Most of us learn at a young age "don't judge a book by its cover" but videos like yours mark help remind us as adults how important that is
@janicetillman60443 жыл бұрын
Exactly I've been through so much and have been told by many people I don't look sick or hurt if only they knew but I really don't care if they don't know I know
@lynnen2643 жыл бұрын
Well said
@marylougeorge98903 жыл бұрын
@@janicetillman6044 I understand. I have a sister and daughter who live with illnesses of chronic pain. They repeatedly get told they don't look sick. Heartbreaking because it makes them feel hopeless.💔
@Lexington-Felix3 жыл бұрын
@@marylougeorge9890 PEOPLE CAN BE SO IGNORANT SOME TIMES ! THEY WILL NEVER TRULY KNOW UNTIL THEY THEMSELVES EXPERIENCE CHRONIC PAIN. TRUST ME JUST BECAUSE MY SYMPTOMS MAY BE INVISIBLE To THE EYE MY PAIN I ASSURE YOU ISN'T. IT KILLS ME WHEN MY BROTHERS SAY I'm FAKING IT, BLESS YOUR SISTER AND DAUGHTER FOR WHAT THEY HAVE TO GO THROUGH! AND BLESSING'S TO YOU FOR BEING SUCH A COMPASSIONATE AND AWESOME SISTER AND MOTHER TO YOUR DAUGHTER. TAKE CARE AND BEST WISHES....
@Lexington-Felix3 жыл бұрын
@@janicetillman6044 EXACTLY JANICE, TAKE CARE MY FRIEND! AND ALWAYS KEEP YOUR HEAD UP, EVEN THOUGH I KNOW IT'S NOT EASY WHEN YOU DON'T FEEL WELL BLESSINGS...
@madisonenmiller3 жыл бұрын
“I want to change people’s perception of what a homeless person is.” You have definitely done that with this interview, Bethany. Thank you!
@Cutebutnotpetable3 жыл бұрын
The example of the little girl showing Bethany compassion and kindness is the most important lesson here. A smile can brighten anyone’s day. Your work here is so very important, Mark, thank you.
@beautruex70123 жыл бұрын
Glad someone showed this MAN compassion!
@Mahavegan3 жыл бұрын
Bethany is such an amazing person. She is lovely.
@GG-iy6ij3 жыл бұрын
He
@namenameson90653 жыл бұрын
The mother put the girl at risk.
@lindawagar9763 жыл бұрын
He’s a man.
@andreskg84793 жыл бұрын
Can honestly say I'm blown away. Was expecting an incoherent mess of an interview, kinda like the spice addicts. Bethany, despite all of her trauma and battle with addiction, is more articulate than some of the smartest, soberest, squarest MFs I know. Maybe I shouldn't judge a book by its cover...
@maryannvitelli58183 жыл бұрын
Same thing here. This interview with Bethany (watch many on S.W.U.), really broke me. I'm originally from Manhattan. Grew up there. Know her neighborhood. When I go back (live far away now), I know I'll be looking for Bethany everywhere. She is such a beautiful soul. This is the "only" interview that I've saved from this channel. Prayers that someone out there helps her.
@michelejordan41153 жыл бұрын
This 👆🏼
@DrEaMsNoEviL3 жыл бұрын
Well said. Completely agree
@Peacefully-Happy-863 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly 👌🏻
@feliciablankman57383 жыл бұрын
You never should ever
@shannamerritt89783 жыл бұрын
I was in New York at the beginning of September, in Washington Park, I saw and met Bethany. She was getting a cigarette under the bench that me and my fiancé were sitting on. She was so kind and respectful as she went to grab it. I could tell by that small interaction we had with her that she was a sweet soul. She has a dog with her and that made me happy knowing she had someone to care for 💗. I couldn’t believe it when I saw this video this morning. She left an impression on me even though I only met her for a few seconds. She left a mark on how I saw people.
@amrita44683 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad she has a dog after her mother took her service dog. I will sleep just a little better tonight knowing that. Thank you for your comment. It's clear that Bethany's got a conscience. She's a beautiful soul.
@maryannvitelli58183 жыл бұрын
I love this sweetheart of a woman. She has so much to live for. She's cute. She's intelligent as hell. She's so loaded with common sense. Bethany will always be in my prayers.
@zoehansen_3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this
@Baileysam20223 жыл бұрын
That's so lovely to say!!I
@audrealambert95833 жыл бұрын
I'm right off Madison Ave by Washington park
@joeyturbo70883 жыл бұрын
Remember anyone of us can have our life changed permanently in an instant. Whether it be a car accident, stroke, heart attack anyone of us can end up like Bethany. It makes me appreciate what I have and realize how fragile life truly is.
@hanktwofan3 жыл бұрын
I was just thinking the exact same thing!
@floridafarmingfamily99552 жыл бұрын
Amen!! I honestly could NOT have said it ANY better!! ~GOD BLESS YOU ALL & I hope everyone reading this TRULY DOES HAVE ABSOLUTELY THE MOST AMAZING & VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS 🎅🏼🤶🏼☃️🦌🎄⛄🎁 AS WELL AS AN INCREDIBLY BLESSED NEW YEAR!!!
@bleezy84802 жыл бұрын
Factzzz
@euphratesjehan2 жыл бұрын
But for the grace of God go I.
@fifilamoore1718 Жыл бұрын
Yip, You’re so right , Treat each day like it’s your last - Cos one day ur be right……..🫶🏻fifi
@DinkyPixie3 жыл бұрын
Bethany, we see you, and we love hearing you speak about your thoughts and feeling, I hope we see you again...I am sorry this world has been so unkind to you, but your wisdom and kindness has already been a lesson to many people here already, keep spreading the word with love in your heart. You are beautiful 💗
@LooXLaB3 жыл бұрын
@DinkyPixie AGREED 1000% Be safe Bethany. I hope you find peace and love. Good luck 🍀
@Mahavegan3 жыл бұрын
This is so beautiful as Bethany is.
@CcannibalCcat3 жыл бұрын
I agree! I would love an update video on her!! I loved listening to her speak about her life.
@Peacefully-Happy-862 жыл бұрын
Yes absolutely right 👌🏻
@mildred7142 жыл бұрын
Up
@HerculesRockefellerESQ2 жыл бұрын
Say what you want but the statement (paraphrase) "I headed for the weeds because I had visions of killing a family coming home from soccer" "I'm so grateful I was by myself" and "it was my fault" in regards to the car accident - speaks volume about this person's character.
@jordanfisher22853 жыл бұрын
It’s crazy how wound the body seems compared to how calm the voice is.
@mattjack39833 жыл бұрын
Yeah thats the "kicks" from heroin withdrawal. It sucks. Its miserable. And as can be seen, it isn't always just the legs that kick..the whole body kicks. Im thankful everyday for my sobriety, and not having to go thru that shit anymore. Hopefully this person can get some help and clean up, and start actually LIVING LIFE instead of just surviving it.
@amber_Forever163 жыл бұрын
They are probably speed balling, doing speed to wake up from heroin and doing heroin to calm down from the speed, your body doesn’t know whether it wants to sleep or build a stereo
@brittaolson65503 жыл бұрын
@@amber_Forever16 Where I come from, that’s a goofball, and a speedball is coke & H. Slang charges wherever you go!
@omgitstrishaaa63813 жыл бұрын
@@mattjack3983 congratulations on being sober!! Especially from herion that shits no freaking joke so u should be extremely proud of yourself!!! If nobody's told you today you matter you're worthy of all the good things life can offer thank you for choosing life!!!
@modaciouslav47923 жыл бұрын
@@mattjack3983 that’s not kicking’ he’s to calm no sweating, none of the gagging coughs plus way too articulate.
@Bootsyfruit3 жыл бұрын
Bethany is by far one of my favorite interviews you've done Mark. Bethany has a very keen intelligence about humanity. She was memorizing to listen to. I hope that one day she may heal from the traumas she has endured.
@rachelkachun60633 жыл бұрын
I want to see her get sober and start a new life. She’s so intelligent and articulate. She has principles. Please salvage your life, you’re such a good person and deserve so much more and you have so much potential!
@mamaboocee3 жыл бұрын
Yes, my first thought was how articulate she is. I can only hope that life will be more kind to her. It could be anyone of us sitting there in front of the camera.
@wid56252 жыл бұрын
That’s a man. Why u calling him a she?
@mamacitaslove2 жыл бұрын
@@wid5625 the people in these videos sometimes watch their videos and read the comments. They don’t need to see such ignorant comments as the ones you leave on this channel. If you’re going to be a troll and comment for the sake of being hateful why don’t you go to another channel. You clearly don’t understand what mark and swu are trying to do.
@izzycrybaby11642 жыл бұрын
@@wid5625 Because we can. Just as you can pick and choose your words, so can everybody else you're not better than🤷🏿♂️
@wid56252 жыл бұрын
@@mamacitaslove Just stating facts. And the fact is, that is a man. No matter what he does or says, He will always be a man. 🤷🏻♂️
@hannahfuqua30422 жыл бұрын
I need an update on Bethany. She’s so kind and intelligent. She made a mistake and is still paying for that mistake 20 years later because of pills prescribed to her by a doctor. She is an example of the plight of the people of the opioid epidemic. Please find her again.
@jackhoff77122 жыл бұрын
He’s a dude
@dustylikewtf2 жыл бұрын
@@jackhoff7712 nope, try again
@jackhoff77122 жыл бұрын
@@dustylikewtf okay, it’s a guy
@dustylikewtf2 жыл бұрын
@@jackhoff7712 be transphobic somewhere else, loser
@trinitybutler81782 жыл бұрын
@@jackhoff7712 look man you might not agree with it, but she’s not shoving shit down your throat forcing you to live her way of life, just let them be happy. If you can’t have that decency towards a human being that shows a lot about how you feel towards yourself on the inside.
@SunShine-sv8vx3 жыл бұрын
Man, she would have been the best, most loving and caring Vet.
@naelyneurkopfen97413 жыл бұрын
He.
@SunShine-sv8vx3 жыл бұрын
@@naelyneurkopfen9741 I stand corrected. He.
@jonbackup51843 жыл бұрын
@@SunShine-sv8vx so do we use her former pronouns because this was before she transitioned?? I think it’s she/her because that’s what she uses.
@yesterdayseyes3 жыл бұрын
He, he is a man
@TattooedHippievegan3 жыл бұрын
I think it's pretty obvious that Britney goes by she / her pronoun. Why do people make it such a big deal of course she was born in a male's body but she prefers to be viewed as a female
@andreafera78033 жыл бұрын
Mark, this has been the best interview so far. Bethany is beautiful inside and out. No one should have to deal with violence and it saddens me to hear her daily struggle with what society calls human beings. She deserves so much more. Addiction is not easy and everyone deals with something. Her spirit lifted me and I thank her for that.
@yesterdayseyes3 жыл бұрын
He is a man
@Mahavegan3 жыл бұрын
Yes, she is beautiful
@gurumayne86843 жыл бұрын
Your fullllll of shi+ seriously
@kristab3213 жыл бұрын
I agree with you Andrea
@TheScribblySunflower3 жыл бұрын
@@yesterdayseyes such a dumb azz statement!
@--Animal--3 жыл бұрын
Bethany looks like she's in a daze but everything she's saying is coherent and hits like bullseyes on a dart board. I'm so glad this interview was done and that we could hear just a part of her life. I hope soon one day she can get cleaned up and live a happy life. EDIT: To the people leaving nasty comments and replies, did you learn nothing from watching the video? does it please you to punish someone who's already at their lowest for reasons they don't deserve? I don't pity Bethany, she's seen more of what life has to offer than most of you ever will sitting on your make-shift thrones passing judgment on those who are different. I do however pity you all who learned nothing from her words, a kind word or a smile is all she ever asked for, not your poison. Shame on you all.
@DetroitFettyghost3 жыл бұрын
Love your thoughtful and intelligent metaphor and writing style. Much love and respect!
@5thdimension6253 жыл бұрын
I think that daze like expression is from her head injury from her MVA. Same goes for some of her posturing, but that could be from the fentanyl and Xylazine she’s uses
@wizardofahhhs7593 жыл бұрын
That's a dude.
@foamia3 жыл бұрын
@@wizardofahhhs759 no one asked your opinion.
@wizardofahhhs7593 жыл бұрын
@@foamia Yet you responded. And it's not an opinion it's FACT that's a man.
@TheJadiePooh2 жыл бұрын
You can just sense the good in Bethany. Yes, she’s a drug addict and homeless but as a society we forgot the human side to that. She is so well spoken and thoughtful and just had a bad run in life. I hope for the best and please do an update on her when you can.
@brittaolson65502 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@dewilew21372 жыл бұрын
Nah. He’s a perverted male pretending to be a woman. Nothing good about that.
@reneebear36412 жыл бұрын
@@dewilew2137 What’s perverted about wanting to live in a way & dressing in a way that makes you happy?
@melodymiller32822 жыл бұрын
Yes, please do an update 🙏 for us all, stay safe, I wish I could help you some 🤔 how.
@JessicaSmith-yg9cn Жыл бұрын
@@melodymiller3282 I wish I could do something to help her too. It’s weird how some of these stories just hit me right in the feels and I want to find the person and save them. Not all but some. Bethany falls into that category.
@laurenruiz52933 жыл бұрын
would love a future update on bethany. . something about her had me drawn to this interview and that's very far and few between with some of these!hoping for better days bethany🙏🏻
@katiesingletary393 жыл бұрын
Same here! A good heart is very easy to recognize.
@kuroneko70222 жыл бұрын
Yes, anyone who loves animals and wants to care for them can’t be all bad. She’s caring and compassionate even after all she’s been through.😢
@sweatygoats963 жыл бұрын
One of the most genuine people that Mark has interviewed in my opinion. I wish people were not so cruel, she does not deserve it. I hope to see updates on her in the future. Keep being positive Bethany!
@lilaworley89353 жыл бұрын
This is one of the most beautiful interviews I've watched. And I've basically watched them all. Bethany.... I want to hug you. I am so sorry this has happened. I wish I could come scoop you up and bring you home and nurture you. You're truly an insightful and beautiful person.
@Mahavegan3 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@rubyrae77153 жыл бұрын
I was thinking literally the exact same thing throughout this entire interview. 🙌🏽🧡💕
@Dollypops433 жыл бұрын
Such a shame I feel the same too everyone has feelings
@linziRyan19652 жыл бұрын
Same. Love Bethany 🥰
@karan320062 жыл бұрын
This interview touched me to my core. I feel so ashamed of how as a collective we don’t recognize the humanity in people who suffer. We decide that they must have chosen this life or that they don’t want to be seen. When in reality someone like Bethany sees us for what we are. Cruel and indifferent 🥺
@mmarshall82592 жыл бұрын
Very well executed comment. I am watching this and have also been touched to the core as you were.
@joannekerr33 жыл бұрын
Bethany the story you told about Ella giving you the book is so sweet! How wonderful that you can still see the beauty of humanity even if it isn't often. You deserve to be healthy and happy Bethany, you are so much more than your past, your trauma or your mistakes. You deserve to fight for yourself. Sending you my love and encouragement 💞
@vaneepham58472 жыл бұрын
Beautifully said Joanne ❤️
@AlejandroMS672 жыл бұрын
When you first see the dazed wandering eyes, the sores, the tortured physical discomfort manifesting itself in the awkward body movements, you think "omg, how is this person going to even get part way through this interview...". But then hearing how functional Bethany's cognitive abilities still are, and how observant and reasonably eloquent she still is (given the abuse, drugs, hard life etc), that was a real eye opener to see those contrasts, and how the rough exterior camouflages a kind and sentient interior.
@ceegee16452 жыл бұрын
Alejandro, I was thinking the same. But you said it better than I could have.
@UmjetnostŽivljenja3 жыл бұрын
Another victim of big pharma. Dopesick, years later. Perfect timing, Mark. Heartfelt thanks from Croatia. You take care of yourself, Bethany. God bless.
@ironzude77623 жыл бұрын
Literally just thinking the exact same thing. I normally find a comment not too far down that saves me having to word it. You did it spot on 👌 So many victims with the same story of getting by with that little "help" from their "trusted" Doctor.🙄
@karencahill47983 жыл бұрын
I believe the production of OxyContin was intentionally designed to ruin lives. Another nefarious plan to thin the herd.
@AliciaM55552 жыл бұрын
@Karen Cahill YES!!!!!!
@usernameyouchoose8613 Жыл бұрын
So sad
@amymitchell79963 жыл бұрын
I wish a GoFundMe was setup for her. It’s about to get really cold in NY, I would love to donate or help her in some way. Can’t imagine anyone living on the streets during those brutal winters :(
@RukYouLikeAHurricane3 жыл бұрын
This interview really touched my heart. I had a work accident back in 2001 and needed 2 back surgeries and my drs prescribed opiates like tic tacs as well and I loved them. A few years later I too was told “this was my last prescription “ and I was in shock! The one difference is I got pregnant and wasn’t about to start looking for heroin. I wish I could give you a big hug Bethany. You’re in my thoughts!
@mattjack39833 жыл бұрын
Yeah i know all about that as well. In 1998 I was shot 4 times. Underwent a couple surgeries, and spent about 6 weeks in the hospital. And for YEARS after that I was prescribed literally as much of whatever I wanted as I wanted. I, too, loved my opiates. And when the doctor told me one day that he was filling out my last script, I was literally DEVASTATED. And unfortunately, I became a heroin addict not long after that script was gone. Ive been clean now for almost 7 years. But it always amazes me how many people I meet whose stories seem to be exactly like mine. Just regular people who had some kind of accident or injury or something in the late 90s/early 2000s, back when doctors would prescribe u 30 percoset for a skinned knee. Its absolutely unreal how many "addicts" were made during that time. And alot of us didn't even realize how addicted we truly were until the scripts were stopped!
@mamat12133 жыл бұрын
Also just barely escaped serious addiction but mine was Percocet prescribed after my c-section... Didn't realize it but I was given a huge bottle and later started to get one here and there, for a headache, for cramps etc. One day I caught myself getting home after an annoying day and as soon as I got in the door went for the medicine cabinet. I stopped myself in shock, like WTF GIRL YOU NOT EVEN IN PAIN! I honestly dont know how often I did that, it was on auto pilot and I realized I liked how they felt. I got scared and flushed the rest (ik) don't remember if I had any withdrawal stuff but I had almost finished the bottle by then, with a baby girl💔
@absinthemindedJ3 жыл бұрын
@@mamat1213 bless your heart!!!!
@helenw.95123 жыл бұрын
Some of the kindest people I’ve met are homeless. They look forward to a kind word & a smile. I’ve given to the homeless & I’ve fed the homeless. I looked forward to seeing them every Sunday, as much they did, seeing those of us that help feed them. Bethany has a beautiful heart, I have compassion for the homeless, you can never convince me that they deliberately chose this lifestyle. I don’t believe they set out to become an addict or homeless, sadly we live in a world where no one cares about the homeless or the situations they’re in. What’s really sad is, yes, people can walk pass a homeless person, totally ignore them as if they’re not even human, not knowing their stories, but are always so quick to judge. Thank You Mark for the compassion you show each person that gives you an interview, I’ve learned a lot watching & listening to their stories.
@scatteredvideos13 жыл бұрын
Its amazing to me to see the intelligence coming from from her. My own bias leads to me not expecting much, but she has completely proved me wrong. Addiction is a terrible thing, I'm sorry you are a victim of this epidemic.
@charlotte_stevens3 жыл бұрын
I agree, she's very articulate ❤️
@troyrussell1773 жыл бұрын
Man.. I'm an ex heroin addict myself. Started with roxacets. I'm not speaking for/about Bethany, but I dont feel like a victim🙏 I made a choice to try that first roxacet. Didn't know where, or what it would lead me to, but I can't sit here and say or feel like a victim. I think that mentality in regards to addiction is counterproductive. It places blame on the substance, on this society, and not on the person. I buried 9 close friends, 25+ acquaintances. They're the reason I'm not a victim. I'm one of the blessed few to make it out🙏 Theyre the victims IMO. So do you need to die to be a victim to this? No, but I think it can be a problem to just treat this like each addict had no part in their own downfall. It's a disease, but its a disease you have to make some type of choice to sign up for. You dont just wake up a heroin addict like people do with most other diseases🙏 Just my two cent. I dont mean to offend anybody. If you wanna feel like a victim to this, by all means, but I dont think there's anything positive in that, other than placing blame onto something other than yourself. It's the same type of thing where addicts do xyz and then blame xyz solely on the drugs. Like no.. The drugs are the motivation, the encouragement, they're not the culprit. You are🙏 There's too much deflection in this. YOU wanna get clean and stay clean it takes taking responsibility for YOUR actions. 6 years clean and I'm never going back. I owe it to everybody I lost🙏 R.I.P Hailey, Matt,Joe,Eddie,Karen, Amanda, Steve, Tom, Alberto, and the many others ravaged by this🙏 all those broken families🙏 I have some type of survivors guilt for even making it out. Truly wish it was Hailey instead. She was Fucking 18.
@tubester45673 жыл бұрын
@@troyrussell177 If you're addicted to opiates these days they can get on methadone and get shitfaced every day. I dont understand why they continue to chase crappy street drugs when you can get a legal option. Theres really no excuse to live like this these days.
@Jeaniesunshine-fb5rk3 жыл бұрын
Fight , you are worth it. Please.
@troyrussell1773 жыл бұрын
@@tubester4567 idk about all that, but methadone is kinda fucked. When suboxone, and subutex became a thing, methadone should have be thrown to the curb. Too much $ in it though
@maryannvitelli58183 жыл бұрын
Mark, this beautiful interview with Bethany, is the ONLY one that I will save and share. The love is amazing. Bethany is so kind and so full of love.
@charlotte_stevens3 жыл бұрын
I hope you do a follow up on Bethany, she's such a sweet soul 🥰
@beautruex70123 жыл бұрын
HE IS?!? Will you now go help him? Or just VIRTUE signal?
@monikac16573 жыл бұрын
@@beautruex7012 *she
@clvrswine3 жыл бұрын
@@monikac1657 *He
@krunchismaximus3 жыл бұрын
@@clvrswine *she
@brittaolson65503 жыл бұрын
I agree. I really like her. It’s amazing how real she is after being on the street a long time. A lot of people put on more of a facade to avoid being vulnerable. I know I did, for awhile, until I realized it doesn’t work. Everybody has vulnerability.
@stephaniepeacock44013 жыл бұрын
This is one of the most beautiful things I’ve heard in a while. Thank you for your bravery and heart, Bethany
@VickieVale3673 жыл бұрын
Bethany, I’m so sorry I judged before hearing you. You are beautiful and brave. You do not deserve to be treated as if you’re not important. That story you told of the little girl and the book makes me want to be a better person and mother. Thank you and I’m sending you healing energy. I speak into existence: you will be healthy and off the streets.
@amrita44683 жыл бұрын
I love your comment. I feel the same.
@VickieVale3673 жыл бұрын
@@amrita4468 💜 💜 💜
@gurumayne86843 жыл бұрын
U were correct 1st time...this person is high asf talkin out his ass
@junglegirl51743 жыл бұрын
😭😭💞💞💞
@namenameson90653 жыл бұрын
Would you put your daughter at risk by letting her be around this person?
@jilleenlivingston99392 жыл бұрын
I am a student at NYU and have not seen Bethany. I will now make it a goal to seek her out. So wise, so genuine, so caring. She is truly amazing and I hope to find her. Have been watching your videos for almost two years now. Thank you for making me a better person.
@abeomaria3 жыл бұрын
This was one of my favorite's by far. An honest, kind, sweet, beautiful woman. I wish you continued kindness and love, Bethany
@madisonramirez17182 жыл бұрын
I’m completely shocked with how coherent Bethany is despite the condition of her body. I was expecting her to be completely out of it but she she seems very intelligent. It’s still very sad to watch.
@MelanieWeed773 жыл бұрын
When she said she wished she had died in the accident hurt my soul. All my love and prayers go to you. You are precious and valuable. Your life is so very important and I pray that angels protect you and guide you. You are so much more than your Addiction. I finally got sober after 20 plus years of addiction. And I feel your pain so deep. Bless you dear Bethany! 💜😌😌😪💜
@carynmartin60533 жыл бұрын
She sounds like she got a frontal lobe head injury bc those are the symptoms 😭 🙄
@beautruex70123 жыл бұрын
When HE said! SMFH
@samienos18913 жыл бұрын
Her, she! Bethany nouns are she and her! Get it straight or shut up!
@MelanieWeed773 жыл бұрын
@@samienos1891 who are you talking to?🤔
@monikac16573 жыл бұрын
@@beautruex7012 *she
@mizlynn51673 жыл бұрын
I hope Ellerby's Mother is watching this to know what a beautiful, kind , caring daughter she is raising. We need more Ellerby's in this world. Bethany is a wonderful soul and I wish her nothing but the best in her life.
@buddhaganesh63183 жыл бұрын
The most articulate statement I've heard on this world in a long time.
@kuroneko70222 жыл бұрын
This poor thing! Even after the car accident she was so relieved she didn’t hurt anyone else!😢 Just a life that took a wrong turn due to unfortunate circumstances.
@stayhydrated83212 жыл бұрын
Drunk driving not a wrong turn... But I agree she did not want to hurt anyone
@samanthacostido78233 жыл бұрын
You’re a genuinely good person, Bethany. I wish life dealt you differently.... I will keep you in my thoughts and please try to always keep hope.
@daniellesaunders23692 жыл бұрын
I have watched a lot of these interviews and it was this one that made me cry. Bethany is a kind, beautiful soul who deserves so much more.
@keatongable81423 жыл бұрын
Originally clicked on this video Bc how she looked but once I listened to her it showed me how beautiful she is as a human. I hope one day things get better for her.
@annecosta91962 жыл бұрын
This person is so incredibly amazing. I wish she could get off drugs because the world needs her perspective, intelligence, sensitivity.
@Kiyonce.Kartier3 жыл бұрын
Damn Bethany. Prayers up for a better tomorrow
@jasminej93483 жыл бұрын
She’s so smart . You can tell by the way she intellectually speaks ! NEEDING AN UPDATE ON HER, most definitely, Mark ! 👌🏾👌🏾💚
@beesadefridamayastudio82673 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤ An articulate voice - a flower growing from concrete 🙏🏾🙌🏿❤🌻
@feliciablankman57383 жыл бұрын
Beautiful choice of words
@ericavalencia14432 жыл бұрын
I’m a psychology student and I feel like I gained so much insight and perspective from hearing your words of wisdom Bethany. I feel so lucky to have come across this video! Your humanity and intellect radiate from you. Thank you lovely Bethany!
@karinascalzo80743 жыл бұрын
What a sweet intelligent soul Bethany.. something about her draws me in.. she’s been through so much yet she’s still so strong. Would love an update on her one day!
@Don210713 жыл бұрын
Mark, I have worked in hunger relief for the last 13 years. While I always treat all of our guests with respect and dignity, your videos provide a completely different perspective for me, and show that everyone has a story. Your videos, and your guest's stories have helped make me a better person and allow me to be better at my job. If you ever want to come to Portland (Maine) and interview here, I could certainly introduce you to some colorful characters! Keep up the good work sir!
@war66mattam933 жыл бұрын
She is very articulate and smart,..if you turn the sound off you wouldn’t believe it.
@beautruex70123 жыл бұрын
You mean HE is!!!
@ATF_CA3 жыл бұрын
@@beautruex7012 - Who are you to to tell them who they can be?
@war66mattam933 жыл бұрын
@@beautruex7012 just like you i am kinda iffy on the pronoun thing but is it too much to ask To give her that respect?
@sopeezy83193 жыл бұрын
@@ATF_CA trust me. You can’t be a turtle no matter what you do 🤷🏾♂️
@aprilgeewhiz38142 жыл бұрын
@@beautruex7012 are you threatened by her? You must be otherwise you wouldn’t care.
@mariaa12442 жыл бұрын
We need more of Bethany!! She’s so well spoken with such a soothing voice, i’d love to hear from her again.🤎
@charlotte_stevens3 жыл бұрын
OMG this was tough to watch 😩 Bethany seems like she's in so much pain, both physically and emotionally. Wish I could give her a big hug 💖🤗💖
@BiggestDookie3 жыл бұрын
It's a he not a she
@charlotte_stevens3 жыл бұрын
@@BiggestDookie ugh, please don't start with that crap. Fair enough, that's your opinion, but why not respect her? It doesn't hurt you. Do you not think she has suffered enough?!
@nickryan46193 жыл бұрын
@@BiggestDookie while i am not one who agrees with this fad of "you are what you identify as" bullshit, I will say I do agree with a man being a woman and vice versa. She looks as if she had gone through some stuff to transform but that isn't for us to say or judge. Now the whole "I'm a they" thing, no that's is fucking stupid and needs to stop now.
@charlotte_stevens3 жыл бұрын
@@omaha1361 👍👍👍
@maiingan073 жыл бұрын
I think she’d really like that. 💐
@MissNevada082 жыл бұрын
She is INTELLIGENT & so well spoken. She expresses the human condition perfectly honest, & perfectly broken. She is an addict but she is an ancient soul.
@vanessafotheringham91203 жыл бұрын
As much as I can see the kind, sensitive spirit in her, I can understand why people might struggle to interact with her. Especially if they have kids with them ... it's very confronting and people who are clearly high can be very unpredictable. People are not necessarily discounting her, it is probably fear that prevents them from being open.
@Gram725343 жыл бұрын
it's a unwarranted fear, the bad people usually come in sheeps clothing. I do understand what your saying, but again it seems to me that the ones we trust can be the worst among us i.e. politicions leaders people in power the rich and certain churchs. I think that's why this channel is so helpful. just my opion, have a good day. I think certain levels of intoxication are good to avoid as well, ecpecially when someone is drunk but heroin makes a person slow and weak, so not quite as dangerous.
@CatalinaFOIA3 жыл бұрын
I agree, the jarring scattered unpredictable body movements alone would keep me away, I'd never subject my child to this. Nope. I protect her at all cost. Will she eventually see other segments of society whom are less fortunate? Yes. It's called education. Education is age based, no way would bringing a child around homeless people out in the elements be appropriate. Just listen to all of his stories, "A person just runs up and busts a glass bottle over my head, out of nowhere. I can't even get cops to stop and help me."
@Gram725343 жыл бұрын
@@CatalinaFOIA you Are absolutely correct, I have a daughter and I am super over protective with her as well. Although those things your bringing up are valid and on point, we are talking about letting a child interact with a person. It sounded like a nice morning I assume there were other out (NYC) and I'm sure the parent or parents were very close and observant of there surroundings. So I agree with both sides I guess. I was born in NY and there's many places you should never go with kids, but it's also impossible to not come across dangerous things. Idk, either way it should probably change?
@cherrytie10603 жыл бұрын
Yeah, It was likely a slow and gradual change for her. Where as if she could see a side by side of 22 years ago vs today. Your point might click for her if she could see that! She is nearly terrifying to a child or a sheltered/privileged person.
@traciway57293 жыл бұрын
We fear what we do not understand.
@marcellita822 жыл бұрын
Bethany seems so genuine and down to earth. She's articulate and self-aware. Her story is a great reminder that bad things happen to good people and your entire life trajectory can be changed. I love what she said about the family she has now verses the family she grew up. These people "choose to love me", what a beautiful sentiment.
@blueeyes68523 жыл бұрын
Complete abstinence is easier than perfect moderation. ~ Augustus What you do for these human beings that is so humanizing and beautiful. What you do most of us wouldn't do. What you do is so brave. What you do is so important on so many levels... What you do Mark, is listen. That is just so simple, yet humanity doesn't or won't take the time, energy, effort or grace to show any dignity for these people. Since the beginning of time, outcasts should have been helped. I humbly thank you and I hope and pray, that someday I can be of help to someone, as much as you. Thanks Mark, you're remarkable.
@annieseaside3 жыл бұрын
He is the American Mother Theresa, with some Dorothea Lang, Carl Mydans, Jacob Riis, and others who did what they could to shine light on the darkness humans avoid or refuse to look at if possible. He is an Angel with endless curiosity, forgiveness and eternal hope. Like all similar Souls, he is thought crazy by people who do not hear and see what he does. He does not share any vices, but his focus is nearly an addiction. He was born for this. He and his camera have made the world a better place, person by person, issue by issue, day by day, for years. It is incomprehensible that he has not burned out. He clearly has inner wells of strength few can comprehend. The ripples of his choices go far and wide helping. No problem gets solved without an OODA loop. Orient, Observe, Decide, Act. You see a thing. You try to assess it or identify it. You then decide if you can take action and if so what. Then you act. No problem on earth has ever, or will ever gets solved until it is acknowledged to be a problem. Mark shows us the problem. The rest is on us.
@alexhatfield44483 жыл бұрын
I don't want to hear that but I'm in no position to argue with Imperator.
@blueeyes68523 жыл бұрын
@@annieseaside Wow! You have quite the mind and ability to communicate your thoughts beautifully! Annie, do you write professionally? If not, may I inquire what industry you're in? I've never read anything close to what you've written... you need to re-comment, so Mark can feel what you've written dear Annie! May God bless and watch over your lovliness! 🙏🤍
@feliciablankman57383 жыл бұрын
Totally agree
@susieharmon22293 жыл бұрын
Amazing to hear Bethany speak about being spiritually recharged (31:20) by people who take the time to recognize a shared humanity. Also saying the money is necessary but just as necessary is the mutuality of being expressed by some of the passersby that makes life worthwhile. ...Wow. How generous is that!?
@taral37463 жыл бұрын
I love your videos Mark for so many reasons. Your videos show such a entire different side of life... real life for some people. Walking past her on the street we would already have judgement of her without knowing her life story. These videos continue to teach and inspire us to be better, compassionate loving people towards one another because you never know what someone has been through or going through!
@kellenledford57723 жыл бұрын
Bethany, your story of Ellaby (hopefully I spelled that right) has me absolutely in tears. This is so relatable on many levels, the human condition is so devastating at this time. People have forgotten the meaningfulness of a moment of their time, or the power of grace that just a smile holds. You conveyed this so absolutely beautifully, I’d love to be your friend.
@CapitalCCapitalC3 жыл бұрын
Bethany seems to be just a very kind person.
@brekinruels96923 жыл бұрын
15 year old afab trans person and csa “survivor??” here, I’ve watched so many of these videos and this one hits close to home in a different way then some of the rest. I can see her light and knowing that others can see it too is amazing. Please do an update video when that time comes. I wish I could financially assist her some super cool wealthy adult should do it because I can’t
@Crystl222 жыл бұрын
I've watched a lot of these interviews & I don't comment but I have to say this person has such a wonderful heart, it saddens me that people around her are missing the chance to get to know her. Really a smart & kind hearted person. I wish her all the best.
@sabrinao12093 жыл бұрын
I’ve watched all your interviews and this by far is one of my favorites. What a genuine sweet beautiful person you are Bethany. I see you.
@deidremarin99213 жыл бұрын
The drug companies should be so ashamed about the what they’ve done to so many people. She is a really beautiful person and I hope and pray she can find her way back from it. Thank you for sharing her stories. Send it to the drug companies!
@mikeheaton84243 жыл бұрын
Blame the addict , addiction is a choice .
@amrita44683 жыл бұрын
Love this comment! Thank you.
@deidremarin99213 жыл бұрын
@@mikeheaton8424 I use to think that and that’s what the drug companies would Iike you to think too. If you any research at all you will find the drug companies are just like the big tobacco companies. They knew giving just a certain amount of these drugs could easily create an addiction in most people. She was in a car accident and was giving pain medication to heal and unfortunately she became addicted. This happen to a person I know who got gout in their big toe. Suddenly they need it all the time. Addiction is not a choice.
@buzzXgirlfriend2 жыл бұрын
@@mikeheaton8424 judgmental ignorance is a choice. Opioid addiction / dependence is a very complex situation and it is easy to throw blank statements blindly without understanding…. People like you are the problem and create a bigger divide between the have & have nots. Educate yourself on the topic before commenting.
@jgirl3453 жыл бұрын
Bethany hit the nail on the head sadly when she said they think nobody cares about her... my son was in jail for a while and I always made sure to call up and inquire about certain things with his counselor to let them know he has supportive family out here that cares and is on top of how he's being treated, thankfully he is home and bettering his life and expecting a son in January... God bless this woman, God please watch over her 🙏 and thank u Mark for another amazing eye opening video!
@moonbubbles30462 жыл бұрын
She really has so much to offer the world with her compassion and insight.
@stacycrombieАй бұрын
What a sensitive, beautiful soul Bethany is. I wish the best for you. You deserve kindness and good things.
@bagelman103 жыл бұрын
Loved the story when she went off on that woman and got some cash out of it! Bethany speaks like a leader and has so much confidence despite the conditions she found herself in. So right about the game of "life" being dealt poorly to folks
@basxq40462 жыл бұрын
it honestly breaks my heart seeing the state her body is in and the place where she's at in her life. she seems lik the most genuine person ever. she is beyond beautiful and i would love to be her friend.
@nabelb12083 жыл бұрын
For a person who has been through so much anguish and suffered brain damage, Bethany is incredibly articulate, observant and inflective. Bethany still has a voice and a place in this world.
@carissapaglino45912 жыл бұрын
Whenever I’m having a bad time I come here and these interviews remind me that I have no business complaining. God bless you Bethany.
@elisabeterosa24143 жыл бұрын
Wow Bethany you really are a kind soul. I'm still crying from watching this interview. I wish you get all the help you need.
@Myspirit9042 жыл бұрын
I am so grateful to have found this channel….I have a whole new understanding and compassion for these souls who have had and are having lives I can’t imagine. The trauma they have suffered and yet, they are articulate, intelligent and insightful. I’m amazed.
@shawnalynn51983 жыл бұрын
Bethany is a truly beautiful soul ❤️ I wish her the best and hope she can get off the streets. I think she would be amazing at working with addicts as a counselor!
@tabathawagner98872 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful person. To be dealt a bad hand in life and still see the beauty in it, that's something special. Was not expecting to be this engrossed into this episode. Hope you are doing well Bethany!
@DetroitFettyghost3 жыл бұрын
Good Morning Everyone! 👇🏽🌟 Very full of pain. Very full of unresolved issues. I can relate. Beth- I am so sorry for the things you've suffered, the pains you've endured, and the confusion and alienation it's caused. It's never to late to start working on core issues, Im in counseling doing so, I don't want to carry this weight any longer. We can't do this alone, I think we both should be able to look where we're at currently and agree on that. I give you my respect and admiration- please love yourself, thank you for the difficult task of sharing your vulnerable thoughts feelings and memories. Take care!!!
@tatianarizktaylor18183 жыл бұрын
Good morning to you. 🌞 And it’s good night for me🌙 Hope you have a lovely & productive day🇦🇺
@ruthadelbai73883 жыл бұрын
Good morning dear 🥰
@Gram725343 жыл бұрын
good morning from the D(enver). have a good one homie!
@faketreeblue2 жыл бұрын
Shes an incredible storytelling, her flow is very captivating
@Pink_celeb4202 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing! Her pace and wording is so clear
@irishscience5802 жыл бұрын
@@Pink_celeb420 that's a man not woman
@anonymous-cp9uc2 жыл бұрын
@@irishscience580 pathetic how people like you continuously go out your way to disrespect someone
@docmcfly39332 жыл бұрын
@@irishscience580 WHY IN THE HOLY MOTHER OF FUCK ARE YOU HERE?
@nosouponhead Жыл бұрын
*He
@leah15903 жыл бұрын
Thought what she said about time being a human concept and human kindness was spot on.
@spacewombat61743 жыл бұрын
Agree
@DetroitFettyghost3 жыл бұрын
Most Definetly Leah, it is true- time is only perception gauged by passing rocks in the sky....... counting down are deaths from the second it's noticed we e been concerned.
@prayunceasingly20293 жыл бұрын
People get older the longer they're here. What causes that? I guess not time since that's just a concept
@DetroitFettyghost3 жыл бұрын
@@prayunceasingly2029 The break down of the telemeres on our DNA cause the aging process to take place.
@prayunceasingly20293 жыл бұрын
@@DetroitFettyghost It takes time for that to occur though.
@jackieibarra7212 жыл бұрын
The story about the little girl..... Bethany, YOU are such a beautiful soul just like you described here. I needed to hear this message today. Thank you
@buchi777_3 жыл бұрын
Shes so smart and kind. I didn't realized bi was about to cry hearing her story. Don't know why some people purposely hate someone without any reason at all. Love an update on her. To Bethany girl i want you to know that you are loved and god has a purpose for you to be alive after that accident. Love that closing statement from you. God bless you and hope someday we'll see you in a much better position.
@rebeccarocklynnx2 жыл бұрын
"i started systematically destroying my life." I felt that.
@evelynoliver52483 жыл бұрын
Bethany has a beautiful mind! I wish you the absolute best and may you be blessed in your endeavours
@therosarylady3 жыл бұрын
Oh the humanity...I remember ppl looking right through me when I was homeless. As if I wasn't even there. If I were in New York again, I'd go find you and hug you. I'm SORRY ❤️ Please don't give up, keep the faith and have hope Bethany ❤️
@thebarefootfarm59193 жыл бұрын
Bless that woman with the little girl for teaching that baby how to truly love thy neighbor.
@Jakal-pw8yq2 жыл бұрын
I got to say what an amazing person she is! When she was talking about the three different types of people in New York City, and spoke of the indifference that really got me. These videos really have helped me to rediscover what empathy really is.
@genuinehearts82473 жыл бұрын
What a moving interview. I learn something of value from every person I meet or story I hear healthily and this channel is stunning. Kindness matters.🥰
@linziRyan19652 жыл бұрын
I love this channel…. I can’t stop watching it and Bethany is a beautiful soulful, sweet lady! I wanna hug her!! When she said what she has written on her sign and the sweet baby girl bringing her that book I burst into tears…
@jordanlumpkin8803 жыл бұрын
Beautifully spoken, Bethany. Don’t give up- you’ll find your way again. ❤️
@rachelleensor31473 жыл бұрын
You have SO MUCH to offer to others! We need u to finish what u were put here on earth to do! I pray u stay healthy & safe. It was a pleasure listening & hearing ur words & getting to know u in jus a matter of 20 mins. MY LIFE going forward was just made better because of u. I hope u believe what I'm saying! Thank you 💖 Mark-THANK YOU
@RadRedhead2222 жыл бұрын
Bethany is a beautiful human being. Thank you so much, Mark, for sharing her story! I would love an update!
@angeliquekimble47823 жыл бұрын
Well damn, u survived that bad ass car crash you must have a purpose on this earth. You will fulfill it, even though you aren’t in the best place right now you are strong && will achieve true happiness dude..
@shelbapp3 жыл бұрын
Brought to genuine tears. I think one of the most moving videos I’ve watched her on SWU. Her explanation of humanity and those without homes just yearning for the human interaction and compassion and being noticed for being human. Just being acknowledged, not being ignore or seen as invisible. My heart hurts, she is so beautiful. She deserves more. I hope she can find help and healing from her addiction because her potential is shown and she can do even more and more. I have a trans relative and seeing your interviews with different trans individuals is not only heart wrenching and makes me wish for the world to be and do better. Being transgender is the most misunderstood concept in America, and I am currently in a gender and power class at college. Only 80% of people personally know a transgender individual, so most information and education is through media which is not enough. There needs to be outlets for them to be heard and seen not only their lives and daily experiences but traumas as well.
@jamesmowry82663 жыл бұрын
Bethany, I think people tend to ignore you and others living on the street is because they fear confrontation. I don’t think anyone is trying to be rude. We are just unsure and possibly ignorant to the mental state of those living on the street. I wish you the best of luck.
@jeanmarie61353 жыл бұрын
I almost fucked a bum for asking for change, what saved her is she said ms. Lady I'm not like that...life is a trip sometimes but everybody has a story...
@welcmasher24713 жыл бұрын
@@jeanmarie6135 tf
@colleenwestling83772 жыл бұрын
Bethany, you are such a beautiful soul. Wishing you to continue to meet many more beautiful helper peopler in NYC. Stay warm and well as best you can. I am so glad to have met you this way.
@dennism55653 жыл бұрын
a common thread in many of these videos is a messed up and dysfunctional childhood. Parents take note: you need to be involved in your children's lives in a positive, nurturing way. Don't be a half baked parent.
@SpookiBunny3 жыл бұрын
honestly even half baked would be better than many of the parents we hear of in this channel
@jasminescott64133 жыл бұрын
Exactly, I’m utterly shocked I didn’t end up in this situation
@furbabys19103 жыл бұрын
Don’t trust no one, but listen to your kids etc , as ppl let you dwn and they users some ppl 😞🦋🦋
@juliettezea95073 жыл бұрын
Yes it sucks
@kimberlyabbe68683 жыл бұрын
bethany is smarter than half the population, strung out or not. what a beautiful soul with beautiful lessons. when she said "even just a smile is truly appreciated, god bless", i felt that. we've become so cold as a society we've almost completely given up random acts of kindness. Thank you, Bethany. I'm also from CT and I'm sending you so much love!! stay strong and never lose your spirit!
@christineseton76872 жыл бұрын
Bethany, I see and hear you!! I wish everyone could, you are so sensitive and kind, not to mention very intelligent and articulate, more so then most people! I wish you well ,and pray that you get help for your addiction, and can get off the streets! You are a speaker, and should have a platform. You could help a lot of people. and teach tolerance of people that are different. I would rather sit and have a conversation with you, than half the people I am aquinted with! I wish you well ,you deserve it, you are a wonderful human being, sending love! Peaker
@ninobk1963 жыл бұрын
Bethany, you have so much to offer this world. You are probably one of the nicest people I have seen interviewed. I wish I was half as nice as you, I mean that in all honesty. We need you to be well Bethany. This world needs people like you. You make this world a better place and are an example of what a kind and conscious person is. Please get clean. Get treatment. I know it's not easy, but as F-uped as this world is, we desperately need you to get better and make this place better. You can do this. Others have done it. Give yourself the opportunity to live a better life. I hope you read how much love you have in all these comments. You are incredibly special and your kindness really touched me.
@ChelseaMiddlebrook3 жыл бұрын
Awe I really like Bethany, she is so wise. Definitely an old soul. She understands the world, physically and spiritually. She chose this path and is living this experience and learning. I hope part of her path includes recovery. I'd love to see her sober. She has a future is she decides to get clean.
@katiekateshomestead2 жыл бұрын
Bethany is one of the most interesting and articulate people I have ever watched. Bethany, you are a deep soul and a wise woman.
@vesselksjourney3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for her situation and surprised that she seems to be so ok with it.. but my biggest takeaway is that she is an awesome Human Being.
@richardwitherow52893 жыл бұрын
I sent her positive energy from Australia.
@zizzaag.23772 жыл бұрын
This interview definitely got to me … Wow Bethany you’re so kind, smart and intrested to listen to. You literally made me cry and made me realize that event the smallest thing can help someone out there . God bless you beautiful 🙏🏻