How Can I Change My Boyfriend From Something Casual To Serious

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@JonathonAslay 2 ай бұрын

@Obtlgw 2 ай бұрын

I see it a lot on dating sites where they’ll state “let’s see where it’ll go cuz I’m not sure.” To me..that’s an absolute turnoff. Men that can’t make up their mind I have zero tolerance for

@JonathonAslay 2 ай бұрын

Exactly

@CatherineInColorado 2 ай бұрын

My view of kissing has changed during this last year and I agree that it is a very intimate act. ❤

@lisab8533 2 ай бұрын

Jonathan, you are spot on with your advice! I’m a 63 year old Dental Hygienist. I have a full life. But, i’m ready to get back into the dating realm. You are so wise and I feel so fortunate to have found you! Getting back on the scene is like trying to jump onto a marry go round! I have wasted years doing the wrong things! Ok, keep the videos coming! I want a significant long term monogamous relationship/marriage.

@JonathonAslay 2 ай бұрын

You can do it!

@Obtlgw 2 ай бұрын

For me, I have from the start shared with anyone I date …”I’m looking for a committed relationship as I believe in marriage.” I think this has to be resolved from The get go. In other words, if you are looking for marriage and commitment, you should never enter into a “casual and unknown possible commitment.” Unless that’s what you want. If a man is not mature and doesn’t know…it’s adios

@claudieC. 2 ай бұрын

I would advise women to have the man state what he wants first. The last relationship I had, he just stated he wanted the same thing I wanted after I went first, which turned out to be a manipulation. He wanted companionship and a short-term relationship. Also, he was unhealthy, with unresolved issues with his mother, sister, exwife, and his father, who abandoned him when he was a child and started a new family. His words didn't match his behavior so he was deceptive.

@JonathonAslay 2 ай бұрын

I agree

@BarbaraEstorga-sg1fb 2 ай бұрын

Yes, when I met my sweetheart online. From the very beginning we let each other know what we were looking for in the relationship. We begin together for over a little 3 years. He is awesome. And we want to get married. I feel bless.

@janronk6360 2 ай бұрын

You’re absolutely right. I took care of my husband for 21 years while he was sick no sex. I met a man after he passed away and sex happened two months I have started dating. He’s the only one I dated after I was went out. Now it’s about a year and I think we both find the situation awkward where is it going? Where is it not going? Thank you because I wanna know where it’s going and I’m gonna askJonathan.😮

@janronk6360 Ай бұрын

Well, Jonathan, I found out where it is going. We have agreed to the commitment, which is kind of silly because we do see each other every day. He does have an adult child with disabilities so he’s comfortable in his house and I’m comfortable in mine. But we have love and respect for each other people in their 70s with a great sex life. Neither one of us is complaining or looking around, thank you for your help.

@julieangle9721 2 ай бұрын

Jonathon I realize you give advice for the steps and right tools but my experience is some people don't even have the maturity or ethic to think that way, honestly I'm glad I'm single and free of lecturing or talking about my personal feelings with anyone, melted space in my eyes

@JonathonAslay 2 ай бұрын

Oh yes, I agree...

@Obtlgw 2 ай бұрын

I had a funny conversation with an old boss once and he was asking me advice about his relationship and I answered him very bluntly and said ..pee or get off the pot. He replied, “well I’m not on the pot.” 😂

@JonathonAslay 2 ай бұрын

He sounds like a person with a short term mating approach

@Obtlgw 2 ай бұрын

@@JonathonAslay he was crazy inlove with this lady and for years they were an item yet he’d never marry her. Sad deal. He died last year

@lisan8007 2 ай бұрын

It would be super relevant to me when I was in my 20ies. I'm 38. I've learned this hard way by experience. Still good to hear for my own validation.

@JonathonAslay 2 ай бұрын

Glad to hear it!

@hrisdimitrova Ай бұрын

I ordered your book and can’t wait to read it ❤ I need more self love!!

@JonathonAslay Ай бұрын

Hope you like it!

@lindafelt8920 2 ай бұрын

I think this was your best discussion yet.

@JonathonAslay 2 ай бұрын

Awe.... thank you 😊

@OlderWomenRock 2 ай бұрын

I didn’t like what I saw on my exs Facebook , His interactions with single Women and a couple of younger women he followed ( sexual accounts ) He said I should not have been snooping about Well! I told Him exactly what You said “ Considering We are in a exclusive relationship I have every right to know what my so called boy friend is up to “ I believe He saw it as a form of control Basically He thought He had the right to behave like a single guy How on earth a Man finds this acceptable and not acknowledge how disrespectful it is

@Bb-k4gd 2 ай бұрын

Happened to me too, the guy was acting like single (teen ager) behind my back and thought it was HIS right , ‘ That’s normal and what men do’ they say 🤦🏻‍♀️ Made me wonder … Do men ever grow up?… 🙄

@DebWtzl 2 ай бұрын

Jonathan.. you are so super helpful! Thanks

@JonathonAslay 2 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

@julieangle9721 2 ай бұрын

Good morning Jonathon ❤

@JonathonAslay 2 ай бұрын

@sallysmithy9860 2 ай бұрын

Great information. Yes, mentioning my own ideas, wants, and intimacy I have done that. It's interesting because older men seem to feel that the "little woman" has her place and needs to be like the old day woman . Lol So I'm dating younger men. I do think this is brought up after some get to know each other chat. Thanks for an interesting insight. ❤

@JonathonAslay 2 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing!

@belleofthecamp6530 Ай бұрын

Dating multiple people can be exhausting. And I have a hard time enjoying dating that way. Dating one person at a time can be challenging bc they may be with other people. And insecurity does come up if I’m more into them at first. But patience and just simply dealing with all that and chill. Rinse and repeat every couple days sometimes lol this is the healing route I think. Of course, having a time limit is also a necessary factor. A month of assessment…although usually it’s much faster to determine usually a week. And no physical stuff. Maybe a kiss to make sure there is chemistry if compatible.

@JonathonAslay Ай бұрын

Exactly

@Ellie-1776 2 ай бұрын

Thank you, Jonathon! Wonderful and very useful information - as always. I am thinking of you and hoping your meet and greet went great last night and hope that you will give us all an update this week in one of your lives! ❤

@JonathonAslay 2 ай бұрын

There was no love connection, and I'll share what happened on my Monday live video tomorrow.

@Ellie-1776 2 ай бұрын

@@JonathonAslay Ah, Ok thank you updating and I'm looking forward to hearing more details in tomorrow night's live. Proud of you for getting back out there, Jonathon! I need to do the same!