Home Diaries | We adopted a cat!! handmade pots and kokedamas

[@singgarden]

My top kitten tip for a restful sleep is to not react when they try to disturb you at night; play dead, don't move or say anything at all, not even to tell them no. Otherwise they learn that they can wake you up and they are essentially training you. It may take a week or two but the kitty will eventually learn to just let you sleep. When I first got my cat she was full of CRAZY kitten energy and the first few nights I was like "oh no what have I got myself into?" but she learned quickly and now she just sleeps with me at night!

[@aiai-j7i]

I second this! When I got my cat she was yowling at night and I thought, What have I done? Big mistake! But then my brother said, Oh she is just telling you her story. (I adopted her). I did not react and she grew out of it.

[@hamsterbrigade]

I 100% agree with this. This is exactly how I dealt with my cat sticking her paw under my bedroom door when I first got her. Eventually they learn that it doesn't work. Your sleep is too valuable, the amount of diseases linked to long term lack of sleep means it's absolutely not worth it.

[@phunk8607]

yep... say the guy got woken at 5am this morning

[@mariacapo2618]

Amazing, peaceful videos. I just can't live without them.❤ Wonderful family. B Blessed !

[@audioEidolon]

Wanted to check and make sure someone said this!! The thing about cats, is even negative attention is good attention to them. Even if it's to yell you really can't acknowledge them waking you up or they'll keep doing it. Took my kitten almost a full year to get the picture that sleep time is sleep time! Getting them toys they can play with by themselves or an auto feeder can help big time too.

[@BdManus]

You can train Winnie to walk on a leash while she is young. It will allow her to burn off more of her energy. Great video.

[@velyvely6479]

yeah great idea!

[@7Jennifer]

Yes, this! My cat does this, and he loves it. The backpack is cute, but a leash would be a better choice.

[@fbmbassist]

Yes for the leash!

[@skkeptical8876]

I was gonna comment this!!

[@cesberryu.9193]

and also once a month bathing

[@סימוןשלומי]

It’s so adorable how Winnie grooms Theo!

[@lukes.cam07]

THE KITTY IS SO CUTE, i’m literally dying

[@rockscope]

RIP

[@joyce2837]

soooo sweet that the kitty distribution system found you so soon after you were talking about having a cat. you both are so warm and caring, she found her perfect forever home 😭🥰

[@maronipomponi]

Yes please, would love to see a kokedama tutorial 🤍

[@chickenception]

I echo this request ^_^

[@corruptedteka]

yeah me as well

[@minmin_meow]

yes kittens are FULL OF ENERGY! So glad they have each other to play. Winnie will eventually calm down and be a chill gorl, enjoy those kitten years (they are pretty hyper from kitten until 2 ish lol)

[@from.the.basement]

Nahh it goes away, way sooner

[@breakfastclosed]

@@from.the.basementmy cat was naughty for a solid 2 years too 😅😂 but now she's about 10 and just wants to sleep and cuddle all day

[@MissElle66]

Yeah- don’t worry she’ll calm down but it’s hard to say exactly when…

[@brittanyspringer2008]

Love Winnie! I highly recommend implementing a play, eat, sleep routine at night. I mean literally play with her so much she is exhausted RIGHT before bed. Then feed her and everyone goes to bed. It helped with my kitten tremendously ❤

[@jedwards1792]

Great advice

[@amandaelizabeth21]

I would also add groom after eat! It's natural feline behavior after play/hunt to eat and then wind down and bond with grooming before bed.

[@nomisupernova]

Winnie would be a perfect candidate for harness and leash training! It's a fantastic way to get their energy out.

[@fatihraka123]

off topic but this is literally my comfort channel. it’s always so comforting and chill ❤️

[@kunstrenate]

Yes to the kokedama tutorial please 😃

[@christinejohn4578]

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[@pman2916]

Yes yes yes! To tutorial please. I love bonsai trees but they're really expensive. These remind me of them.😊

[@Irgendwas12348rkwkwlw]

Yes! We need a tutorial! ❤

[@7Jennifer]

4:32 Theo - this is my life now 😄💞 I'm so glad you gave Winnie a chance and now she has a home. So wonderful! I love that fish light on the shelf behind you. So unique. The pots by Justin are GORGEOUS.

[@louisanow]

A CATIO for Winnie would be a great project! Since you’re renting, you might try or design a portable version, or a larger one you can easily break down and reassemble somewhere else if you ever have to move. 😻 You might want to incorporate a smaller window as a cat portal for easy safe cat access, with a larger human-sized door for maintenance or emergency.

[@mamarlucidity]

When I was living in California I would see people in my town walking their cats on a leash and it was so endearing. One of my outdoor cats used to walk alongside me and my roommates dog when we would go for walks and the 3 of us would stroll together. It was bliss ❤

[@angela86753]

She's so cute! And Theo has a new playmate. Tabby cats are the best 🧡🌿

[@valkatzenberg]

Yay! Welcome home, Winnie! My cat loves her backpack. You can definitely train Winnie to be an adventure cat. So happy for you all! ❤

[@Karotsy68]

Those steps on the wall for Winnie is such a great idea. I enjoy watching Winnie and Theo playing 🥰🐈‍⬛🐶

[@BLANKU2]

I am a cat person and my number 1 advice is when you look at each room in your house consider the cat launching points like what she has axcess to and which surface has the most landing space. I keep a lot of my plants elivated on stands or a rack cause window sills are places my cat Mia considers her real estate. Also on Temu they carry cat scratching gards for sofa corners.She is a lovely lilac little girl I'm glad she was saved from a life of other predators and such outdoors. Welcome to the channel Winnie. 🐈‍⬛~~~

[@Skydenski]

I love cats. Really happy that she was able to find a loving and safe home. Can't wait to see her more often in more videos!!!

[@twittwit1227]

Winnie will 100% love being a leash kitty. I trained my cat Zoloft when he was little and he loves going on walks now. I also highly recommend getting winnie microchipped especially because she loves outside. I’m so so happy for you guys. Congratulations!!

[@kslaney4161]

Bunch of other people have said this in the comments but I will also add that leash training your cat also has the added benefit of making them a little bit easier to travel with. My cat doesn’t go for walks or anything but it is nice that she is calm in a harness and leash for when we travel I can give her breaks from her carrier.

[@emanuela1279]

your videos always make me feel better. everything looks so cozy and warm... thank you for posting such beautiful moments ❤️

[@garyg6000]

Love how the cat and the dog get along together. They have 2 cute, nice dads.

[@zchangam]

YAS!! @ tutotial for kokedamas. Love your new baby; she and Theo are adorbs!!

[@itsvlaeck]

I'm so happy for both of you! I remember one of your past videos mentioning how much both of you wanted a cat and you were thinking about it because of the allergies, but I can tell how much you are enjoying having her, cats are very independent and playful, with time she would spend most of the time sleeping hehe ❤

[@kelsey9384]

She will have an amazing life with you both. She hit the jackpot. ❤

[@niamhdonovan6793]

I would die for a fern and benji cross-over episode😭my two faves

[@mamalovesthebeach437]

All too soon Winnie will be an adult and you will miss this ‘wild and crazy’ stage. It appears Theo is thriving with his new feline sister. You could try leash training Winnie… sooner the better. It may go smoother given Theo is also on a leash. Put a halter on Winnie while she’s in the house until she is comfortable. Make sure it’s secure before taking her out. You 18:03 a beautiful mouth Benji👄It’s the dander, not fur, that most people react to. You’re doing all the right things using an air purifier and vacuuming often. It’s difficult to not fall in love with a kitten.😂 I would enjoy a Kokidama DIY video! Love the latest one😻 all the best to you and Chris, Theo and Winnie.❤

[@kibiiii]

Her cuddling with theo is the cutest thing ever

[@gufrankelesoglu7392]

Yess kokedama tutorial😻 can u pls also mention wich plants and flowers are perfect for komedamas?

[@BdManus]

You can train Winnie to walk on a leash while she is still young, which will let her work off more of her energy. Great video.

[@dragon2221964]

The relationship between Winnie and Theo is one of the most adorable things I've ever seen. Love ur growing family. So cute! I also watch Wild Fern and just love her as well. Ur cokidamas (I don't know if I spelled that right) are beautiful . Totally agree with u on the fans. I actually purchased mine on Amazon. They're simular to urs, that more vintage looking metallic finish. I think they look rather chic. Love ur channel

[@Laneythekid]

I'd be super interested to have an updated pest control video especially since you now have Theo and Winnie (keeping our pets safe complicates things!). Specifically mite/flatmite control for platycerium would be immensely appreciated since spraying their trichomes isn't ideal. I'd also recommend Jackson Galaxy's youtube channel for any behavioral challenges with Winnie :) Cats can be tough and they are soooo smart and energetic. They need stuff to do and things to hunt/climb if they are kept indoors

[@SamH-c9h]

Your videos are like a Hayao Miyazaki film come to life.

[@hannahj8373]

Congratulations guys! It is so sweet how well Theo and Winnie play together. You can tell how much they love each other already! 💚

[@grisespino5342]

Winnie is so cute. Love how well Theo and her get along. And seeing Chris’s happiness at having a cat. Yes please on kokedama tutorial . Gorgeous pots.

[@Tzippi]

Hugo’s phone to my algorithm about two weeks ago and I have watched so many of your videos. I simply adore you both and all of your pets and I think your plants are amazing and you have a very beautiful home! You were just a fantastic inspiration For so many of us out here! Please continue to make your beautiful Vlogs! ❤

[@lil.dizzee4220]

She seems to have such a great personality 🥹 the clips with her and Theo playing are the cutest 😭 she’s really blessed to have you guys taking her in to such a loving home 🏡

[@dmw2055]

I LOVE THOSE KOKEDAMA BOWLS THAT YOUR FRIEND MADE!! I MUST HAVE ONE! Oh and Theo playing with Winnie is seriously the cutest thing ever. ❤️

[@ainurii2934]

Yaaaa we need kokedama tutorial videoooo

[@civilizeddiva]

10:06: That looks great. The color contrast and shape of the pots work.

[@thinkerbell-f7y]

this is my first time to watch ur video stuff and I found it so serene and pulchritude. new subscriber here 💗

[@vlong7112]

OMG, Fern is amazing 🤩😍 Congratulations on the kitty! I recently adopted a cat. The adoption papers wouldn't be processed without agreeing to not declaw or let them out unsupervised. It was surprising at first, but I get that they want to make sure they have a safe and happy life. You can leash train, get a backpack/carrier, or catio to have her outside safely 🥰 Best to you all!

[@koallagom4843]

Hi Benji, you can place water near cat food, but generally better to keep the water and food bowls a bit apart. Cats can sometimes be picky and may not like to drink water that's too close to their food because it can become contaminated or have food particles in it. Placing the water bowl in a separate location can encourage your cat to drink more and keep the water cleaner. I used to have 2 dogs, each left in 2015 and 2019. I also adopted my cat Hana in 2020. I learnt a lot from animals. They are great companions ❤

[@Peg-us6eh]

Winnie is so sweet and beautiful 💜She will keep Theo young 🙂. Dogs and cats make the best of friends when they are allowed. You and Chris are great pet parents. Your babies are very content and happy!

[@elliestar111]

the first part feels like a 'modern family' set-up, when characters would report back their commentaries to the audience 😭🫶 haha

[@71blze]

You all are so darn cute! Love that Winnie and Theo get along well. They are the sweetest. Cats are nocturnal, they seem to have a spurt of energy late in the night or the wee hours in the morning.

[@marilyn3605]

I love Cats soooo much! Theo is going to have a blast with a cat! I just love those two together and love your videos Benji!!!

[@lucievid1710]

Yes pleaaaase for the kokedama tutorial !!

[@ShelleyRitchie-s9s]

I love the kokedama with the grasses! I lived in Japan for 18 years and love all things Japanese. I got an MA in Asian history a number of years ago, and one of my professors-a Belgian Jesuit(I was at a catholic university in Tokyo although I am not catholic)said that the Japanese have the most highly developed aesthetic on the planet. I am an 88 year old grandmother with two gay grandchildren and enjoy your vlogs so much. I got the Murasaki books and am liking them a lot.

[@JJ-ec9lp]

Scheduled meal time later in the day helped me with my cat wanting to play early in the morning. She gets her first meal at 11 am. But kittens are crazy lol, she will settle down. ALSO get your kitten used to baths! Cats don’t need them often, but sometimes they’ll have an emergency like vomiting on themself, or need them in old age. Baths can reduce allergens too and they make sprays and foams you can brush into their coats to reduce allergens.

[@oko.nomi.yaki.]

omgg i love cats

[@Joe-uy5mv]

Looking forward to the kokedama video!

[@devin590]

I regret binge watching your videos because now I have to wait for new ones

[@kelly73]

Winnie is adorable!! I have 3 feline fur babies and they are literally like my children. You will learn cats are not what society has made them out to be. They are not aloof and they love and need human interaction! Enjoy it. Keeping their claws cut when young will make life when she is older a lot easier. It's not hard. PLEASE do a Kokedama Tutorial! Love those.

[@attfram]

Cats are maniacs, you are in for a treat now for about one to two years 😂🤩

[@Max2U]

Absolutely would love a tutorial. Great video as always.👏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@kelsey9384]

I love the set up with your speaker! 😂clever! My chi is so jealous. They are really possessive.

[@kedi2064]

So cute that Theo and Winnie get on so well and she washes him, ah ❤😊

[@wehojm7320]

Great vlog. Theo and Winnie seem to be getting along famously. Your esthetics are exhibited in the beautiful pottery and plantings. You probably don't see it but you guys are so chill. I enjoy your vlogs very much.

[@mateolamuno6629]

If she starts eating plants, I recommend growing cat grass (it's usually Wheat, Barley, Rye, etc.). Cats are pure carnivores but they instinctively eat grass to add some fiber to their diet, they are mostly attracted to thin leaves and usually leave thicker plants like aroids or ivys alone. The only plants that gave me trouble were Oncidium and Zygopetalum orchids (they have veeeery thin leaves), which are not poisonous but of course the plant gets damaged. Adding the cat grass completely solved the chewing problem and I placed three different pots in strategic places near plants they would eat. I would imagine something like a spider plant or ponytail palm would be a target.

[@critiqueofthegothgf]

all the strategies you guys are using are what I plan to do when getting a cat; I've always been told I've been allergic to cats due to having asthma when I was younger but I have close to 0 experience with them, so I want to take proper precautions just in case and this hearing about what you guys are doing is super helpful also the steps she can use to climb to her food/water is so intuitive. avoids the problem of Theo and her eating each others food.

[@Тарантино-з3щ]

your videos are so comfy!! your new cat is a WINNER to become a part of your family❤

[@salicyn.willow]

THEOOOOO!!!! Winnie is so cute!! I've had a chihuahua and a cat and in my expirience they usually get along really well! So excited to see more Winnie in videos!

[@rosierose1167]

Hey Benji. U & honey look so happy with ur little family... ☀️⛱Have a fun & keep cool week.

[@erikaskaar]

🎊 CONGRATULATIONS ❤ thank you for taking her in and giving her a chance. Y'all are both amazing ❤❤❤

[@itscacti6055]

SOOO HAPPY FOR YOU GUYS! CATS ARE AWESOME! 😭

[@bethhester6286]

We are experienced cat owners. Kittens are always crazy for about the first year. They want to explore everything and are super curious. To keep her from ruining blinds, leave a few up so that she can always look out a few windows when she wants. Also, never tease her with your hands so she doesn't think they are toys. She's so sweet! Will be great company for your pup. Get her spayed as soon as her weight allows and make sure she's chipped. Congratulations on your new addition!

[@sofiafortuno836]

that TSA story had me laughing so hard, thank you for the fun story!

[@cypher3143]

your house is so comfy and homely. i will go back to your videos to make it as my reference when i build mine someday :)

[@Totus-ALKY]

A Kokedama tutorial would be wonderful - yes please!

[@kyikyi_6487]

Seeing winnie and theo has really made me want a cat and dog 😭They're both so cute togetherrrr 😭😭

[@CatbaronAle]

Omg I love how sweet Theo and Winnie are together!

[@viciouskittykat]

I swear, I had a smile on my face for this entire video! You made my day, from Winnie and Theo to the beautiful plants especially in the saucer, Im sorry I don’t want to butcher it, kokiyama? 😁 I hope you and Chris have a wonderful day!

[@viciouskittykat]

Oh jeez, its in the title lol, kokedamas 🫣

[@benyamincruz5451]

YOU WERE TALKING ABOUT YOUR LIPS IN THE VIDEO! BENJI I KNOW YOU swear on Vaseline and lip balms but PLEASE try “aquaphor squeeze tube for lips” specifically that one idk why but the formula is different and fixed all my year dry lip issues

[@aiai-j7i]

"The strawberry is ready to eat" LOL! I am just imagining this little strawberry going Nom Nom Nom!

[@TofuTarantula]

Congrats on new kitty. She's gorgeous. And will make company for Theo when you guys aren't around.

[@amandaelizabeth21]

Cat allergens come from their saliva, not necessarily fur/dander. But because they groom themselves, it transfers to their body. Over time, as you live with a cat, if you are allergic, you can build up a tolerance to your own cat. Different cat breeds/coat types will produce different levels of the enzymes/proteins that cause allergens, which is why some people are more/less allergic to certain breeds or coat lengths.

[@annaluisacruz1296]

every space in your place looks so dreamy pinteresty and nice

[@jocheriat870]

Absolutely loving this video, such an adorable reaction, and lets go by the motto that " life's not perfect, but i like it like that" hehe

[@elizabethwinters5361]

I love this! My cats actually sleep all night, and watch birds feeding on my balcony at the big patio doors until about 9 a.m. when they decide they're hungry. As they get older, they often are awake just before dawn, their natural hunting time. Mine don't eat plants either.

[@Mark.mp3]

"thats why i have eyebags" ..sir my first thought when seeing u was literally "omg benji looks so beautiful this video"

[@hannahkaiser5110]

Omg, Theo and Winnie are adorable together ❤

[@allisonwonderland5149]

This is awesome they seem like good friends. I recommend trying to tire her out. Play is very important when they're young. I would get a lazer pointer and a cat wheel. Spend the extra money on a good wheel. They raised food platform is awesome! Good job!❤

[@armenow]

Love Love the new kitty! Cute, just like you guys.

[@TXBabyMama09]

Would love to see a kokedama tutorial. You have such great style!

[@breakfastclosed]

my boyfriends family just got a kitten for the first time, and they have a dog too. the dog is a lab and has been so gentle to the kitten. I love seeing cats and dogs get along. the way they are puzzled by each others differences is so cute and funny. my cat always wants to get outside too, luckily we have a closed balcony she can hang out at, but at our old house she was a front door escape artist.

[@suemason8177]

Thx for your latest video. Winnie is cute Both she & Theo are adorable Keep posting Both of you are very talented & interesting😎

[@fbmbassist]

You can also get window ACs-the portable kind might work best for your window type. They’re not really portable once you install them, but they’re very flexible.

[@jenniferclyde8911]

The way I clicked on this while trying not to squeal because my cat is asleep next to me 😻 kittens are wild, but you can get them used to things like a backpack! (and nail clipping and vet visits) much easier than once they’re older edit: would definitely enjoy a kokodama tutorial!!

[@aasiamahmood731]

Love love the pots. ♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@TheAlibobwa]

Winnie! Congrats on the new family member! They're sooo sweet together :') Also, sorry I'm being that guy who's listing medical advice to a stranger but wondering if you (Benji) might be dealing with lip eczema? It's common especially for people with eczema or any kind of allergies but isn't talked about very often. An eczema specific lip balm or moisturizer really helps!

[@camilahernandez6010]

yall are my comfort place

[@montgomeryclift2480]

A kokedama tutorial would be a great idea!

[@kroneacres2539]

Love Theo and Winnie together! Off topic, your skin looks fantastic also!

[@paolocruz8392]

They're like you two 🥰

[@louisanow]

Beige isn't my thing, but those are great pots and all similar color on different plants is aesthetically beautiful. The moss ball plantings are so perfect! Beautiful!

[@CatsGlobe]

Absolutely love the new addition to your home! 🐾🌿