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A Hoarder's Heart

A Hoarder's Heart

Күн бұрын

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@MB-pc4cs
@MB-pc4cs 7 ай бұрын
I have every document I have ever gotten in paper, since 2001 with a few before. Multiple jobs, paper pay stubs, in one job I regularly rented a cargo van as a broker courier. I had an encyclopedia stack of van rental invoices, 3 papers each. I have every rent receipt I ever got, except maybe 10 mixed into this 100lbs of paper I am sorting through and shredding. Monthly bank and credit card invoices. I found and kept my first paystub from a job I started in 2001 and spent more time at than any other job. I had to shred a few printed pictures of girlfriends. I felt bad, but I have them digitally somewhere. I have so much paper from the last 23 years, when I grab a random stack to sort, it's like an archeological dig. It's like looking at layers of sediment to determine when the asteroid hit and when the volcano blew up. I grab a stack to shred and it's like I find all Dynamex paper, and not far away my employee tag, and I'm like uh..... here we go.... what a mess. Heartbroken. There's some hand written emo babble sad ah it a chick. Talking about stitches and working from 7:30 - 3:30. I know I have everything because I would not just discard this type of thing. I throw it into a garbage bag or a duffle bag, so I know I probably have every rental receipt except maybe 10 - 15 for one reason or another. It's astounding. I'm sorting and shredding. I'm tired of having it. Ugly waste of space. I love discarding worthless garbage that takes up space. Like the coat closet. Just throw everything in the garbage. Most of it IS garbage, it's like the paper. Worthless and needs to go. Decluttering.
@sharonwest1602
@sharonwest1602 Жыл бұрын
You help me so much I will keep coming back to this One I like burning 🔥 my junk mail everyday bring in the mail separate the bills junk mail
@summerbaby4600
@summerbaby4600 3 жыл бұрын
1:30 If you can’t keep up with ads, that’s a good thing, cause that means you don’t need any of the things advertised in there. Really, you are not missing out on anything!!! Stop looking for deals and just buy what you need, when you need ✨
@cindyhenry1410
@cindyhenry1410 Жыл бұрын
I am such a hoarder! My problem is I have so many hobbies that everything I see (from paper bags, to broken jewelry to wrapping paper to ribbons and so on) is a potential piece of art or scrapbook project, etc. I’ve decided to try and limit myself to one box or one drawer for these items. It’s a daunting task to sort all of this stuff. To top it off, in the span of 3 years, I moved out of my old job, my brother died and we had to clear out my sister’s house (he was an extreme hoarder like the ones on the TV show! My hoarding looks more like what you showed in this video), my mom got sick and we had to move her out of her apartment and then my sister and my mom moved to a new house and my basement flooded! During all of this many items accumulated and were shifted all over the house. Now my whole house is a huge mess!! Not only did I accumulate items during these moves but I have not spent time working at my own house because I was spending so much time helping my sister and Mom. I try to tackle small piles at a time. Also I injured my knee and couldn’t do much during that time! Ughhhhh I need help lol. I hope your channel can help me! New subbie! TYFS ❤️🦋💜
@susanbryan5142
@susanbryan5142 2 жыл бұрын
O, MY ! I have NEVER seen anything like that. I subscribed to your site and rang the bell. You are a brave, wonderful person. I will continue to watch.
@cararevelscrittenton806
@cararevelscrittenton806 Жыл бұрын
Thank for sharing your journey I am a borderline hoarder my Mom and Dad were both kind of hoarders My Dad was very Organized with his clutter and My Mom RARELY wanted to throw ANYTHING away, I'm also a BEE according the To "The Clutter Bug Lady" lol so I like to see my things and I tend to have perfectionist tendencies. My Ex Husband was a Neat Freak so he helped me keep it Under control mainly because I didn't want him to fuss. I usually watch a couple of episodes of Hoarders when things get a bit out of control that show makes me clean like crazy and reminds me I don't want to get that extreme. Thanks again you are really an inspiration, NEW SUB
@cronezone6214
@cronezone6214 3 жыл бұрын
When I decluttered my attic, I finally realized what an unhealthy relationship I have with paper. There were financial statements from the '90s and all kinds of stupid stuff up there. To prevent that going forward, I've been retrieving the mail once a week and dealing with it all on that day. I no longer get a newspaper, so I don't have flyers or clippings. The less access I have to temptation, the better. It's difficult to break bad habits, but it can be done.
@karenhoward8542
@karenhoward8542 3 жыл бұрын
Have years of taxes properly filed receipts. I plan to go through them all and only keep the receipts that deal with my 12 year old car, etc.
@nenemaria-cornfieldsgarden
@nenemaria-cornfieldsgarden 3 жыл бұрын
In case you didn't know, receipts can't be put in paper recycling, they need to go in the trash. The thermal paper is coated in BPA (which is how the 'ink' shows up) so it contaminates all the paper recycling. It's something we don't get told to avoid (I don't know why) but it can ruin a whole batch of recycling. It's frustrating as we end up with so many of them which just get thrown away. Some shops here ask if you want it before it's printed or offer email copies instead which is a good step forward. Just thought you might like to know (if you didn't already, of course) as I know you've been trying to be more environmentally conscious.
@CoquetFleur
@CoquetFleur 3 жыл бұрын
In Europe that are now phasing out this type of paper - they literally print „I can be put in the recycling“ on the back
@nenemaria-cornfieldsgarden
@nenemaria-cornfieldsgarden 3 жыл бұрын
@@CoquetFleur that's great to hear, the UK is also included in the BPA ban but ive not seen anything about the alternatives being recyclable (it's not printed on receipts), I'll have to do some more research. I've not shopped anywhere but the supermarket for the last year so it's not something I've thought much about but we run a business (that's been closed since March 20) and end up with masses of receipts in our accounts so I'll be keeping an eye on it when we eventually get back to work!
@rachelc.5463
@rachelc.5463 3 жыл бұрын
@Nenemaria...I learned something from you. So that is why I'm asked if I want receipt printed or emailed. I usually have cashier print receipt and later I just shred receipt instead of throwing away in trash.
@jpzona90
@jpzona90 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this important information 😊
@cindyhenry1410
@cindyhenry1410 Жыл бұрын
I shred all of my receipts
@isabellerininger6249
@isabellerininger6249 Жыл бұрын
I know this is an old video but I’m seeing it in 2023 and I love it! I immediately went and spent 3 hours on paper! Yay!!
@barbarap6851
@barbarap6851 3 жыл бұрын
Good job! Just a suggestion...DON'T use an incoming mail basket. It automatically becomes a dumping ground that will get filled up. Deal with your mail as soon as you bring it into the house...bills in bill box, trash/recycle, shred, time will tell. I have successfully kept my counter clear of mail clutter for a few years now.
@vivianhudacek1556
@vivianhudacek1556 Жыл бұрын
Paper is the bane of my existence! Thanks for sharing your struggles. Makes me feel better & encouraged.
@alanbirkner1958
@alanbirkner1958 4 ай бұрын
August 2024. Like you, I make crafts. But I don't hoard. Today a few junk mail envelopes were orange and purple. I cut them into 1x6 strips and added them to my Halloween shoebox. If it wasn't August, I'd recycle them. Tina, Al's wife
@ritavasnanigurbani6063
@ritavasnanigurbani6063 3 жыл бұрын
Good one!!
@Lcshell
@Lcshell 2 жыл бұрын
OMG you have Domino Rally!!! First thing I noticed was your style of paper keeping- mine is much the same. Every so often I gather all the paper into piles on the floor in one room with intentions of sorting purging and filing. It takes me awhile to start the sorting once it’s all gathered. I like the idea of acknowledging making emotional decisions as a hoarder to help look at things differently. Thank you so much for sharing!
@gapeach51170
@gapeach51170 3 жыл бұрын
At the beginning on 2020 I gathered ALL the paper clutter in our home it was massive. I had 5 full bankers boxes, 1 full laundry basket , 1 small wicker basket and 2 portable file folders. I was so good when I first started and got through the 5 bankers boxes but then hit a wall. I picked it back up this month. I went through the large laundry basket and now I am down to just the wicker basket and the 2 file folders. I have been watching video's on the Sunday Box and when I finish my initial sort I am going to come up with a simple filing system and start using a Sunday Box. I NEVER want to deal with large amounts of paper clutter ever again! :)
@davecoburn4277
@davecoburn4277 3 жыл бұрын
I was going to suggest Organize 365's Sunday basket. I use a box with tote bags and working down to her "slash pockets"
@davecoburn4277
@davecoburn4277 3 жыл бұрын
I'm Leona ( using Dave's phone)
@EricaLucasLoves
@EricaLucasLoves 3 жыл бұрын
I love how you share how you feel so deeply. The emotions vs the logical battle is real. I’m glad you tackled that pile!
@josephdaly2015
@josephdaly2015 3 жыл бұрын
That was absolutely brilliant 👏👏👏 take a bow 🙇‍♀️ It’s something I keep avoiding because I hate paperwork 🙄 That pile was far from a baby step 😂 it was huge. Well done as always Miss Heart ❤️ Stay safe and healthy. Mary, Joes wife 👏👍💐🦄🥳
@ahoardersheart
@ahoardersheart 3 жыл бұрын
Lol!! Yeah that was a giant step! Lol It’s because I have such amazing friend like you who keep me encouraged to keep going!!
@josephdaly2015
@josephdaly2015 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you but it does work both ways 😉
@ltaj7336
@ltaj7336 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness. So proud 👏 of you! That was a huge pile. I just finished going through a stack about half that size and I'm feeling great 👍 Keep up the good work. You are an inspiration to me and others ❤
@cynthiapatrick2723
@cynthiapatrick2723 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, I am so proud of you. I hate to do papers. Keep up the good work. It takes baby steps just one step at a time. Blessings.
@user-ei8rb7sj6c
@user-ei8rb7sj6c 3 жыл бұрын
Woo-hoo! Tackled over an inch of papers after watching your video! Filed some, put others in “like with like” category piles until I decide what to do with them next, & reconciled my bank statement. Proud of myself! Thanks for the inspiration!
@clairekurdelak2913
@clairekurdelak2913 3 жыл бұрын
This is the first video of yours I have watched. I am so blessed by your self acceptance and the way you are implementing what you are learning about recovering from and managing your disorder. I am sending you so much goodwill and good wishes for your future!
@jessicaquiroz7178
@jessicaquiroz7178 Жыл бұрын
I still have piles of paperwork to go through but I also have tons of paperwork that needs to be shredded
@pfcampos7041
@pfcampos7041 2 жыл бұрын
Hey hon, I am rather late to the boat but I just wanted to say how proud of your I am! Weird perhaps to hear from a stranger. But I have a sister who is a serious hoarder, My mom hoards paper and I have struggled with hoarding also thankfully it is only a problem with art and craft supplies. But I understand the level of discipline it takes and the courage it takes to be honest about the hoarding issues. So cudos to you. You give us hope. :)
@pamelalivengood8356
@pamelalivengood8356 3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate the reality!
@pamboatwright8281
@pamboatwright8281 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad they asked you to join "Clutter free January", or I wouldn't have found you. I always think I'm the worst ever, and now I see I'm not alone. My house is NOT all clean and tidy like those shown on the playlist. Would love to know how long you personally have been decluttering? Go girl!
@ahoardersheart
@ahoardersheart 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much ❤️🙏🏻❤️ I’m glad you found me too!! I started decluttering in summer 2018. It was a slow start because I was still a level 4 hoarder. Now the DeClutters are becoming easier as I created healthy habits of letting go! I’m cheering you on as you Declutter too!
@janieherrin9067
@janieherrin9067 3 жыл бұрын
I am just so impressed with your progress in every new video !! Being a hoarder and getting rid of things left and right !! You're like wonder woman. So proud of you !!!!!
@lolgriffin3243
@lolgriffin3243 3 жыл бұрын
You're inspirational!
@LOVEEEVEEY
@LOVEEEVEEY 3 жыл бұрын
What gave you the courage to finally start showing your face???? Yayy!!! Way to go 😊😊😊😊
@gennbee1886
@gennbee1886 3 жыл бұрын
This is timely as I am working on paper clutter today. Goodbye all the stuff circa 2000's and early 2010's.
@rachelc.5463
@rachelc.5463 3 жыл бұрын
@Glenn Bee...I've been there.
@helenascribe210
@helenascribe210 3 жыл бұрын
Once again, a great motivational video. 👍
@tknows470
@tknows470 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! I am hitting a wall with decluttering my paper.
@jawslovesbrody
@jawslovesbrody 3 жыл бұрын
I really like your style. You're so calming and non judgemental. I subscribed and look forward to tackling my piles with your advice!
@jenniferr-f3157
@jenniferr-f3157 3 жыл бұрын
Dude! That’s A LOT of paper! Good job!!!
@Bunny20246
@Bunny20246 3 жыл бұрын
Oh girl !! I feel you on cleaning and paperwork!! I am moving In only 6 weeks and i finally took an entire day it took 6 hours of sorting but finally got it done I'm still so proud of myself and now I litteraly go through immediately all my weekly or daily paperwork and file it and it's one less thing that stays out of my way it is one of the most gratifying things ever , I also have horrid ocd and take meds and am doing so well but I'm s proud of you me and my mom are so proud of you we have been inspired so much to live simply because of you !! I also am a severe hoarder and watch every video you make !! Lol so don't give up girl you got this
@denisemarie6131
@denisemarie6131 3 жыл бұрын
Good for you!!! I look the other way every time I pass my paper piles!! Six hours took much tenacity. I hope you have a wonderful move!
@jenniferwright8355
@jenniferwright8355 3 жыл бұрын
We throw away all sale ads and junk mail as we walk into the house. The bills get put in the 'to pay' location. Before we do anything else - still carrying my handbag, lol - junk into recycling and bills in their home. Anything unusual goes onto my end table to see what it is that night. I had to tell myself that I am not bringing anything new into the house, so it doesn't matter what is in the sale ad. If I need to buy something, I go online to my local stores and look up the prices. I swear this saves me money in the long run, because the volume of things I am buying has greatly reduced in the past few years. So it just doesn't matter if I could have saved $3, I probably would have bought something else by going into the store.
@anamcdowell9478
@anamcdowell9478 3 жыл бұрын
Paper clutter is a hot topic in our house! I used to hoard my papers and when I finally decided to combat this issue I had 30ish pounds of paperwork to shred. Knowing myself as I do I knew I wasn't going to take the time to shred it all so I took it all to Staples and they shredded it for me. Yes, it cost money but it was worth it. Since then I have invested in a privacy/security stamp so I can just recycle it. I open the bills as they come in daily, throw away the envelope and advertising, and right then and there I stamp my private information. This has been a game changer! I have been able to keep up with the bills and other paperwork for 3 years now.
@alanbirkner1958
@alanbirkner1958 3 жыл бұрын
My mom had over 200 boxes of papers all over the tables, beds, and floor at one point. I've been dealing with hoarding all my life. Tina
@donnajohansen5915
@donnajohansen5915 3 жыл бұрын
I could watch you everyday!!!!! So excited when I see you with new video. 🥰🥳
@Shepz963
@Shepz963 3 жыл бұрын
I’m a paper person - I like physical books, jotting notes down, processing thoughts and projects on paper. But I have switched to electronic for the vast majority of paper items - bills on automatic pay and e statements for my bank, coupons on apps, saying no to receipts. It’s not my nature, but it has made it MUCH easier.
@102mzr
@102mzr 3 жыл бұрын
Way to go! That was a lot of paper you managed to sort without getting overwhelmed- I’m was worried when I saw that huge pile but you seemed to have it under control. I recently burst into tears over some paper that my husband was decluttering, so I’d love to understand how you’re able to handle it even with the hoarding disorder. I’ll check out more videos, thanks for sharing your real life, it’s so encouraging!
@clutterbugmama8093
@clutterbugmama8093 3 жыл бұрын
So glad u did the collab w those ladies!💜 I follow the 4 of u religiously n u all have helped me on my journey...thank u!!!💜🦄
@barbaragodfrey4773
@barbaragodfrey4773 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I am struggling with being overwhelmed with what I have to do and believing that focusing on one small area will make a difference. I am glad I found your channel. You give me hope.
@denisemarie6131
@denisemarie6131 3 жыл бұрын
I am glad you are here, also! Miss Heart is very encouraging and gives us "collectors" hope and sound advice. I want her to come over my hoard and help out a sister in distress!
@susannaknobloch4601
@susannaknobloch4601 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this! I am fighting unsuccessfully against paperclutter for decades now. This video is so encouraging and so helpful!
@karenstairs8273
@karenstairs8273 3 жыл бұрын
I make an appointment with myself to go through papers. I mark it using INK so I do not put it off. I have picked the day/night before trash day so that I can get it out of the house asap. I hope this idea is helpful for you. I too have to touch each and every paper ...and I am nearing the end of going through 36 years of papers.
@jessieelliott3157
@jessieelliott3157 3 жыл бұрын
A no junk mail sign on your letterbox will save you time as you seem to be handling each piece multiple times. Thanks for showing us how your disorder effects you. I really never understood how debilitating this disorder really is. I wish you all the best in your decluttering. Flylady is so good.
@barbkandel777
@barbkandel777 3 жыл бұрын
You are making great progress!!! What was life changing for me - I had to stop the flow of paper coming in - When we bring the mail in, we go straight to the TRASH CAN - Only bills to be paid or something important makes the cut!!! Total game changer. I am no longer a paper hoarder and I love it! I would seriously let weekly ads and coupons go until ALL paper in the house is under control and then you can make one container that is your "coupon system".
@shellyleach3377
@shellyleach3377 3 жыл бұрын
That is one of my goals for 2021. Declutter and organize my home. Once it’s done then we will move onto the garage and after that our crawl space. I have given myself to March to get the main part of my home done. It is starting to feel good.
@kch4580
@kch4580 3 жыл бұрын
I am so happy you are a part of the clutter free January! Dawn the minimal mom has a wonderful system and I would highly recommend it to you!!
@kathyfannon7563
@kathyfannon7563 3 жыл бұрын
Remember to pay attention to return policies. Some places won't let you return items after 60 or 90 days, so don't hang on to those receipts longer than you need to. Good job on clearing the paper clutter!!
@amandacampbell1979
@amandacampbell1979 3 жыл бұрын
You did a great job! That was a lot of paperwork to get rid of.
@Saforra99
@Saforra99 3 жыл бұрын
amen to that! Well done
@user-ei8rb7sj6c
@user-ei8rb7sj6c 3 жыл бұрын
New subscriber here! Thank you for being so open about your hoarding disorder. I never had a name for it, but I so relate to you! I’m over 60 and my paper piles look just like yours! Paper bills, check. Must keep every piece of paper bc (rarely), I go back & find something I need (although I could prob get it some other way?), check. Must touch and see every piece of paper before I can emotionally let it go without remorse, check. Often, right when I think this is it-I’m ready to start… I get sleepy & take a nap instead. How many hours did it take you? I never have the energy to finish in one day. Then I pile on more before I get back to it. Hoorah for you! 👏👏👏
@ArtyAntics
@ArtyAntics 3 жыл бұрын
I have a weekly routine for my paperwork, I make a pile and then every Thursday I open the mail, pay any bills, action any other stuff and clear out any receipts I can’t return items on. I also check my emails for electronic bills. Works great for me.
@Slidapenguin
@Slidapenguin 3 жыл бұрын
You should hang that receipt binder by your front door! That way when you come in from shopping you can immediately put it in the binder and then if you need to return something you can pull the receipt before you leave the house. Then once the year is over you can recycle the contents! Also, you might want to think about setting up automatic payments online. All of my bills are automatic, I don’t need to think about them as on their designated days they come out of my account and I get an email about it! Hope this helps!
@ediefolta9494
@ediefolta9494 3 жыл бұрын
If you go through the basement paper hoard and find a lot that needs to be shredded, it might be helpful to take it to some place like Staples and pay them to shred it. They weigh it and you can put it into the lock box yourself for future shredding. This really helped my sister when she was faced with paper documents when she was moving, and me too. Then I use my little home shredder just to keep up with the weekly stuff, once the bulk of the mess was gone. Otherwise, it's just too overwhelming and time consuming (not to mention making the home shredder overheat!).
@stefbmccoy8297
@stefbmccoy8297 3 жыл бұрын
all paper that comes into my house goes into a basket on top of my fridge and then i declutter and file it all on Saturday. that's when i pay bills too.
@suzannerockall4030
@suzannerockall4030 3 жыл бұрын
A great stack of papers. And you ended up with so few.... xxxx 👏👏👏
@ahoardersheart
@ahoardersheart 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much 🦄💜🌟🦄💜🌟
@anadevera2905
@anadevera2905 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, great job with your paper clutter... ❤️
@Mary-fn5rl
@Mary-fn5rl Жыл бұрын
Got drbills and test results up the wahzoo how do you handle them? If you donate to different charities how do you handle that . Wish I could go through paper that fast got to touch it all and read it all.
@lindaleight5291
@lindaleight5291 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on getting rid of all that paper!! Keep up the good work.
@jeno264
@jeno264 3 жыл бұрын
Paperwork is hard!! Have a rest after this!! You did so well! Fwiw, I don't let any paper in the house that I won't use, so I sort mail at the door and put junk mail etc DIRECTLY in the bin, I am like a gatekeeper. If your bill file works, then keep using it for sure!
@listep4814
@listep4814 3 жыл бұрын
I watch your videos right before going to bed, they are so calming, I love them to end my day! ❤
@ritaty6181
@ritaty6181 3 жыл бұрын
I enjoy the progress you have made. I have a whole new outlook on people that suffer with this. I am the “clutter police” at my house lol. I am the one that throws away things and then regrets them later. So, I guess I need to make a tiny change as well. You’re doing a great job
@mominator7274
@mominator7274 3 жыл бұрын
I can't thank you enough for opening your home, life and hoard... you are helping me to heal and get stronger and stronger and far less overwhelmed. Thank you.
@jessiec1194
@jessiec1194 3 жыл бұрын
I used to have a PO Box and would toss anything at their big table that was non profit or standard mail, or fliers. Straight into the trash, made life so much easier.
@lorenet.2182
@lorenet.2182 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve found it easy to toss receipts into a box. At the end of the month I toss in a colored piece of paper with the name of the month that’s ending. At the end of the year close it up mark the year on it and store. The next year I toss and start over. There’s no filing because it’s sort of chronological anyway. I also use this box for credit card statements, etc.
@jhern851
@jhern851 3 жыл бұрын
Looks like my desk.
@MaxinnePal
@MaxinnePal 3 жыл бұрын
Could you maybe put a little trash can next to wherever you keep your mail? That way as you flip through what came in you can just chuck it right then and there?
@ahoardersheart
@ahoardersheart 3 жыл бұрын
Ohhh! I see what you’re saying!! That’s a great idea!! Thank you ❤️🙏🏻❤️
@mrsbunch3501
@mrsbunch3501 3 жыл бұрын
I also put my little shredder right near my trash can so I don't store things that need to be shredded (mail with personal information etc)
@alanbirkner1958
@alanbirkner1958 Жыл бұрын
I recycle junk mail as soon as it arrives. Tina, Al's wife
@whatgwenloves
@whatgwenloves 3 жыл бұрын
Ugh paper clutter is a beast! Great job!
@christineshultz7615
@christineshultz7615 3 жыл бұрын
Think back to the first paper declutter. What a change in anxiety level and focus. You have come a long way.
@jeannebowes2898
@jeannebowes2898 3 жыл бұрын
I am not very high tech but I have phone apps for the ordinary groc stores that sometimes I use . Good since they have the digital coupons in addition to the reg food ads. You can make a list as well! I am a senior senior and learned how to do this! Your system sounds doable! I have very little paper these days, but hubs is a writer/historian.....
@bunacat1
@bunacat1 3 жыл бұрын
My paper was out of control until I said I'd had enough. Now I look at mail when it comes in just in case it is emergent. Once a week I completely go through everything and shred anything that has my name on it. I pay most of my bills online, so less paper there. I am a bit careful with autopay as I feel that I might become lazy with checking the charges. I have a checklist of all of my bills, which aren't many as we carry no debt except for the mortgage, and make sure that I check them off every month so that I don't forget any of them. It has worked nicely for us.
@marystrand6146
@marystrand6146 3 жыл бұрын
AMAZING job! You're doing so GREAT!
@salamarinita
@salamarinita 3 жыл бұрын
This is me. I have been decluttering for a year. I was too depressed in the summer to keep up but got back on track in the fall. It's amazing how much paper I recycled/trashed. Thanks for this video. You are much closer to my situation than most other declutterers I've seen!
@funnygirl3444
@funnygirl3444 3 жыл бұрын
My Aunt was an organized hoarder. I have suffered from OCD which I think may be a “cousin” to hoarding. I hope u didn’t have to go on medication to start this journey, because I did. Good for u and I love your videos!!!
@o0Theresa0o
@o0Theresa0o 3 жыл бұрын
I don't know what it's like in the USA, but in Canada, if we put up a sign that says "no unaddressed mail wanted" (google image it for cute signs), they are not allowed to drop off the junk. It saves so much time and energy not having to sort through all the crap. Or maybe there is a no junk mail registry or something? Another trick is to treat the mail like it's own chore. If you're getting the mail, it is mail getting time (i.e., you sort/open it immediately) - it doesn't necessarily mean you will do the action items right then and there (e.g., paying a bill), but that you are simply going to deal with the physical papers right away. I have a recycling bin right beside the door where the mail comes in so I can put stuff directly into it straight from the box. Maybe this could be hubby's chore?
@soniarosa7884
@soniarosa7884 3 жыл бұрын
I remembered something that maybe help you: paper that you think that can be useful later (i.e., wrapping paper), stablish an amount that you fell comfortable with (like size of a box). Other than that amount you will be able to get rid off with no anxiety associated. Small portions at a time 😉
@SGast
@SGast 3 жыл бұрын
Have you tried switching as many bills as possible over to direct deposit as this means the money is taken out of your account automatically and you do not have to think about it.
@ahoardersheart
@ahoardersheart 3 жыл бұрын
I did try that 2 years ago! But I had 2 different companies who had overdrawn my account and I got hit with overage fees 😵 That was when we were living paycheck to paycheck so it might be something to consider again! Thank you so so much my friend ❤️🙏🏻❤️
@SGast
@SGast 3 жыл бұрын
@@ahoardersheart In this case it is better to have control over when money is withdrawn. I have a cushion in my checking account which is about one paycheck as it means I never have to worry about overdraft fees, an unexpectedly high utility bill or having forgotten to transfer money from savings. This is especially important for me as my income can be quite irregular. Knowing there is always x amount of money in the account takes a way a lot of stress for me. However, in the beginning I had to be mindful about it having a purpose where it was and not spending it. Over time I just started building all these little safety nets for myself - the cushion, the sinking funds, the emergency fund, long-term savings and it really helps me feel secure that I have contingencies for the small and big things that might happen in my daily life. Having a cushion and setting up direct deposit might be something you can consider when you are out of babystep 3 but as long as your system works for you there really is no real reason to change it.
@ediefolta9494
@ediefolta9494 3 жыл бұрын
I still get paper bills (with the idea that my husband would see them if anything ever happened to me). But I pay them online out of my checking account. I set up a payment address for everybody that I pay, and then set up an automatic payment for the minimum each month, on the date that I choose. This way, I never miss the minimum payment. But when the paper bill comes, I change the amount to the full payment amount, and double-check the date. The advantage is that I can see all my payables listed by the time they are going to get paid, right there online in my checking account.
@Mystical244
@Mystical244 3 жыл бұрын
@@ahoardersheart I agree with you, I don't like automatic payments deducted from my bank account. But I do pay my bills on line and I do it once a month. Even if the bill isn't due for another 2 weeks I still pay all of them at the same time on the 3rd of every month. I printed out an excel sheet that has one column that I check mark once I pay the bill on line and another column that I check mark a few days later to make sure that it cleared in my bank. Once both columns are all checkmarked then I know I've paid every bill for the month and everything has cleared in my bank. I find this system better than automatic payments because what if you are short one month, automatic payment would not be good for that circumstance.
@nancykaplan7163
@nancykaplan7163 3 жыл бұрын
​@@ahoardersheart i had seriuos trouble wth the cell phone So that and the credt card are NOT auto pay. The other monthly things are auto pay BUT i get a hardcopy of all billls. this online thing makes me nervous. Mid month is my credut cad and beginning of moth my bankstaement. so twice amonth i reconcile things and listexpenses on the spread sheet. not quite sure how i will manage this year. i always bring CC to 0 ad liked thebill asit showed what and where i spent. So amny business' hurtingbadly now. they would prefer cash-----CC ompanies charge them a fee so i am tying to do more cash . .i might have to learn from you about saving and tracking reciepts.
@marybarton9792
@marybarton9792 3 жыл бұрын
I too struggle with mail & papers on my kitchen table so I am going to do the same thing. Thank you for sharing that tip.
@findingaway5512
@findingaway5512 3 жыл бұрын
I love your bill organizer something I used to do was write the due date on the front of an envelope that it came and then I would take a pin and stick it in a cork board in the one spare room At whatever house we were in I got away from that after we had kids and only ended up having one income. Now I do paying bills usually twice a month. But having that visual system definitely worked very well for me. Currently I have that Dollar general "home finance bill organizer" I mentioned on another video. It works very well for me because it has where you can write down the due date and what not and check it off as you pay it. since I don't have a ton of bills I use the other side for confirmation numbers. And since it has a pocket I can just put the bills in whenever I get them from the mail so that I don't lose them in the meantime. Ideally. I want to be better about that this year. And hopefully stem the flow of paper coming in and then I'll be able to tackle the old stuff later.
@blessed50
@blessed50 3 жыл бұрын
HI AGAIN DETROIT MICHIGAN LOVES YOUR CHANNEL AND FAMILY 👪😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊 KEEP ON GOING YOU ROCK!
@melanietrester
@melanietrester 3 жыл бұрын
Hello from Germany,hi miss Heart,good Job,you can be proud of you ,i declutter Papier all 2 months and in the end of december i go Into the deep, be safe
@marleylately381
@marleylately381 3 жыл бұрын
You did great! God bless you and your journey!
@theurbanthirdhomestead
@theurbanthirdhomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Woohoo!!
@kendrasullivan7407
@kendrasullivan7407 3 жыл бұрын
If you're having a hard time with starting new habits from scratch, try connecting them to ones you already mastered. For example I'm not the best at remembering that I need to brush my teeth, so everytime I'm using the bathroom for something else I brush. Sometimes it can a bit much but it's better than forgetting until my mouth is super gross.
@emilykravish3888
@emilykravish3888 3 жыл бұрын
I love the progress! I think a goal you should set is no shopping (except for food) until each room in the house is done so you know what you have. In the long run it will save you from buying multiples and more things that you don’t necessarily need.
@LoriTaylorSmithGA
@LoriTaylorSmithGA 3 жыл бұрын
Great job! I wouldn’t worry about a basket for incoming mail. Now that you have places for different categories, just sort as soon as it enters the house!
@TheCaitling
@TheCaitling 3 жыл бұрын
I would say you wouldn't believe how much paper clutter I used to have, but actually you could probably relate lol. I would pull boxes and boxes out of my mom's basement or financial papers, academic papers, receipts, everything. I have paychecks from working at CVS in high school. One big issue was that both my parents kept tons of paperwork of mine from school and work :-| so I had to sort all of it. It was great to sit with a shredder and and paper bag and I actually bought myself a feed through style scanner for things I wanted to keep digitally. Through the process, the amount of work I was doing would often convince me that a document wasn't even worth scanning and giving a file name and someday finding again, and it would be shredded on the spot. Nowadays, iPhone has a pdf scanner in the notes app that uses your camera, if necessary, and I personally tend to take coupons and magnet them to the fridge so I don't forget I have them. I rejoice when the expiration date arrived and I can throw them out haha. Great job! Getting rid of paper clutter is awesome
@elizabethbrundagemediajour150
@elizabethbrundagemediajour150 3 жыл бұрын
Like the accordion method for reciepts. We also have a small office shredder for papers that need to be shredded.
@Judy-fw7fl
@Judy-fw7fl 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Ms Heart! I personally keep receipts in a reverse file system - the moment it gets in, I decide how long it should be kept and then put it in the folder for that time. For example I have a little folder thing for receipts that can be thrown out in january 2022 - And once the day comes it is suddenly so much faster to go through.. Coupons are not quite as big a thing in europe... so i sadly have nothing i could say to that, that noone else said already - and that would be keep a paper recycling bin around. Mine is actually next to the entrance and i just throw whatever i don't need in there at once.
@valerad6245
@valerad6245 2 жыл бұрын
That’s so genius tho.
@Chaundradickinson
@Chaundradickinson 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story.
@bmoremom8458
@bmoremom8458 3 жыл бұрын
Fly Lady Kat recommends 15 minutes daily (5-6 times a week) to declutter paper. I think this helps reduce decision fatigue and hoarder panic.
@carolbabb7875
@carolbabb7875 3 жыл бұрын
I think I will try this. My paper situation is huge. Making a huge pile just won't work for me. Thank-you for the tip! People on this site are so awesome to share what works for them.
@rg-mi5hh
@rg-mi5hh 2 жыл бұрын
These people help me too.
@nancywidows463
@nancywidows463 3 жыл бұрын
I totally get the old school thing. I don't opt for auto payments, because it truly makes me feel like I have no control. Probably just my anxiety, but either way, paying bills by mail does work best for me.
@louisefriisp
@louisefriisp 3 жыл бұрын
I am looking forward to see the rest of your journey🙂
@frauklmr9832
@frauklmr9832 3 жыл бұрын
You did a great job plowing through those piles and weeding out the unimportant documents. Keep it up!
@rebeccaarcher3851
@rebeccaarcher3851 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so proud of you!!
@OK-wb1dy
@OK-wb1dy 2 жыл бұрын
The tossy tossy pile makes me excited
@juliebrooke6099
@juliebrooke6099 3 жыл бұрын
Brilliant job. Make sure you keep on top of it every few days or every week so that it gets to be a habit and doesn’t build up to be so overwhelming again. You’re doing so well.
@justusewater1
@justusewater1 3 жыл бұрын
I love your gentle way of making progress. You are so great at slowly walking us through your steps!
@ahoardersheart
@ahoardersheart 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much ❤️🙏🏻❤️
@karenhoward8542
@karenhoward8542 3 жыл бұрын
You Go Girl!!
@lmk1971
@lmk1971 3 жыл бұрын
Great work! I like to get my bills in the mail also, but I then pay them online to save on mailing costs and then just file my bills away in there folders when paid. I also keep a plastic shoe box to store all my receipts in and clean them out every few months. I don't waist valuable drawer "real-estate" that way. :)
@norafleming8304
@norafleming8304 3 жыл бұрын
Don't feel too bad. I had to go through 4 years of paper once.... I shredded 5 giant paper bags worth of paperwork, receipts and mail. It took me more than 5 straight hours of sorting and shredding. Just do your best to keep on it!
@ahoardersheart
@ahoardersheart 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, you did AMAZING 🌟🌟 What an inspiration to Declutter all that in 1 shot!! ❤️❤️
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