How Big do Women Like it? Does Size Really Matter? | Urologist breaks down the Science

[@frang2602]

Thanks for creating contents like this❤ I know that size is not everything, It depends on what the woman wants, but if having a few extra inches can help boost your confidence, look for Baseem's videos.

[@user-dg6pz9gm4n]

“The size of the boat” vs. “the motion of the ocean” 😂😂😂

[@oleyelogunkingdavid4151]

Ouch bruh 😅

[@darkones4370]

Such a generic and false response these days lol. Imma block her account tired of the generic surface level responses

[@Tannehillin]

I will preface this by saying I do understand that some have physical limitations and I recognize that they are very real. But I believe one thing that really matters when it comes to sex is the desire to please the other person. That’s probably why we’re so obsessed with size and technique and are we doing it right. It’s pretty cool. That we as a species are smart enough to explore these topics. Thanks for helping people understand this stuff. I appreciate the path you took in your life to do that. Thank you Rena. I say your name for a reason. It feels good to hear your self recognized by someone and That’s why I believe that even just saying someone’s name during sex means something. It shows them that you appreciate them. My saying your name is just me showing you the appreciation for the time you took to make these videos. And Speaking about these anxieties can at least eliminate some of the pressures that we put ourselves under. We can do more to focus on the other person now.

[@colintwigger529]

4:41

[@robertminnicks1136]

Women have been told over the years that 6” was a foot so I can see them over estimating length .

[@BumfluffAddlepate]

That's an old carpenter joke: Why are women such bad carpenters? Because they've been told too many times that this *holds fingers 3 inches apart* is 6 inches.

[@stephenhanft1226]

Thank you, Dr, Rena Malik. I always enjoy your videos. They are always truthful, insightful, and educational.

[@Peter-px1tm]

Size preference is probably more of a visual thing than a performance thing

[@Remy1226]

This is correct, it's great to look at a big one but not confortable when its inside!

[@wearethehaunted3831]

Even a tractor trailer looks small when parked in the Grand Canyon.

[@BGBG617]

lol dude.

[@crazykev6491]

Spoken words by HHH to Stephanie McMahon in the ring. 😂 😂

[@jamesbondinspector]

Omg 😂

[@user-dg6pz9gm4n]

@@wearethehaunted3831 how about a 747? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@BumfluffAddlepate]

Hotdogs, hallways, you know the rest.

[@markushayes]

Size definitely matters. Make sure you have 7 figures on hand at all times.

[@pharmboy730]

Hey, baby, wanna see my Credit Score?!😂

[@MasterK9Trainer]

😂😂

[@apachie3895]

Women only care about one thing. That is love, but they spell it MONEY. They don't care about the size of a man. It could be 3 inches to a foot. It's the size of his bank account or his 401k that they get excited about. So size doesn't matter to a woman when it comes to love ( money) 😅

[@jomorrow1]

Men are always worried about size. Thing is no matter what size you are it’s not going to change. We have what we have…,being preoccupied about it won’t change anything.

[@richarde1355]

Yet, we still do obsess.

[@IPlayOneOnT.V.]

I've seen '80s adult material and all the men were surprisingly, stunningly average; and, all the women were in on the deal - riding the waves. Thanks for your so helpful support, Dr. Malik.

[@heavenplus1]

I got a-1.5 inch tool that can last a full 30 seconds. I pay well so every woman says 'no, size doesn't matter'. I am so satisfied.

[@k9under]

That funny.

[@artyfhartie2269]

My wife tells me she does not care what size men are.

[@jacekwojnarowski8597]

😂

[@DrAJ_LatinAmerica]

That's what she told me too 😂

[@legz64]

She don’t care if it’s 10”

[@noevidoevi]

She’s telling you what you want to hear. In a positive way

[@msimm8612]

You wild! 😂

[@slickvicXLII]

None of these videos ever really acknowledge sizes that are below average. We always hear that the average size is in the 5" range, and question whether bigger is better. But the very nature of averages means that there are plenty of measurements that come in below as well, and that's never really addressed. There are plenty of men out there who have legitimate concerns because they come in below that number, and these videos don't really help them.

[@rexwave4624]

Yes, half of all men, in fact.

[@cogordoo]

This political correctness everywhere

[@vampirekid14]

Longer size enables a couple of positions that are not achievable with a shorter size though

[@manzchello4752]

Ive wonder if the larger size also might help better prepare a women for child labor? Just curious

[@vampirekid14]

@@manzchello4752 absolutely not

[@justinnegus6085]

@@manzchello4752LMFAOOOOOOOOOOO

[@Remy1226]

@@manzchello4752 NOOOOOOOO

[@cogordoo]

Facts

[@franklinj1038]

Quality Overrides Quantity

[@christofl6523]

Yes, but a larger quantity has more potential for quality.

[@JonathanBurroughsIII-kd1ib]

That’s what shorty claims.

[@davidmangan8064]

Porn and some other shows or movies play a role in this thinking the size matters. The majority of us know this to be true, and yet some people still allow it to affect our thinking.

[@richarde1355]

I’ve known women to whom size mattered.

[@zzz007zzz]

I'm a grower, not a shower. I can go from really small, which can be very embarrassing when NOT aroused, up to about 7 inches in no time flat, which is nothing to be ashamed of. So, it just depends upon what you see at the time, if I'm aroused or not.

[@Remy1226]

The evidence is now abundant - there is no corelation between flaccid length and erect length. None whatsover. I too, I'm small flaccid but top out at 7.1

[@rebclout]

Not to make anyone feel bad, but size absolutely matters! Length less so than girth as it can become painful if too long, but it definitely adds way more pleasure and is so much more attractive to look at! ♥️

[@Praveen.Poonia01]

What's your favourite size and what's too big that's painful for you?

[@Gojimaru]

Size can only get you so far, same applies to skill. The combination of both trumps the former and blows them out of the water. Truth hurts gentlemen.

[@benjaminspann1892]

Thanks, Dr. Rena Malik!

[@oliverschmidt1988]

what a nice statement at the end !

[@Karmazov]

We are groomed from early childhood that big or tall is more attractive. For many people, being tall is appealing, even though being a few inches short does not prevent that person from doing things in daily life that a tall person can. For some women, a big penis is visually more attractive even though that big penis may not give them orgasms. Same with men, some prefer women with big breasts, and some prefer big asses. Some prefer skinny women, and some prefer curvy women.

[@dandemory3230]

Thank you for your input Miss Rena

[@CheatDayKerry]

good info. nice to know the facts

[@neiltessier3520]

I haven't watched it yet but I would have to say that yes size absolutely does matter. It just doesn't matter as much as a lot of guys make it out to be. Stamina plays a bigger part then size. You could literally have an elephant trunk but if you're a one pump chump it isn't going to matter how big you are.

[@jomorrow1]

And if you’re above average and go too long it isn’t very good for her either.

[@nichy4b]

My life experience tough me that size maters. In my case it would be better that it was longe, my girlfriends said. So apparently it is about who do you fined to appreciate you!

[@andyroach420]

You are such a good reference. Thank you for what you do.

[@andrewdoyle3238]

Awesome content

[@IllusArt]

Of course size matters whether the woman prefers Very big, average or Very small it all depends on her comfort level; hence size Does matter. If she isn't used to a large one and finds out her partner is large she will feel uncomfortable hence SIZE will always matter, vice versa if it's Small and she's only used to a large one.

[@Atem_in_the_streets]

Kinda hard to believe size doesn't matter when society so often tells us otherwise

[@petercarey5074]

We guys have heard right from the start that "size matters." I always believed that until I met an unbelievable woman who never ever lies, and she's been with a lot of men, told me that it's not true. I asked her "how so?" She answered, "it's not how much you have to use, it's how you use what you've got." The icing on the cake if you will, is she told me that she always enjoyed sex, but never had an orgasm and I was her first partner to give her that. Her comment made my day, made my year and made my decade! But . . . . yup, there's always a "But." We communicate. We're a team and that's a first for me.

[@dr.options]

You lost me at "I met an unbelievable woman who never ever lies"....that's as mythical as Bigfoot and Sasquatch. Of course, size matters. It may not be the most important factor, but, of course, it matters. Your female friend lied to you, and from what it sounds like in the rest of your comment.....about quite a few things!

[@BotDetector-44]

stop larping

[@mandalaurent5870]

That BS bruv ain't no way

[@jrosales2663]

With my luck I always meet the 20%. It’s like putting a Winnie in a hallway.

[@elite4916]

BLOWN OUT LOL 😂

[@DrAJ_LatinAmerica]

Please keep in mind - also depends on the physical body size of the women. What was the average female size who where surveyed?? 5' 90 lb asian or a 6' 6" 240 Female Russian shot putter ? Lets be honest. You must take the car for a test drive before purchase. Size of EACH person matters.

[@redpanda2657]

Russian girls age not that tall t. fellow russian guy

[@DrAJ_LatinAmerica]

@@redpanda2657 just an example my friend, but there are some huge Russian girls. Seen them in person : ). Never said they were all that size.

[@MrFredlthomasiii]

As always another excellent topic Doc!!!! I hope that you are enjoying your holiday weekend and that this was pre-recorded. Enjoy the rest of your week Doc!!!!!❤❤❤

[@richarde1355]

It depends on the woman. I’ve met a couple women who had very very endowed male partners. These women admitted it skewed their perspectives and needs, and they wanted/needed overly endowed guys. Therefore, this average guy had no chance.

[@3DJapan]

I don't know how this cake up but I was talking to my friend's wife and she says "yes pretty well endowed for his height". That was TMI about my friend.

[@KyoyaTategamiLEO]

I was told that 6.5” is just okay

[@f18_]

Great video!. I believe and know its not size or skill, its when skill and size are used interchangeably. Foreplay becomes a lot more playful and experimental. It can do wonders for a women if its used properly.

[@rover-t]

Great post Dr Rena. Thanks.

[@Erideah]

I think people get a warped perception of what women want because of, for lack of a better word, "undateable" women who get stuck in the dating pool because they don't last in relationships, and become overrepresented. People with a long list of requirements tend not to be great people overall. I'm sure women can relate, there are certain kinds of guys that become overrepresented in the dating pool too, where it's obvious extremely early why they're single

[@kingsleychiwetalu1441]

Yall stop lieing big sizes really matters

[@cpaton1284]

She said to most not all, and you have no idea if its true. But she didnt address small penis issues, which can be different

[@rutgersmarine2065]

Thanks Dr Rena!!!!

[@9quedog]

Suddenly I feel diminished and insecure for walking softly and carrying a big stick. It is not my mission to seek and destroy. I apologize in advance for any pain or discomfort my actions may have. Yours Truly.

[@theliberalrepublican]

I am a bit larger than average, 6" X1.75" and it is uncomfortable for my partner, as she is rather petite. So, bigger is not better.

[@patricksandridge6242]

This is great stuff who else on the Internet talks about this of the real facts.

[@3DJapan]

Remember, a sex toy may need to be longer for a "handle", somewhere for your hand to go.

[@yerrrrr3485]

throughout the video, you skimmed over the fact that women preferred a longer or thicker member because it was "just an inch" only to later say that women think a 6 inch member, "just an inch" bigger than average, was perceived as significantly larger.

[@jmosley3480]

What I haven’t heard mentioned is the physiological factor of a larger penis. It puts people in the mood and creates greater arousal. This wears off after time though. The two myths I hear are sex all night and a large penis. Having DE I can tell you after awhile it becomes a lot like work. Most women after a couple hours become exhausted and usually ask you to stop.

[@jay-kq5kv]

From what I've been hearing 8 inches ain't enough and I gotta be thick

[@mixalis6168]

Probably heard it from my wife

[@jeffq3479]

I had a girlfriend who told me I'm just about the right size compared to all the other guys in our neighborhood.

[@justinmartin1666]

Today is my birthday therefore I will watch this video today in my birthday suit seems appropriate 😅 thanks Dr. Rena Malik ✅

[@DesiMinnesotan]

@@justinmartin1666 happy birthday. Yesterday was mine

[@paoloorate2265]

So we have the same bday??

[@leetaiming64]

Happy birthday ✅

[@justinmartin1666]

@@leetaiming64 Thank you 😊

[@justinmartin1666]

@@paoloorate2265 yes 😅☺️

[@christservantjb-witness7131]

I care very deeply about you and what you are sharing thank you. Love love love love angeles.

[@Citizen-by9vw]

Good video. Thank you

[@etchcamelia108]

The Pareto Analysis strikes again...

[@franchic9565]

IMHO, the increased access to and prevalence of pornography is a a significant driver of questioning (esp. by men ) of the adequacy of their own phallus size. I have a teenage son (with whom I have very open communication) and who, while not yet having had his first sexual experience, has indeed watched quite a bit of porn on his smartphone. He regularly gets out a ruler to see how many inches he estimates are the phalluses that he sees in porn videos. Often 10-12 inches, which, I remind him, is NOT the average. Great video !

[@rexwave4624]

There are upsides and downsides to various sizes. Looking at the wishbone shape of the hidden clitoral structure, big girth might stimulate more than small girth, i.e., "stretch". However, big girth might cause soreness and would be more difficult for oral stimulation (although not the subject of this video, an important element for many men and women). For length, many vaginas lengthen to fit and the cervix retreats up out of the way, but not all do so enough to accommodate longer length, so a smaller girth might be better. On the other hand, some women love being stretched and stimulated deeply. Again, not so many women can accommodate a longer length orally and might prefer a hot dog instead of a kielbasa. I wish I had known what Dr. Malik teaches when I was young and had many opportunities to test her concepts.

[@JonathanBurroughsIII-kd1ib]

I hook left like my golf ball

[@SymbianBlack]

There’s women out here that are 8-10 deep and will say they will only take a man that’s the same 8-10 deep

[@twincitydezray]

Good for them. 99.9 percent of guys aren't that. So they are capping

[@carterhaynes8703]

That's every woman out there

[@twincitydezray]

@@carterhaynes8703 Not even close

[@JonathanBurroughsIII-kd1ib]

I would not fold mine in half to meet their requirement. I fold it for no one.

[@ILoveWeightedPullups]

Can you do a video on semi errections? Have had an issue with not being able to fully engorge and have already had a Doppler done with no sign of a leak.

[@hmsweet5227]

I've never been inside a girl. But I still find this video educational.

[@sircefiro]

I'd say these days there's way more psychological issues between men & women then physical

[@robertdickinson8923]

Informative

[@sungee3333]

In the future can you diagram where a huge one goes in the female anatomy.

[@Blackdog57]

With some women, you have to have a Big boat, to make a motion in their ocean. Even a 747 plane looks small flying into the Grand Canyon. 😁

[@DesiMinnesotan]

Fellas, just find a woman who isn’t blown out and has realistic expectations. You’ll be fine

[@ScooterOnHisWay2024]

That alone is no easy task, especially in the West. Most have been pretty well carved up by age 30 - not to mention the oral implications. Shop around, guys! Do background checks. Do CREDIT checks. Find an honest one with a nice smile who hasn't been ridden like the "town bicycle."

[@DesiMinnesotan]

@@ScooterOnHisWay2024 go find a woman from Asia then

[@demetriusjames9535]

​@@DesiMinnesotanAbsolutely, this is the way!

[@MrGoodaches]

Desi, Apparently you’re making an assumption without actual sampling.

[@DesiMinnesotan]

@@MrGoodaches western women have unrealistic expectations in my experience

[@TheSkyline5467]

Recycled topics for the win. Good for the environment, absolutely necessary for some KZbin channels.

[@dobsashimself]

What's with the negativity?

[@janleslielvaas3211]

I Have measured my length and width when exited, in inches 7.5 long 2.2 wide, have not measured girth, btw, a study done here in norway roughly 11 years ago showed that the women they asked would rather have an average heigth guy who's well endowed than a tall guy who's not.

[@science.guy.69]

Yeah but 7.5 is so huge that it might hurt women. So be careful.

[@brendonliniewski187]

It is not the width or the size...it is how many times she can make it rise.

[@AA-wc3tw]

44F & petite athlete here. Size ABSOLUTELY matters to me. And girth is more desirable to me than length (having my cervix repeatedly punched is painful for me). I am not convinced that "it's not the size of the tool, it's what you do with it" because the most pleasurable PIV I've had was with above-average girth. I also HATE lube and rarely use it or need it--it desensitizes me significantly, and I've tried a variety. Therefore I'm glad I don't need it. I know my body, no one else does or ever will. Some vags like them small. Some vags like them long. Some vags like them thick. Some vags cannot handle above-average length or girth. Some vags cannot handle PIV at all, no matter how small the P is. Some vags feel more pleasure when the P is above-average. Some vags don't care about size at all. Everyone's body is different and we cannot control or change what feels best for our bodies. Everyone is different and entitled to want what feels best for their body. There is no one answer for all vags, including "size doesn't matter" because many vag-owners will tell you that it DOES matter.

[@jsparx]

Well above average male here. Most women prefer smaller. But when you find that rare woman that prefers large, she will marry you lol. And interestingly, she will be around 100 pounds. I did not expect that.

[@frankeasterling3402]

One of our female Sergeants to a male rookie. I know, you buy underwear at Burger King, Home of the Whopper.

[@troisquarts3659]

Just get a prosthetic with an external valve and hook it up to a good air compressor.

[@mandalaurent5870]

Mine is below 5 Everyone laughed at me, everyone Thank god i somehow got over it and now live a peaceful single life

[@kingsleychiwetalu1441]

😂😅

[@bro918]

brutal

[@generaljimmies3429]

The only thing thicc about me is my beer belly and my ass😢 I am working on it

[@captkalik]

So only 20% say size matters but on social media you always see videos of women saying they need 9 inches for 30-60 min sessions lol

[@delboyinoz1]

Quick question please...Are these measurements from the floor ? Thank you.

[@drakezen]

I can tell you that visually I am about 9 inches, but in actuality... slightly bigger. :)

[@fatima_asslam]

5-7 inches, around 6 is perfect.

[@Zpicismrad]

mine's only 3 inches but it smells like a foot

[@k9under]

Funny.

[@My2centsfuturestrader]

😅😅😅😅

[@retluoc]

It's all true. Unless you have a micro penis disorder, size isn't important. Dr Rena is right... it takes clitoral stimulation (however you go about it). I've been told to never unsheath the clitoris... it would be way too sensitive.

[@rexwave4624]

Again, it depends on the woman. Some like it to be gently bitten.

[@rj-vj8gr]

what's your choose?

[@caseyfreeman3994]

When you're in a cave there is absolutely no pleasure

[@rsgabrys----]

--------------------------- better to light candle .....than curse the darkness .....

[@caseyfreeman3994]

@@rsgabrys---- yeah when you light that candle you're gonna find out it's even worse... The looks of a cow patty with a wagon track cut through it 😯

[@rsgabrys----]

@@caseyfreeman3994 ..... how the West was won.....

[@caseyfreeman3994]

@@rsgabrys---- this ain't the west, it's right in the middle 😂

[@iamstevemoses]

I don’t know my size tbh but one thing I do know, I am a very good driver. I can drive any truck, even f1 cars and thats all that matters. 😂

[@farhank8336]

they care how long can it hammer it!

[@JonathanBurroughsIII-kd1ib]

They call me Jackhammer John.

[@743lplkp]

desk top notification 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂

[@nigelthomas6642]

It's all about skills. I'm not going to go there, but ladies, you know what I mean

[@user-jo5fz8iw3b]

. . . . . . . . .NO LYING, LADYS !!

[@sdthrutheroof9161]

Thanks Dr. Malik. I feel better being Slightly above average.😊

[@JonathanBurroughsIII-kd1ib]

Define slightly. You need tweezers?

[@sdthrutheroof9161]

@@JonathanBurroughsIII-kd1ib 5 and a half is average. Slightly more than that. Why are you interested in another man's 🥒??

[@terrywilliams2349]

I always thought size mattered 🤔🤔

[@commandershepard8283]

SIZE MATTERS

[@DonLaBree]

"It ain't the meat it's the motion"

[@jamesbondinspector]

Maybe so, but the videos online tend to prove bigger guys please much much more. They aren’t all faking…

[@markpashia7067]

Had one that was a good fit until I tripped her G spot and then it was like a one pound coffee can. Had to do circles to find the edges. They are highly adaptable to all sizes until they aren't. Really was not a lot of fun once she squirted and became the grand canyon.

[@cherylsims5636]

It all goes back to the "Porn" industry. If you listen to talks given by long time female porn stars they say too long is uncomfortable and they will take thick over length anytime

[@lb9007]

I find it infortunate that this cannal is now only about catchy tumnails and sex topics. It used to be much more medically orientated. Seriously, there are enough vlogger out there with those second rate type of videos. I guess it is all about getting more followers and revenue per minutes viewed. Too bad.

[@thomase6751]

It's skill when she screams 😱 or shouts your name😅

[@davee164]

She LOVES talking about pps.

[@geneharrogate6911]

Every gal is a size queen, until Danny D steps in the room..

[@Hahaha-bn1cq]

It's not the size that matters it's how you use it 😉

[@lordgheist_ofstock8237]

I am here for scientific purposes