My Eating Disorder - My Parents Answer your Questions

[@dawlfaceeee]

Ugh god, I hate when parents cry. Especially dads. The second her dad started to get choked up I started tearing up.

[@carleydanielle8440]

this broke my heart I love her so much and it makes me so sad that she went through this and that so many people are affected by this. :(((

[@monikaschmidt5605]

what a sincere contribution to a problem so devastating. So real to see the effects of this so many years later....they are still working on it. Thank you!

[@JustCaysee]

Can we just point out how pretty Kayli's mom is like OMG I see where kayli gets it from

[@KairiBabi317]

Slightly annoyed that a Victoria's Secret commercial was the ad for this video. You go Kayli. I struggle more with my body image now that I am older (22) than I did when I was in high school. I am thankful to have my fiancé by my side to tell me I am beautiful no matter what.

[@hannahboebanna]

VS ew I’m sorry! I hope you’re doing better now x

[@SamusAran1818]

When your dad said "We were kids raising kids," that really struck a cord with me. That reminded me of my parents. I don't have much family around, because we all grew up in a dysfunctional family. My parents basically did what their parents did--leave their children to totally fend for themselves. I just wish they would of given us a better life. Parents should make life better for future generations. I thought I should share something from me. Thank you for sharing something of yourself that isn't easy to speak about. This video has been very insightful for me.

[@emilyholland7744]

I'm only just finding this video now but can I just say Kayli, you are so so brave for sharing your story and your experience with an eating disorder and your parents are also so brave for sharing their side of the story and how they dealt with Kayli's problem through this hard time. From this video, I could easily see how hard this was for all three of you. You are an inspiration and a true role model Kayli xxxx ❤️

[@aimeemarie5462]

this was very touching... very random comment. Her parents look SO YOUNG! Wow!

[@avacapri13]

***** actually her moms was 15 when she had kayli

[@milliejaymoon]

Your honesty and courage in being so open about your story is admirable Kayli :) your an inspiration!

[@courtneyjo4151]

Kayli is just so beautiful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@lgallego127]

you are so strong for sharing this. hopefully this will help other people that are going through a similar situation.

[@nursemissy905]

So proud of you Kayli for being brave and sharing your story with us. I myself struggled with bulimia as a teen and was also able to over come it. I'm so glad you were able to over come this disease because the world wouldn't get to see what an amazingly beautiful mother, wife, and person you truly are. Thank you for allowing us into your lives. You're such an inspiration to us all! God bless you and your family! Hugs to you all!

[@deedubbs4943]

Thank you for sharing your story. There are resources for people who have eating disorders. When I was in high school I went to a support group called over eaters anonymous. It is not just for people who over eat but for those who have any eating disorder. It is a 12 step program just like AA. The people there are the nicest people who continue to struggle everyday. Support groups are such a huge help.

[@leighwunder2483]

I struggled with a eating disorder when I was a teen. I ended up in an eating disorder clinic and being 5'10 and weighing 105 and 98 at my lightest. This video just touched my heart Kayli, Your beautiful inside and out! Thank you so much for sharing. ♥

[@Sarapeaches23]

I think when kayli thinks of her own children and puts herself in the shoes of her parents, she really feels the pain and hurt and thats partly why she is tearing up so much. GOD BLESS YOU BABE xxx

[@Auniesauce]

Kayli. This is my story right now. Thank you so much for sharing. You and your parents are so brave. Thank you.

[@lucyjcx]

Crying right now this touched me and made me feel wanted bless u kayli💗❤️

[@Babycat112]

Your parents are so sincere and understanding. I can't say thank you enough!

[@JenXLG]

This is such a brave thing you did Kayli, must of been the hardest video that you've ever made. I'm thankful that you shared this experience with KZbin because you have helped so many people just by sharing this story with us, your such a inspiring women to me. xx

[@scrumps101]

I'm absolutely blown away by your family.This obviously can't be an easy topic to revist let alone sharing it with thousands of people. The fact that all 3 of you came together to rehash such intimate moments speaks volumes about your character. Your genuine and heartfelt story was remarkably told and gives hope to so many, not just in overcoming such a tragic events but that in building and maintaining a trusted and strong relationship with their families. Thought, prayers & thanks to you all.

[@cristinmk222]

Wow! I have so much more respect for you, Kayli. I never knew you suffered with this and I am sorry that you did but like your dad mentioned, the closeness/love of your family was the miracle you needed to improve. I am so glad that you had them. Having taught for the past 12 years, I know several students who have struggled with similar issues but weren't as fortunate. Thank you so much for sharing this heart-rending story.

[@annach7914]

The love between them is precious and how kayli looks so much like her mother

[@TheSweetPrincess25]

can't stop crying ..

[@Keedie732]

Kayli you are such an inspiration. Although I have not personally suffered from an eating disorder I have had close friends who have. I feel that by you sharing your story and being so open and honest about your past you give people, with or without an eating disorder, the courage to share whatever problems or issues they have in their lives. You are definitely someone I look up to and have the utmost respect for you! From the bottom of my heart I thank you so much for sharing your story!!

[@ToriFurlotte]

Anyone noticed how instead of "you were" her parents say "you was" ;p

[@michaeladayvgs]

I feel like you're so lucky to have parents who understand. I know they didn't at first, but they made the effort and after time were able to help you, instead of just dismissing it as overreacting. That's the biggest comment i ever get to anything, "you're just overreacting", and it makes it so much harder when people don't take you seriously. I love this video, hearing both sides of the story.

[@Sarapeaches23]

Kayli i love you so much. You inspire so many young girls.

[@singinskater]

Your parents are so sweet! Thank you for spreading light on this subject. I have multiple friends who have suffered with eating disorders, included my mom. She has always been open with me about her journey. I hope and pray that your story encourages other to stand up and get a hold of their life back.

[@aliciacannon861]

Kayli, this video is so inspirational. You are very brave to post this. Youre beautiful💕 dont let anyone tell you otherwise

[@Kashtrig]

I love how honest your family is....I have teenagers and it's important to keep talking about these issues...Thank you for sharing :)

[@ashantishi8548]

Kayli nobodys perfect, and that dosent mean that your still not beautiful everyone is.you dont have to worry about anyone judging you about your weight or how cute you are you are

[@a.m.arteaga8369]

You're extremely lucky. Your poor parents, can't imagine what they've gone through. They are amazing! Please love them and thank them for what they've done, they deserve it.

[@alishazaman5350]

I think Kayli is REALLY brave for sharing this! Even though a few people are hating. 😣

[@rachelfausak]

Kayli...I commend you and your parents for being so open and honest with your emotions and experiences that led you all on a journey to where you are today. It takes an INCREDIBLY strong person to be so forthcoming with something so personal and you should be so proud of yourself! You are an inspiration!!!

[@leliza7161]

Brailee looks so like her grandpa

[@moungsaetern9076]

Agree

[@kourtneyk3743]

Very touching video. I went through the same disorder and we have so much in common. I'm glad you overcame this horrible disease. You're an inspiration, thank you.

[@baileyhoyt7158]

Am I the only one that cried or almost cried through this video because I sure did.

[@AdventuresWithTina]

This video really spoke to me.I am not dealing with an eating disorder but with depression.Seeing how all parents go through this process..it helps me understand that parents put you through that process of "embarrassment" by going to therapists and doctors in order to help you.Thank you Kayli for sharing your story with us.It is truly inspiring.

[@shmethanyxx]

Wow. I remember stumbling across this video a few years ago - before I'd ever heard of the Shaytards or Kayli and Casey. And to find this again knowing more about Kayli. Crazy.

[@gx217dc]

Dude thats like meeting your mom not knowing that she's your mom... Thats cray!..

[@ashleyn8054]

ME TOO!!!

[@kjtnk09]

YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL KAYLI...you really are!!! You and your parents were so brave to do this much needed video. I wish you and your family nothing but the best.

[@PrimadonnaGirl95]

I'm so glad your better now, keep on going strong.

[@tifferinn]

i love how honest your parents were through this. it's a side of them that we have never seen. really powerful. thank you.

[@beccasimpson7064]

Was I the only one who got tears in there eyes

[@foreverjulie14]

Is it raining in my room....?

[@VictoriaLovesY0UX]

Nope I cried for 2 1/2 hours after watching this

[@Nargiszahra]

I don't have a eating disorder, but listening to how much pain mentally your parents went through I think it's really brave of them to sit with you and talk about this issue.. Hats off to your parents who stood by you and I hope everyone is blessed with parents like yours because it truly is a blessing. well done I'm so proud of you god bless you xx

[@alexbrynna]

your parents look soooooooooo young and you ladies are beautiful. this was very touching and also very intersting. thank u for sharing something so sensitive and difficult to talk about.

[@ozzienurseintheoutback4315]

I think you guys are amazing. There are people all over the world dealing with this issue, your video is inspirational and encouraging. Strong support networks are a must and a lot of love, understanding and encouragement is vital to overcome this illness. Well done all of you for your openess and courage in sharing such a powerful and personal story. Awareness is empowerment!

[@ErisedMarauder]

I don't think i'm going to tell my family because I don't want to worry them, but from now on i'm really going to try and get better even if it will be hard.

[@ItsBriGames]

I was depressed and did things I wasn't proud of. I never wanted my parents to know because I didn't want them to think of me as a problem. But, when they found out, they were nothing but supportive of me and helped me through everything. Parents will worry. It's apart of being a parent. But it's better to go through things with others rather than alone :) If you'd like to confide in someone and you really don't want to tell your parents, please know people do care and if you'd like, I'm willing to be one of them. :) Things will get better if you try to make them that way.

[@20Unbelievable06]

this is a really late reply, but I felt it is still important. if you haven't told your parents yet, or anyone else. please talk to someone, anyone. you should not have to deal with this all by yourself. you deserve to be healthy. if you need someone to talk to, just message me.

[@jenii523]

Of course it's going to worry them but that's just what's gonna need to be done! they will worry in the best way and may be your only way to help. its important you tell your parents, even if right now you don't think so in the long run you will be grateful that you at least where open with them. If they worry they are worried because they love you and they want to understand and not let it destroy you. It's not about I don't want them to worry it's about this is a serious situation, and you can get help and be happy again. You should be open with them anyway it's not just you, it's them too, and you can be better and live the best life. And that's because you can turn it around WITH your family by your side, it can only help

[@sk8ngprincess]

Your parents are amazing... I'm going through my eating disorder alone... my parents don't support or help me... watching this made me realize how important it is to find someone... be grateful for your amazing support system kayli... your really lucky..

[@sierrapodgurny2534]

makes me so sad, I never thought Kayli had a eating disorder but shes still perfectly perfect

[@YummyMegs]

Thank you to your mother, for having the strength to carry on despite seeing her daughter suffer. Thank you to your father, for being so brave about expressing his feelings in this video. And most of all, thank you to you Kayli, for overcoming your disorder and having the courage to share your story with the world in order to help others, you are truly a beautiful person inside and out.

[@MissSoCute101]

Hey Kayli, you are so brave sharing this with your fans!

[@xmissdreamer]

This video hit a spot in my heart. My sister has been struggling with an eating disorder for a couple of years now. There has been many ups and downs. Sometimes you don't know what to say or do, but just to be there for support and try to understand. By realizing there is a problem and wanting to seek outside help, things will get better--no immediate fix, but within time.

[@Allyson-xb3nx]

I could not look at this i was about to start sobing :( Love u Kayli

[@laineysewssomething]

Kayli, you are such an inspiration for so many young people who have or are going through this. Thank you for sharing your story, it means so much to so many people. Your parents are wonderful and you are very lucky to have such caring parents that not only support you but can share their experiences to help others that might not have parents like them. Keep up the strength Kayli, we love you!

[@aceconfetti5724]

omg i've been watching your vlogs on casey's channel for a while now and i had no idea. I saw this pop up in my "suggested videos" K i'm crying now.. D:

[@perfectlysparkly]

what wonderful parents. Kayli you have turned out to be a truly lovely person and i think the relationship you have with your parents is what every parent should inspire to have with their children. thank you for sharing x

[@makeupngaming9523]

My whole family thinks that my older sister has an eating disorder, but she always denies it. One time, I was home alone with her, and she passed out because she hadn't eaten anything that day. It's really hard to see my sister hurt herself and I don't know what to do because she doesn't want to talk to anyone about it. I've tried helping her but she doesn't seem to want to talk to anyone. It hurts my feelings because I feel like she feels she can't talk to me, and that she can't trust me. What should I do?

[@egiapdradoow]

my opinion, just let her know she can talk to you. not necessarily about having an eating disorder, but anything. tell her face to face, or even leave her a little note that you've seen things, and you worry, and that you want to help and be there for her. if she feels comfortable enough, I'm sure shell reach out to you somehow. even if it is sending little notes back and forth to each other every day lol hope everything works out :)

[@Lizzy_Garfield]

just pray for her

[@20Unbelievable06]

without expecting her to say anything at all, tell her that you see that she's suffering and that she can talk to you about anything. I think she needs to know you're there for her without feeling pressured.

[@laraviray9958]

I know big sisters someday

[@entyce69ttp]

its so amazing that you three got on here and talked about the pain this caused you! Im sure this will help so many young girls and soooo many parents and friends watching someone go threw it

[@Suzanie100]

You are all ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL...So sweet. But not to forget as Christians God is the answer to EVERYTHING. PRAYER is the key my loves. The devil has a purpose in this world which is to steal, kill and destroy and he will find every way possible to accomplish them. But he can NEVER get to those that are strong in the Lord and have FAITH. You are a winner my love!! :) xxx

[@hd02sporty]

Bravo to your parents! I can only imagine how hard it was for them to have their child go thru this. They weren't sure what to do but they found the help you needed to get thru this. And, they were there for you, all the way. Lots of love in this family!

[@rodentary]

My family didnt know and it made it harder.

[@shutuplistentoArnie]

I think this is a beautiful thing. You coming together as a family, I really appreciate your dad. Kayli you are so wonderful and brave. A strong woman.

[@mrsmommy81]

Watching again 4 years later✌🏻️❤️

[@xxangeleyesxx804]

I've struggled with my body image since high school. I struggled and still struggle with Anorexia. It took a LONG time for me to realize what I was doing to my body wasn't right. I praise you for having the strength to share your story and you parents are the true strength and foundation to your recovery! You are so blessed!

[@bartekzarzecki7678]

Kali, you are perfect and beautiful. Man I wish you were my wife. Casey is so so lucky

[@bartekzarzecki7678]

*kayli

[@Mycures]

I'm really glad you shared this. Plenty of girls share the story of their disease on youtube - but for every eating disordered girl there are countless people trying to save her whose side of the story never gets told.

[@1989katiefoster]

Her dad looks like he's 40

[@Maijatus98]

He must be older than that since Kayli already has her own children. My dad is 52 and I'm 16.

[@clairebelcher1492]

Wow! I am 10 and my dad is 62!

[@kathryngraham3048]

Im 10 my dad is 54

[@beccasimpson7064]

I'm 11 and my dad is 46 and my mum is 47

[@valentinaperlaza6087]

im 11 and my dad is 52

[@Sqin12345]

I just want to say, this is so touching. Well done Kayli for sharing your story. You are so brave. I am so proud of you for doing what you've done. You've left me in tears.

[@stephanie-dy3wp]

my mom yells at me...or goes watever u know wat ur doing...or just calls my anxiety around food stupid or me stupid....shes not suportive at all....ive dropped 20lbs while being away in college ..totaling 60 in 2.5 years ,,,im just afraid shes gonna yell at me when i go home

[@valerializarraga7331]

I feel like you, if i tell my mom shes going to say you are old enough to know what you are doing, im just 12

[@stephanie-dy3wp]

ooh honey...ur 12...well their no such hing as being too young or too old. im 21 and have had ed since i was 18...i wish ur mom was taking care of u like she shud...she really shud take ur ed seriously...if someone took my ed seriously wen it started i wouldnt be like this now

[@saywhat3]

hi Kayli. my sister is suffering with an eating disorder right now and she's really sick. watching her do this to herself is the hardest thing i've ever gone through, and i'm really scared. thank you for sharing this with us, and for bringing out your parents to share their side of the story. you are a strong and wonderful person

[@NinaBrown5]

Brailee looks a lot like your dad!

[@LiveLoveRunning]

Thank you for sharing this very personal part of your life. I can't even imagine how hard it was to go through this. Your story is an inspiration to be healthy and keep the communication open between family.

[@lauralovesJB12]

Kayli you are so beautiful!!!!!!!

[@thirdofsix1]

Kayli is a huge inspiration to all girls out there with an eating disorder or without because her modest yet outgoing personality has made many girls look up to her (including me). I want to be a mom someday and be just like Kayli so I can be as patient and as caring as her! Thank you so much for talking about this!

[@jsimpson518]

kayli's mom looks like her sister!

[@meganhunt1459]

they were very young when they had her

[@Snickrsnack]

Thank you so much for this, Kayli. You and your parents are amazing to talk about this. So many people act like this is a dirty secret in their families and don't discuss it. Thank you for bringing it to light.

[@sofia01ht]

that's not true...not all parents listen. god knows how many times i've tried to talk to them but they just turn it against me everytime and even therapy, they humilliated her and told her to stop talking to me if not they would press charges and then lied to me about it telling me it was my fault that she ABANDONED me. so i don't have annyone and i'm sick of puking 5 times a day. i even think of ending my life sometimes because i'm done with everything. i wish my parents were just like yours :'( idk what to think right now

[@jaclynnstrawinski6626]

We are a kind of family too and you can always lean on us sweetie.

[@katehodson5181]

Don't worry about it. If you ever have any problems don't be scared to comment it to us, or DM a therapist on Instagram if you have one. The only thing that I can tell you is that you have too much to look forward to in your life ahead. Someday you will be able to be an amazing parent who is kind to their children and listens to them. You do not want to stop living just because things get rough. I have never met you in person, but I know that you are a beautiful creation of God, and He has a plan for you. God's path is made especially for you is not ready to stop its journey. You are loved, you are strong, and you are beautiful! Never lose the faith in your Heavenly Father. He loves more than you will ever know. Only let him make the decision on when you pass away. He has a plan that all of us need to trust. Right now I want you to look up the song called Trust in Jesus, by the band Third Day on KZbin. Listen to the lyrics, believe in the lyrics, and know that you are perfect.

[@LaurenFace19]

Kayli you are such a wonderful inspiration. Thank you, sincerely, for not only sharing your story but for helping other girls who are struggling by doing so. You are beautiful inside and out and such a strong person. You are truly a role model and someone I admire. I hope you know that in making these KZbin videos you are doing so much and reaching countless lives

[@kiki2233-t6b]

Do her kids know that she has it

[@gymnastgirl1333]

I'm guessing so, if not I bet they will find out when they are older (:

[@TalliaLPS]

She had it

[@kianatouesnard2539]

#webothhabethenamekiana

[@HannahJane1994]

kayli, i suffer from an eating disorder that i didn't realise i had until i started antidepressants for depression and my eating habits got better and i started putting on weight again and i hated that. it's amazing how much the whole butler family has helped me through a lot of my depression and eating disorder, i wish i was able to meet them and thank them for the inspiration they have all given me; they are a truly amazing family x

[@missylewis7210]

There's smth really wrong with these Butler women. They're all hiding big secrets. ugh.

[@kerwri]

You all are so amazing to do this. I admire each of your strengths to be willing to help others through your experiences. Keep going and know we love you. I'll be praying for you.

[@coolbedz]

i actually cried so much watching this

[@Sponda7]

Such a sweet video and family. It's apparent the pain is still fresh. I'm sending prayers your way for continued healing and restoration. Everyday is a battle for an addict but to have strong support is imperative.

[@Doobietchou]

Kayli you're very brave to talk about all of that and to help people get through this. I could see how your father is proud of you for doing it. You're so beautiful and sweet! Love from France! Elodie

[@vondiemiller5649]

i love how honest,true, love, emotions, all that was in this video and to know that they are such a strong great family they got through it, like she said, it wasnt hard or easy, but they did it.. oh gosh how i love kayli.. shes a doll..

[@klnot]

Bravo!! It's nice to finally get to "meet" you, your mom and your dad. We are related. (I didn't have much to do with the family when younger due to a divorce.) This video hits home as to how important family is. It wasn't until I lost my family that I understood the importance of them. Glad you are doing much better, my dear! You truly come from an awesome family.

[@LannaLou1724]

this is such a touching video and is a realization to me how much this disease can take such a emotional toll on a family. this is very courageous of all 3 of you. thank you for sharing, i've had troubles with my self image and this woke me up, so again thank you, thank you. God Bless:)

[@Stanushka]

they all change from last year so much!!!! Kayli used to wear so much make up oh my gosh, she looks much better now and she is opening a lot more to us now. We love you Kayli xxxx

[@Katelisa16]

Who would ever dislike this, this woman is trying to help people who are going thru this same problem, she's just trying to share her experience. What is wrong with people?

[@EllenCaitlinScott]

This is incredible, I've never been through an eating disorder but this has still been such an interesting thing to watch and I really feel it will give people a lot more understanding about the condition. Seriously, you're so brave for talking about something personal, so much respect for you

[@JABn4e]

Kayli, Mom and Dad. What a brave thing for the three of you to do. I feel the more the three of you talk and at some point include whole family and let each other know how each of you felt going through that difficult time. What a great way to bring you all even closer. I bet it would be very enlightening and freeing. Better than you would ever get from a therapist. Congrats for a hard event so well done.

[@CarriesNo1fan]

Thank you so much for sharing this, Kayli. I, too, had and ED from 10-22 and only around 20 did people start caring enough to ask anything, and by then I was too skinny, my skin was turning green, my hair was falling out.. and my whole family turned on me. They got mad, too, but never tried to help, they just made me feel worse about myself. I still haven't recovered completely, getting pregnant (how I don't know) is what saved my life. I'm glad you are better, too. God bless you & your family!

[@IwAnT2bEaWeAsLeY]

Thank you so much for this. I recently told my mom about my eating disorder and I felt alone because I felt like she wasn't doing anything with what I told her and trying to make me better. But now I know I have to be patient with her, give her time to process what I told her and she'll eventually deal with it. Thanks again.

[@ashleyrp2007]

im glad you three are brave enough to sit down and discuss this and post it on youtube. Im sure there are tons of people out there who appreciate this advice and story

[@LoveYourImperfecti0n]

its awesome that you guys are all comfortable enough to talk about this serious issue. and that your parents are willing to talk about

[@essexbird01]

It's so nice to hear it from her dads point of view. Normally it's just something that is spoke about between mom and daughter. I know I would never talk to my dad about anything like that. And it's also lovely that they're so open about it because its going to help a lot of people who watch this. Thank you for sharing your story and thank you for getting better :) you're all amazing xo

[@faith2408]

I'm not new to your channel or caseys but I never knew about this I'm so happy for you now I'm literally crying

[@hollyb2008]

kayli, you have no idea how much this video touched me and my family! my younger sister who is 17 was struggling with an eating disorder for about a year. she finally got the help she needed and is doing so much better. but this video hit so close to home! i sat down to watch this video with my sister and then my mom came over and by the end we were all three sobbing! everything that happened to you my sister has been through. everything that your family felt i felt. thanks for sharing this! :)

[@skoochleg]

So much of this resonates with my experience and how my parents felt, it's pretty heartbreaking to realise how much you're hurting people around you and not being able to stop. Lots of love to everyone who's been through this or still is going through it. x