What makes a man cheat is the fact that he doesn’t have self-discipline and lust is something that control him. Period period period…. If you aren’t happy with someone then leave lol it’s a maturity thing also. And that’s for women too. People cheat because they don’t have self control. Cheating is not the solution it’s a temporary fix that’s not worth destroying your character.
@jayc575617 күн бұрын
@@hughes_tv True
@adrianburden255720 күн бұрын
At the end of the day ppl cheat bc they want to. Communication is key. If you're no longer happy, break it off.
@rosa881920 күн бұрын
Agree to the fullest
@lovepink780420 күн бұрын
Unfortunately, a lot of women weren't taught how to love and treat a man. As a woman, I was taught how a man should treat me. I learned from a man what most men want from their women. Ladies, if you have a good man, please treat him like a king! Most men are simple. They want to feel loved and appreciated as well. You are the Queen, so take care of your King! Works both ways!! Hope everyone is having a great day ❤❤❤❤
@kalimbaayinde2520 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂. What if the man is ungrateful, can she cheat?
@timothysturgess598520 күн бұрын
💯 facts!
@jayc575617 күн бұрын
@@lovepink7804 True. Salute sis!
@jayc575617 күн бұрын
@@kalimbaayinde25 Then maybe you should consider parting ways with him ma. IJS
@JC-gq2lo8 күн бұрын
@@kalimbaayinde25leave
@angelamcnair306019 күн бұрын
So after complaining about reading the mind of women ....men now expect women to read their minds? Both parties need to express themselves openly and honestly and if you can't talk to your partner, you're with the wrong one PERIODT.
@HokutoAnsatsuken20 күн бұрын
I hear what Hitman is saying but I'd rather leave the relationship permanently than cheat. Nothing good comes from that.
@MsCristyle12819 күн бұрын
I will never understand why men acquire a woman who is completely dependent on him, and then complain when she is self centered. Makes 0 sense.
@jonhosey55120 күн бұрын
"Imagine being out working all day knowing you bout to go home to some more work." Crazy bars
@susanplatt533116 күн бұрын
It's called being an adult but men remain children.
@adjustingwithjess650117 күн бұрын
If she’s your wife half of this will be eliminated. You’re asking a woman to do wife duties with a girlfriend title.
@nathanwilson146520 күн бұрын
These guys will come up with any reason to justified cheating.
@010101Be20 күн бұрын
This ain’t the ninja 🥷🏿 we wanna hear from. He ain’t ‘bout the real long-term. Cause if you missin’ that, you would do the same thing she said, and find a better way of finding out what she’s missing and why she isn’t the same instead of attack like “why you ain’t FUN no more!?” Probably cause you sucked the fun right out of Her, too 🤷🏽♀️✌🏽
@kairosunltd13018 күн бұрын
I get what Hitman is saying. Unfortunately some men don't communicate what they want, like and need so that's where the disconnect happens. Relationships need communication because some women are unaware. I don't believe women will not be submissive or disrespectful if and when she is being treated right and receiving everything she's ever dreamed of in a man and in a relationship. That's just my thoughts.
@sonnyqsoul21 күн бұрын
To say guys don't cheat emotionally, but then give emotional reasons why guys cheat is just wild lol... Outside of that, Hitman was pretty spot on. Fact is, the emotional reasons a lot of guys cheat aren't the same emotional reasons that a lot of chicks cheat, but they are emotional nonetheless. Hell, just being horny can be mental, emotional, physical, or all of the above.
@jayc575621 күн бұрын
Mmm. FR
@OkayJayy_21 күн бұрын
They look at us as the problem when we want the simple things smh
@rondaykhamard822421 күн бұрын
They are speaking like they are millionaires with a housewife lmaooo. The average woman has to work to bring in additional monies to hold down the household, so the "I Am The King... You are my servant" KZbin bs is null and void.
@jayc575621 күн бұрын
It just went over ya head huh?? He was giving examples of what HE Wants. But the Overall Point stands.
@rondaykhamard822420 күн бұрын
@@jayc5756 I said what I factually said! Class Dismissed
@nailahdawkins20 күн бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@alexharris249520 күн бұрын
@rondaykhamard8224 actually, nothing you said was rational or fact-based. But carry on.
@pettynettie551418 күн бұрын
I was thinking the same exact thing. The food ain't ready because 9 times out of 10 she just got off work too!!! And had to pick the kids up from daycare on her way home. So yeah, Blue's Clues need to be on while she gets the house settled. I think there needs to be more empathy for BOTH people in that scenario!!! If you don't wanna come home from work and have to do more work, neither does she!!! But this is exactly what you're expecting of her. This conversation is wild!
@anthonysmith839520 күн бұрын
Hitman Holla been a bad bitch his whole career. Of course he’s going to go hard about this.
@spatty258920 күн бұрын
They sound crazy just saying stuff for clicks. They’re acting for the cameras. I wish guys could date each other and see how it feels….
@alexharris249520 күн бұрын
Lol keep that same energy when the pandering clips come out lool
@spatty258920 күн бұрын
@@alexharris2495 this is pandering to men.
@alexharris249520 күн бұрын
@@spatty2589 lol explaining the frustrations men face when dealing with women in relationships is pandering????🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂 I swear y'all crack me up with the double speak and hypocrisy.
@010101Be20 күн бұрын
Foolishness 😒
@terrywilliams324217 күн бұрын
This is so true. We weren’t taught how to treat a man. We were taught how to know what to expect from a man. Like someone else said in the comments, it was a man who showed me what a man needs. He needs to feel appreciated by his woman. Just like we like for our man to do the little things that get us. Men want the same thing too and I can’t stress enough that what you did to get him you must continue in order to grow and go further with him.
@lexinearthur984615 күн бұрын
Culturally, black women are raised to be leaders, independent, and survivors. Black men need to understand that black women have to learn. Black men are aware of this because they have daughters, sisters, and a mother. Cheating is not the answer. Understanding, patience, and learning together or as a team is the answer. Try couples counseling.
@marjabell83319 күн бұрын
Why are men so emotional these days? My God. These mics were the worst thing to happen to our society.
@chelewoodson413319 күн бұрын
There is a lot of grey area in this podcast. There's a lot of back and forth. Some things that can be respected and others that just sound like excuses. No matter the circumstances you have to take care of each other and if you can't figure it out seek professional help. So many ppl have different trauma, that nobody has the science down for relationships, because everyone is there own person.But I know that it goes both ways. We all have to do better. And ppl need to start dating with intentions again. This is my perception.
@KB-ok1en17 күн бұрын
Wow. This is priceless 💯
@Jadore_a_me17 күн бұрын
He made some good pointers... But the situation does matter
@tkhenderson947720 күн бұрын
Thank you!!!!!
@alexharris249520 күн бұрын
Crazy how the comments section here doesn't do as well as the other videos where they putting pressure on men.
@Trust-Yourself-1st21 күн бұрын
I iave legit heard grown as women say and actually mena that they don't thinknor didn't know men had feelings 😂.
@jayc575621 күн бұрын
Yeah, I heard that a year or 2 ago too. I was shocked too. Mann. SMH 🤦♂️
@010101Be20 күн бұрын
I can’t trust anyone still wearing a mask today 😏
@Trust-Yourself-1st20 күн бұрын
@@010101Be it's a 4 year old picture in the back of an Uber 😂
@terrywilliams324217 күн бұрын
Yes I thought that when I was younger. I found out that was a lie. Men just don’t express their feelings like we do cause mind you we raised our men to not show emotions and just do what they must, but that has changed and we have to be considerate of their feelings in order to keep them happy and fully satisfied in a relationship and or marriage.
@talicia1820 күн бұрын
Stop
@deanj887014 күн бұрын
Sirach 1 26 Hast thou a wife after thy mind? forsake her not: but give not thyself over to a light woman Proverbs 31:11-12 KJV The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, So that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil All the days of her life Ecclesiasticus 26:14 “A silent and loving woman is a gift of the Lord; and there is nothing so much worth as a mind well instructed.”