Honoring My Mother, Jenni Rivera | Chiquis and Chill Ep 5

[@ana33655]

Jenni had a lot of unresolved trauma that she unfortunately projected onto chiquis. Jenni of course was a talented, charismatic, hard working woman. But let’s not ignore how she treated chiquis. She was a horrible parent to her. Chiquis is the true warrior

[@jasssss3555]

Agreed. She was hard working and had ambition, but she wasn’t a good mother.

[@cassandratorres1140]

Underrated comment! 👍

[@crystalgail5925]

Horrible is not the right expression.. That a Hispanic mother ..they are very straight forward tough love that we expect and accept from our mothers because it makes us 1st born the strongest than ever. Chiquita is who she is because of how her mother raised her.. Jenni prepared her to stand up and keep moving when things want to knock you down rather you realize it or not

[@ana33655]

@@crystalgail5925 unfortunately this is a common misconception in our community. it is not normal for a parent to kick a child out of their home because they decided to hang out with friends after school, it is not normal for a mother to side with her husband/friends over her own flesh and blood, it is not normal for the oldest child to play parent to their younger siblings at such a young age. the day our community can accept that we have unresolved trauma, is the day we can raise better children. there are healthy/normal ways to raise children to be independent and strong that aren't through trauma!

[@theyoga.nutritionist]

@@ana33655 couldn’t agree more 🙏🏽🌱 23:06

[@shawnna2215]

My heart broke for you when u said u heard your Mama's voice say "these kids need you". Because you are one of those kids.. You have always acted as an adult but your inner child needed your Mom just as much and to step up and be strong for ur siblings is admirable. I pray that one day you will have that Pillow to fall on also in a person Mija. You also need to be taken care of. I've watched your Mama and all your shows and just think the most of your Family and I always felt a lil sad for you because I was also that strong person so everyone just thinks oh she's fine because u show strength over vulnerability. But you also need to be checked in on..

[@elenagonzalez6339]

😢 this is why I fully respect chiquis she is so strong ! God bless her and her family. I can relate to her so much .

[@rivasrivas2046]

I was not ready for this episode. 😩 The fact that you were able to clearly articulate these strong emotions and paint us a clear picture of what you experienced really touched my heart. Thank you for feeling confident and safe enough to be vulnerable with us. I am a huge Jenni fan and now I'm your fan too. Keep taking care of you. ❤

[@gladiromantica]

You deserve to be heard. Your experience matters. Your trauma matters. I pray you have found the peace you deserve and that you're proud of yourself. Not for your mother, but for yourself.

[@CheCheCheree]

I was only a freshman in high school when Jenni passed and a HUGE fan. She’s all I would listen to on the school bus lol. I remember that day clearly, I cried in the shower after school and was heart broken about the news. Now at the age of 24, I still bump her music on the way to work, karaoke her on nights when I’m out with friends, my best friend and I have this tradition of screaming jenni’s songs at the top of our lungs in the car on our way home after a night out. I never got to meet her but I can tell she had such a strong, beautiful energy and anyone who knows me knows I have been and always will be a huge Jenni fan.

[@R.oxo.x]

Chiquis was given so much responsibility at a super young age & that’s a hard thing to be the child but having to play the part of an adult. Jennis sister Rosie I feel has played a dark part in the family unraveling. Rosie was secretly jealous of jenni. Didn’t Chiquis catch her trying on & making a show in Jennis clothes after she died? Jenni was vulnerable at the time that lady poisoned her mind about her own children/husband.

[@SimplySo21]

Hmm in retrospect I don’t think her trying on her clothes was a bad thing but it was werid ….but now idk the family always has drama I don’t why this family can’t just have peace

[@Hello-nl1km]

I just found this podcast. Wow, I'm so sorry for your lost. I will be honest it was, so hard to watch mariposa de barrio it was so violent, I can't imagine being so young and going through what jenny went through. 😢. Chiquis you are very strong woman. Loving your podcast.🌹🌹

[@diannacarino5006]

Chiquis … I purchased both of your books read them and I enjoy reading them… you have had one of the most shocking Life story . From being a Child they went through a lot till now a great singer I truly believe that the Lord is blessing you with everything you went through in life. And this is why I’m a big fan because you keep it real your family kept it real. Will always be a jenni Rivera fan and yours Chiquis 💕

[@catherinemedina5307]

Ur such a warrior! Don't let ur Guard down! Family First!💙💘

[@marilynluna1220]

Loved this episode. Thank you for being soo raw. Honoring your mother by listening to her music and teaching my children a new generation to love her music as well.❤

[@henrymartinez4893]

I love cleaning because I’m always hearing her music Te amo Jenni Rivera!!

[@savanahsalcido4154]

I’m crying with you chiquis!!! Love y’all

[@annalopez6356]

Chiquis at such a young age you were given alot of responsibility. Like you said God had a plan for your life. All you were taught by your mom and everything you have been through made you to be the strong woman you are and have become. You are an amazing woman and I love how you continue to be there for your siblings and honor your mom. You got this Chiquis. You have the best team ever God and your mom by your side. I listen to La Divas music and it still impacts my life. You and your siblings are an inspiration to me. I live in Corona and went to see the opening of the barber shop. My boys took a picture with you. Keep moving forward Chiquis. Praying the Lord will continue to be with you and your siblings.

[@katrynamcintyre5687]

May 29, 2024: I don't know how I found this video, but it touched me enough to pray for your family. Thank you for sharing your heart....it brought me to tears. {Your mom will NEVER be forgotten.} I wish you the very best. Love you, Katy {my children: Jason, Sean/deceased, Candice, Troy} Rio Rancho, New Mexico

[@tomaslequesne1366]

Our heart is with you Chiquis and your family!! Stay strong and humble Queen 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@lisdianiszamora123]

My mom and I bond so much over Jenni’s music . De contrabando is our favorite song . ❤

[@microbios8586]

I didn't know all the details until now. I have to say, my perceptions and conclusions about this family were spot on 10+ years ago. I respect Chiquis tremendously for her maturity and grace in such a toxic environment.

[@Savagemode09]

I had no clue you saw those pictures its so hard knowing that you saw those and breaks my heart knowing this. I cried so hard because it takes a very brave and tough person to handle such sadness and chaos... This was very brave of you telling us . Also I think personally it's a lot of jealousee and secrets that most families do have and it's unfair to you and your siblings because you were brought into this world not knowing how chaotic it is but hopefully in your sister's and your hands That your mother's legacy will be properly put out in the world without anybody mishant Lee money or Taking advantage even during her after life cause all I think about is like Selena and her family and how they should honor that and respect that in my personal opinion and I think you guys are doing so well and as long as you guys are together that's what really matters and the people that think a certain way about you those are not your family those are people that did not I'm conditionally loving you like your mom did and she did a d*** good job taking care of you

[@palomamartinez8198]

Chiquis, you're a warrior. God bless you 🙏

[@isabelb.m]

I remember this news so vividly… sitting I my living room on Twitter and seeing the news.. omg. Those pictures mamas🥺 so sorry you had to see them. We love Jenni forever. Till this day I think of her and what a bad ass she is 💖

[@T.Dee28]

I just discovered this podcast and been loving it! I grabbed a joint for this one 😭😭

[@sandragutierrez8988]

Your family is your brothers and sisters, So stick to them and together u guys will be strong and such a good role model family

[@doralopez5557]

Just found your podcast, you are so humble, well spoken and have a gentle soul. I love your Mother's music which has gotten me through some difficult times and also some happy times. I admire your strength as well as your siblings'; after going through the devastating loss of losing a Mother. My beautiful Mother went to Heaven in February 🕊️ Keep being that luchona, loving, positive and inspirational 👠 woman . Peace and Love always 💜

[@Mdmorales1987]

I feel like we share a lot of hardships. I've been in the position where you have to clear your name bc people change the story or make up story's . I love you Chiquis. It's not often you meet real genuine people and you can tell u are definitely a genuine person.

[@MD-dp4vz]

Llore😢 poor Chiquis!!! Dios siempre le da las batallas a los strongest Soldiers🙏🏻 y ella es una Guerrera!!❤

[@pattysolis8574]

Omg I just watched this for the first time :( chiquis you are a very strong person I read your moms book and yours to I believed your story I’m so sorry for your lost I got to meet you and your mom in Compton your mom would drop you off at my sister neighbor house on spruce st you were Vero and Patty’s friend and my niece name is Yvette you all went to Compton High I’m so proud of you for doing this prod cast I love your moms music and I know what you mean I lost my parents 8 months apart I’m a grown women 50+ and I miss my parents so much it’s been 12 yrs and I wish my parents were here I also lost my husband 8 yrs ago and miss him do much thank you for this story you had me crying through this from start to finish you were at strong my God keep blessing you always

[@nisim3457]

Best kids ever... Jenni's ♥ for her kids and how strong they are now is amazing. Your mom is so proud and watches over you all.❤

[@yesicagonzalez2575]

chiquis you are truly an amazing human being i have always admiired your strength ily oxoxo

[@lindachavez6754]

Chiquis you are judged by so many but I like your story and style and I like hearing your thoughts. I feel your story and can relate as being the oldest sibling myself of my family and having a similar relationship with my mother. Don't ever change and keep up the great work. Sometimes in life we only seek acknowledgment.

[@monikamontalvo3371]

Chiqui your doing a awesome job! I wish I was there to give u a big hug and tell u everything will be ok God is good!!!

[@verov83]

You are a strong woman Chikis. I really admire you. I'm also an older sister with three siblings that lost our mother at a young age. I was 24 and my siblings were under 18. So a lot responsibility came to me in one day. I would have to make a podcast to explain what I went through. Losing a mother is the hardest thing someone can go through. Keep up the good work and shake them negative people off no matter if it's your own family. My mom was also the glue to my extended family and it hasn't been easy. But I'm better off away from that chaotic world. XOXO much love to you and your siblings ❤️.

[@henrymartinez4893]

So close to crying hearing this💔

[@trinitymedical2016]

You are the best in the world ,how blessed you,

[@Mil.ton07]

Your family is such a blessing and an inspiration

[@katiefitzgerald7031]

Jenni is so iconic also because of the genre of music she sang.

[@jenniecarranza4130]

i would love a Jenni Rivera movie ❤ im sure your mother is proud of all of you

[@verorams9892]

She has mariposa de Barrio series on Netflix and another one that I saw here on youtube .

[@childofgod2738]

I am so sorry for your loss, Mija. I became a fan of your mom during a really dark time in my life. Her music helped me through that dark time. Unfortunately, when I found her she was already gone. I fell in love with her so much for her honesty, strength and drive. She left a legacy to all single mother’s to never give up and do what you have to, to put food on the table. I listen to her music all the time. I will forever be a fan. She definitely is irreplaceable! Hugs and kisses to you and your siblings. You Mother would be proud of each and everyone of you, no doubt! ❤️😘

[@jeaninecalderon121]

I love you for stepping up and taking care of ur siblings. Johnny is the shit. I love how all of honor ur mom in special ways. You been thru so much and really have ur shit together. And who in the fk cares if ur chubby. I think you are just as beautiful as ur mom. Your siblings all look great. I know you guys miss your mom like crazy. That shit hurts. I wud love to speak to my mom one more time. Keep up the great positive life you have ❤

[@Okuti8779]

I’m truly sorry you had to endure all of that shade and pain. It wasn’t her fault. That wicked lady really got to her with her lies about you. You were the best daughter and mother figure to your siblings. That’s priceless. Keep climbing as high as you can. In mariposa del barrió. She stated that you guys were gonna squash the misunderstanding and spend the holidays together. I cried so much at the ending of the series. I couldn’t believe that she died right after that concert. It’s crazy and sad. She was an amazing human being. A big hug to you my beautiful Chiquis 😉😘❤️ I know the feeling. I lost my mom at the age of 21. It hurts like hell😢

[@rociosandoval232]

Reminds me of my mom… she grabbed me by my hair & started punching me in the face & head while I was sitting down doing my hw I must’ve been 11-12 yrs, only bcss I walked home from school & I didn’t know I had to wait for her & got home before her. I can relate so much to you chiquis I admire you you’re so strong & I feel so broken❤️❤️

[@jessicacereceres2404]

🙏 im so sorry you went through that girl….i. hope you have someone you can talk to about this and can work through it in a healthy and healing way.

[@karinamartinez297a]

Aww Chiquis 🥲 you and your siblings are so strong. Everytime i hear you about to cry it breaks my heart because i can hear your dolor. Im sure Jenni is so so so proud of you and all your siblings. I wish i could attend a Jenni concert 😭 maybe one day in heaven 🤞🏻

[@SassyMa_]

Love your channel and Thank you for putting it in English bc not all of us speak Spanish well and it nice to stay on the mix of our culture too now that we can understand what is being said 😀 Thank you and God bless this is such a great video....

[@bethruiz113]

Hell yeah you have the absolute right Chiquis

[@soniabastarica7478]

Your an amazing person and your mom did a great job on raising you !!

[@JS-IP]

You are so special, your mum must be so proud ❤

[@jacqueline9701]

Gosh I’m glad I found your podcast te seguimos me and my 3 siblings since I love jenni

[@carolinaarriola6722]

I love you Chiquis 🤍 you’re such a strong woman fr . I love Jenni too and I know I am no one to judge and I know you love you’re mom but I feel like you grew up VERY fast and we’re obligated to mother your siblings . I know she was a very hard worker and loved you guys but in Jenni was wrong for some of the things and decisions she made . What breaks my heart even more was that you were left out the will 😢 that really breaks my heart , you were her right hand man . ALWAYS . I love you and I hope you and your family get the help you need and one day reach that goal you want 🤍. Love you .

[@bigbumperz818]

Wow this totally made me cry because I can agree with Chiquis god always has its reason and it’s plan everything ends up making sense once you are clear headed and start to heal sad n it hurts but it’s facts.

[@JenMarie702]

Beautiful podcast! Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable ❤

[@Crazie_beautiful]

Her children were the world to her, I hate that she believed someone else other than her daughter. The time they lost 🥺

[@chantricechatman3983]

Yess It breaks my heart I literally left a comment saying the same thing like how could she believe the words of someone else over her own children It really made me upset with her but I'm at peace now

[@reneejaquez2566]

Chiquis, I love you and your siblings your mom would be so proud of you all and the way you handle your self's with the most moraly ways that your mom raised you all. Your mom is proud that's all that matters. Money changes every family. Everyone loves you guys. You and your siblings is all you need.

[@yadhirajimenez5337]

Jenni Rivera is all I listen to I love her !!! 🥹♥️

[@marthachavez2623]

No words 😔🥺😭. Jehova Dios y Jesucristo 🙏 te bendiga 🙏

[@LuvtheRiverLife]

❤ I wish the very best for you and your siblings, you deserve it because you have been through so much and you were your mom’s right hand daughter. I cannot wait to see the movie as for listening to her music I always listen to her and you. You’ve got this Chiquis and you have done exactly what you’re mom wanted you to do perfectly. Sending love to you and your siblings ❤.

[@deysiperez974]

So many hugs to you and your siblings chiquis. ❤

[@valeriedashcasillas8962]

Netflix needs a Mariposita del barrio 🦋

[@LauraBelmarez]

Hiiiii GIRL, from AUSTIN TEXASSS 😊❤❤❤❤…. I JUST HEARD YOUR PODCAST ! AMAZING VERYYYY WELL SPOKEN! YOUR AN ANGEL, KEEP FLYING ,❤YOUR THE UNSTOPPABLE, OUR LORD WILL ALWAYS HAVE YOUR BACK! ❤

[@mimi-fq8di]

I could hear the pain in your voice. Press on! Forgive and press on!

[@normaearnisse3106]

Beautiful God bless you and your Family! ♥️ Si se pude!!!!!! 👊

[@TexasTaste]

My prayers are for you and your siblings.

[@rachelm37]

. I love your moms music some of her music boosts my confidence and some brings tears to my eyes .

[@indigomornings3096]

Chiquis tu mamá era muy dura y estricta contigo 😢 eres muy fuerte y admirable, bendiciones ❤❤❤

[@jaylynnbeltran774]

I started listening to her music 3yrs ago and she changed my life completely

[@jeaninecalderon121]

Loved this episode. Great advice.

[@mimi-fq8di]

My sister passed away in 2014. I was BROKEN! She left my nephew who is grown and married now. I’ve adored him since he was a baby and means the world to me even now. FORGIVE Chiquis! You will never be able to fix the ignorance of your family. Forgive them for they know not what they do! Those were Christ’s words while he died on a cross for all of us.

[@TeamTowerDog]

I wonder if Jenni was struggling with drugs when Chiquis tells how Jenni was going through a hard time before passing. Those are real life problems when life gets hard. Paloma you’re free, soar high 🕊️

[@karito14ish]

Aww Hope all works out in the end.

[@jojonjessgarcia4465]

That’s right girl stay true and stay strong 💪 the family has always been strained because of the greed and money

[@laurajurado2885]

Thank you for sharing your story with us 🙏 ❤️ I am excited to see the movie and her story. Your guys story 💕

[@Yesica21]

Hi chiquis I am glad you talked about your mom

[@ReRe13-]

CHIQUIS YOU HAVE FORGIVEN WORST THINGS before! You will eventually reunite with your family and when that day comes you will be very happy! ❤❤❤❤❤

[@nauriseartandgardens5745]

❤we love u Chiquis!

[@MyCulturaPodcasts]

Appreciate that

[@GuillerminaSerrano-i1j]

Te admiro mucho Chiquis eres una guerrera 💪💪💪🐝

[@suleymabalbas9166]

Omgggg I got the chills

[@cristinalotusflower]

I love Jenny but more to my Chiquis. Hou are pure heart ❤️ chikis

[@cristinalotusflower]

Estoy Feliz chiquis. You are awesome. I love you because you are a light girl

[@goldylocksac6586]

What does it matter what ya'll did, it is your money you guys have every right to check on it.

[@jennifergongora9727]

Amen❤️ I cried and put on a episode of I ❤️ JENNI ...PRAYERS TO ALL OF YALL. ..

[@SiahzMommyyy]

I’ve been waiting for this episode. I love chiquis! She is one of the strongest women to exist

[@gloriaahmed4905]

I LOVE YOU CHIKIS 💪💪💪💪💯❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@rosaortiz3180]

We listen to her everyday 🥰

[@dannyh7171]

Love your show. I wish you and your brother and sisters

[@southerncalifornia970]

RIP Jenni

[@gthugg1]

I love you Chiquis ❤️❤️❤️

[@tusverdadesoficial1]

I love #ChiquisandChill 😍

[@maribelchavez2887]

Lo maximo eso es familia

[@quetirox1543]

I’ve heard your 15th bday story and it sounds messed up, she was probably going through something then too. She had you being a child herself. You have been through enough. I find it really hard to believe such a strong woman, wise who built a big empire that her children are still living from…I find it hard to believe that she would go off of just ONE circumstance “situation” between you and her husband, and use that to cut you off completely. I think it takes more than that. One thing is to let you go to your grandmas, she knew you were in good hands. But she cut you off and never spoke about the situation . I hope you find peace if you haven’t

[@yolilemus520]

Yall would make a good movie 🎬 🎞 🎥 👏👏👏

[@aryaniperes3500]

Simply amazing💕💕

[@MargaritacPena]

Blessings to you and your siblings 💛

[@nayancir6133]

I love you chiquis ❤️

[@ReRe13-]

CHIQUIS I know your mom is so so proud of you

[@elizabethharrison7306]

Chiquis Riviera Love my favorite one fan Big music 🎶 CD 💿💖💖💖💖💖🦋🦋🦋🦋CUBA 🇨🇺 my family

[@elviraalvarez5649]

Wow,😢😢😢❤

[@marthaquezada9645]

Amen to that

[@sakaiahreign3365]

I never believed Chiquis slept with Esteban. She couldn’t do that to Jenni, not after everything they’ve been together with Trino. That woman that broke them apart should be ashamed. It’s sad that Jenni & Chiquis never got to make peace because they both loved eachother deeply. Chiquis was her first baby girl and her rock. Jenni had been hurt by so many people that this woman came into her life and messed with her head so bad she turned on Chiquis. Esteban and her has their problems, that’s on them, but your children are forever.

[@JessicaRodriguez-dx6uz]

I still need my parents im already 42 years old. Unfortunately my daughter and I r on bad terms Unfortunately but I have tried to make things right but having toxic voices r horrible

[@eduardochavez9743]

Me gustaría mucho que pusieran los subtitulos en español para los que no sabemos inglés 💕

[@johannamunoz9860]

When Chiquis says “my mom was in a weird place in her life” I believe it has to do with the cartels warning her and threatening her

[@Savagemode09]

i think so too she knew something was up like her time was up amd acted on and towards chiquis. I think she didn't mean to.

[@estelalandaverde3784]

I have judged this women for years until I heard her story. Shame on me.