High Expectations vs High Standards

[@BreenyLee]

ARE YOUR EXPECTATIONS TOO HIGH OR NOT HIGH ENOUGH?! Comment below a few of your Standards & Dealbreakers, I wanna know 😃♥️

[@isiwiwo]

Has to be a Godly man, have a strong connection and devotion to the Lord first and foremost, respect and get along with my family, be independent, emotionally and finiancially stable (not verbally/physically/emotionally abusive in any capacity). Deal breakers would be: a man who has no standards or deal breakers of his own (it shows he will get with anyone and allow anything - he's not mature) a man-child who can't survive on his own, doesn't defend his wife, infidelity, abuse/violence

[@martines6302]

I think my expectations are fair, just like you said, you become more realistic , the more you’ve dated. Question, can you do like a grwm , while talking about a relationship update? or just regular updates. Missed you!!! Thanks for all of these frequent videos, you’re on it!!

[@Amoenus2011]

Thank you so much Breeny❤️ The most important thing for me is, that he accepts my daughter and they come along...☺️good hearted, faithful and that he keeps his word. That we can trust each other and give us the space we need.

[@mariissa-zf5ty]

Dealbreakers a toxic way of raising children Twisting things Extreme genderroles 'women need to cook everyday for her men' Secretive....

[@growourminds9126]

You're awesome! So much love and positivity uplifting women🥰

[@MercLife100]

6 foot, 6 pack, 6 figures...Lucifer. That hit 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@l.300]

That was made up from youtuber n life coach Tony Gaskins

[@babyc.3015]

If he hit that societal model of 'perfect' there gotta be sumn wrong with hin in some way lmaoo

[@curiouskira]

I remember a guy told me that me not dating a smoker was setting my standards too high😂😂😂😂😂 I had to look at him sideways

[@tranquility9325]

Smoking is gross, stinks and could kill that person. I do not have any desire to watch someone I care about, die of lung cancer and it was self inflicted.

[@tinag7506]

Smoking kills the smoker AND the passive smoker..

[@babyfly4652]

If that’s what you want, that’s what you want 👏🏾

[@wangbi.official534]

I mean sometimes I think my standards are too high but Breeny gets me and gives me hope that my man is out there ,he exists.Also ,she has saved me from a lot toxic guy's

[@claudiao7743]

I don’t know about y’all, but I feel like it’s easier to find women with emotional intelligence, basic life skills (being neat, cooking), attractive, and a stable job than it is to find men of the same caliber. More often than not, men date up while women date down.

[@Eaststoriestv]

True that’s because women grow quicker than men. You’ll be surprised to know that majority of men come into their purpose and real wealth in their 40s and beyond,where as women can become self aware at age 20. Unfortunately not every woman understands the point you made above and thinks men are supposed to get it,Just because she gets it.😩

[@ak-47intelligence75]

Relatable.

[@neeks352]

True-are you saying I should become a lesbian 👀?

[@claudiao7743]

@@neeks352 lmao I think we should all raise our standards and not accept less than what we’re offering. If we can collectively expect the bare minimum, men will have to stop being dusties.

[@claudiao7743]

@@Eaststoriestv instead of suggesting women date men twice their age, you should encourage men to put in the effort to acquire basic life skills, put effort into their appearance, be kind and respectful, etc. and ladies, get used to being single if you can’t find a man who can match your efforts.

[@celiaroseugc]

"Is not an abusive, cheating, drunk, drug head, or a criminal" 🤣🤣😭

[@BreenyLee]

😂🤭

[@aylincetin2508]

Hard to find nowadays

[@sunshinedealer]

Valid!😂🤣

[@abriaangel9986]

Like "are you supposed to be? 😂😂😂

[@Sandrinarhonda]

PREACH !! 🤣

[@isiwiwo]

You're helping so many women on their self-love journey and understanding themselves and learning about themselves. Thank you so much, we are so grateful

[@BreenyLee]

🙏🏾♥️

[@growourminds9126]

I totally agree. There aren't enough of us out here spreading positive messages and uplifting women. Its so important for us to be reminded that we're not alone or crazy. Helping to be apart of Creating Stronger Happier vivacious Women who are full of life love and confidence by giving you the tools you need is why I started my channel and everytime someone tells me they needed to hear something I spoke about on a video it warms my heart. We all deserve to be happy, most of us just don't know how. That's what I'm trying to change😊❤ and so is Breeny. Peace and love to to🥰

[@millenadecampos7192]

I just want a man who’s faithful to God, doesn’t smoke anything, is hard working, same morals as me and has a big heart, but even that is hard to find and I admit that I’d like a tall man 😂

[@lubnan08]

As a 6 ft 1 woman. I dont think its unreasonable for me to want a man over 6 ft. Its honestly so hard for me to be with a short man but I have overlooked this if everything else is going well.

[@millenadecampos7192]

@@lubnan08 i agree, it’s not unreasonable for you to want that

[@AMarie2326]

amen sis!! i want the same things too. and i will hide myself in God and trust that he will give me this.

[@leveluplife3699]

What about the flaws you can tolerate?

[@millenadecampos7192]

@@leveluplife3699 idk but I’d say the same as my dads flaws, he’s the greatest man I’ve met, and it really depends on what you consider a flaw

[@TysonMichael77]

For my ladies reading this remember that you can have standards and if you feel like a man is not respecting that or can’t hold up to your standards. Do not lower them 🔥 you are a boss, you are meant to be valued❤️ keep loving on yourself and love will come to you ✨

[@lexielovingu206]

Thank you❤

[@BreenyLee]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@angelsmile9789]

Amen👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@crisdebelle]

I'm 19 year old and never had a boyfriend, I've been told my standards are too high and that's why I haven't experienced "love" or I get laughed at because it's impossible that I hadn't had one . But in my opinion when I was younger I wasn't interested in dating/Having a boyfriend , but Currently I am. idk I have told that I need to experience life etc and test all options lol

[@neeks352]

Girl don’t listen to them. Had my first bf at 20. I wasn’t interested even in my first bf. Was so used to being by myself so that was something I had to learn to do was to think of someone other than myself. Don’t rush anything and do you love 💗

[@tenacious-e3o]

❤️❤️❤️

[@amycute8323]

They are gaslighting u to make u think that so u can lower them for the bummy crusty guys. Keep them standards higher than the eiffel tower. & Keep them there queen never settle for less. 💯💕

[@BitchItsAle]

Didn’t have mine until 20 as well don’t rush anything sometimes you gotta wait longer don’t compare your life timeline to others love

[@crisdebelle]

@@neeks352 thanks ❤, im just doing me right now until i find the one

[@flyandshy00]

My top priority - him being a provider because I want to be a house wife and be able to spend time with my kids, maybe even homeschool.

[@mn8753]

Yes me too

[@chill1118]

Sis me too

[@rickimcfarland2269]

The same.

[@pipermarie8393]

I would love that too

[@annikaminina7670]

Me too!!!

[@jthomas0324]

Oh my goodness I hear to lower my standards all the time!! One of my deal breakers is that I don't want a smoker----it's triggering for me and the idea of kissing a man that smells like an ashtray is just not the move . I've been told so much to just "get with the program bc just about every one smokes". I work in healthcare , so I have to be mindful of the habits I do, and I desire a man whom can respect that and honor that. If they can't, they're not for me

[@misssoleil2056]

I 100% agree about the smoking. I don’t want a guy who smokes either.

[@silver_0447]

Completely normal sis, I can’t stand the smell of cigs either and I know a lot of girls in the same boat. I wanna see how a man can handle his stress without the need for a cig

[@Catscratch241]

@@silver_0447 such an important point. If he cannot handle stress without smoking a cig, how will things work out when cigarettes are removed from the equation.

[@BreenyLee]

If that’s your standard then that’s your standards! Uphold them 🙏🏾

[@thelookout5802]

You aren't alone. Smoking is a complete no,no..

[@charlinecharlostin3188]

“ We are looking for someone to compensate for what we lack “. 🔥🔥🔥. I’m so glad I learned to heal and work on me instead of trying to change a man.

[@growourminds9126]

That's the only way 🥰peace and love to you on your journey

[@vm6796]

I agree, but I don't think you are ever asking for too much when you want someone to match you. When things are mutually reciprocated I think that can be healthy. That's why I think you should spend time working on being the best version of yourself in all aspects of life. That way you can attract someone you are attracted to on all levels.

[@universoulqueen5884]

This!❤

[@vm6796]

@@universoulqueen5884 haha thanks 💕

[@BreenyLee]

Hundred percent, date your equal 😊

[@vm6796]

@@BreenyLee thank you for your reply! 🙌 💕

[@Ellejas]

I recently told a friend what i look in for a man : loyalty, support, family orientated, kind, supportive, in touch of his emotions and financially secured. She said i am asking for too much:| but in my opinion no relationship can survive without any of these. Ladies, am i really asking for too much??

[@OO-ct4hq]

That's what should we experience in a relationships. Those are normal.

[@Ellejas]

@@OO-ct4hq thats what i told her. These are all basic and normal traits. She acted like i was asking for the moon or something lmao

[@miasministry07]

Youre NOT asking for too much boo. GO GET YOUR MAN. HES OUT THERE.

[@iguessitslydia]

It sounds as though she has quite low standards🙈 it's better to have higher standards and wait for the right person for you instead of settling for less and ending up unhappily married or divorced

[@melissamorales5088]

Ofc you’re not, your friend may not want those qualities in a man but just because she doesn’t, doesn’t mean you’re wrong or it’s “too much”. We all look for different things.

[@briannaleon403]

Amen! Sometimes we forget as women that men are human and they aren’t perfect. We are all perfectly imperfect. We are ourselves aren’t perfect and get too pompous. Women need to stop sacrificing good men just because they don’t check all the boxes, yet play with little boys. Like you said “ men also want a good woman” we have to work on ourselves just the same way we judge a guy. Always on point. Luv u Breeny 💛

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

Men keep their Standards very High. All Men want the most Beautiful lady at the party. Whether their handsome or short and bald.

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

@Burden Of Proof Not at all. A beautiful Woman is not a preference. Gold is not a preference. Men want a beautiful Woman because they want the BEST!!

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

@Burden Of Proof I totally agree. 7 think any Man is SUPER fortunate do call me his girlfriend...and so should all High Quality Woman. 😉

[@evadhiman3477]

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[@Tiffrain]

Why are you coming for me in the reply?! Lollol this one hit.

[@emmysgra]

Finally something really for me, thank you Breeny ❤️

[@zedthemillennial6525]

That's an interesting point you make about women thinking their accolades will attract a man. I've always thought you attract people who are where you are at.

[@curvesbyada]

“666...these girls want Lucifer” 😂😂😂

[@n.c.6211]

I can already hear the chorus "I am in love with the devil" 😅😅😂😂

[@ayannagradymba5959]

Tom Ellis is really FIONE tho ...

[@nnggss6968]

You just made me realise this man I’m talking to has all 3, and I still complain about things 😂

[@evadhiman3477]

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[@AdriTosta]

😂😂😂

[@latani21]

Girl you are reading my mind... I was just wondering if My standards are too high...

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

Standards are never to high. Just don't pretend to meet Prince Harry 😉

[@digitalbimpetv]

Love is Realistic and not Deceptive Marry Patterns and not Potentials 🗣- Digital Bimpe

[@danilorojas-velasquez8892]

I'm 19 year old and never had a boyfriend, I've been told my standards are too high and that's why I haven't experienced "love" or I get laughed at because it's impossible that I hadn't had one . But in my opinion when I was younger I wasn't interested in dating/Having a boyfriend , but Currently I am. idk I have told that I need to experience life etc and test all options lol

[@chantelodoom]

My big sis in my head is back! Please don’t ever stop making these vids. Changed my thinking completely during the first lockdown and I’m so ready for this lockdown 2.0 content 💕

[@icequeen5551]

Your standards can be as high as you want them to be, as long as you reciprocate what you require

[@Blacbeard31]

PREACH!!!... Excellent Video! You hit the nail on the head... I don't care if a woman owns an expensive car, own her own house, a business, Etc. Because as a man I already have that. I want a woman that is beautiful to me, a woman that cooperates, a good companion, have good values, homemaker, family oriented, want children, has empathy, she's optimistic, understanding, & emotionally mature.

[@vittoriapastidaporto3618]

You’ve made me remember a beautiful quote: “people should fall in love with their eyes closed”

[@MrJoon360]

Manage your expectations and you'll manage your dissapointments.

[@belladejaneiro]

My virtual sister is giving the best advices. You really being the older sister ive never had.🥺🥰

[@Nemyinspired]

OMG!!! Maybe that's why I'm still single, unrealistic expectations. It's so hard to believe that we are mates. You are so wise

[@growourminds9126]

Yes, we've all been there lol, You should start to set standards and not expectations. Standards are for yourself, they're about you, something you can control and adjust accordingly, whereas your Expectations on how someone else "should be" is not something you can control, thus ending in alot of disappointment. I have a video about it on my channel if you want more detail on how to do this.😊 I hope that helps. Peace & love to you on your journey❤❤

[@yoyoyo5621]

i think emotional intelligence is a must have for me. I just cannot be with someone who discounts my feelings and make me feel not heard. I know how to emotionally validate others and show empathy and I need that in my partner too. And honestly being emotionally intelligent doesn't cost a dime. It is really not too much too ask. I think I'm ready to be alone forever if I don't find someone like that

[@bklyn2014]

One of the best youtubers out there! Your way of speaking and delivery your content is amazing! Loved this video.

[@nash.azongafack7309]

Why do I laugh along when u laugh 😂 Breeny u were born for this for real.

[@m00035]

Breeny could you do a video about how to stop being defensive? This is really effecting my marriage and would like to change it but its like an automatic response that comes out before I can even think about what I am saying

[@Lauren-gs1eh]

And being assumptive!!

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

How about keeping away from People who make you feel defensive...to kick up their INSECURITIES.

[@Eaststoriestv]

Watch Kevin Samuels here on KZbin,You’ll stop in a day...

[@Megbars98]

Felt this. I completely agree! Would love to see Breeny do a video about defensiveness

[@BreenyLee]

I will do 🙏🏾

[@InfiniteLuminance]

During the time I was growing up, I never thought finding a guy who could meet the bare standards was difficult or unrealistic, because all the grown-up men around me could do that all the time. They can keep integrity and be kind and empathetic most of the time. So I didn't even have the standards for men, because I thought finding a good man was a very natural thing. I went to different societies without the protection of understanding those rules, so I held the best expectations and no standards for others. I have already learned my lessons. But, from another side, that means I never met some creepy guy that would ruin my life and my trust during my childhood and teenage. So I am very lucky, and I am so so so so lucky and grateful that so many female influencers are posting those contents out there to let the young girls learn, which makes me feel the goddess energy is truly protecting us girls all the time. I wish you the best Breeny. Thank you for caring for others, thank you for sending us those marvelous videos, and for your help.

[@classydahlia3933]

OMG 666...I wrote that down ... Holy smokes that is hysterical! ❤️ Thank you I needed this... I’m going to look and see if you have a video about men with kids

[@Chris-ti3gq]

We exist don’t count us out. We’re all not Lucifer. Goodluck out there

[@GabrielaNicol]

This is so good. You explained it extremely well and easy to understand. ❤

[@africangamergirl3200]

Started off with what I thought would be a video about getting a man to a video about me bettering myself😊

[@mikeskybrowser]

As a guy I would say you're spot on about the part about women valuing themselves in the same way that men do.

[@JC-ce8uw]

Please can you do a video on having high expectations vs standards with freindships?

[@StopLookandListenwithSamantha]

I like how you broke down the difference between standards and expectations. I also like how you went over both sides of the spectrum (not having enough standards VS having unrealistic expectations) and deal breakers. Thank you for sharing.

[@FunkyBeeh]

What a video, not a single lie told!!

[@ilssecastillo5561]

Probably one of my favorite videos, yet!! Extremely helpful, I think (once I'm ready to date) I will definitely go into it with a fresh, new perspective!!!

[@alessandrav.3230]

Who tf said black women aren’t beautiful?? Smh she is absolutely flawless ✨😍

[@Jamhael1]

The problem is not beauty, but ALL THE REST beyond beauty. What is the point of being a beautiful vase that is just that - a beautiful vase?

[@brandonyafanaro9710]

I really enjoy your videos . Honestly you’re the best . Please keep it up . You’re amazing

[@michellem8927]

Loving the Sunday uploads ❤️

[@srishtisharma1514]

That's the kind of videos I look for realistic and intelligent ❤

[@maria.1313]

Woman you're life giving! So grateful for you! Blessings of the highest divine order 🙏🤍🌹☀️💎🕊️🌈

[@beingasforevertrue]

Just what I needed to hear Breeny. Wow I really do forget sometimes how differently men think from women. Thank you for these gems Queen 👏🏾👏🏾💛

[@growourminds9126]

So true, from young ages were are taught a different set of values than boys are. We're taught to be loving gentle caregivers, while they're taught to be strong make money and provide... Breeny definitely drops gems, getting to empower women😏 I like to think that I do too on my channel, check it out and lemme know what you think. 😊Hope to see you there🥰

[@jeneciagallimore7096]

Love this message breeny never drop ur standard for no one

[@sarahcrane2840]

High standards is not letting just anyone in your life. Making sure they are trustworthy. High expectations I don't have..

[@Jamhael1]

Unfortunately, your expectations is what is pushing people away. No one is obliged to please Greeks and Trojans at the same time and all the time...

[@mytriton54]

BREENYLEE!!! You almost brought years to my eyes with what you said from 5:25 to 5:44. Why can't women see this??? These things can almost GUAR-RAN-TEE that a woman will be quickly married.

[@destinymowoe9291]

Wow I'm so happy to hear this today 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽😍😍😍

[@Bsarahkristy]

Consistently posting now woaw I’m loving it

[@terishatheodore289]

Your eye shadow color looks really lovely on you

[@lorrained327]

Breeny this was so insightful! 💕 I can’t lie I’ve been thinking my “creds” are gonna get me somewhere 😅

[@alkelangaspard]

Looool ikr! Same! I'm so happy she's not afraid to call it out! Criticism is a good thing when done in love (contrary to popular belief). I'm really gonna tweak that moving forward 😄

[@alannaleavitt7050]

I’m 22 and have always been told my expectations are too high. I’ve also struggled to prioritize my social skills and relationships when I was young due to childhood traumas so I definitely used escapism coping methods of the dream guy with unrealistically high expectations. As I’ve grown older, I’ve been able to realize this and pick out which of these are my true standards for who I want and need in a partner. If the whole point of dating is to eventually find someone who I want to live the rest of my life with, I don’t want to compromise my standards just to fit that societal expectation. I want the person to be everything I need and when people tell me to lower those needs, I can’t fathom how people justify that compromise. These videos help me a lot in my self confidence and morals because I feel like I’m so behind and always wanting to find someone but Im confident in myself and my ability to live a wonderful life without someone who I have to lower myself for. Maybe my views still need some work but I want to figure those out first before I jump into anything.

[@imanihenderson]

What are some of your standards?

[@Chris-ti3gq]

Wait I’m 6’7 with a 6 pack earning 6 figures under 30 & mature... We do exist. Rare but we do exist now... 666??? I’m not Lucifer tho 😂. I do have high expectations though no 🧢 . I go to the gym, have style, straight teeth, masculine but also a kind person.... Shit maybe I need to lower my expectations too cuz I’m still single tho 🤷🏾‍♂️. Or maybe I don’t care about social status idk. But I’m glad it’s women like you helping women become the best versions of themselves. I watched this video to learn how women think btw

[@Chris-ti3gq]

@AfricanxRose ok ok I’ll take your advice, it’s just hard to get women off the Internet because I’m not flashy. In person it’s much easier but thanks I will wait even though it’s taking forever🤦🏾‍♂️!

[@SafBash23]

6'7?👀👀👀 Say less, what's your @?😂😂😂 Just kidding!!!.... Unless?

[@Chris-ti3gq]

@@SafBash23 lol @nehesy_

[@heavennbound3352]

👀👀😩😂

[@Chris-ti3gq]

@Riso Growing up in Chicago prepared me for a lot intuition wise. I can pick up on who’s real or not in a matter of minutes. You can only fake it for so long. The standards I have vet the gold diggers out quick. Every woman wants a stable man & every man wants a woman who he thinks is attractive, that’s just the way it is. I don’t believe it’s superficial bc if they saw me in person they’d be able to see the exact same thing. They can come from the internet or in person bro. I’m not a fool good looking out tho💯

[@lauramanning8659]

Love the explanation of deal breakers and expectations ❤

[@moniquejeffrey]

Speak to us, Breeny! Preach! Men and women do not bring the same things to a relationship but what they do bring are equally important.

[@Jamhael1]

As a man, let me tell you a secret: Men start relationships from zero, woman start from 100.

[@TheSplendidChild]

Could you do more about how to cultivate being a loving, kind hearted, supportive woman and what that looks like. How does that kind of woman live?

[@growourminds9126]

Wow, such a beautiful question. The answer however, is in you... this is something to ask yourself because that is relative. That's a question that really only you can answer for you. What looks like love to someone may not look like love to someone else. We all have different love languages. I challenge you to sit down somewhere quiet where you'll be uninterrupted and ask yourself that question and wait for an answer. You'll shock yourself. It might be something you've never asked yourself before. You deserve to find out from YOU first. Hope that helps. I also speak more about finding yourself and self love on my channel. Feel free to check it out, hope to talk to you more there😊 more power to you!❤

[@growourminds9126]

Also (sideline to my first comment) if you're looking to be that kind of woman for a particular person, you should definitely ask THEM what they need to feel loved and supported. They would know best. We're all different ❤ hope that helps for now.

[@dariapolyushenko5176]

Wowwww! So happy I came across this video! Amazing advice, thank you :)

[@zain2232]

Nobody can ever tell anyone to lower standards or anything if u have high Standards there’s nothing wrong u just won’t get much and that’s your own problem nobody else’s

[@theInfiniteAwakening]

OMG!!! I LOVE you!! 💖That was incredibly insightful. I've been with both average and gorgeous guys. I needed to hear this. But your perspective is so well thought out and practical. Thank you! Love love your videos!!

[@takeauthority30]

Totally on point.... Too many women think men want status over ❤ heart and strength. Only naive broken men want those attributes and it's because they need a mommy not a wife.

[@AyandaMN]

Thank you for clarifying this because it was well needed.✨

[@AriaPringle9053]

I'm ready for a collab with you and Paige (Love your natural). You ladies give the best advice on KZbin.

[@onegirlonearth]

offtopic but your hair is gorgeous 😍

[@sharon8276]

A WORD!! 🗣️ Thank you as always, Breeny ❤️

[@barbiesdynasty8765]

Yasss I’m right on time, and loving this video so far. Keep up the good work Breeny, I absolutely love your videos and they’ve really helped me a lot throughout life and decision making in becoming a better person.

[@Helloo_oo]

Breeny, your growth! Girl!! Your recent content...such an improvement from your previous ones. Not that they had issues, they were great. You are definitely moving from one Glory to another!!😍😍 Yes, previous videos were glorious and these ones even more!! You are really exuding queen, quiet comfortable energy!👸

[@daysivelasquez9239]

i love it how ur doing this in your car

[@hidden_inchrist]

This is an amazing way to put it! I've been feeling like I can't be with the one yet because I'm just starting grad school, have a 7 year old car, can barely afford anything new lol and struggling this year especially, but this year I've been working on healing and producing fruit of the Spirit...growing with God and becoming a godly woman for my future husband and family. So I don't have all my physical, materialistic shit together, but it's good to hear that's a guy's perspective to worry about 😂😂

[@Giorgos579]

Nobody talks about emotional connection.It seems like everyone is looking for someone to make their life easier not more beautiful.If you get a true connection with someone you won't care how much money he makes or if he is successful.

[@Itsyourgirlbai]

you always come through breeny !

[@MrsArwena]

Breeny you're strong, wise and beautiful woman! 😍 also, I love your accent ☺️

[@growourminds9126]

She really is, and so are you, and if you feel like you're not, just know that you can be with a little self love and work😊🥰❤ peace and love to you

[@MrsArwena]

@@growourminds9126 Thank you and I wish the same to you! 🥰

[@growourminds9126]

@@MrsArwena Thank you much🥰

[@ladydee3925]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙏🏽 am glad you showed this to us who listen... you don't hear this type of advise quite often so thank sis xxx🥰

[@samirasenpai6307]

Breeny, I absolutely love your videos, they're so real and genuine. your advice is amazing, not superficial or shallow level tips they're real life things we can actually take on board to help us become better people for ourselves and the people around us 💜

[@Chaptersaudio]

7:24 AMEN BREENY! I LOVE this video! And here is why..... So many of your videos are like mini classes on life. Nuggets of topics to think, ponder and possibly add to our lives. This video is a perfect example of one that many women need to take mental AND actual notes on, and then apply it to their lives. Sans your opinion on most women wanting to be married, I agree with 99.9% of how you think on any given topic. But on this one, we are identical in every way. Especially as we age, the physical and superficial mean very little. When I was in my 20's (because I have a fetish for tall men) I dated almost primarily tall guys. I was *VERY* superficial for myself and any guy I dated. But now.....not at all. Compatibility means more to me than if the guy is tall, handsome, great job and expensive clothes. I think most women come to this realization as they age, but for your younger viewers, why not teach and train your minds to thinks this way now.

[@nunudhlamini3829]

Love you to the moon and back👌😍 this was so helpful. God bless you

[@tayseerkheir3314]

Being a cheater is not a standard, cheater is a deal breaker.

[@1KINGLOVE1]

It's EASY for a woman to find a good man. You stand in your own way.

[@Roni-Ron]

I would like a man who is responsible, respectful, kind, who can take care of himself- who loves himself- and open to self care and who is thoughtful and just taller than me 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@KevZen2000]

Call it whatever you want. The problem is the average woman today has unrealistic expectations, and many will wind up single for a long time.

[@juliawiktoria4891]

I had to watch this 2 to finally understand

[@kofoworolaafolabi8210]

Who is an average person? I’ve never really understood this concept

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

Don't ever be average! 😉

[@Abimbola.Abioye]

Same here. I have never understood it myself. By what yardstick do we measure the level we are on? What does it mean to be below average, average or above average?

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

@@Abimbola.Abioye Never say "I can't" That's being above average. Taking risk!

[@keelanleavy311]

An average person is someone who's attractive but not attractive enough to draw attention from everyone

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

@@keelanleavy311 NO ONE IS NOT ATTRACTIVE. If you dress well. Great hairstyle. Have a secure and confident Attitude. Your Attractive!

[@leemagny5020]

I love this video. Some people are just delusional they won't get you.

[@lisameraki]

I love your differentiation! Really well put 👑 💎

[@honestgaitungi5447]

If there was a way u could inject this in me....watched it three times now....Thank you Bree❤

[@soniaalaska6733]

Incredible video, well explained! Thanksss Breeny, always bringing value

[@finashilongo2922]

This is so true... It's good to have a preference but under no day should you be sooo laser-focused on it, that you end up missing the beautiful suiters that fall short of your list... I speak from experience... I used to be the "tall, dark, handsome, age 35 to 45" type of girl ... Well, fortunately I got to experience what is probably the most handsome of that field and I must say it was a bland as white bread... UNTIL, one day I changed to be open to everyone, that was (with no lie) the very same day I met my loving boyfriend (the best I ever had) is he the age I'd normally go for? NO, is he tall? well yes, is he dark? he's white .. and is he handsome? absolutely!! my point is.. be open, as long as they fit your fundamentals, be OPEN!

[@teresapaulo9802]

Thats really helpful for me thank you breenylee 🥰😘❤

[@laurence2299]

🥇🥇You’re THE BEST Breeny !! And you make laugh or smile so much with the faces you make 😂

[@pragyasrivastava1763]

Breeny i love ur hair curls😊.... You are beautiful 🔥

[@friimunya8488]

Thank you aunt Breeny ❤️❤️

[@natefommakau5895]

I love this! Thank you so much breeny🥺🥺❤️

[@TheAlkebulanTrust]

What one is used to one is used to. Experience and information at the time either subconsciously or consciously sets the standard and there is nothing wrong with it because who is for you will be for you. They are designed for you and you are designed for you. But you attract each other when you're living and not just looking...true or what are your thoughts?

[@richauntie316]

It's the consistency for me😊😊😊💕💕💕💕💕love from Uganda 🇺🇬 Africa

[@annajur6652]

I think that every woman who is waiting for Mr. Perfect should watch this video! 👌🏾

[@musicalmemories8975]

I often end up with men below my standards because men who are of higher standards are almost NEVER single and if they are the have plenty of high standard women to choose from

[@anber4129]

Needed this. Thank you, as always!! ♥️

[@hirohidetokoro9423]

You are a very nice person. For me in my life so far only very few important situations met African American friend or coach or whatever to support me for my future after that. Very few Korean friends also. I am a native Japanese living in Japan. Thanks so much.

[@elizarosies678]

Gosh I love you 🤣🤍👏 thank you for being the older sister i never had

[@bahjaliyahh2136]

Breeny you shaped my life and i want to thank you so much for that xox