Hey big sisters 👯‍♀️- Dilemma episode | Episode 101

Long time no dilemma episode?! We are backkkkk with ‘hey big sisters’. We love these as much as you do. In this messy inbetween we arer just trying to figure it out. Your issues might seem easier for us to figure out but our own are solid on our neeckkkssss 😭 All that to say, we are all trying our best. From friendships issues to marriage dilemmas, this one has issues we will all relate to. Thank you for trusting us with your dilemmas 🫶🏾Let us know your thoughts in the comments below.
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[@rosemarymbonika8945]

Im jealous of somebody just discovering this podcast,they have 100 episodes to go!!

[@cjandherner3330]

Sth we are not talking about enough : The QUALITY of this video 🙌.

[@lynnettelucy1551]

And sometimes we may not really be going through those dilemmas but the advice helps us know how to deal with certain situations in case we encounter them.Truly grateful and feeling blessed

[@brendahmworia893]

😅❤2d😊😊

[@user-hn9tu9dz8c]

Murugi has cute laugh

[@godschild2342]

Infectious indeed

[@nothandotakaendisa1309]

With this issue of one sided friendships, sometimes the friend who listens is actually the problem. If I continue to ask you what's wrong and how are you and you always say you're fine then there's no way for me as a friend to know that you're not okay. We are adults. You have to tell me how to be there for you. How else can I know? (Some friends actually have a saviour complex. I used to be that friend)

[@christinaflo3240]

Today's episode is giving "YOU BELIEVE MEN in 2023 urrgggh😢😢

[@BHS_Africa_Pod]

Beautiful and gorgeous as usual, in the first one, that girl will eventually leave, there is no love, she is just trying to feel the high they had when they were together but that is no longer accessible

[@ruo.]

The dustbin got full on this episode🤣

[@redemptamutheu3819]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@catherinemuchiri9046]

On that question of the lady dealing with a guy who has a stroke + divorced twice + has trust issues etc. That guy is in a crisis that he should first pull himself out of before trying any relationships with someone's daughter. This babe should stop playing savior and rather look for a healthy i.e., psychologically and stable guy. Otherwise, he will suck her into his misery and ruin her self esteem. What he needs is a friend from a distance. Not a lover.

[@faithmamboleo472]

I learnt clarity from this podcast. I also can't suffer in silence 😅😅 thank you ladies ❤

[@eberelilian7790]

Just checked and we’re almost at 100k🥺 Ching ching🥂🎉

[@Sharon_Njoki.M]

You guys!!!! Is that 100k subs 🎉🎉 so so deserved!Congrats Lyd and Murugi ❤

[@kalonducarolyne1295]

My two cents on the dilemma about the LDR where her partner wants them to film themselves is, don't do it if it doesn't align with your values❤

[@wairimuuu]

Murugi: why do we break our hearts by going through the phone Also murugi: hata mimi husoma kama Bibilia 😂😂😂

[@shalonwairimu2900]

Murugi: stop spending money on people who are not your kids‼️😂😂

[@wangumaina9182]

Hey Lydia & Murugi. I LOVE!!! the conversations you have here and in your individual platforms too. I would like for you guys to have a/more conversations on transitioning from uni to adulting. Trying to get into the current job market or even creating a job for yourself. Have a lovely day😘

[@Lynneleslie]

Definitely 💯

[@mercychepkirui1000]

Yes please

[@chidoshayanowako8776]

Yessss

[@muthonimwirikia]

Today's vibe- Leave girl,just leave!!!!😂

[@judithgicobiarbeit]

Road to 100k. So excited for you 🎉🎉. OG gang since 2021 can understand

[@mumbua004]

When murugi read the first one and said he left for another woman I screamed 🤣....we need therapy for real

[@margaretwanjiku533]

Ati she prayed for him to be back😢

[@dorcasgathoni1044]

Those women who are afraid of disappointing men, please read Robin Norwood's " WOMEN WHO LOVE TOO MUCH".

[@withnjoki2300]

100ke subscribers is that you✨✨🙈

[@beloncekamz2821]

Definitely TMIIII🎶💃🏿. Enjoyed the role play👌🏾🔥🔥. Hapo sasa CONSISTENCY is your middle name😎 and keep it 💯 always. #WCW❤️

[@morrinem475]

Hey Queens ......... can't wait to watch and learn

[@godschild2342]

Hey bebs .....get ready for live drum rolls after 100k .🎉🎉🎉 I cnt wait congratulations geolss❤❤

[@puritymwangi6530]

Part of my Wednesday to-do list always

[@HildahWangui]

❤want healthy conversations ? Boos you are in the right world .... The consistency podcast 🌟

[@annemuthonikigo4249]

Lyd and Murugi saying Dust me in my bedroom shouting bin😂😂😂😂 enjoyed this one though..moral of it we just need to set the bar higher

[@debrahmakori6582]

So true

[@theclangwilimi1485]

I love you girls❤️ thank you for your consistency!

[@suetnimo]

Its definitely TMI hour🎉🎉 I love you ladies❤

[@unapologeticallymega9936]

Heeey..... welcome back babes we missed u here ❤this was lit

[@lynetanyango8331]

How Murugi has just replied to so what do we advise she shouted cheat😂😂😂😂😂

[@tadiwanashet]

Notification gang ! Ready for all the laughs.

[@msdeesubtle8105]

The dilemmas today are not giving…Dustbin much! Queenbetweeners we need to start having dilemmas relating to career progression, enterpreneurship scaling, emotional, physical, mental, financial investmentsand good relationships growing.

[@rao023]

I agree💯.

[@lesliemuchangi]

Oooooh please just stop being a negator that destroys the vibe.Litally !!!

[@aphrodite1699]

Wewe si ufungue podcast yako huko ,so you decide on the topics. This is TMI😊they are reading people's dilemmas si ati they are making the questions up, sister Deborah.

[@msdeesubtle8105]

Let me come to my own defense here. Real quick. Honestly, TMI has great content on everything; friendship, younger lives, sex, romantic relationships, family, business and their careers. This encompasses everything that I mentioned in my comment. Now, it was not in bad light. They offer information based on their own opinion. Their advises are gorgeous. We just need as queenbetweeners to learn and see the red flags in our situations. Clear the boulders on our paths before they actually become mountains!

[@rao023]

@@msdeesubtle8105 hata you'd not have defended yourself. What happened to people just respecting other people's opinions? We don't have to agree with other people's opinions but we can just respect them without being as some people have been. Anyway, peace and light.

[@minkrasi3318]

Almost at 100k! well done!

[@beautylandboutique4976]

🥂 to elevating our dilemmas....

[@wendiemary9976]

you just gotta love the roleplaysssss

[@susanbakunda3739]

could we please have sub titles for sentences in Kiswahili😍? thanks

[@duretti]

Murugi randomly: this guy is cheating btw....a whole year????😅😂 This episode jameni ...... I'm hollering

[@beatricemuringi4120]

In today's episode of "Dustbin" 😂😂😂 Loving the episode as usual.

[@SinsterTimon]

Murugi's facial expressions are 🔥🔥. I love you, ladies ❤. Thanks for the new word " DustBin"

[@GambaWithJ]

Beautiful attires Great advice too Thanks for today

[@annamariakemigabo9875]

Amen on Murugi prayer of the spirit of discernment. And start have serious dilemma.😅😅😅

[@Bee-wd4mh]

I love you guys even though might not always agree with some of your views. I find you both so warm and honestly got excited when I saw this upload! Y’all look so pretty ❤

[@msdeesubtle8105]

Honestly, I deserve an update on all or most of the dilemmas! These ladies have been going through it. If any and all inbetweener(s) can second this…its been real up in here😢

[@irenerichards5399]

Yes they should do an update episode

[@aphrodite1699]

The first dilemma, he will still leave again😁and leave you in the desert without water sis. Most men are like water, if it gets too hot, they evaporate, wanarudi winter, wanakupatia pneumonia, ndio uende ICU, to prove that you love them. You do not even deserve a better man for now, you deserve yourself,be whole so thst he will find you whole(are we even whole as humans?). Love you just a little bit more. Coming from a person who was in a worse situation thats yours. Wishing you well.

[@KeziahKamau-qu9pe]

Awwwh🥰😍Murugi u have a really amazing voice... that song u sang "keep ur money" wow❣️🔥

[@xocaroline_]

Yay,new episode🥳

[@J.G7088]

As the friend who kept paying the bills i can tell you she's ok but alway try to do something for her however small, even if that means welcoming her to your house for lunch thats fully catered for by you. So sge doesn't feel taken advantage of.

[@julietsera7383]

Lydia you're looking freshhhh :)

[@Simply_Jackie]

Dustbin Dustbin Dustbin it today 😂😂😂😂 You ladies look so beautiful today despite murugi looking so low hugs 🫂.

[@Sharon_Njoki.M]

Love the point on elevated problems, child!!! 🤭

[@annemuthonikigo4249]

Get together Wednesdays with TMI🥳🥳❤

[@Zaria192]

This is therapeutic 😌

[@zitaamani5341]

You didn’t insert the rose photo 😂

[@NYAMBURAE]

It's TMI day🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@laurenedukon6150]

tumebakisha hivi tu🤌🤌🤌tufike 100k subs

[@winniewainaina3143]

Another episode to be watched daily till next Wednesday. That aside, i FEEL LIKE😂 Lyd's makeup sometimes does not translate well on camera but Murugi's always does. Lyd could you have Sly glam you once we see whether there's a difference?🤷🤷

[@stacey4764]

Always trust women to pinpoint every little detail on other women, Lyd's looks do not take away from the insightful points made in this video

[@faithnjoroge6507]

Try high quality....Lyd looks beautiful 😍 Relax

[@queenedika]

Maybe it's your eyes, I really love her make up

[@anngracearchie5965]

Really now!! Wow, can it be your phone that's a little bit of a letdown😊

[@faith.adeyaa]

15 minutes in and you are spitting facts!!😅...I love that my friends and I usually have these conversations; when they aren't able to afford or when I'm not able to afford we don't find it hard to communicate

[@joyceyugi9266]

Full bin this episode . Loved it still

[@bettykanjatv]

It's the role playing for me 😂😂😂😂

[@dyliabella]

countdown to 100k!....

[@deemb5284]

Is this why we are in betweeners as in ive been in some of these dilemas and looking back now ....i would never ever repeat those things again...ata afadhali kuwa single jo.

[@esthergakuo4566]

Another one 🎉🎉🎉

[@crystalotieno225]

Lyd's facial expressions on this episode, wueh😂

[@yvonnemurugi6795]

hi ladies lot of luv from huku kwetu.

[@mutaicherobon6550]

Here again as always ❤..

[@Perfectly_Abby]

Premier Gang 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@vickyakinyi773]

Amazing 😍

[@kristinmwaniki5703]

I love how murugi pouts 😂😂😂

[@eberelilian7790]

Lyds advice on this episode.😂

[@janetjean1412]

Hi bebs...I love your singing bt naomba job ya kuwaimbia hiyo part

[@whitneymorrah9108]

We are almost 100k guys🎉🎉🎉

[@doreenonekalit9888]

I just love ladies! AKA "Big Sisters". We all need that big sister advice of one who has been there before you and would we raw and real.❤❤❤😊

[@roxannahhaileystorm1802]

20;25 that is illegal in a lot of countries...it's called stealthing... And it's sexual and reproductive abuse..... That one on the married sexless couple....why don't they just open up their marriage....sex is very important

[@hildaalividza3461]

Dilemma 1. I agree with Murugi , dump him already... what she has failed to say ( the girl) is that the reason why sometimes she feels she's inlove and sometimes not is based on how he treats her...Most probably he was just trying to see if she would take him back and probably he wasn't done with the lady he dumped her for and she took the bait and took him back.

[@rosegichia700]

Dustbin is definitely the word of the day😆I am re-watching this episode coz I love love it so much. Murugi💞💞

[@wanjiku805]

Dustbin is the word of the year😂.

[@aphrodite1699]

Now me wants the rose suckeeeeeer🤗

[@janetjean1412]

Murugi many hugs to you...I noticed your energy was struggling in this one...

[@jabbz9316]

It's the "kaa chonjo" 😂😂😂weeh how is that your friend🚮🚮

[@SarahFamily-dw5jg]

Murugis HAIR! DAAAAMNNN❤❤❤❤. I've been admiring this hair. Can someone tell me what's the name please

[@wairimuuu]

Temporary locs

[@SarahFamily-dw5jg]

@@wairimuuu Thanks. Made from which brand of braid ?

[@charitywanjiru1281]

@@SarahFamily-dw5jg Fluffy kinky

[@wairimuuu]

@@SarahFamily-dw5jg I don't even know 😂all I know is most people are in their temporary locs era 😂

[@rosegichia700]

@@wairimuuu 😆😆I'm definitely in my temporary locs era too. 4 months down

[@joycemathu8232]

Usually our big age difference between me and you two lovely ladies, makes most of your podcasts not relevant for me and I'm a subscriber. However, and this is nice, I enjoyed this episode alot!

[@tfa4782]

100K 😊😊😊😊😊

[@sheilacarein4763]

Where is the picture!!😂😂😂

[@chanya_ella254]

Damn ladies niku hot hot,i love it already ❤

[@fredahnyawira9089]

hey murugi and lydia? am loving this, but i have one question, this generation we seem to be quick to cut people off is it reeeeaaalllly right?

[@missfwanjiku]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@cynthiaomollo977]

I think women need to boost their selfesteem and economic Power. Some answers r so clear. Nowonder Murugi says there thing that cant Happen to her. People toleratinh crappy men n Friends ,that i cant tolerate.

[@mercynungari9315]

Dustbin 🚯🚯🚯🚯😄😄

[@flowerpower250]

Removes the condom without your permission and doesn't pull out??!! Baby that's called stealthing and it's a form of sexual assault. That man is evil and hates you PLS RUNNNN!!!

[@silviaanyango3529]

Dustbin 😂😂😂

[@FineChoice-vl3cp]

Murugi looks tired

[@graceguya1682]

The one who removed protection sounds like the kind who believes in getting you pregnant to trap or tame you. Not someone's genes you want to pass down to your kids. The one about who's decisions it should be about when to have kids, the number to have, e.t.c is tricky. On one hard yes if he wants and she doesnt its her body and she has the final choice but if she wants and he doesnt, yet he is the one to provide financially for the kid for 18+ years, despite not wanting to have another kid and knowing his financial capability, that situation requires extra Grace.

[@user-qs6bg1dz4d]

Who is kate?

[@rosemarymbonika8945]

That guy would've probably cheated if roles were reserved

[@anyangolovenah7703]

What if the in-betweener's husband who's not giving her sex is actually interested in men. And is in that marriage just because he has to hide it????

[@muthonimwirikia]

The pronouns got me spinning 😂

[@lesliemuchangi]

Ngl

[@marionwambui8097]

20:24 is actually criminal in my opinion. Because you did not consent to unprotected sex. That is absolutely rape. Who said the woman wants your gonorrhea or wants to carry a pregnancy? Such a violation of the female body.

[@paulinemuthoni9871]

Stealthing is sexual abuse..... 😔

[@franklin363]

P R O M O S M 😇