House & Garden Fall Decorating Ideas For A 1939 Cottage Home!

[@newday5]

If only people knew how many lonely women there are at our age maybe that would change how they interact with us.

[@LittlePoet]

I 100% agree...the loneliness can go so deep as we age and on a sad day one person with a big smile or a warm hug can sustain us for days....my love to you, Susan and Desi

[@dianabrown833]

And the older we get, the more invisible we become.

[@kasko8550]

I have been thinking about this, too. To Bad people do not live more in family circles in their age - as I think it should be. Nonetheless, I think this group of people has so much to give. Make it a point to go out and connect, to reach out, to visit and invite (relatives, grandkids, and others - people who you will feel safe with).

[@Marie-r4i2u]

Loneliness is horrible If people only knew. I'm almost homeless, no family not even grandchildren living on SS. I've considered the "S" word. I feel invisible forgotten. My solace is watching your videos every week. Thank you. Many blessings to you and your beloved family.

[@junecarole-via3436]

Hang in there Sweetie! Things are going to get better! I know where you're coming from. We have a lot in common. I'm alone but not lonely. I live month to month, not knowing what next month will bring. It seems like the whole world is upside down right now, but I have faith in God! He said He will never leave us nor forsake us! I wish I'd been a believer a long time ago! It would have saved me from a lot of pain, but today is the first day of the rest of my life and tomorrow is an opportunity to start over again. What a blessing! He loves you!

[@SylviaMiddleton-c9t]

I've been alone for sometime but hardly ever feel lonely. I have a strong faith in our Heavenly Father that i can always count on for comfort and hope. Right now I'm going through a bit of difficulty because the senior park i live in here in S. Oregon is pricing me out of my home. I need to sell and find a smaller place to rent for now. I will be homeless unless i can find a solution in the next couple of months. I trust in God to help direct me in the right direction as He has taken excellent care of me all my life. I have 2 older small Pomeranians and a young rescue kitten that i love that are all great company. I have always ftom tbe first time i watch one of your videos loved your Desi. He shows such emotion in his eyes. So precious! Thank you for the talk about having a dream and knowing where you want to end up. And being thankful for what we've had and grateful for what we have now. So encouraging and great for this time in my life at 78. God is good and always will be. I'm so blessed! Thank you Susan!❤🙏🙏

[@karendegraaf1146]

Your faith is so wonderful. You will find a lovely new home with your fur family. God bless, keep us posted ❤

[@teddic6214]

Dearest Susan ~ How proud your Mom would be to know what a profound effect you (& Desi) have on so many of us in this community. Thank you for welcoming us weekly into your home with love & inspiration. You are greatly loved & appreciated ❤

[@debmarrett212]

Reaching out to those who need the group hug...because I need one too.

[@conniegunn]

Hugs from Deadwood, SD! 🥰

[@rinigirl777]

Hugs! From Palm Springs, CA

[@hummers7342]

Hugs from St Louis Mo

[@susanl.5226]

HUGS from Texas! ;-))

[@kimneely4034]

Sending you a big hug from Salisbury, Wiltshire UK ❤

[@rbs8541]

So thankful for your openness and perspective. You have an uplifting and relatable nature.

[@catmama54]

I had so much loss last year first my 18-year-old cat in January 4 months later my husband, and then a few months later leaving my home of 25 years and moving to a new state and an apartment. I am still grieving all that I lost. I sit in my lonely little apartment and I want my life back. I’ve made friends in the apartment building and I go out here and there, but mostly I am alone in this apartment and I miss my husband and my home and the life that I had. I will be 70 in November and there’s no way I’ll ever have another man in my life so I just have to be alone all the time. I’d love to rescue another cat but can’t here and moving isn’t an option just yet. Pets make great company. Desi is a doll

[@sabine3769]

Oh Dear I'm so sorry my husband passed two years ago. Please seek a support group most hospitals have grief support groups you might meet some friends. It's a start. You could share your grief. Please try

[@junefreeman7955]

That's a lot of change in a short time and grieving is normal. When you're ready try to sign up for something that will get you out. I'm going to try swimming at the Y next week.

[@conniegunn]

God bless you 🙏 I can relate!

[@catmama54]

@@junefreeman7955 thank you so very much. That was a tremendous amount of loss in one years time. I mean, I am doing OK I’ve moved. I’ve set myself up in an apartment. I’ve made friends, but my whole life is so different and I will miss my husband and our home forever that will never change. And I cannot wait until he and I are together again and I miss my cat. She was like my child. that’s great that you’re gonna take swimming lessons. I have a neighbor right next-door a married couple a little bit younger than me, but I’ve made friends with them and I go out to lunch with her every once in a while so I do socialize some. I will never stop missing my husband, my cat and our beautiful home.

[@catmama54]

@@conniegunn I’m sorry you can relate that you’ve had lost two. Thank you so very much. Everybody here is so kind and it’s really very helpful.

[@aidedeco]

I was miserable and cried out to God and asked Him to heal me inside. And I returned to church and He is healing my soul one day at a time.

[@barbc5947]

Amen! Walk with the Lord and you will never be alone. Blessings to you and know I am saying a prayer for you.. You are my sister in Christ.🙏❤

[@hummers7342]

@@barbc5947 you both are mine too.

[@JayP-kd5rc]

Praise God! He will never leave us, and will heal us if we will just go to Him and ask. Just sent up a prayer for you.

[@LittlePoet]

We can have great plans...but they should always include our faith...at least, that is how I see it. I never mean to preach...but God is always there...much love, Susan & Dez

[@deborahpellerito6117]

Amen❤️

[@paulettehealy964]

Congratulations on your son's wedding. You must be so proud. You looked beautiful, your dress was perfect for the occasion. Dasi behaved herself so well 😊 Sorry I have been out of touch for a while many things going on and remember i am in my early 80 and I have slowed down . I so enjoy your videos thank you for your advise and recommendations. A bientôt. Paulette from Australia and.a big hug ❤ to Dasi

[@terryspease41]

Susan it was so good to see you here tonight. I’ve been away for awhile. Desi is the sweetest lil pup! 🐶 I love him too pieces! I thoroughly enjoy your comforting advice. I certainly needed to hear all of it. I’ve been through a divorce after 30 years of marriage. I’ve just celebrated my 68th birthday the other day. Life is hard by myself. It gets easier. I try to keep your words fresh in my mind. I need to write them down in my journal. Thank you ❤ God bless! Be safe!

[@doglover19601]

I love that front door wreath!

[@heleneslawson2630]

Every morning before I get out of bed I thank God for the gift of today. Each day is a gift not a guarantee. My husband passed at the age of 58 and my precious grandson passed at the age of 14. I have learnt to be grateful for all blessings and live moment by moment. In other words....BE HAPPY!

[@jkalb1744]

God bless you!

[@Erika-Coach]

Ohmygosh, even a young boy, one that didn’t get a chance to grow, become a man. How heartbreaking. So so sorry for your losses 🙏

[@heleneslawson2630]

@@jkalb1744 Thank you and God bless you.

[@heleneslawson2630]

@@Erika-Coach Thank you. I miss them very much, but I know I will see them again. That gives me peace.

[@Erika-Coach]

@@heleneslawson2630 I’m very happy for you. That’s a good thing 🙏❤️

[@californiaglo9666]

The isolation during the pandemic really messed me up. I dealt with anxiety for the first time in my life. I am getting over it, but it has been a long journey. Two months ago I fell in my hallway and fractured my back. My senior dog Italy had peed during the night and I did not see it. For two weeks I was pretty much in bed. Fortunately I have a few wonderful friends that helped with groceries, cleaning the house and take care of my three senior dogs. On the third week my Italy passed away. At 63 I am realizing life will get more difficult at times and it scares me. With your videos, I realize that I am not alone. That is what helps me feel a bit better. There are many of us dealing with the same fears. I send a big hug to all that need it.

[@Mphscat]

You would also enjoy Sandra Hart's channel and she talks every Sunday about these very things. You are not alone in your concerns. Blessings from Texas.

[@flowerlady-e5u]

My faith and pets got me through it❤

[@juliairwin4481]

I feel for you. I also fracture my back too. I went through 5 weeks of physical therapy. It was well worth it.I am very careful where I walk cause I don't wantt to fall. Totally agree with you about friends.Just don't be in a hurry and take your time or give yourself enough time.

[@karendegraaf1146]

Speedy recovery from your fall. So sorry about Italy, so hard to loose fur family ❤

[@lucyloo7457]

Susan I buried my Mother, Sister and Brother today. My Sis, 2008, Bro. 2012, Mom, 2023. Their cremation urns were all put to rest today. ❤ My children, nieces, nephews and friends came together to celebrate their lives and lay them to rest together finally. It’s bittersweet but we were all brave today. Thank you for this beautiful video. I needed it!! God Bless You!!! ❤. Thank you from my heart!!!

[@LittlePoet]

I am saying prayers for this sad day for you....much love t you always, Susan and Dez

[@lucyloo7457]

Thank you. I greatly appreciate it!!❤. Tomorrow is a new day. ❤.

[@judybw706]

I’m so pleased you found a permanent place for your loved ones that honors them. Be proud of yourself!

[@JuracyLopez]

🙏🏽🤍🕊️

[@sharondoan1447]

What a beautiful day of remembrance to celebrate the lives of your family.

[@paulettehill8368]

Fall is my favorite time of the year!! I am so thankful for you and your video! Thanks for all you do! GOD bless you and love Desi!!

[@marilynmcintosh2674]

The way you design your home always gives me comfort.

[@urbantart68]

I'm 56 and a single empty nester fom England, I was lost not knowing what to do with the rest of my life? I'd always looked after everyone else , but my 83 year old mum sent me to your channel, I went back to my art and I paint, also a spiritual practice...thank you, your a wonderful lady, and Desi is so cute especially when he sings, I laugh so much ,you are part of my Sunday ❤

[@patriciat7769]

9-11-24 Greetings from Florida! I had to laugh when I saw your moniker/ online title.🙂. It's amazing how the internet provides us with a way to connect with people around the world. I'm glad you found the Little Poet community, and that you have been able to resume the hobbies that you enjoy.

[@nanettebear295]

Desi is so dapper and very handsome. Fall is my favorite time of year. There is a scent that just belongs to fall.

[@debbiesmith297]

I just lost my husband of 42 years and am facing living alone. You are an inspiration to so many and I am determined to try do the best I can with what I’ve got! Thank you

[@sueprice4082]

Same here, sending love ❤

[@shewolf6854]

Sending you both my love and thoughts❤ he is with you every single dayxx

[@LittlePoet]

I am so honored you are here. I am so very sorry for your loss. I know the pain must be so oberwhelming at times...how wonderful to love like that and always have part of you as you carry on...much loveot you always, Susan & Dez

[@dedelovesbling2313]

I'm so sorry for your loss Debbie. I cannot imagine. I've been married 50 yrs and I cannot think about being alone. I'm so glad you have hope and you plan to move forward with determination. You are a strong lady and your husband is beside you cheering you on, because I'm sure he would want you to be happy the rest of your days on this earth. Many blessings for a brighter future. 😊

[@nancydawson7193]

I just love what you said, “be thankful for what we had. That is so deep and meaningful . I will never forget that and thank you. You are such a help to us all!

[@eleanorbertuch135]

Every morning I am thankful for all my blessings❤️and all the blessings God has coming my way😇

[@lorraineshea296]

Love you Susan and Desi, In my loneliness i went back to Art Groups and started painting again...And try to share some kindness.. Thanks Susan and Desi 💖🇦🇺

[@lindah1515]

I am 82 and have been a widow for 27 years. I try to stay active and see friends once a month. I also have hobbies and a precious little dog. I am grateful for all the blessings in my life. I love seeing your videos and little Desi. ❤

[@jojo-tl5ei]

Your doggie is so sweet!! He seems to be hanging on your every word. 😆😍

[@lose999]

I wake up grateful that I woke up. I try to be mindful just doing simple things; making coffee, watering my plants, washing my dishes, and feeling healthy. I'm starting classes for the Fall semester next Monday and am so excited to have a feeling of purpose again. It's been a lonely, sad, summer but now I have learning something new to look forward to. I recommend that seniors seek out info about retirement learning opportunities in your community. Mine is through the local school district and is for people 50+. It's called Academy of Learning in Retirement (aka ALIR) At almost 72, I will try my best to do my best in class.💕

[@twanahess5838]

I think a lot of women that are alone don't trust themselves to find happiness within themselves. I found happiness just by greeting each day as an adventure. I discovered that I didn't need a man to make me happy. My happiness depended on me and me only. I stopped mourning for all that I had lost. It was gone and nothing I could do would bring it back. I started over with a different attitude. I love my life now. It wasn't easy but I even like me!

[@MadelineMaxwell-m5z]

Hello Susan, as a 70 year young lady thriving on my own and loving it, I keep a joy journal and have lots of friends younger than I am. Being young at heart and passionate about living gives me inspiration to create the very best life.I missed the opportunity to save for retirement. Due to my health I was on disability. Now I choose "retirement. It's how we take care of what he have, rather than what we think of what we are missing.

[@judyyoung5946]

There’s a sign that says “I still remember the days I prayed for the things I have now” and I love that. Tyfs and reminding us how precious life is and another great video. Desi is adorable in his little sweater.🧡

[@margieangel]

The thing that gets me through every day is my faith. Knowing that God really is in charge of the universe and that at the end, Jesus wins and evil doesn’t. Last week at church, the preacher shared a great visual. God doesn’t want us in a motorboat where we are driving the boat. We should be in a row boat with God at the helm. The challenge is that we don’t always know where he’s taking us and when we look backwards, we can’t see where we’re going either but we need to trust. That has really helped me this past week. For the past year, I have not understood why I was where I was at but it is now clearer. I’m gonna do everything I can to stay in the rowboat. I want God at the helm and not me! Blessings!

[@LittlePoet]

so beautiful Margie!!

[@Carol-zn2bs]

Amen!

[@cremetwirl1859]

Yes, backwards is not where we're going. Keep praying Trusting God.

[@janieb6236]

Amen

[@KathyFaye]

Three things: 1. Your autumnal decorations are lovely. 2. I look forward to my KZbin visit with you every week. 3. You talked about very serious things and ended with the lard a- - squirrels. You’re the best sort of friend-you have a great sense of humor.

[@AnnSimpson-k1u]

I’ve been a widow for 2 years now. I feel I’ve come through the darkest time but am now feeling content with my life. Your videos always add to that contentment xx

[@donnathompson4067]

yes , fall is my favorite season. I enjoy the crispness in the air and so many beautiful colors. I am alone and I yearn for our nation to be healed of all the corruptmess. I want to make friends again and enjoy life again. I'm praying for happiness to return in my life. Thank you so much for your videos. I enjoy watching them and seeing sweet Desi. Blessings to all.

[@nancy2401]

You had me laughing when you said Desi looked like Andy Williams in his new orange sweater !!

[@DeniseCornett-j7v]

Desi looks like a little teddy bear! Autumn has always been my favorite time of year. This November, I am turning 70! I became a widow In January of 22, & I am trying to dream a bright & content future. I am eternally grateful for all I have & have been blessed with in the past.

[@annamariemiller3877]

I also turn 70 at the end of November. 🎉

[@AutumMoon406]

fall is depression time for me, i am and watching you and listening to you uplifts me. thank you ❤. i can’t even think anymore from it. i not finding any joy at all. sorry to burden you with this, but i just have to explain why i haven’t been on much 🙏🏻🌹💐my dreams were crushed by my own family. it’s a hard thing to be alone knowing they don’t want me around and even said it to my face. i’m so hurt in the heart. 💔 i guess it’s because i am sick and no one wants to helps me at all. they walked away and said good luck with that. for no reason. i feel thrown away. like i wasted my life.

[@AngelaMinor-k6k]

Realizing God is in control and every breath is a gift. Thankfulness and gratitude!

[@jenjem5810]

My parents rest in peace. Caregiving was a privilege, but took a toll on my body. Grateful that they married. That my Mom had a good marriage to a man who offered to adopt all four of us. Three accepted. I'm the youngest, Who did my best to return to them the care they bestowed on us. Resurrection is the greatest promise that I look forward to. We will have Family Reunion in Paradise ahead. We sang together. Those experiences will warm my heart, until we meet again. We dealt with their decline during Covid restrictions.

[@heatherweingarten2276]

I have been wanting to tell you that I’ve seen pictures of when you were younger. I really think you are way more beautiful now. Your beautiful face, lovely sweet voice, great sense of dressing and decorating your home. Thanks for being here to make all of our lives better.

[@LittlePoet]

You are way too good to me! what a lovely heart you have to be so kind~! Happy Fall Heather!!!

[@lisabrock960]

Susan it’s so good to see you and Desi. You must have a green thumb. The hydrangeas are gorgeous!! Happy Fall .💖

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you so much!!!! Happy Fall!

[@maryzajac1136]

One thing that has helped me move along through grief after the sudden loss of my darling husband 6 years ago is walking in nature. I am lucky enough to live in a suburb that has a green belt with flowing creeks (in winter), a dam with assorted water fowl and ducks, an agistment property with horses and neighbours with chickens that give a farm like touch! Whenever I'm feeling life is stressed or I am overwhelmed I drag myself out for a "stroll". Over the years the people I meet on these walks have become friends of a sort - tho we don't know each other by name, we smile and call out good morning, hello, how're you going today... and I feel a connection. It has truly helped and I hope this will help others out there living on their own, feeling isolated and disconnected. Thanks for another inciteful and thought filled sharing with us this week Susan... love and hugs to you and Desi 💞💞

[@janieb6236]

I don't know the area you live in...but it's been my dream. I don't have anything close to that. At almost 80, I'd move in a heartbeat and not look back. Your blessed. Thanks for sharing, It gave me hope for going on another day.

[@622barmacost]

The one thing I did in my past that was good was putting up bail for my niece. She was going through a lot of bad times - divorced, broke,single parent - and she got into trouble. Her boyfriend called us one night and said he could only put up half of her bail so I said we would put up the other half. I don’t think my husband was totally on board but I was determined. Now she is happily married, is a great Mother, and has a wonderful successful job. I am so glad I was able to help her get here and that gives me so much joy to see how she is thriving.

[@EdelweisSusie]

I became an elder orphan many years ago and went down the vortex of depression: yes, I carried on with my career and got on with my life but the grief of losing my family (and being abandoned by my ex totally out of the blue, never to hear from him again) totally destroyed me - UNTIL I watched a David Goggins video entitled 'Do It Alone'. He said to stop depending on or expecting other people to help you through life - DO IT ALONE. And that outlook totally changed how I view the world and now life is bearable, at least.

[@patatkinson826]

You are my Saturday Night Treat! Thanks for all the love and care you put into our weekly get togethers!! ❤️ folks are stuck, this former teacher suggests learning something new...back to school was never so easy and FREE! There are hundreds of thousands of free courses from you local YWCA to Harvard and Stanford and any place in between! I do miss the excitement of Fall and leaves, turning to hope with new knowledge and the possibilities that brings! Exploring my world inside and out, even driving a different route to a familiar place can be fun at any age! It always has been for me. Cleaning out a drawer, making a loaf of pumpkin bread to have with tea....inviting a friend over to share. Wonderful stuff. 😊

[@MandyJudge]

Thats interesting I will take a look, I think joining groups is a good thing to do

[@rebeccaaguilar8127]

She’s mine too

[@lesliemartin670]

Same here!

[@susanl.5226]

Hi! Your post reminded me of my mother-in-law. She taught swimming at the Y to children and to Seniors until she was 80. She also taught yoga (her own style, lol, not strict yoga) and weight lifting to the mentally challenged. She also substituted and read to the elementary children once a week. She THRIVED doing all these things. A true lesson in life & role model. She did most of these into her 80s, and was called home at 94.

[@lindamyers953]

What a beautiful life fully lived🤗💜

[@barbaradykema3441]

A few years ago I bought a used flute and started playing in a small group at church. Then I took a big jump and joined a start up community band. It was a dream I've had for awhile and this opportunity will really stretch me. I'm so thankful!

[@benj4693]

My husband and I have had a terrible health year. Some of the issues are extremely serious. Through it all, I get up every morning and I feel grateful and blessed to have the life that I have. Two doctors told my husband how truly lucky he is to be here with his full mind and body working. I am extremely thankful and I wake up every morning knowing that. 🥰

[@glorialush9598]

I was feeling down and had a long talk with a friend today. It was good just to tell her what is going on with me. She also shared about herself. The conversation was so good that we lost track of time. And I felt so much better afterward. 🐿️

[@dianabrown833]

I dried my blue hydrangea blossoms and used them on my Christmas tree. They looked so beautiful.

[@catherinekostecki5740]

Susan, thank you so much for coming into my home every Saturday night. You are my weekly free therapist. You are so lovely and you say all the right things.❤

[@Silver_Fox_BT]

My husband and I have been married for 43 years, have 3 grown sons and have 12 grandchildren. What I find comforting is the love we share with our family and with our beloved pets. We enjoy our walks at parks taking in nature and wildlife . Simply smiling at people is often reciprocated, a reminder that we matter and that kindness shared is kindness multiplied.

[@sarafurr1]

I am a testament that you can move forward, loving life again. I was a widow for 5 years thinking this was my forever life. I put my faith in God that He would protect & guide me. I was blessed to meet a Christian man who was trusting God for the same thing. We’re now married and we thank God for every single day we have together. Susan, thank you for this beautiful and positive message tonight! And by the way, I LOVE the dress you’re wearing. So beautiful!❤

[@LittlePoet]

Oh congratulations!!!! LOVE!!!

[@lillianelliott1868]

Sometimes we always feel sorry for ourselves until we hear about someone else today I heard a story about a man being killed. He had left his three children and his wife was pregnant so I’m hoping and praying that everybody that reads us will pray for her. I do not know her name, but God does, and the people that are reading this that is having heartache someone reach out and pray for them.

[@carolseven3802]

Children get so excited over decorations. I still decorate for all of the holidays and I’m grateful for the little ones who visit.

[@gailjones9461]

I love how cozy warm and comfortable you have decorated your home. Desi is the cherry on top of the cake such a cute sweet boy.

[@susanne4028]

Just watching you sitting and talking in your beautiful dress with all these autumnal decorations around you just makes me happy and content. Thank you.🧡🤎🧡🤎

[@heidibee501]

The big changes in our lives are not always up to us. Toward the end of WWII my parents were living in a little German town in Romania. Soldiers from the German army came and called the men into the Town Hall. They stood around the edge of the room and asked for volunteers. They had rifles. Everyone volunteered. That night my parents said good-bye and he left. The next day she and her two sisters (and their children) packed everything they could in a wagon and left because the Russians were coming. They left their homes and vineyards, and my mom left her store too. They went through Austria. People tried to be generous but food was scarce and my mom realized she was pregnant (with me). A couple of years after the war my mom and dad found each other and he realized he had a second daughter...me. My mom went from being a big woman to a very slim one in nine months.

[@sabinekoch3448]

❤

[@LittlePoet]

oh this made me cry....I am so glad your mama and Father reunited!!!

[@salinak1497]

"The sun is alone too, but it still shines." I read that recently and it made me smile. 🌞

[@LittlePoet]

so sweet!!! I think Mr. Sun hangs out with Mrs. Moon!!!

[@shirleyannmcwhirt-ireton3216]

Just wanted to say after raising my daughter, son (now in their 50's) and then my four grandchildren now all in their twenties, all live far away now. And after being an early childhood educator for thirty plus years, the worst feeling isn't being lonely.....it's being forgotten! That seems to be where I am now. Some days, my heart just hurts.

[@theferalleo]

I think of the series of life events now as tiny moments of gifts. Some good some bad but either way, a gift. I'm a Reiki Master now and grew up as a Christian I'm blessed to have both of these precepts in my life because I can focus on the present, the only thing we really have and be grateful❤ I love you all if nobody has told you!!❤❤ Thanks for everything Susan

[@CarmenRodriguez-vx1km]

Desi looks very handsome in his Halloween sweater 🧡 Your flowers are beautiful ❣️. I like your flame less candles , the orange color looks beautiful 🤩. As I have gotten older my favorite season has become Autumn 🍂 it used to be Summer.

[@dinbx917]

How lovely and brave it is to say, "Let's start over" ! Sue, you have taught me that anything is possible in human relationships. (Although I still keep a distance from my ex-husband). I think of the video you made in which you found Bill, ill in a care facility, and you would visit him there. Even after all the hurt you had with him. Makes me wonder if I would have the strength to do the same one day. . . . Anyway, I am going to forward this video to my elderly aunt who can listen, not really see anymore, as she has such a situation with my cousin. My mom passed this past summer, but I have no regrets. I miss her and am 'down' a bit and I am waiting for this to pass, hoping it will. As far as the potato salad, of course, there is more underneath: feeling valued/devalued; respected/disrespected; controlled/free: old scripts control so many of our interactions. Surely would be great to wipe off the slate, but looking inward and communicating past issues can be helpful and can sustain the reconnection.. . On a fun note: the clothes are wonderful. For the Christmas outfit: snowflake crystals or pearls and diamonds with the red blouse!! With matching earrings, of course. I have a few items that I wear on the holiday: a 16/18" strand of Swarovski crystals, cut in what they call 'emerald' cut- 3/4" x 1/2" single horizontal strand of about 8. Rhodite looks so much like white gold, which I love ( but can't afford). The crystals remind me of ice for the season. I have several sized of earrings to match, usually going much smaller not to overdo. Thank you for sharing your weight reduction journey as well, as I find it encouraging. Best to all in this community.And love to our Desi!!

[@AquaSue]

❤

[@dorislebronhernandez8877]

I will like to take this opportunity to thank you for sharing your thoughts and ways of handling life in general , Thank you so much, you can’t begin to realize how your words help heal pain and sorrow. I shouldn’t complain after i have read some of the comments that great women had posted, I pray they find peace in their hearts. I am writing from South America, but home for us is in Florida. Please continue guiding so we can find the light of peace , health and happiness. Many blessings to you and all…

[@melindajohnson8586]

Thank you… this I believe was intended for me today. I lost my 92 year old father. I have taken care of him for the last 5 years.( or we have taken care of each other….😉) Two days later I lost a friend and neighbor in a house fire. It has been and still is very sad. I was thinking about what I really want with the rest of my life…. I have a very hard time telling my sweet husband the things I really want and need, so I think that your advice on waiting until you are in a better frame of mind is spot on! However, you are so correct in that if I don’t tell him and go after what makes me happy it certainly can’t ever happen. I’m dealing with some depression right now and I know I have to give myself some time. I really appreciate your positive outlook. I am striving to do better in that area , so thank you!

[@sandytribotti5058]

Thank you. You wrote it for me. I am exactly the same accept my “husband” is my wife. Wishing us both the strength to make it through.

[@MaryEllenAfter60]

Good morning Susie. I don't think you realize how much joy you give me. I'm thrilled every time I see your beautiful home, yard, flowers, and Desi running around. I've been missing his yoga poses, lol. Also, I love how many people watch your beautiful videos. So I guess you could say your channel is a happy place for me. Love to you, and The Dez...Mimi

[@LittlePoet]

Oh gosh, I sure would love to talk to you soon!!! I am doind a vidoe on sharing credit and you were the first person I thought of..without KZbin I would not be in my little house and with you, I would not have KZbin...You are my rock and I am oh so greatful Mimi!!!! Much love always!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sues & Da Dez

[@glendacarpenter2767]

Fall is my favorite time of year, just breathe in the beauty and be thankful for being able to see it , and experience it, again for another year, it’s a precious gift for us 🍁🍂

[@Mphscat]

Such a great video today. Yes be grateful for everything every day. Thanks for being such a good friend to so many Susan.

[@paulahawkins3786]

This channel is one of my absolute favorites!

[@GailFeltman]

Desi is so handsome all ready for Fall! 🥰🥰

[@veronicwbrennan4002]

Susan, The squirrel s at the end that you filmed are beautiful, lovely red ones. They were nearly extinvt in the UK as the greys, bigger and stronger came in, took their food and habitat. But, as is the way the reds are now fighting back.

[@robintoler2885]

Love your flowers. Dean is a doll and he looked so precious in his outfit.

[@janiendial2762]

Thank you so very very much for all you share!!!! I feel so inspired when I watch your videos and often feel there is hope as we age. I am grateful that I found your wonderful channel and I just love Desi❤❤❤ thank you again Janien

[@claudiamendezporter3816]

Every morning I think of it if a new beginning to do the right thing, to love, to enjoy the little things and do a good job with my business. To me every day is a new opportunity to do it better than the one before and see it happen 😊

[@conniemurphyover70stillgla47]

HI never saw the fireplace decorated that way but I like it

[@lillianelliott1868]

I have really missed you. I don’t know how or what happened that you wasn’t on KZbin I just happened to see you on my TV on KZbin. That’s why I looked you up again on my phone. I was so happy. You bring me such joy I’m originally from Michigan I’m 77 years old, I’ve been through a divorce just like you. You’re a beautiful young lady Lord bless you.

[@jillbruce3624]

My first time here and I honestly don't know how I even got here. Devine intervention? I am a recent widow. Married 48 years to my best friend. You were so right when you mentioned going to bed at night and waking up each morning with that empty feeling and overwhelming grief. Learning that I cannot even change a lightbulb or get something off a shelf I cannot reach was scary. I am grateful for the time we had together and that eases my pain. I am going to watch your past videos.

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you so much for being here and sharing your life a little with me. I am so sorry for your loss. I was so scared at first living alone. I was married most of my life...I have grown in confidence. I have a small home here so I do not have a lot of pressure in taking care of a huge estate...but still sometimes a leaky pipe can make me feel those pangs of fear. But oh my, over the years you grow to love the solitude and the peace...and that helps you find passion to go out too...much love to you, Susan & Desi

[@ninaws1668]

Dear Susan, I don't know for how long I've been following your channel. I'm from The Netherlands and I love and enjoy to watch it from time to time. I hardly ever comment, but I just have to tell you how adorable Desi's orange outfit is 🧡!

[@margaretohara7250]

Great video Susan filled with wisdom. Hello precious Desi. You look so adorable in your Fall colors. Blessings.

[@Marilyn-np2xh]

Little Desi looks so smart and dapper in his orange sweater!! 🥰😘😊 I loved Andy Williams. Moon River anybody? 😁 Fall is my favorite season! Love ❤️ the crispness in the air and the beautiful colors.

[@yvonneb2327]

Yes Moon River was played for our Bridal Waltz 55 years ago , very nostalgic to hear of it again . Cheers !

[@lindamyers953]

I love anything Andy Williams sang, and still do! I will be playing his Christmas albums soon!🇺🇸🤗💜

[@srobs1216]

I look forward to your videos every week, and I feel a little sad when they are over till the next time. I always feel like we are two friends having a good chat. I love you and Desi bunches. ❤❤

[@marisac66]

This is such a beautiful video. I have had such a transforming 5 years of my life. The most valuable things that I have learned is to let go, know that I am strong in every way, be grateful for what I do have and the people that stand tall with me in life. To be able to forgive myself and practice self love. I am here for a reason and purpose. I am grateful. 🌺🙏🏼

[@PatriciaHeywood-o6c]

Patricia Heywood Another magical video. I look forward to hearing from you every Sunday here in the UK. Every Sunday I wake up with a little excitement that it’s Susan and Desi day. I’m grateful for every day I’m given now that I’m nearly 75. My family are all short lived and don’t reach 70 so every single new day with my amazing dogs is a blessing I’m so grateful for.

[@ronniehalfacre-tellerman5817]

I haven’t seen you pop up on my feed for weeks! I had to search for you! But I found you. This was a perfect episode for me to find this week. I am in the midst of several major life changes and I am struggling. Thank you for always inspiring me! ❤

[@invictus1961]

Wonderful, encouraging words......love your home and garden! Have a wonderful week.

[@AAAA-oh2dg]

What an absolutely lovely and soothing home, peaceful environment, and video. It is so pleasing and enjoyable to watch. Thank you!

[@LittlePoet]

It makes me so happy to hear that, thank you for watching!

[@Susanbolls]

@littlePoet Susan, you are an angel!! I am so broken from loss and you have given me hope. I look at your videos almost everyday to remind me of the beauty that is still around me! I've started back at my thrift marketing, getting out for walks in nature and the slow business of redecorating to make my home a cozy place full of things that bring me joy. You have inspired me to get out and back into life again after losing my partner and family. I have no words but grateful a higher power let me find you! ( and Desi!) Much Love! Susan 🙏♥️✨

[@LittlePoet]

I truly love you right back... There is so much to learn and love, to understand, accept and conquer...so many laughs and smiles waiting for us. September brings the bluest skies even though the wind begin to blow so cold. I am honored you are here...:0 xxooSusan & Desi

[@Susanbolls]

@@LittlePoet❤

[@carolkokx9638]

Your house is absolutely gorgeous

[@maureenhale4768]

Oh Susan what a lovely video, I moved back to England after living 14years in France my husband passed away 3 years ago so I had to pack and sell things out of the house and then sell it the only thing that I could afford is a bungalow that needs a lot of work doing to it the owner left it in a terrible mess at the moment I only have a recliner to sit on I have had plans drawn up for a kitchen extension which will take place in January it will replace a conservatory that is in a very poor state its hard to keep patience because I am having to save and I only have my pension coming in but like you say I will get there with my dreams 😊 take care and stay safe Susan

[@sabinekoch3448]

Such a project to handle alone - but your dream will happen, I’m sure! ❤Sending you the best wishes for daily successes - I have to move in a year’s time and MUST get all the paperwork in my house sorted ( teacher, you know…😊) … my husband died three years ago as well and there is some of his too.

[@jeanieturner5183]

That is such a sweet story about your granddaughter. Kids say and can do the cutest things. I do live alone but I know I am not alone because God says he will never leave you or forsake you. What a wonderful thing to be thankful for when you are facing hard times.

[@marymogckmishmashmary]

My motto is, if it is to be, it is up to me. It reminds me that I do have control and I can move forward.❣️

[@debrastewart6714]

Hello Susan and Desi, I found your channel! I just love it ,I lost my beautiful husband in March 2024 . We were married for 43 beautiful year , we had so many dreams to do , unfortunately cancer to him in 5 mths . It's been a terrible lose , I am making the best of my life without him now .I live alone I'm 68 yrs old , we have to be happy,I am very grateful for what I had definitely it was so wonderful. I have happy days ,and sad days ,but I love life it's beautiful. I agree to let things goe ,I have in the past ,just let it goe. Thankyou you are amazing and Desi ,I will keep watching your channel,it makes me calm ,and happy . X O ❤🥰🤗💖

[@LittlePoet]

Hello! I am so happy you found me and Desi!!!

[@sueprice4082]

Sending love, I lost my husband of 47 years, just one year ago. Sue UK xx

[@jackieo8693]

I love summer and I always feel a little sad in the fall. Thanks for sharing your ideas! I need to be more grateful!

[@rt3box6tx74]

Same. I can't wait for cooler fall weather, but the minute its here I begin dreading drab winter days and long winter nights. Wish I could hibernate like a bear.

[@janjones91]

My faith in God helps me make it through each day after loosing my beloved husband 7 years ago…Bless you and sweet Dez 🙏💐🙏

[@MsMarshall12]

Lost my husband in April and since then I've been doing things to push myself forward. I still work at 68, I have a home business. I'm learning new things, programs like canva. Yes I have my days of missing him, however, each day God give me, I know I still have a purpose for being alive, so I move forward. I try not to stress over things I can't change, what's the point, right? Dear friends around me, love from my family and my faith has made a huge difference too. I never had children my brother and 2 sisters are so close. Sorry so long, the advise I would give people who are going thru tough times, well we all do, it's just believe in yourself, trust in God and Jesus, keep faith that things will be better, and do something to help that along. The alternative of giving up should never be an option. Love you, and as always love seeing you and that sweet boy Desi

[@ShirleyHoward-c1q]

Your house is so cozy. Would you show more strolling downtown and thrift stores and shopping. Then shown us where in your house you put your treasures. It would be nice to see how you have decorated your home. I watch you every Saturday.

[@themermaidtree1144]

Boy, I really needed this pep talk about get started on something. I have been frozen for awhile. You got me going. Thank you! ❤

[@2cmrinhfx]

You are so sweet. Your decorating was lovely and the power thoughts were as well. I feel you are a gift to many others, your journey has led you here perhaps partly because it was what you needed, but more because others needed you. There is no other channel like yours. God works in mysterious ways. You are where you are supposed to be. And for that, we are all grateful.

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you so much! Happy Fall! You are so pretty!

[@susandestefano1820]

Fall is my favorite! Your blouse is beautiful!

[@karengresham1797]

Fall is my because the weather starts getting cooler here in Louisiana 😊

[@lauriekerze3461]

That tree was stunning. Thank you for that talk.

[@latada6018]

You are such a beautiful person 🥰… just as beautiful as this special season of autumn. Happy fall…🍂 🍁 ☀️ 🙏🏻♥️

[@donnawilson729]

Great video! That Dezy melts my heart everytime❤

[@claragaston4731]

Susan, thank you for sharing. Fall in your home. It feels warm and welcoming . Desi fall look was just Beautiful, and it makes me laugh . It was so cute .I love the fall seasonal and also change my home color from to sumer to fall .❤We have alot to look forward to 😊

[@JaniceBurnett-v2h]

I love your hammerc important to have pretty things that bring you joy. Your house is just beautiful and I so enjoy your videos. Stay strong!

[@GailFeltman]

Desi is so handsome all ready for Fall! 🥰🥰 You’re amazing! I never knew to do this with those flowers! What a wonderful idea! ❤️❤️

[@donnapike7826]

I am so sorry to hear about the terrible flooding of your basement. Very happy to hear that insurance will cover all of the costs to replace all of your things. Also good to hear you have your heaters but hopefully they will fix your boiler soon. You take care and have a good week. Donna, Calgary, AB.