Hoarders ❤️ Extreme DeClutter the Basement Part 17 | Mentality behind Hoarding Disorder

It’s that time of the week again!! It’s time to Declutter another section of this hoarded basement!! I explain why the need to hoard was self soothing to my anxiety and PTSD. My hopes is by being vulnerable and open in my disorder, it will help everyone understand the true mentality behind hoarding. But especially to someone with hoarding disorder to let them know, they are not alone with these emotions and struggles.
#home #declutter #mentalhealth

[@elizabethbrundagemediajour150]

Pepper is so cute...she even holds down the plastic bag while you sort the papers...she is very helpful and playful love bug 🐛 the same time.

[@goldfishsnake]

I'd love a hubby declutter update! We haven't seen the garage or any of his spaces in awhile :) I know he's not as big on filming his declutters, but it'd be cool to hear updates on the boxes of his things you found

[@orlyjj]

I agree! Ms Heart works so hard on her end i think hubby should take a turn.

[@catherineferrari7710]

You should frame the "I Love You" hand sketch and put it in you and hubby's bedroom. It's special, meaningful, and you made it.

[@harshitaaggarwal5052]

Wow those hand drawings are sooooo good

[@sageashley]

Man I can't even imagine a hoarders heart video without pepper at this point lol!! I just rewatched an episode from like a year ago and was so sad when I realized Pepper wasn't here yet and wouldn't be making an appearance lol!! ❤️❤️

[@cb9825]

I think Pepper helps a lot, she is a great decluttering companion 🥰

[@eileenlester4342]

💜💜💜💜

[@ahoardersheart]

Awe!!! You are so right!! My life is so much better with our little Pepper girl by my side 😻

[@britt581]

4:20 Pepper baby

[@serenalatorre2323]

Miss Pepper seems like a great decluttering companion and keeps you motivated with her curious company. 😊❤

[@traceybradshaw]

I have loved every single step of this process. I started struggling to let go of things around the time my dad passed away in 2012. Prior to that I had been a very organized person and I decluttered and sorted our belongings regularly. 6 months before our dad passed he had a stroke and was moved into a nursing home with vascular dementia. I travelled to my dad’s house, along with my 3 siblings and our partners, to clear his belongings and prepare the house for sale. (Also, our mother had died in 1988 of cancer at the age of 38 and we didn’t have many of her belongings to remember her by) My 2 sisters are extremely unsentimental and were happy to just dump EVERYTHING - not even send things for donation. They were throwing boxes, drawers and cupboards full of things away without sorting through them. Dad was a very organized person, so sorting his things wasn’t difficult, they just didn’t see any point. Our dad was still alive and these were HIS things. I found it so disrespectful. I ended up locking myself in a room to go through as much as I could to be sure nothing important was being thrown out and was ridiculed multiple times over the weekend by my sisters. They had only allocated 48 hours to sort and clear out a lifetime of our dad’s belongings and when it got to his garage we ran out of time. Many of my favorite memories of my dad were spent camping, fishing, doing diy and learning how to use tools in his shed. I knew these things were very important to him. My partner and I ended up loading up the whole contents of my dad’s garage plus the items I saved from his house and travelling back to our home state with them. It took me 7 years before I could properly sort through his things and decide what I wanted to keep. The trauma of that weekend also triggered something inside me that made me fear getting rid of things, to the point of feeling physically ill. Over the past 3 years I have been able to let go of things more and more, and each time I go through the decluttering process it gets easier to let go. One of the things I still struggle with is my children’s old toys. That is a work in progress and I have allocated a large tub for each child plus one tub for things I want to save for future grandchildren and that has helped me to prioritize what is really worth keeping. I have one box of sentimental personal items for myself and each of the children too. We are currently renovating our home from top to bottom and have our belongings in storage - we are determined as a family that only the things we truly want to keep will be coming back into the house and the remainder will be donated, sold, given away or dumped. The only “storage” we will have will be one long set of shelves in our garage as our basement is a finished room used as a music space for our boys and their band mates to rehearse and jam.

[@debratakagawa4764]

Today was an impressive declutter. I am so proud of the size of the area you cleaned up today. You are amazing.

[@julieanne7223]

You and Pepper are doing a wonderful job, you make a great team, the basement looks so much better,

[@mariemaladorno8788]

Pepper is such a good girl. She must be such a comforting companion while you sort through your papers. The pictures you drew are great-I could never draw like that!

[@rebeccan3288]

Miss Pepper is probably the most friendly and fun cat ever!!!! 🐈 ❤️

[@ahoardersheart]

She’s a sweetie for sure!! But she does have a sassy side too!! Lol It’s actually quite cute when she’s in sassy mode!!

[@val99star]

I love your poster of NYC. That image is powerful. To me, it almost symbolizes the peace before the trauma, the strength before the tragedy, and the legacy of courage that I long to live up to and reach once more.

[@melissafedeli2022]

I would keep that New York picture and hang it up in the basement when you get to decorating - it’s a piece of history

[@melissafedeli2022]

You could take the picture out of ur parents frame and put the towers picture in it to have a nicer display

[@debratakagawa4764]

I agree, I have kept pictures of the NY twin towers for history.

[@mercurialpierrot7073]

I don't know...it seems like a negative piece of history that can be let go.

[@GlitteringKiwi]

I agree that it should be hung up. It’s a very pretty picture of the city at night and in use is better than hidden away in the basement.

[@amara560]

It's good if Ms Heart feels she needs to keep it to make steps in her recovery. However I don't think something being 'a piece of history' is a good reason to keep it. Especially with the connotations this particular piece has. We have museums to protect our history. We don't need to hold onto symbols with possibly negative energy just because they might be 'a piece of history'.

[@lisabullock5864]

Wow that made such a difference! I'd love to see a comparison of when you started the basement and where you are at now. You've done so much

[@MsArtistwannabe]

Great results today. You went further than I thought you would. Soon you’ll have that studio space for your arts and crafts.

[@mistieheard1951]

You are making so much progress. The basement is looking awesome!

[@ahoardersheart]

Thank you so much! That means a lot to me ❤️🙏🏼❤️

[@carypolakowski4817]

When you started the video, I was amazed at how much space you have already freed up. It gets better every time. I love the rough organizing, a perfect way to give yourself grace and make progress too.

[@Annm9346]

Your videos have helped me so much. I'm now on a decluttering without too much stress.

[@lasonrisadeltrece1695]

always doing an amazing job, Pepper and you💜

[@michellerobillard4067]

Thank you for these videos they are helping me and I'm enjoying watching them I have ADHD and Anxiety and I have panic attacks sometimes and I have been decluttering stuff around are RV I have been gave so much clothes and had some of my own that we can't get in are bedroom so we are sleeping in the living room right now so I'm trying to go through the totes and bags of stuff and it is very overwhelming for me but I'm doing what you said do a little at a time and stop if it becomes to much yesterday on October 2,2022 I'm happy to say that I got through a tote a under the bed tote and a small box of clothes and got rid of a bag and a half to a friend and a half of a garbage bag for donate and some went into the trash because they have holes and were no longer good so thank you for all the motervashon to do it 😁😸👍👏

[@StillWatersASMR]

WOW, you are SUCH a talented artist!!! Those drawings are incredible! Also my (almost) 2 year old daughter loves watching your videos with me because she loves your cat. 😊❤️🐱

[@alanbirkner1958]

September 2023. How did I miss this? I gave some craft supplies to a local craft group. Also took magazines to the library for their free stack. Tina, Al's wife

[@aliementz1294]

Pepper has certainly ‘peppered’ your episodes with even more goodness! Okay, I’ll see myself out now. 😂😂😂

[@porcelina956]

Little Pepper's sweet face every time I click on a video. I loved your college drawings of hands. I too drew hands a lot in high school and college because they were difficult, and I wanted to be good at drawing them. I would pull the Beastie Boys hoodie out and wear it on the weekends.

[@lunanovacorvus9664]

So, so proud of you. You're doing such a great job! Those sketches are beautiful. Oh, and regarding the bugs...Don't feel ashamed of that. This happens in our basement as well over the winter and we don't have a lot of stuff 💜🦄

[@ahoardersheart]

Thank you so so much ❤️🙏🏼❤️ That does make me feel so much better!!!

[@josephdaly2015]

Absolutely amazing clean out again. Take a bow Miss Heart ❤️ and Miss Pepper 🐈 You have so much space in that corner now. You really are an inspiration to me and so many others, thank you 🙏 Have a great week. Stay safe and healthy. Mary, Joes wife 🙇‍♀️👏💪👍🙏💐🐈🦄

[@croccatcher]

Another fantastic job well done

[@goconnor0304]

Oh my gosh - you are an excellent artist! I think those hands could be put into frames for a small wall gallery in the house. As for the NYC print, maybe hang it up in the basement. Also, why not wear those t-shirts and hoodies - they are so cool!

[@rebeccajordan4491]

Wow!!! I’ve only been watching you for a few months, and even in that short time I can see a huge change in your decluttering muscles! I was really surprised not so much by how big the tossy-tossy pile was today, but how big the area you worked on was! I was expecting you to be finished about halfway through the video, and girl, you kept going!!! 💪💪💪

[@jessicabrown6943]

Wow!! Your sketches are amazing!!! ❤

[@leezasims9959]

More excellent work at your pace ....perfect!!!!! Great job 🤗🤗🤗 This is very helpful to watch ....Thank you ❤️

[@elfstarsaka]

I was in high school when 9/11 happened and I felt my chest tighten a little when you showed the poster. I can definitely understand not being ready to make a decision on that right away.

[@patpalmer1337]

It would be nice to see an overview of the entire basement for perspective. You are doing great!❤👍

[@rebeccan3288]

I think she did that a few weeks ago.

[@amara560]

She did that very recently. Check the videos on the channel :)

[@patpalmer1337]

@@amara560 I thought I had seen them all, but, maybe I missed that one....

[@amara560]

@@patpalmer1337 KZbin isn't always great at showing us the videos we want to see sadly. Enjoy your watch!

[@amara560]

You did so well! There was so much paper in there that in the past would have definitely slowed you down or you would have put it off till later. And today you just did it. Amazing progress!

[@monaleencabaron3694]

Ms Heart, just letting you know that you make me so happy. Your videos are dopamine hits for me 😊😊 Thank you for sharing your journey - you have come so far and I’m always excited to watch you and sweet Pepper declutter another section each week and finding treasures or interesting story pieces!! xoxoxo

[@daniellepyle5844]

Gosh, remember when you wore those sun glasses? You did such a big area today!! So proud of you!!!

[@KimQ1425]

It’s looking amazing!!!!! And yes keep the NYC skyline poster, put it up after you finish your basement. I was lucky enough to go the summer of 2001 and see them before that tragedy. Keep going on your goal!!

[@carolynoquinn4573]

Your sketches are good!!!

[@rebeckamattisson5083]

Another great decluttering session! I'm so happy for you. Have a lovely weekend!

[@catharinabra]

Wow! From hoarder to a decluttering boss! 💪🦄

[@patriciacerwin6266]

Your art work is beautiful. Such talent. I just found your channel and struggle with decluttering, especially books. I hope to watch your earlier videos to gain encouragement. PS - keep the NY picture and those magazines of your dad might be worth money if you decide to part with. A lot of collectors out there.

[@joannayeo9545]

The basement is really coming on sweet lady, you really have got this xx

[@charlenebrissette3348]

Wow, girl you are talented.

[@malachitemoondance1086]

Your hand drawings are really good.

[@sageashley]

Ooooooh I clicked immediately lol love this series so much and love you!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@francinehogsett3065]

Your sketches are beautiful 😊❤️great job

[@abreathofairwitherin6173]

Wow great job on your basement. You really opened a big space

[@missyl4621]

Omg so much progress!! Lots to be proud of, Keep up the great work! 🎉

[@A-couple]

Those magazines and comics that are your dad’s KEEP THEM & GET THRM APPRAISED. Comics can be worth a lot of $$$. So proud of you.😊❤🎉

[@Turtle4Cats]

You are doing great! I'm always so inspired by your videos to start decluttering something of my own. I really appreciate your rough organizing method and only getting rid of what feels right.

[@JlNXED]

I love those drawings! Really impressive, I can’t wait for when the fun diy storage racks and craft room begins taking form

[@Nat073]

Have you ever considered putting all the loose things on your hubbys sheves into a bin? That way they’re protected in case of a leak and it’ll be more contained and easier to move around if necessary

[@cherylcoolidge8249]

That was a great declutter. I can't wait for the kon marie christmas declutter.

[@kathrynreay3344]

This makes me so happy!! Well done, your progress is amazing 💜

[@o0Theresa0o]

Pepper is seriously the cutest... I absolutely love watching her get into what you're doing. What a great addition to your journey!

[@egr3071]

I need to do my fall declutter for the entire house. This just reminded. I will start tonight

[@carolynoquinn4573]

Yay, here we go in the basement!!!

[@susangriffin-byrne8393]

I love watching your declutter vids. Gives me hope and encouragement to take care of my own junk/treasures. Thank you.

[@capercat9785]

Wow: you were pretty good at sketching in college. Very talented.

[@charishurt1768]

Huge tossy pile congratulations 🎊 looks great 💜🦄

[@equusgirl]

Thank you so much for showing everyone what goes on inside our head and body when we try to go through our stuff. You inspire me! ❤️

[@danazzimmerman5534]

You are making such awesome progress! You should feel so good about yourself! Keep going girl! You are an inspiration ❤

[@peanut6265]

Pepper you are doing a great job

[@JoanDam248]

You have come so far Dear Melanie. You are doing so great ❤

[@klbennef]

I can't wait to see the whole basement when you're finished!!!

[@alanbirkner1958]

You are doing a terrific job. Amazing work on all those papers. Tina, Al's wife

[@pashkies]

My favorite part of the video was how many times you kept saying "and now/next" and started on a new tub or section! Love to see all the progress you're making, keep up the amazing work and the kindness you're giving to yourself 💜💜

[@Janneli2024]

What was would we do without containers in our lives 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️😮 thank heaven for them we are organised people theses days job well done 💪💪👍🏻👍🏻

[@fianorian]

More great work. You are really making an impact on the space now. There can't be much 'virgin' territory left to declutter now. I can't wait to follow the organisation part of this space.

[@nadinewilliamson1037]

You should be proud of how much progress you are making.

[@geraldinekerr8645]

Your artwork is fab

[@joyindrelie6715]

It really shows your progress in so many of these decisions-- such as the fireplace thing that you decided to look into letting go. You're doing so great! Thanks for the inspiration!

[@kellyharris4639]

One of your best dig outs!

[@melissalemire884]

Wow! You have been on a strike for the last three weeks! Letting go Soo much its impressive how your muscles are strong now! Congrats and keep up the good work!

[@jsblake199]

Totally keep that picture of NYC!

[@eSusan12]

Nice job!

[@WildKraftyAotearoa]

Love your videos Mel! Hi there Miss Pepper xoxo

[@jenwalmsely]

I am so happy for you!!! ❤❤❤

[@HolographicCathawk]

You have so many likes and comments on a brand new video! I'm so impressed with how far your channel has come. I didn't realize how many people are watching with me till just now!!! Keep up the amazing work but also you deserve a nice vacation. I hope your getting time for yourself :)

[@Ann-vr1qr]

Wow! You've gotten so much done! I just love watching your Friday declutters. I also appreciate you talking about hoarding disorder. It is not something I previously understood very well. But thanks to you, I have a better concept of it. Keep up the good work!! ❤️

[@judenebaer9997]

You did great !! Your coming along in so many ways. Thanks for sharing

[@GillianVeitch]

This seemed like a huge declutter! Amazing work!

[@eavening4149]

Holy Wow! Once again, you are simply amazing! Look at that space you've opened up! So cool!

[@tonibergquist61]

Great job!!! I was wondering, will your New York skyline poster fit in the frame from that picture you want to toss? If do, change it out and hang in the basement! It would make a beautiful picture!

[@ahoardersheart]

Oh what a wonderful idea!! Thank you for sharing with me!!

[@katia_g213]

Wonderful job! Miss Pepper is a great incentive :)

[@listep4814]

That was amazing ❤

[@christineshultz7615]

You could move all your family sentimental over there now. That would really free up space in the front of the basement.

[@tabbycat4606]

So awesome ❤

[@cosmeohana2376]

Wow just wow! Such a difference!! I can't believe it's Oct 1 and I already failed the no spend for today! I forgot to checkout my cart yesterday. I needed to get my daughter a new coat and boots since it's really starting to get cold here in our part of jersey . 🙃

[@faithdijkema6785]

Wow, getting so close to the end of rond one. Yeah. 🦄

[@barbarap6851]

Wonderful job! You are able to make decisions so quickly plus, you are also seeing things that you might be willing to part with the next go around!

[@crimsonrose51]

The basement videos are just Apollo satisfying!!! I found your channel this year and just a few days ago watched your very first decluttering the basement videos. So proud of how far you've come.

[@lakbaydiva]

Pepper is such a good helper!! My cat hates plastic bags. She doesn't like the sound they make. 💖

[@leahfischer5264]

Woo hoo!! Great job! Your strength comes they your videos!

[@lindakleiner5734]

You are killing this decluttering of your basement. Great job.

[@beverlyschroeder5573]

You are so encouraging.. THANK YOU

[@ChanekaSary]

Way to go Ms Heart! Can we bring the decluttering unicorn back? I miss her 😅

[@jenniferr-f3157]

You did a fantastic and impressive job today!

[@tashainjena]

Love your videos, but now that you have so much floor space in the basement, the best thing I bought to help my cleaning journey was a mechanic's rolly stool... I can't stand for long periods of time, so I often do my kitchen work rolling around on my stool. :D

[@tashainjena]

P.S. - Those hand sketches are amazing. If you are up for doing some work, I have a cousin that teaches sign language and would love to have you sketch her name with signs.

[@amystewart9228]

Nice!!