Why do I have a feeling you clicked to this video because you’re not selfish but you want to learn how to?
@Mamie-044 ай бұрын
I feel seen😭😂😂😂💀
@tariroyashemahachi93464 ай бұрын
You caught me red handed.😂😂😂
@patriciazureha51784 ай бұрын
Absolutely, not me sharing it to my elder sis so that she can learn how to be one ❤😅😅
@GraceFidel4 ай бұрын
@@tariroyashemahachi9346 haha 🥰
@Dalitso_Mule4 ай бұрын
Yup! Guilty 😂🔥
@Sintamei_4 ай бұрын
Don't vent to people who dont vent to you! (Should've been in caps)
@cheymuv4 ай бұрын
‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
@Claire-rq9cg4 ай бұрын
Louder please😢😢😢
@kulokolakevin4 ай бұрын
I stopped trying to keep up with family members that don't keep up on me
@binweitendo66824 ай бұрын
cutting off people who made me feel horrible about my religious beliefs and my lifestyle changes.
@franciscaalliance14964 ай бұрын
Learning to say NO to friends who want you to participate in their hobbies but never in your hobbies.
@cheymuv4 ай бұрын
Real!
@Stylenwavin4 ай бұрын
Not everyone will be interested in your hobbies. It's also good to stay with yourself. mysterly, hidden
@Afroxidental1234 ай бұрын
What you call being selfish is what I call self-love & rebalance 🥰 you’re doing great ✨
@Caroline_Geaa4 ай бұрын
I’ve been struggling with all these things😔… started isolating myself because I was tired of being the bigger person, always apologizing or being made to feel guilty when I am unable to say yes to everything like I used to… but when it’s the other way round I must always be respectfuL and understanding… I probably seem like the bad person for going ghost but when I tried to have conversations my feelings were invalidated and I’d apologize for the sake of peace but that can’t be my life🚮
@cheymuv4 ай бұрын
Living like that is not sustainable pe. Self love can be isolating but very necessary. The right people will come into your life eventually 🫶
@suzzyakikiakiki71144 ай бұрын
I stopped visiting people who don't visit me 💁🏾♀️ I also have a home and want to be visited
@cheymuv4 ай бұрын
Real 😂
@suzzyakikiakiki71144 ай бұрын
@@cheymuv Realest 😌
@ewns4474 ай бұрын
1.I began matching people’s energy. The minute I began to feel unwanted by certain people, I excused myself from their lives and never looked back. (This goes for new relationships or old bonds, whether platonic or romantic). 2. Unfollowing accounts that no longer served my interests. 3. Being vocal about my wants and needs in any relationship (familial, romantic, platonic) so as to sift out anyone who isn’t prepared to put in the same effort as I am putting in as we try to form a bond. 4. Ensuring that the activities I choose to engage in & the people I have around me , as regards their qualities and values, are actually good for me. I’m no longer pretending to like activities I dont like or having people around me whose values and interests don’t exactly align with mine (esp if their values and interests are destructive and retrogressive). 5. Forgiving people and forgetting about them, heavy on the forgetting.
@modikiramaisa4619Ай бұрын
Preach ❤
@dearnes4 ай бұрын
7:49 THIS!!😂💀honestly needed to hear this…
@Mamie-044 ай бұрын
People who want to be selfish with their families too😭😭
@Kaytube194 ай бұрын
Someone not wanting to be friends with someone is not weird. I think we need to remember that not everyone is compatible and some people may be in a position where they don’t want to hurt the other persons feelings. If this is the case we should move on understanding that our people our village is out there and for those who don’t want to be a part of our village just pray that those people find their village 🙏🏾🙏🏾 Thank you for sharing 🙏🏾💕
@gloriamurugik4 ай бұрын
Girrrrl the title 😂 I'm here for the tea ❤
@stella.joseph4 ай бұрын
You are a PROPHET. All this video speaks about is the emphasis I need to keep being SELFISH ❤️ Much love from Tanzania 🇹🇿
@soniaashumuhire57534 ай бұрын
This is a great video I’m happy I found this 😊 as someone who’s a people pleaser it made me realise how I’m always the person making the 1000 steps for things to happen and it can be hurtful and so draining 😢 so yeah the goal is being selfish and reading all these comments really made my day 😊
@umubyeyicarmen92384 ай бұрын
OFF TOPIC BUT THE WAY YOU BLEND IN YOUR MAKEUP 💄 IS AN ART IN ITSELF 🥰🤭❤️
@renisholoo33723 ай бұрын
Dont be stingy,when it comes to you🙌🏾💯💯
@Mamie-044 ай бұрын
Am getting many reality checks rn💀!! The bigger person thing😭😭
@haahmayan96374 ай бұрын
4 years 🥺😳🥵 the nerve of the B! Wow sis you’re too kind I pray you have genuine friendships moving forward.
@BenithaKarire4 ай бұрын
Hey cheyenne absolutely sharing the best facts 😘 I just love all but what... speaking to myself really helped me is like finding that hobby that I like to keep myself driven which is drawing, painting and vlogging my life ❤
@cheymuv4 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!! 💗
@withAnge4 ай бұрын
Clock ittt💯!!! Point 1,3 and 4 are super!
@cheymuv4 ай бұрын
⏰⏰⏰⏰
@TatyanaBuie4 ай бұрын
I can’t with how pretty you are 😍
@edgarkyeyune77293 ай бұрын
That's what we call "beauty with brains". 🌼🍋 10:56 mins went in a flash!.. Amazing, amazing vlog. Really enjoyed it sooooo much!!!! 😋 Very deep & insightful. Personally, I truly needed this. Thanks Chey & 💖 from Dubai. 🐿️🍃
@Beautyby_Nab4 ай бұрын
Wisdom here ❤❤❤❤
@haahmayan96374 ай бұрын
I had to make it the 900th like because TMH blessed me with your video and I needed this.
@dominiquealonga60944 ай бұрын
Get it girl!!! you are amazing!😍
@jodecidall4 ай бұрын
thank you, precious advice
@emeldahdaka45924 ай бұрын
Love this and facts! ❤️
@Claire-rq9cg4 ай бұрын
Gurll we love the consistency 🎉🎉
@aidamuthoni42074 ай бұрын
You're so gorgeous
@idahmusah23294 ай бұрын
I am also called Aida. ❤
@aidamuthoni42074 ай бұрын
@@idahmusah2329 Twin, where have you been
@idahmusah23294 ай бұрын
@@aidamuthoni4207 nobody, knows me, like you do….. 😂
@NatashaEze4 ай бұрын
Yes babe😊
@goldenchance54 ай бұрын
I HONESTLY NEEDED THIS VIDEO 🥺,SO THANK YOU 🎀😘
@ni_xcole4 ай бұрын
You look gorgeous Cheyenne 🥹❤️
@Eva-ru8en4 ай бұрын
Your advice always helps ❤
@hinduforevarich4 ай бұрын
thanks for this
@LusunguMoyo-pw5tt4 ай бұрын
So profound 👌🏾
@jessicafianko4 ай бұрын
Heyy Cheyenne Happy Friday Loved today's video and the amazing advice you gave us 😊👏🏾 🫶🏾🫶🏾
@idahmusah23294 ай бұрын
It’s Friday and Cheyenne has posted ❤️
@munenyashataylor94354 ай бұрын
Love love the content!😍you’re so very beautiful Cheyenne 💗!!
@DonCoeur4 ай бұрын
True!!!! Thanks for sharing ❤️
@modikiramaisa4619Ай бұрын
I want so badly to learn to be selfish
@FrankKamanzi-l2y4 ай бұрын
My dear, that it's called growing up 😜, it means you are no longer boarding the same train heading south 😊. Congratulations 🤗 and I'm happy for you, ndagukunda🤗🤗🤗
@alineumurungi64734 ай бұрын
Heavy on selfishness 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
@haahmayan96374 ай бұрын
Imagine an ex friend had the audacity to say to me I’m in the city but never bothered to link up with me but was so thrilled to tell me like miss me with that energy! When I confronted her saying it would’ve been nice to see you and we hang out she ignored it and I was like fuck this I’m wasting my time trying to save this friendship and be the bigger person so back to my dgaf self 😂 The selfish things I’ve done to put myself first is give them the gift of goodbye! Showing them idgaf! Muting them on socials and even blocking them from my stories because they’re monitoring spirits. Or if they’ve emailed me I take 3 months to reply 😂 showing them I’m not thinking about you and I’m booked and busy!
@Sintamei_4 ай бұрын
4 years??!!!🤣🤣🤣 crazy!!!
@renisholoo33723 ай бұрын
Absolutely😂😂i almost screamed
@mweshikutondokwa4 ай бұрын
Great video Cheyenne ❤, I used to rewatch your Dubai vacation vlogs but it's seems like you deleted them 😭💔
@stellanaboi49284 ай бұрын
can someone please drop their favorite budgetting app, that you can also track your spending.
@patriciazureha51784 ай бұрын
Facts
@ni_xcole4 ай бұрын
4 yearssss????😂😂 crazy
@cheymuv4 ай бұрын
Liiiiike 😵💫😂 mad ting.
@DignaK4 ай бұрын
Sounds like self care and self love to me❤😂 you are definitely the bad guy. But guess who’s also happy, you.
@ogochukwuemmanuela35964 ай бұрын
Great video Please where is your top from
@victoriagitau20154 ай бұрын
I agree wholeheartedly!! Also, what are the braids you have on? I loove !!! Also, congratulations on al your growth, see what God has done!!! :)
@cheymuv4 ай бұрын
I have a tutorial on theses braids on my channel 💗
@gladysmugisha58924 ай бұрын
Cheyenne you help me alot with videos like this ❤I love you girl so much
@cheymuv4 ай бұрын
💗💗💗💗
@umubyeyicarmen92384 ай бұрын
I'm happy being the bad guy📌📌📌🙌🙌🙌🙌
@AbieNjie-zl4mj4 ай бұрын
The thing is that I had a friend who would only reach out to me when no one else wanted to go out and the stupid girl I am I would say yes and be exited. My mum (of course) was like this girl is using you so I tried cancelling and guess what the second time I cancelled she never spoke to me again or even looked at me. Even when at school
@AbieNjie-zl4mj4 ай бұрын
So it's not just only if you reach out but only if they reach out for their benefits
@doublem59644 ай бұрын
4 yrs is crazy😂
@SifaMahindu4 ай бұрын
firsttt yayyy
@israelkabuye16534 ай бұрын
You look gorgeous where is your top from
@ChiomaJuliette4 ай бұрын
I love your thumbnail. please, what do you use to edit your thumbnail? Was there a video you watched for this
@cheymuv4 ай бұрын
I use Canva!
@ChiomaJuliette4 ай бұрын
@@cheymuv I also use canva as well but your photos and thumbnails are really clear. Do you pls do any thing different in terms of editing the picture by increasing sharpness before sending to canva?. If you have a video of this or any video I can watch I would really appreciate it
@GiseleTVSHOW4 ай бұрын
💖💖💖
@SandrahWase4 ай бұрын
Me coming here to learn how i can be selfish 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@tennysnatural4 ай бұрын
Deep
@carlosdaniels72664 ай бұрын
❤
@bonolomofahla2 ай бұрын
🤍
@junszal4 ай бұрын
Hey, using the skillshare link am unable to access the lessons...asking for the payments... Pls advice
@cheymuv4 ай бұрын
Hello! You give your payment details but you will only be charged if you continue using the service after the free 1 month trial. You can cancel anytime before then and you won’t pay anything!
@juleswifey60034 ай бұрын
hiya
@xmoonlightmichx4 ай бұрын
I’m glad I came across this video this is where I am at in my life. I’m 30 years old and I have always been a people pleaser now it’s my time to do what’s best for me 🩷