Honest Q&A: Mental Health, Radiation and more..

[@RomeeDussenbroek]

Thank you all SO MUCH for all the positive and kind comments!! Mental health issues are SUPER important to talk about. Thank you for sharing your stories, thank you for listening to mine! I appreciate every single one of you. And remember, you are NOT alone ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@krisjames4276]

You are a gorgeous soul Romee ♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@charleneg9016]

Look at your hair that’s awesome 😎 I know exactly where you are coming from with depression. Big hugs 🤗

[@avarismimi]

You are awesome. I’m sorry people make these comments! I know you are for real. Thank you so much! Thank you 🙏🏼

[@avarismimi]

Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💜💜💜💜💜

[@samhartford8677]

Please. Do not evaluate yourself and how you are feeling through how you look. I'm not as sick as you, but I've lost half of the little hair I had to start with. But I was OK with it. And I am now trying to cope with losing half of what was left. Still I cannot let that be my obstacle. Yours is going to grow back WHEN you recover, at least to a sensible extent. Do not focus on what it is today... Pimples, come one! We are adults. A bloody pimple or ten... That is, I understand the internal feeling of being grouse. But can I be brutal? You, like me, have the benefit of not being born really deformed. My disease, like yours, cannot be seen from outside, so we suffer from not being seen for how sick we are. What if we were seen from the outside to be sicker than we were? Now, this is your journey and your disease. And I am not expecting you to feel differently. All I am saying is that maybe you should not focus so much on how you are perceived. I understand how you would want to be. And that's the part I sympathize with. But when you are as sick as you/we are, we cannot really afford to live our lives by how somebody else perceives us. Anyway, wishing you the strength to combat the disease and live your life freer than you would have otherwise.

[@warrentimothy2276]

"I don't fake my depression, but I sometimes fake my happiness". You have just nailed depression for so many people, in such succinct and simple way. Keep being awesome.

[@lizkoz1106]

I was struck by this comment too. Completely encapsulates depression.

[@BeccaBean2020]

@@lizkoz1106 Yes! As the Beatles song goes, you "keep your face In a jar by the door"!

[@pagerus]

This is the truest statement yet about depression. You fake happy while you’re battling extreme sadness inside. No one understands unless they’ve had real depression.

[@jeanneprieto5219]

I have suffered from depression most of my life. Most people have no freaking clue because I show a bubbly face to the world. What people see isn’t necessarily how reality actually is.

[@BeccaBean2020]

@@jeanneprieto5219 Same, fake happiness is a thing. 😑

[@nubiacardenas9698]

Depression is not a "one size fits all" mental illness. Shame on whomever criticizes your feelings.

[@Melon_Cloud]

Exactly! Not a one size fits all. Not saying Romee has this, because I don’t know. But people also have to learn that seasonal depression is a thing too. That is not just a being depressed in the winter for example. Since many people can be down in the winter. It can be any time during the year, anytime during your life.. it doesn’t have to last a very loooong time either..

[@avarismimi]

Yes she’s amazing!

[@michellealder69]

Totally agree, hope ur ok Rommee x

[@iSheree]

People just don't understand or want to understand until it happens to them.

[@agathaleon9826]

This is absurd! How can people be so insensitive. That is sheer lack of empathy. Putting oneself in other's shoes to understand his/her feelings. I admire your strength and ability to face such difficult obstacles. I pray for your full recovery.

[@LilyBelleJoy]

It's an invisable illness depression at times... and you are right, many fake being happy. Having chronic invisable illnesses myself (not depression) people assume because I am laughing, smiling etc that I am better or improving. Yes also faking. It's the opposite for many. People please think before you assume and judge another. We NEVER know what is going on in another person.

[@miephilodendron]

People who make comments about not being able to laugh and smile while being depressed at the same time have no idea what it means to be depressed and what depression can look like.Thanks for opening up about how you are affected. You are not alone! Even though depression makes us feel like we are, we are one of many!!

[@NotinMyBudget]

I agree 100% with you!

[@Shawna805]

🙌

[@pmay6772]

I agree. I was also thinking how I personally would not give them much time. Does that make sense or am I being too harsh?

[@sanna_peace7884]

Exactly 💯🙏

[@tressaroth8475]

100% right 👍

[@jessicawilkerson2417]

Girl..after watching this video I could not help but to be incredibly frustrated and pissed off at the same time! How dare random people with nothing better to do then to try and hurt other's with the hateful things they say, question the validity of YOUR OWN FEELINGS?! I take this matter very personal because I suffer from depression and severe anxiety. I get so tired of explaining myself to those who could careless about how I'm really feeling, WE shouldn't have too! There are more people who follow your journey that genuinely care about your overall well being, than those who don't🙂.You have my love and support, and I will never judge or make assumptions just because I don't understand something ❤️🌻🙏

[@kalliopichristodoulou5182]

Honestly don’t listen to these people ! Your emotions and feelings are valid and obviously they don’t know how mental health actually “works” ! We’ve got your back 💙💙

[@theresaohman7187]

Right on! Silent the voice of the ignorant for they know not what they do. Let's hope they or a family member of theirs don't get depressed, they would have no support, sadly

[@kaiferox8008]

You nailed it when you said you fake being happy, not the depression. Literally every day I feel like I'm wearing a mask. It's easier to pretend to be happy bc then people leave you alone and don't poke and prod to find out "whats wrong with you?"

[@annemariebuckley4551]

I’m so glad you addressed this. Many years ago I nearly took my own life. In the morning I had been laughing and joking with friends, in the afternoon I could have been dead. Fortunately a family member came home and what could have happened, didn’t happen. To this day, no one knows. You CAN have depression and LAUGH. You CAN have depression and SMILE. And you can have depression and seem perfectly fine to everyone but for the black, black hole inside your head and heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you Romee.

[@RomeeDussenbroek]

❤️❤️❤️❤️ Thank u for sharing

[@nicoeeek.7181]

I have had the same happen in my life. Crazy how depression takes over, I totally understand now how people that commit suicide seem happy almost before they take there lives. We never know what others are going through so always treat others with love!!

[@jillr759]

💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@appalachianfamilyrecipes4647]

I’ve watched my husband suffer with severe depression for almost 3 years and it’s so hard. I cannot believe that some people can be so insensitive to others mental health. Thank you for sharing, I hope you feel better.

[@lisamccullough5150]

Great message about mental health Romee. I’m glad you’re feeling better. People are very ignorant.

[@peakster753]

As someone who knows the struggle with depression I can attest: when something like Romee’s trip to Italy comes along it can lighten things up for a little while but once the trip is done (or whatever occasion it happens to be (wedding, outing with friends, weekend with cousins, ordination, baptism, etc.) is in the books) then reality will come back and whatever positive boost you get out of it emotionally will be gone (and yes there are times you put on a facade for those around you)…I have been down that road many times in my years of struggling with it…

[@mbsbrown7838]

Your strength and courage had carried me over this last month. They found a melanoma on my ankle (I thought it was a wart), found out it was stage 4. I passed my CT scan and blood test. They removed it yesterday and did a biopsy of my limp node. Depression comes in stages for all, some deal with it better than others. Depression is REAL and I am glad you sought help. Prayers and hugs.

[@junesbrush998]

God bless you I hope all goes well

[@RomeeDussenbroek]

Hope all goes well ❤️ thank you for sharing

[@shirleyvalentine2794]

Wishing you well and sending positive vibes xx

[@Lea_1709]

Sending you love and positivity, hopefully everything goes well❤️🙏🏻

[@joleneplourde9885]

I hope everything goes well for you!🙏🏻

[@karenisler8854]

You should not even have to entertain people who can’t understand what mental health entails. You’re doing wonderfully and do not let anyone drag you down. I’m rooting for you :))

[@michelepreece6017]

Mental health can be a roller coaster ride, some good days, some not so good. I think of you and pray for you, everyday.

[@KimStoneLCSW]

As a psychotherapist that treats people with depression every single day, I applaud you for talking so openly about it. You’re so right-it’s not talked about enough. And no, just because you’re smiling and “look” happy, doesn’t mean you’re not depressed. You don’t have to be crying and curled up in bed to be depressed. Even the clinical criteria says that symptoms occur on most days, not ALL days. Take good care of yourself, Romee. You’re such a bright light!! ❤️❤️

[@cindys3435]

My daughter who is 25 has clinical depression and for years. I didn’t even know she was suffering with depression. She was in university and when she came home on weekends etc. she was her smiling happy self. Later when she told me I asked her why she didn’t share her struggles with me she said she didn’t want to worry me. It breaks my heart that she went through that alone. It also breaks my heart that people say such mean things to you! Yes mental health can totally be invisible. I feel for you and all you’ve been through Romee. God bless! 💖

[@matthewhunter6334]

Ignore hard hearted people. One day they will know how it feels. Love 💕 you sweet Romee xxx 😘

[@ccmissymc]

I’m so sorry that some people in this world have no compassion. All that you have been going through and some people feel the need to be rude I can hardly stand it. Let them walk in your shoes a few minutes chemo , stem cell transplant and a few rounds of radiation and let’s see how smiley they are..In my opinion your very brave and wonderful human l wish you nothing but health and happiness !❤️

[@shelaghmackinnon822]

You are right! It’s such a sad sign but the truth is Haters gonna hate,

[@lysandralux3222]

All that on top of the pressure of finishing her degree! Anyone who has been through university will understand the stress that comes with that alone. I can't imagine how stressful it must have been to accomplish all that on top of battling cancer. This girl is such a great model of strength and perseverance!

[@jewelleryaddict]

Couldnt have said better myself. Such a brave person.

[@aprilalexander9435]

Depression isn’t “being sad” all the time. 🙄 When I was diagnosed 5 years ago and going through not only treatments and scans, losing my hair and losing people from my life. I was also dealing with the fact I had a deadly incurable disease. I cry when I need to, laugh and enjoy the moment when I want and need. Romee, you are amazing! Lol my hair came back like that the first time I lost it( curly and thick)

[@journeywithjan4388]

Unless people have gone through, are going through, or continuing their journey with cancer they don't realize what it does to a person mentally. It goes the same for anyone who has depression for other reasons. None of this is a "get over it" situation. I'm glad to see Everytime you are doing well and smiling. My diagnosis was 2 years ago and I find myself crying for no reason still today. Hang in there. 🥰🥰🥰

[@theresaohman7187]

Bless you for your reply

[@eileenlester4342]

Amen.

[@YeahShaw]

Hugs to you Journey with Jan xx

[@ProfessorHumblesDelusions]

Romee, you have cancer induced depression, which is caused by the stress and trauma of fighting the disease. Fighting cancer is a rollercoaster of emotion, you are often not in control of the highs and lows.

[@naturecalls174]

Please ignore their ignorance. We love you and just want to hear from you! 😘

[@elisewilson9486]

You are going through the hardest journey that a human being would go through. You DO NOT need to justify anything you do, react or deal with this ordeal. You do you and ignore those ignorant people.

[@JELLIETOTTIE]

Relating to question 1.....how disgusting depression doesn't have a smile,.a tear, a laugh......it's a feeling that nobody sees......silly ppl, You go Romee and those that have true understand get it!!!!!! No explanation needed xxxx how sad 😞

[@BeccaBean2020]

Absolutely! 🥰

[@shondapiatt5564]

You owe no one an explanation. So glad to see that you are feeling better. Continue to take care of yourself! Chronic pain elicits the same kinds of comments, because it is invisible, much like mental illness. I hear that “I look ok” all the time. You’re so brave to share both the ups and the downs of your journey with all of us.

[@gmmpiper]

Please know that some of us understand depression. We understand the stages, the highs and lows and everything in between. You are not alone. Please ignore the internet trolls as much as you can. I think some people have to make other people feel people feel bad,in order to feel better about themselves. You are in my thoughts and prayers! Sending you nothing but good vibes!💜💜

[@CS-bj4gg]

The nerve of that person!!!!! Ugh some humans just are plain dumb. Ignore them, forget it and move on girl! You are so right! Suffering form depression has so many facets, some days I am super happy and it only lasts for a while, a couple days to a week then it makes a big turn around. But I am thankful to control my thinking and grounding, controlling my emotions. Take care and be safe! We love you… ✨👍🏽🙏🏽😉🧡🕯🎃✨

[@chrislaurenson]

I'm so sorry you have had to defend yourself and your parents. Just know that there are plenty of us who really appreciate your courage and honesty. You are brave and beautiful. Sending cyber hugs. xxx

[@jaxjake95]

Yesssss!!!!!!

[@dragonkitty101]

Unless someone is walking in your shoes, they will have no idea what you are going through mentally and physically. You keep showing the “real” world you are living in as that will help those who may be ill themselves or going through mentally hard times. I think you are doing a great job!

[@jessica-violetwright277]

That statement incensed me. You have been through so much how dare someone have the nerve to criticise you. People have a varied range of emotions. Mental health is misunderstood and a constant battle if you struggle with it. Sending loads of support.

[@kimbo500]

It makes me so frustrated when people don't 'get it'. In a weird way I choose to say I am personally thankful for the thoughtless comment though. If Romee hadn't received it, she wouldn't have commented on it in the way she did. I needed to hear her comments at this time...and for that I am grateful. 💜

[@coeniedevilliers8792]

Shame on that person with the depression statement. You're answer was 100%Thanks for sharing your life and honest thoughts. So happy that you are going "up, up, up". Your puppy is just so so cute!

[@sweethartd]

Stunningly beautiful was my first thought when you took your wig off! You look great with the wigs, too, but you are rockin' it with the short hair! And that was with the au natural look. You can look both glamorous and fun with your short hair! Enjoy it as it grows into different styles. Your beauty (inner and outer) shines through it all!

[@RomeeDussenbroek]

🥺❤️

[@TheKmb0707]

Yes I second this!

[@Mimi_moon]

Hey, please never take in consideration any toxic comment of anyone. You're doing great and you're perfection. I believe you're very real and probably one of the most honest people. I love the way that you express yourself, even as a non English speaker you still speak above average English speakers 😂 anyways, I send you good energy and a very warm hug as its getting really cold out there. ❤️

[@0xXMooWithMeXx0]

I have persistent "high functioning" major depression. I get up and go to work and do what I gotta do, and I've had actual drs tell me that if I can do that, I must not be that depressed. I totally get it. It's frustrating. Hang in there!!!

[@RomeeDussenbroek]

Thank you for sharing that! ❤️

[@allisonsmith5242]

I also was a high functioning depressive until one day after the death of my mum, major hassles with work and the murder of someone i knew i crashed and had a major breakdown. I didnt even know i had it until i was diagnosed as bipolar and my doctors and psychiatric nurses came to this conclusion after 5 years of intense therapy. They reckoned id been bipolar since childhood. Id always been described as either going at stuff 100 miles an hour and wild but also as a kid who could be so sullen and miserable in her own skin. Same as i grew older but it took to the age of 42 to address it and the eating disorder id had since i was 19. Thanks to therapy and various groups and medication (i still have a wobble now and then but i can identify when its beginning and use all the coping strategies iv learnt) im happy and living a good life. The strange thing is that because of my bipolar and the help i was given, i think im a much better person for it and im not ashamed or make any apologies for my bipolar diagnosis. If other people comment negatively about it i just ignore them as they are the ones problems worse than me.

[@lindamastropietro3469]

I have depression and sometimes something will make me laugh. I don’t walk around crying all the time. I understand how you’re feeling away. I don’t think you’re faking it at all. I do the same thing. When I’m with friends I’ll laugh I’ll even make them laugh till they cry but it doesn’t mean I don’t feel down.

[@kathieshaffer9641]

Your puppy’s face is just so sweet and expressive ♥️♥️♥️♥️. She is really loving laying on your lap ♥️♥️. “Animals” are the best “pals” and they are very perceptive to our need for them. They just love us and never judge us. She looked up at you when you took the wig off, like, “WHAT THE HECK” 😘😉😂😂. I admire your courage.

[@inesbarros3847]

I can’t believe there are monsters capable of commenting anything negative on your videos. You are literally a fucking HEROINE, able to smile and be happy sometimes through it all. I admire you so much, Romee. You have an army of fans! ❤️

[@Silvia-ro4qz]

I, myself, struggle with mental illness (depression and anxiety). I agree, there is still a lot of stigma when it comes to mental illness. Unlike a condition that is visible, those with mental illnessess are faced with stigma and skepticism. People need to understand that the majority of the time, depressed individuals act totally normal around other people. It's only when they're by themselves that they truly feel the sadness. They just put a fake smile around others but when alone is when the dark deep thinking starts. Someone living with depression can be sad or depressed on the inside, while being happy or content on the outside. I commend you Romee for raising awareness of mental health issues and helping to eliminate the stigma. Also, letting others know that they are not alone and it’s okay to receive help.

[@selinam6822]

I think the tattoos are cool, it will serve as a reminder what a crazy life experience you’ve had🥺 You are insanely daring and unintentionally strong💕

[@CnizBL33vn]

People can be so mean-spirited just to get a reaction. That's one of the reasons that I'm not so "vocal" on social media. I really appreciate you sharing your journey with us. I'm sure that are more caring and compassionate people than the aforementioned individuals. I hope that there are many, many bright days in your future. 💕💕💕

[@AniWatX]

I would say everyone without exclusion, anyone who has depression fakes being happy a lot of the time. Especially if you don’t want to bring others down. It is a complex set of symptoms and no one person is the same. I respect you so much Romee for opening up and telling the truth about your illness, treatments and depression. Your puppy is so gorgeous too. My little dog has helped me so much over the years. Hoping you continue to keep going up. Much love to you. X

[@tarahurd2723]

Sending lots of love take all the time you need and never feel forced to post content if u don’t want to we will always be here to wait and watch

[@lihan1544]

Romee, girl, don’t you ever feel the need to apologise or to explain yourself. The medical world is crazy and hectic (and I’m stuck in chronic illness land, not chemo land) so I completely understand how hurtful it is to have people accuse you of staying your depression. We even had some of the doctors at the hospital I go to accuse me of lying because my social media posts weren’t all doom and gloom - like, how dare I choose to look happy for a moment on social media? They commented on a “fun run” that we did and if they’d read the post they’d have seen that it ended in seizures and pain so there’s no pleasing people. Just be your uniquely special, beautiful and amazing self. Keep on shining, Romee. You look beautiful! Also, your hair has grown in so well! My hair also fell out last year and I swear to you that I looked like an egg 😂 sending lots of love from Melbourne, Australia. Li, 29 y.o xxx

[@Krise343]

Your hair looks wonderful- you can totally pull that off! Sending you so much love, strength and peace.✨🙏🏻💕

[@sharroncohan312]

You are resilient and strong. Can not believe people would actually say you are faking depression. You have been through so much and should be very proud of yourself. You completed your degree while receiving treatment. You are an inspiring woman. Don't change a thing ❤️

[@margauxperochon452]

Romee! I actually love your new hair, it looks so so cool and suits your face 😍 you are really beautiful ♥️

[@peterkozak9212]

Romee, I am a mom of three adult disabled children, the oldest just passed away in August, so I can understand ups and downs! I have good days and bad days where I miss my son desperately, so anyone who thinks you can’t have moments where you smile in the midst of feeling horrible they have never been through something really hard like you have! My thoughts and prayers are with you and I wish only the very best in life for you! ♥️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️

[@calliope5714]

I am actually medically boarded from my work due to depression caused by burnout. I have been considered disabled due to this for the past 6 years and am assessed by independent psychiatrists yearly to see if I am disabled. So to those of you that called Romee fake, I am disabled due to OVERWORK. Imagine how one feels when you have the diagnosis and uncertainty surrounding CANCER. I was known to be one of the bubbliest and happiest people in the office of 200. As confirmed by my psychiatrist that is often a coping mechanism AND just because you are depressed does not mean you are permanently curled up in the foetal position sobbing all day. Each day is different. You can smile and still enjoy yourself even through you suffer from an underlying condition like depression that lingers.

[@RomeeDussenbroek]

Thank you so so so much for sharing this!! ❤️

[@jessicalucy3459]

However you are feeling is the RIGHT feeling to feel! Don’t sensor yourself for others or let others tell you what you’re feeling isn’t right or warranted for the situation!

[@meursaultscourtroom8886]

Ignore the trolls, you do not owe those people any explanation. I think you've been brave & and a very straight about your physical & mental health. Best wishes.

[@kimpeasester]

YOUR ENGLISH WAS PERFECT! I SUFFER WITH AN INCURABLE NERVE DISEASE. PAIN IS 24/7.I can put on the biggest smile but deep down I'm sooo sad. I dont want to bring people down so I hide my depression.

[@Honeyalmond]

I have struggled with my mental health a lot in my life. And the last time I was in the hospital I talked with my doctor how hard it is to explain to other people what I'm going through. And she said that it's like explaining what salt tastes like. It's impossible. Thank you for showing that part of your life and making me feel like I'm not alone. ❤️

[@RomeeDussenbroek]

I just tried explaining salt….. it honestly is impossible 😅

[@sheilabridge5434]

Hi Romee don’t ever take notice of negative comments they need to go through this before judging you ‘I went through depression forty years ago and thought it would never come back after two breakdowns I was ok’ ‘but life isn’t like that it has come back and I really feel for you ‘take care and I’m keeping you in my prayers nightly ‘love your puppy

[@theresadale9775]

Romee I'm a silent watcher but you've absolutely stolen my heart. I love how genuine you are. Don't change, and please don't let the comments of others get you down. I'm chronically depressed, so I know, girl. I KNOW. People are so scared of what they don't understand. And I know, too, that there are far more people like me out here cheering you on and loving you right back. :)

[@kathyferrara4444]

Depression does not mean that you are down 100% of the time so they can go tinkle up a rope to put it nicely. I have anxiety and depression and I understand. Jesus to go through all the mess you go through you are doing well. So no you are not faking it. Not at all. You are amazing and I wish I knew you because your attitude is infectious! Keep up the good work and the faith! Xoxoxox

[@cathytauscher6760]

Mental health is fluid… your channel and you do not deserve even one single negative comment. You’ve been on a long challenging journey I would expect anyone to experience some mental health challenges. Keep doing YOU💪🏻🥰

[@brendabenson7332]

I am a Non Hodgkin lymphoma cancer survivor and mental health is a huge part of the journey. Sometimes it just gets to be too much and you have to be real. Then, you sometimes want to be normal and live like your healthy. It’s a process. My prayers are with you. I’m glad you are living life to the fullest. Also, how amazing that you finished your degree! So proud of you from Texas!

[@cmurphy7221]

I love you because you are real. Life has many ups and downs. You are acknowledging that you are human too. Thank you for letting us into your world. You are awesome!!!!!!!

[@pam164]

I suffer with Depression and it sucks! And people that don't suffer with it are so lucky! You have your good days and bad. Hope you feel brighter soon.

[@silviemarksilverstein3031]

We love you too Romee. When my son was going through chemo and his stem cell transplant, his cat was his therapy and he still is. Pets are so wonderful in so many ways. Pets ask for so little, but give so much. Wishing you the very best Romee. I am rooting for you!

[@spunk33grl]

I can't imagine that anyone would accuse you of faking your depression. Depression is not a constant and I really appreciate that you shared your struggles. Also, don't apologize for having messy hair! Messy hair, perfect hair, no hair.... doesn't matter :)

[@hawkinsfamilyadventures5341]

I completely understand and I have depression and anxiety im going to tell yall it's not fake it is so very real bad days i can smile but I can fake it in front of people. Romney your beautiful and amazing.

[@dancebasedancer]

Romee it's SO great to hear from you again. Can I just say, as someone who follows your channel closely (probably more so than any other channel), and as someone with an incurable cancer of the bone marrow (myeloma), a failed bone marrow transplant and now on Chemo everyday, for ever, until I die, that Romee is not 'staging' anything. Romee gives the most honest and the most articulate account of what it feels like to go through what we're both going through, of anyone I know. And, as you keep saying Romee, she does this not even in her first language!! You are an AMAZING woman Romee, and I admire you profoundly. Your communication skills are incredible, as is your courage, your tenacity and your honesty.

[@whatever007ism]

You’re so right on the lack of discussion on mental health issues. In fact, most comedians suffer with depression. Robin Williams and so many others mask depression with smiles and over compensating. I’m so glad you’re with your parents. We all need someone to help us in bad and good times. You do a great job at keeping yourself in check. 💐🌻🧘‍♀️

[@laurena5502]

I love u so much. I'm having a breast cancer scare and u give alot of awareness for young women. U looked gorgeous the whole video .haters need to leave. U have cancer u are also a young woman . Alot of young women can deal with depression. Your allowed to film yourself being happy because not everyone's depression is 24/7. If she wants to take a day to enjoy herself . Then let her. She's going through cancer fighting for it and advocating and posting. If she wants to go spend a day of relaxation in Italy let her . Good lord let her work through her own emotions as she wishes. She's allowed to have a happy day and she shouldn't spend her days sad to prove something to others.

[@Laasbaas]

Dogs are the best medicine, agreed! :)

[@kellymcfadden7514]

I can’t believe people would think you were faking or staging depression. How you answered that was great! And yes, we do need more awareness and talk about mental health. I didn’t know you got a dog! What is her name? So cute! Glad your hair is growing back. You look great!

[@jandoherty9766]

Romee you are mature way beyond your years. I love your wonderful advice to people and you are so honest about your feelings. I totally appreciate and learn from all you say and do. I also love your doggie. My dogs are such a comfort to me and I can see where your little doggie is such a comfort to you.

[@soggymoggytravels]

My god, how do others have the nerve to doubt your depression or to send you such insensitive comments. You are awesome! Thank you for giving hope to others who are also going through cancer, and we continue to wish you all the best for full recovery.

[@maddieadams75]

It never comes across as staging. As a nurse, patients go through highs and lows constantly…….medications medical treatments can play heavily on ones mental outlook. Never dismiss others pain, sadness, loneliness, happiness. Romee keep being you. Kindness is never wasted ♥️

[@meggieb1574]

Romee, please do not feel that you need to apologize for how you look. You are BEAUTIFUL and even at your worse are more stunning then many. I appreciate the full spectrum and keeping it real. Be true to yourself and know that peoples doubt and negative comments are only reflections of their own pain or suffering, not yours.

[@4BarbaraJ]

You sweet girl, so happy to hear your voice. Dealing with all that you are going through is hard enough without uncaring people making mean and negative remarks. Shame on them! There are so many of us that watch your videos that truly care about you. I’m so sorry you are dealing with depression. I wish you strength and love. Sending hugs ❤️ and looking forward to your next video. Your dog is adorable..

[@kimbo500]

Romee....you did an excellent job in stating your sentiments about depression in English. I agree with you 100%! I have been 'permanently disabled' for 6yrs now (brain/neurological). If you saw me on the street, you would have NO CLUE! I recently moved (needed help caring for my 91 y.o. mom), and I have a new medical team. After a couple of years of admitting to my family how overwhelmed, exhausted, frustrated, sinking, I have been feeling (I truly don't think they have a clue how bad my mental health currently is). For the first time ever, I admitted to my new doctor how I'm feeling RE my mental health. I felt she was quite dismissive. I think my family and doctor could benefit from hearing your words...so THANK YOU! for sharing them with the public. My doctor told me to '...push on through.'. I HAVE BEEN pushing on through for years. The 'faking' is putting on the smile when I feel like crap, I don't want to bring everyone else down around me, I don't want everyone to feel that I am complaining, making 'a mountain out of a mole hill' (sorry if you don't know that phrase!), etc. I have worked as a hospital nurse for years while I was chronically ill, and it was so hard - but I did it. 6 yrs ago I couldn't do it anymore - and was declared 'permanently disabled' and had to stop working due to my brain, neurological, and now cardiac issues. I had an easier time (BY FAR!) admitting I had to give up the best career ever, than admitting depression or problems with my mental health. I just admitted my 'depression' to a few people (including my doctor) in the last few weeks. I see how wrong it is that people view mental health the way they do (including me!). I always was compassionate and accepting with my patients who were depressed, why do I struggle so to allow the same to be true for me (?)....I need to mend my ways. Thank you Romee, you are my inspiration. 💜 💐

[@italy1769]

Some ppl just dont get it. You just keep learning how to look after you. It takes time to learn what heals us physically and mentally . I pray you feel the love , prayers and hugs from all of us, and if you ever need to vent, or chat just let me know , HUGS 💙

[@jenniferc6890]

Oh Romee... I have so much empathy for you with all you are going thru. Depression is heavy, dark and lonely. I myself am dealing with anxiety right now. It can be crippling and all consuming. Hopefully soon you and I will both be back to our old selves. ❤

[@shawntanac3172]

It’s making me upset that someone had the nerve to say that to you , you are helping other people with the same issues , even people that don’t have the exact issues . It’s sad you have to explain yourself, and I’m so sorry that some people say these things to you !! :( I’m just a person out here in this world that wants you to be better . I watch to see updates because I want you to get better ❤️‍🩹 much love to you !

[@annesarens5388]

I totally agree

[@annesarens5388]

I think your new hair looks good on you

[@natr5774]

It’s horrible that people has the audacity to say you are faking. I think it was so brave for you to share the reality of depression and I admire you for that. Keep going gorg💓💓💓💓💓💓 (Also your doggo is so cute🥺)

[@saragales1622]

Keep your chin up sweetheart, you’re amazing and so so strong. You have the best alternative therapy sleeping on your lap, my mum got the cutest poodle pup just before I had my radiotherapy for breast cancer back in 2014, which was crazy yes but also brilliant for me. Why? Because Ebony slept on my lap every evening whilst I stayed at my mums and had my radiotherapy, she was the best pet therapy I could have asked for.

[@susanrichards9144]

I’m so sorry that anyone would doubt the truthfulness of your depression. If you watch your vlogs it is easy to see you are an honest, straight forward person. Robin Williams suffered from terrible depression but he spent years making the rest of us laugh and hid his depression from the public. I myself have struggled with depression from time to time but unless you are a very close friend you wouldn’t know it because I smile and carry on as though everything is okay. You were very patient and understanding when responding to that question but I found myself feeling angry that someone could be so insensitive to ask if you were “faking” it. There is nothing fake about you. You are wonderful - even when depressed!

[@beckywalls1861]

Love your short hair, you look so cute! And what a sweet puppy to cuddle. Glad you feel better! I had a friend that was going thru chemo and everyone at work thought she was doing great but she told me the chemo made her want to kill herself. You never know what someone is really going thru! I’m glad you show your real emotions.

[@gleadhill79]

Having cancer and the ups and downs that we go through with cancer is similar to having bipolar in terms of the mental aspects! It's one extreme to another on a daily basis, or even being really happy in the morning and then completely at the end of their tether in the afternoon. Romee you're doing so well, it's disgusting that ignorant people can't understand, and haven't tried to understand, what you're going through!! 100% with you all the way 💖

[@dorisirving2270]

I’m glad that you are okay. Puppy cuddles are always the best. ❤️🐶

[@stelladavies1647]

The ones that comment about you not having depression have NO idea. You have always been straight about how you feel. You are right. The depression is not faked. The happiness is what is an illusion when you are feeling crap.All my love x

[@Macmannn]

One thing I never expected through my cancer experience was how I would feel after treatment. It hit me like a freight train and I felt the lowest I've ever felt in my entire life. I was told I had situational depression/anxiety and put on medication for a year. I can empathize with you wholeheartedly and no one has the right to criticize your feelings! ❤

[@jacquelineshields4485]

Hi Romee, you do not need to address all the negative comments regarding your depression. I completely understand your need to put a positive spin on what's happening to you. I have PTSD and depression and mostly put on a happy face. I wish I could articulate why it's easier to "fake it" than to be honest. You are going through so much and are such a inspiration to so many. Please know you have many people who want you to be well. Also, its ok to show your vulnerable side because so many people understand and will be here for you. Blessings to you.

[@DiannaCarney]

Teared up at the little talk at the end, thank you I needed to hear that. You are so beautiful, inside and out, I’m sorry the world has been getting to you lately. ❤️

[@MissAna5]

I don’t understand why people think they can judge someone. You never know what person is going through. It’s sad that human being can be such cruel. Warm hugs to you, Romee, from the US!🤗🤗🤗💖😊

[@stefuhfuhmarie]

Thank you for discussing your mental health in a very honest and real way. I know it’s uncomfortable but for someone like me, it helps me so much. I actually just got into a disagreement with someone close to me who thinks that my “overly happy” attitude when I take my medication for CHRONIC DEPRESSION and anxiety are a concern or a danger. It hurt me deeply and then I saw your new upload. You are helping people. You are helping me. Thank you Romee. 💜🥺

[@anieke.5142]

Ik vind het echt onvoorstelbaar dat mensen zulke nare, tactloze comments kunnen achterlaten. Diegenen snappen duidelijk niets van depressie of psychische klachten in het algemeen. Niemand zou zich ooit moeten verantwoorden waarom hij/zij zich slecht of depressief voelt. Heel veel respect dat je dit bespreekbaar maakt! Ik vind het super knap dat je je zo kwetsbaar durft op te stellen. Hoop dat je je snel beter voelt Romee.

[@Nikotastik]

Thank you so much for talking about mental health. You are so right! People are ignorant about depression. That commenter clearly doesn’t understand depression. People also don’t understand that you can’t see a person’s whole life in a 20 minute video. You are my hero Romee. You are completely valid, and I know you are fighting hard. Thank you for sharing this side of your life.

[@curtyowellmedicaladventures]

Depression is not a "one size fits all" mental illness. Shame on whomever criticizes your feelings. I have been down that road many times. We are all here for you. All 82.4K of us!!!!

[@Otis-ni4qv]

I'm so glad you started with addressing the true lack of understanding of mental health. It ,unfortunately is the lack of understanding and empathy the keeps the fire of judgment and social stigma alive. And in turn, many many people are ashamed to seek any help. There are toooo many suicides because of the misconception that it a choice. I can not think my way out of my depression, I tried until I didn't want to be alive anymore. Do not judge without understanding and experience. So happy you have your smile turning up!!!! I aspire to your courage everyday lovely lady!!❤

[@tanytantan]

I love your videos. I got diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer this year. That's how I came across your videos. I understand the depression. People who have never had cancer do not the understand at all the extreme treatments we go through. It is mentally, physically, and emotionally taxing. Sending you love, hugs and positive vibes 💙

[@romalester1079]

I’m so proud of you being “real”. That is so much better than giving the impression you are always happy. Good for you. One of the reasons I watch you is that you are real. I deal with depression also and it’s so important to share it.💕💕

[@tatianacronk1436]

It really shocks me some of the questions you receive. I don't know if some people just think that because you are willing to be open with some aspects of your life that you are okay with sharing everything, or what, but people need to back off with the personal questions that have nothing to do with your content. You are incredibly brave Romee!! You have been through hell and back over the last few years. To be open and honest about those struggles on a public platform takes a lot of courage. Thank you for addressing and doing your bit to normalize talking about mental health. And to all the haters who think depressed people constantly look and act depressed...why in the hell do you think the biggest lament when something tragic happens is, "We had no idea anything was wrong. They seemed fine."? Depression, anxiety, etc. turn you into a very convincing actor. You put on a mask because that is what is expected of you.

[@kalliopichristodoulou5182]

You’re Awesome Romee 💙 😃 Keep smiling as much as possible and I know it’s hard but with time it’ll get better 💙

[@vdeniceeckert3494]

People are hurtful.....its terrible....especially when they have no idea......you are awesome and strong.....I'm 62. And been around the block.....you have handled this shitty cancer disease like a trooper.....so strong.

[@junesbrush998]

You explained that beautifully, I suffer as well and most people have no idea.

[@ericksonwall7369]

Hello. how are you doing today. 👋👋👋

[@kellicarlin-auger6502]

Romee - DO NOT LET MEAN PEOPLE GET IN YOUR HEAD!! PLEASE!!! I appreciate your honesty! I cannot even imagine what goes thru your head dealing with all that you have to deal with....life can be hard on a normal level! I too deal with anxiety/depression and was recently diagnosed with a brain disease that has no cure It's called "Ataxia". I love your videos. I love your honestly and I thank you for BEING YOU! Kelli