Hoarders ❤️ Extreme Declutter Master Bedroom Part 2! Clean with me Healing in Hoarding Disorder!

[@miaserafina]

If the side of your closet ist your dumping ground for worn clothes you could try to move your hamper there to train yourself to put the clothes in there. And when you think you have it down you can move the hamper slowly to the spot you want it in.

[@ahoardersheart]

That is a great idea!!! Thank you ❤️❤️

[@jessiec1194]

@@ahoardersheart I have three, one for whites, one for general clothing and another for work blue jeans. Pick it up and goes straight to the laundry. Start with what you can do, and maybe add more if it works for you. Such progress. I feel so good seeing your journey!

[@wendymackenzie3937]

I agree put a hamper in you room

[@lizzyg3487]

Was just coming to say this too. Part of decluttering and organizing is figuring out what works best for YOU.

[@kymbalyeshelman116]

This! I paused just so I could comment this too lol

[@goldfishsnake]

A thought to push you towards minimizing: the reason you can let things sit in piles forgotten for years is that you don't actually have a NEED for those things. If someone gave you a gift of something you really needed, it would get used right away! For instance, if none of your shoes fit anymore and someone gave you a pair that did fit, you'd have to unwrap them and use them. If you bought something you need, it'd get used-for instance, if you completely run out of eggs and then bought more. Like you say in your no-spend videos, you have enough of everything already. You have the whole needs bucket filled, and your wants bucket is also overflowing. For the clothes, since a lot of stuff you're actively wearing is in the laundry, I'd recommend going through your closet and drawers and pulling out some items that you're not wearing to donate. This will make room to put back the clothes you wear the most into your closet and dresser. Even if you like all the items, some of them naturally get more use than others, and you have finite space, so you need to make some hard choices, because you know you don't truly need 100 shirts etc. I think often switching your brain can help when it comes to clothes, so instead of "Do I like this?" you ask yourself "If my entire wardrobe disappeared, would I want this specific piece back so I could continue to function in my day to day life?

[@ozlem2864]

But that's difficult for a horder. You can't let go of things that easy, it takes time. She will get there one time, i am sure.

[@corinnestauffiger5693]

I thought the same. If the clothes are piling up like this and there are still clothes to wear, there is room to reduce. But there is no rush. Step by step. I am not a hoarder and still sometimes I find it difficult to part with clothes.

[@auntie_kristie]

Before putting clothes away, I like to look at my closet and drawers at the clothes I didn’t wear and see if there is anything I no longer want to keep. It’s easier to do this before putting away the clothes recently worn.

[@kaseyjondahl7979]

I think it would help her to do that with her clothes as well but I think maybe having her put things into a quarantine box might help her so she doesn't get as overwhelmed because its not gone right away...

[@Cocopuffs12344]

Remember like January 2019 ? Your room has come so far since then. You are doing amazing

[@ahoardersheart]

Right!!! Crazy how much quicker I am decluttering rooms now!!

[@eifltwrgrl]

I love your channel. I'm a hoarder too! I'm moving and I get really stressed out. Your channel really makes me feel like I'm not alone. ❤

[@itoshiibaka8267]

You aren't! And you can take little baby steps, too. 🦸‍♀️🦸‍♂️

[@helloalps]

Am I remembering that hubby was going to be putting knobs on your closet doors? It would be great to have that done so you can keep the doors closed. It'll look tidier, keep your things from getting as dusty, and maybe add motivation to not let things accumulate in front of the doors! Also fun to maybe pick out some really cute knobs

[@malachitemoondance1086]

Hubby must be so proud of all the progress you've made.

[@ahoardersheart]

He really is!!! And I just LOVE your tag name!! I really love crystals and nature!!! It’s help me transition out of hoarding as I become more spiritual 💜

[@Jaegre1]

Love seeing it all put away at the end!!!! Great addition!

[@ahoardersheart]

Thank you!!! It was such a hit last video so I decided to keep it!!!

[@lenarobins2480]

I love that " I'm a RECOVERING hoarder"! You should change your intro to that version because you really have come so far. You did so much in this one, that box of papers would have stopped me, papers are the hardest for me.

[@ahoardersheart]

You are so right now! I gotta adjust the intro! And yes, paper is so tough and it took time to get to this point!! You can get here too, just do baby steps and what feels right in your heart! I will cheer you on even if it’s 1 piece of paper!! Because I know that piece of paper could have been 10 mental battles before you let it go ❤️❤️

[@nenemaria-cornfieldsgarden]

Paper is my block too. One box of papers just takes so long and so much decision energy to go through. Even when it's all trash it still takes so long and even after one huge box it doesn't feel like you've got very far. I try and limit papercoming in as much as possible but running two businesses the stream is endless (plus it needs to be stored for years for tax reasons). One thing im really trying to do is file things once a week to keep on top of it. I've still got years of old paper go to through though. Found a load from 2002-5 this week and that was so exhausting to even look at so I just gave up and hid it away again and found an easier box to declutter 😆

[@julsmorgan78]

Nenemaria imagine how strong your “declutter muscles” will be by the time you’ve dealt with the easier boxes! It’ll be a piece of cake by then :) might even take less time than the coffee you have with it lol!

[@itoshiibaka8267]

I'm not even a hoarder and the papers would have stayed there for at least a month after everything else. 😬

[@alanbirkner1958]

November 2023. I've never hoarded. When I empty a bin, I give the bin away or move it to another part of the apartment. I wanted a plant stand, so I looked in my laundry room and there was a milk crate. I seldom buy anything. Tina, Al's wife

[@goldfishsnake]

Okay one other crazy idea: you've cleared a lot of space in the basement. You want a tranquil bedroom. What if you took EVERYTHING besides the clothes you needed to get through one week and stored it in the basement as an experiment? I'm talking extra storage furniture, trinkets, 90% of your clothes all gone, and experiment almost like it's a hotel and you're on vacation and just have the items in the room that you cannot function without. And try living like that for two weeks or a month to see how it feels. Is it more calming? Are there things you had to run down to the basement to get because you needed to wear them, or were you fine with just the smaller amount of items? It'd be a total mental reset. If you missed having more stuff in the room, you can just put it back. If you didn't miss it, well then you'd feel more motivated to declutter things that no longer fit into the vision of your perfect room. I truly feel like removing everything from the room and giving yourself a clean slate could be revolutionary for you.

[@itoshiibaka8267]

I think a shock might be different for her with hoarding disorder than for people with other coping mechanisms. I'm excited for her to Konmari her clothes again. 🙂 I definitely agree, though, that it would be a good idea to have all of the clothes in the bedroom but nothing else, all of the toys in the toy room but nothing else, all of the boys' non- toys in their room, but nothing else, all of the crafting things in one area with nothing else... Really categorizing and devoting spaces to one thing so the hoard can't churn. 👍

[@ahoardersheart]

It’s a wonderful idea!! Something I’m writing down! It makes me a little anxious but then it will be in the basement and not thrown out!! So I can find peace in that!! Thank you so so much for always helping me, you are such a wonderful friend ❤️🙏🏻❤️

[@joeseatat]

Woah, that is a crazy idea. I dig it.

[@caramoonlynn]

Our bedroom looks crazy. It has for 10 years now. And then 15 years before that! You are getting it done! Thanks for the inspiration! After my daughter's wedding, I'm going to really purge my hoard! Yay!

[@itoshiibaka8267]

Good luck!!! You can do it!! 😁

[@annacrisf]

I just want to say that I love your videos and follow your trajectory. I can imagine how hard and emotional all this is for you and how far you are now from the beginning. Keep going! It is the best thing you can do for your family and for you ❤️❤️

[@ahoardersheart]

Awe, thank you so so much! I’m only healing this far bc I have such a loving encouraging YT family ❤️ Your message feels my heart with such happiness that it fuels me to keep going! I’m so grateful you are my friend 💞

[@MaxinnePal]

That sailor moon collection would look so cute displayed in your bathroom! That way you can use the makeup and have it as decor!

[@Raven.13]

You took the makeup out of the box! Well done! ✨❤️

[@scraphappyjen4561]

If you want an instant fix for making your room look cleaner just be sure to shut your drawers when you pull something out. I find that and a made bed just reduce the visual “noise” so, so much. I’d also suggest taking your winter bin directly to the laundry room and folding things straight into it from the dryer so it doesn’t even have a chance to sit around waiting to be dealt with. I love that you said “I’m a recovering hoarder”. Way to make progress, we can totally see the shift in your space and your thinking. Keep it up lovely 😊

[@lindagarner1320]

I'm enjoying seeing you put things away after you have sorted. You are giving me hope that I can get my house in order. I was organized until about 7 years ago and then everything became a mess. Love your channel.🥰🇨🇦

[@ahoardersheart]

Awe, thank you ❤️🙏🏻❤️ I know you will get your house in order!! I am cheering you on, we got this 🌟🌟🌟

[@nayrieshahenean5363]

I'm honestly so impressed at how well you kept up your bedroom. At the start of this declutter, you had so many fewer stuff than the last time we! (also i'm incredible jealous your Colour pop X Sailor Moon collection, I heard it was sold out everywhere!)

[@ahoardersheart]

Ohhh...it was hard for her to get!! She said she was lucky to get it which made it that gift much more meaningful 💗🌟 Thank you so so much!!

[@lisafeltmate5732]

@@ahoardersheart I have the palette and glitter too! I love it. I took them out of the boxes but still keeping the empty boxes. They are so pretty. lol

[@bitbroken]

Have been watching you for about a year now and love seeing how well you are doing and it has given me the confidence to start decluttering myself. As a fellow crafter I would love to see videos of you crafting with your craft supplies for more inspiration too.

[@Nicole-tc8lj]

Could you meet your habit half way? Instead of pulling the clothes up on the floor near the wardrobe or at the end of your bed, move the washing basket to that spot for a short time so you are doing the action of putting your clothes directly in. After you've built that habit the basket can move back to a spot where it's easily accessible but out of the main walkways.

[@greenwillow5404]

Wow! You did so, so much in this episode!!! 👏Those baby steps are not really baby steps anymore. Your decluttering muscle is getting stronger and stronger. I love seeing how you tidy the decluttered things away afterwards. It's a peaceful end to all your hard work. I found when I moved my hamper to the spot in my room where I usually piled my clothes and also removed the hamper top, everything finally wound up in the actual hamper.😂

[@ahoardersheart]

Thank you!!! That is a good idea, I got to see where I can squeeze my hamper a little closer!! Thank you for always encouraging me through this journey!!

[@greenwillow5404]

@@ahoardersheart ❤

[@sarabenson435]

I love how you express your happiness. Great job! Keep growing and learning! You are an amazing person, Mrs. Heart!

[@crystalsdance]

Love your colorful wardrobe! It matches your personality! Also great job hanging in there a little longer and getting so much done! You rock!

[@eavening4149]

Just that little bit makes a big difference! Way to go!

[@robyn-mareepenny2926]

So inspiring! Look at you girl! You're doing so good, keep up the good work 👏👏👏👏💐

[@KJong-gz5hv]

Put a laundry basket in every bedroom. And get in the habit of one load of laundry a day. Start the habit with your morning drink in your hand. You can even put some boxes in the hallways. One downstairs, one near the bedrooms. Use it a collecting boxes. One for paper, a hamper, one for toys, one for stuff to put away on the ground floor etc.

[@AshNEricplus4more]

You got this!!! Every thing is looking so good! ❤️

[@ahoardersheart]

Whoo Hoo!! We sure do 🌟🌟

[@withyoctopus]

I'm a bit exhausted in my third trimester. So I thought maybe there's a new video by hoarders heart to cheer me up. And there's one since 9 minutes ago! Thanks for letting us taking part in this decluttering journey, miss heart.

[@ahoardersheart]

Congratulations!!!! I’m so happy for you!!! Awe, when are you due, prolly very soon since you are in third trimester 💗💙💗💙💗💙

[@withyoctopus]

@@ahoardersheart Yes, in November. It will be our first and we don't know what we're doing but we're looking forward to be parents.

[@amplified-zg1cy]

You’re doing great towards a relaxing space. Maybe you could purge some of the clothes so they aren’t so overwhelming.

[@ahoardersheart]

Yes, another KonMari Method video should definitely come...even though they do get my anxiety up but hoping I’m stronger now!! 💗

[@gigieyre]

I don't know if you are familiar with the channel Clutterbug. She does a lot of organizing and such. She did a Tedtalk called The Clutter Connection. It's all about her Add/Adhd and how it caused her to hoard. I have Add and my daughter does too. We are opposite in the way that I'm constantly organizing and throwing away because I get overwhelmed. My daughter keeps stuff because she's overwhelmed. This Tedtalk was fantastic. She talked about different ways to organize for your personality. It really was enlightening.

[@itoshiibaka8267]

I love Clutterbug. She helped me understand how to organize for my husband's "clutter type" rather than just what works for me. Traditional organizing systems were designed for me, but not for my husband. Now that I've modified our home systems, he puts his things away more often. 😊

[@katwellkaye996]

It's been a while since I caught one of your videos. You weren't showing your face before! I must say I am sooo PROUD of you!!! Such progress!! You inspire me to press on in my healing journey. 🙂 I've been feeling stuck and discouraged lately, and your video was just the shot in the arm I needed. Thanks for pressing on and sharing it with the world. ❤️

[@sonyahubbard3226]

YAY for navigation space in the room! Especially with season change coming up, maybe consider clothing purge soon. It’d never pile up in hampers, floor etc if there wasn’t a fairly serious excess. A load a day would keep everyone in clean clothes and all the rest could be donated. Just a thought 🤷🏻‍♀️🦄

[@susanc269]

❤️❤️your progress is amazing! Keep taking all those baby steps, they add up to big steps. Cheering you on, yay!!!!!!🤩🤩

[@summerbaby4600]

Great progress!❤️❤️❤️ I do laundry everyday. So in theory I just need 1 to wear, 1 in wash, and 1 extra. In theory I just need 3 clothes. In theory. Now that’s the bare minimum and obviously I have more clothes for few occasions but, I do have 4 shirts I rotate wearing for this summer. My kids usually have 5 tops and 4 bottoms per season with few extra for different occasions, too. You should figure out the magic number with how often you do laundry😉 And choose your very favorite ones❤️

[@heatherpobursky-smith6984]

Once again you are doing amazing. I'm proud of your hard work and you were able to clean up so much. You were able to get rid of so much emotional stuff. Great job

[@micheleboschert175]

I've been on your channel since the very beginning. You have come so far in your healing. Congratulations! Your good and loving heart is so very appreciated. I have a few ideas to support you as you are progressing in decluttering and tidying your home. 1. Only bring into a room items that correspond to that rooms function; such as for your bedroom your clothes, bedding, etc. The kitchen only items that correspond to a kitchens function, such as food, dishes, etc. 2. It might help you to setup a day to do your shopping/errands so you can put away all of the items immediately when you arrive home, so you are not hurrying to do this when you have to take your children somewhere or get dinner ready. 3. Allow yourself enough and extra time to do and complete a task without having to rush so you don't get sidetracked. I hope these ideas help you and support you in your journey forward.

[@suem6004]

Great job! I laughed when I saw the cotton wreath. Those are cotton bolls. I have a box of those here because I spin that on a spinning wheel to make cotton thread. You see DIY and I see a different DIY. Lol

[@auntie_kristie]

That sticker album. 😍 I feel the same about presents, so now I take a photo of them and it helps me feel ok about putting them away and using them. 💝

[@silverfish2341]

Well done. This is amazing.

[@carynoliveri2711]

You did amazing in this episode im so proud of how far you've coms

[@butterflymeltzer8085]

If your hamper was in a different spot without a lid, it might be easier to just throw things in the hamper as you leave the room once you have changed. Remove the lid. Put the basket next to the door ( or near the exit) and just drop your clothes as you leave.

[@TheBeagle1975]

I wonder if hoarding is also a spiritual illness challenge of materialism. I can’t imagine the anxiety and financial strain this causes. Good job on your recovery and bravery in sharing your experience.

[@chrisdavis1754]

Will be good to have a cozy place for the winter!

[@ahoardersheart]

💜🦄💜🦄💜🦄💜

[@halinakajfoszova4354]

If coin laundries are open, can you take the clothes there? You should be able to use a few machines at the same time, that way you can get most of it done in one go

[@barbarap6851]

Great job! Suggestion-when you are doing your laundry this weekend, take a bag-spend just 15 minutes max, go through your summer clothes (summer is almost over) and pick items to donate. possibly include items as they come out of the dryer. That way, you are making space to put clothes away.

[@CeitidhD]

You're doing great!

[@christhompson7558]

Way to keep at it my purge sistah! I'm loving the endings when you put your items back in their designated homes. :D

[@ahoardersheart]

Thank you my friend ❤️❤️❤️ Yes, a little of people like the putting thing back clips so I decided to keep doing it!! Thank you for being my friend through this journey 💜🦄💜

[@rebeckamattisson5083]

You are doing great! Looking forward to hubbys episode. Maybe you can help him with putting all his clothes on the bed, since he doesn't want to be on camera. He can sort and purge off camera, then you can show the purge pile. :) I'm also looking forward to more garage videos, they were so rewarding, since you could toss so much. Lots of love! /a purge sister ;)

[@AfterGodsHeart2020]

You are doing a great job! I pray that as you clean your house you may find healing within, like you have said. Thank you for sharing your journey.

[@jenniferherford8001]

I love your bedroom. It’s huge. And it’s looking great!

[@Spookysara31]

Awesome progress!

[@pyrobunnymaniac]

Yaaaay, as always super proud of you & great job trying to continue the energy! Like reminding yourself that the gifts were meant to be used & enjoyed (like gift cards.. Kinda, treat yo self!). Not always easy, but so good to have! Everyone must always be giving their suggestions, but of course just what works for you. Some ideas: -Wasn't sure the location but one thing that helped me is just having the hamper in the corner of the bedroom or by my closet. That way when I see it get full going to bed I can remind myself to tackle it before it spills over & easy to change. -When you do wash & get to organizing, obviously you can sort your seasonal clothes to their designated space, but for the ones in season, maybe act like you just got them & so pick one or two items to go when you out them back in the drawers to make space. Think of the drawers like this seasons luggage. You can get to the next declutter when you get there but in the meantime this is the current season your living with. Idk if that trick make sense or works for you, just an idea :) -lastly just love that your practicing the special places you made and the homes for your things to help inventory the spaces and stuff :) you made it look so easy because you've come so far! Keep it up!

[@josephdaly2015]

That was great, well done 👍 Oh your so quick decluttering and organising now it’s fantastic. I really love when you show where everything goes at the end. Joes wife Mary 👏👍💐🦄

[@MissCrazygirlie]

I'm so happy for you

[@Teekat]

Thank you for sharing of yourself. Your videos have helped me get started and to work on my thinking. Your discussions about how you feel and what you are thinking about these items help me realize how I am thinking about items. You have helped me- thank you for being brave. Continue to heal your heart.

[@ahoardersheart]

Your message means the world to me ❤️ This right here is I am vulnerable, open and transparent in my hoarding. I want to help others heal too!! This is groundbreaking for you!!! Hoarding starts in your mind and you are already there and ready for change ❤️❤️❤️

[@madeleinesvensson-m3y]

You amaze me! That was a lot to handle and you did it! ❤️

[@silverfish2341]

One tip for a tidier home is the one touch method (or something similar). Basically you put things in their place the first time you grab them. It has helped me a lot.

[@amandacampbell1979]

You did so amazing!! Keep it up!!

[@SalsaNube]

You've did an amazing job! I discovered your channel few weeks ago. Seen HUUUGE improvement since you've started! Way to go! And I haven't yet encountered the video when we could see you for the first time, but you look as a very positive and vibrant person! Don't ever be ashamed of yourself! You're brave and great! Cheers to You and your Family from across the ocean:) Enjoy the journey and wish a great feeling of accomplishment with every further step!:)

[@beisonfiiire]

Awesome! 🙏👏👏

[@valeriehopkins644]

Can't remember if someone already suggested. When you switch out your season clothes, reverse how you put the hangers on the rod. When you wear something , hang it back up the way you normally would. If by the end of the season there are things that never got worn you can spot them.

[@joyperrin4275]

Yay Mrs. Heart!! Recovering hoarder getting healthier, and happier! Huzzah!🤗❤️🌟

[@carolebridges798]

Another great job!

[@genealotech]

Great job!

[@careynorman6414]

I love the before and after 💜💪👍

[@Mar10la]

You are doing so well! For the clothes, I feel like it's more a decluttering issue than a organising issue... If you are willing to let clothes go, organising them should be easy enough :)

[@rebeccablashock3829]

Loved it! So glad I found your channel! Your upbeat delivery is inspiring! Your bedroom is looking great! (My issue is paper...eek!) Thanks! :D

[@summerbaby4600]

I just watched Marie Kondo, on her Japanese KZbin channel talk about how she likes her clothes, belongings and house so much she often thank them and even “pet” them🤣 I know she is a bit extreme, but I appreciate my clothes enough to take good care, too❤️ I hope you own “just enough” so that you can take good care of them and feel so grateful for all that you have😊

[@theproductivehoarder7945]

When I get gifts in bags, I do the same thing where I keep them items as they are in the bags.

[@lmk1971]

It's looking good. Remember even if it's two steps forward and one step back at times you are still one step further than you were before. Keep up the good work. :)

[@ahoardersheart]

Absolutely!!! Thank you for your encouragement, it means so much to me ❤️🙏🏻❤️

[@MariaGomez-mf6jt]

Amazing :) your master bedroom is almost done... Now you Will have a nice place to relax after a long work day :)

[@ahoardersheart]

Yessss!!!! So exciting 🌟🌟 Thank you!!

[@milenagligorovska2314]

Maybe you should add a hamper next to the closet as well. That way it will be easier for you to put the clothes in it and on the weekend you will not be overwhelmed by a pile, you will just empty the hamper and put it back next to the closet. Also if the clothes are contained that way, they will nor attract other stuff around them. You already know this, clutter attracts clutter... You are doing amazing, you just need to find smart solutions for your problem areas.

[@ellenstam-mulder3002]

good job, i am so proud on you. the babysteps are going in todler steps so good. little tip, one load of laundry each day. and put it away each day. that makes a different. what helpt also for me less clothes for each person in the house. big hug Ellen

[@elizabethlangheim7214]

Great job! That was a big chunk all at once. Probably time for a clothing declutter so you have room in your drawers and closets when all your clothes are clean.

[@mindys1198]

Here's a suggestion to help you change the habit of putting clothes in the hamper.... Tape a sign on the floor where you normally throw them that reads "STOP : TAKE A MOMENT TO PUT IT WHERE IT BELONGS" or something along those lines.... Just as a visual reminder and eventually you will create new habits

[@joannevenz5045]

I am looking forward to when you do the top of the drawers 😊

[@ahoardersheart]

Thank you!! That’s definitely next episode ❤️

[@jennenny87]

Crucial ADHD hack: put a laundry basket ANYWHERE that you regularly change clothes. Yes, that means if your kids strip in the living room, you should put a basket there. It's much easier to throw a lid/blanket over the top when guests arrive than have to search the floor and couch cushions for stray undies. 🤣 Same with the bedrooms. If you get changed by the side of the bed, have an *open* hamper within arms' reach. It's ok to have one small one on each side if that's how it shakes out. Do what *works,* not what you think you're supposed to do. 🙂

[@ExploringSpirit]

you've come so far! keep it up! ❤️ you're doing great!

[@ahoardersheart]

Thank you so so much 💜🦄💜

[@micheleboschert175]

I left a comment below. Right after high school I started working at a VA hospital as an aide- in- training. I didn't know how to be orderly . If it hadn't been for two other nurses aides showing me how to be orderly, I don't think I would have been able to complete the training program. Just wanted to say that we are all learning better how to be neat and orderly. Take care!

[@joeseatat]

Since we're all talking about clothes management. I rotate through my clothes. I put the clean laundry in the back and pick out clothes from the front. If I notice that I keep passing over an item for one behind, then I know I need to investigate why I am reluctant to wear it.

[@The_Joy_Finder]

Clever!

[@SarahPim]

So amazing! I can’t believe how far you’ve come- especially with the global pandemic we are all struggling with... can you store your seasonal clothing in under bed bins? That would be closer and easier to get to, especially during transitional months? Great job- keep it up!!

[@SarahPim]

Also as a recovering alcoholic, I love calling yourself a recovering hoarder/ hoarder in recovery- in the alcoholic/addict community, it is such a huge distinction between an “active alcoholic/addict” versus “recovering.” It represents that you are acknowledging and working on your struggles which is so empowering!

[@ahoardersheart]

Thank you so so much for sharing that with me ❤️🙏🏻❤️ I will remember to keep that Distinction!! Wording is so important and I am so proud of you!! You are amazing strong and an inspiration to many!!!

[@beverleyholmes9792]

Nooo not under the bed please! That just gives another place to declutter later. As you have started, bins stacked neatly and labelled clearly in the basement!

[@svc221]

I think you are getting close to the organizing stage!! A lot of your "clutter" seems to be stuff that just is not put away. A lady that has changed my life is Clutterbug here on KZbin. Basically she states there are 4 types of organizing styles and when you find yours and organize your space that way it makes putting things away less difficult and less stressful and keeps those hot spots clutter free. For example I change clothes by my side of the bed, doesn't matter if I'm going to take a shower or not my clothes are coming off by my bed. My husband changes clothes in the bathroom. Doesn't matter if he is taking a shower or not. So I put my hamper on my side of the bed and his hamper in the bathroom and now no dirty clothes on the floor. Neither of us was going to walk to our hamper but now they are less than an arms length away from where we take our clothes off. Check her out. It will change your life. Also, if you find something isn't working for you its OK to change it.

[@charishurt1768]

Great job girl so proud of u ❤

[@ahoardersheart]

Thank you so so much ❤️🙏🏻❤️

[@eSusan12]

That was great! What will help you not pile clothes in front of closet? Maybe just check at end of night, as a first step, then try to just put in hamper when you take off. Your decluttering muscle is super strong, now you need to work on the no pile muscle. You deserve a beautiful bedroom.

[@ahoardersheart]

Yes!!! This is something that will be added to a Flylady control journal! I’m had this idea to create a simple one for myself in September!! A night time routine will be making sure clothes are off the floor or in the hamper!

[@eSusan12]

I really like the secret slobs version, she has some free downloads to start from. How much are you loving the kitchen floor?

[@26alexther]

You did awesome..you made my day.😊😊

[@ahoardersheart]

Oh yayyyy, your message made my day!! Lol

[@melanietrester]

Hello from Germany, hi miss heart, you rock it, be safe, have a nice weekend

[@connieverbeck1110]

I’m thinking you need a step ladder to make putting things away up high. Transformed my life.

[@leabarto8156]

Awesome job my sweet friend!

[@trineh3877]

You have come so far 😍💪🦄

[@anadevera2905]

I've been following your decluttering since I followed your vlogs... And you've come really great! Cheering you on here! ❤️ Always gets excited as you've gone way far from when you started ❤️

[@ahoardersheart]

Thank you so so much ❤️🙏🏻❤️ I truly appreciate that 💞 It’s helped me heal this far in my hoarding disorder 🌟

[@michelehice8338]

Hey girl...❤..great job

[@ahoardersheart]

Hey girl!!! Since you’re the first comment, you are the Unicorn of Day 💜🦄💜

[@MikaylaKJS]

I’m catching up on videos and I have a tip that may help you with gifts. I always struggle with gifts too and to help, I take pictures and keep them in a special folder on my computer so any time I’m feeling anxious I can scroll through all these pictures of wonderful gifts and wonderful memories. I also have a problem with wanting to keep packaging and every single piece of the gift, and I have a small bin set aside for these items and I am on the hunt for a scrapbook so I can sit down and add the pictures of the gifts, and any packaging to make a nice scrapbook so I’m getting use out of it and feel like I can keep it all “perfect” but it’s still smaller and easier to keep. Just a thought! Any time I go through items my main thought is not do I want to keep this, it’s how can I display this item in my room/future house. To me, everything has some sort of sentimental attachment to it and I have hard times letting go of things, but I also feel if an item is truly important to you it should be used and displayed with pride around our home. If it’s sitting in a box hidden in the basement how is it bringing us joy? Any items I currently have in storage are holiday items or items I just don’t have room for as I have only one room I can use for display. But that’s what really helps me when I’m deciding what truly is important to me, would I want this shown off in my house? You are amazing my dear!!! Lots of love❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@nenemaria-cornfieldsgarden]

Keeping up with it and breaking bad habits does take time but you're getting there! I find the more stuff I have the harder it is to keep on top of. Especially with clothes, because I have so many still, things can sit in piles untouched because I don't need them right away. If I just had fewer clothes to choose from, I'd have to do the laundry more often and put them away before it turned into a overwhelming clothes mountain 🤣 Dishes and pans are the same, once i decluttered all our kitchen and kept the things I used most, I had no choice but to fill the dishwasher or clean up right away as I needed them for next time. My kitchen is so much tidier and it's not an overwhelming pile to clean up once a week instead of a little every day.

[@ahoardersheart]

You are doing amazing 🌟🌟 I’m seriously so proud of you!! The clothes, yeah we have a lot but we’ll get there!!

[@jeannebowes2898]

Weigh the need to keep clothes against the anxiety it causes? Special occasion, office, athletic, yard work classifications. They may be pretty but not practical? Gifting someone else for a good cause helps. We love you! Happy to see your post. Today is taking the cat to the vet day. Our elderly kitty will take a very dim view of this. PS made my phone calls while cat was in vets getting her immunizations. Went through the list.

[@3llenzinha]

Are your drawers broken? Why are they open?

[@raisingmitchells1224]

I don’t have the space for your items so at 27 (3kids and a husband 🤣) I am having to address my issues, I am also starting long term counselling for ‘side running’ issues. I have decluttered for 2 yrs bit by bit and it has made a difference but mess still plays on my mind. It will always be a work in process but it’s one I am ready for.

[@jacquelinejordan1588]

I'm happy. I'm proud of myself, I'm happy. Your mantra. I am over the moon happy for you! God bless

[@ahoardersheart]

Yesss!! My mantra!! You know, I wanted to do weekly mantras and I think you just inspired me to start doing that 🌟🌟🌟 Thank you!!!

[@gdsgrl4468]

I am so proud of you! I love your channel. Does hoarding have a spectrum, because in the last six month or so, I have really been working to declutter my spaces(bedroom, purse,inventory of purses etc.) and Through watching your videos, I see some of the same habits that I’VE been working through. How do I know the difference between hoarder tendencies and “just being messy?”

[@ahoardersheart]

Yes! There is a spectrum of hoarding! They break it down to level 1-5 with Level 5 being what you see on Hoarders Buried Alive. I was a level 3-4 in the beginning and now a level 2. Someone asked if I could do a video on it and I definitely will in the future ❤️🙏🏻❤️ In the mean time you could google “5 levels of hoarding disorder” and a chart should show right up for you!!

[@gdsgrl4468]

A Hoarder's Heart Thank you SO much! I am a new subscriber, but already,I have learned so much, just from watching you walk through your own journey. I am so happy to be a part of it! Keep going, you’re doing great🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@thebeachyfarmhouse6410]

You did great 🤗💕😘

[@joannevenz5045]

You will find once your surfaces on bedside tables and drawers are clear, what a big difference that will make. I can hardly wait 😀

[@ahoardersheart]

Thank you so so much ❤️🙏🏻❤️

[@withyoctopus]

Your editing has come far in the last 2 years. Now, with the face reveal, you should get lots of new subscribers.

[@ahoardersheart]

Thank you ❤️ I think by revealing myself it really helped connect with my KZbin family too!!!