nieces and nephews, my brother and we go to a different place every year and rent a vacation rental house and see all the sights and eat all the food. The energy is different when the kids have jobs, cars, and their own houses where they raise their kids and Nans (me) takes the grandkids to the movie when their grades are good
@pamelamcdaniel8192 жыл бұрын
At my age,the best I can do is "two step on my haters" and it's got to be before 10:00 pm! Lol
@chardaily50392 жыл бұрын
We need a support group😩😩I feel so much better that I am not the only one 😂
@jerelladams49272 жыл бұрын
I died when the music played!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@jennifergragg18502 жыл бұрын
Yes you are me lol! I wouldn’t even go out for work if I didn’t have to! 😂😂
@PvtSalt2 жыл бұрын
I am absolutely like you. BUT I traded my party friends for my old lady friends a long time ago - that’s why I never get invited to parties or events. 😂😂😂 My friends now do the most domestic bs & I still say “no” because my wardrobe is trash, I’m socially awkward, & I leave early. Lol😂