Why Being Subtle With Men Always Works!

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[@Sweetheart0189]

This & law #16 are my favs!!! Being subtle, the use of absence, being mysterious, feminine & slightly cold are my FAV TOPICS!!! It’s the Scorpio in me 😂❤

[@fallsoul6284]

Girl sammmee scorpios are attracted to power so we like this way to express ourselves quite but deadly😂

[@JessforR]

yup, Scorpio heartbreaker energy

[@elfreemross3629]

What book is this from

[@mexican_wbc9946]

⁠@@JessforRwell I wonder in which way it’ll come back to you & if you’ll be able to take it with the same pride you break hearts with

[@jkrystal11]

Yes. Hey sweetheart but when disrespected, we don’t even purposely do it, you should start personality when we feel slighted.

[@grezsoy]

People lost the art of discretion. No one is discreet anymore.

[@danilaroche1156]

It's a dying art. You are correct. People lack discretion, self control and dignity.

[@LS38389]

Andrew Tate is a great example of why not to be loud

[@JessforR]

What do you mean?

[@eclecticd9953]

Amen

[@gracechen9653]

Andrew is over compensating for his fragile ego and lack of confidence by being arrogant and condescending to others (especially women). He is always trying to prove his worth.

[@jadegreen1554]

He is disgustingly loud.

[@puffchickpam1]

He’s always bearing his teeth

[@TKSH628]

It's called Humility. Bring humble is attractive ❤

[@Roshayyy]

Your future daughter is lucky as hell lol. So much knowledge with the perfect balance of humor. Your service to the world is appreciated babe.

[@melaninchocolate6552]

As an empath/introverted/Virgo ♍, this is perfect!! I'm very reserved, private, a recluse. I love moving in silence. ❤❤❤ Hate drawing attention to yourself. When everyone has access to you and know your inner workings and business, you're no longer valued. I love STOICISM

[@orietagjyli6442]

Be yourself above all. There is nothing more attractive then to be yourself

[@jessicat6561]

What if someone’s a doormat

[@Demi1369]

Than, not then. Then is a synonym for after.

[@orietagjyli6442]

@@Demi1369 I am happy you got my point.

[@TheAttractionTriggers]

*I believe that two people are connected at the heart, and it doesn't matter what you do, or who you are or where you live; there are no boundaries or barriers if two people are destined to be together.*

[@NoName-ph5pg]

What if they are countries apart?? 😢

[@Carlij312]

It’s crazy that a lot of people that suffered abuse in the home learned how to hide their emotions for safety. Who knew that this could be transmuted for power.

[@gonzaless94]

I must be honest with my feelings. I know myself. I don’t want to play a game with love, emotions or intimacy. This game of life is already what it is. If I’m feeling you I want you to know.

[@nenaallisone4694]

I feel for women that is important. I am not going to spend time wooing a man. I am not emotionally getting my hopes up for a month or two to crash. I wont crazy profess my love, but I will let them know I care about them

[@shivangisharma8749]

I agree @gonzaless94 this feels like playing games. I think sense of safety and security is very important in a relationship to foster vulnerability and healthy attachment.

[@JessforR]

But being subtle is also some people's core personalities. This is exactly how I am, without trying to be manipulative at all. I am a chill and low-key INFJ.

[@nicolerodriguez6049]

Look forward to these videos Monday while i'm in the office morning really puts things into perspective for me. great content Father Alex changing lives, :) love from Cali

[@angelwings6193]

Actions speak louder than words

[@JessforR]

I also want to add that most men that I date are super attracted to my low-key/high achievement vibe, but I've also recently encountered a guy that was way more into himself to notice my subtle flex, and another guy who was annoyed by my subtle communications... I think the latter guy is honestly on the spectrum, because he literally criticized me for trailing off, or as he put it, "stopping the conversation flow." Both of these guys are not worth my time, but it's interesting to see how insecure/self-centered men are not charmed by subtly. It's actually a great way to weed out low-value men.

[@mexican_wbc9946]

You reek of insecurity & entitlement sounds like your projecting on to others those traits. Some guys don’t play games & rather have natural authentic conversations. fun fact people on the spectrum are usually gifted so maybe if he was on the spectrum, he was able to see through your bull.

[@theoriginalbunnygirl]

Haha, my name is Melissa and I approve this video! I definitely struggle with showing my emotions too much plus wearing my ❤ on my sleeve. I now see that subtlety is key 😊

[@user-j1spswelskisj]

Same, Ive came across this topic about being subtle/discreet my whole life but I forget about it within seconds. For me, it's unbearable when I can't express my emotions fully and directly while in a relationship with a man, i really need to work on emotional self control.

[@jadegreen1554]

With the right person the games are not necessary

[@ThePeacesweeetie101]

i thought u were gonna be just another lightskin man with a podcast … u actually making some sense sir ✌🏾💯. the over expressions to trauma pipeline is relatable

[@Shiekhempathpowers]

💯💯

[@catdoglover4880]

Thank you, Alex. This is very informative ❤

[@chupah93]

This video is so beautiful Alex, you have no idea. Thanks you very much 🫶

[@Faith-nc6ug]

Love this already 🔥

[@superpoodlehead]

❤ Really powerful content Father Alex! Love the “subtle” concept and all the nuances of love and energy you’re talking about. Brain, body language, mysteriousness, auntie love, and control of the self. More please!

[@orls9068]

Always insightful have been listening to you for a few years, I read the same books and have similar interests and your perspective and insights are very helpful Thank you very much for helping me improve and put the knowledge I have learned into practice It's a pleasure to see you grow Alex, best wishes, lurking from Ireland 🇮🇪

[@rosemalone27]

This!! Thank you. Needed to hear this.

[@shantaroberts479]

Just what I needed to hear!

[@helennazarova2655]

I really love all your content! Thank you so much for your insight and wisdome. It has definitely helped me to understand human nature in relationships. I hope that you are feeling good knowing that you are helping outso many people. Everything is very relevant and insightful. Keep up the great work you do! this is definitely your calling. XOXO 💖💝💘💯😘

[@user-gz7ko8fr9p]

This was amazing❤

[@javierflores7888]

I love the music in the background ❤

[@vil4038]

Thank you Alex. Very insightful video

[@GoddessDivine888]

🙏🏽Blessings Sir love your content & the music in the background 🎶🤍

[@cup_o_TMarie]

This is your best video💫

[@MsRajmi]

Very good video Alex ❤greetings from Austria

[@lisamithani2163]

Amazing! 💖

[@leonorsilva134]

This is good my man.

[@Cvill502]

I love this guy so much . He loves Robert Greene, I sooo dearly can relate ❤

[@karolina-qe3hf]

I have been like this majority of my life. I always thought maybe I am just insecure for just being silent but, now I realize it's actually those who are the loudest. Btw you are sooo funny hahaha. I always laugh about how you deliver the message, it's so entertaining

[@lou15176]

Because of where I am in the world 🌎 UK 🇬🇧 I listen to your videos every morning when I’m getting ready. They are really helping me Black Jesus 😊 as I always say these lessons don’t just apply to romantic relationships. It helps with all aspects of life ❤ x

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

Father Alex is not black Jesus 😔

[@lou15176]

@@MindfulAttraction2.0 😂 Every time you say you are NOT black Jesus in your videos. I do my Melissa voice “yesssss he fuckin issss” 😂 on a more serious note I appreciate all of the content. Learning so much for my 48 years 🙏 x

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

​@@lou15176 😔

[@MyraMelendez]

In an entomology Dictionary Black means Pale without color something that’s dying off. “So called” Black ppl can’t be Black. 😂 They have color in their skin.

[@suzan4741]

Great clip

[@kairosunltd130]

Thankyou Papa Alex. Gotcha!😆😅💯

[@JessforR]

I am definitely subtle and low-key in my greatness and accomplishments, it's just who I am (INFJ Scorpio). I would say that other woman greatly underestimate me all the time, enough though my resume is a mile long with achievements. I've gotten bullied by many women because I'm cool and subtle, and not running around trying to prove myself.

[@WayneZalinksy]

Well you’re doing the opposite of that right now

[@JessforR]

@@WayneZalinksy nah

[@user-rx7uh9mg4f]

You think a resume is what’a gonna keep a woman? Women don’t go around bullying men just because they’re “cool and subtle”.

[@JessforR]

@@user-rx7uh9mg4f I'm a woman talking about being bullied by other women

[@WayneZalinksy]

@@JessforR ya. Let me rephrase what you actually wrote: “I’m really special and amazing and that’s why people are mean to me. But I’m not the type to brag because I don’t need to prove myself. Did I mention how great I am? I have a long list of achievements, which is amazing considering how so many people don’t even recognize the level I’m on. (I’m like wayyy up there) But I don’t go out of my way to talk about that stuff when nobody asked. Online or in real life. Due to the fact that I’m so very cool, but in the most subtle of ways. I’m so subtly awesome that it upsets people, and that’s why they try to step to me. Pshh. I’m not about that life though. Did I mention I’m a Scorpio? Please validate me” Get real lol you’re delusional.

[@jens6039]

Quiet Confidence 🎉❤

[@janjacksonauthor]

I like it all but the funny stuff that makes me laugh. Oh ya, thank you!

[@dirtgirl_505]

Oh my God you're really 40 😮 I thought you were in your 20's... damn man you age well 😊 Nice 😉🤘

[@Canadianforestfairy]

He is?!

[@indiakxoxo]

I am ready to learn

[@FlowerlyF.]

there are beautiful darkskinned women that could grace your thumbnail’s. I mostly see white women and lightskinned women. Just a thought ;)

[@summerstevenson6625]

His comparisons are hilarious

[@jenbrady7566]

You are so interesting. I wish I found your channel sooner ❤

[@transformyourlifewithGOD]

Real power it’s subtle 💥

[@arjunavlogs]

29:00 yes father alex, very very true!! Haha this knowledge can either be used for good or evil, lol ultimate choice 😂

[@castaway2680]

❤ the channel

[@nenaallisone4694]

Man, could have used this advice like 9 months ago 😂

[@theREALamymoss]

I soo love how you mix Robert Greene and meditation which is law of attraction to me. I listen to you and Abraham Hicks and it’s giving bad bitch energy without saying a word 😊😊

[@MrsGoodbrainPresents]

Thanks.

[@user-zu5ik4kr9c]

You are so, so, so on point!!! Someone asked this before, but we still don't know, what book is this from, please?

[@Luci_pur]

48 laws of power-Robert Greene

[@elle7981]

vivien leigh in the thumbnail again my fav 🥰 also u should analyze anya taylor joy in her interviews she has a very royal presence about her

[@nmania3]

Can you do a video on Eartha Kitt, father?❤

[@danielleglen7869]

How about just being genuine and not playing games? So me showing warmth makes me weak? I’ll say that any hint of disrespect, it’s my warmth I’ll take away. Warmth is a woman’s feminine essence, the light, the love that softens a man’s heart. Take that warmth away, believe me, he will feel it!

[@librarose319]

11:10 lmfaooooooo

[@Daria_ko4]

I broked up with my ex because he followed girls in insta.

[@noormahminahil6349]

11:11 😂😂😂 haha

[@sabi3052]

White t shirt that costs $200 exactly the same as a $2 tee is called stupidity, not subtlety.

[@michellejanko8387]

What are you playing? A book?

[@GlobalEnglishSupernaturals]

In your meditation retreat, do you pace around with the toxic stick and intermittently say ‘relax motha f@cker!’

[@nbee6217]

😂😂😂 this question! I love it.

[@rinishan]

You really want to be cautious about these jealousy games. It'll make you look unreliable and cruel. A person that has intentions to have a healthy relationship will not be into that and will leave you chasing after insta models while moving on to someone who invests in a relationship.

[@Lebanesetweety]

What’s the book Alex

[@empressfayer]

What is that audiobook?

[@originalgoldengoddess]

Thats funny when you talk about colours defining a person's status... coz i don't dress that way... i dress with what looks good and compliments my golden skintone and funny enough purple (obviously depending on what shade of purple) goes perfectly well with my colour and thats why I'm drawn to it. But i guess each to their own choice's.

[@Nusaiba89]

What book is he reading

[@amberjunkins7778]

Which audio book is being played?

[@lorenar7752]

But all of this only works if the other person doesn't know you like em, right?

[@melissaobrien5014]

Love thumbnail 💋 Melissa

[@janjacksonauthor]

yes 1.5 speed less than usual. lol

[@Ladymaya27]

Does anyone know the name of the audio book he is playing?

[@cangrejitamiry]

If he doesn’t say it’s Robert Greene, then it is his own writing

[@Ladymaya27]

Thank you@@cangrejitamiry

[@TheActionTourist]

The AI voice lol. Smart

[@Simiedeesjasmijn]

What if you have already shown and know there is attraction for each other But he is married and so are you. You work in the same building. Ho do you as a woman get your power back now that you know about each other 's attraction?

[@Franziska1008]

Attraction comes and goes. It’s not that deep but some ppl act like that attraction means love and btw you should rather work on your marriage with your husband.

[@TanyaV18]

You need to have some dignity and respect for yourself. Have some class. If you’re married, worry about your marriage. If you want out, leave but don’t go searching during marriage. Karma will eat yo ass up.

[@rses916]

Stop being a cheater. Youre ridiculous.

[@nothanks8223]

The industry is mainly covert( manipulative) and just seem subtle.

[@teanna4569]

They say iam mysterious or hard to understand and fall in love with… I show affection laugher my sense of humor but iam very distant they literally be hook but them l get the ICK once I have them 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Luci_pur]

You have an avoidant attachment style

[@mariammalik5931]

I can’t figure out if Alex is Ethiopian or Latino

[@idontarguewithpeasants]

Real Gs move in silence like lasagna

[@mmxmiranda]

but if you’re meeting the guy, let’s say going for a walk together or watching a movie doesn’t that automatically imply that you like them? bc I feel like the mere fact that y’all linking up means that there is clear attraction. i guess in that case is a good idea to be subtle about sexual attraction and whether you wanna go further with them or not

[@AnaBurr]

No .. I do those activities with lots of guys I don’t like, maybe doing a hand rub or something else ? Idk

[@AnaBurr]

@julia-xd8vo it really depends on your attitude during the hang outs, trust me .. I have 8 brothers and I’ve asked them about these things

[@SR77736]

No it doesn't. Ppl spend time with ppl they don't like all the time. That's why communicate is key. Some ppl do things out of boredom.

[@JessforR]

I think a secure man will interpret it as evidence that you are at least entertaining the idea of liking them if you are going out.

[@ambivert1749]

How to be subtle if I'm not confident?

[@angecharlie457]

Agree , or at least how to fake confidence 0:02

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

When you're not confident, your non-verbal cues are also exaggerated. You're more twitchy or your body language is more compressed, such as being hunched over self-soothing with the hands and stuff like that, so yes, be subtle about that, relax your body, relax your face, and bring self-awareness to the tension in your body when you don't feel confident and relax them. It's the same thing

[@us5freaak]

Girl that works even better! Just be quiet and mysterious and withdrawn. And hard to open up! You’ll be a good chase! Some guy is going to want to pull you out of your shell

[@Layla-hg4ux]

@@angecharlie457it takes some work do the inner work, affirmation etc you'll get to it. I learned being subtle from my husband he gets respect from everyone he doesn't get anxious, show anger but he's very expressive when it comes to love 😂

[@elenap2215]

Work with your confidence first practice it

[@LikeTheVik]

40 wtfff lol

[@jillmariaplatteaux6083]

Hip hop 😅

[@tb22k]

😂

[@lalaa555]

Don't like the example of following girls, though. That's, in fact, the reason I broke up with my boyfriend recently. It's just disrespectful.

[@danilaroche1156]

What do you mean he followed girls? Were they undressed? Flirting? I'm just confused because I'm older. He should be allowed to communicate with who he wants as long as he's true to you.

[@lalaa555]

@@danilaroche1156 he's allowed to do whatever but he's also allowed to be single😂

[@danilaroche1156]

It's confusing to me. I'm over 50 so I don't understand social media like Instagram. If my man was following girls, I suppose it would be the content. It would depend on the intentions. I don't know. Maybe I'm too old.

[@lalaa555]

@@danilaroche1156 the content is slutty pics

[@LALINGOOO]

Do you have a name for the female voice you do? 😂

[@rawfit12424]

I am confused. U went to Vip Ass Anna and recorded a video? Was tht on metta day? How'd u get your phone into your hand until Day 11? U broke noble silence???

[@jessicakim2511]

Background music is too distracting

[@sweetsiren8841]

I like it

[@sp4rkle81]

@@sweetsiren8841do you know the title of the song by chance?

[@sweetsiren8841]

@@sp4rkle81 Erik satie gymnopedie 1

[@sp4rkle81]

@@sweetsiren8841 thank you, appreciate

[@aaabbbya]

Ok once I heard his anime fight analogy I knew he was bullshitting. Like bruh, some people really some to you for advice because of how you present yourself but you’re just disrespecting lmao

[@Nikkiyuhtujhgg]

What? 🙄 What's disrespecting in this

[@WHaAteVaA]

you keep telling safe stuff with different titles , you're manipulating us even with content

[@nnekaprecious4550]

Yeaaaahhh...Lol. I noticed this too. Been following Alex for years and lately its same recycled info with different title. I Love it though!..i enjoy the Manipulation😍

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

actually it's different stuff same title lol

[@user-gj4ez6qj2z]

Dude these Robert Greene audiobook recordings are a snoozefest. And when he goes into Dr Seuss mode, it's ridiculously laughable

[@Anelewx3gl]

how do you do that. im pathetically intense

[@danilaroche1156]

I'm intense by nature. I've calmed down with exercise and a close friendship with Christ Jesus. He keeps me more 'chill '

[@bonnie1097]

I do grounding. Some do meditation. To calm the anxious chatter or energy.

[@castaway2680]

❤ the channel