Why Did You Cheat? One Couple Confronts Each Other On Infidelity | Iris

From the makers of "Hurt Bae" comes another episode in the "Broken" series, exploring cheating and infidelity. Ana and Ballesa came together to talk about how infidelity impacted their relationship.
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Why Did You Cheat? One Couple Confronts Each Other On Infidelity | Iris

[@TanoaleaE131211]

“I was expecting you to yell, and you being silent was so much worse”. That hit me hard.

[@laagan4366]

omg

[@isabellegladden3872]

same ugh

[@brendapina1036]

Leah Eteuati yes! I felt that through the screen

[@christopherguardian519]

That was more scary being silent

[@jayal5771]

Means you're dead to me 😂😂😂

[@aidee4186]

I hate how the girl with long hair played the victim when she is the one at fault. The girl with glasses doesn’t deserve this, she was loyal.

[@mauroflores9820]

Yuna fr

[@zdustypunisher]

The cheater always plays victim.

[@DoomshopMF312]

She ugly anyways

[@GivingUmami]

Facts, I peeped that real quick lol . My head turned to the left like "Oh no she didn't start that victim crap." lol

[@رزان-ط5ز]

No she didn't play the victim she was sad that's what it seem to me.... they both love eachother and love therelationship they're in, they both were sad of what they did to eachother

[@melissah5805]

Cheating destroys a persons self worth. Just leave instead of cheating. People suck

[@saydethelittle2741]

MeLIsSa H it really does. It’s so unfair.

[@sophiayamagughi]

Ikr i would disappear if my lover cheated

[@naylaherrera1863]

Humanity is the worst monster

[@naylaherrera1863]

@@sophiayamagughi same

[@AlexCrl200]

Yeah people suck.Because people only see only one perspective.Yes cheating is fucked up.But she did feel remorse afterwards she did regret it.People sometimes need to learn how to see and understand other perspectives and they need to forgive sometimes.Cause we all fuck up.No Im not saying cheating is alright.Obviously it fucking sucks.But at least in this instant they worked things out and they're now stronger than ever together.And I think thats a win.A win that wouldnt have happened if they let it go and didnt forgive.

[@digitalskill]

Long haired girl is so manipulative. She's trying to play the victim. She cheated first... You brought this upon yourself.

[@jessbea5034]

She's a sket innit

[@aliviabean219]

I know it was pissing me off the whole time

[@tieiatalks]

Dread when she had the nerve to say, “I died a little inside.” when she realized that she cheated it made me angry. REALIZED?! 😒🙄

[@cathym7467]

Yup

[@AlexCrl200]

@@tieiatalks She means that she was caught up in that moment and at first she hadnt realized what shed done.I didnt get mad.She said she felt horrible about it.

[@arlenealvarez9545]

After a person cheats. It’s never really the same. Scars being bandaged together are still scars bleeding eternally. You forgive but you don’t forget.

[@sarahbeltran8592]

jazz minn agreed. Forgiving is not forgetting. -paramore

[@mikakao5001]

You don´t forget and you don´t have to. It´s an experience you got with a lot of pain and a broken heart. But forgiving is the best you can do. Hating is the wrong way. Revenge is the wrong way. I can understand if you want to hurt the person as much as they hurt you. But it´s not the answer. Me and my partner often talked about what happened when we got together the second time. It helped so much. Yes the scars are not healed yet and yes they bleed some times. But you both or even you alone can fix this with forgiving and loving.

[@inagarbe4160]

Trust is like an egg. Hard to obtein, and so easy to break... People must think twice! Don't do to anyone what you wouldn't like someone make to youuuuu

[@camillac.5695]

jazz minn y'all so extra omg she just cheated it's not the end of the world holy crap

[@kairimonster]

You explained it perfectly

[@soccerchick9841]

“When you cheated on me” First off, they weren’t together anymore, I love how the girl with the long hair is playing victim. Like sweetie everything happened because of your actions

[@jalayahcharles9426]

Ikr I hate that

[@loveyoirself4286]

Exactly and instead of continuing it she told her right away, this makes me so mad!

[@tuckerdowns8688]

soccerchick9841 they never split up, short haired girl said she needed space but they never specified a break up/break

[@dumbaby5924]

soccerchick9841 they never officially split one girl just wanted some space

[@gibble2455]

Farah Fabre wanting space is technically wanting to break up. She even said that she was suffocating her

[@Awes731]

Long Hair Girl: "When you started cheating--" Me: Stfu. Stfu right now LOL

[@elysianpattier_]

Ikr, I said the same thing too

[@strawshelly]

LOL

[@estrelladml5882]

Ikr

[@me_care_zero]

😂😂😂

[@lisey06]

Cheating isn't a mistake it's a choice. You don't cheat on someone you love .

[@weenie5912]

And your statement is 100% correct. It's actually a fact.

[@shelbyt1626]

Yes, you can cheat on someone you love. People are complex and they make mistakes. Not all relationships or marriages end when someone is unfaithful. People are not black and white.

[@thimitrakipreou1800]

@@shelbyt1626 beeppp. .wrong ..sorry

[@thimitrakipreou1800]

@@shelbyt1626 if you want to cheat. .Don marry..don't be in a relationship. .simple dear..😊

[@shelbyt1626]

@@thimitrakipreou1800 Things are not black and white. You're a child :)

[@speranzai]

Why do cheaters act surprised and heartbroken when their partner cheats back on them smh

[@RashadSims-bh3zz]

I agree with you on that like really

[@strawberryjpeg6000]

Hope Aldana ikr

[@RZanja]

IKR

[@RashadSims-bh3zz]

@@RZanja Main reason why I don't trust women at all u cheat on a good dude but yet he is another chick a compliment nothing else she want to be in her feelings seriously Fuck u

[@jessykamitchell6912]

It's because once you make a new commitment, you hope that together you hold each other to a new level and standard. Once either cheats again, you open up the old wound, and you come to realize that you are not on the same page in your relationship. This is why it can be shocking.

[@foodfood2279]

either be loyal in a relationship or don’t be in one????? it’s literally that simple

[@notkat3662]

Food Food . Preach.

[@swine-swine9255]

Big. Facts.

[@JaciCutiee]

Preach!!!!! Amen to that!

[@mada7393]

Food Food 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤️

[@dianachuqui890]

Facts

[@katalinaanneliese]

of course the one that cheated first plays the victim

[@t3rror5am]

Katalina everytime

[@nicoleshantal3963]

was thinking the same damn thing! smh

[@taurus7911]

Typical narcissistic bitches smh

[@rissa8094]

Katalina which one?

[@sallyr4868]

RIGHT

[@CathyD1976]

The one with the Glasses deserves so much better..the other just seems really immature and so cold

[@erinashleyisabella3577]

Cathy D. True

[@Ayveh]

Agreed! Clearly she didn't love the girl with the green shirt. She can find someone who WON'T cheat on her!

[@pussiriffic]

Totally agree

[@myoldmanbaby]

Really? I didn't see that at all. I felt like they both made a big mistake, and I thought the one that did it first clearly showed remorse, even after all the time that had passed, you can still see how sorry she is.

[@milenarodriguez704]

People who cheat are immature and cold. Like honestly if ppl habe problems in their relationship, break up first

[@briennerobert7434]

the fact the you face timed her with the person that you cheated with is just awful. You may not have known it was going to happen but you just finished facetiming your lover so wouldn't that click something off in your brain, and remind you that hey I love this person I need to stop whatever I'm doing as it could escalate. I honestly have no respect for cheaters.

[@mariahmakil6592]

Bri Ludwig RIGHT !!! She did her so wrong in my opinion. Then she continued to hang out with the person she messed around with.

[@briennerobert7434]

exactly actions always speak louder than words

[@Legendofpickle387]

Yet she acted so hurt the girl with the glasses cheated. The girl with the glasses even said sorry about I️t, long haired chick didn’t say shit about being sorry, just kept putting the blame on her poor ex girlfriend, who by simply looking at her I️ can feel the pain she feels

[@andrewcarson6925]

Bri Ludwig I agree I have a boyfriend he loves ME for ME and accept ME for who I am I love him for him I would never cheat on him and he would never cheat on me we are loyal and honest with each other

[@briennerobert7434]

Yes I am so happy for you love. You deserve the best.

[@angelangel-jf1bm]

“ I fell in love more with you even though you weren’t there “ & the first thing she said was “ idk” , the girl w/ the long hair doesn’t deserve the girl w/ the glasses

[@AlexCrl200]

This was another cut.Its a video its not the whole thing,it was a different cut and she said ''i dk if I should get into the details'' because it was painful for both of them.

[@chonkyween]

I honestly I hate how the chick with the long hair kept trying to play victim when she’s the one that started this whole cycle.

[@trhuyanh1996]

There is no right or wrong here. :)

[@Sky-dj1ww]

The wrong was her cheating in the first place. I’m glad they worked it out and powered through it but she did begin the cycle but it takes real effort to forgive and forget

[@shortcake8612]

And her eyebrows reached the start of her nose 💀

[@dakweenlyrics409]

@@shortcake8612 okay? Mine do the same. I know you don’t like her, I really don’t too but to make fun of her eyebrows when it’s something she can’t control and other people have the same thing it’s straight up bullying!!

[@chandantaneja6388]

She got an excuse to start the victim

[@1CurlyB]

Sorry....but I still don't trust the long haired one. Not because she cheated, but her behavior/attitude seems off to me. Just my opinion.

[@erinashleyisabella3577]

1CurlyB agreed

[@horseboy3269]

1CurlyB I feel like she wasn’t genuine. She kept blaming everyone, but herself. AND she still hung with the girl The girl with the short hair I feel like she did not technically cheat because you guys were on break.

[@JC-jd1us]

The long haired one did alot of victim blaming/playing, and never took responsibility is was more like me this & that. "Not hey I fucked up let's work it out, if you want to sleep with someone else I won't be mad"

[@RashadSims-bh3zz]

@@horseboy3269 she still cheated Fuck a break

[@theheartsees8752]

1CurlyB I can’t stand her either. Something is off about her

[@rookiesatparody]

I don't like the long haired girl, she didn't and still doesn't appreciate her partner. The girl with the glasses is loyal, and it's nearly impossible to find someone like that these days.

[@averagelife5449]

Michelle Tan they both cheated

[@FirstnameLastname-gb4ww]

+average life Can't cheat on a break.

[@shirynaringoy1774]

First name Last name ross is that you?

[@jennifer3744]

shiryn aringoy LMAO😂😂

[@dogeluna556]

First name Last name : Yes you can is considered cheating, if you know you are going to get back with the person why would you go sleep with someone else. What you are just call it a break everytime you want to cheat so is not considered cheating, and then get back with your partner afterwards lol dumb

[@Bluemoon2000x]

Me and my ex could not sit in a room and discuss our past so calmly we would be ripping eachothers heads off literally

[@MySweetGirl1088]

Fluffballz x wasn’t her Ex, so I’d imagine.

[@maryannhoang846]

I don't think you would rip each other's heads off literally. And one person would have a head...

[@Psycissi]

same

[@bayleekaye1077]

Fluffballz x I feel this. If we did what they’re doing in the video, we’d seriously be screaming at each other and more than likely physically fighting which is so bad. They treated me like complete dirt.

[@brandanmentch]

Same here, still together but damn, the past is terrible

[@sel1714]

The fact that the long hair girl is acting as if she’s the victim irritates me🤦🏼‍♀️

[@potatoeskween9834]

Same

[@iniubongnkanga9390]

I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call [phone] or reach him on WhatsApp [phone] and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...

[@makoma_lotus8116]

Typical female trait of not wanting to be accountable.

[@christinamartieniezz2022]

skittles she was at first not the victim but she became a victim herself when the same thing happened they both were victims

[@ima.m.1658]

@@makoma_lotus8116 hahaha “typical female trait” you are delusional. it’s not a “female” trait, you must not respect women because plenty of men also have this trait. Any human can have this trait.

[@HowGreatAreYou]

I think I fell more in love with you even when you weren't there. Damn. My Heart

[@lilithjade4363]

Leslie Petty RIGHT

[@rusk17]

💔

[@indiaxoo]

Felt that 😔

[@TheExtremeOne]

😭😭

[@deadnamesarebad]

I knew she wanted to say "and I fell less in love with you"

[@dewy_kid1615]

Is it wrong to be mad that they're still together? Seriously, I wouldnt want to be in that relationship anymore.

[@unknown-tl1rr]

no its not wrong, becouse i wouldnt ever be in that relationship either i agree with you

[@nutsanamgaladze5232]

Hodan yup

[@hime5727]

Dear, if you love a person, you fight for that. Yes, you can take bad decisions, but love remains there. If people were like in this times and just walk away, no one would ever be happy. Love is a process made by our brains, we cannot stop it, it's not a choice, it's inevitable. So if they decided to remain together, it's because they knew that those love hormones weren't the only ones keeping them together, their hearts did it as well.

[@lunarose5817]

@@hime5727 first sentence is so wrong. No you fucking don't. Being hurt this deeply, especially by the person you love is just cruel. Most people wouldn't want to fight for something that's already dead and ruined, despite of their hurting heart. When one partner cheats on the other, the other has probably lost all of their trust in them. And after they break up, of course it's gonna hurt because the love is still there, however, the pain and betrayal is also there. It all depends on the situation and especially on the people, but fighting is not always the right thing to do. Sometimes, you have to let go. Even if it's the person you love or once loved that you have to let go of.

[@lunarose5817]

In conclusion, no, you don't fight. Most people don't fight. And that's okay and only natural. Fighting for the person you love is not always as romantic as it sounds. It can be a huge mistake, especially a dumb one. It can have a toxic end to it. And when it's toxic, letting go hurts less than holding on. And then the person can heal.

[@emily-vv8iy]

Cheating isn’t a mistake, it’s a choice.

[@suesheification]

Bingo

[@Jay-jd7ru]

Doesn’t mean you can’t love !

[@marisolfernandez675]

emily .... I agree

[@kiyo8991]

Facts 👏🏿

[@ninalang9689]

Juan Vasquez bull fucking shit. You don’t love someone that you cheat on and hurt like that. Why is that always the male lie Juan?

[@miamelendez3979]

"I was expecting you to yell...but you being silent, was so much worst."

[@iniubongnkanga9390]

I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call [phone] or reach him on WhatsApp [phone] and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...

[@skkaws]

She's playing the victim duh

[@missviamlofficial732]

Dont expect so u dont get hurt,,,but I really wish she just yell so there's no more sentence like that lol

[@beargaras]

The girl with the glasses is gorgeous. Also, there was something hauntingly beautiful about this video.

[@Alecexo]

Hazal'ın Kedi Kumu no? Because she’s pretty

[@angeltwin16]

Nicole Vergara She is very beautiful even while crying and sad.

[@Zephyrus47]

Nicole Vergara are you mad?

[@denysedenyse4070]

Nicole Vergara The 🎶 🎹 music

[@tysam5867]

Its the emotions are so real its like watching an oscar winning scene

[@xx-ze2vr]

When she said, "You still hung out with her," I lost every ounce of respect I had left for the girl on the right instantly.

[@teeteeree3540]

I know, right

[@am-ge2wv]

*“I was expecting you to yell, and you being silent was so much worse”* learn a lesson from this.

[@veronicaarchila6010]

YUUUUUUUUUUUUP!!!!!!!!!!!

[@sophiagarcia8921]

FACTSSSSSSS

[@Justin21586]

Exactly!!

[@teabagNBG]

i wish i could press love on this comment!

[@dakweenlyrics409]

3:15

[@AlishbaSadat]

No one: Literally no one: The whole comment section: Long hair girl Short hair girl

[@abigaildamons9201]

😆😆

[@AlishbaSadat]

@Rius. Zamani well I hope this is not an ad and let me ease your pain by sharing one thing that you have listened probably a million times.. the right one will never leave and never hurt you, even if IT does hurt you IT will also be ashamed and will want to get back to you if IT has the true intentions to. Hope this helped you and made your day better :)

[@monicks12]

😅🤣

[@nyikasplace9886]

@Rius. Zamani no you didn't

[@sameerkhan3757]

If it's the whole comment section, how come it's "nobody"..???

[@ericaa7572]

The girl with glasses deserves so much better oh my god, I honestly don’t believe cheaters ever change like sorry, sometimes it’s just in that persons nature to be polyamorous

[@alextheaxolotyl]

Ericaa people who cheat and polyamory are two very different things and have nothing to do with each other

[@renojohnson6330]

both girls cheated tho. The other girl didnt step up and be the bigger person, but she either took revenge, or just complete forgot the other girl.

[@severalgotthatname6356]

Ericaa 'Cheater' isn‘t a character trait. It has to do with each relationship individually.

[@loveyoirself4286]

mask boi no i think the long haired girl is manipulative, the other girl did because she was vulnerable and hurt. But long haired girl was playing victim and making all the other girls fault.

[@alyssariley6837]

Love Yoirself exactly

[@subashneupane9502]

The girl with glass is just perfect !

[@serenitycarranza218]

Fr

[@sydneejackson4356]

Exactly

[@itsmeleni7737]

Right she is just amazing

[@nafeesainaayaiqbal9794]

shes so beautiful !!!

[@iniubongnkanga9390]

I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call [phone] or reach him on WhatsApp [phone] and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...

[@kyrabell6216]

The long-haired girl has no right to be upset with the short-haired girl for hooking up when it seemed they were taking a break because SHE cheated on HER

[@AlexCrl200]

Yes she had a right to be upset and hurt.Because she's human.She didnt blame her or was mad at her.She was just hurt and she has a right to just like everyone.Obviously she loved her,she cheated but she loved her.

[@lcalpilts8361]

Exactly

[@lcalpilts8361]

@@AlexCrl200 No, you don't cheat on someone you love

[@Lkjhgfdsa-l2h]

“When I realized what had been done” bro why do people act like they REALIZE they cheated when they knew wtf they was doing that entire time. People who cheat are people who aren’t comfortable being alone. If you can’t handle not seeing your partner when they gotta be away for a hot minute, and you cheat as a result of it- you didn’t love them. I don’t understand the logic of “I couldn’t take the distance” bc even if you couldn’t- if you truly love someone, it’s always gonna be them no matter what. Fuck cheaters.

[@_Solmega]

Even phrasing it that way was so passive! She should have said, “What I had done” and taken active ownership.

[@cinderea]

That’s your own idea of a relationship. Putting everything in the same category of everyone being monogamous is being dishonest. But i do agree if someone feels like they can’t sustain monogamy they should let their partner know. Polygamy doesn’t mean you don’t love the person. Love comes in different shapes and forms 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Lkjhgfdsa-l2h]

WendyCinderea I got no problems with polygamy. In fact, I personally am for it because it makes it so that the people who a polyamorous can navigate the world and pursue their own relationships with 100% authenticity. That’s no issue with me. But I do take issue with people claiming something is polygamy when the other person in the relationship didn’t consent to it. That’s mf cheating.

[@iniubongnkanga9390]

I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call [phone] or reach him on WhatsApp [phone] and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...

[@beatriceaspiras7662]

This.

[@marieliz2454]

ugh the girl with the glasses is sooooo gorgeous

[@DestaneeofHOPE]

Maritza Urbina agreed!

[@CASSi32009]

she really is!!!!!!!

[@kagitsune]

I was gonna come in the comments to say "if they're broken up I'll take her! 🙋"

[@dummycute4168]

Yes

[@annabelsummer2643]

I'm so gay

[@DestinieLo]

Why would u cheat on someone who gave you the confidence to come out wtf is wrong with you ugh

[@jj-pg3ds]

bbeautisdesvaj exactly ...

[@CrustyUgg]

Bc that's not how life works unfortunately . there are people who have done more for their spouse and done the same thing . doesn't make it right but infidelity will never go away. As a former escort a lot of married men would come by and say they weren't happy but the kids and bills and stuff kept them there and even men who were happy but just get bored of the same old sex. I wouldn't change that experience for the world bc married men shared things with me their wives will never know and it's given me perspective

[@Julilovesapple]

Why would you ever cheat on someone?!😪

[@Jane_is_Mighty]

Someone did that to me:(

[@laurentaylor8544]

It’s really messed

[@sashy2495]

The girl who cheated, I see no love in her eyes.

[@melissamm3086]

Olga rwck it's not authentic.

[@vioig1449]

Well they both cheated but i know who youre referring to

[@charlotted4642]

Vi Oig the one with glasses didn’t cheat only the one with long hair did.

[@vioig1449]

Charlotte D They said they took a break and at 4:28 the one with the glasses said she hooked up with someone else, they didn't split, they were still in a relationship together, they just took a break.

[@jebyrd_580]

i️ mean. didn’t they both cheat

[@MP-zk1yv]

The girl in the short hair looks hurt, poor thing. Why would someone want to cheat? Unless the relationship wasn’t healthy, in this case that doesn’t seem to be.

[@khwajafatmi5882]

It proves that it’s always on the cheater.

[@yurhomi4478]

Because someone looks good they can’t be cheated on?

[@charleyj9379]

She cheated too thi

[@mimasbooboowakanda1089]

Same way Jay z cheated on Beyonce

[@butterpopcorn498]

Love doesnt love no one!

[@manisha3455]

Honestly I know they're both at fault, but I feel like the long haired girl really fucked up. I kinda feel like the short hair one got used. It was hypocritical when long hair was acting super upset that her girlfriend cheated when she was literally the one who put a wedge in the relationship. She cheated when she got the opportunity, out of the blue. Her girlfriend cheated when they were kinda on a break, but because she was sad and hurt and I don't think their situations were comparable.

[@crypapi4650]

Manisha W i agree like the girl with long hair didn’t even seen rly interested in the relationship in this video either like she acted so cold when they were talking about her cheating but act upset when glasses didn’t even rly cheat like man tf she’s so selfish

[@theshape7817]

I totally agree I feel like short hair girl is just getting used like a damn guinea pig by the long hair girl who is really damn weak and not committed to the relationship

[@elisyasinea1727]

The long haired girl cheated rather than just talking to her girlfriend, but the short haired girl did it while she thought they were having a break. Not to mention she was heartbroken. I’m not defending cheating, but she technically didn’t cheat if they really were on a break.

[@vaiosony2]

Manisha W I know right? And then she has the audacity to say "this made me question our entire relationship." Seriously what a bitch. She made me angry

[@vairaworld]

WORD! When the long hair girl said "i knew you had cheated on me" i'm like the fuuuck gurl?!? It was necassary for the short hair girl to do that in order to heal her self and let go. Gosh. These cheaters nowadays...

[@sunmoon539]

they weren't together after she cheated. so glasses didn't cheat

[@laurenray8995]

It sounds like they were still together but taking some distance

[@glamfarah7471]

“We were on a breaaaaak”

[@jebyrd_580]

Trinity Smith yes she did. they were still together

[@zweij]

Trinity Smith exactly. The long haired one just wants to have 1:1 situation but haha honey YOU were the one who cheated. 0:1

[@EmelyTurish]

I like how you named her glasses 🤣🤣

[@j_rosa]

IT IS A CHOICE , not " a mistake" .

[@j_rosa]

but then again, i have been in her situation .. i didnt cheat tho .

[@shannankn]

wdym? someone cheated on you, and playd the victim?

[@rockybtiles477]

I agree

[@mattdiaz9648]

Just like being gay is a choice.

[@sverkauu]

Matt Diaz being gay isn’t a choice

[@yami7716]

The girl with the glasses is the victim not the girl with long hair. The girl with the short hair deserves way better. She is a beautiful girl (I don't like but she is pretty).

[@iniubongnkanga9390]

I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call [phone] or reach him on WhatsApp [phone] and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...

[@bagelalmighty1908]

The long hair girl is highkey annoying me like fr

[@D33caying]

Bagel Almighty ikr I was mind blown at how she just didn’t give a fuck

[@femboyrules7594]

looks like kylie jenner

[@snnneezyyy]

ikr

[@dziurawbani6703]

Yes she is an annoying b word

[@tye4895]

Literally same 🙄🙄🙄

[@rosierennie5867]

"I love you but I'm gonna cheat on you and honestly I dont care if you get hurt, then I'm gonna accuse you of cheating when we take a break even though this is my fault but I need to blame someone else" is the vibe I got from this video

[@freyahorner1430]

me too :(

[@divah816]

Nf

[@divah816]

E

[@infinitymixtapes9562]

Bitch got the audacity to play victim

[@iniubongnkanga9390]

I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call [phone] or reach him on WhatsApp [phone] and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...

[@yes.5813]

you don't cheat on someone you love.

[@chainzntea]

baby ́ Exactly

[@chainzntea]

Mckenzie Preston waaddd uuupp

[@katy9986]

yes

[@MrAdjin]

depends on how u define love

[@tweezers1]

Exactly

[@josieturner9340]

My heart goes out for the girl in the glasses.

[@iniubongnkanga9390]

I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call [phone] or reach him on WhatsApp [phone] and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...

[@bog4543]

Alexander Hayward bro you goofy

[@Carriehammer718]

This is so sad. This is why I have trust issues

[@jaylarose7838]

Carrie R same

[@eyadkhalil4375]

lc0806 not me lol I’m too loyal and too nice

[@taurus7911]

Eyad Khalil too bad not all people are like that 😞 even if you’re loyal your partner might turn out to be a Dirty liar.

[@hi_pinky20]

SAME

[@eyadkhalil4375]

Carrie R ikr finding the right one out there in the world is hard finding someone loyal,caring,and someone that will love you and you only

[@artemishan1183]

Am I the only one who thinks the girl with glasses should break up with the other one? She deserves so much better. And she wasn't really cheating if she wanted a break.

[@vioig1449]

Artemis Han i can see that point of view but idk cheating is cheating, she still was in the relationship (the way i see it)

[@rosecryptic8560]

Artemis Han The heart wants what it wants as sad as this sounds...I don't understand why people cheat if they love the person...why can't you just tell them beforehand and break up before shit hits the fan...but hey...i would never understand people who cheat

[@takingitonedayatatime7851]

Vi Oig i agree if your still in a relationship you shouldn't be seeing other people even if it is a break ...the break is for you to work on yourself and see how can you fix the relationship not move on and sleep with other people cause if that's the case just break up with her don't cheat 😒

[@jcaro3835]

WE WERE ON A BREAK

[@luciechase4556]

Jcaro omg friends flashbacks

[@laurent4122]

Am I the only one crying? That girl in the glasses deserved so much better, but I am glad they came to a conclusion and wish them the best for the future

[@chloegreig425]

Having been cheated on...watching these videos literally brings back every ounce of pain when you see the pain in her face. It never ever leaves you.

[@maryr294]

that girl with the long hair is so irritating

[@coolgamerchels9924]

Mary R how is she annoying u

[@wolfie8227]

I agree

[@amoamareamabo]

I find her infuriating too-largely because she won’t take agency. She says “what had been done” instead of “what I did”🙄

[@TheMovieMyLife]

I had no idea their story would end the way it did. Well done, video editor. :) I really wish them the best.

[@kairaza2519]

TheMovieMyLife Why are you on every corner of youtube, like i literally see your comments everywhere !!!

[@victoriarandolph8084]

Kai Raza same

[@loveskinas3352]

Kai Raza Is it really such a big deal if she is?...each to their own.

[@al3cxa]

If you're saying you see her everywhere...you are everywhere.

[@cestchristanie]

Alexa shut up

[@xTokyolightsx]

Insecurities will always be there once your partner cheats on you.

[@strawberryjpeg6000]

M수민 oh yesss they’ll be there forever even with next partners which sucks and I have also been cheated on multiple times

[@angie1223]

A betrayal hurts so much more than a murder .. you get to live the pain..

[@iniubongnkanga9390]

I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call [phone] or reach him on WhatsApp [phone] and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...

[@HashCorp_]

How would you know? I've been cheated on and murdered.. Getting murdered was way worst.

[@kalofm3823]

@@HashCorp_ HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

[@nugic]

Every relationship gets boring and it will get boring after you've been together for years. It's always fun in the beginning. It's always exciting when you're getting to know each other. It's always thrilling to chase one another. Eventually, it gets hard. Eventually, it becomes difficult. Eventually, it drains you. That's when people tend to quit and go look for someone else because "the spark is gone" and they want to feel wanted and admired and loved again. But listen, that's not how it's supposed to be. No, that's not how it works. It doesn't have to be that way. Even when it does get boring, that's when you're supposed to remember why you're with that person in the first place and it's never too late to find that happiness that you both once found together because the truth is, it's always been there and it never left. Even when it feels like feelings are fading, that's when you're supposed to know how much this person means to you and what losing them would be like because being able to love someone even when they're being hard to love shows that your feelings never left. Even when it feels like you're done, that's when you're supposed to realize that no matter who you're with, it's always going to get "boring" so you might as well be with someone who's willing to love you unconditionally and never give up on you.

[@abbiepatterson8254]

Mïkëy Tëddyßëãr Lör Mikey you have a way with word that shouldn’t be wasted........??? Author of a novel maybe......Poetry???........Just saying..... Just reading some of your texts made me want to let you know ....you r great at writing.......if u didn’t know, seriously.

[@rihannah7803]

lmao who hurt you

[@talentedkidrauhl639]

rihanna hassan right

[@Extramayor]

Mïkëy Tëddyßëãr Lör well worded 💯

[@josrob9488]

Write a book Bc you're preaching

[@lovemecom3832]

Acceptance and forgiveness is the most perfect revenge.

[@EricaShady10171972]

LoveMe,com ? To whom?

[@DelovelyD]

Justin 😂😂

[@eberrios67]

Justin LOL

[@xo7499]

Hayden Chisum no shit. that is thr point. to do it for yourself and that is the best revenge. to let it go

[@kingraine9730]

LoveMe,com If you need to hack any Instagram, Facebook and Email accounts, contact @fredparker_ on Instagram, he does a pretty good job as a professional ethical hacker. He's fast, reliable and charges only after successfully hacking the account.

[@koolklub]

Cheaters are hella selfish man

[@maddybelle857]

Vaneexx R right? You either love one or you love the other

[@amira222]

They both cheated kinda so they might be made for each other.

[@spookysins4784]

Ssweet - Disposition how did the girl with glasses cheat??

[@Ayveh]

They are, Heartless creatures.

[@theobnoxiouspotato7195]

Didn't you watch the whole video tho? When the other girl cheated, they didn't break up all of a sudden. The Long haired girl tried to fight for their relationship, but the one with glasses instead pushed her away, hung out with a certain person, and they eventually hooked up, even though these girls were still in a relationship. :/

[@wandavalenciia]

why would you cheat on someone you love? sis that's not love. that's called taking someone's heart and breaking it to pieces over a choice you made of not being loyal to them.

[@mishha.p5550]

So true

[@AlexCrl200]

No,its possible to love someone and cheat.Everyone is saying cheating isnt a mistake its a choice.Well sometimes wrong choices happen and they're called mistakes.Its possible for someone who cheated to feel remorse.Its possible for everyone to feel remorse and regret about everything wrong that they did.

[@lillyshield6187]

The chick with the long hair is Gona cheat again. You can tell she's immature and probably loves the drama that follows after cheating

[@sponk2914]

Oh my god the cheater better shut the hell up. "when you cheated on me" umm wait.... You were the one who cheated don't play the victim.

[@RashadSims-bh3zz]

Say that again

[@iniubongnkanga9390]

I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call [phone] or reach him on WhatsApp [phone] and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...

[@breselexiapsychicmedium346]

If glasses needs a shoulder to cry on.....Helloooo :)

[@jessicasingh3943]

You're Sweet same!!!

[@briettasharee]

For real 😭

[@Awesome-qj2tb]

You're Sweet don't call her "glasses" if, you dont know her just say girl with the glasses

[@wandiesH]

I second that , if you ever need a hug!! I’m here! She knew what was gonna happen, wth, what she did, not what had been done!!! Ugh!!! Right. She didn’t care , she likes it especially if she hung out with her!!!

[@ipuhstickeronmycarrier7305]

why cheat? if you love somebody else... 1-) you don’t love your partner 2-) just break up first

[@adrianakim7171]

You are so right, Jin

[@hq3802]

It doesnt always work like thay

[@AlexCrl200]

She didnt love someone else.She loved her.She was just attracted and had a connection with another person and shit happened, but she realized she fucked up.Cheating is horrible but we all make mistakes and i know you're gonna say its a choice but we all make the wrong choices sometimes.

[@iniubongnkanga9390]

I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call [phone] or reach him on WhatsApp [phone] and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...

[@selina2322]

Thats what i say 👍🏼👍🏼

[@idkbro2447]

fuckin hate cheaters bro

[@savorysoup]

idk bro same

[@vel6475]

yeah ..

[@luis-nv1jb]

idk bro mannnnnn

[@idgaf1357]

Same

[@lorisol8132]

Same.. I don't know why people do that. That's so sad and ridiculous.

[@s_xom7120]

Once a cheater always a cheater. Silence is the best weapon

[@martinezandy15]

The short hair girl is very attractive.. i guess im gay now

[@femboyrules7594]

martinezandy15 ill be gay too but im a guy :v

[@JOJO-yh8hr]

Maybe cus she looks like a dude i feel like dude looking lesbians are cute too

[@JOJO-yh8hr]

@@aurorah2677 lol is that what they call them?

[@nanasaldarriaga7452]

@@nataliahall236 oh, I didn't know that, thank you for saying it, english is not my native language so that kind of words are difficult to learn. Thank you ♡

[@kungfukenny3002]

She's hella fucking cute 😔❤❤

[@jayley9543]

Why is cheating becoming a normal thing? Df is wrong with people.

[@littlewhisper1045]

jayley it’s scary isn’t it

[@MustyShroomOfTheLoom]

Probably because people don’t find love and sex as important and serious as it is anymore. I’m just going off of what has just happened to me. My fiancé, I have been with him since 9th grade and I’m 20 now, cheated on me with a friend we had had since 8th grade and it was cold and calculated and god it hurt and I’m still hurting cus it just happened man. He wanted the sex, drugs, and rock ‘n’ roll with no responsibility, while I wanted kids and a career and be good at what I do some day. I’m a shell now cus of him and my so called friend

[@iniubongnkanga9390]

I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call [phone] or reach him on WhatsApp [phone] and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...

[@davidtichborne2912]

Well normally people cheat on someone because they abuse them or hurt there kids and abusers definitely deserve to be cheated on but in this case this is just selfishness

[@Kiba309]

People have been cheating since forever. today’s digital age just makes it easier for cheaters to be caught

[@rochellenicolas1881]

This is the reason why I'm afraid of relationships. You get attached, then something happens and then you have learn to adapt without them. It's like trying to live normally again

[@niyaragray5435]

The girl with the long hair is so irritating Edit: also I'm confused on how the girl with the glasses cheated? They were on a break

[@Jess-qy9kh]

Niyara Gray it’s like Ross and Rachel ahaha

[@mybestfriendjes6467]

Jess20 exactly what I thought when I read this comment!!

[@StarrCountryman]

WE WERE ON A BREAKKKKK

[@just_jaz2002]

the girl with the glasses deserves so much better.

[@brookesmith6128]

Why are you in a relationship if you're going to cheat?...

[@shannankn]

...

[@flamingmagenta955]

These types of people like to use people but they're also there to teach you people a lot of lessons.

[@dumbaby5924]

She didn’t even know she was going to do it..

[@Grapefruitluvr102]

Farah Fabre yes she did. if she didn’t know what she was doing then why did she do it in the first place?

[@orahdy1807]

@@dumbaby5924 she know what she was doing. even when the shorthair girl found out about the cheating, the longhair girl still hang out with the person she cheatd with. so she knew what she was doing.

[@miahansen7266]

In the words of Captain Jack Sparrow.: if you love two girls, go with the second one because if you really loved the first one you wouldn’t have fallen in love with the second one.

[@lxstfixna291]

For a character like Captain Jack Sparrow, that is one amazing quote

[@lxstfixna291]

@@miahansen7266 Think we've got to further into the mind of Captain Jack Sparrow. Interesting character and can never fully understand him or his intentions

[@thegoat8608]

It might also mean you didn't respect the first one. It's not only about love.

[@rosierennie5867]

Jack Sparrow never said that. Johnny did And yes I do know. I've seen the films millions of times

[@ChrisLevelsUp]

@@thegoat8608 I agree. Very wise.

[@madiwill3082]

Cheating can take so much away from someone. Not only the relationship, of course, but confidence. My mother was cheated on for over 15 years by my father and she says it made her believe she wasn’t good enough for anyone and she was lacking something that he desired but really, it was just his selfishness and stupidity. Why can’t someone just leave someone if they are not content? Don’t ruin a part of their lives, don’t take so much away if you want something else. Have decency.

[@andreagarcia3934]

m !!!! Yes you are so right. I am sorry for your mother. I hope she is much happier these days. No one deserves to doubt themselves because the actions of someone else. It is so unfair and its torture to think that you are not enough. Truth is... it's always the cheater that has all the insecurities and the problems. Thats why they go looking for "more" and are never happy with what they already have.

[@erinrose2217]

i'm sooo crushin on the girl with the glasses uuugghhhhhh

[@PocketSizedAndi]

erin rose same. Lol

[@rhythmf.4460]

I hope she knows about this comment. Same here

[@stellas9787]

erin rose SHE'S MINE 😂💕

[@Mycupkakes87]

We all are. But I'm also happy she's happy.

[@kaltumsiyat4504]

Same here can't let my eyes out of her

[@simellibasis6276]

Why even cheat??? What u mean ''fight for this relationship'' you shouldn't have to, you should be able to trust each other and not hurt each other. I would never be able to forget something like that.. it's over if you cheat, end of story

[@romeoandjuliet3285]

The girl withe the shorter hair looks so hurt. I hate that the other woman just acts like she was the victim and is completely oblivious to the pain she has brought upon her girlfriend. You should never cheat on a person you love, period.

[@iniubongnkanga9390]

I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call [phone] or reach him on WhatsApp [phone] and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...

[@ashevsf7621]

yes..

[@miriambaylon7080]

Cheaters are narcissists and manipulative people, do not ever give a second chance. If they did it once, they can do it again.

[@miche.5146]

Miriam Baylon yes thank you

[@Hey9846]

They only think in the moment of fun and adrenaline. Theyre selfish. Thats why they become cheaters. I hate that. Theyd fuck with anyone they have a good time with. A bond doesnt matter; its just a label to someone they can call their partner. And at the end of the day when you leave them, they act like you were the one who walked out but when in reality they were the ones who betrayed you first. Theyre whores. I can never understand their form of "love".

[@purplebellunicorn1593]

Everybody different everybody as there reasons so till you been in a situation don't judge.

[@miriambaylon7080]

Purple Bell Unicorn I agree with you, but most of them are like that ):

[@justanotherzombieFJ]

Though I agree 100% that you should never give them a second chance. I disagree that they are always narcissistic. I was that person when I was younger. I did it because I needed validation, I felt worthless and intimacy gave me "value".

[@vienmafaye]

Can me and my Ex be featured in this? I really want to talk to him in a calm way like this.

[@panscentralexpresspresents4733]

You should be talking like this already... You shouldn't need views to do it.

[@JanjiraSun]

honestly my ex cant even look at me in the face and we never talked about our relationship since we broke up a year ago, so i get where shes coming from

[@vienmafaye]

No I'm not saying that I need views to do this. It's just that he is really stubborn and he won't listen to what I say. I just want to talk to him like this where we hear each other out.

[@panscentralexpresspresents4733]

Thats something you have to build together. Nothing changes emotional immaturity, except the own self. If hes incapable of holding a neutral conversation about your past, then he wont hear you out at this. I've seen alot of people wanting to "go on this show so they can communicate like this" and i guess its just preturbing me a little. If your ex can't communicate with you thats probably the sole reason they are your ex. I hope you both find partners who you can talk to you freely and who you can talk to. Its awesome to be able to express your happiness and concerns like this in a fluid relationship. But it doesn't justhappen for any one. I would say the people in this video already talked alot.

[@lawolffe]

Viviene Manulat if you are no longer dating, you have no reason to talk to him. Leave him alone. He doesn’t have to talk to you.

[@angiechung724]

Girl with short hair is so attractive :3

[@megskylet2872]

Angie Chung is it just me who doesn’t think that she is attractive???!!!!

[@rayzegamezohyeah4904]

She’s not attractive at all

[@kendra8879]

RayZe Gamez get tf out of here she’s attractive TO US

[@haileyhylian8746]

I know right

[@Icetalon02]

Angie Chung Yeah she's pretty

[@bellacapulet1933]

"I did something unfair" UNFAIR.... UNFAIR.... YOU BROKE YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER. UNFAIR.....

[@alicemako5729]

my gay ass self is real sad right now

[@jonsnow708]

Alice Mako lmao same

[@RefreshinglyMyself]

same

[@chaissibrown7338]

Alice Mako facts 😩

[@kaylavaniity7390]

Alice Mako I fing feel it

[@xoxogossipgirlts]

I don’t understand how you could cheat on someone you say you love. And don’t tell me some bull crap like “you don’t have to love someone to have sex.” Ok? But making the move to have sex with someone who isn’t your significant other, is cheating. Any form, flirting, sex.. to the point you are hiding stuff from them is cheating. If you are feeling like you want to have sex go have it with the one you love. If you don’t want to be with that person tell them.. because getting cheated on hurts a hell of a lot more than being dumped.. because the moment you cheat, your S.O will have trust issues.. they will feel like they weren’t good enough. They’ll question loyalty.. they’ll wonder what’s the point in fighting for someone who isn’t wanting to be with them.. it makes relationships after that much harder. It makes it so much harder to give your heart to someone after someone else had broken it into a million tiny pieces.. if you’re unhappy.. just leave..

[@meg_j3455]

Tiffany Smith Finally someone who understands me! I agree 💯 with everything you've said. I don't understand how you can cheat on someone you claim to love.. Till this day, I still don't get it.

[@kaylathomasson9619]

Meg_ J yes

[@benleander_]

Love doesn't equal sex, it's that easy.

[@xoxogossipgirlts]

benleander that’s not the point, when you love someone you are committed to that person. Why would they be out having sex with people other than the person they love?? That’s cheating and it’s wrong. When someone is in a relationship, it’s between the two people. Not between the two people and the other people they decide to have sex with. If they are going to go around and have sex with just anyone. Then they don’t need to be in a relationship.

[@benleander_]

That's how you believe a 'perfect' relationship looks like. In real life nothing and no one is perfect. Mistakes happen and there are back stories you don't know. There are many things you 'shouldn't' do in a relationship but we all do some of them. I'm not saying cheating is okay, but I am saying that everyone who cheats has a reason for doing so. That reason does not have to necessarily be that they don't love their partner anymore.

[@spencer5113]

One thing that has bothered me in the gay community is cheating. Like, it’s such an incredible blessing to be able to be gay let alone have a partner openly. There’s never been a time like this before. And yet, so many will take it for granted and cheat, not showing any gratitude for the fact that they have a very rare experience and person right in front of them.

[@lllMellll]

I'm gay and I wouldn't cheat.

[@dumbaby5924]

That can happen with straight ppl and it’s not just gay

[@Mariathinking]

Farah Fabre but rates of cheating is higher

[@coolperson5081]

Rate of cheating is higher in the gay community.

[@escfanforever569]

@@coolperson5081 Pathetic....

[@candyestrada3190]

1:33 “i think I fell more in love wit u , even tho u weren’t there” damn them words hit me 💔💔

[@Carriehammer718]

Why stay with someone after they cheat?

[@User__795]

Carrie R because of one stupid foolish Love that makes u a weak bitch

[@CB-br9jc]

It depends on the 2 people if they get back together. Much guilt, anger, pain, and mixed emotions manifest. I've seen couples go through this and it ends up working out by making their relationship stronger. I guess you got to be in that situation to see how you're going to deal with it. Love can be so beautiful but it can also be the worst mistake..mistakes can make you stronger and wiser.

[@lillgill156]

Hell nah

[@veronicamartines4234]

Carla Ballesteros I don’t believe it makes anyone stronger to get cheated on. The insecurities always stay with you like they said.

[@benleander_]

It always depends on the circumstances, the past time of the relationship etc. Cheating isn't the only mistake you can make in a long-term relationship. Viewing a video like this makes it easy to forget that.

[@joyd9560]

Tbh the people here that are condoning cheating is really disgusting. Cheating can cause awful emotional, mental, and psychological damage to a person that can be irreversible. Stop protecting cheaters, they chose to cheat on the person they were dating, there are easy solutions to not do that or to avoid it. Just saying.

[@aditluth5031]

Yeah thats so true... ironically the one who damaged is the one who faithful :"(

[@Sailendranath_Thakur]

It's sad that cheating has become the norm.

[@maladjustedmaverick6619]

Well, I wouldn't say those solutions are necessarily easy- for many people it seems easier in the moment to get their needs met by cheating than by talking the issues out with their partner. Honesty and vulnerability are scary. However, their partner should be the person they trust the most with these things, and this approach is very destructive in the long run.

[@kimchi5721]

i don’t understand how you could cheat on someone you “love”. i rlly don’t

[@iniubongnkanga9390]

I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact John to help he is a genius. You can text/call [phone] or reach him on WhatsApp [phone] and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) and don't forget to thank me later...

[@suckmyprettytoes]

It’s because she really didn’t love her. Because you could love someone, and not be in love with them.

[@eline1072]

You can’t love somebody if you don’t love yourself. If you love yourself you don’t cheat, because you are cheating yourself. Moral of the story ~learn to love yourself before starting a relationship

[@rachelann724]

Bobby & Louise Papillons very well said!

[@sakuraogami6885]

Dumb

[@uglyafowoo7733]

I don't love myself, no wonder I don't love anybody else. At all.

[@dumbaby5924]

That had nothing to do with the video but true

[@vee4971]

I don't love myself yet, but i swear to you i love my partner, and i would never cheat on him. I don't get why are you saying i can't love anyone if i don't love myself What if i find love my self love by loving someone?

[@theonly5107]

I just don’t understand why people cheat and try it all over again. If you really loved that person you’d never do that in the first time. There’s no accident no one forced you. You do not find more than what you have, because what you have should be all you’re looking for and some. Yea people make mistakes, but you learn from them. And obviously it’s that you never truly loved that person.

[@MrandMrsIII]

Divinely Divided preach

[@nugic]

It's crazy, isn't it? How someone could just wake up one day & not feel anything towards you anymore when the previous day, they told you they loved you & they made you believe they cared? It's crazy, isn't it? How someone could wake up one day & decide not to talk to you anymore when the previous day, they replied to every message & made you believe they enjoy talking to you? It's crazy, isn't it? How someone could wake up one day & forget all about you when the previous day, they paid attention to you & made you believe this attention was never gonna go away? & when this happens to you, you wish you can say 'fuck these feelings' & walk away so easily like they could, but you can't because they can control of your feelings. Crazy, isn't it?

[@zepp3793]

Mïkëy Tëddyßëãr Lör crazier when the relationship was so strong and perfect and you’ve been with the person through the best and worst times thinking that made each other stronger. Then when you and him start having small problems and thinking you can fix it even though both are hurt but feeling like you have hope that you could fix it and a month later finding out they met somebody else and having them confess that they made them feel like their problems would go away and them confessing how can they love someone who hurts them.. all this happened to me and at the time I was one week before I was due to deliver. I gave him my life and dedication while he was overseas and when I needed him the most he was looking at someone else for that last month.

[@swedishfish5622]

CAH RAE ZEE

[@RebelliousIntuition]

god, that shit hit right through me. that happened to me too. he literally said he loved me all the time and he said that he can´t wait to see me tomorrow. and i believed him, as stupid as I can be. but then BOOM, he slept with a hoe that day. how the fuck can your mind switch like that?

[@RebelliousIntuition]

how can you do that to someone who has been helping you from day one, who seen the worst side of you and who fucking gets you when no one does. because STUPID thats why. men are stupid. they think with their dick, not the mind. remember that

[@darthvader9573]

dude that's what u call a narcissist some people have that talent

[@biancA55778]

Honestly, so crazy because the girl with long hair, her smirk when she says yes to being the same night... Not apologizing once or showing any remorse... Making the other feel guilty for cheating when she's the cheater... Just sad because the short-haired one deserves so much more. 💔💔💔💔

[@sakurafan000]

It really warms my heart to see, they overcome the cheating. Even when the long haired girl is at fault , and both of them cheated, their love for each other still seems to be very strong. That's beautiful.

[@mandihernandez5883]

The short hair girl was honest and she really loved her.... the longed hair girl faced timed her with that girl she cheated on her with why......

[@victoralexander232]

After cheating... Everything will never be the same that old trust is gone and it will forever be different from the moment it started.

[@ramonavorovei9748]

Victor Alexander very true 👏🏼👏🏼

[@deanawells4395]

What breaks down a relationship is what also can strengthen it in unanswerable ways.

[@cheyenne4061]

Deana Wells Nah fam. Their relationship would've turned toxic really quickly.

[@-nika-4958]

Uh sure but not cheating

[@AngieSaysHey]

Deana Wells | ... dishonesty and infidelity will not strengthen any relationship

[@AngieSaysHey]

You cheated before haven’t you? It makes sense for you to say that when you cheated and need an excuse to make yourself feel better

[@AngieSaysHey]

Bento Biscuit | birds of a feather flock together

[@lampeony2683]

The one who care the most always gets hurt

[@lianoxortaroudia]

Question: How can somebody swear that he/she loves you to the deepest BUT cheat on you, claiming that Love (towards you) is totally different to having Sex (with another person)? *PLEASE* help me understand that. Any *any* reply is welcome..

[@lillykathleen89]

Lianoxortaroudia Personally, I went through something kinda similar. So, my partner had cheated on me with several of her friends that I thought were JUST friends. It's not healthy to not trust and so I really tried if I was going to be with this person, but I had no idea to what extent the cheating had reached. I chose to be blind and try to work it out. I couldn't trust her after she admitted to doing it the second time. After that, I left her and had absolutely nothing to do with her for well over 8 years. It was easy to be angry after that because over those 8 years of silence between us, people were recounting times where they had seen her with other women during our "relationship." The number of times she has cheated had reached ten before I stopped counting. When the trust is gone though, it crumbles. I kinda admire them for being so willing to work it out. I wouldn't say this if the video showed they had no hope. I think they're actually going to make it. I think that also because one of them came out to her parents because of the woman sitting opposite her, that plays a large part in keeping it together. She fought for her and because of her she took that huge step. So, it's not just proving to each other they can be together, but I think some of it has to be proving to everyone else that they can make it through. The girl who cheated on me is the girlfriend I introduced to my parents and came out for, because at that time I wanted to be with her. It was really hard so I fought hard when I should've just let go. I think I knew that's the kind of partner she was and that it would continue to happen again and again- as long as I allowed it. So, walking away was my best move. I don't think their story will play out the same way though. I see a lot of hurt, but they're both fighting to make it work- and I was fighting for someone who wasn't willing to fight for me.

[@lillykathleen89]

Lianoxortaroudia I hope that helped a little. This certainly isn't the case for everyone. It's just my personal experience and why I chose to stay.

[@lianoxortaroudia]

Lilly Kathleen Thank you for sharing your story with me/us reading you. Well your ex sure had a thing about sex. I mean, cheating with more than one person is odd to my mind anyway.. I mean, I can understand if its just ONE person (maybe Im fat n wanted him to try having sex with a thin girl/ Im blonde n he wanted to taste a brounette/ etc etc, like completing a personal fantasy) but going out with 10+ ppl, thats not even called a relationship. In my mind, the term Cheating has many levels. Is it with just one person or more? Is it a one-night-stand or its done many times? Is the relationship "ok" or things are bad and I probably dont "see" it (that the end is near or here already)? Anyhow, cheating is lying. Firstly to your own self and secondly to your other half. Im talking about both men n women, gay, straight, bi, lesbians, everyone in a relationship. I think that Love and Sex are connected. Most people disagree but to me, its that way.. Cheating (when revealed) can cause only pain. Why would anyone want to hurt their beloved one? You only have two choices: lie n hide it for the rest of your life or tell. The 1 option contains guilt and lies (hmmm not a good, solid base for a loving n trusting relationship) and the 2 option contains regret and pain. Is it really worth the try? For a few hours of sex? Just sex?

[@lianoxortaroudia]

Lilly Kathleen I hope this comment of mine wont affect you the slightest but personally I gave up. I was vomitting Romance all my life, I believed in the real idea of being Romantic and Kindness and in the meaning of True Love all my life. Not any more. Sex? Yes it exists. Love? Its just chemical liquids in your brain, electrical neurotransmitors that create connections between your brain cells. Yap. Thats it. But of course thats *my* opinion..

[@lillykathleen89]

Lianoxortaroudia That's basically my view these days. I was a lot younger then and very naive. I was to blame as much as her because I chose to pretend it wasn't happening. These girls though, I don't know. There's something about the way they're communicating that gives me hope. With all that said, I'm judging someone's relationship from a 7 1/2 minute video which really isn't much to go off of. But taking what the woman on the left said about sleeping with someone after she found out her partner cheated, though I wouldn't do it- I can understand why she felt she needed to do that. I think she did it to try and see if everything with her partner was what she thought it was and test whether she could have a connection like she had with the woman on the right with someone else (long-winded but I hope that made sense). That early relationship I had was not repeated in any other way. I swore off dating anyone who admitted they cheated in a previous relationship. It helped to a certain extent and I avoided more drama, but it didn't fix everything. I believed in love for a long time because I couldn't see the people I loved in a negative light without a really good reason (even then it was hard), but as you get older you realize how rare it is that couples make it past a certain point. More often than not it's just a phase you go through where that person is your "everything" before you part ways. It's a negative way to think but that's just personal experience. I have hope real love exists, but I haven't seen very much proof of that. I was engaged to someone I thought would be my "happily ever after" and had never done anything to sway me to think they weren't faithful, but it still didn't work out because we grew apart. Even when infidelity is absent, it's never a sure thing. I hope they make it work though. It seems like they want it to.

[@alyssasharp2110]

This is almost exactly what happend with my ex gf.. (we didn’t workout btw) I can’t stand cheaters. The relationship isn’t really ever the same.

[@leena6543]

Alyssa Sharp Exactly. What they did will never be forgotten. I tried forgiving my ex when she cheated but I couldn’t continue being with her. It made me feel so insecure about myself and that I just wasn’t good enough.

[@RashadSims-bh3zz]

Same my ex slept in the same bed with a "friend "next day I get i don't know what I want then said she really didn't love me that is beyond cold hearted and cold bloodss

[@aceo7505]

Sameee, but I already forgave her in order for me to move on and find someone else who's much worth it of my love 💕

[@cdawnfly]

Who would cheat on you???!!? You're beautiful!!

[@la_real_selena]

The woman in the glasses seemed sincerely in love with the other woman,although she got cheated on & she wanted to make it work.It's hard for 2 people to get over one another even if they've been through the worst together especially if their bond is strong asf. They'll be willing to forget to move forward. Taking someone back who cheated (under certain circumstances) doesn't make a person stupid but when it's done again after the first time,they gotta cut the cheater off. Because if they don't it just shows that that person has power over you & that they can play you repeatedly for a fool. What you allow,will continue...

[@mikewasowski5612]

Whys the long haired girl trying to act the victim? Like she done it first! And then the short haired girl ended up apologising first? Nah

[@iniubongnkanga9390]

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[@umok6643]

She doesn't love her. You don't do this to people you love.

[@sharoncontreras3528]

And she didn't really show any emotions. She just sat their and play dumb.

[@dumbaby5924]

Ok first of all I’m pretty sure she does love because she kept trying to make it up to her and kept crying 😢 people who don’t love u would not spend that much time on you,

[@dumbaby5924]

Sharon Contreras How would u know?She admitted what she did and really felt bad about if u actually listened u would hear her saying she would cry all the time

[@sakuraogami6885]

@@dumbaby5924 such a doormat, shes LYING

[@dumbaby5924]

Goku Black what exactly am I lying about? -_-

[@mercedesj4773]

Nope Nope nope, no one is sorry if they cheat. I dated my ex girlfriend for about 6 months and she cheated on me. I’m beyond crying typing this because I took her back and she cheated again. There’s no love, there’s no love because you don’t hurt the ones you love, she didn’t love me. Cheating is not a mistake. You know what you’re doing. How does one kiss someone elsewhere lips without tasting your lovers mouth? Cheating is a choice. Im 18 and I was shown to believe that no one truly will love me because everyone that said they did hurt me

[@anisafarooq1426]

BabySadie awwwwww that's soo sad, bless you

[@michaelabowen7807]

BabySadie I feel exactly the same as you do!

[@ctorre]

God bless you

[@MonaLisasApple]

SeriouslySadie Almost 24 here I took back a cheater ex and we lasted 4 years then he cheated again (he was my highschool sweetheart).. with my younger sister(had just turned 18). I said to myself I won't give up on love because of them and I am now married to a good man.

[@Darkranger68]

I was recently cheated on. For 5 months. I just talked to her she said "grow up and get over it" "it's not even that serious". Her parents knew her siblings knew non of them told me when I went over. Her friend knew amd she didn't tell me. To this day if it wasnt for me finding out she would have never told me. 4 years of friendship down the drain 13 month relationship to shit. I helped her through her Depression amd her hard times in life. She cheated on me and left me for her ex. the guy she dated as a dare the guy she never liked the guy she was so embarrassed to be with the guy that she only startes having feelimgs for towards the last 3-4 months of the relationship. The guy who was demanding had anger issues told her who she couldn't and cant talk too . The guy who cussed her out called her names like slut ungrateful etc. A relationship only on arguing. A relationship where both her parents and siblings hated the kid with a passion. The guy who left her with Depression and not even 2 months after dated another girl. I did so much for her beyond words can ever describe. I treated her so damn amazing and perfect . gift's jewelery accessories so much more. I made her "happy" she loved me more she liked being with me more she was more comfortable being with me more. She lied to me for 5months straight excuse after excuse lie after lie. Wemt to go see him after seeing me. Before and after actually. So many people knew and didnt want to tell me. And she believes she didnt do anything. I helped her through her Depression and so much more and im return she puts me through it. Last month he dumped her. Was callimg her a piece of shit making fun of her for begging him to stay amd so much more. I showed her he was still the same and they got back together. Shes obsessed with him. I feel so worthless and like such a horrible joke. Worst oart is i have no one to talk too or let it all out with. How does someone go back to someone that treated them so horrible left them like shit for 3 years and in a blink of an eye leaves me. It makes no sense. Hes still the same and she believes and blasts him on social media hes such an amazing boyfriend after all the shit he calls her and says about her.

[@mariagamez990]

"You didn't even cross my mind"...... ouch

[@winniewei2927]

My ex cheated on me too, but when he told me he still loves me, I decided to fight for us. But in the end, he came up with another excuse to “take a break”. And I just realize, he didn’t love me, he cheated because he fell out of love but was too much of a coward to tell me . It’s devastating honestly