How To EXIT YOUR LAZY GIRL ERA | become productive, consistent, and disciplined

[@ChamiaTiarra]

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[@trishvinola503]

watching this straight away instead of saving to watch later is me goin from lazy to disciplined

[@ChamiaTiarra]

🫶🏾🫶🏾 everything starts somewhere

[@LexxChii]

I almost did the same then I was like mmmm, no ma’am, you need to hear this TODAY and RIGHT NOW. ✨🩷

[@bluebeardswif3]

so real 😭

[@itspribaby8992]

This!!!!! Omg!!

[@fine.chynah]

amen!

[@angelycvoice]

“Schedule in the person you want to be “ so simple yet powerful! Thank you!

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank you for the support🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@seanavaa]

Girl I feel like you’re talking directly to ME! God brought this video to me for a reason 🙏🏼🙇🏻‍♀️

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Aww I’m so happy to hear that💕💕

[@danichapaul6055]

Same here!! Super beneficial though ❤

[@Key-are-rah]

Whewww god knows he did ❤

[@angeljones6204]

Please keep these coming you have no idea how much these are helping me. It’s a process but I can do it. Glad there’s a woman to inspire other women because some of us need it.

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu🫶🏾 just know your comments are also inspiring and motivating to me I love to seem them❤️

[@sureyacisa2196]

been needing to be told all this ❤

[@itsyourgirlcejay5067]

This was an eye opener. I am a big procrastinator and this just helped me to understand why I’m not getting my things done. The methods that you should I’ll definitely try them. Thank you so much for the advice. Hope you come with more cause damn girl you making want to cry cause it’s so real.

[@lyricklacks8588]

Last night i had the most honest prayer with god and i said “God I’m stuck I really need guidance and i need help” I woke up do my regular routine and boom your video pops up thank you so much for this advice its truly helpful and time put it to use.

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Aww yes I love that🫶🏾

[@yoanasimoess]

Omg girl, sameeee🥺

[@CozyGirlCosmetics]

You didn’t have to drag me across the room the way you did. 😂

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Gotta come in with that tough love😂🫶🏾

[@BreannaEmaKaye]

Chile cause why I sat up straight when she was talking. Didn’t look away not once. Got me all the way together. Like yes ma’am you are SO RIGHT !!!!!!

[@MishaMaze]

Right!! Someone had to get me together! Lol

[@yohamadiaz4088]

❤😂❤

[@alll-vm5hv]

Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone

[@audrilanham9424]

That baby analogy is exactly what I needed to hear, before we all learned to walk we learned to stand, crawl, and scoot, and we were celebrated at each milestone! I need to keep that in mind instead of seeking perfection at the very beginning, it is truly a process and I’ve been better at celebrating my milestones no matter how small they may seem

[@lilflaca619]

“You know all these things but you never put them to use” 😭😭😭 needed that girl

[@Ebspired]

I’m a visual learner, so the way you broke this down was so easy for me to understand! A simple concept, but delivered in a great way! “Perfectionism is just delaying the goal” yes! Thank you! 💗 Also…you are gifted in this area, you are a teacher, it’s all over you. Truly your ministry 🙏🏾. Please keep the content coming!

[@stopit41]

Same here

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu for supporting me❤️

[@uhhhlana]

You read me to FILTH with the “you can watch hours of videos” part. I spend so much time wanting to change my life that i never think about how to apply it to my real life. You’ve probably just changed the game for me with this one video.

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu🫶🏾

[@Loveladylove]

One thing I’ve noticed while leveling up, is that it’s very humbling, and you can make a lot of mistakes. This can scare you at first, because everything is new. And when you’re leveling up, you’re bound to make mistakes just like any rookie would. Courage to press on is what’s needed, because it’s pretty easy to lose hope, when you feel like you’ve done everything, and things may not align. I have been working on my courage, and my courage to be the dream that I have for myself. a lot of us are just scared, and fear is what makes you stagnant. Embrace the humbling, and be courageous enough to move forward.👑

[@TaneikaMallet]

Absolutley .❤

[@jemimajameson578]

This is exactly what I experienced last week, I was so overwhelmed with work and was even crying because I had the toughest list which is tiring for me emotionally. I finally decided to do one thing out of the list that day and by the time I woke up and did that small thing which was communicating with a client, I was able to do another small thing at the end of the day and I just decided that that was my new best productivity hack and I stuck to it. Each day now I complete 80% of my task and I am so relaxed and able to do more.

[@satomi8003]

Props to you!! Glad everything worked out!

[@naeirving7718]

“ these videos are who you want to be not who you are “ is very much the wake up call I needed to stop being a forever student and implement the knowledge I have into my life 🙏🏾

[@mrsslamenjamen]

Bro in flabbergasted actually. Damn. I did not expect to cry the way I did. When you were talking about insecurities with packing lots of things onto our plate, but scared that it’s just going to end dropping, & the shattered faith in our ability to execute successfully, I started crying. Even though I’ve been in this funk for the first half of the year, I claim that I’m moving forward with the best glow up known to man. I sincerely appreciate you and I am extremely happy that you are my new big sis. I also loved that. I was doing my self care while watching you, & I can definitely feel my higher self doing this a lot more. I look forward to more self-care days with you rewiring my programming and me applying my new set of instructions.

[@Ms.Irod2024]

I really liked how you actually provided steps . specifically, instead of being generic, there were actual valuable steps we can take.I am so guilty of the forever student that was very eye opening new sub!

[@iamlakesivad4675]

Too many goals at one time. You’re right! ❤ thank you for this video

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank you for the support🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@Im_Pashanique]

I definitely agree with you, I had way too many goals on my plate last year (2023) I was doing too much, and it caused me to burnout and become stressed. Working, running an esthetic business, Etsy site, selling journals on amazon, girlfriend duties, trying to grow on social media and other things. I took a break cold turkey from everything this year between January-March including deactivating my socials. I needed to reset. I'm focusing on my three Hardest goals for the remainder of the year.

[@rosiethehomie1852]

This video definitely opened my eyes. I have so many goals, things I want to achieve and places I want to be. But I get too overwhelmed or try to focus on all of it at once. Definitely gonna make a list and go one at a time

[@ChamiaTiarra]

I’m happy it helped you❤️

[@Caramel_tingz0]

I’m a guy and I have to say this was the best explanation I ever heard 🔥

[@The_Source3]

Girl stop it ❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥"you are forever student... before you watch another video put something in place" This hit home

[@amiyataylor-xp3nj]

Why did she just read me in the beginning 😂

[@animusrye2342]

😂

[@ChamiaTiarra]

It’s all love😂🫶🏾

[@jackintheboxhater222]

That’s exactly what I said 😅😂

[@peachesnoherb6820]

Big facts!!

[@kalikay9051]

😂😂😂I said the SAME THING!

[@RachelAoolawoo]

6:56 I feel it in my soul you just say that one thing I say every time I try to do something for my self and I don’t even know why I say that

[@nicoleh8979]

Okay gurl!! You had a word to deliver so thank you… forever student and procrastination from fear is real.

[@diamoon2286]

The way I just started reorganizing my bathroom! This was great! Thanks girl

[@ChamiaTiarra]

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[@MahoganyStone.]

Thank you so much! I really needed this reality check. I tend to put to much on my plate at once and will execute it “perfectly” and then in about 3-4 days I’m falling off and it takes weeks to recover. I need to remember to take it slow & figure out my priorities before extras.

[@Femminiledivino]

As an Adhd I LOVE that you drew on a board 😅 but aside from that this was THE best motivational video I’ve watched so far. Instant follow ❤

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu so much✨

[@destyneeo9798]

So real! I appreciate that you mentioned the forever student because I find myself binge consuming information in the pretense of preparation. But it's procrastination at its finest. Proud to say I watched this on the treadmill (I've been trying to get into the gym for weeks)

[@ashleyrogers9535]

This is the first time I’m hearing the term “forever student”. I like how you explained what it is and how most of us are guilty of doing that. I tend to find myself reading self growth books and watching videos like this and just never putting it to action. Thank you for explaining this the way you did💕

[@moneywithmocha7787]

I just found your channel and I absolutely love this video. As a teacher and entrepreneur, the skill/challenge analogy is beyond helpful. Girl, I felt like you were talking to me because I'm most definitely a "forever student". Thank you so much for these very realistic and practical tips.

[@Insp1rationwNatasia]

6:49 I suffer from perfectionism which makes everything so daunting and overwhelming. Great tips!

[@riannityes1008]

You’re my new fav KZbinr cause why you speaking facts. I’m listening. I’m putting in action now!

[@living_reel]

I never comment but if it boosts your content I'm more than willing! You seem so approachable and real in comparison to so many other motivational KZbinrs. I can see you care and that means so much to me. Thank you!!

[@skypinkidol]

Yoo you truly found your calling cause I’ve been thinking about this for a minute and you verbalized it so well

[@janiyahwashington8474]

I really needed this. This was really for me down to the tee. I do put so many tasks on myself and get frustrated when I can’t stay consistent or get them all done. Thank you so much for this!!!

[@elisabethborodin5297]

You really gave me a reality check, thank you so much. Instantly had to follow you

[@ChamiaTiarra]

🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 thank youu

[@fatou996]

i think this is the first video that actually helps me with my procrastination habit. the first segment where you broke everything down on the white board was especially helpful. it's a simple tool but it made a significant difference (to me). the examples you gave were very easy to follow which made it easier for me to understand and i can actually apply some of what you said to my life. thank you so much!! now i'm motivated to plan what it takes to reach my goal

[@princessngwenya2164]

I love the fact that there's a science to it, I'm implementing this straight away, Thanks sis❤️

[@ChamiaTiarra]

I’m happy this video was able to help you🫶🏾

[@sheenaoye8441]

“forever student” and “trying to do too much all at once” girl you came for me hard but I needed this ❤️ subscribed instantly and going to start actually taking action!

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu

[@ericadavis1498]

Such a powerful life changing video sis! Exactly what I needed to hear. Literally every single thing was relatable, too many goals, perfectionism, forever student and never implementing everything I’ve learned. Time to turn it around, and step into my full potential! Thank you so much!

[@Karlisa]

the “forever student” point really got me together😮‍💨 love your videos!

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu🫶🏾

[@angieyvette5086]

Thank you best video on exiting the “lazy girl era “ ive watched so far!!!

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu🫶🏾

[@leilanikeniona]

Happy belated birthday! Thank you so much for taking the time out to help educate and shine new perspectives that make the process less scary. As someone who has always seen a vision for myself as a kid, the procrastination is out of this world and I'm so grateful I stumbled across your page. ♡

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu💕 and yes I’m glad my content is helpful

[@cybernicala]

this is the stuff my mom was never able to teach me cause she didn't learn it herself. I know a lot of this stuff from trial and error, but I still slip into bad patterns. I love videos like this that just put everything clear so I can remember it all in the moment. :)

[@cybernicala]

and on spending time with yourself alone without filling the space with content, SO POWERFUL!! i used to journal almost everyday and it was amazing for my mental health. I stopped because it got to be too uncomfortable to face my own demons head on like that, but I really want to get back into it because I was able to make so much progress in my life back then.

[@rachaeldamani]

i feel like there were a few things you said that i knew already but the way you said them made them finally CLICK for me. thank you!

[@gianniisfire]

Wow God knows he brought me here! Blessings ❤🙏🏾

[@ChamiaTiarra]

🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@Danyellababe]

I usually don’t leave comments but boy did I need this! Thank you SO SO much! Trying to navigate my twenties (I’m 26h has been sooo hard, especially as a late bloomer (not having the “essentials” that everyone has or the start that everyone else my age has or has had. ie: a car, an apartment, etc.). Doesn’t help that I’m a perfectionist as well so I’m always in my head. Your video was just what I needed! Direct and easily explained ❤️ first video I ever watched and immediately subscribed!

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank you so much🫶🏾

[@starrswift546]

NOT READING ME IN THE OPENING!!! Straight cussing me out. Thank you. Followed ✅

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu💞

[@ginaboo3945]

I love how I feel like you’re talking directly to me , reading me like a book @ some of these points

[@ChamiaTiarra]

🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@siminnn8688]

you are so real it's actually crazy

[@kavinajai0728]

GIRLLLLL YOU DONT KNOW HOW ON TIME YOU ARE!!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤

[@AlexandriaMarcus-b7b]

You cooked with this one ! 👏🏾👏🏾

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank you🫶🏾

[@breasiamotivess]

this one of the best videos i’ve watched it touched my soul😭

[@nanajaceliebakalafouambous1646]

This is the realest video I’ve ever watched on this topic. Thank you girl 👏🏾🙏🏾

[@cristalreyes5476]

ugh i just love you, your like the mother i never had around to help me become a woman.. ❤

[@courtneyrayana]

you readdd me 😭! i really needed this. it was so helpful and insightful. i’ll definitely be implementing these techniques. thank you for sharing pretty 💖

[@legendarygreer]

OMGGGGG when I say you woke up the LADY I aspire to be🙌🏾📌📌📌 thank you for this video!! PROCRASTINATION KILLS.. and i’m definitely going to get out of my “forever student” mode and APPLY MYSELF.. i’m getting myself on a schedule TODAY!! thank you thank you thank I’m not lazy I just need help!

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank you for the support🫶🏾

[@ladoniadenae]

I needed this ❤ I feel like you’re the friend that wants better for me

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Aww thank you and yes girl I am definitely that friend🫶🏾 I want you to achieve your wildest dreams and become the women you know you can❤️

[@DanissaRanaia]

13:04 imma save this time skip for myself thank yew 😭 (i DEFINITELY needed to hear that)

[@a.l8245]

you broke this down so thoughtfully and clearly in a way thats so helpful to apply to real life. appreciate you and keep going!!

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu🫶🏾

[@DanielleDouglas-i2i]

Great tips!! Repeating schedule, delete, and delegate again and again as I assign my tasks! Thank you.

[@alexanavaschavez4072]

Honestly this video deserves more views.l’ve been feeling stuck because l’ve been trying to do many things at once that at the end l just give up.This video is really helpful also you’re very pretty!! Thank you.

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu🫶🏾

[@saarahhull478]

Thank you for making something that’s actually useful there’s sm KZbinrs that make the same video and it’s just a video of them doing way to much for one day

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Aww thank you so much I appreciate that🫶🏾

[@rebelWP]

This sounds good. I prefer being a lifelong learner/forever student of life. These ppl are more flexible to new information, criticism & can pivot. They're also great conversationalists. Maybe forever student is in the context of skill training w/o application in a desired profession or habit change.

[@melisanandy]

It is

[@Laviedeminette]

You are a great teacher & speaker, that's some of the skills you gained from owning a business. Over here binge-watching your videos.

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Aww thank youu🫶🏾

[@ItsTeylor]

8:50 you ate me up with that one frfr!

[@churchsbiscuits]

The point about not binging self help content but not taking action 😩 Guilty

[@isyssamaraa]

this is exactly what i personally needed to hear. everything you said made me look back and think... " i want too much but wanna do too little ", thank you!!! i now realize that I need to take baby steps to achieve my goals

[@ChamiaTiarra]

🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@rei7059]

girl you really made me stand up and clean my room😭. this advice is golden tysm

[@kiles101]

I needed this. And I’ve really been self reflecting and u ate me upppppp 😭😭

[@danielleM3052]

🙌🏾👏🏾 I always thought I was crazy for talking to myself while driving to work

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Yess girl that be me too😂🫶🏾

[@avabrielle4579]

This is a really good and practical video. Thank you !! I will be actioning and not binging after I finish this💗

[@OnlineOfficeBah]

This video is soooo goood. The way they you broke it down and made to tangible to understand is amazing. Thank you for this!!!

[@ChamiaTiarra]

I’m happy it was helpful❤️

[@veima9633]

Preach, preacher!! 👏🏾 This is a word!

[@nikitakween338]

No THIS is a video that really does tell you how to stop being lazy! This video is so transformative and really hit the nail on the head! I love the diagrams and everything you said resonated and is definitely something I will be implementing! Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu❤️

[@shandramccasline8993]

GIRL GET OUT MY HOUSE!!! Cuz how you know all this about me?!!! This was by far one of the best KZbin videos I’ve ever come across seriously, thank you! About to implement a few of these things today and be sure to listen to this when I feel overwhelmed with life ❤️

[@ChamiaTiarra]

thank you, I’m so happy you enjoyed it!!🫶🏾

[@_NoirV]

This was so insightful, you are far wiser than what you may think. Please keep up the good work

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank you I really appreciate it🫶🏾

[@raynaking2312]

girl! you spoke LOUD! I love this content, I am a forever student, forever evolving. Thank you ❤

[@ChamiaTiarra]

🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@beingtorirenee]

No long paragraph. Just ... Thank you. (I say with tears in my eyes).

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Aww thank you so much, just want to remind you no matter what you’re going through YOU GOT THIS🫶🏾❤️

[@NicoleGarcia-m1i]

I'm excited to start watching your content! Loved this video. Thanks for the tips ❤ Motivates me to do action

[@stacyabrice1736]

I don’t usually leave comments but this video hit home!

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu🫶🏾

[@ashleyjlucio96]

You are so right! Time to conquer one piece of a goal at a time.

[@pintrestlover999]

literally put down my ice cream and got up to workout while watching this video, thank you queen

[@czarina6330]

thank you so much, you're full of wisdom and you share that wisdom of yours in a positive light instead of other content creators that say mean stuff and make me feel bad about myself when they don't even help

[@shaydele]

I like the way you get your point across-its very motivating. Thanks, girl. You have opened my eyes.

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu💞

[@Mariatheemermaid]

This was one of the best break downs! Well done, you are very intelligent

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu🫶🏾

[@chiescentfleur]

thank you so much! it's 4 am and will probably wake up not knowing i watched this but thank you so much, your kind words helped alot and will try much better. i'll also do it

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu🫶🏾

[@hollysanders5515]

Awee I relate to this and you so much! Thankyou for this video and your experience and time sharing it 🫶 I’m new here but definitely subscribing 😘

[@ChamiaTiarra]

I’m so glad you relate! Welcome to the fam!

[@ShawdyAhStar]

So many gems💎💓

[@autumnrosiee]

thank you so much I always get carried away and make my goals too big or plan too much and then get overwhelmed, you brought up some really good points I never thought of and I'm excited to make some small changes that will snowball into more impactful ones

[@ChamiaTiarra]

🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@AnshalPandey-zb5gg]

Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone

[@iiScouts]

Thank you so much. This is exactly what I needed to hear…

[@LylMyssTalented]

Chamia babyy.. you’re the one! I love the way you use your words to deliver the message. Like I can’t believe you 24. Girl! This my second video of yours and I’m locked in. Love the concept of bringing the expectation down while you level up your skills and experience. 💗

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu so much💕

[@ImaniBatista]

You ate this up from start to finish! Sharing this with my siblings during our meeting this Friday ❤

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Aww I’m so glad it helped and thank youu❤️ that’s such a good idea, sorry to be nosy but do y’all do it every week or like monthly?

[@11PrettyBARBIE]

Girllll you better teach this masterclass😌😌😌🤌🏾!!! Love All of this … Alllllll of it🙌🏾🥂💗

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu, I’m glad it was helpful because someone I watch it back and I’m just like “uhhh I could have explained that better”😂❤️

[@alexshowell1297]

This my favorite one! So relatable and real. Love the tips 🙌🏽

[@keepingupwithzu3496]

I hope everyone comes across this video at some point and give it a chance because this was a sermon !!!

[@namelast440]

girl this is amazing !! ty for the visualisation too I be feeling like im in class 🙂‍↔️

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu🫶🏾

[@Raisingarrows3412]

“I’m going to bed early” WHATS EARLY? “I’m going to the gym” WHAT TIME? 🎤 damnnn girl! PREACH! 👏