Honour Killing Survivor Nina Aouilk speaks out against Childhood Abuse & Her Forced Marriage

Disclaimer: This conversation contains details of sexual, physical and emotional abuse that some viewers may find distressing or elements of this talk to be objectionable.
Voted Woman of the Year 2023, Nina Aouilk, is a mindset coach and motivational TEDx speaker who has made raising awareness & helping others, by sharing her story, her focus. Raped by her father at the age of 14 and forced to marry one of her abusers, Nina breaks the silence on the false beliefs around her culture, counts of domestic abuse, her struggles and how her three children became her main source of hope.
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[@caramelbilquees]

SHE'S SO STRONG, its one of the worst Abuse stories ive ever heard with most unloving, evil family

[@_jemma_p]

Thank you for taking the time to watch and support Nina through her journey🙏♥

[@rachelperaud1945]

It's one of thousands of others only. Thee are unseen, unheard stories many more.

[@user-pb9lh3lo2o]

​@@_jemma_phi

[@TishyaAnand]

Her father and mother should be in jail !

[@SRBOMBONICA86]

Her hair is stunning ❤she is still so pretty and strong

[@kulwinderkaur7684]

I couldn’t sleep for two nights , couldn’t concentrate on my daily activities, my stomach hurts like I have eaten something very acidic, I can’t explain my feelings, I am just thankful to god been a sikh Indian to born a blessed family , specially my husband who was begging to God for a baby girl one I was pregnant . I’m totally shocked with those people who involved to hurt this beautiful soul . I have never pray to god to do something bad to people , but honestly after hearing this I’m praying with my every single breath to see those people punished 🙏

[@amzstar3351]

Her abusers im sure are suffering karma doesn't leave anyone!!!! God bless this lady 🙏 ❤ so glad shes has the courage to speak her truth!!!

[@buwa0]

Have her father, brother, father in law those rapists been brought upon law and charged yet? They shouldn’t be allowed to get away.

[@_jemma_p]

They haven't. In Nina's words, the fact that she's gone quite public with her story would make it hard for a jury to be unbiased.

[@Cybergirl388]

So unfair

[@saladfingers.]

That's insane

[@user-qs5to6td6w]

​@@_jemma_p???? 3rd world countries 💔

[@TENGRI-101]

​@@user-qs5to6td6w It happened in uK for sure British accent is saying it.

[@graysonred2641]

The strength of this woman. Her sharing her story, is going to be the spark to help save thousands of little girls. God bless her 🙏🏾

[@varshag.8398]

This is the classic example of a woman's tenacity and resilience..here she is going through all the worst things ever happened to a woman and yet she's still holding her ground like a warrior and saying " I am not done yet, I am alive..." Dear woman take a bow..❤🎉

[@habibajaved9794]

How a father can do this !!! I can't believe this . Thank you Nina for trying to creat awareness!

[@twovirginiacats3753]

I wonder if she did something considered "bad" in their culture - like look at a boy or something such as this - before the gang rape happened? Maybe it was her dad's sick way of saying "I'll teach you to keep your eyes to the ground".

[@raherakara6274]

A gutless human who is a sheep.

[@AdvMini]

​@twovirginiacats3 r you sick ?753

[@Mmc1437]

I want to give Nina the biggest hug. Her bravery is extraordinary. Her soul is remarkable.

[@lilyineden]

I just cry cry cry and cried listening to her story. The father or the mother the role they played in the pain they caused the confusion they caused her , that is inhumane.🧡🍂

[@hfm9834]

Many people come from unloved homes indeed. Nina, you are doing great work, and you're brave and strong, lady.❤❤

[@_jemma_p]

Beautifully said🙏🏻

[@noreenbi9079]

Yes they do but people like that don't deserve 2 have kids

[@shan4145]

I never get tired of hearing her story . Love from Canada 🇨🇦🙋🏻‍♀️

[@its.me.ayanna679]

My eyes are tearing up as I have listened to her story. How could her father, mother and siblings do that to her?!

[@sanjanalalit3155]

Lady.. i don’t know you personally.. but I can loudly tell you one major thing that you need to know and realise as well deeply in you is that those evil monsters who were supposed to be your protectors and instead became your abuser, molester, woman basher.. they might have hurt your body and damage your heart and mind but trust me on the name of God.. THEY HAVENT BEEN ABLE TO HARM OR TOUCH YOUR SOUL.. YOURE CLEAN AND PURE TO GOD.. ❤ God bless you and God loves you..

[@hopehope7840]

Jesus loves you ❤

[@rajchaudhary623]

💔💔💔 how can a father do this ,??? 😢 Sending prayers and more power to her

[@lisagriffiths9990]

I notice from watching several of Nina’s testimonies on YT, she mentions her parents didn’t know any better, she kind of makes a sort of excuse for them. These disgusting humans tortured her in every way possible, this is not religion it’s a sickness. The fact they are still out there, never prosecuted for their crimes including the wilful murder of her sister is beyond belief. Ninas beautiful soul shines. They must hate that. They are the shame they tried to push on her.

[@roseneiger1251]

You and your daughter both are brave and beautiful women ,thank you 🙏 !

[@cm7352]

Oh gosh.. my heart goes out to this lady this is horrific what happened.. thank you for sharing your story please don’t stop spreading awareness ❤😢

[@raherakara6274]

Nina needs justice 😢 absolutely brave 💪

[@beetledune9264]

She still called him my father.i can't..she has big heart.Should called him 'that man'.father is for a man who protect his family.

[@evafernandez4570]

A lot worst must have happened to other girls/ women that were not reported because maybe out of fear or maybe have been killed. God for this lady she has the courage to speak out about her horrendous life journey from a young age. She must also have good people who supported her where she is now and who valued &trusted her.She is an inspiration to a lot of people especially to oppressed women out there anywhere. The world has to know that there is this inhumane practice in other cultures in which male family members themselves perform this barbaric culture of treating their women and even young girls.

[@mattmu9887]

I‘m so sorry. I’m scared that there’s close relatives that would do this to me. I can’t believe this is the world we live in.

[@ammaammu1459]

I’ve heard her story so many times and it hurts every time… it’s lovely to see her beautiful daughter coming out a wholesome person … don’t let the haters get to u…. They just annoyed they being exposed …

[@nanaskin6]

My son is 6 and I just couldn't see how they could be such horrible parents to their own blood. Or any child! Disgusting .

[@syedmiragefaredie2932]

A father? Unbelievable. My God.....

[@zayla1382]

Her story is so sad filled with so many people she should have been able to trust failing her. I wish her and her kids the best. She is a strong and smart woman and to be that with what she’s endured shows what a great human being she is.

[@rhondastead5252]

What a very very sad story! You are a very strong person. I will never be down or complain ever again. I'll just remember your story and realise I am very blessed

[@jinglejungle3410]

Her story made me cry...i really can feel her! She was lonely, scared and feeling nowhere to go...Nina...I am so sorry to hear about your past. May God always protect you. How I wish I could give you a big soothing hug. I must acknowledge you as a brave person

[@user-ln1ui3xv6b]

One of the most beautiful and strongest women I have seen. I never tire of watching Nina,she is so amazing and so eloquent

[@fizabalawi4394]

I will never stop watching this woman's videos. She's a true inspiration and amazing representation of a stong punjabi woman who has made a change

[@lilycool2601]

Nina, I am so so sorry for your hurt and pain. But I am happy where you are now. You are a very strong n brave lady. And I wish you all the very best. Be happy to find your peace. ❤ Singapore

[@Cybergirl388]

Well spoken respectable beautiful young woman

[@margaretbareh3166]

What type of people and custom and a father doing evil deeds to own daughter in such a very terrible way.where us the mother who should protect her daughter.so very sad hearing this story.speechless.

[@beetledune9264]

The women married this type of men,is either brainwashed or abuser themself.

[@MitchObriens]

I want to give Nina a hug

[@mnblkjh6757]

💐😢she’s a BEAUTIFUL person ❤️

[@maryjoseph9894]

Nina sending love and healing speak up girlfriend god will be with you in your journey without that wicked family. Where was your mother/ rest of the family.

[@word_trouble]

Fair play to this woman for speaking up ❤️🙌🏻🙏

[@_jemma_p]

Indeed, thank you for taking the time to watch.

[@ruth8257]

Thank you for being brave enough to speak up against this monstrous Evil . You are very beautiful inside out and it radiates ⭐️🙏

[@meiriawati6613]

You are wonderful Nina, keep strong. Jesus bless you ❤

[@rajchaudhary623]

Year back when i heard her i was shocked how her family treated her and how horrible her marriage life was 😢💔💔💔

[@serene03422]

You are brave and you need to tell the story a million times. It makes a difference every time. In so many ways.

[@_jemma_p]

🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@rokayiaathar4450]

How heartbreaking, why are these monsters not b punished!

[@frankhenry9680]

Nina, dont know what to say i only can send u lots nd lots of love god is on yr path❤❤

[@marizakandrou4458]

You are so strong carry on do this wonderful work that you do we are 💯 per cent with you love 🥰 🇬🇷

[@lanaspencer9893]

Wonderful brave woman. ❤

[@cgwerle8282]

❤God bless you, its so ugly what you been thru and still so sad. You are a very strong woman God bless you and your childrens never give up❤

[@nikikaurkhalsa]

omg, 😥😥why would a dad do such a heinous crime with his own daughter?😡 Stay strong always and do not let anyone abuse you ever!

[@jasonsandifer3250]

The desire for Sex should Not control someone or anyone to the point of harming someone, violently, and, or causing unnecessary suffering through attacks, forced sexual situations, forced abuse, torture, kidnapping, sexual assault, coercion, causing mental harm, causing physical, or emotional harm. Sex should not cause someone’s death or harm. Author Advocate for Humanity, Jason Sandifer, 4/26/2022, 5/09/2022, 11/28/2022 6/16/2022, 11/30/2022 7/15/2023

[@MitchObriens]

How can this happen in Britain?

[@carriefawcett9990]

I could see how badly this was getting to the lady host on the right, i felt the same, this is just so utterly horrific and satanic. Nina, you are absolutely amazing, i hope you have managed to find some healing. You are so strong. ❤

[@_jemma_p]

Thank you for your kind words

[@sbmc81]

NINA you are Amazing and strong i learnd to keep shining with love and dignity like you 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛

[@_jemma_p]

Thank you for your kind words. Hope she ends up seeing everyone's comments on here.

[@ingercathrinehalandselwatt8394]

Nina came across as such a warm person. A good mother-daughter relationship.

[@marocilrex9500]

I am amazed with her being brave woman and I also love her long beautiful hair ❤❤❤

[@allisonkimtae4728]

It's so incredible how you left your past behind and grew up to be this wonderful, intelligent and strong woman you are today. I cannot even imagine the bravery you have had to come forward and speak up about the barbaric experience you had to go through even that was also at such a young age.

[@TENGRI-101]

Time is the best healer, bud

[@user-pk2jq9kp6w]

Love from Fiji ❤

[@kinicollier7591]

Poor girl you a strong girl my heart goes to you sweetie 💓 💗 😢😢😢

[@cmistryreeves]

Nina is so brave and I’m so glad she’s in a better place. I just think she needs to be careful when saying ‘our culture’ because what happened to her isn’t normal and reflective of my culture

[@jeandodd873]

Rrave brave lady thank you for telling your story

[@_jemma_p]

Thanks for listening

[@Helen-wz2qb]

This woman's story is so heartbreaking to me. Brave and courageous are not enough of a description to say how much I admire this wonderful woman for telling her horrendous story to help others to speak up or ask for help. These animals ( I wont call them men, thay are not men.)and that's disrespectful to animals but I carnt described it any other way. Are cowards who get off on the control thay hold over others. God bless and look after this inspiring woman. ❤ 🙏

[@maryamk2407]

Nina, I love you and always will. ❤️ Those demons were scared of you because they had never seen a pure angel like you. Your light was too bright for their dark souls to bear.

[@natashalall3553]

ur story is very far from boring... it is shocking, horrendous, unbelievable.... many of us measure well the courage it takes for u to speak out so honestly and u should never stop... most people do not take the time to try to make the world a better place, u certainly should not be swayed by them!!!!

[@simonesimone1101]

She is such a lovely, beautiful women. So horrible what they monsters done to her 😢❤

[@nasreenbi6317]

Welcome to my world 🌍 I have lived the same life from the age of 5 to 26 it’s disgusting our own families destroy us 😞

[@noreenbi9079]

That's really bad

[@annpinheiro2918]

She was so cute as a child

[@_jemma_p]

❤

[@baljinderkaur877]

Very strong lady bliss her

[@_jemma_p]

❤❤

[@jihanjamal3564]

Her family are from hell I’m glad she is ok 😢😢

[@twovirginiacats3753]

They say it is a "cultural thing". Thinking of all the Punjabi families that I know - many of them only have sons! Now it makes me wonder if they got rid of the baby girls.

[@TENGRI-101]

​@@twovirginiacats3753 ​​​It is culture and culture is linking with religion esp in islamic societies. Muslims don't allow non islamic culture for sure. They're very strict about their religion. Well indian muslims' ancesters were hindus hundred years ago and so their ancesters ate pork and celebrated devali festival and they practise caste. But nowaday muslim indians don't eat pork. They don't practise caste. They already gave up their old culture which was heavily linking with hinduism. I mean religion plays a major role in cultures esp in islam.

[@jihanjamal3564]

@@TENGRI-101 this has nothing to do with religion this family are just evil beside please try to study Islam ☪️ it’s far from what you wrote.

[@user-xu1sj9mr9h]

Her daughter is beautiful

[@colleencarvalho4970]

This is beyond acceptable and that too in a 1st world country, where are the laws gone

[@KingsCrossVIP]

may Allah continue to heal you

[@AliAkbar-qj5bd]

aameen Ya Allah bi Rehmatika Ya Mujeebu Ya Wahhabu Ya Hayyu Ya Qayyum Allah hu Akbar

[@fernandosuba9163]

Allah?? demon god

[@shiellasoriao1324]

this is the most painful experience, your father is supposed to be your hero but in this case your father is the one who killed you that moment😭😭😭😭

[@Ingab2]

💔💔💔😭😭😭

[@kathygeorgiou7687]

Is this how Indian cultural behave. The fathers treat their daughter badly because the fathers only want a son? And how bad is the mother to sit back & do nothing about it. !!!

[@okiemuteadaorife4974]

It’s so babaric, because the father was birthed by a woman not a man. Those that think like that are sick and truly psychopaths

[@mattmu9887]

True

[@Indian.heart1997]

Its the done thing in some families. Not all. I am an Indian. I was treated equal to my brother. Same food, same education, same clothing, same rights in all aspects....

[@TENGRI-101]

Tbf, you have to say its south asian culture 'cos this happens not only in india but in bangladesh and pakistan. Just saying...

[@noreenbi9079]

Yes also the problem with Asians is that they love there siblings but won't love there own children

[@mj3026]

Please don’t ever stop talking about what happened to you because even if it only helps one child then that is worth carrying on for & I hope one day your parents will be punished along with anyone else who abused you

[@user-tb3sy5iq7k]

What a pity! In our part of Africa what you saying to us now is a great taboo!! That would never happen. Am shocked and feel sour in my heart. May the almighty Allah protect your generation and Next from such a horrendous life!

[@_jemma_p]

Thank you for sharing

[@norama3998]

نُفوس أقسى من الوحوش ..

[@junelladruart3713]

Did the criminals get punished?

[@minaximoti7992]

😢😢😢😢😢

[@yanniiboy1961]

So sad. Very hard to listen her story.

[@trahamatrah8250]

Im so sorry for your past. I hope your perpetrators have been punished.

[@maymunaharif3738]

Nina your so pretty when you laugh

[@manjitjakku8146]

Your full of trauma, when you recover from traumatic experiences there are no tears. I had traumatic experiences, healed through counseling and now qualified to help others. Life coaches don't train enough.i trained 4 years. Still updating Doing affirmations won't heal you. You need to go through a deep healing process. Your journey, your choice. Still training to do deeper work

[@manjitjakku8146]

I qualified 16 years ago

[@lifesnaps143]

Just curious what nationality she is because she mentioned that it’s in her culture multiple time and made me wonder?

[@moniquemonicat]

❣🥰 *LOVE YOU NINA* ❤*i pray God continues to heal you 100%🫀 *HUGS N HEALING* ♥😍face-red-heart-shape

[@_jemma_p]

Thank you for your kind msg

[@SarahBenSayed-hv2rm]

Allah will bless you angels ❤ don’t worry ❤ you stay strong Queen 👸

[@MadamDar]

Was her dad and his friends drunk and on drugs? This story is crazy.

[@twovirginiacats3753]

It sounds like her dad and his friends were crazy drunk. There is no excuse for what they did to her. I have learned in life that some people are just mean.

[@Cybergirl388]

How strange there burning women because of the gender of the babies ( bride burning) but the gender of the baby is determined by the male.

[@user-pb9lh3lo2o]

hi how are you?

[@kashbassey9149]

You are not dirty The family was dirty Asian families always blame the female..they make me so angry!!

[@daisyh8481]

People are not Doctors outside of their surgeries. Just call her by her name, she's not at work, i understand the proudness and hard work to be a doctor. But people are not their professions

[@_jemma_p]

Appreciate your view; it’s however not just ‘profession’ bound. Many people have Dr in their name for having completed a doctoral degree or PhD irrespective of profession. In this particular case, Dr Celeste is in fact a dentist and celebrating other people at any time of the day, doesn’t harm anyone😉 🙌🏼

[@kundrapukishore9205]

Which country she was from

[@TENGRI-101]

Dude..she speaks in british accent.

[@Gamergirl37212]

​@@TENGRI-101she could be migrated...she belongs to Muslim country for sure

[@nks623]

@@Gamergirl37212she’s Sikh Punjabi from India she’s staged this multiple times

[@natashabay561]

You’re amazing, don’t allow anyone to silence you. This is more common than what people think. Most people are afraid & ashamed to speak up 🤍

[@ArdShrivastav-we2zr]

Hi😊

[@violetpurple2291]

Religion of peace

[@sophyoura]

She is a Panjabi Sikh is the religion but it's not any religion that promotes violence so please don't make any comments that is not appropriate

[@habibajaved9794]

This things were happend 16 hundred years ago in Arab befor the Muslim Era! In 2024 it is sitll in the society of India ! ! Pakistan!!

[@TENGRI-101]

Its still happening in mideast also. Not very common though

[@ryskhanizabekova9491]

Why the anchor 😭is keep on smiling the story of Nina is not funny

[@_jemma_p]

I’m afraid that’s just how my facial expression looks when I’m trying to keep it together. If you listen to the whole conversation, I said to Nina that I sat there composed but the first time I listened to her story, it really got to me. I really bonded with Nina that day and more than anything I really respect my guests ☺️🙏🏻

[@museoflove8255]

@@_jemma_pdont worry that was an insensitive comment You were just rying to be sympathetic❤

[@ArdShrivastav-we2zr]

Hi😅

[@soniaSonia-zs7id]

This is no culture

[@TENGRI-101]

Define culture?

[@TENGRI-101]

Culture is linking with religion and its stronger in islamic societies Human moral is evolving all the time and so most people already abolished tons of backward culture and rituals. But sadly, some people are still sticking medieval backward craps and result is victims like Nina.

[@archanapatil5695]

Muslim?....not surprised at all👍

[@kingasimriaz1]

She not muslim she sikh, stop blaming muslims for everything

[@fernandosuba9163]

Muslim god allah mohmad and British Judiciary system responsabile

[@nks623]

She’s SIKH INDIAN

[@johnchen6041]

Shame on UK. 🫣

[@skc-j]

Judiciary system in UK is a failure