How A Man Knows When He's Found The One

[@samanthacampbell8537]

1. You feel calm in the relationship & calm with him 2. When you are together you want to be your best 3. You both feel comfortable sharing your feelings 4. When there are things you don’t like about him, you don’t feel a strong need to change him 5. You both manage conflict well (involves being a good listener) 6. You trust & understand each other

[@LWhit08]

You are so right! I started my relationship with my boyfriend right from the start! Others who didn’t like the standards I expressed, walked away. With this one, it was different, as he was willing to go the distance with me. We are now looking at rings! He says I was so different with my intentionality, and he loves that! Ladies, it is true for the right kind of guy! Wait for it! It is worth it! Know your boundaries and make them known. Some will walk away, but that’s okay, wait for the one!!!

[@kellyclayton4522]

Love it.

[@kimking3909]

But don’t we have to know we’ve fallen in love with them? How / when does that factor in? A good question for him.

[@LWhit08]

@@kimking3909 - for me, I spoke about my standards and expectations from the start. I didn’t want to fall for someone who had no intentions of meeting my expectations. Several walked away, but my now fiancé stayed and here we are, soon to be married! He loves that I was so clear. He understood what I was looking for from the start!

[@MaryJanJan]

This is the best one ever! Life is too short to waste time on being casual when your goal is “happily ever after”. Thank you for your guidance.

[@sharont2878]

I find alot of men say they want a relationship but they don't want to make a commitment... basically they want their cake and eat it to !!!.. makes it so hard tj find a man !!

[@JonathonAslay]

Exactly

[@streaming5332]

Don't let them have the cake.

[@trust493]

You are truly correct

[@de-nz4jp]

They dont even know that they dont want a relationship because they dont understand their own inferiority complex..

[@rocknjocie]

​@@de-nz4jp Do you think it's because they see others being in a relationship and they feel insecure that they don't have anybody?

[@silviapahlke4992]

Hi Jonathan, just coming back, from my sweetheart. Spending some days with him, where he is working for the moment. We lived very limited space together. There was a lot quality time with him, seating together looking "Cloud TV", speaking about our future. Marrige, buying house. And this beautiful feeling of calm and peace in my heart. Have a lovely day.

[@andreastarr9382]

I keep finding Narcissists who give attention but then bail. I'm now going older and meeting a 60 year old!

[@helenebissonnette5935]

Hi Jonathan, I just want to take this opportunity to thank you a million. I've been watching your videos for the past 4months. Taking notes, reading and experimenting your big brother 's advice 😉. I must say that you really help me in the dating process i've been through over these months, but it's been rewarding. I found the right person for me, just the way you describe it si often. Your work and passion help people like me and I just wanted to let you know. Warm regards Hélène from Montréal.

[@trust493]

Wow congratulations

[@kellyclayton4522]

Thank you, Jonathon. You speak so much truth. Everything you say resonates with my current situational relationship.

[@annarichardson8284]

My partner makes my coffee in the morning too. Just a sweet thing to do for me starting the day.

[@JonathonAslay]

Awe...

[@streaming5332]

Awesome!

[@lakeisharhyant2045]

And say they dont want a commitment but then say they dont want you with anyone else! What!!! Smh

[@Ladybug.123]

Just curious about what “living together apart” means. I may be in that situation. We are an older couple, but we are very committed to each other. We care and look out for one another. I know I can always count on him! We joke and call each other “hubby” and “wife.” We do maintain our own homes, however. Over 2 years and still going strong! 💕

[@annarichardson8284]

I have the same situation and am happy with my relationship. Sounds like you are doing good with one another.

[@floricadunca6909]

I am very happy for you👍After 2years and half,my lovely and polite boyfriend left me like a trash,after I gave him all my love and he didn’t appreciate me,got one another lady because he gets bored with me 🤔I tell you was my fault bcz I was doing everything for him to be happy 😳😢🤔

[@jenniferlee7167]

Sounds ideal to me! This is what I am looking for! The best of both worlds and plenty of space for both people!

[@Ladybug.123]

@@floricadunca6909 Oh no! I’m so sorry! 😢

[@JonathonAslay]

Yay!

[@angelyan638]

I know I'm not in the right relationship because after two serious conversation and 9 months I can say he is unsecure, traumatized and emotionaly constipated. I give a chance to us but now I start to detach and put focus on me and lots of my projects and goals. Not interested in situationships and dating sites just enjoy my life and doing me. Sorry for my english I'm from Mediterrane.

[@sharonvargas7787]

Good morning everyone, Jonathon is always on point!

[@JonathonAslay]

Awe... thanks

[@tarotfortoday8071]

This was a very interesting suggestion for KZbin to give me. I appreciate it, though. Lol, I'm not really hopeful about anyone right now, but I will definitely remember this. Thank you.

[@JonathonAslay]

There's always hope...

[@tarotfortoday8071]

@Jonathon Aslay thank you. I just have to get through this chapter first. My ex-husband is a diagnosed covert narcissist. I'm actually an ICF trained life coach & I've done a lot of healing, but everything is so chaotic right now that I've got to keep myself a little more guarded than usual to make sure I don't accidentally repeat history. I enjoy your videos very much, though, and follow you on my other channel. Keep up the good work!

[@queenbee6539]

Hi Jonathan, I am giving Match another try. Meet a nice man today and will meet him for a date sometime this week. Wish me luck! I will try out what I’ve learned watching you. I am going to be 60 in July, he is 66. Is that too big of an age difference?

[@nicolacrombie9643]

Thank you. Great advice

[@sallysmithy9860]

Excellent information love it. Great ideas thank you. !! ❤

[@JonathonAslay]

Awe...

[@annarichardson8284]

Thanks Jonathon. You're good.

[@JonathonAslay]

Much appreciated 🙏

[@chrissylayton49]

Fantastic video, it's up there as one of my favourites. By the way I listened to your book on audio which was great. Much love to you and Marie ❤

[@JonathonAslay]

WOW, thanks so much. Can you write a review as well?

[@chrissylayton49]

@@JonathonAslay I'll sort something out 😀

[@YouTube-watcher-6]

Great video, thank you!

[@JonathonAslay]

You are very welcome!

[@wandayarbrough]

I would have to have the living apart thing and hope that's what he wants

[@JonathonAslay]

Have you asked?

[@wandayarbrough]

No not yet. Haven't met him. My other friend would be fine with it though if it was something there. But sadly it isn't.

[@mariakeaton9380]

Thanks Johnathan for the advice. I live in London UK does your service goes that far? Anyway thanks for all your teaching and rantings . I forgotten how long I have been listening to your advice.

[@JonathonAslay]

Yes, I have coached people in the UK Www.jonathonaslay.com/coaching

[@floricadunca6909]

Thank you Jonathon,I have learned a lot from your videos 👍I Am appreciate your work 🌈✌️after my💔didn’t listen you before 🤔

[@JonathonAslay]

Thank you 😊

[@lateshachurney5965]

Great video !

[@robinemery]

Good talk. BIG BIG HUGGS♥️🫂♥️

[@JonathonAslay]

Thanks

[@sharonreid5734]

Amazing information, thank you

[@JonathonAslay]

Awe... thank you

[@queenbee6539]

Hi Jonathan, I joined Match and it is crap! So many fake accounts. It was huge waste of money and time. I cancelled and will never use any other dating apps after this horrible experience.

[@JonathonAslay]

I know so many couples who met on Match.

[@enidseddon5052]

I totalLy agree with you also plenty of fish is the same full of fake profiles

[@user-es2tu4nz6t]

"Coffee Meets Bagel" has a lot of genuine guys who want a real relationship. The others, I agree, are trash... filled with people who just want a one night stand.

[@mikelee2583]

Thanks, lots of info

[@tandye0014]

Good morning! My first time on a live stream!

[@JonathonAslay]

Welcome

[@sherriflemming3218]

Good morning Jonathan on point!

[@JonathonAslay]

Thanks

[@maryerickson9681]

It really is I had a good relationship ex fiance who did that

[@cynthiaabada3961]

On point❤

[@JonathonAslay]

Thanks...

[@siisydney]

Feel free to raise your voice I know it's done with good intent and sometimes it sinks in better somehow 😁😄

[@09280215]

Excellent ❤❤❤

[@reginamiller3153]

Absolutely!!!

[@JonathonAslay]

Thanks

[@roxanneviggiano888]

What do you do when you ask the guy you’re seeing who has seduced you into sleeping with them and you’re falling for them , if you’re only their fwb and they say no but they won’t take you out or sleep the night. ?

[@JonathonAslay]

Stop having sex and see what happens...

[@yvonnehulsey9335]

Question...I have been married for 43yrs. My husband and I are going threw the same old routine and no passion or sex. 20 yrs of no sex! So I need to know what I can do so I can feel like a woman I want passion and sex.

[@JonathonAslay]

Talk to him

[@tuathadesidhe1530]

Have you talked to him, sort couples counseling? Is it a physical thing on his part? Because you can be completely sexually satisfied even if he is impotent.

[@vickydevine184]

Yes 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@Ruth-vy1qj]

Good morning

[@JonathonAslay]

Hi 👋

[@barbwillsdean758]

❤

[@dougbarnowski5224]

Situationship is when the GIRL is with a guy that doesnt know how to LEAD! OR the GIRL is with a PLAYER and CHEATER that WONT commit and SHE is to blame for NOT vetting! Dont listen to this bloke or his so called expertise! I listened to this dude for 1 minute that was enouigjh.

[@annarichardson8284]

Anything worthwhile requires some risk. What is your risk exposure?

[@JonathonAslay]

Exactly

[@kristinfisk8068]

I have been dating a man for a little over 2 months. He has many wonderful qualities, and we have similar values. I want to explore a relationship with him, but he was not honest with me about his life. Come to find out he is still married. This caused me to slow down our relationship, I have not told my family, and only a few friends. I am not hurt or sad. I'm just a little disappointed to be in this awkward situation. He says I love you and want you in my life almost as a mantra. This stops me in my tracks as for conversation. I am irritated by this being said constantly. Why am I irritated by this? "I love you and I want you in my life".

[@annarichardson8284]

What would you do if you were his present wife? Imagine being her. This guy is a liar to both of you. He is not available to tell you he loves you and want you in his life. Face it.

[@eleanorcrysdale6729]

Hes a liar!

[@jenniferlee7167]

Why stay when he could go back to his wife at any time. Tell him to contact you when he is free to pursue a relationship. Hang up and do not look back.

[@sherriflemming3218]

A man who cheats on his wife will cheat on you. You're worth more than this! He's playing you both.

[@therocksbyclan]

If he was serious about you he would act on it, this could be just a play with words says one thing does another, do not give this man any of your time he is game playing.