Take a moment to subscribe and let us know if you found this one helpful!
@ayobryce80012 жыл бұрын
I love the videos you guys make. It took a few months but I went from searching for “ex” videos to looking more forward to seeing the MENTAL HEALTH videos. My ex hasn’t reached out to me after 4 and a half months. If she comes to me..cool. If she doesn’t..cool! I’m just happy to be back to myself but as on a higher level than I was. USE NO CONTACT TO BECOME A BETTER YOU!!
@LG-ly7pw2 жыл бұрын
Ha yes absolutely. I started out obsessing with no contact videos etc.. to wanting to watch attachment, communication and confidence videos. I can listen to the ex back topics, but I’m not really interested in them anymore. I listen with the view of knowledge and helping others
@ponokunishima12 жыл бұрын
Just how I feel bro! I was in a 5 and a half year relationship and I’m still a bit stuck, but it’s been getting better.
@HealthyMindProject2 жыл бұрын
@@ponokunishima1 Similar. It's 3 months since my ex left, after our 4-year relationship. I am doing better than 3 months ago, but still have days when I feel really depressed and really wanting to be back with my ex. But little by little I am more able to get into my power and slowly move forward. I take things day by day, and try not to ignore negative feelings when they come up.
@ponokunishima12 жыл бұрын
@@HealthyMindProject I’ve just recently started journaling, so that’s helping, slowly getting back to walking the dog, but not working out as much as I would like to. However, two weeks after the breakup, I started working out, but afterwards, I started going into depression and stopped. My eating and sleeping were still off, my grooming and manscaping were not on point anymore. With that being said, I’m slowly picking myself up, even though it’s now been 73 days, but nothing to me is interesting anymore, not even girls and sex. I’m always having dreams about my ex and I making love, which I never had when we were together. I tend to dwell on the past and what happened. I think that’s my nature of a Virgo ♍️
@lizp6372 жыл бұрын
Same.
@Sams9112 жыл бұрын
I think ultimately what we miss the most is how they made us feel.... and I say this as a very logical man, an airline pilot who things always in rational terms... it's how she made me goddam feel.
@larryrubin51502 жыл бұрын
It's like almost grieving a death
@winsmith51962 жыл бұрын
Seeing this was perfect timing , exactly the way I am feeling . I just saw him drive by, the pain I felt in my heart was unbelievable. Then the tears. He lives right up the road. I’m over 50, not a fear of being alone, I just don’t want to be. Starting over now is hard. We were together 5 yrs. He lied and cheated, it’s been 10 months and I still miss him. Some days, more then others. I know I was defiantly to blame for him finding someone else, and I have owned up to that, but it still really hurts. Thank you guys for this video , I saved it .
@pj86242 жыл бұрын
Awesome information!! Love your videos!!! My ex gf blindsided men on Dec 5/2021. I'm finally at the point that the pain is gone, and I accept the breakup. It was a long painful road, but I'm at the point of, if i don't hear from her anymore it's okay. I accept it. I know that I treated her very well and I walk away knowing I was good overall, not perfect, but gave my best. I know there's some areas where I could have been better, but that's know guarantee that even if I was perfect, that she still may have walked away. I'm still in total radio silence no contact, and she will never hear from me again, even so deep down inside I know still I love her. So I tell myself; NEXT!
@debralavorata546 Жыл бұрын
I miss him beyond words,and to think of him with someone is unbearable!! I find myself losing sleep and toss and turn for hours,💔💯
@BananaPhone5022 жыл бұрын
I reject girls all the time and enjoy being alone. But i still cant shake the sadness and longing for my ex partner/best friend.
@lke49072 жыл бұрын
You're so comforting to us all Coaches Craig and Victoria! 💫
@summervirgo81622 жыл бұрын
I know I have commented a few times but you really changed my life and so grateful for running into your channel in the most confusing time of my life! Hoping one day you come to Chicago 😃
@liaminski34082 жыл бұрын
Thank yall so much for this video. I've been struggling everyday for the past 5 months. I'm taking it day by day, but yall sure are right! I wish I was with/talking with my ex everyday! Yall help me get out of my downed mood and bring me back to a happier place!
@Troy12-fitnessmodel Жыл бұрын
Ive watched a lot of your videos coach craig but this is up there with one of the best. So insightful thankyou again.
@chrismartindrummer Жыл бұрын
I’m not that afraid of being alone, I was dumped, went to therapy, moved on and am with someone new but lately I have been missing my ex badly, even after almost 2yrs.
@ekaterinakravtsova5637 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video, as well as other videos on this channel. Those have been a huge help to me while going through a break up. I find your approach to relationships and break ups very realistic but also giving hope and motivation to move forward with my life. Thank you.
@kimberlybalish95902 жыл бұрын
Great perspective! Thank you again for a wonderful video. I think before anyone enters a relationship they should ask themselves exactly what it is they're looking for in a relationship as well as what exactly they will be bringing to the relationship.🥰
@dawnmitchell86372 жыл бұрын
Thank you both so much!! This came right on time for me. I am current struggling!!
@naadde2 жыл бұрын
I know it's the routine, but it feels also a bit like it can be the ego of being dumped and maybe played for a fool if they lied.
@GoceDelcevMKD2 жыл бұрын
You miss the memories not the person
@ciscohour58842 жыл бұрын
I miss her kid, not the ex.
@trichromatic57172 жыл бұрын
What if you genuinely miss them as a person. Miss their personality
@realmccoy6422 жыл бұрын
Broke up four years this October , short relationship, I did everything wrong , took that though to wake me up to all the mistakes I've always made , a great life changing learning experience for me, back to being myself about two years ago , recently I noticed facebook comments she had made on posts I made suddenly reappeared for a few days , then were gone , guess she got curious for a short time, not expecting for her to reach out , but thought that was funny
@arizmendinelson2 жыл бұрын
Love the videos thanks for all the knowledge you have gave me in this time I would really love a video on how to individuate
@CoachCraigKenneth2 жыл бұрын
Have you started The Creative Healing Course yet?
@arizmendinelson2 жыл бұрын
@@CoachCraigKenneth I’m still working on the knowledge work books
@cadanflix2 жыл бұрын
I sometimes feel crazy when I’m thinking about someone after a couple years and it was a short term relationship.
@anewman19762 жыл бұрын
It all started to end this month last year and I still miss her....
@ammu.live1002 жыл бұрын
I miss my ex so much she use to love me a lot but now she says she don't feels same for me anymore. She moved on but i can't. I'm still waiting for her and i feel bad whenever I think of her with someone else. If she makes a bf after me i will never accept her back because now its on my ego
@christopherbullens54942 жыл бұрын
Coach Victoria. Needs to have her own. Merchandise
@CoachCraigKenneth2 жыл бұрын
Like what?
@christopherbullens54942 жыл бұрын
@@CoachCraigKenneth I red Mug with a heart. Or the letter V. Would be cool
@priscillarodrigues7599 Жыл бұрын
I'm missing him alot I've been crying non stop even though he reached out four times and I'm afraid to initiate contact 😭😔😭
@LKelz2 жыл бұрын
Hey Coach I need help . Me and my crush had a hugee fall out . She lied to me and I got very angry and cussed her out and told everyone what she did to me . Does no contact work on a fall out crush ? ( she knows i have a crush on her )
@themozzies17122 жыл бұрын
Hi coach I just completed 4 weeks of radio silence since the break-up, I was about to start the 5th week when I accidentally viewed my ex’s Instagram story for the first time since no contact :( it was an hour after he posted - just need some reassurance do u think I’ve messed up Coach??
@gow67392 жыл бұрын
My ex reached out and we texted a little. I asked her to meet and she said yes (but it wont be for a few weeks because of long distance and i think she knows that). I didn’t reply to her last text which i probably should have. Two days after we last spoke she posted a instagram story with a sad song about getting back together. I am really sure that the post was about me because the picture was of the sunset that she took when we hung out together. It has been over a week since she said yes and we last spoke. I won’t be able to meet her for about 3-4 weeks. What do I do?
@Count_Jacula3 ай бұрын
I think this is me i miss the idea an what my ex offered me an the future we spoke about more so then her if that makes any sense
@larryrubin51502 жыл бұрын
Great great video
@li50432 жыл бұрын
I stopped answering his calls after he disappeared for the whole weekend then appeared Monday he called 2 times texted once l dint reply ,a week later he was mad saying l ignored him ( this the 3rd time hes doing this, we talked he promised to change) called my sibling telling her to tell me its over ,said its toxic coz am ignoring him, 3 weeks since breakup 4 weeks no contact, l thought he would try harder and apologised but he just left. Although l wanted to leave it still hurts that he dint care.
@Artlife08312 жыл бұрын
Damn this is exactly what I’m going through
@arefashionista2 жыл бұрын
I need to stop watching this videos they just keep me attached to my ex. :(
@frankcardano41422 жыл бұрын
I feel that. They’re very comforting but become a bit irrelevant once you move on.
@frankcardano41422 жыл бұрын
@abba Musa Scammer
@arefashionista2 жыл бұрын
@abba Musa scammer 😒
@ponokunishima12 жыл бұрын
I thought this video was going to end up on your new channel?
@ponokunishima12 жыл бұрын
@abba Musa Congratulations! How long have you been together prior?
@CoachCraigKenneth2 жыл бұрын
Why?
@ponokunishima12 жыл бұрын
@@CoachCraigKenneth just curious, because you have a new channel
@CoachCraigKenneth2 жыл бұрын
New channel will have one new video every week or so. Main channel will remain the same with no changes
@ponokunishima12 жыл бұрын
@@CoachCraigKenneth Cool!
@JoJo-vz5yh2 жыл бұрын
Are you guys engaged yet?
@CoachCraigKenneth2 жыл бұрын
Lol she doesn’t want me. I’m old 🤣
@SallyM-hi1mh2 жыл бұрын
First comment! Yay 😆
@xzz3955 Жыл бұрын
Even after all the bullshit I went through because of her jumping ship, and her cutting off me from everything, even though I didn't chase or stalk her, just letting her do her thing, but still she hates me like I did shit to her🥲 and somehow I still miss her