are you good to people?

[@MistahMoogan]

Salaamu alaykum, sister. I just wanted to express my gratitude to you for making these videos not only to speak on issues that impacts society, but to broaden them in a way that highlights ayats and hadiths mentioned in our Qur'an. It's truly remarkable how you're able to accomplish that and I simply wanted to reciprocate that in the best way I know how. I know I'm not obligated to do this nor am I doing it for attention. The good in me just couldn't resist, my bad. Jazakallah khair

[@fishbarbeque8540]

Mashallah!

[@meds0390]

May Allah reward you in kind

[@Preppybabiess]

WWWWW MASHALLAH

[@Haya_0707]

Money can never repay for the wisdom and love that you share in this platform but here’s a humble amount to hopefully help a little bit to keep you making dawa videos. Please keep making us feel uncomfortable because truth is way better than comfort. Lots of love.

[@hassanhazrat3615]

Thank you for her ❤❤

[@Preppybabiess]

WOW WWWWWW

[@neptunians]

I just can't explain how the timing of your videos is always on point for me Farah. it is a sign from Allah, for sure. I am in my late 20's and I just had a semi-mental breakdown 20 minutes ago because of betrayal/hurting I got from some people and told my mom on the phone, that I don't want to be nice to anyone anymore because no one deserves it and they betray you and treat you like sh.t as if you were stupid just because you are 'good'.. and even if they deserve it, you can never know it, so maybe the solution is not to be nice/good to anyone at all instead of looking who deserves it or not (which I never did anyway, I was nice because that's who I am and wanted to be). And now seeing this video.. helps me to make up my mind. ps: also your 'unfriend them video (since I am still watching your video right now and you mentioned it), you literally uploaded the video when I was thinking about cutting ties with some of my 'friends' and after I watched it, it was so clear for me, it was a sign from Allah again, I cut ties with them and I feel so peaceful! I really like this video!

[@user-ge3ut2bk5l]

If you genuinely feel peace when certain people leave, and are concerned that they take advantage of your kindness, then you will benefit from that newfound time alone that you can spend with Allah SWT. It could be a sign that He wants you to spend time with Him and build your relationship with Him instead. While doing that, you can pray for good/pious Muslim company and insha’Allah good people will come into your life. Sometimes they pop up out of nowhere. People come and go, that’s the nature of this world. If good people come and naturally leave/drift apart/move somewhere too far, appreciate your relationship for what it was and move on (insha’Allah you’ll see each other again in Jannah). If bad people come into your life and leave, thank Allah SWT that He kept you away from them. And sometimes you wonder why fun friends left you, only to realize later they weren’t very good people. Trust Allah SWT and remember Surah Ash-Sharh. Verse 5: فَإِنَّ مَعَ ٱلْعُسْرِ يُسْرًا English translation: “So, surely with hardship comes ease.” Losing friendships might’ve been difficult, but insha’Allah better things will come to you. If you make a difficult choice that is better for your iman, you’ll be rewarded insha’Allah.

[@neptunians]

thank you very much for your effort and time writing this. It really made me feel better. I think that way as well, I trust Allah and won't change my attitude about being nice or good, I will just distance myself from people who use them. @@user-ge3ut2bk5l

[@KryzysX]

This woman is genuinely something

[@ryangahwa]

video just started, i’m not gonna act like i watched the whole thing but guys please listen to the title 🙇🏻

[@hayaat9236]

👍

[@Idekatthispoint0000]

Fr

[@circumcisemyloveforyou]

OMG RYAN YOU'RE HERE HIIII

[@PosieJulia]

Recently, I literally cannot stand anyone and it feels like a chore not to snap in people's faces, I don't know why I'm like this

[@laial_habil1960]

In the end we’re human and everyone has their limits . Maybe u need some time to focus on urself . May Allah help u 🫶🏼

[@niqabi-.]

stress?

[@PosieJulia]

@@niqabi-. No, I'm just pissed all the time😂😂

[@Fatouspeaks]

@@PosieJulia😂😭I don’t want to say that you are possessed but look into it, we never know

[@HIPHOPRNBBABY]

I love this woman so much. You have alot of wisdom Farah I could listen to you all day! I needed to hear this and everything you said, you said beautifully. God bless you and your family Farah Love all the way from Auckland, New Zealand 💜

[@parwinimuffin6570]

being too nice too people is not good. Thank you for this message. I needed to hear this. God Bless.

[@MA-sl5mg]

You don’t understand how much I needed this video

[@ozges1755]

I loved this episode so much, it came in the right moment! I'm overthinking a lot why people mistreat me, hurt me with their behaviors and think stuff like "I wouldnt say/do that like this why do you do that"..its easy to be good in a moment but its so hard to STAY good when the circumstances become harder and I think thats the real trial behind this. There is so much wisdom in this. Even this is a test.. how to stay good even if people here and there mistreat you and so on.. amazing topic to philosophize over!!

[@uzaydangelenkedi6212]

20:11 I have an atheist friend who rarely shares things on her ig stories, and guess what she shared the other day when all the people around the world is talking about Palestine. She shared something about protecting panthers. I was literally shocked that she was so proud about herself to do that.

[@bcmamira9599]

This came at the time that I am so desperately disappointed from people around me, I don't know how to be good to them. It's like I can't handle them any more, I tried to see good but they show me the opposite. I felt idiot trying to jutify their actions with good intentions.... leaving in peace is the only option indeed 🙏

[@LAIKAANGAGAO]

Being good to people, what i noticed before and after i have truly practiced islam by heart. Before, i was just being good out of pleasing others and that leads me to overthink it because I haven’t really thought of it much for myself, like i havent really applied it to myself causing my values to not really go my way because of my dependence of people’s reaction unto my action being good to them thru people pleasing-and when i have practiced islam by heart, the being good to people notion really changed, i am good to people now because that is what doesn’t bring me much anxiety or every thought, causing me to strengthen my values and respect for my boundaries and self. I felt it so much when you said ‘you never truly know much about people until they reveal themselves to you’ that is so true in a sense where you let them do what they want to do and what you respond in exchange would matter in so much goodness in a way where you wouldn’t really say anything about it but just listen attentively and respect whatever it is. It is such a nice notion in islam that being good to people means respecting the bounds of not only everyone but mainly yourself.

[@icardi9goat]

The first seconds are gold.

[@kayleekim9762]

According to Usama Ibn Sharik (may Allah be pleased with him), we were sitting with the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم as if there were birds above our heads, no one among us spoke. Then came people who said, "What is the best thing that is given to a person?" The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said, "Good behavior."

[@KryzysX]

❤‍🔥

[@soedkaa]

Thank you so much ,sister! This video is exactly what I needed,I was on edge of thinking that “ well people suck sometimes” . But when you talked about how people sometimes are so beautiful, i almost teared up man!May Allah guide us all and grant us with Jannah by His Mercy😌

[@aasiyaonize]

1:20 Nobody tests your patience more than your family and government employees 😫

[@tinyranii]

Soo happy u posted !! I'll watch this video later I just felt like leaving a comment cuz ure one of my fav notifications

[@Alaqsa_filasteen]

Jazak Allahu khairan my dear sister❤

[@iivasu]

i’m in tears, this video found me when i needed it most. thank you farah.

[@sh-en2gy]

19:14 save the entire world for eternity ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨

[@Nitewolflegend]

These podcasts are such a blessing, alhamdullilah😊 I like the background it has a vibe to it📚

[@yasminfatema2033]

Its actually really nice hearing someone say your thoughts out loud. Thank you!x

[@Sluxlife]

Loved this episode please make more episodes on how to become a good person

[@maryamkurtha8316]

SubhanAllah!! So beautifully described! People are more inclined towards goodness that is our Fitrah :) This is Allah STW's mercy to us and something to motivate us towards living out our true nature which can even be a higher state than angels Alhumdullilah!

[@khadijahbilal5087]

The part about Allah knows of our feelings and He knows if someone hurt us or He would know and care if we hurt someone really felt like a hug but gave me goosebumps at the same time thinking of the accountability Love your work Farah ❤❤

[@manelmanwella2688]

19:14 _ 19:22 you have no idea how many times I repeated this beautiful part Farah😂❤❤❤!

[@MuslimahTiktok]

Love your content it is now part of my Jummah.

[@Haya_0707]

Mashallah tabarak Allah. You are such a noor to this dark age my dear Farah. May Allah reward you immensely for these reminders that we all need.

[@ZuzuSyuhada]

Saw the thumbnail and my reaction was, "whoa, she's legit" in my language. And when the video started she actually said it. 😂

[@noonewarefe]

I just click the video because of the background and now watching the books... wanted the library tour

[@kaidorade1317]

Yes please!

[@Cinnoman777]

Indeed, sometimes we get caught up in thinking that people or the world are bad, but as you said, yes, there are bad things, but there are also good things too

[@RooftopClubPodcast]

Legit my first thoughts after hearing everyone of your episodes is just like "Thankyou seriously thankyou for all those words"

[@MA-sl5mg]

You are a blessing

[@Muslim_Student]

1:57 That was so unexpected, I think I died but came back just to finish he video

[@natalielubikova1873]

I love your sense of humor

[@samihakhondoker2456]

see the good sides in people to bring out the best in them

[@AmnaYousafSani]

Jazak Allahu khair, it's like a big sister advice ma sha Allah keep sharing with us.

[@Rockiizzz]

20:00 cobalt. That's the thing in most of our Iphones that you were trying to refer to.

[@kaidorade1317]

A lesson we all need in these trying times! As Bill and Ted say: Be excellent to each other

[@itgetsworse601]

Farah I'm listening to this outside and I'm laughing like lunatic at the intro

[@mypurpleworld378]

I can actually see you in the far future being a wise grandma wearing this abaya or praying abaya and giving much much more uncomfortable truths ,and you would still be funny and serious at the same time ,and hope you stay the way you are guurl ,all the love 😍

[@RienHammoud]

I love her so much 💗

[@neematm8266]

Jazaki Allah Khayr❤❤ you helped me so much and please make a part 2 about how to be good to people in more detail

[@Farahhrij]

I feel so close to you watching your podcast Thank you I really appreciate your reminder May Allah grant Jannah to you and to your family

[@diamondsaf5064]

6:15 funny and cute barakAllahu feeki 😊🥰🌷💖 and good reminder jzk. be good to everyone and think good of others

[@Iamsylvie.30]

FARAH YOUR VIDEOS MAKE MY DAY BUT I AM BROKE AND I CANNOT SEND THE DOLLAR THINGY ANYWAY I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS

[@Alxza111]

Hi farah you know this episode came at right moment when i needed to hear this reminder again..because a lot of peaple have wronged me ,insulted me but i kept quit for the sake of my moral ethics and islamic teaching but i know it deeply disturbed my peace thank you for this video i know allah promised for justice in this duniya or the akhirah. Peace be upon you

[@Reyio]

hey Farah,never stop posting i-i really.. idk what to say...some of your words really hits me like sometimes I feel like Allah is coveying what I need through you.May Allah bless you abundantly and I wish I got a friend like u yk letsbee friends in jannah jazakkallahu khaiiiirrrrr!!!!!!❤

[@mostafaehab4277]

Thank you Farah, this video really helped me to rearrange my mind and my thoughts, جزاك الله كل خير

[@Eseibeeme]

"We both had our dark moments"

[@ItsHusna528]

i love these videos they have been so engaging and helpful. literly they have helped me grow a person i love it keep it up sis

[@asmaalbriky7251]

Love your podcast and how you get to the point in such a beautiful way wish you will ❤

[@AbcXyz-qg7my]

Farah, my dear sister, I have a request to you. Don't know whether i should ask it from you or not but because of the fact that i absolutely see you as my own sister and that your podcasts have made a significant impact in my life, these vulgar ads that show up in between the your vdo, really does a big damage. You're someone i look upto, the way you've changed drastically over the months has inspired me to become like you my elder sister. I don't know a nicer way to put it, but would you please stop monetization on your channel? This would multiply your reward immensely my sister. This would help us as audience to concentrate on your insightful talk in general. That would have been awesome, believe farah didi (elder sister). Forgive me if i became a bit rough. Also salam from India. Jazakallahu Khairan my dear sister. May Allah bless you with more wisdom, health and prosperity in deen and dunya.😊

[@Jood-z7b]

are u talking about the ads between the video ?

[@AbcXyz-qg7my]

@@user-ge3ut2bk5l the tip that you shared is a hit and miss, my brother. If monetization is turned off on a channel, KZbin shall never show ads on the contents of that channel. A lot of such Islamic channels are available, for example 'Yaqeen Institute' by Dr. Omar Suleiman. I know this might be a bit too much for us to ask of her but provided that sister Farah has sacrificed a lot of haram things for the sake of Allah, i felt comfortable asking her this. Let it be the way it is, even if she doesn't, that's okay, we'll still listen to her just like we did before inshallah. May Allah guide us all to His recommended path. Amin.

[@AllahsServant12]

The timing…. Subhanallah. Really needed it. Allah is the greatest ❤❤❤ Jazakallah khair.

[@224gh3]

thank you so much , l really needed it , and i hope it was longer i still want more on that topic please make a second video about this topic

[@faitavecamour-zl]

❤ thank you for another amazing episode 😊

[@eminebeyzayigitturk907]

Thank you for this video it touched my heart 🫀🥹

[@fazsaid]

The books ATE

[@userisout]

Much of love and respect to you farah ❤️❤️

[@sh-en2gy]

Love your channel may allah reward you

[@AFSNM1127]

ماشا ءّاللّٰه لَا حَولَ وَلا قُوَۃَ اِلَّا بِا للّٰہِ الࣿعَلِّیِ الّعَظِیمُ

[@tahsinchowdhury8488]

Assalamualaikum. I am Tahsin from Bangladesh.I am probably the biggest fan of your podcasts. Keep up doing the good work. Thanks and kind regards, Md.Tahsin Sadeque Chowdhury.

[@niqabi-.]

Asalam alaykum wa rahmat allah wa barakatu. Im new here but I just wanted to suggest, if you haven't already, make a video about stress and the negative effects that it has. I would also like to know how to deal with it and reasons behind it, please and thank you. 🥰

[@sarakato1811]

You’re a real influencer, keep going💕💕

[@jvghibli]

Farah, thanks a million for this very insightful video. May Allah (SWT) bless you and reward you.

[@Ash-10fj]

I love this girl

[@Jood-z7b]

NOT THE BARBARIC PART LMAOOO

[@myr2145]

Thank you ❤

[@Sab.86]

I absolutely love you 😂 you’re the best ❤❤❤

[@nourrrr101]

جزاك الله خير يا فرح💞💞💞💞

[@falasteen2723]

First of all Hayeti I love you for the sake of Allah. Ur videos are always directly connected to a life situation SubhenAllah. I will watch this video tonight with my children, 10 and 8 years old ❤

[@isrouush1458]

We literally have each of those books in our library too 😂❤ thank you so much for this Farah, may Allah bless you ❤

[@sarahabusnober3116]

😍💙 Mubarak the new office

[@Ray-by7xo]

But that's why some things are preferable, to not disregard human emotions..

[@kcsplanet]

Beautiful video sharing 👍 New friend ❤️

[@Lol592]

Not even watched the vid yet, but reading the title made me remember the fact I made Dua about this is a few days ago سبحان الله

[@aasiyaonize]

Shameless commenting as an early viewer 🤧😂 love you 🫶

[@enchanted2meetU]

May Allah bless you and ease your affairs in the dunya and akhira

[@ramr8596]

Thanks

[@xbzainab]

thank you for uploading🤍

[@ParDans-n1i]

Bro u need to post more videos I've watched them all

[@dixieibr6710]

لا اله إلا أنت سبحانك إني كنت من الظالمين ❤

[@ledisesuhenda3033]

Farah thank you so much for sharing these valuable reminders for us through your video, May Allah always bless us❤

[@Fathurandhikaputra]

Subnallah Masha Allah

[@imahmedgad]

تصرفات الشخص الصالح بيحكمها الدين والأخلاق والمنطق لكن في ناس خنا زير في المجتمع مهما إتعملهم خير برضو مؤذيين ومش مدركين ولا بيعتذروا لما يغلطوا والأسوأ لما بيكونوا في مكان مضطرين نتعامل مع قرفهم فيه الطيب بيستحمل الأذية وعشان عنده ضمير عمره م هيتغير ولا يبقى زيهم

[@illelnihlls6538]

I love you farah❤

[@soukainaelmhamdi1134]

What a background ❤❤❤❤❤❤ you will learn all of these books inchaellah llahoma yassir

[@Ana14329v]

Thank you for this video, it was very helpful. Plz make one on Tawakkul on Allah swt 😊❤

[@naimhussain606]

Your editing skill is mad

[@farukmukhtar]

the unfriend them part was sinister

[@Youssprecious]

Thank u, Allah yjezik ❤

[@acheroncarnation]

farah, I have watched your videos a lot and please you are a wonderful person which your knowledge it's anything but beneficial for me!! Farah, I have a humble request for a topic to be talk. It's about past mistake and the consequences which nigh whilst we are moving to repent

[@dixieibr6710]

سبحان الله وبحمده ❤سبحان الله العظيم ❤

[@reilyunderwood765]

would you be able to make a video on tips for how to approach Ramadan as a new Muslim 🥺 it’s hard to get into the right habits

[@ladiswasharum]

Как всегда в точку Фара!🤩

[@abirelouafadjellali5534]

i love u farah thanck u so much for this beautiful vedio

[@lojiennlatiff]

Best content

[@riana902]

it feels illegal to be this early lmaooo

[@safwanhameed6753]

♥️good content