Hey Steve: Can I Trust My Cheating Girlfriend Again? 👩‍🦰 🤥 II STEVE HARVEY

[@setsom2857]

Cheating girlfriend is much easier to get rid of than a cheating wife.

[@Ricky-gc9cn]

Facts

[@alphagodvon]

Facts bro

[@frenchyalicea649]

And cheaper!!

[@martellkilpatrick-roberts6788]

Very true! I totally agree

[@jgood4010]

Yes Run now lol

[@setsom2857]

Catching someone cheating when you're not married to them is a red herring. Avoid the expensive wedding, kids and divorce.

[@kanyunyuzirose8293]

H0a

[@vonhapsberg]

i think u mean red flag? red herring is like a clue which is intended to be misleading.

[@demekaray8255]

Great advice! Where were you when I was only dating my ex-husband?? 😂😂😂

[@setsom2857]

@@demekaray8255 More than likely out cheating on my girlfriend back then. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Hey, i did not say I was perfect. I married the one person I did not have the desire to cheat on. It's been 20 years strong, but I take this relationship like an alcoholic, one day at a time. I'm not planning on cheating today, but I'm going to have to pray on tomorrow. I barely drink, I don't gamble, and I don't smoke. But, I love me some women. However, I love my wife and child more than my one temptation.

[@setsom2857]

@@vonhapsberg Cheating before marrying a particular individual is a "clue" that infidelity will rain in on the intended monogamous relationship. I don't know where you internet English Language correctional officers are popping up from lately...… 🙄🙄🙄🙄 I think 130 people understood what I was conveying before you threw piss on the fire. 🤨🤨

[@linuxsurfer2002]

Here's the thing with the cheater: You don't just "accidentally" meet someone at a bar and go home with them. That takes a series of purposeful decisions that go against the relationship. A healthy girlfriend or boyfriend sets boundaries so they don't make a monumental mistake like this. Kissing someone in a bar might pass as an accident. Going home with someone is not. Find a new girlfriend.

[@m.a.1874]

Same with guys cheating

[@SuperPrestogamer]

@@m.a.1874 obviously you didn’t read that he included boyfriend/girlfriend in this comment, and wanted to change this into a man issue, when he’s not saying it’s one gender who cheats

[@onutube6392]

Doesn't account for being blackout drunk

[@BarnzTT]

How the heck do you accidentally kiss someone? I am a dude but no way in hell that I will kiss a random girl at bar you just do not know where their mouth has been.

[@maggiej800]

@@onutube6392 Still not an excuse.

[@simonbell8957]

She would have never came clean if the other guy didn't see her. Count your blessings, walk away

[@rubystruth]

True

[@Andy-hy1co]

Exactly

[@KatKitty777]

This attorney needs his own show. He's really good.

[@SteveTVShow]

We love to hear this!

[@schnioula]

And handsome 😊❤

[@DiandraStarShine]

ikr? he's *The Compassionate Divorce Attorney.* 😊🧚🏾‍♂

[@aena5995]

@@DiandraStarShine omg i thought he is familiar his clip was going viral

[@eleanormartinez4435]

I love how Steve always come back with a statement that makes real sense

[@jayarajjohnson2476]

Yes. his explanation and final conclusion is the best.

[@Ebostic711]

If you feel the need to cheat just leave the relationship. And never trust a cheater!

[@Giulia-om2gl]

Well said

[@SteveTVShow]

What makes people stay instead of leaving a relationship if they want to do be intimate with someone else?

[@LF-fl9go]

They think they won’t get caught.

[@imjustaturkey9913]

@@SteveTVShow ive been through it and it is stability, attachment and fear of loneliness, theres more security staying with the long lasting one

[@karenswiney9759]

A leopard doesn't change its spots.

[@YourNextAmazingStory]

She didn't make a MISTAKE...she made a CHOICE! A mistake is done unconsciously without knowing. A choice is, "I know I have a boyfriend and I know this is wrong and it will hurt him, but i'm going to cheat anyway". She got caught and now she says it's a mistake. I call BS.

[@coureenlawrence4915]

It really irks me when they say cheating is a mistake, it's not, period..

[@eboniclarke177]

My husband is a creature of habit too. That's why I trust him. Whether I'm home or not I know where he is and what he's doing.

[@JannatulFerdous87721]

Same here ! And if he’s doing something a lil different he’ll give me a heads up so that I’m aware

[@AtimTimLives]

I thought this was strange because my husband does this too lol. He is kind of a homebody anyway but when he needs to change his schedule he always gives a heads up, like where, when, with who, when he'll be back, calls while there, like without being asked...I thought it was too much and I was not used to it because I was in a TERRIBLE relationship before where I was always investigating 🙄... went to the ex's house unexpectedly and YUP found out why. Left his sorry behind and now I know it's respectful and builds trust when your partner checks in.

[@keepitfrankwithfentse]

@@AtimTimLives Same. That check in is something I had to get used to bur I appreciate that he tells me what he is doing so I never have to wonder

[@DJ_Ndiks]

You can never trust someone who cheats on you whether they are man or woman.

[@g.vens_official5545]

That’s a fact

[@sidneyhill7064]

So people can't change

[@FollowerOfGODBeliverOfJESUS]

@@sidneyhill7064 yes they can don't let someone online that's been hurt steer you in the wrong direction

[@gregthomas3953]

@@sidneyhill7064 you cheated huh? Lol

[@sidneyhill7064]

@@gregthomas3953 you cheated huh: lol Man everyone can and do change at some point. This cancel culture is evil. Everyone has done something wrong, so does that mean the thing you done wrong you can't change absurd

[@NH-tb2sm]

The attorney is amazing and gives terrific advice. He needs a show of his own

[@darvin50k]

To the person reading this: Even though I don’t know you, I wish you the best of what life has to offer ❤️

[@elisabethjones4917]

Thank you

[@bontle542]

Same to you❤️

[@malikcaines82]

✊🏾 same

[@ritaschalla2279]

Darvin 50k That is such a nice thing to write to us ~ us that you don't know. Thank you, for your kindness!! I wish for you the same always! 💕

[@lynephinekerubo4296]

Thank you

[@dman7986]

cheating is not a mistake its a choice..

[@coureenlawrence4915]

For real..

[@isabellacostello5058]

Yet Steve did it 🙃 idk why so many people excuse it for guys and say “they can change for the right one”

[@annuallyannual9444]

And when the second man don't want them((those woman)) they will back to the first man they are saying it was a mistake!!!! Cheater always are acheater

[@gedogdarker7211]

I agree 100 percent completly

[@annabanabanana]

As a woman I will just say no you can’t trust her. Sorry it sucks but she probably is comfortable with you and doesn’t want to be alone. She will leave when someone she has stronger feelings for comes along. Sucks but in the long run save yourself the heartache and rip off the bandaid.

[@Batman6544]

Agreed

[@dopeintellect1]

Damn

[@berryboy4280]

Love the way Steve is so honest!!

[@kulhemhlongo]

I prefer to be told "I'm loving someone else it's over between us" than being cheated on.

[@xxkissmeketutxx]

Lol, do you think that happens BEFORE the cheating.??

[@kulhemhlongo]

@@xxkissmeketutxx nah it starts when you EXCHANGE digits cheating has started

[@lesliepropheter5040]

And if you don’t get it, you’re stupid, it’s all your fault

[@MoonHashira.]

I'm not even gona have a conversation after she cheated, I'd just leave

[@cp2342]

Totally agree 🙌

[@BlonThxD]

Easy to say and hard to do have own experience

[@maryfrimpong]

I would want an explanation of what i have done so that I don't make the same mistake twice lolz

[@moniempire3293]

Exactly.

[@chibuzormartin2143]

Sure thing bro.💯

[@abdirizakmohamed8839]

Cheating is a choice

[@coureenlawrence4915]

Most definitely..

[@ing9545]

Steve gives better advice than the lawyer .

[@donnabanks7656]

Steve is on Point most of the times! I love it!!!

[@virginiaboone8163]

Sorry but I believe if the tables were turned and a woman said the same thing about her boyfriend coming out of a bar with another girl, Steve would say that she should give him another chance. It’s still a man’s world.

[@donnabanks7656]

@@virginiaboone8163 I didn't know that. Interesting.

[@SammySam316]

​@@virginiaboone8163ah watch other episodes where he's asked a girl to walk away or if the cheating man came to him, he simply said that he can't expect a girl to forgive over night and it may take years to forgive if she actually decides to stay.

[@jewelv]

Being deceived always leaves traces even if we say we have forgiven! There is a crack in the relationship and it can't be like before! Trust is gone!

[@jallowjerry9452]

Jewel you beautiful. Are you single

[@pattiv3741]

I love Steve Harvey❤❤❤. He’s real….

[@SteveTVShow]

Thank you for your kind words!

[@theofficialvontae]

Great questions and I love how raw Steve was with his answers! Very spot on! We love ya Steve, keep dropping gems! ❤

[@SteveTVShow]

Thanks for being a fan!

[@theofficialvontae]

@@SteveTVShow yes!!! Also, I would love to come on the show and SING for Steve! Any new segments coming up that need singers?

[@shree2ann]

Uncle Steve hit the nail on the head with the last one

[@iscomakanaky]

Can I trust my cheating gf again 😂😂😂😂. No you can’t bro, it’s cheating and she’ll do it again.

[@SteveTVShow]

is it possible for someone to make a mistake just once?

[@imjustaturkey9913]

@@SteveTVShow yes but the risk to reward ratio just isnt worh it

[@iscomakanaky]

@@SteveTVShow Yes it’s possible. As for cheating, it isn’t a mistake. You must have put yourself in that position to cheat. You’ll willingly cheat especially when a woman cheats. They do it with their emotions. So if you cheat that’s the end of our relationship

[@sethmorgan833]

My ex cheated on me and I never looked at her the same again. No matter how much I tried to forgive, and make it work out, I just couldn't get that image of her cheating out of my brain. So after some years of trying I walked away and never returned. The trust and love was no longer there.

[@B.A.B.G.]

@@SteveTVShow Yes, it's possible.

[@pranavgawade4713]

Mr Harvey never gets old

[@evae.374]

Solid advice for both!! I love how they are helping women face reality

[@Kori123]

"Why does one person have to be your everything?"

[@tory198511]

Steve don't play no games! He tell you straight like it is and I love him for that. He say the women just plug their self into the equation. Most of us do that. I don't because I run from relationships but I'm trying to change but not for the worst. I am an action person. I have to see actions with men and not go with words. I'm glad that I've learned that over the years. Every word that they do speak a action has to follow and every word has a time limit on that action coming. Or deuces! 😊

[@paulagibson7318]

You don't Hurt people you love .

[@mobilepsycho]

You do if they don't love you back. In some cases...eventually we are all human and we move from defensive to offensive.

[@naimaabdullahi6272]

@@mobilepsycho spoke like a cheater. Always justify their nasty behavior. If you don't feel loved you can easily leave instead of taking the dishonorable route.

[@spiritualempress6691]

Yup no doubts about my SO he told me a week after we met we’re gonna get married like he just knew not “ I want to get married and have kids someday etc.” he inserted “us” into his future immediately and still does constantly and he backs what he says he’s gonna do with action. I never understood how people can be in a relationship for years and years and still wonder? Like if you have doubt, get out. Why should you have to invest that long to still be wondering?

[@jasmainjasmain2906]

Mental game playing on vulnerability... easy to get caught into it

[@OneWomanMan888]

Do not cheat in your relationship, you lose everything.

[@OneWomanMan888]

@ymarrero23 Of course two guys in a relationship have nothing to lose.

[@annrrf1464]

@ymarrero23 did your home, car and business hug, love and show you affection when you came back from work?

[@stewartmuwangala2053]

I’m glad Steve told that first guy to get new chick. Why?? When someone is forgiven for something they know they shouldn’t be forgiven for, they repeat it. Even children do that.

[@ambertorres5358]

💯. There are billions of women in the world and he wants to stay with one that has no respect for him. Makes no sense. Send her back to the streets.

[@queenprincess4life]

@@ambertorres5358 women do it all the time with guys, heck even my old pastor wife’s keeps forgiving him. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@xzgun100]

He's almost a good actor. He had the right pauses in his script and good facial expressions. 🤣

[@mariafortino3450]

He was a bit stiff in his dialogue. lol

[@xzgun100]

The lip gloss also gave him away

[@karlmyles9097]

I was wondering if I was the only person who caught that until I saw this comment. lol

[@sensimania]

I was just thinking that, lol! He's good enough for a Lifetime or Hallmark movie

[@MsDd33]

@@sensimania here to add Prime or Tubi to the list 😂

[@MyWayWendy]

You're smart to forgive her, but you're not stupid to trust her again..

[@katiesalvadore7306]

This

[@debbieechiribel1860]

Smart to forgive & smart to leave her too but don't look back in your rear view mirror

[@ambertorres5358]

💯. You forgive for your own sanity and let them see nothing but your back as you walk away. Nothing personal, you're just not my type of person lol.

[@earthzone85]

@@ambertorres5358 exactly

[@davidjohnpaul7558]

NO LEAVE...People don't change. Once a cheater, always a cheater...

[@risingsuperstars8362]

Steve really gives great advice

[@annrrf1464]

James Sexton's book 'How to Stay in Love' is brilliant

[@westcoastbred7745]

Steve just shattered that girls dreams at the end😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀💀. Serves her right for assuming she will end up with him and that he wants to be her life partner

[@osirusj275]

Wow 3yrs and his not gonna marry her, that dude is just stringing her along for fear of loneliness...

[@terrywade3696]

@@osirusj275 No, he’s stringing her along because she’s giving him sex.

[@osirusj275]

@@terrywade3696 it could be he stringing her along hoping she would give out cookies

[@osirusj275]

@@terrywade3696 so I guess it's right that that ladies don't give cookies b4 marriage, coz if they do, the guy might be stringing along not being serious and there's no way to tell if his serious if the cookies alrdy been given out

[@jackrosado746]

Could you imagine havin a man like that, who love you, work hard, and wanna spend life with you, AND HE HANDSOME? girl if you gonna cheat on that then the streets callin yo name.

[@chitaluchishimba2022]

This guy needs a show of his own...very intelligent

[@Poisaen]

can i trust my “cheating” gf, i think you have the answer bro

[@aliciamirelleemmanuel8965]

Love her enough to let her go.....PERIOD

[@swestwest7222]

It took you 4 years to decide you wanted to marry her. She may have had 2 years max in her mind before she moved on.

[@shellcross53]

Exactly

[@nataliewalters2759]

Yeah , that’s probably what happened

[@gregthomas3953]

Don't deflect. If she was unhappy with that, her ass shoulda left a long time ago. Fact of the matter is this: she was in the wrong, she's a cheater, and it was a choice...not a mistake.

[@olubukolaabuno]

Marriage is longer than 4years. She couldn't stay faithful for 4years; what will then happen to staying faithful for many years in a marriage.

[@queenprincess4life]

Right! If the shoe was on the other foot they would tell the woman to forgive the cheating man.

[@cp2342]

No you can’t trust her she cheated if she cared, loved you and respected you she shouldn’t have cheated too busy wanting another to share a bed with someone else that’s disrespectful and shows no love in my opinion.

[@rynayes8059]

Steve is on point

[@nostol6471]

Whats stopping her from cheating "Again"?

[@abdulazeezakanji5950]

She did it because it's easy for her

[@dopeintellect1]

Opportunity

[@tonyasmithe]

Love how Steve in the back being quiet when he himself was a cheater to his first wife. The person’s question brought back so many memories to why he’s with Majorie now

[@percyjackson5417]

Good to have insight from both the victim and cheater tho!

[@SammySam316]

That's why he advised him to move one. Steve knows what's up

[@Nicetrybrobro]

Bro leave her. Don’t marry her then she cheats again and then takes half you stuff too. No man, move on. You deserve better.

[@ericag1276]

It would be different if she told him instead of getting caught, that would be more believable of it being a mistake. The fact that not only she cheated but he had to hear it from someone else isn’t a guilty person. Cheating is an act of selfishness. Love isn’t selfish, if your not satisfied in your relationship then that’s a reason to leave not cheat. The fact that this happened before he proposed and said I do, is a blessing. It’s hard to see because of the pain and disappointment but later on he’ll see the bigger picture. It was a exit door provided.

[@LF-fl9go]

Some good points Erica

[@DrHugoMD]

Wow!! Great perspective I must say..👌

[@sageforce9306]

Steve gave a more practical answer for the first guy than the guest

[@MyWayWendy]

You can forgive her, but the trust was already damage, can you live with the scar?

[@queenprincess4life]

Women do all the time. It took him four years to see if he wanted to marry her and a date with someone else isn’t sleeping with them. She’s exploring her options since 4 years is a long time in the dating world.

[@ParisianBreakfast]

@@queenprincess4life the man said that she admitted that she cheated. It's deeper than looking for options, she should have stood up for herself and left.

[@obianujuanyamene8678]

She is sorry because she was caught. What if you didn't catch her, will that be a mistake. Let her go.

[@lizrozon6308]

You can tell he wanted some air time Lmaoo

[@sarahpeyton1640]

Steve speaks the truth

[@urgirlie22]

only when they got caught is when there sorry

[@jayarajjohnson2476]

Steve's advice is spot on.

[@denolog1034]

Cheating isn't a mistake period!

[@vwbugchic1961]

I.don't do second chances not in this case the trust is broken things will never be the same it doesn't matter how many ways you try and work it it's over.!

[@vwbugchic1961]

@Martin well , Yes really not on something like this once a vow is broken that's it period!!

[@ferdsbayas1116]

Once a cheater always a cheater.

[@schawnettarobinson8584]

He gives great advice.

[@kennettabradford6566]

This guy is hurt. Hopefully he finds a faithful woman that will treat him right

[@binary_mor5079]

Great advise from Steve. The other men didn’t want him to feel bad. So he didn’t just open up to him directly 💯💯

[@MyTruth-Sunshineafterthera-x7h]

You can tell that this man was really hurt, he really loves her but thank God he loves himself more, he deserves better. All Steves advice was excellent

[@jonnyOysters]

My opinion about this is.... Even if they are genuinely sorry, and want to try maintain the relationship. You can't put toothpaste back into the tube. That trust is broken, and may never come back. It would take a lot of hard work to keep that relationship going. Which in the end probably isn't worth it. So if someone cheats you just have to let them go. Not worth it.

[@RhodaK.]

Funny Steve tells women to give men a second chance when they cheat, but when a woman cheats get rid of her immediately, the double standards makes me vomit.

[@kevijiinsupportofukraine6673]

It’s tough man. My EX left because she had another man. At first she said she is just leaving because she needs space and figure things out on her own. Asked me to wait. As innocent as this is, I accepted and she convinced me that this will be great for us. So I didn’t think too much about that but then 2 days later, I caught her out on a date with a guy. Confronted her and she said, well… we are not together anymore and the next day she confirmed to me that the guy is now her boyfriend and tried again to convince me that they just met the day after she asked for some space and I was supposed to believe that just two days later they happened to be in a serious relationship. Girls are just so manipulative and idk if I can trust another girl again.

[@rayhend6698]

I cannot fathom what there is to talk about once your woman has cheated. Go, my brother and find someone better. You more easily can than she could.

[@elizabethcotter5615]

Just one thing to remember if someone cheats on you is…. A leopard never changes their spots. Which means that they will never change or even want to change until they get caught so it’s time to move on and up! That goes for men and women!

[@fadelfaleke7082]

One of my biggest dream is to meet Steve Harvey one-on-one someday

[@braveheart1659]

All things are possible ❤

[@hadizaabdul4902]

Hmmm...the last lady and the advise Steve gave was something to REALLY think about!

[@JakeJon]

This guy looks like he was doing a monologue audition.

[@Isaiahr7]

True uncle Steve thats true. Men say exactly what woman want to hear.

[@AndySaenz]

No, you can never trust a cheater again. If they cheat once, they will do it again. It becomes a pattern, a habit of deceit.

[@veeedgee]

5:50 is actually good advice!! - Through the rest of the video!

[@Emankanan-b3d]

i stuck with the same food when i go to the restaurant 😂😂😂

[@pudgie011]

A women usually admits to cheating but a man will always deny it even with proof! She wasn't meant for you move on and find someone who really loves you.

[@frenchtoast7742]

Exactly!💯We are more truthful!

[@كوكتيلضحك-ق5ص]

having a boyfriend or a girlfriend is not a relationship ! it's a practice for divorce! if marriage is not the goal then it's just a wasting of time!

[@ladyofspa]

I agree it Is practice until the ideal partner comes along. Not a complete waste cause both parties often need to grow up, but often someone is gonna get hurt one is often more committed than the other. Also sometimes what starts off as a great match is not!

[@كوكتيلضحك-ق5ص]

@@ladyofspa Im a Muslim ! so no relationship before marriage because marriage is THE relationship ! if we like eachother then marriage is the goal ! otherwise it's just a waste of time especially for the girl!!but the west culture makes marriage hard and divorce harder so men are afraid of commitment !

[@LLagi]

It seems as though he was placed in the audience to ask that question.... But a question we all wonder about

[@mattblake897]

No doubt, he is a terrible actor.

[@mwesigwaphoebe2856]

It's the "I know that's right" from Steve😂😂😂😂

[@dianalogan6185]

James answers on point 🙏🏾

[@Dimaz42]

cheating is more like a choice than a mistake, or at the very least a deliberate mistake, not an accidental one.. if that's the case, it's only a matter of time before that person makes another _mistake_

[@draconian7378]

Uncle Steve's advice for the first case was just ideal.

[@clarencejacksonjr.]

That guy was hurting.

[@mhmdd]

Love how James and Steve provide two different prespectives

[@kylecormack8827]

That’s dudes an actor

[@donnabanks7656]

I kind of picked that up too. But he asked a really good question for all to learn.

[@butterflyygyrlsworld5106]

The guy with the “cheating girlfriend” seemed like he was acting…

[@ayo9845]

Glad someone pointed it out. Its otherwise concerning if he is that naturally unatural. Could it have been nerves? Strange to me...

[@annemonette6678]

Yes. Was he cheating and just didn't get caught. Is he a narc?

[@rachelmyers3228]

Yes! Who says ‘then something big happened’. It sounds like a tv show narration. In this case, I hope we’re right and that yet another person was not betrayed in this way.

[@johnakwetey5008]

Hi beautiful

[@johnakwetey5008]

@@rachelmyers3228 Hi

[@TheHappyPotatoe]

That third one, the blonde with the musician boyfriend is exactly what's wrong with women they only ever want to be at the finish line not be there for the whole race, women if you want that famous man understand what it truly means to be ride till die

[@Dany-zk5cd]

Steve’s advice is the best

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

NO. Cheating is a Statement. Your not ENOUGH! I want something different. I'm Incapable of being Monagumus!

[@dloco14]

You can love her but don’t trust her man

[@WayCoolNurse]

Nope! Nope! Nope! Run like the wind!

[@TruePathLiving]

This guy is evidently an actor.

[@rosemarynjenga6973]

That's a red flag better a broken relationship than a broken marriage

[@carolyndelong4737]

The doctor have great advice ❤

[@tonyfrazier6857]

"I don't wanna be made out a fool." The fact that you're on the show asking for advice instead of just ending things, shows that you are indeed a fool.....

[@devonteoconnor1063]

Steve is smart!!!!

[@thestig8133]

1st qtn is WHY did these people CHEAT!!! in the first place? 2nd is why didn't they discuss their relationship first if they think it is not working out for one of them before doing such a low DISPICAPLE thing & making things WORSE!!!! for the other person. & 3rd why not try to break up ( if that is what it will be ) much more easier on the other person ( like a friendship way) DON'T BE SO LOW & CALOUS!!! in just having a affair behind their back. I know many just prefer to have the affair or several types of affairs ( more than 1 other partner during the affair) during the original so called relationship & trying to hide it from their present partner. It doesn't matter if that present partner is lacking anything ( possibly bedroom area or something else) TRY TO TALK about it first before doing something RASH!!! ( STUPID!!!!) I couldn't go back to someone who CHEATED!!! on me regardless of how much i loved them & how much it hurts. knowing it will happen again & again & again. 😠😠😠😠😡😡😡👎👎👎👎

[@sascharosinski1309]

Why they did it that way??? 'Cause they thought, they could get away with it!!! 🙄

[@multimediaolyp3868]

Thanks Steve got his audible book

[@Darryl217]

I can see the pain in his eyes you can just tell he hurting bad I was the same way when ex cheated when was together keep your head my man🫡