House Tours: A Family of Five in a 650 Sq Ft Apartment in New York City

[@daphneg7048]

I absolutely love and admire this mom's creativity and resourcefulness. The lack of a private sleeping space for Mom & Dad is a no-go for me but I'm learning that people prioritize in different ways. She seems to derive so much joy from the space she's created and that is something I always like to see. Blessings to this little family.

[@ericaroberts772]

Her husband sleeps on the floor of the preschool at this point. It's a beautiful space, but Id take that alcove space for my own room :)

[@MothGirl007]

@@ericaroberts772 Exactly. The apartment is not balanced at all - it's all about the kids and virtually nothing for the parents, especially the husband. It's very bizarre, imho.

[@thevintagevixen268]

@@MothGirl007 Bizarre is right. But the mom is also looking to be a Tik Tok star so I am guessing all this was not just to help her kids. It is for her "fame" as well.

[@nofurtherwest3474]

@@ericaroberts772 Yeah. The kids get half the living room to play AND the entire alcove. And the dad sleeps on an air mattress? Something doesn't add up

[@seaspeaktome9167]

@@MothGirl007 I agree.. I thought I missed seeing the parents bedroom. Wouldn't work for me. But I've never lived in a small apartment with three kids so, who knows.

[@dellamonk6792]

I agree that her ideas are creative and that designating lots of room for the kids is good and healthy. But there's just not enough private sleeping space for the parents in my opinion. I think the parents should use the climbing wall room as theirs. There's plenty other play space for their kids.

[@InaEspere1234]

I agree! It's very lovely but I think it's unsustainable long term... Likewise, the couple's bedroom in the alcove seem more appealing to me. I would also transform the playroom into a living room, and the existing living into the kid's space, while squeezing in the dining table. Keeping the Murphy Bed for friends and family only.

[@dellamonk6792]

@@InaEspere1234 good ideas!

[@denverdubois5835]

I totally agree. I'd put their bedroom in the alcove--leaving the nice aerial hammock which she seems to love--and have the foyer space as the climbing play area/guest room with the murphy bed. Perhaps ultimately more of a room for the oldest child, who may not want to sleep with the twins forever. Or her office if said oldest child wants the "cloffice" for a bedroom, say.

[@Wandering.Homebody]

​@@denverdubois5835 i don't think the cloffice would fit even a narrow single bed tbh

[@lre280]

@@InaEspere1234 it doesnt have to work long term. Based on what she's done here, I imagine she will have new ideas on how to repurpose/update things as the kids get older. but for now, with 3 kids under 1st grade, this probably works wonders for them.

[@LisaIsabelle]

That's her kids' apartment and she's living in it! 😁

[@marydumois4242]

And THAT is awesome, good for her!!

[@SN-sz7kw]

Actually my house was much the same when mine were small. For someone who had a rather joyless childhood, it was a blast. It goes so quickly, no shame in enjoying it. Families with large homes often have the same amount of space dedicated to kids - it’s just hidden away.

[@marydumois4242]

@@SN-sz7kw amen!!

[@sevenhndrx]

lmaoooooooo 😂😂😂😂

[@dampam4273]

agreed

[@heidibee501]

Are these children even remotely aware how lucky they are? This woman is supermom and beyond creative about their lifestyle. Their home is a fun place for EVERYONE. Well done!!!

[@l.a.3479]

I'm sure it's fun for the kids, but not necessarily for the adults.

[@sylviacarlson3561]

@@l.a.3479 I agree. It seems the home is basically for the kids. I lived in a condo that was 740 SF....this is even smaller. That's really small for 5 people. As the kids get older, this is not going to work, but if they're happy, so be it.

[@ch1ckmom217]

I bet it's not fun for the husband who has to sleep most days on an air mattress.

[@juderogers7946]

An 80 yo gal (on Lincoln's BD) & a retired night nurse, I am living in a very very nice adult retirement community. My LR has 2 non matching camelback sofas. My sleeping space is one of them. The pillow & down get put away daily. FYI There is an office & a bedroom and 2 full baths. My only problem is not knowing how to add a photo to my reply ; )

[@ch1ckmom217]

@@juderogers7946 Yes, but it's just you, I could never send my husband to sleep every single day on an air mattress, when there's clearly a room that could accommodate them both at least in a nice queen bed.

[@JC-zy5gg]

I admire that she love her kids so much that she’s giving up basically the whole apartment to accommodate them…but is it really necessary for them to have playrooms in every room?!!!

[@wildnkarafree]

I was thinking the same, but I guess it's NYC and with long winters, and no yard to go out in, there is a great deal of space for the kids to be kids!

[@moniquewrites9046]

@@wildnkarafreegreat point

[@grouchostarx531]

@@wildnkarafreethey live in NYC. They can play outside, not to mention the plentiful number of parks. There are plenty of things to do outdoors in winter, but even if they want to stay inside, the kids don’t need an entire room for climbing and such. I have three kids myself and never at any point would I desire for them to have so many toys and junk that I have to label zipper bags for each type or bins for each Lego part. The amount of toys in that space is ridiculous and shows a lack of consideration toward her husband, even a lack of consideration for herself. I bet he’s the primary breadwinner, which makes the way she’s done the apartment downright shameful. The dad has no space just for him, and can’t even sleep on a real mattress?! Shameful.

[@wildnkarafree]

@@grouchostarx531 well I certainly understand your sentiment and your observations. No Thanks though to needing to get to a park each day, when I have a huge yard to play in surrounding my house... I"d never live in NYC...just saying.. that alone is not for me. But, I'm more like you however, wanting my kids to get outdoors, and not needing to make a preschool out of my entire house. Maybe the husband doesn't mind, lots of father's in other parts of the world and NYC have it much worse. It's a matter of perspective. Maybe the Dad should speak up if he doesn't like it eh?

[@theresegbat309]

I don't get it? Adults need a private place as well, it's totally a kids apartment an overload of unnecessary kid stuff.

[@jennifermarquez4823]

I must be the odd one out because I thought this was a very strange apartment. She works in a literal 2x2 closet but they dedicate two full rooms to playspace AND the kids get their own room (which is LOVELY) but the parents sleep in a murphy bed in the hall and an air mattress? what? and half of the kitchen is a play space.. you could easily take away half the play areas in the apartment and give those back to the adults/family to use and it would still be a great place for children to live.

[@gatorgirl511]

Yes! They live in NYC, the kids can play and learn at numerous museums and parks. Her definition of a home at the end doesn’t match up with what she created. Her definition should be “home is where I have highly organized neutral-toned play spaces for my children”.

[@JessieBanana]

Have you lived with young kids? Having that much enrichment and play inside the home will keep the busy and engaged and actually make it easier to relax. You don’t need a ton of space from kids if they’re not driving you up the wall.

[@jennifermarquez4823]

@@JessieBanana yes I have three, and I think that there should be a balance between the adult/kid spaces in a living area that small. My kids had a huge playroom area in our basement and their own rooms. In a teeny space like that to give up that much square footage for that rock climbing wall is not something I would do -- but I did have all girls, so maybe that is why?

[@ashleym4084]

Agree 100%

[@anniemybaby29]

You’re not odd. The whole setup is weird. And I love kids!

[@AnnSarasvati]

I think that it’s interesting that the kids have effectively 3 rooms and the parents have a small part of the living room and the entry way for their space. Even the entry way has a whole Lego area. Guess I’m old fashioned. The parents should have some space that is dedicated for them alone. 😮

[@christinefraina8508]

Good for you. I agree completely. I can't imagine that set-up is sustainable. I wonder if the husband wanted to stay in NY so he didn't have a big commute and this was his "compromise" for his stay-at-home -mom wife. After all, a 650 sq ft place in NYC probably goes for over $6,000 per month. They could get so much more if they went to Westchester, NJ or CT. Well, maybe a year of sleeping on that air mattress in the foyer will bring him around.

[@rachelmaddowswife8713]

@@christinefraina8508 I live in a $1,780 a month 650 square foot apartment. Maybe they've got a sweet deal like me and they're pocketing most of their paycheck to purchase a home soon. At least I hope that's the plan, those three kids aren't going to fit into one room as teens. Knowing this mom she'd probably give one kid the bedroom, one kid the alcove, one kid the murphy bed in the entry way, and she and husband sleep in hammocks over the bathtub 😂😂

[@obelus5985]

I'd be outta there. You can buy acreage for that kind of money.

[@thevintagevixen268]

@kriyayoga98 If it is old fashioned to give your kids boundaries and teach them the whole world (or the whole apt) does not evolve around them, then I guess I am, too. And I make no apology for that.

[@thevintagevixen268]

@@christinefraina8508 Always nice to hear from the man hating crowd. Maybe he is a freaking pu**y who lets his wife walk all over him & he is stupid enough to take it. You have no idea what is going on here but as long as you feel triggered, good for you. SMDH!!!

[@kjw2977]

What a wonderful play space for 3 children, though I'll confess to being a little alarmed at how the adults are erased. Tiny stools for eating meals? A bed so small that the husband is forced onto the floor? If that works for them, mazel tov...

[@CarolineBell-t2h]

Weaning tables are common in Montessori Schools because they foster more independence/autonomy at meal times than highchairs and are multi-purpose. If they only have room for one table, this makes sense to me. I'd rather sit on the ground at every meal than have to strap my kid into a highchair every time he wanted to color/play at a table (which they're going to have to be able to do at school at some point anyway)--only to take him out five minutes later when he decides he's over it.

[@dannybryant3141]

Such a beautiful space. But I think it’s amazing and super kind of their kids to allow their parents to live with them and such a young age. And they even allowing them to use a blow up mattress just in case their murphy bed is too tight. 😂😂😂😂😂.

[@christinefraina8508]

After watching, my interpretation goes something like this - after twins are born, stay-at-home mom/wife wants to move to the 'burbs (Westchester, NJ or CT) for more space but hubby doesn't want to leave the city. So she renovates the apartment; eradicating all adult spaces, forcing him to sleep on an air mattress in the foyer every night. My guess? In less than a year, they'll be house hunting in New Rochelle.

[@stepheniedomingo9089]

😂

[@Molly-pu3dh]

They actually got divorced - she did an updated apartment tour last week

[@firstnamelastname4427]

@@Molly-pu3dh I'm not at all surprised that they got divorced. What married man wants to live like that?

[@krousaj]

This apartment is 99% playroom 1% grown up space. Lady, take back some space for yourself. The kids can play in the alcove or you can turn that into a bedroom. A twin Murphy bed and an air mattress is no place for a married couple.

[@91WriterzStatus]

This was so interesting. She's very creative and I could tell the main focus is the kids which is beautiful to see. I'm glad she got the marble table as a splurge for herself. Having little things for yourself is very important.

[@denisecarter5117]

Yes it is nice for the three kids but the parents have no room. Kids need to know they are important but they also need to know mom and dad come first to each other.

[@user-ik2rf1nw6f]

There are no chairs for her or her husband. They have those uncomfortable stools.

[@Stumpybear7640]

Perhaps kids have too much priority. There is no balance here.

[@vjhreeves]

Yeah, she got a table. I mean a table TOP. And not even any chairs. Tiny stools shoved to the side. She and her husband are literally afterthoughts in this apt.

[@spacebar9733]

​@@denisecarter5117 what a sad way of thinking.

[@karajones6792]

I’m impressed by the work done here but I can’t get over the Murphy bed. Why do the kids each get a bed and two play rooms when there isn’t even a bed for both parents? It’s a nice space but feels more like a preschool than a home. Kids don’t need all this. They need parents who are well rested.

[@tinalemna7998]

Yes! Thank you!

[@allthingsloveone4584]

Parents deserve space and the children learn to be respectful of themselves and others when they have Parents that teach them boundaries .

[@louisebrooks4044]

Yes, there is so much space for the kids. The parents squish into a bed, divide the living room with the kids, and dedicate a whole room to play. The mother squeezes into a closet office to get away. Even the kitchen is heavily shared space. The home is lovely and imaginative, but where is the peace and comfort for the parents?

[@angelnsoftpink]

Yes I was going to say the same, this family is all about the kids while the parents adjust to their kids, should be the opposite. I understand as a mom myself but parents whom pay all the bills should have more comfortably in their own home like a good sleeping place, dad sleeps on an air bed? That's bananas, surely they could of made the kids beds into Murphy beds in the play room and the parents have their space in the bedroom. I'm sure she could of figured out more functionality about her space in her apartment. But hey if it works for them thats all that matters.

[@ilsavankuren6511]

Wow, kids occupy most of the apt with “play areas” taking up just about every inch and the parents squeezed into a corner! I understand the parents want their children to be exposed all kinds of fun things, like climbing walls, play kitchens, crafts and every toy on the planet but maybe a good thing to teach is sharing space.

[@dianelaperdomo9847]

This mom is a rockstar. Love how she's made the space work for her and her family. The space feels very peaceful and homely.

[@rainbowl4745]

Can’t imagine it works for her husband. It’s all about obsession with the kids.

[@purselady7323]

I don’t see one thing peaceful about it

[@rogerscantland2385]

Sorry but this is a disaster. That’s what parks and outdoor spaces are for. Kids need to function in both kid friendly and adult spaces. It’s why we live in a society where we have all these kids who demand that everything revolve around them. It’s not always about the individual but about society and how everyone functions in that society. These kids will be psychotic as they grow up.

[@ACS402010]

Uh, no.

[@mk21718]

It's perfect for children. I cannot get behind the husband on an air mattress every night tho.

[@m15km]

yeah puzzled by that part. ensuring your couple gets zero intimacy and privacy = that's going to be an issue down the line, i guarantee it.

[@juliehuey480]

Really creative, kid devoted space! I am sure she’ll redesign as the kids get older. But I will be honest, even with three kids, I’d use the alcove as the adult bedroom and let NYC be their playground. I need a bit more of an adult devoted restful space. Still absolutely admire the ways this place transforms and her design aesthetic.

[@thoughts3897]

@@m15km Agree. That husband/wife relationship needs to be the priority in order for the whole family to be strong.

[@dianehardy2811]

Right!!! I was hoping someone else would comment on this because that is crazy. How uncomfortable and it’s only a matter of time before there are back issues.

[@jbdesign_ca]

Thank god someone mentioned it, sorry but Dad on an air mattress is a no go. I slept on an air mattress for one year when I first moved abroad as an intern, worst year of my life and my back has never been the same since. An aesthetically beautiful apartment but functionally not as balanced as it could be.

[@liszaf3976]

Wow, lucky kids, do they really need soooooo many toys, apartment, although beautifully organised, feels like a toy store!! My kids grew up in Greece, they all had toys but emphasis was put on arts and crafts and as much outdoor exercise and play as possible. I can't believe mum and dad have resorted to sleeping in a single bed and even a blow up bed 🤣I think this taking prioritising your kids to a new level!!

[@rjerdmann]

They sleep in a twin bed in the entryway to the children's excessive play house. So sweet.

[@Rose-nw7px]

sad beige playroom with "rainbow" blocks

[@katibarrett8779]

I'm impressed with her use of space. I am also really happy that I do not share space with kids, and this was a nice reminder.

[@rmonson5002]

Ha! Same. I cannot.

[@watchDominionMovie]

Right. People need to stop reproducing and adopt one of the millions that go into the system every year

[@ColtraneAndRain]

Yes. Same. When the grand kids come over it's bittersweet to see them go, lol.😅

[@R88925]

Same

[@lenoreleitch5297]

Amen, sistah.

[@tally5590]

It’s so sweet to see how excited she is about every little detail - the design is SO thoughtful and intentional!

[@vanessaadams1452]

I understand children need stimulation but I don't believe they should have full control of your home. You and your husband need space also. All love❤

[@gennisparry4352]

They been there, done that ! They can rough it out, so their children can be comfortable. What great parents!

[@007Julie]

@@gennisparry4352marriage should always come first, yes they’re amazing parents but if the marriage goes south everything will crumble.

[@AnaLucia-wy2ii]

This is NYC. Space is limited.

[@AnaLucia-wy2ii]

@@007JulieWhy are you making assumptions about their marriage?

[@ljlou5746]

This mother has a most remarkable organizational and design talent. I gasped when I saw the expansive kids' bedroom after viewing the twin size Murphy bed in the foyer as the parent's space. That is truly concerning for obvious reasons. All the very best to this couple for longevity and connectedness in the marriage. I hope you prove us all wrong.

[@gabriellejones6451]

Wow! 2 things she said that resonated with me! 1) the pressure to find a solution generated this creativity in me . 2) home is a place that support all the emotions we carry at any given time through out our life’s journey. It’s a place inclusive of pieces that can support all of your emotions and experiences. I paraphrased a bit but wow! I’ve never heard anyone say that. As I’m in the process of moving, this video really helped me today . Thank you for posting !

[@teninterrell]

You can feel her excitement about her space and that is inspiring. As parents of 3 rambunctious littles, hubby and I would never choose to not have our own private space lol. Even so, what she's done with the alcove and climbing centers is amazing!

[@mezanian]

Mom has her cupboard/office. Notice it locks from the inside.

[@grouchostarx531]

She’s excited because she’s oblivious. Three kids don’t need to have a play area in nearly every part of the house.

[@sophiahockman5844]

So bizarre that they would have a tiny bed and air mattress for a young married couple. Take down the playroom and create a master bedroom. Kids don't need all that stuff. They already have a bedroom with lots of toys and art supplies.

[@rmonson5002]

I agree. This home was very well organized but it looks like a preschool IMHO.

[@alib5345]

This looks great but it looks like a Montessori School.. the parents seem to not really have a space for themselves nor for intimacy if they wanted.Maybe an 800 SQ if they still wanted to keep it small. When those kids hit 5 and above 😳

[@mizkcreations]

I agree with this x2000

[@lindagarrido4353]

I could never live like this, and I grew up in NYC. Adults and children need separate spaces.

[@Sunflowers9191]

Even though I love the apartment the way it is now, that is what I would have done as well. I think as a couple you really need your own private bedroom away from the kids, having to sleep on an air mattress in my own home wouldn’t do it for me 😅

[@Cactina]

I didn't get it- so she's given up the alcove and bedroom (and the better half of the living room) to her kids and she and her husband sleep on the murphy bed near the entrance?

[@genesisgaray6915]

Feels like she is trying to overcompensate for something

[@user-yb6tk1ru6x]

Yeah... She comes off a bit intense 😨

[@OldLadyReacts]

Yeah, 50% of this video is about her kid's toys and how she stores them. And more than 50% of the space is for the kids play areas? Very strange.

[@user-yb6tk1ru6x]

@@OldLadyReacts And most of the comments here are about how she's a Saint and a genius and amazing... 🤨. The whole thing raises if not a red flag maybe an amber one.

[@1luckydeva]

As long as they’re happy, but this gives me a lot of anxiety. I’m super curious how the tour would go if just the husband gave the tour. It looks like he has an air mattress and a bathroom he can crawl through a wall to get to.

[@katrish786]

This is the most amazing use of space that I've ever seen. Here I am with 1,052 SF condo with no kids at home & thinking I don't have enough space & they have less & have made it seem like twice as much & so much fun

[@TheVictoriaBoland]

They’re very happy with setup and she’s super talented- no way my kids are having their own bedroom and my husband on a twin air mattress outside the foyer but to each his own. She maybe could put a sliding door on alcove and go with the Japanese style with her kids on futons in there for sleep. Or at least a high end convertible sleeper sofa in the living room area for her and her husband. I feel for her husband’s back.

[@doonyfam8431]

She's very creative with what she's done here but a little insane for dedicating way too much space to the children. I feel sorry for the husband who has to sleep like a dog on the floor. 😢 I could never...

[@patricelockertanthony7630]

Do you think the woman designed the space without speaking to her husband? That he had no say in anything. He's just a "victim" of her planning and desires...? LOL. I would design differently because I believe that couples need private space (for sex if no other reason), but I don't think anyone here requires pity...seriously.

[@Ask571986]

@@patricelockertanthony7630 it’s a shame that 5 people have to live in a 659sqft space. And this person’s comment is rhetorical…you’re overthinking it. Calm tf down.

[@TheLadygrl]

@@Ask571986maybe take your own advice and ease up on the unnecessary aggression.

[@janaajones]

@user-wh5ir4fo4rmy guess is that he would want to more often than not, rather than having two adults sharing a twin bed.

[@flowerpower3618]

They don’t have a backyard. So they need space to move. She has two boys.

[@amberbiggs]

You could see how much she loves her kids. This was a wonderfully creative space. I do think she should reclaim some space for her and her husband. She works in a small closet and sleeps on an air mattress on the floor. I wonder how the husband feels about this as well. She seems like a wonderful woman, I just hope she is giving herself and her husband the space they need too.

[@graceaxisa4213]

This whole set up reminds me of kindergartens here in Australia, where the teachers decide what will come out each day and rotate the activities/equipment. It's a beautiful, light filled space. I will rock the boat here and say that it's a shame that so MUCH of the space is dedicated to the children. I absolutely think they are important (I am an educator myself 😅) but the balance between adult living and children play zones are somewhat off.

[@kjw2977]

Agree completely. While kids must be loved, and encouraged to flourish, they should not feel that their parents have no needs or lives of their own.

[@christinefraina8508]

I agree 100%. That arrangement is not sustainable for the sanity of the parents. And, honestly, most of those things she set up for the kids (like the hammock, swing and climbing wall) will not get used nearly as much as a nice queen size bed for mommy and daddy would.

[@angorachic]

I agree with you. This would be great for a preschool but not for a home with a married couple present.

[@angorachic]

@@aIysssa I don’t think the OP has mommy issues for making this comment. Her children are young, but they are past the infant stage. I have three boys and a husband and my life is devoted to the four of them, not just the three kids. My husband and I have a wonderful relationship and we put our relationship first. Together we devote ourselves to our children. They are much older than this now (my youngest is sixteen), and I have no regrets for prioritizing things the way I did.

[@doonyfam8431]

Totally agree! Kids are important, but so is the marriage I think. The poor hubby sleeping on the floor.

[@spfisterer3651]

the style is impressive, the apartment beautiful. But I am pretty sure the murphy bed (even one that is for 2 adults) would have fit brilliantly into the play room. Seriously, why are they sleeping in the entryway while at the same time (at night) the play room is empty ? That makes no sense. Switch it up girl. Also it didn't sound as if any space in the apartment is done with her husband in mind. Where is his stuff, his interests, ANYTHING that is his besides an air mattress....

[@Molly-pu3dh]

They actually got divorced - she did an updated apartment tour last week

[@kathydangelo365]

This is an amazing space for the kids but I would love to see mom & dad reclaim some private space for themselves. The amount of resourcefulness, organization & creativity that went into making this small space a home is astonishing to me and encourages me to lean into customizing my own space, which I've lived in for a similar amount of time. I've always said that first world peoples spend more money on organizational items to house their stuff than third world people spend on the stuff itself and this apartment is the poster child for that concept but it's so inspiring that you can't not love it. Great job transforming this small apartment into a living, breathing environment!

[@denverdubois5835]

That's a very interesting thought. I love this woman as a parent. She's clearly an amazing, creative, encouraging and loving mom. BUT, I grew up poor and just never had that many toys...and I didn't need them, is the point. I do love that most of their toys seem to be creative and educational in nature, but fact is, the biggest and best toy any kid ever has--or needs--is their imagination.

[@MothGirl007]

It's sad to me that she and her husband don't have their own space and that Murphy bed looks much too small for two people, so her husband must sleep on the air mattress a lot of the time. That doesn't seem healthy to me at all. 😔

[@les0101s]

@@MothGirl007 When they have kids that age, parents don't have their own private space. Your kids are around all the time when they aren't sleeping and you need to keep an eye on them. Many people have kids sleeping with them every night. It's obvious their children are the most important thing to them at this stage of their lives and bringing them joy. Looking back, I wish I had spent more quality time with my son when he was that age.

[@mariaecheverria8747]

Third world people ??? Wow !

[@SavaDaFlava]

@@mariaecheverria8747yeah I find it crazy that people are still using that phrase

[@Faith4ever70]

She’s very creative and the dedication of so much space to their children is admirable. Moms always try to make the best for their children regardless of their circumstances.❤

[@182atenasb]

Beautiful space and clearly focus on the kids. But it’s odd to not make room for her and the husband.eliminate the alcove and make it your own private much needed bedroom. That area can be recreated else where.

[@Lilyofthevalleygardens]

The kids get two play areas and a private bedroom. Wife gets a bed in the hallway and the husband sleeps on the floor. Wow.

[@gennisparry4352]

What’s wrong with that? A lot of people can learn from this situation.

[@kitty-kattkline9956]

Don't forget her closet office.

[@carla5830]

And the wife has to hide in a dark tiny closet for solitude and peace! This won't last very long before one of the adults blows!

[@MM-yh2mi]

Love the creative use of space when raising 3 littles during a pandemic when life was so different. It seems they can adjust the space to meet their needs and will probably continue to evolve it over time.

[@sarslazars]

I love seeing these ideas and how much thought went into making this space awesome. AND it stresses me out to imagine most of the space being devoted to kids with no sense of privacy for the adults. Personally, I couldn't do it.

[@tinalemna7998]

When she mentioned the air mattress i thought this isn’t good. The entire apartment is set up for the kids.

[@denverdubois5835]

@@tinalemna7998 Yeah, she's probably thinking, "it's okay, they'll grow up so quickly and then we'll have the whole place to ourselves again...we should savor these all-too-brief years of childhood." I agree in theory, but a bit more balance is required. Counting on your partner to always be there is reasonable, but you need to put the love and effort into your relationship too in order to ensure that rosy future together actually comes true. Privacy is essential to the health of any relationship--yes, even privacy from the beloved children.

[@rachelmaddowswife8713]

@@denverdubois5835 But those three kids aren't going to fit into the bedroom for much longer. Even if they wanted to cram them in there with a bunk bed on one side, the third bed would block access to the bathroom. Plus, isn't one of the twins a girl? They can't stay co-ed through their teenaged years. They've gotta move out soon. Hopefully they're just doing this while they save big bucks to purchase a three bedroom somewhere in the burbs. Maybe dad's okay on the air mattress because he knows they're leaving in 10 months.

[@les0101s]

She said they'd been in the apartment for 15 years, so maybe she and her husband had a lot of lone time before they started having kids.

[@rachelmaddowswife8713]

@@les0101s I don't think most marriages will stay strong if your plan is to permanently stop having sex and even private conversations as soon as you have kids. They need to keep their romantic relationship strong to sustain the marriage, which will benefit the kids. Kids need to see a model of what a fulfilling adult relationship looks like. Do you think they'll want to get married if they see how unhappy and resentful their parents are?

[@MsBritishwoman]

This woman needs to make a " business " out of how ingenious she made a small liveable area with 3 kids; now a luxury space to live, adapt, and grow!

[@agravery223]

Notice how the entire family was not filmed in the space... because it's a tight fit and 3 boys are going to want more privacy as the get to preteern years. I would have loved to see the entire family utilizing that space together because I'm going to say that it will most likely be cramped and not that clean... esp with 3 boys. I do like her creativity thought so if her goal was to advertise her skill at organizing small spaces to maximize use then A+

[@Not-px7vd]

@@agravery223 she doesn't have three boys. She has one boy.

[@l.a.3479]

​@@agravery223*preteen

[@kristabunnett4078]

Love love love this tiny space!!! Instead of thinking we need to move when their children came along she delved deep into what she truly needed for her family. Nicely done.

[@AM-ou1wt]

I just smile at all the incredible memories they are making as a family. There isn't a scrap of destructive pretentiousness here or "shoulds" that are just passive aggressive shaming in disguise. Love it and I smiled so much at their playful approach to life, family building and rearing children.

[@sabinaflapperina1300]

The whole place looks like a kids playroom. I get caring about your kids, but what about her marriage? Her own needs? I think this is more let's pretend we can pull this off even though we know we aren't comfortable.

[@AnaLucia-wy2ii]

Have you had twin toddlers? The most important thing is that they are happy and peaceful and sleep well. When they are as,eep, the rest of the apartment is for the couple. It’s only got a season and dun e they’ve lived there for 15 years, they’re most likely paying low rent for NYC and saving a ton of cash for their next place. I’m sure they get out of the city often on weekends and holidays. Most New Yorkers do.

[@Isabelle-009]

Omg those kids have taken over that apartment 😮

[@angel8princess5]

I love seeing how she keeps evolving her space over time. She does a wonderful job.

[@IslandGirl7215]

Love the apartment. Why not make that playroom the master bedroom? Just seems a shame to have you guys on a twin bed in the entry way

[@pkihu9910]

I agree , it's very odd to me they sleep in the hallway. I have to wonder how the husband feels

[@christinefraina8508]

@@pkihu9910 The minute I heard that the husband slept on an air mattress next to the actual bed (which is a twin), I wondered the exact same thing. I know it isn't fair to children to force them to live a city lifeststyle in a cramped apartment because that's what the parents want, but I also think she went too far in the other direction. 85% of the apartment was given over to the children.

[@pkihu9910]

@Christine Fraina Agree 💯 To me, it's about having a quality of life - for each member of the family, not just the children. Having play zones throughout the entire apartment doesn't represent a lesson in boundaries for the children. The dining space looked way too small to be comfortable I can't imagine the family living there once the children get a few years older and as teenagers.

[@AnaLucia-wy2ii]

Clearly they’re happier this way. Once the kids go to sleep, they can close the doors and the rest of the apartment is theirs.

[@RestorationRanchHealing]

What a great mom and amazing apartment ! To focus on children and their growth and development. This is an amazing space for a family!

[@linetterios]

Considering that they are only this small for such a small time in their lives, I think it's cool how she used the space. And hello, did anyone expect her to climb the wall and end up on the hammock? She is doing great and those kids are very lucky.

[@Sylstyle07]

how fun the parents are living in a cupboard when the kids have the entire appartment for themselves

[@gettingupiseverything9165]

😂😂😂😂 My thoughts exactly

[@Naturefan354]

I love when parents make that type of sacrifice ❤

[@maryd3779]

Too much of a sacrifice…

[@Naturefan354]

@Mary D When it comes to your children there is no such thing as "too much of a sacrifice".

[@maryd3779]

@@Naturefan354 no one’s asking anyone for a kidney….but this apt is big enough to give both space…,sleeping in a tight Murphy bed or inflated mattress …because they ridiculously want to add climbing crap seems stupid…no wonder she’s in the hammock half the time! Tell them Harry Potter has space under the stairs for them!

[@mizkcreations]

Just no. Yes. 3 kids. But adults should get more than 50sf of dedicated space. A marriage cannot thrive when this much attention is placed on the kids. They don't need the bells and whistles. Is it cool? Very. But as I see it the kids get 3 rooms, 2 of which are playrooms. Heartily disagree with teaching kids that the focus is really just them. Feel free to hate. DESIGN IS COOL. The lifestyle is questionable.

[@lindagarrido4353]

Totally agree!

[@anttoronto3202]

I agree. Stop buying all that junk and get a bigger apartment.

[@mizkcreations]

@@anttoronto3202 I don't agree with get a bigger apartment. That's impossible in NYC. But the kids don't need 3 of those rooms (and like 1/2 the kitchen).

[@thegreenquill1052]

You gotta wonder about the *control* she has going on. Can you imagine sorting Legos by category? Are her kids allowed to touch things? What if a lego gets play-dough on it? Does everything hit the fan?

[@oddanneout]

@@thegreenquill1052 BINGO!

[@pamelahowell2082]

This is a perfect example of how parents sacrifice for the comfort of our children. So very nicely done here.

[@francessavella7825]

As a teacher, I'm very impressed by the implementation of gross motor and play skill elements!

[@elena_a-2023]

Brilliant use of space. This mom has created a wonderful place for her children. I just love it!

[@johnnyboyvan]

Brilliant. 😊 It looks much bigger than 650. Well done. 🎉

[@doubledutchclutch]

I love how stylish and pragmatic her interior design is. I also love how she added monkey bars and rock pieces to allow everyone to stay active while still indoors. She probably love to moves around a lot and I hope that her children enjoy those features. It's not something I see everyday. I would have loved to hang out at this home when I was still a young girl. Too much fun, but still practical, neat at stylish for the adults. Total win.

[@jacquelinelun4049]

I am so impressed with her creativity and also she s incredibly organised as a home flooding with so much toys she keeps them organised and the house doesn't feel 650 sq feet. Thats how one lives big in a small space!!!

[@MsMizz1]

Just wow! I’m inspired. I watch studio and small apartment tours all the time bc I recently downsized and this may have been the most organized and functional I’ve seen. I can’t imagine sharing such a small space with my family but still she did amazing. She seems genuinely happy with it as well ❤

[@annettecarter9393]

Half of the kids' playroom with the climbing wall could easily be walled in to create the parents' bedroom. But, she did an amazing job using all of the space.

[@saaunique]

Exactly, make the alcove the parents room. What are they going to do when the kids are high school age?!

[@mona9008]

Yes!!! Their rooms are actually quite roomy for a NY apartment...

[@ConceptsInHealth]

So she’s literally made her kids the focus of the entire apartment--more power to her❤️🥰❤️ I am in awe. She must be the most playful and fun mom. You can tell she enjoys seeing her kids learn and play. I wonder if they homeschool-she seems so hands on. I must say, with all the play space she devoted to the kids, I don’t think I could have given up even more in the tiny kitchen for a kid’s kitchen set up as well😆

[@mac.8184]

Great for the kids but not not gonna work for teenagers or I should say happy teenagers. Given an air mattress on the floor to sleep on some men would eventually find a more comfortable place to sleep at night(when possible). Once they have kids, a lot of women would just as soon that the husband leave her and the kids alone. She might not have told him that verbally but she's definitely "telling" him this.

[@denverdubois5835]

Yeah, I couldn't do that and I don't think it's safe if you're trying to handle hot food etc. with a kid right behind you noodling around. There was room for that stuff in all their other play space--which in fact took up 75% of the apartment lol.

[@AnaLucia-wy2ii]

The twins are still toddlers.

[@ibhomer1017]

WOW!!!!! She has set the bar pretty darn high in the mom and organizational categories!! It's all about the kids!! Love that!

[@AR-gg2su]

Not having a proper size bed for the couple is definitely a no for me. It’s nicely done but it’s basically an apt for the kids. This will also not work when these kids go into their preteen and teen ages .

[@theshugashackpodcast2457]

She did an amazing job with the square footage but she lost me with her and her husbands bedroom in the hallway with that small Murphy bed. Why not have a larger Murphy bed in the living room instead of that expensive couch?

[@prudencefutongo321]

Perhaps to escape from noisy morning playtime. 😊

[@robyndismon394]

Why does the expense of the sofa matter?

[@theshugashackpodcast2457]

@@robyndismon394 she mentioned it was expensive so ask her.

[@madilynntoungate779]

The sleeping on a twin size bed as a married couple got me. Whatever works for them though!

[@182atenasb]

@@prudencefutongo321their bed is directly in front of the kids room , they would need to get up for the kids to go “play time in the morning” so there’s no escaping it

[@CK1000ism]

If it were me, I would put a glass panel in the upper portion of the closet door for the closet/office so it would feel like you got some natural light. That said, the level of organization and how thoughtfully she has used all the space, plus really made it a dream space for her kids is so commenable.

[@JB_Harry]

This is the very best use of space for a family I have ever seen in my entire life!!! Bravo for your "intentional " living space!!!

[@deborahmitchell8414]

How creative!! To find a way, in limited space, to have your children endlessly entertained! The use of every inch of space, this is genius!! 😍👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💕💕bravo mom!! 🥰🤩

[@rubipratt4045]

When I saw this family on Homeworthy a month ago, it was only her and her three kids. Based on this video on this channel, this was a year ago when she was married. What she did to her space was incredibly smart and functional and what works for them.

[@gretelh3144]

It is an amazing space! Love the fun play alcove for the kids. Mom really does make use of every little nook and cranny, especially wall space (even ceiling space!). To me it’s weird how much space is set aside for the kids and how little the parents have - not even a bed to fit the 2 of them. Seems like their life is all about the kids and I wonder if there’s anything leftover for the parent’s relationship. Could they have used the alcove for the parent’s sleeping area and condensed the kids’ spaces? Perhaps so much of the space was given to the kids because of being home bound during Covid.

[@MsMizz1]

This a much more thoughtful and considerate perspective compared to some of the more critical ones. Maybe their lives most center the kids and that’s why they chose to have them. Also perfectly content couples sleep separately and share intimacy at different times. They have the living room. They also can always make changes as it seems they have over the many years they’ve been there.

[@katl1489]

I would put a double murphy bed behind the couch or one that lays down on the couch for sure so they have their living room. But I love the activities for the kids, and her mom only office space lol.

[@corirodriquez2889]

This has got to be the most funniest house/apt EVER!!!!!! Especially for adults!!!!😂 I love your creative imaginations❤

[@michelewilliams2920]

This apartment is functional for the kids when they’re young. When they’re older they will definitely have to move.

[@Grace-jb7me]

Exactly. That’s all I was thinking about

[@ExLibris-Alys]

I think her husband is looking forward to that time 🤭

[@Prettynpink0121]

@@ExLibris-Alys😂😂😂😂

[@AM-ou1wt]

Or reconfigure it.

[@ritadyer9295]

They will definitely have no private time when the kids are older. Mine are 11 and 13 in a 1600 sf home and we don’t have any privacy!

[@janetmckenzie146]

Truly impressive use of storage, and very homey for such as small place! And who doesn’t want a swing in their apartment?

[@b.bernal6151]

My husband would never go for giving the kids so much space and him sleeping on an air mattress. I wouldn’t go for that either. Very creative and organized, but I couldn’t see myself living in such a small space with three kids.

[@renakwong2335]

Yes beautiful. Super mom..this is a kid house.. with soon much love. God bless you mommy & family❤

[@rmcnally3645]

So... The kids have basically the entire living room, THE KITCHEN, and their own bedroom, and a closet for their specific benefit?? No. No thank you. We had a 2 & 3 y/o during the pandemic, living in an apartment, and STILL kept our room to ourselves. (Honestly, I wish I'd thought of the swing, thats genius.) Homegirl HAS to be inventive because she's given up her entire house to the kids!

[@michellecd4722]

Can I come to play at your home? I'm going to be 54, would that be weird? LOL, But seriously, OMG a woman after my own heart. I never had kids (health reasons, etc.,) and am divorced but I create a fun play space for myself. I'd have aspired to become a Mom like this amazing woman Jenny. I adore this woman, so smart, creative, organized & practical & her values are so clearly displayed & she's given me much clarity overall for my own condo re-organization & re-decorating this summer/fall project I've just started. Such amazingly cool people on these episodes. Love!!

[@deh2775]

What a great mom. Organized, thoughtful, intentional. Lovely home that reflects who this family is and their priorities. Thanks for sharing your creative space!

[@Yellowsubmarie1]

I love it when people make their apartment fit like a glove. This place is absolute fabulous and amazing and seems to meet every need. I‘m inspired. Thanks a lot for sharing with us.

[@karis7649]

It’s very cool & very well thoght out but I’m not too sure why a double Murphy isn’t in the nook, it would be out of the way for rock climbing in the day and lots more private with less weird “entrance” energy at night

[@sevenwatson5854]

I love the colour scheme and thought that's gone into this apartment until it got to her husband on a spare mattress and her on the Murphy bed in the hallway. Husbands can quickly feel in the way, so I wouldn't have gone for that option. I'd have stuck a double bed into the end of the children's bedroom with them. When they're older maybe have three stacking bunk beds in the playroom and have the bedroom turned back into the main bedroom. When they start school their needs will change!

[@Cyril29a]

I am with you. I am even surprised that they admitted to that on camera. The husband sleeping on the floor is very odd. Why not just find a way to make a larger bed work in that space. I have a queen sized mattress in my office that can be used for guests. I have it folded up against the wall and I put up a curtain rod above it with a log thick curtain that goes to the floor. When I need the mattress I put it on the floor and when I don't I fold it against the wall and hide it behind the curtain. It works very well,

[@MHouston602]

I was SO into this apartment layout and all the kid development until she got to her husband on a spare mattress. I think a full size Murphy bed could’ve gone in the play area, or over the couch lounge piece? But crammed into the foyer and on the floor?! Yikes. Good luck to them. I love what she did in the rest of the space but I hope they find another option soon for the sake of the marriage.

[@Astar.youtube]

Exactly I thought that was quite sad they could have got a double Murphy bed in the kids play room

[@Cyril29a]

The husband on the air mattress is a great way to ensure they don't have to worry about needing more space for more kids.

[@rmonson5002]

@@Cyril29a haha! Exactly. If he doesn't like it, he can get in the hammock.

[@bigyardstyle00]

As someone who grew up and still live in NYC, these parents most likely also have a home upstate NY, where they go on the weekends and long holidays. The City Apt is probably because of the Husband’s job and the children’s expensive private school.

[@1mourningdove54]

This woman just may be the most organized person in the world! They actually have quite a bit of stuff, but it is all tucked away so well that you would never know it's there! Great job and lovely home.

[@barbarawillis5187]

Happy Place it is. Jenny is a great Mom (I sense it by the passion in her voice) and is aware of the needs of her children in their home. I love that she has given the home interesting decor with wallpaper and art. Leo the cat seems content. I love this.

[@nabeehahbrown4681]

I love her kitchen and how she prioritizes her children's needs, just a season

[@istarzgirl]

I recently moved into my first apartment at 600 sq ft and I've never really had my own room so this space feels massive for me. Props to your creativity for adapting 650 sq ft for your family.

[@jaelpenn8296]

I love all of the kid's things and spaces. It feels like a Montessori classroom, so engaging with lots of opportunities to create and explore! Your organization is impressive and the calming colors are inviting!

[@thatgirlPAIGE94]

No matter how upbeat and happy she sounds, I know she wants much much better. I am impressed how they’ve pulled this off tho 👍🏾

[@Chrissieb.rackett]

Damn this is so impressive. This mom is insanely organized and thoughtful. I can’t remember to move the elf on the shelf each night one month a year and she’s out here changing the water every day on her kids play sink???? This is a level of mom that I will never reach lol

[@DesertPepper]

Everything is so _perfectly_ organized.

[@ThrivingNotDying]

I really hope this apartment is rent controlled at a low price because that would make it even more worth it. She did a wonderful job keeping the space open and bright and still making room for everyone.

[@morganw2492]

​@@lanniklein6574 it says it's a rental. Honestly a lot of people here in NYC rent, and rent long term so it's worth it to paint and put up shelves

[@5FnX17]

Yeah i thought the same thing. The rent has to be “low” (by NYC standards) or rent controlled too. Otherwise, why invest so much energy into making a small apartment work for a growing family. She did good job at accomplishing what she wanted though. Im amazed at the amount of stuff in there while still maintaining an airy feeling.

[@Vinnie-cv5qv]

Rent contol ended in 1971 in NYC. The only way she is rent controlled is if she lived in the apartment with a relative before the relative died and she took over the apartment through rights of succession. I think you confused rent control with rent stabalized apartments, then you have a one or two year lease and the rent goes up by a set percentage. It is amazing that the ceilings hold up all that weight. My guess it is not a historic building with plastered ceilings. She really loves this apartment and has made it work for her and her family. She is very thoughtful to make the apartment all about the kids.

[@vjhreeves]

Room for everyone? There is literally a miniscule of space set aside for the parents. It's alarming.

[@floralhandshake6376]

It's a nice use of space for the kids but I wonder about her poor husband. There's no space for him.

[@tanyahermann3431]

Nicely done. I think they could make the space that has the climbing wall into the parents bedroom and still have plenty of space for the kids to enjoy. It would give them nice light and some better privacy, and bigger bed. Doing that would still leave so much area for the kids, as they have great spaces all over the apartment currently.

[@donnadixon289]

I really admire the awesome creativity and beauty of this bright apartment but I’m not sure it’s healthy for the whole place to belong to the kids without there being any nook the parents can call their own.

[@morticiagomez6166]

Wow!!!!! Excellent Home and Family!! You guys have created a STIMULATING and FUN home for your children! If only every parent in this world was as thoughtful and considerate as you guys are towards your children, what a Better World we would have!

[@meekyw.4010]

Definitely parents that put their kids first. Throughout the entire place it's kids, kids, kids! Even down to their own bed! Living in New York looks interesting🤔

[@angorachic]

In my opinion it is focused too much on the kids.

[@rmonson5002]

@@angorachic agreed.

[@basilrose]

I love how casual she is about her spouse has his own space on an air mattress -lol

[@Echolyris212]

So basically the kids have their own apartment and the parents are just visiting?

[@shaynalea4101]

Wow!! That climbing room is amazing. I disagree with everyone … the private space is the living room once the kids go to bed. There’s no private space when kids that little are awake. What a thoughtful use of every space … I’m looking around at my 1200 sf house that I feel like we’ve outgrown (4 person family) and feeling inspired. Thank you and wonderful use of the space. Also your love for your children shines through - what a gift for them to have a mom who cares so much about them that (for this short time of early childhood) she and the dad are sacrificing a little comfort so they can have an amazing place to live.

[@racheldee8361]

Yes!! I agree!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@AnaLucia-wy2ii]

Exactly! Plus, I’m sure they get out of the city on weekends and holidays.

[@lnr1002]

The husband sleeps on an air mattress. That’s insane. It’s nice apartment but you and your husband deserve your own space. Get rid of that jungle gym room.

[@diannemontgomery6054]

Folks really make themselves vulnerable to let us into their homes. Everyone has different needs at different stages of life... So many great ideas here...

[@janinafisher101]

Necessity is the mother of invention, and Jenny has done an extraordinary job of transforming this apartment into the epitome of hominess, a fantastic play space, and a place that seems to fit all her family's needs. Totally extraordinary while still being attractive and a place for adults to play too!

[@ashlee-nicolezammett7360]

I would absolutely do this too! The parents are probably very youthful and playful it’s gonna keep them young. Play and whimsy isn’t just for children!

[@hs2874]

The Murphy bed is way too small. Asking your husband to sleep on an air mattress is too much.

[@gennisparry4352]

I am sure they both made that decision and are comfortable with it.

[@ACS402010]

@@gennisparry4352 I highly doubt her husband is "comfortable" on an air mattress. But, happy wife, happy life, so...

[@AnaLucia-wy2ii]

@@ACS402010My husband sleeps on a foldable bamboo mattress half the time. He could easily put a bed in there. It doubles as his office. But it’s perfectly comfortable for him. Stop assuming you know what people like.

[@AnaLucia-wy2ii]

How do you know she asked him? Maybe it’s his idea.

[@glenysperry3421]

Very creative. I imagine this mom will keep adapting their home to the needs of all family members as time goes forward. Good for her.