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Hey Steve: Should She Give Him a Second Chance? || STEVE HARVEY

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She broke up with her ex after he cheated on her. But they’ve recently reconnected and now she’s wondering if she should get back with him. What should she do?
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@leggs4113
@leggs4113 5 жыл бұрын
Did she really just ask this question? He’s broke & a cheater? Boy Bye 👋🏿
@autobotdiva9268
@autobotdiva9268 5 жыл бұрын
And clearly has a habit if he need money for food
@SnowFoxParty
@SnowFoxParty 5 жыл бұрын
Yes but the sex is good that's why she wants him lol
@JobyJay
@JobyJay 5 жыл бұрын
Lol exactly!!!
@samuelgilbert6359
@samuelgilbert6359 5 жыл бұрын
It was a mistake
@Jay-jb2vr
@Jay-jb2vr 5 жыл бұрын
@@SnowFoxParty so then just keep it to a friends with benefit thing...
@Noix009
@Noix009 5 жыл бұрын
Never use biological clock as an excuse to be desperate or settle for love . Smh
@EDBailley
@EDBailley 5 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree
@timiadetona
@timiadetona 5 жыл бұрын
Nature doesn't respect logic.
@Noix009
@Noix009 5 жыл бұрын
@@timiadetona I'd ignore you on this.
@timiadetona
@timiadetona 5 жыл бұрын
@@Noix009 lol, wasn't expecting a reply to begin with 😊
@Noix009
@Noix009 5 жыл бұрын
@@timiadetona ✋🏽
@jessicaw6963
@jessicaw6963 5 жыл бұрын
"Why don't you wait on a man that's already grown?" THIS.
@tonisanders3289
@tonisanders3289 5 жыл бұрын
@Allen Reynolds exactly. It's probably why she wanted a young guy- someone who she thought she could manipulate and control. He most likely cheated because he needed his freedom. As an older woman, she appeared more like a mother figure than a girlfriend.
@Simplegirl5251
@Simplegirl5251 5 жыл бұрын
She like drama and kids you can tell the way her story were being told. I bet Steve wanted to say set down dumb girl (the woman).😐
@mskreme76
@mskreme76 5 жыл бұрын
She already knew what was up and what she needed to do.
@peterparker2981
@peterparker2981 5 жыл бұрын
@Allen Reynolds thats the huge problem with Ladies these days...but hey, just like she wants what she wants lets she have it bcuz at the end of the day, she knows what she getting into...
@Waltjoh100
@Waltjoh100 5 жыл бұрын
Guys who have their finances popping around 40s & 50s attractive can get younger women than her alot of them don't have to deal with a girl over 30. He can decide not to cheat & get more $ she can't become at 25 yr old in her prime no baggage again. She could hold the guy don't mess with him for a little check his character his habits, see who else may be checking for you if any1 is trying to wife a 35 + yr old. Her prime years are with this guy.
@evadiva238
@evadiva238 5 жыл бұрын
I’m 23 & I know the answer to that question. HELL NO!!!! He knew what he was doing, you don’t accidentally cheat 🙄🙄🙄
@erenestawanjiru1935
@erenestawanjiru1935 Жыл бұрын
True 💖😍😍 Cheating Is A choice.
@Ustaleone
@Ustaleone 5 жыл бұрын
So many red flags... I just even can't.
@tiberiusedwards3968
@tiberiusedwards3968 5 жыл бұрын
Ustaleone tooo many red flags nd shes dumb af
@DFluent
@DFluent 5 жыл бұрын
This man "just even cant" rather than "just cant even"
@Ustaleone
@Ustaleone 5 жыл бұрын
@@DFluent Exactly! I put that there for you to find ;).
@traplordso985
@traplordso985 5 жыл бұрын
@Allen Reynolds facts she been with him for 5years it won't be that easy for her to let him go. I guarantee you she'll take him back.
@CPNKee
@CPNKee 5 жыл бұрын
ride that horse outta town 😂
@_LuvNell_
@_LuvNell_ 5 жыл бұрын
Boonie Pop and they said old town road wasn’t country music lo... her whole situation fits that song 😂😂😩😩
@gloriageyer7691
@gloriageyer7691 5 жыл бұрын
😜
@ryana-6762
@ryana-6762 5 жыл бұрын
ride that horse for free and get free money
@jessicathedancer1
@jessicathedancer1 2 жыл бұрын
😆💀
@mariposamoreno
@mariposamoreno Жыл бұрын
HILARIOUS 😂😂
@Salsadivva
@Salsadivva 5 жыл бұрын
Run, girl, run! When you see crazy coming, cross the street!
@Zenlovepositivity
@Zenlovepositivity 5 жыл бұрын
Salsadivva Lol 😂 so true!
@teresamcmurrin8672
@teresamcmurrin8672 5 жыл бұрын
Salsadivva He's crazy like a fox. He knows exactly what he wants and can get her to give it to him. Hey, free money!
@tiberiusedwards3968
@tiberiusedwards3968 4 жыл бұрын
Ok like this shouldn't have been an ask steve
@priyankachowdary3395
@priyankachowdary3395 4 жыл бұрын
Iyanla vanzant😉
@francoiswilliams815
@francoiswilliams815 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@aspensky5
@aspensky5 5 жыл бұрын
She’s a very beautiful lady. You can’t settle down with a cheater.... she ain’t got no kids with him and she isn’t married. A new man is the best option
@Zenlovepositivity
@Zenlovepositivity 5 жыл бұрын
Skye Styles yes people need to realize there are other single and loyal men out there!
@ramseyabsessien8990
@ramseyabsessien8990 5 жыл бұрын
Going to a new man? The desperation will still show and that new man will run....
@iMolikaMenThlang
@iMolikaMenThlang 5 жыл бұрын
Skye Styles I should of hopped on that horse with my kids. Oof! 🤦🏽‍♀️
@primetimeourway
@primetimeourway 5 жыл бұрын
At her age? GL
@juliuscaesar756
@juliuscaesar756 4 жыл бұрын
Soleil Rose getting Ah new man is not what she needs she needs to be single because she will continue to go through this until she can learn to forgive and also learn how to satisfy her partner and another everyone cheats but everyone does it different and some are smarter at doing it so that being said she needs to learn how to deal with it
@lulubelle2009
@lulubelle2009 5 жыл бұрын
He needs money for food and you want to know if he should be your baby daddy. Woman, sit down.
@candycesaturday7218
@candycesaturday7218 5 жыл бұрын
louise scott 🤣
@fitzyglamyt
@fitzyglamyt 5 жыл бұрын
louise scott lmao this got me 😂
@XXX-ru1kk
@XXX-ru1kk 4 жыл бұрын
Buhahaha, the best answer for this lady. This got me.
@freedom4dworld642
@freedom4dworld642 4 жыл бұрын
😂
@lillyvgutierrez9685
@lillyvgutierrez9685 4 жыл бұрын
gagahaha
@RoyalMasterpiece
@RoyalMasterpiece 5 жыл бұрын
That is called a soul tie. It needs to be broken. He did you dirty. Cut off ALL contact. Make sure you value yourself and don't allow a toxic man in your life again.
@Womenswell022
@Womenswell022 5 жыл бұрын
I agree with you sis. Just that breaking soul ties require prayers...
@SoLiTaRyBoNe
@SoLiTaRyBoNe 5 жыл бұрын
But does one action gives you the right to label a man as "toxic" though?
@SoLiTaRyBoNe
@SoLiTaRyBoNe 5 жыл бұрын
@herkeda He's a young man struggling and asking for help the way he could. He "cheated" once according to her and that was years ago from now. You don't know the man's circumstances. It is a true struggle that pushed him to ask her for a little help. That definitely does not give him the tag!!!!? Toxic would be a person who is purposely manipulating and playing with their tail in a relationship, not struggling with their life and attempting to take an advantage of an opportunity that came up (which is a reunion in this case.)
@tonisanders3289
@tonisanders3289 5 жыл бұрын
Like Steve said before, a man can only do what a woman allows him to do. She made it too easy for him.
@kim6234
@kim6234 5 жыл бұрын
@@SoLiTaRyBoNe Yes, he's toxic, for her. she talking about wanting a baby. How can he take care of a child and he can't even take care of himself.
@ladynottingham89
@ladynottingham89 5 жыл бұрын
Oh God, women get played by men over that biological clock thing. Don't let that "clock" control you women, let it go.
@ANewDay2007
@ANewDay2007 5 жыл бұрын
Preach!! That and the "man shortage" crap.
@primetimeourway
@primetimeourway 5 жыл бұрын
I love the message here but its woefully irrelevant. The biological clock doesn't control anything.... but it does come and go whether the modern woman likes it or not. You either get with the program or you lose your chance to have your own children. Unless you decide to adopt, in which case you still need a life partner, who ever says they can do it themselves is selfish and not thinking of the well being of the child. Either way....the clock is ticking, whether you think its "fair" or not
@ladynottingham89
@ladynottingham89 5 жыл бұрын
@@primetimeourway It's not that expensive to freeze your eggs. Average cost is $10,000 and $500 a year for upkeep. If the clock is ticking and you can't afford that, you can't afford a child. Hell, even if you don't have 10k in the bank, get a loan. Most people owe way more than that. Being desperate and marrying the first one that comes along is not the brightest idea. Certain kinds of men that prey on the weak will smell that on a woman like a shark smells blood. Making a mistake in marriage is one of the worse a person can make and if children are in the mix the woman and the man won't be the only ones paying for their own mistakes. Live your life and meet people and when the time comes get married to a man that treats you right and have your family in a healthy relationship.
@gaelmehager9354
@gaelmehager9354 5 жыл бұрын
@@ladynottingham89 or, if you're running out of time, have a child by yourself and find a good life partner afterwards. Egg freezing is really close to being a scam. you need 12 decent egg frozen to achieve 1 pregnancy. ANd these stats are for women under 35 with perfect health. Over 35, chromosomal abnormalities are so frequent that you better aim to secure 20 eggs per / planned pregnancy. Problem is, a lot of modern women have underlying fetility issues past 35 anyways. Lot of them will be poor responders to fertility drugs used in the freezing process so to harvest 20 eggs, you'll probably have to do 2 + cycles making the total bill 20K$ at the very minimum. And guess what, when comes the time to thaw these eggs, anything can happen and your chances of having a viable pregnancy are slim anyways. Don't rely on egg freezing, have your babies while you can
@georgec8210
@georgec8210 5 жыл бұрын
So become lesbians than.
@YourGirlSudanny
@YourGirlSudanny 5 жыл бұрын
Some women just don't know their worth at all & it's very sad to witness.
@secondopinion53
@secondopinion53 5 жыл бұрын
Real Talk..
@dbigtime10bt
@dbigtime10bt 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, indeed.
@denisegladden-peters4435
@denisegladden-peters4435 2 жыл бұрын
Yup
@orian3131
@orian3131 5 жыл бұрын
She’s so beautiful and dumb at the same time. Homeboy cheated on you and you want to have a baby with him?????
@algassimousow5232
@algassimousow5232 5 жыл бұрын
Tggfyy7iolkut t
@ronnetheberry7283
@ronnetheberry7283 5 жыл бұрын
Ob O so stupid, smh
@nianiah2212
@nianiah2212 5 жыл бұрын
or 2 , perhaps 3?
@etf42
@etf42 5 жыл бұрын
it makes perfect sense when you understand women.
@ayandolaayanleke6900
@ayandolaayanleke6900 5 жыл бұрын
@Allen Reynolds How do you know she is that kind of woman? What gave her away? And what's wrong with a woman wanting to take care of things herself? Why is it such a problem to men and why do they usually want to demonise it like it's a problem or even a crime?
@antonietamendoza6677
@antonietamendoza6677 4 жыл бұрын
I love how this man gives advice to people ,RESPECT
@theronwright1413
@theronwright1413 5 жыл бұрын
Soul ties are real. That’s why it’s hard for her to move on. They were sexually involved
@highlyfavoredMG
@highlyfavoredMG 5 жыл бұрын
So many people dont believe in soul ties!they are real! and can be good or bad !
@babazilemadzinane7778
@babazilemadzinane7778 4 жыл бұрын
That thing is real🥺🥺🥺🥺 ...I've just broke up with my boyfriend of four years n when I tried dating again I always felt I have n obligation not to be with someone else even though I couldn't be with him ...but m glad I took five months dedicating myself to church n deliverance services ...now m able n ready to move on ...n I hope it works for me 🥺🥺
@estherkungu4360
@estherkungu4360 4 жыл бұрын
Soul ties are real i concur with you, they have messed up alot of people lives so bad.
@ronlawray1563
@ronlawray1563 3 жыл бұрын
NO...She was sexually involved. He was sexually and financially involved.
@ZadeMeadowsLittleMouse
@ZadeMeadowsLittleMouse 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly! That’s why I will be celibate until marriage.
@mbinze1298
@mbinze1298 5 жыл бұрын
Some women will use their "biological clock" as a reason to get in messed-up situations.
@mbinze1298
@mbinze1298 5 жыл бұрын
@@Terry794, hahaha. Good for you. Keep well.
@mbinze1298
@mbinze1298 5 жыл бұрын
@Allen Reynolds, I understand. However, hardly anything good will come out of it. Hopefully, children born in these forced relationships will be taken good care of by their parents.
@mbinze1298
@mbinze1298 5 жыл бұрын
@Natasha Williams, we console ourselves when we meet our end by leaving a child behind (so we think and say sometimes). Yes, we do say that for our own "benefit" than the child's. You are right.
@entertainmentmedia4742
@entertainmentmedia4742 4 жыл бұрын
Allen Reynolds I have no sympathy. I just watch and get entertained.
@davinacollins1941
@davinacollins1941 5 жыл бұрын
When Steve said about the horse I lost it damn near fell of the couch! 😂
@AmoraLili
@AmoraLili 5 жыл бұрын
She know not to give that damn man a chance! Just by the way she describing him!
@Simplegirl5251
@Simplegirl5251 5 жыл бұрын
You're Right!!!! All day and night. 😅😅😅
@mskreme76
@mskreme76 5 жыл бұрын
She already knew! smh
@shawneegirl1980
@shawneegirl1980 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@rochellethundercloud346
@rochellethundercloud346 5 жыл бұрын
Should she give him another chance?HELL NO.
@rizegames120
@rizegames120 5 жыл бұрын
I'm addicted to watching these shows😭
@lornalaing4446
@lornalaing4446 5 жыл бұрын
You know how to ride a 🐎 horse?? learn how to ride a horse and ride outta town😂
@Zenlovepositivity
@Zenlovepositivity 5 жыл бұрын
Lol
@tumsesssysesssay
@tumsesssysesssay 4 жыл бұрын
Damn right Steve 🙄
@thamsanqathusi9671
@thamsanqathusi9671 3 жыл бұрын
what does that even mean.
@josepholiver5412
@josepholiver5412 5 жыл бұрын
He's 26 now and they dated for 5 years? So she was 30 and he was 21 when they started dating? Lol smh
@laurenhahn890
@laurenhahn890 4 жыл бұрын
Thank u!!
@carmengooden4162
@carmengooden4162 4 жыл бұрын
OKAY!
@akilgeci2266
@akilgeci2266 4 жыл бұрын
It works 🤓
@xpnn
@xpnn 5 жыл бұрын
Girl, run as fast as you can from that man. It’s just red flags all over him
@tonisanders3289
@tonisanders3289 5 жыл бұрын
I bet she'll go back to him. Steve wasted his advice.
@soulstrength
@soulstrength 5 жыл бұрын
Steve: Do you know how to ride a horse? Lady: Not yet. Steve: OK. Learn how to ride a horse, and ride out of town on that horse. BEST SETUP EVER!!!
@jacquelinetaylor9528
@jacquelinetaylor9528 5 жыл бұрын
I think she's a good person for Steve Harvey to fix up with a date she's succsseful, seems to have a good heart, pretty omg her flowy hair also her transparency. God bless you miss
@girljrt
@girljrt 5 жыл бұрын
🙌this
@valerielinares2068
@valerielinares2068 5 жыл бұрын
Her instincts were already telling her the right answer - she just didn't want to listen. Thank goodness Steve was there to confirm what her instincts were trying to tell her.
@summersdiary7
@summersdiary7 5 жыл бұрын
Ladies, when is that culture of desperation gonna be over among us! You’re already whole. Know your worth.
@Waltjoh100
@Waltjoh100 5 жыл бұрын
It's harder for women over 35. That's on her if she wants try it again with this guy or trade up. Maybe she's got a couple more years of trading up like a woman in her 20s, then but she's gonna get to the wall where all the successful men she wants can get more & better than her. & when these 40s successful men with no kids (I have kids & was married it's a big financial drain) wanna settle down they want a girl 30-35 who can have kids.
@georgec8210
@georgec8210 5 жыл бұрын
Women don't answer her. They just make statements and when someone questions them they don't know what to say. Most of these women are probably single anyways.
@shawneegirl1980
@shawneegirl1980 4 жыл бұрын
@@georgec8210 Well aren't you just a big ole ball of sunshine? Lol
@trini4life100000000
@trini4life100000000 5 жыл бұрын
Let the woman he cheated with, buy him some groceries.
@tonisanders3289
@tonisanders3289 5 жыл бұрын
Right! 😁😁
@NODE1975
@NODE1975 5 жыл бұрын
Biological clock please. Girl Janet just had a baby at 50. Not suggesting it but oml
@MaRiAm936
@MaRiAm936 5 жыл бұрын
Fertility treatments are so expensive and Janet has the money to do whatever she needs to get pragnent! But this lady is not rich,and if the only way to get pragnent is throw this dusty guy so let it be if that makes her happy! But she should be aware that maybe she will raise that kid alone!
@NODE1975
@NODE1975 5 жыл бұрын
@@MaRiAm936 I said that I wasn't suggesting it. I thought it ws obvious why I wasn't suggesting... your reply was exactly why
@NODE1975
@NODE1975 5 жыл бұрын
@Allen Reynolds pregnancy over 35 is risky period. There are specialist for that. I know because I had both of my kids after 35 but before 40. Again, I said that I wouldn't suggest someone wait until 50. Biological clock is still not a reason to mate with someone that is supposed to be temporary
@entertainmentmedia4742
@entertainmentmedia4742 4 жыл бұрын
La Jo A broken clock is right twice a day. Some people survive jumping off of a 10 story building. That doesn’t mean that you should do it nor does it mean that that you’ll make it. Either way, you’re doing yourself and your possible family harm down the line. 1. Child not surviving 2. Health issues(autism is on the rise) 3. Child dying randomly at an early age 4. You WILL have less energy/strength to chase around a kid. 5. The odds of you being alive when the kid turns 18. 6. The odds of you even seeing grandkids let alone being around them often is slim to none. 7. God forbid something happens, good luck even getting attention from another man There’s a reason why people got married and have kids at a younger age. I’m just posting this for the women who think this is a good idea. And for the younger women, you better pay attention.
@callmethandz5329
@callmethandz5329 4 жыл бұрын
She has money. The best doctors can make it happen. But 35 years old on the dot and above. You need to see a doctor for treatment before you have a baby because you might give birth to children with syndromes or might have a miscarriage.
@divinerae4966
@divinerae4966 5 жыл бұрын
Girl no.. do not give him another chance, forgive him and move on. Who cares about this biological clock, women do better. I would rather have no child, than settle for trash. Girl he saw u and was asking for some money!, is that what u want? Come on.
@tryingthings9036
@tryingthings9036 5 жыл бұрын
To be candid there wasn' t a first chance so why the second chance? This guy needs a mom
@tianamiller6820
@tianamiller6820 5 жыл бұрын
And a father
@Michelle-pn9xt
@Michelle-pn9xt 5 жыл бұрын
He is 26. He is a grown freakin' man! This man needs a J-O-B!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@Michelle-pn9xt
@Michelle-pn9xt 5 жыл бұрын
@@tianamiller6820 His parents have already raised him. He needs to be a man! and grow up.. and buy his own food!!!!!!!!
@tryingthings9036
@tryingthings9036 5 жыл бұрын
@@Michelle-pn9xt As a man he should know that.
@flowergirlpower1991
@flowergirlpower1991 5 жыл бұрын
Lady you should not even be talking to him. He is a child. Steve gave you the right answer. Ride out.
@terrygreen3553
@terrygreen3553 5 жыл бұрын
CHEMISTRY =LUST
@tonisanders3289
@tonisanders3289 5 жыл бұрын
Yep! 😁😁😁
@marthamichael7592
@marthamichael7592 5 жыл бұрын
I got to remember this.
@snowbird1381
@snowbird1381 5 жыл бұрын
Let him go girl; you're way better off without him. When It's over, it's over.
@ronk9472
@ronk9472 5 жыл бұрын
Females like this don't move on..Just be stuck on their exs
@FrancescaA00
@FrancescaA00 5 жыл бұрын
He only wants to get back to you so you can be his mama. Leave girl.
@tonisanders3289
@tonisanders3289 5 жыл бұрын
Yep!
@pinheadlarry7254
@pinheadlarry7254 5 жыл бұрын
From what I see, he’s reaping what he sowed. Has the audacity to ask the woman he hurt for money. And she’s fine with that disrespect.🤦‍♀️
@rongrimes9102
@rongrimes9102 5 жыл бұрын
How many of y’all thinks she’ll go back with him even after all that good advice? I vote YES !
@kitten7669
@kitten7669 5 жыл бұрын
yes sir
@lotuswolf1518
@lotuswolf1518 5 жыл бұрын
I vote yes, no matter how successful women become careerwise they can't ever be as heartless and emotionless as men and continue being emotional fools
@damonkinc
@damonkinc 5 жыл бұрын
Oh yes she going back. Ole boy must be breaking her back. Happens all the time with these women. They complain but still go back.
@lotuswolf1518
@lotuswolf1518 5 жыл бұрын
@@damonkinc , ikr i hate such women
@damonkinc
@damonkinc 5 жыл бұрын
Apple Ton and she will keep going back and forth until he find another sugar momma. He only 26 too.
@SpecialKRNB
@SpecialKRNB 5 жыл бұрын
Ladies if he can take care of himself he can take care of you... everyone deserves to be loved back...
@georgec8210
@georgec8210 5 жыл бұрын
If it was the other way around it would be normal and the women would be clapping.
@SpecialKRNB
@SpecialKRNB 5 жыл бұрын
@@georgec8210 what?!
@georgec8210
@georgec8210 5 жыл бұрын
@@SpecialKRNB ya if the girl was 10 years younger and broke and dating a guy 35 it's good and everyone would be clapping saying she's smart.
@georgec8210
@georgec8210 5 жыл бұрын
@@SpecialKRNB let's face it Steve Harvey only caters to Women cause they make him the most money. He's been divorced 3 times how is he giving advice about relationships.
@will1905
@will1905 3 жыл бұрын
@@georgec8210 so true the double standards is so high.
@shonm.5420
@shonm.5420 5 жыл бұрын
This is a no-brainer. If you gotta ask boo, deep inside you already know the answer. 🚮
@ronnetheberry7283
@ronnetheberry7283 5 жыл бұрын
Even Steve shook his head @ her!!!!
@peacheskong2245
@peacheskong2245 5 жыл бұрын
I wish I only had a FRIEND to support me like that... Just a damn FRIEND...God bless her heart
@peacheskong2245
@peacheskong2245 5 жыл бұрын
@Nattie bubbles True. She babied him too much I think as well.
@carrolmw6682
@carrolmw6682 5 жыл бұрын
How's he going to take you on a date when he's asking you for money😂😂😂
@georgec8210
@georgec8210 5 жыл бұрын
Ya it's funny cause if it's the other way around it would be considered normal and she is smart and everyone would clap.
@sladewilson649
@sladewilson649 2 жыл бұрын
He got a car so that ain’t lack of money, it’s just an excuse
@h.peters
@h.peters 5 жыл бұрын
So this is the man you want to be the father of your child??? I'm confused, if you don't want him for you why would you want him for your child?
@marthamichael7592
@marthamichael7592 5 жыл бұрын
Very wise!
@marthamichael7592
@marthamichael7592 5 жыл бұрын
@Kir By For me getting merried and having kids ts not a must.It is up to her if she wants to have a child and raise her child by her self.About the guy, he may be struggling now but that doesn't necessarily mean he will be struggling for the rest of his life.If he is really interested in her and get it together, they might do well.I know how it is raising kids when the other parent is not helping.That is why I commented that.
@gerryo25
@gerryo25 5 жыл бұрын
@@marthamichael7592 No that's struggle love next. And she said she helped to build him up and he's still asking her for stuff please. It's not the responsibility of a woman to build up a man to be successful in a male dominated society. He wants a mother not a girlfriend/wife. The majority of the time men don't respect the come up woman. Steve Harvey is an example of that his current wife would of paid him no mind if he was a broke comedian.
@marthamichael7592
@marthamichael7592 5 жыл бұрын
@@gerryo25 I wasn't intending to say that she has to support him.I was just responding to what some people said.Some people were saying that her chances of finding a man and having kids is lesser because of her age- meaning not a bad idea if she wants to give the young man a second chance.Again it's up to her.
@gerryo25
@gerryo25 5 жыл бұрын
@@marthamichael7592 Well for those that think 35 is old and you should take just anything they need help. You have to be responsible with who you have children with that just looks like a recipe for single motherhood. Give him a chance she did that for 5 years and he still can't get himself together. And when she saw him again he was still asking for stuff. Some men have a Oedipus complex.
@je39981
@je39981 5 жыл бұрын
He doesn't want you back he wants what you gave him. He's a young boy and he's using you to be his sugar mama. Too many red flags but I can't even bash her because many women act and think this way in reality.
@cnsummers4086
@cnsummers4086 5 жыл бұрын
So true, smh 💯👏🤦
@secondopinion53
@secondopinion53 5 жыл бұрын
Ladies.. You are Responsible! For the Energy!! You allow around you... This is from a Man... Once we change our Mindset we can attract what's real.. Just my Opinion...
@sadeclarke3879
@sadeclarke3879 5 жыл бұрын
That is so true..this is the most profound message i ever saw on KZbin. 🙌
@secondopinion53
@secondopinion53 5 жыл бұрын
@@sadeclarke3879 Thank you... From a Man You ladies have to be careful of your space.... I'm waiting on my Queen!
@thereisnopandemic
@thereisnopandemic 4 жыл бұрын
Second Opinion not really, she is too old to attract the men she wants. She wants a 6ft tall hot man with a stable career not a job.
@shawneegirl1980
@shawneegirl1980 4 жыл бұрын
@@thereisnopandemic chile hush lol....nobody is too old to do anything that they really want to do....
@shawneegirl1980
@shawneegirl1980 4 жыл бұрын
@@secondopinion53 you're absolutely right. And I'm sure I'm not the only one who could see she was vibrating on a lower frequency. She reeks of desperation and operates from a place of lack. Thats why she's attracting the way that she is....
@selenebaptiste4277
@selenebaptiste4277 5 жыл бұрын
Is this woman serious??? A horse is to slow, she needs a rocket!
@francoiswilliams815
@francoiswilliams815 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@safaalodat6019
@safaalodat6019 3 жыл бұрын
Looooooool..the best line,EVER!
@TheWilDOn31
@TheWilDOn31 3 жыл бұрын
Age doesn't matter, just make sure the important things are there... like loyalty and integrity.. this boy is a boy. My boyfriend is nearly 9 years younger than me, he's 24 and he's not on the same level as me financially. But he's mature for his age, loyal, honest, intelligent, spiritual, would never accept a dime from me, hard working. He makes me feel safe and cared for, he's there for me. It took us some time and effort to get here mostly because I was sceptical about the age difference, but it was all worth it.
@nellyc1002
@nellyc1002 5 жыл бұрын
Hilarious 😆 I wasn’t expecting Steve’s advice about the horse
@CA2SD
@CA2SD 5 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe this question. Steve’s response is priceless!
@belindaxiong8802
@belindaxiong8802 5 жыл бұрын
Love your advice Steve!! I hope she takes his advice.
@hermantamo1860
@hermantamo1860 5 жыл бұрын
Nah , she won't.
@dbigtime10bt
@dbigtime10bt 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, indeed.
@SuziJacuzzie
@SuziJacuzzie 5 жыл бұрын
Yes uncle Steve you tell her, that feeling she having is infatuation for her, it's not love girl, slow your roll down luv and stop trying to be desperate girl. You need to understand that sometimes God remove someone or people out of your life who is draining you and close that chapter of your life for something better so you can always turn your page of life and say yes!!
@canandwill1
@canandwill1 5 жыл бұрын
I had to scroll down to the comments girrrrllllll stahhp 😂😂😂
@claudineb777
@claudineb777 3 жыл бұрын
Love the “learn to ride a horse and get out here!” comment 🤣
@kudzyja4662
@kudzyja4662 5 жыл бұрын
I think she was hoping Steve would hook her up with a choice of 3 good men
@berryjohnson3694
@berryjohnson3694 5 жыл бұрын
I don’t think it’s a sign either way. It’s just a coincidence. Ppl are always trying to make things spiritual or some type of “sign” just over thinking, making something out of nothing. Idk It’s just strange too me.
@xxnarutxx3938
@xxnarutxx3938 5 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. It amazes me how others can't see it.
@growwithkalisamayidi8128
@growwithkalisamayidi8128 5 жыл бұрын
Never accept to be fooled twice girl😯
@jamieazalea685
@jamieazalea685 5 жыл бұрын
The deed ain't worth the debt. Move on, love. Harvey's good to remind us of our standards, and to keep them up to par.
@Droggo972
@Droggo972 5 жыл бұрын
but why do us man do this you cheat someone who helped and wants the best out of you and the woman is beautiful!
@tonisanders3289
@tonisanders3289 5 жыл бұрын
Because he was looking for a meal ticket.
@cjoe1950
@cjoe1950 5 жыл бұрын
My bioclock tells me it's time to eat. I'm hungry.
@xheartiiz
@xheartiiz 5 жыл бұрын
No second chances! It ended for a reason! There’s no trust! Move on with your life lady, he’s merely a distraction!!!
@wombathappinessgirl7563
@wombathappinessgirl7563 5 жыл бұрын
No, leave him be. Go on with your life. He’s treating you like his mom like I need money for my groceries lol.
@anthonyword6914
@anthonyword6914 5 жыл бұрын
Why is she even asking this? He's much to young. Why go back into more punishment? Sounds as if he's a needy man. This is a no brainier
@laj4186
@laj4186 5 жыл бұрын
Any man holding any value would be ashamed to ask anyone to buy him groceries!
@lisamama5690
@lisamama5690 5 жыл бұрын
Why was he in the grocery store and he needed you to buy his groceries. Like Steve said...he has not grown up yet. It sounds like he's a bum!
@Michelle-pn9xt
@Michelle-pn9xt 5 жыл бұрын
Maybe he wanted someone else to buy his food. When I go to the store people push their items very close to mine as if they expect me to pay for them. I move my items and they push their food and other items as close as they can get to my things. It seems as if lots of people come to the store with no money..
@lisamama5690
@lisamama5690 5 жыл бұрын
@@Michelle-pn9xt My hubby did the self-serve and did not pay for his food. He was sad that day.
@JEO301983
@JEO301983 5 жыл бұрын
' even had the Nerve to ask her for Money.🙄 Lady you are too kind hearted, beautiful and put together for this, Better is Coming for you.
@shawna8134
@shawna8134 5 жыл бұрын
What she doing with a 26 year old? Smh can’t be this desperate
@Michelle-pn9xt
@Michelle-pn9xt 5 жыл бұрын
His age is not the issue. He is a man. They are both adults. His wants her to pay for his food and his vehicle. That is the problem.
@georgec8210
@georgec8210 5 жыл бұрын
His age is the issue Michelle. How many 26 year olds have their life together? Just answer me this Michelle please would it be ok if it was the other way around?
@Michelle-pn9xt
@Michelle-pn9xt 5 жыл бұрын
@@georgec8210 It usually is the other way around.
@Michelle-pn9xt
@Michelle-pn9xt 5 жыл бұрын
The same thing that men do with 26 year olds................
@georgec8210
@georgec8210 5 жыл бұрын
@@Michelle-pn9xt I'm just stating the hypocrisy.
@WanderlustVisuals
@WanderlustVisuals 5 жыл бұрын
Umm why is she so expressive, she reminds me of those love and hip hop chicks
@tonisanders3289
@tonisanders3289 5 жыл бұрын
😃😃😃
@nikaf4298
@nikaf4298 5 жыл бұрын
He was 21 when they met?🥴 sis he think you his suga momma pls be better than this
@tonisanders3289
@tonisanders3289 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@Michelle-pn9xt
@Michelle-pn9xt 5 жыл бұрын
not old enough to be any type of momma fir this man...............
@carmengenna4630
@carmengenna4630 4 жыл бұрын
Can’t believe she had too ask Steve,GIRL WHATS WRONG WITH YOU
@SibahleMbali
@SibahleMbali 5 жыл бұрын
Anyone from South Africa🇿🇦
@ZahMthethwa
@ZahMthethwa 5 жыл бұрын
Mbalentle Ngalo 👋
@oluwatobiasekun4692
@oluwatobiasekun4692 5 жыл бұрын
Honestly, some women need a knock to reset their head. Did she need someone else to tell her what she should already know? Come on woman! She should get that horse and ride out of town.
@cartier2312
@cartier2312 5 жыл бұрын
She gorgeous 😩💕💕💕
@BingoBangoBongoBOOM
@BingoBangoBongoBOOM 2 жыл бұрын
This is funny. I have known MANY women who will consider getting back with a guy who cheated on them, but completely ignore the faithful guys. It's like a subconscious attraction to the exact guys they shouldn't take seriously. The cheater is exciting and makes her feel the emotional ups-and-downs that she craves, while the faithful guy might be a little more boring, yet stable. My own mother has had this affliction her entire life and it took me into my 30s to realize it fully.
@Ibochic1
@Ibochic1 5 жыл бұрын
Wow. I don’t even know what to type! This lady... smdh...
@myrahj1482
@myrahj1482 5 жыл бұрын
Girlfriend... all the signs are there to RUN!!! If you go back to him & get pregnant (Cause thats the plan) You're asking for a life of misery. Please slow down and network with someone on your level. Don't be whipped, that won't keep you happy & you need someone ready for the life you want to make.
@Christian80806
@Christian80806 5 жыл бұрын
These old women needa get a grip. Too old for this crap 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️
@Michelle-pn9xt
@Michelle-pn9xt 5 жыл бұрын
That woman is not old! She is in her thirties. You are tooo childish to watch this video!!!!
@Christian80806
@Christian80806 5 жыл бұрын
Michelle no
@Waltjoh100
@Waltjoh100 5 жыл бұрын
Successful on her level, attractive guys like she wants want younger women if they want a wife.
@farhanazm
@farhanazm 5 жыл бұрын
OMG I wrote my comment before I finish watching the video, and Mr. Harvey advised her the same thing. Lol 😂.
@candicemills4448
@candicemills4448 5 жыл бұрын
He is 16 nt 26 she should no tht......omg he can't take care of him self
@tomtom1857
@tomtom1857 5 жыл бұрын
No the guy is 26
@SoLiTaRyBoNe
@SoLiTaRyBoNe 5 жыл бұрын
@@tomtom1857 bro I think that was a metaphorical comment on his mentality and actions
@tomtom1857
@tomtom1857 5 жыл бұрын
@@SoLiTaRyBoNe ok thanks
@stinemcdonald4885
@stinemcdonald4885 5 жыл бұрын
When Steve asked if she knew how to ride a horse though...LOL.
@ChasingCarson
@ChasingCarson 5 жыл бұрын
Stop calling women dumb, sometimes you don’t realize how bad it sounds til you hear yourself or get someone else’s opinion.
@dbigtime10bt
@dbigtime10bt 5 жыл бұрын
Agreed 100% !
@cchany14
@cchany14 5 жыл бұрын
Please Mr Steve say it louder for the ladies in the back. God have mercy!
@barryp9463
@barryp9463 5 жыл бұрын
listen to your brain he is trying to play you let that go
@sussexseaangler1858
@sussexseaangler1858 5 жыл бұрын
Turn and run. Keep running till he is a speck on the horizon. And never look back!
@kevada1222
@kevada1222 5 жыл бұрын
Is she for real?
@missfancy5708
@missfancy5708 5 жыл бұрын
KevAda 1 My thought too! Common sense is not common. 🤔
@kevada1222
@kevada1222 5 жыл бұрын
@@missfancy5708 I don't think she listens to herself.
@MsJP
@MsJP 5 жыл бұрын
Can't believe she asking that question...smh... This was a no brainier...That's y Steve cut her off
@carlosotero772
@carlosotero772 5 жыл бұрын
Lmfaooo she was with a kid since he was 21 and she found out he cheated? Lol big surprised
@BiiMesiah
@BiiMesiah 5 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY. OMG.
@linuxsurfer2002
@linuxsurfer2002 2 жыл бұрын
Steve keeping it real as always! This guy needs to grow up and learn to commit, and there's no guarantee he will ever do either of those things, so I say move on.
@49ers_red_and_gold2
@49ers_red_and_gold2 5 жыл бұрын
She like my clock is tick tick ticking ⏰
@paradiseinparaguay7714
@paradiseinparaguay7714 5 жыл бұрын
This was sad to watch.
@dotmanmide
@dotmanmide 5 жыл бұрын
Was still giving the dude benefit of the doubt, until she mentioned groceries. Woman just need to make herself more available. She'll find a better man. Just a little harder these days.
@yomidada3760
@yomidada3760 5 жыл бұрын
I got that Uncle Steve! Running into someone don't necessarily men you meant to be together. I ran into a young lady I asked out for a relationship back in the university, and still tried to continue after college till I realized she married that touched me but I'm happy for her. I guess early this year I ran into her and I kinda reminisce. Some thoughts came up like probably we meant to be, But I got to move on she married.
@stesfai
@stesfai 5 жыл бұрын
THIS IS WHY YOU DO NOT, I REPEAT DO NOT HELP A MAN BUILD!!! MEN WILL USE YOUR RESOURCES TO COME UP THEN LEAVE YOU!!
@cnsummers4086
@cnsummers4086 5 жыл бұрын
This deserves a 1,000 likes! Amen 👏👏💯🤦 It's a hard truth but every woman should hear this
@georgec8210
@georgec8210 5 жыл бұрын
Ok so don't help him build and after complain he is broke and not taking care of u.
@cookie-sn5ex
@cookie-sn5ex 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t think this is the case for all of them . But if they’re just asking u for bread then run.. no man should do that. That’s embarrassing
@navajo237
@navajo237 5 жыл бұрын
She is beautiful. I'd love to take her out and treat her right. She seems like she has a nice personality too. SHe has a lot going for her. She needs someone on her level.
@thaBootyologist
@thaBootyologist 5 жыл бұрын
Idk why but when Steve asked “Do you know how to ride a horse?” I said to myself I know she can ride that D 😂😂😂😂
@angelaalston176
@angelaalston176 5 жыл бұрын
Uncle Steve had me weak at work😳😁🙌🙏 🐎
@asharamsamy2307
@asharamsamy2307 5 жыл бұрын
Woman go and sit down
@funmiade575
@funmiade575 5 жыл бұрын
Lmao.
@Corekidbeenybunny
@Corekidbeenybunny 4 жыл бұрын
Once someone cheats it’s bye bye and never see that person ever again.
@jamin6517
@jamin6517 5 жыл бұрын
Um... she helped him launch his business and do what with it? Clearly it didn’t prosper. 26? He’s a young kid
@Michelle-pn9xt
@Michelle-pn9xt 5 жыл бұрын
12 is a young kid. 26 years old is a young man!
@chanellevanterpool8747
@chanellevanterpool8747 5 жыл бұрын
Girl keep stepping 💃💃
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