be good to people (not your typical advice)

The Hippiearab Podcast --- S1 E26
you see people every day... I hope. How do you treat those people? What do you think of them? What would you do if they mistreated you? The idea of showing goodness to others for nothing in return has been misconstrued to mean that someone is weak in their character and is not able to stand up for themselves. But it does the very opposite, it shows strength and firmness in a person's character to respond with goodness.
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[@isapurnell9213]

Salaamu alaykum, sister. I just wanted to express my gratitude to you for making these videos not only to speak on issues that impacts society, but to broaden them in a way that highlights ayats and hadiths mentioned in our Qur'an. It's truly remarkable how you're able to accomplish that and I simply wanted to reciprocate that in the best way I know how. I know I'm not obligated to do this nor am I doing it for attention. The good in me just couldn't resist, my bad. Jazakallah khair

[@fishbarbeque8540]

Mashallah!

[@meds0390]

May Allah reward you in kind

[@ryangahwa]

video just started, i’m not gonna act like i watched the whole thing but guys please listen to the title 🙇🏻

[@hayaat9236]

👍

[@Idekatthispoint0000]

Fr

[@circumcisemyloveforyou]

OMG RYAN YOU'RE HERE HIIII

[@Haya_0707]

Money can never repay for the wisdom and love that you share in this platform but here’s a humble amount to hopefully help a little bit to keep you making dawa videos. Please keep making us feel uncomfortable because truth is way better than comfort. Lots of love.

[@hassanhazrat3615]

Thank you for her ❤❤

[@KryzysX]

This woman is genuinely something

[@neptunians]

I just can't explain how the timing of your videos is always on point for me Farah. it is a sign from Allah, for sure. I am in my late 20's and I just had a semi-mental breakdown 20 minutes ago because of betrayal/hurting I got from some people and told my mom on the phone, that I don't want to be nice to anyone anymore because no one deserves it and they betray you and treat you like sh.t as if you were stupid just because you are 'good'.. and even if they deserve it, you can never know it, so maybe the solution is not to be nice/good to anyone at all instead of looking who deserves it or not (which I never did anyway, I was nice because that's who I am and wanted to be). And now seeing this video.. helps me to make up my mind. ps: also your 'unfriend them video (since I am still watching your video right now and you mentioned it), you literally uploaded the video when I was thinking about cutting ties with some of my 'friends' and after I watched it, it was so clear for me, it was a sign from Allah again, I cut ties with them and I feel so peaceful! I really like this video!

[@user-ge3ut2bk5l]

If you genuinely feel peace when certain people leave, and are concerned that they take advantage of your kindness, then you will benefit from that newfound time alone that you can spend with Allah SWT. It could be a sign that He wants you to spend time with Him and build your relationship with Him instead. While doing that, you can pray for good/pious Muslim company and insha’Allah good people will come into your life. Sometimes they pop up out of nowhere. People come and go, that’s the nature of this world. If good people come and naturally leave/drift apart/move somewhere too far, appreciate your relationship for what it was and move on (insha’Allah you’ll see each other again in Jannah). If bad people come into your life and leave, thank Allah SWT that He kept you away from them. And sometimes you wonder why fun friends left you, only to realize later they weren’t very good people. Trust Allah SWT and remember Surah Ash-Sharh. Verse 5: فَإِنَّ مَعَ ٱلْعُسْرِ يُسْرًا English translation: “So, surely with hardship comes ease.” Losing friendships might’ve been difficult, but insha’Allah better things will come to you. If you make a difficult choice that is better for your iman, you’ll be rewarded insha’Allah.

[@neptunians]

thank you very much for your effort and time writing this. It really made me feel better. I think that way as well, I trust Allah and won't change my attitude about being nice or good, I will just distance myself from people who use them. @@user-ge3ut2bk5l

[@MEO18997]

Al baqara "establish the prayer, give charity, be nice to your parents, and talk nicely to people" Prophet Muhamed (pbuh) : "If a person believed in Allah and the day of judgement, he should talk for good or stay silent"

[@alise4377]

Recently, I literally cannot stand anyone and it feels like a chore not to snap in people's faces, I don't know why I'm like this

[@laial_habil1960]

In the end we’re human and everyone has their limits . Maybe u need some time to focus on urself . May Allah help u 🫶🏼

[@niqabi-.]

stress?

[@alise4377]

@@niqabi-. No, I'm just pissed all the time😂😂

[@HIPHOPRNBBABY]

I love this woman so much. You have alot of wisdom Farah I could listen to you all day! I needed to hear this and everything you said, you said beautifully. God bless you and your family Farah Love all the way from Auckland, New Zealand 💜

[@aasiyaonize]

1:20 Nobody tests your patience more than your family and government employees 😫

[@sh-en2gy]

19:14 save the entire world for eternity ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨

[@bcmamira9599]

This came at the time that I am so desperately disappointed from people around me, I don't know how to be good to them. It's like I can't handle them any more, I tried to see good but they show me the opposite. I felt idiot trying to jutify their actions with good intentions.... leaving in peace is the only option indeed 🙏

[@kayleekim9762]

According to Usama Ibn Sharik (may Allah be pleased with him), we were sitting with the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم as if there were birds above our heads, no one among us spoke. Then came people who said, "What is the best thing that is given to a person?" The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said, "Good behavior."

[@KryzysX]

❤‍🔥

[@MA-sl5mg]

You don’t understand how much I needed this video

[@MuslimahTiktok]

Love your content it is now part of my Jummah.

[@parwinimuffin6570]

being too nice too people is not good. Thank you for this message. I needed to hear this. God Bless.

[@ozges1755]

I loved this episode so much, it came in the right moment! I'm overthinking a lot why people mistreat me, hurt me with their behaviors and think stuff like "I wouldnt say/do that like this why do you do that"..its easy to be good in a moment but its so hard to STAY good when the circumstances become harder and I think thats the real trial behind this. There is so much wisdom in this. Even this is a test.. how to stay good even if people here and there mistreat you and so on.. amazing topic to philosophize over!!

[@shootingstaran]

Soo happy u posted !! I'll watch this video later I just felt like leaving a comment cuz ure one of my fav notifications

[@soedkaa]

Thank you so much ,sister! This video is exactly what I needed,I was on edge of thinking that “ well people suck sometimes” . But when you talked about how people sometimes are so beautiful, i almost teared up man!May Allah guide us all and grant us with Jannah by His Mercy😌

[@yasminfatema2033]

Its actually really nice hearing someone say your thoughts out loud. Thank you!x

[@kaidorade1317]

A lesson we all need in these trying times! As Bill and Ted say: Be excellent to each other

[@Sluxlife]

Loved this episode please make more episodes on how to become a good person

[@Nitewolflegend]

These podcasts are such a blessing, alhamdullilah😊 I like the background it has a vibe to it📚

[@RooftopClubPodcast]

Legit my first thoughts after hearing everyone of your episodes is just like "Thankyou seriously thankyou for all those words"

[@noonewarefe]

I just click the video because of the background and now watching the books... wanted the library tour

[@kaidorade1317]

Yes please!

[@asmaalbriky7251]

Love your podcast and how you get to the point in such a beautiful way wish you will ❤

[@Haya_0707]

Mashallah tabarak Allah. You are such a noor to this dark age my dear Farah. May Allah reward you immensely for these reminders that we all need.

[@user-ju2kt2xu7v]

I feel so close to you watching your podcast Thank you I really appreciate your reminder May Allah grant Jannah to you and to your family

[@Cinnoman777]

Indeed, sometimes we get caught up in thinking that people or the world are bad, but as you said, yes, there are bad things, but there are also good things too

[@ZuzuSyuhada]

Saw the thumbnail and my reaction was, "whoa, she's legit" in my language. And when the video started she actually said it. 😂

[@uzaydangelenkedi6212]

20:11 I have an atheist friend who rarely shares things on her ig stories, and guess what she shared the other day when all the people around the world is talking about Palestine. She shared something about protecting panthers. I was literally shocked that she was so proud about herself to do that.

[@ItsHusna528]

i love these videos they have been so engaging and helpful. literly they have helped me grow a person i love it keep it up sis

[@natalielubikova1873]

I love your sense of humor

[@dzhiae]

❤ thank you for another amazing episode 😊

[@AmnaYousafSani]

Jazak Allahu khair, it's like a big sister advice ma sha Allah keep sharing with us.

[@224gh3]

thank you so much , l really needed it , and i hope it was longer i still want more on that topic please make a second video about this topic

[@MA-sl5mg]

You are a blessing

[@Maryemimy]

Much of love and respect to you farah ❤️❤️

[@samihakhondoker2456]

see the good sides in people to bring out the best in them

[@khadijahbilal5087]

The part about Allah knows of our feelings and He knows if someone hurt us or He would know and care if we hurt someone really felt like a hug but gave me goosebumps at the same time thinking of the accountability Love your work Farah ❤❤

[@manelmanwella2688]

19:14 _ 19:22 you have no idea how many times I repeated this beautiful part Farah😂❤❤❤!

[@RienHammoud]

I love her so much 💗

[@mostafaehab4277]

Thank you Farah, this video really helped me to rearrange my mind and my thoughts, جزاك الله كل خير

[@AllahsServant12]

The timing…. Subhanallah. Really needed it. Allah is the greatest ❤❤❤ Jazakallah khair.

[@Eseibeeme]

"We both had our dark moments"

[@Alxza111]

Hi farah you know this episode came at right moment when i needed to hear this reminder again..because a lot of peaple have wronged me ,insulted me but i kept quit for the sake of my moral ethics and islamic teaching but i know it deeply disturbed my peace thank you for this video i know allah promised for justice in this duniya or the akhirah. Peace be upon you

[@sarakato1811]

You’re a real influencer, keep going💕💕

[@eminebeyzayigitturk907]

Thank you for this video it touched my heart 🫀🥹

[@Abrahim-my1fj]

I love this girl

[@isrouush1458]

We literally have each of those books in our library too 😂❤ thank you so much for this Farah, may Allah bless you ❤

[@myr2145]

Thank you ❤

[@diamondsaf5064]

6:15 funny and cute barakAllahu feeki 😊🥰🌷💖 and good reminder jzk. be good to everyone and think good of others

[@Sab.86]

I absolutely love you 😂 you’re the best ❤❤❤

[@xbzainab]

thank you for uploading🤍

[@fazsaid]

The books ATE

[@Iamsylvie.30]

FARAH YOUR VIDEOS MAKE MY DAY BUT I AM BROKE AND I CANNOT SEND THE DOLLAR THINGY ANYWAY I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS

[@yunusemre550]

Pakistani Scholar Attaullah Shah Bukhari often used to say that prayer begins outside the mosque When desire and God's command meet face to face (see Surah Mariam Verse 59)

[@itgetsworse601]

Farah I'm listening to this outside and I'm laughing like lunatic at the intro

[@falasteen2723]

First of all Hayeti I love you for the sake of Allah. Ur videos are always directly connected to a life situation SubhenAllah. I will watch this video tonight with my children, 10 and 8 years old ❤

[@ledisesuhenda3033]

Farah thank you so much for sharing these valuable reminders for us through your video, May Allah always bless us❤

[@tahsinchowdhury8488]

Assalamualaikum. I am Tahsin from Bangladesh.I am probably the biggest fan of your podcasts. Keep up doing the good work. Thanks and kind regards, Md.Tahsin Sadeque Chowdhury.

[@ramr8596]

Thanks

[@RealNourr]

جزاك الله خير يا فرح💞💞💞💞

[@sh-en2gy]

Love your channel may allah reward you

[@Lol592]

Not even watched the vid yet, but reading the title made me remember the fact I made Dua about this is a few days ago سبحان الله

[@Reyio]

hey Farah,never stop posting i-i really.. idk what to say...some of your words really hits me like sometimes I feel like Allah is coveying what I need through you.May Allah bless you abundantly and I wish I got a friend like u yk letsbee friends in jannah jazakkallahu khaiiiirrrrr!!!!!!❤

[@Muslim_Student]

1:57 That was so unexpected, I think I died but came back just to finish he video

[@Ray-by7xo]

But that's why some things are preferable, to not disregard human emotions..

[@user-rg2uo5lv4w]

Bro u need to post more videos I've watched them all

[@sarahabusnober3116]

😍💙 Mubarak the new office

[@enchanted2meetU]

May Allah bless you and ease your affairs in the dunya and akhira

[@esetayubova5475]

Как всегда в точку Фара!🤩

[@jvghibli]

Farah, thanks a million for this very insightful video. May Allah (SWT) bless you and reward you.

[@lojiennlatiff]

Best content

[@ammrynn]

may Allah bless you Farah, for sharing kindness and light

[@dixieibr6710]

لا اله إلا أنت سبحانك إني كنت من الظالمين ❤

[@acheroncarnation]

farah, I have watched your videos a lot and please you are a wonderful person which your knowledge it's anything but beneficial for me!! Farah, I have a humble request for a topic to be talk. It's about past mistake and the consequences which nigh whilst we are moving to repent

[@Youssprecious]

Thank u, Allah yjezik ❤

[@aasiyaonize]

Shameless commenting as an early viewer 🤧😂 love you 🫶

[@user-pc6if8vm3z]

NOT THE BARBARIC PART LMAOOO

[@Fathurandhikaputra]

Subnallah Masha Allah

[@soukainaelmhamdi1134]

What a background ❤❤❤❤❤❤ you will learn all of these books inchaellah llahoma yassir

[@farukmukhtar]

the unfriend them part was sinister

[@safwanhameed6753]

♥️good content

[@kcsplanet]

Beautiful video sharing 👍 New friend ❤️

[@user-pc6if8vm3z]

I love you farah ur amazing

[@abirelouafadjellali5534]

i love u farah thanck u so much for this beautiful vedio

[@Ana14329v]

Thank you for this video, it was very helpful. Plz make one on Tawakkul on Allah swt 😊❤

[@dixieibr6710]

سبحان الله وبحمده ❤سبحان الله العظيم ❤

[@niqabi-.]

Asalam alaykum wa rahmat allah wa barakatu. Im new here but I just wanted to suggest, if you haven't already, make a video about stress and the negative effects that it has. I would also like to know how to deal with it and reasons behind it, please and thank you. 🥰

[@defond.sunnah]

Nice❤

[@mebymyself2343]

I love uuu

[@imahmedgad]

تصرفات الشخص الصالح بيحكمها الدين والأخلاق والمنطق لكن في ناس خنا زير في المجتمع مهما إتعملهم خير برضو مؤذيين ومش مدركين ولا بيعتذروا لما يغلطوا والأسوأ لما بيكونوا في مكان مضطرين نتعامل مع قرفهم فيه الطيب بيستحمل الأذية وعشان عنده ضمير عمره م هيتغير ولا يبقى زيهم

[@auntshelly]

The people love you girllllll 🩷

[@illelnihlls6538]

I love you farah❤

[@AbcXyz-qg7my]

Farah, my dear sister, I have a request to you. Don't know whether i should ask it from you or not but because of the fact that i absolutely see you as my own sister and that your podcasts have made a significant impact in my life, these vulgar ads that show up in between the your vdo, really does a big damage. You're someone i look upto, the way you've changed drastically over the months has inspired me to become like you my elder sister. I don't know a nicer way to put it, but would you please stop monetization on your channel? This would multiply your reward immensely my sister. This would help us as audience to concentrate on your insightful talk in general. That would have been awesome, believe farah didi (elder sister). Forgive me if i became a bit rough. Also salam from India. Jazakallahu Khairan my dear sister. May Allah bless you with more wisdom, health and prosperity in deen and dunya.😊

[@user-pc6if8vm3z]

are u talking about the ads between the video ?

[@user-ge3ut2bk5l]

Salaam, I’m not entirely sure how KZbin ads work, but here’s a possible tip: next time an ad pops up, pause it, click the three dots on the right, and it should show the “My Ad Center” page. Click “block ad” to block that same advertisement from showing up again. You can do this all over KZbin whenever it happens, and those ads should stop showing up. Unfortunately this doesn’t always seem to work for me, for example Instagram ads keep showing up even if I block them. So I understand what you mean when you say turning off monetization on these videos might be for the best. Unfortunately I think KZbin might also automatically monetize certain videos, from what I’ve heard? Thank you for bringing this to everyone’s awareness in such a kind way though.

[@AbcXyz-qg7my]

@@user-ge3ut2bk5l the tip that you shared is a hit and miss, my brother. If monetization is turned off on a channel, KZbin shall never show ads on the contents of that channel. A lot of such Islamic channels are available, for example 'Yaqeen Institute' by Dr. Omar Suleiman. I know this might be a bit too much for us to ask of her but provided that sister Farah has sacrificed a lot of haram things for the sake of Allah, i felt comfortable asking her this. Let it be the way it is, even if she doesn't, that's okay, we'll still listen to her just like we did before inshallah. May Allah guide us all to His recommended path. Amin.

[@TheSeventhAcaba]

We are allways alone amongst people you can of course stay with the bosses and listen to their bs

[@zeynebzinep3952]

❤

[@naimhussain606]

Your editing skill is mad

[@fishbarbeque8540]

Mashallah.

[@FlamingYoungho]

Asalaamu alayakum sister. this really made me think about my character and mindset. but what if we are too nice to people? how do we stop people at work or school trying to walk all over you but still trying to be a nice person