How Did You Know You Were Bisexual? • In The Closet

[@marts3229]

I didn't lie to my mom that I was straight She asked me if I liked guys. "Yes I like guys" But she didn't ask me if I liked girls......

[@biboba604]

Same man,same

[@kels3518]

My mom asked if I like girls and I said yes then she proceeded to ignore me sooo🤷🏽‍♀️

[@-gachasauce-4208]

Biggest oof I ever heard

[@gwendalynn_alvarado]

Hi Friend LMBO

[@crazynats367]

@@kels3518 update?

[@AlexKimAegislashing]

Adults are just older children.

[@JoDidntHearYou]

Yep. Just turned 30 and my brain is TOTALLY not there yet.

[@twinkincarnate]

+Heismyrock3 happy birthday you old bat (jk haha)

[@JoDidntHearYou]

+Zoella Caylen hahaha YES you just made my day

[@Lynhenoikhe]

That's a Jaden Smith tweet right there

[@RagerMcFly]

Stfu

[@amsterzb9329]

"I am a Les-Boon" I love that!

[@okokok2024]

Amsterz B yes

[@okokok2024]

Amsterz B bag of staples

[@snoochiiboochiis6405]

A wise woman once said "I kissed a girl and I liked it the taste of her cherry chapstick"

[@user-yh1fq3ut4j]

Yay a Katy Perry fan

[@sarahjacobs1176]

Eh not really. That was more a song about a straight girl getting drunk and experimenting. Though it's wayyy better than her song "Ur so Gay". Which is a whole 'nother situation.

[@sweetsugarhoneycandy5458]

Katy Perry

[@devankearney9767]

Snoochii Boochiis 😂😂😂😂

[@PoliticalParadigms]

Yaas Katy Perry

[@chickennuggets7092]

Everyone is arguing in the comments and I'm just here glad that Jen got her own show

[@maddielayne6791]

Aww, me too. Especially something that she cares a lot about.

[@missale429]

Ikr

[@mariellarosellecruz8431]

Damn right it's about time!

[@Kyuukoks]

IKR? I was like 'YAY GO JEN! '

[@baileykate1592]

Jen is bae

[@jubi0622]

I love Jen she seems so nice and genuine

[@ashleyv.3221]

same

[@lizz-d2i]

same

[@madisonhodder4602]

She's jenunine

[@jubi0622]

Bacon ways omg

[@thatkidfrombandclass7106]

+Bacon ways (BaconProduction.) good one 👌🏻

[@areiaalcober4748]

Jen's "whaaaaaaaatttt" gives me life

[@rej8560]

I've been looking for this comment + cool profile pic you have there.

[@teaganp964]

this was creepy because she did the whaaaaaat at the same moment i read that comment

[@rm-09]

Your profile picture. No other words needed.

[@jinolams]

Oh hai pham

[@makda4371]

oh hello stranger

[@Lexi1320]

i'm bi and when my art students (11-12yr olds) found out they called me half a lesbian, which was hilarious.

[@מעין-צ9ג]

Funny.... When I was in 5th grade I had a bisexual teacher who had a girlfriend and she ended up getting fired after kids continuously kept bullying her for being a lesbian... (they absolutely refused to accept that bisexuality is a thing even though she explained it) it was really bad, glad that went better for you. I'm bisexual too!

[@princess_glitzy424]

marshmello unicorn omg that is so horrible that they would do that I can't believe people are like that sometimes

[@princess_glitzy424]

안녕No. I can help I am also around your age 😁it's hard to find other bisexuals my age so I'm like super happy lol 😂

[@princessthyemis]

@@מעין-צ9ג OMG that's awful!!!!!

[@totallydreamer9793]

I don't know I am doubting my sexuality I don't know how to know😣😣😣😣

[@jackwulfric8019]

omg I got such happy butterflies in my stomach when I read the title. So little is talked about us bisexuals. I love this. thank you. eeeeeeeeee

[@jackwulfric8019]

many people say we use it as a stepping stone or just lie. I hate that

[@thestarsturn]

+ellie brooks or girls/girls/boys

[@CKIndyJack]

They asked her like two bi questions. This is a huge waste of time. I'd rather Kenny make the bi videos. It's all cool that Jen is a shy, awkward, cutesy girl, but straight and gay people don't think we exist, so...I need a proper bi video not just on bi visibility day.

[@sarwahal-sayed3434]

+ellie brooks agreed

[@elilw8258]

+Clark Ramos Jen is like my #1 "celebrity" crush, so I guess I have a hard time seeing beyond that haha.. But yeah it would be nice with a video focusing even more on bisexuality and bisexuality only

[@isabellegrady4324]

A new show hosted by Jen? THE LORDS OF THE HOMOSEXUAL VALLEY HEARD OUR PRAYS

[@savannahmay8108]

Omfg yes

[@theinvincibleone23]

Praise the gay~

[@martadominkak]

(G)aymen

[@theinvincibleone23]

^WOW

[@uvujaver4210]

+Marta is not a hipster I don't know if I want to high-five you or strangle you

[@risperidont]

where are my bisexuwhales at?

[@elinsulin]

Jan M Here! I think atleast xD

[@jmunday7811]

Yeah

[@idr0ps180]

Here

[@miagarza9441]

Jan M here

[@elianperez4426]

Jan M meh

[@theaccountiwatchyoutubeonl8915]

Jen could slap me and I'd thank her

[@jennydunn340]

Nova Bryte she's beautiful isn't she

[@mosssimha5919]

well good for you honey

[@agatkagrzyb653]

same tho

[@nicole-sq5jt]

Honestly same

[@negg7046]

the account i watch youtube on lol Regina George reference?

[@Ella-ys7nm]

Having a crush on a straight female sucks

[@ralyanacasias1885]

Nicolette Swann yes

[@dunkleosteus7535]

Nicolette Swann IKR

[@richcarp3538]

Sigh Sadly yes

[@znvsm]

Nicolette Swann *instert HoO reference here*

[@malu8710]

Yes.. I just found out that I'm bi, bcoz since a few weeks I've been having crush on my best girl friend... She's straight

[@alyssazerbe9964]

I feel like we should stop defining everyone all the time and just live.

[@stephaniey7407]

Same

[@awakehurtado2981]

I honestly can't under stand people for judging gays, or people who smoke weed I can kinda see but then it doesn't make any sense again.

[@mayabjo7495]

I agree I never really thought about "what I was " so to speak , I just went with what I was feeling until people told me to pick one to make it easier for them I guess.

[@embirlily]

The thing is, in my opinion, we need to acknowledge our differences and embrace them to truly be equal, because ignoring them just gives other people headroom to be jerks about differences, but once differences are seen as no big deal, regardless of how we define ourselves then 'just living' will be easy -shrugs-

[@alyssazerbe9964]

+mike Bjo I think it's just who ever you fall In love with you fall in love with.

[@AddPeewoow]

Jen is the Ellen DeGeneres of Buzzfeed

[@reesemcgeese824]

Ellen DeJeneres

[@bokeh3639]

You mean Ellen DeGenorous? Farewell

[@dxnnxxmc]

Agreed

[@pasionpozo]

YES

[@reesemcgeese824]

+suzie cocatoo I don't understand what you mean. did they misspell it originally?

[@stellbeau]

Easy: *sees photo of Brendon Urie* "mm yes" *sees photo of Sarah Urie* "mm yes" bISEXUALITY

[@kira-py8gt]

bluelunakitty YESSS or Sees Brendon and cries bc he’s Sarah’s Sees Sarah and cries bc she’s Brendon’s

[@avrilgarza3748]

we're here! we're queer! 😂

[@linlupin]

I'm really, really hoping that is a Tomska reference

[@95A1140]

Gattaca! Gattaca!

[@ericp4u]

you don't want anymore bears?

[@NymVoid]

They've nowhere to go!

[@laurelb.9504]

we're full of existential fear!

[@icyguys]

“What if I was gay?” 😂

[@Ilove.539]

Taylor whatttttttttttttttttttttt😂

[@basiaprice7675]

I knew I was bisexual when I realized that most girls don't check each other out in the locker room XD

[@lehonganh287]

Really? I secretly check other girls. In high school I would casually kiss my close girl friends.

[@baldkurapika3769]

YO THAT'S LITERALLY HOW I REALISED I WAS BI

[@frmtha602]

I'm bisexual in middle school and had gym first hour and I dont even do that!

[@Dragonaiis]

tHEY dONT.??

[@maxmeyers1822]

How did I know I was bisexual? Brendon and Sarah Urie.

[@imnotsocreative5985]

Savannah Meyers I love you

[@gayjesus477]

Savannah Meyers same

[@leaf00.o]

adra yessssss

[@kira3162]

Same

[@angelinagraham7805]

adra, nice Ethan profile!!

[@emilyslaton2100]

"Not gay enough for the heterosexual community and not straight enough for the straight community." So true. I still haven't come out to my ultra conservative family and I've been dating girls since I was 15. I just don't tell them about my girlfriends and pretend to be single and then I tell them about my boyfriends and pretend to be straight. It sucks because I'm 100% sure I lied girls more than guys but I'm worried about literally being completely shunned by my family.

[@ganzlove]

I hope you're doing well! :)

[@pinkplutobop]

I'm bi too and my family is also conservative. I also just don't tell them about girlfriends, because my view on it is that I don't need their approval, so I'm not fighting for it. I know I love being bi.

[@nataleedenlinger635]

We support you❤️

[@kayleebales8752]

Same

[@katiekat4047]

Homosexual not hetero that means straight

[@TheAztecScorpion]

Jen, I love how androgynous you look. I love how pretty you look in your makeup and yet how you mix your clothes to look both feminine with a touch of masculinity. I'm sorry if I'm labeling I don't mean to disrespect it's just in my opinion even if it's not intentional you completely rock your subtle androgyny.

[@izzymcfarland1399]

Agreed

[@TheAztecScorpion]

+Izzy Mcfarland right?

[@Awesomeness9842]

i honestly have a little bit of a crush on Jen. she's adorable to me >///

[@TheAztecScorpion]

Personally I am not sexually attracted to her, but I love how she carries her looks. I don't want to be "that girl" that gets all hipster for her but I can't help it. She rocks her looks and she doesn't have to do anything flashy to look awesome. I love it and tbh I had the exact same feelings over Joan Jett. I loved her tomboyish/girly style. Jen just rocks it differently

[@sylviatheresac.fernandez3997]

sameee idk why but im usually more attracted to androgynous girls when it comes to girls, not too girly and not too boyish

[@myweirdemolife8334]

why is jen's smile so cuttteeee😍😍😍

[@chocoluna7718]

why is JEN so cuttteeeeeeeee

[@Blveb3ll]

my weird emo life cuz Jen is cute

[@nicokitty1461]

because we cant has her

[@nlbm7429]

Yesss

[@mahuuasharma9876]

Yaass

[@beatnikmary]

Also, I have identified as bi for over 20 years now. At what point do I get to feel like people believe me when I say "it's not a phase"? I'm not "undecided"!

[@asiavf]

Beatnik yeah my friend she asked me one day we were texting and she was like how did I know and I told her and she was like its probably just a phase and I'm like its not. I found out I was bi in elementary im in middle now so if it was a phase it would probably be over now.

[@KallmeAbigail]

I’m currently on a everyday strugle where I Go from “What if I’m a Lesbian” to “What if I’m full straight?” Because I like butch wommen and I keep unvalidating my bisexuality

[@xariellexoxo]

"being attracted to both your gender and other genders" bisexuality is being attracted to both male and female pansexuality is being attracted to all genders when Jordyn said "both your gender and other genders" that sounds more like pansexual than bisexual in my opinion.

[@elilw8258]

I've written this before but I've never heard a bisexual saying that they are only attracted to women and men, and not non-binary people. I've only heard those identifying as pansexual saying that, which I think says something. If most bisexuals think this way, and "bisexual" is the more common and older term, why use another and newer word for the same thing?

[@sarahadler8760]

actually, bisexuality means you like two genders. that DOES NOT LIMIT IT. it does not mean "male and female" it just means two genders. also if she's comfortable with saying bisexual then let her be. it's just a label. she doesn't have to say pan if she is used to what she's called now

[@mayabjo7495]

+Emelie LW true

[@rooftopshootaz8927]

Two different words that have the same meaning lol!!!!

[@marron-ing]

bisexuality is attraction to 2+ genders (im bi and attracted to all genders) and pansexuality is attraction regardless of gender

[@natattacc99]

"Bye"...get it...like "good-bi"?? ;D Eh, eh? Mom, plz don't disown me--

[@elyssatruman1292]

they missed a golden opportunity for a pun right there

[@gillianfeeney2047]

I don't bi it.

[@-.-5899]

Haha😂😂😂

[@ch4rl3t]

I don't understand how you get bi in life...

[@ch4rl3t]

To bi or not to bi, that is the question..

[@spookykidbunny]

how did I know? four words. Xena the Warrior Princess.

[@alleycatalog]

Me too! OMG Her warcry make me weak in the knees!

[@aevamickaylap2570]

how I know. 2 words. Regina Mills.

[@chemicalreactions9690]

excatly :DD

[@oddtop5122]

+Xx Lana Lover xX Laura Prepon am I right

[@EllieJayden]

Or Angelina Jolie in Gia ❤️

[@savagekoalaftw9622]

I'm watching this in my closet.

[@abbyw7444]

SavageKoala FTW I do that all the time, I used to have like snacks and everything in there, now it's just blankets and pillows 😂

[@analeyva5924]

Currently me right know, it’s about to be 2am. It’s safe in here isn’t.....?

[@confuseddiluc4972]

Saaame

[@fritziundso]

make an episode with someone asexual! :) the awareness of asexuals is still soo little :(

[@vjlva]

You're right!

[@lynxaway]

That would be amazing. I'm ace and I feel practically invisible.

[@dawitbeemjage5066]

what are asaexuels

[@fritziundso]

well, being a doesn't mean you don't want a relationship or fall in love. and if you fall in love with a heterosexual, that's how it is. it's probably not the easiest, but it can work.

[@beeforest2825]

I want to see someone on here that is Demisexual.

[@arianasilva8023]

the intro reminded me of the video where you marry Kelsey.

[@ashleyv.3221]

same

[@lore6341]

SAMEEE

[@torivetter778]

I THOUGHT THE SAME THING

[@ef9143]

Yup

[@torinicole4650]

SAMEE

[@tornbutterfly5351]

Why do most people forget there is a sexuality called Panasexual, I legit think most people forget it exists sometimes in the LGBT community bc most people never talk about it.

[@crossfireeditor2771]

Pansexual?

[@lizzypatterson9655]

+Crossfire | GFX You don't focus on the gender you just love them for there personality

[@thepoppins2745]

+Crossfire | GFX it's bisexual but fancy

[@cyiza8444]

What does it mean?

[@midfeather2802]

What is that

[@chingyilin2903]

I know I'm bi because I question myself if I "like" the leader of my class once. I know I am. She's a cute girl. But I also like the classmate who's a boy. That's my story.

[@ant-pn3vg]

ching yi lin Im asexual cause I hate all girls im not attracted to them nor boys.

[@ioanacutudi4886]

If you're not sure you like that girl, you are not essentially bi.Try not to label yourself and just let life flow

[@chingyilin2903]

+Ioana Styles Thank you for the opinion. :)

[@TrinityMonetK]

OMG YES JEN HAS A SHOW NOW YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

[@TrinityMonetK]

How did I know : Watching Jen videos lmao

[@ilikemusic2726]

YAS JEN HAS A SHOW

[@emmajones3191]

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[@cutecreeper33]

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[@NovasNovelties]

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[@natalie6162]

|-/

[@aidanbryant4633]

|-/ TØP YASSSSSSSS

[@sammorrison8042]

Being bisexual is the best thing. You literally have twice the potential partners than any straight or gay. I wish I was a bi.

[@theprocatstinator4027]

you actually have fewer because so many people are reluctant to date someone who's bisexual

[@sammorrison8042]

+The Procatstinator Even better. You have all the open minded people. :I

[@CKIndyJack]

I'm probably way pickier than my straight or gay friends. Go experiment, you might be bi, you never know.

[@idkhow]

no, most people dont want someone bisexual because they might get tired of (example, they're a bisexual female dating a guy) they might get tired of a man and want a female and will leave you.

[@theprocatstinator4027]

...wow. that is literally the most ignorant thing i've heard. if i'm gonna break up with someone, it's not gonna be because i feel like dating another gender. that's not how it works. this is doing nothing but encouraging the myth that bi people are more likely to cheat which isn't true at all

[@subliminals4953]

My friends: what is it like being bi? Me: it’s complicated

[@nadiayakich6287]

I love Jen, she's so funny and awesome. And this video is really great, I identify as bisexual which was difficult for me to kinda realize or, well not coming out, maybe more like convince myself to be honest. I dated a lot of guys and drowned myself emotionally so I didn't have to 'deal' with my feelings for girls as well. Which was obviously very easy for me because I liked guys as well. Recently I have overcome that in my life and after coming out I feel much more relieved. All of my friends were totally cool with it, I even gained some new friends thru the lgbt community. My dad didn't like it, he ignores that part of me and I've never brought a girl home so how I ignored that part of me for so long before he does that now. But everyone is different and I think that coming out should b something praised and maybe even later down the line it won't b something that people have to 'come out'. It'll just b a question to get to know someone like "what's ur favorite color"

[@nadiayakich6287]

wow lots of words, holy crap

[@nadiayakich6287]

OH MY GOD AND I DIDNT EVEN SWEAR

[@eliseg8770]

THAT LAST COMMENT WAS SO RELATABLE HAHAH and that last statement in your big comment is really true, like how at my friend's school people ask what's your pronouns when they get to know you

[@nicoleisgrate305]

lol, I don't know if I'm even in the closet

[@maybeimkarma]

+Nicole Goutman same I've been throwing out hints on musically that I'm Polysexual and idk if people r taking hints although I haven't come out on my channel so shhhhh

[@ninarose7923]

I'm bisexual and terrified of coming out

[@daniellecarmelamoreno2523]

Sometimes it's easier to come out to strangers than those close to you.

[@nosarabs]

Thats two of us!

[@alexandra000018]

Been there. Not easy but don't be afraid. It gets better as time goes on. :)

[@daniellecarmelamoreno2523]

It sucks honestly, I live in the Philippines with a very Catholic parents and friends. I also study in a, yet again, Catholic university.

[@clarissawebb7652]

I came out as bi few months ago. Its absolutely terrifying, yet I am free to be me. Other people will just have to deal with it! Don't ever apologize for who you are :)

[@BleachedBlackSocks]

I am pan........ 'hearts before parts'

[@officialmarshmallow2474]

Minecraft Unicorn Love that phrase

[@Blveb3ll]

Roblox Unicorn YEEEEEEE, that phrase is adorable

[@maxthehuman8162]

YASS

[@BlueBarth]

*We're Pantastic*

[@ganzlove]

What's the difference between pan and bi?

[@caitlinmorrison2411]

The hing I hate most is when I'm in a relationship with a guy and my gay friends get mad because I'm not gay and I'm just like, "IM SORRY THAT A MAN MAKES ME HAPPY"

[@adibingchalamet914]

interesting 😲

[@オリーブオ]

I can already tell that this is gonna be a good series XD

[@josephaugustinerhodenhiser1353]

It'll be fun.

[@a.c.e-luvr]

|-/ hi clique (-:

[@オリーブオ]

+Band Trash |-/ hi fren :)

[@オリーブオ]

+Maya's AYYYYYY HEY CLIQUE

[@im_bored2777]

I love your thumbnail nail

[@edrycp]

One of the hardest things about being bisexual is when those in your own community, the LGBT community, doesn't take your sexuality seriously. It's even harder being a male bisexual. People are so convinced that I'm still confused. Getting that at the age of 21 is quite annoying to say the least.

[@just_lexys3970]

ikr?! so annoying. It seems more difficult for male bisexuals... have you seen Onision's #proudtobe hate comments video?? its...interesting to say the least

[@tassieme]

It's not easier being a female bi tho. I'm turning 32 this year and some people tell me that it's just a phase for the fact that I realised my gayness or I wold say my bi-ness when I was close to the 30th year of mine. I know it might be a bit late to figure out myself at this point but better late than never, isn't it?

[@CKIndyJack]

Thank you.

[@박지민-n1r]

being a bi guy is really hard. I feel like I'm not masculine enough for girls.

[@lindseymoorhouse8312]

I'm bi too and my old friends, who are in the LGBT+ community, basically told me that I'm "less gay" than them because I've only been in relationships with the opposite gender... -_-

[@lexismith5661]

I knew I was bi because I liked girls and boys. Isn't that how everyone knew?

[@artistsComplex]

Everyone comes to the realization in their own time, in their own way.

[@lazyperfectionist3978]

it took me until my last year of high school to figure out I was asexual. Other people take longer for their orientations.

[@00RoxPink]

nope. my family was religious and I was taught being gay was impossible. i was in denial my whole childhood and I had an obsession with girls and their beauty . I eventually gave up with lying to myself because I was constantly fantasizing and dreaming about other girls. I'm now in a loyal relationship of 2 years with a guy.

[@nouranez5634]

+LimeSkittles Your story is intresting, I hope you're happy ♡

[@micaylarobbins5727]

I felt attracted to girls like I was attracted to guys when I was in middle school and beginning high school, but I didn't really think anything of it until I thought about it one day. For a while I didn't even really know what being bisexual was and when I learned I realized that I'm bi.

[@MAO13092]

Im almost 27 years old. Growing up ive always felt like a lesbian. Everyone knew at school and i told my parents i thought i was too. Ive always felt different from other girls since i was 5. The best way i can explain the feeling is as if I wasnt on the same "level" as other girls. When play time came i would go play with boys, and the girls would all play with other girls. I didnt like girly things and was a total tomboy until high school. I felt a pull towards other girls since i was little but didnt know what it meant. I did not choose it, it's just a part of my being and something ive felt within myself for a long time. No child chooses to be/feel different in kindergarten. I never felt attracted to boys like other girls did growing up. So, I identify as a lesbian up until 10th grade i have my first relationship with a boy. We were friends first but i felt more than a friendship connection at the time and he did too. I thought i was in love with him, and was heartbroken when he broke up with me. So after everyone says im Bi and i deny it. 10 years go by and there have been other men i have been interested in, even though i am not attracted to men. I am capable of dating men eventhough im not attracted to them. Most lesbians will tell you there's no way they could be with a man, and have no interest in them at all. I feel as if my sexuality is on a scale. Im definitely not straight, but not quite gay either..im in between with a leaning towards women, therefore i am Bi.

[@soccerbrat1453]

For someone that identifies as pansexual, I say I'm gay a lot

[@sehnisweet343]

actually same

[@jhopestoe9485]

yo armeh!!!!!!!1

[@elipire8968]

always a pleasure to find a fellow queer army, HI FRIEND

[@flowerryoongi]

Same and army^-^

[@flowerryoongi]

Same and army^-^

[@ch0colatec0ff33]

tbh I think i have a crush on Jen i need help

[@savannahmay8108]

Same. How old is Jen?

[@iBeFloe]

22?? She graduated from college 2015 I think.

[@ch0colatec0ff33]

Crazy Kat im not sure im sure she is in her 20's though

[@ch0colatec0ff33]

iBeFloe probably

[@MrGameplayGirl]

same here

[@NATALARIS]

I'm an asexual in a hetero relationship. But apparently we don't exist xD Ay!

[@memesquirrel4505]

I HATE acephobes, mainly because they have no reason to hate us. Our sexuality does exist, obviously, or there wouldn't be so many people who are asexual.

[@jack._.6535]

you are also fabulous

[@fancymeows5846]

I honestly don't understand people's phobias with the sexuality of others. O.o It doesn't effect them in any way.

[@StargateUnending]

Well it's not actually a phobia. They're just ignorant idiots.

[@NATALARIS]

Yea, I've never actually got hate before, mainly just disbelief or pity (I never understand the pity).

[@piplewis5139]

I LOVE JEN SO MUCH SHES TOO ADORABLE AND SQUISHY AND GAY AND ITS SO NICE

[@zoeishere5910]

is it bad that I ship them?

[@SuperIcelight]

No! They'd be so cute together!

[@IJustBrokeSomeMetal]

omg yasss

[@clariquia]

#Jendan 😂😂😂

[@maryispanda]

dude it's shipping everything is bad when you ship but we love it an still do it

[@Its_just_kg]

I ship Jen with everyone because i love her lmao

[@Bhawna03]

I LOVE THIS NEW SERIES. MORE JEN, MORE JEN!!!

[@foxsila6688]

A soul crushing moment is when you have a crush is when you fall for your best friend, you have known each other for years, told each other every secret, besides this one. You watch them fall in love with someone else and you heart aches. Everytime you see them, you think: why can't I just tell them, why?

[@Kevin-ug5sg]

Jesus she has big arms i feel weak

[@seeknprotect6179]

And yo think that's pure muscle?

[@Super-vk4xh]

I mean she does CrossFit like crazzzzy and she has a yt channel

[@seeknprotect6179]

Oh ok. I mean she definetly doesnt look weak

[@starsmarah209]

How I found out I was bi was when I liked this girlhood worked at the pool as a lifeguard. I knew I liked guys but I felt weird towards here. One day I dragged her into the water with me and I took her underwater with me and I kissed her. I told my friends and they declared me bisexual. I thought about and I was like "ok I'm bi now".

[@starsmarah209]

* girl who

[@yeet428]

What happened with that girl?? O_o

[@bellathreesweetbrownies9357]

I thought I was straight but now I'm literally questioning everything

[@kpopuniverse1273]

Threesweetbrownies You might be bi or pan I’m bi

[@fiflag]

I came out to my family. They didn't believe me. They think it's a phase that's magically going to change once I'm suddenly "old enough" to know. As if they didn't know they were straight at 16!

[@wiinojunko]

I say this: If you like a girl, go get her. If you like a boy, go get him. I feel as if you like a girl, but would be good with a boy, then you do you. None is stopping you, be Brendon Urie for all I care! Just be who you wanna be. ;)

[@caitlinisnottotallylame3696]

AND NEVER DID I THINK THAT I WOULD BE CAUGHT UP IN THE WAY YOU GOT ME 'CAUSE (carry it on p!atd fam)

[@aninablack446]

GIRLS LOVE GIRLS AND BOYS AND LOVE IS NOT A CHOICE

[@lexiesmith6498]

+Anina Black POSE,YOU GOTTA SAVE YOUR REPUTATION,THEY'RE SO CLOSE,TO FINDING OUT ABOUT YOUR GIRLFRIEND

[@KinkyNinjas]

BUT IF YOU CHANGE YOUR MIND YOU KNOW WHERE I AM

[@mitchiem6275]

GIRLS LOVE GIRLS AND BOYS

[@perlacastaneda6611]

AND LOVE IS NOT A CHOICE

[@oliviabaldwin1845]

Oh my god! When they say "welcome to the Closet" it's referring to the beginning of your queer travels, and at the end they say "it's time to come out of the closet" like after all this info you are ready, or something. Are you picking up what I'm putting down?

[@nicksheerin6520]

Olivia Baldwin I dropped it.

[@anthonys7660]

I'm bi and I use gay/straight the way a biracial person uses there races

[@anthonys7660]

Their

[@ChynaBryan]

i like this, but as a bi person who is technically half white and half black.... i dont exactly get to call myself a white woman ukno? i agree with the idea of this like i use the terms gay and straight like that too if im understanding what ur saying....but if i went out anywhere and called myself a white woman people would think that im out of my mind.

[@inchw0rm]

+Chyna Bryan That's a good point. I guess that's kinda the way bi people tend to talk about themselves too, like how calling themselves gay isn't usually that weird, but calling themselves straight would seem wrong.

[@blackk_rose_]

+Morgan Phillips That's exactly how I do it tbh. I would sometimes refer to myself or the things I do as "gay", but I'd never call myself "straight". Maybe because gay is used as an umbrella term sometimes or it's just my inner desire to be a full part of the community even though some people think I only belong there if I date a woman. I also do it because saying "I'm so gay" sounds better than "I'm so bi".

[@robertlongwill8856]

+Gabby Mynarcik! hello I am a bisexual male I would like to meet you

[@emmablossom2458]

Can you put Amandaschronichles on this with Jen

[@yam-ingtonjr7606]

YEASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

[@izzyberry69]

this is the best idea ever

[@pn5894]

YES I NEED THAT I LOVE AMANDA SO MUCH

[@rileyr9467]

Yes omg!!

[@eleanorharrington469]

TwentyFiveSecondsOf ReptilianCrybabiesAtTheDisco! YES

[@ashligeran5039]

being bi isn't gay enough for the LGBT community? the lesbian gay BISEXUAL transgender community. what??

[@theprocatstinator4027]

go to a pride and see how (usually) white cis gay men treat bisexuals. i will never go to any sort of pride event because i'm legitimately afraid of what my own community would do to me. i know plenty of bi men and women who have been spit on, told that pride wasn't for them, and one of them almost got beat up.

[@popcorn1304]

Even tho we're in the acronym we often get overlooked or not taken seriously. LGBT is an umbrella term for not-straight/not-cisgender but sometimes does not focus on the B or the T as much. Like Jordan said we're seen as not gay enough or not straight enough. Also alot of lesbians or gay men come out as bisexual before fully coming out so some don't think it exists. They think you're just too scared to come out. which is not the case. Bisexuality is real and valid on its own.

[@ashligeran5039]

Then maybe they should take BISEXUAL out of LGBT

[@CKIndyJack]

+The Procatstinator True. I've had gay men harass me about my bisexuality before.

[@theprocatstinator4027]

or we could, you know, start treating bisexuals better

[@BigSqueeGG]

Who cares who you want to love, I don't. -Fellow Atheist

[@BigSqueeGG]

Also what a pointless video.

[@CaitlynFrench]

last time I checked you don't choose who you love but okay.

[@BigSqueeGG]

Haha you don't? You just love random people?

[@nort7117]

+BigSqueeGG I wish I could choose who I love. I have a crush on my best friend lmao

[@CaitlynFrench]

BigSqueeGG love is something that occurs, you don't choose love. also i would appreciate if you don't call me cuntlyn thanks.

[@angel-cm3vr]

"If someone tells you who they are, believe them." No one ever believes me it sucks

[@skele8218]

Hey, I'm only 12 but I think im a lesbian. Will my parents take me seriously? I'm afraid that they'll think that im not old enough to decide that. Help

[@ImHatingHard]

If you don't think your safe yet, don't endanger yourself by coming out. It can be a pain, but it's better for you if you're at risk. That being said, if you approach your parents sincerely, they should take it sincerely. As for your age, it doesn't really matter even if they don't believe you, because when your older you may still identify as a lesbian, and that should be more than enough proof for them, I think.

[@skele8218]

ImHatingHard Thank you very much :). I've scoured many sites and all over KZbin and I haven't quite found an answer, but you have given me a pretty reasonable one. Thank you.

[@ImHatingHard]

skele No problem! I wish you luck!

[@rainbow_ddaeng3058]

skele Same except bi

[@ant-pn3vg]

skele Im asexual I dont like girls nor guys

[@ValeriaMoreno98]

I love this series already

[@lucky-px6pv]

"I'm a lesboon" *me coming out to literally everyone in my family* (I'm awkward)

[@zhoustanley7]

I don't know what to comment about.

[@ashleyv.3221]

same

[@morgancook4288]

Yeah I came to the video then I relised I dont care about any of this at all.

[@jasminecastillos4467]

+Morgan Cook *realized

[@torkey5681]

+Jazzy Cakes realised

[@jasminecastillos4467]

+Mew Ace *realized

[@ktb071]

OMFG yes!!!! Jen! That squirrel pillow in the background, A+

[@georgiamwillis]

JEN HAS HER OWN SHOW???? QUEEN

[@SargeRho]

Fell for my male best friend after breaking up with my girlfriend. I suspected, but wasn't sure, that I was bisexual long before that.

[@angelacanedit]

sounds complicated. did you ever tell him?

[@SargeRho]

angela g I did, and it's been a few years, but our friendship is stronger than ever, although we never dated, since he's straight, and I never really acted on those feelings.

[@fridejsvendsen1758]

now talk about pansexual people

[@annavmp]

YEESSS!!!

[@bunnyfudgeagar89]

yes, I would like that

[@andrescavazos5533]

Yes, that would be amazing!

[@disneydatney8751]

what's pansexual?

[@bridgettecaldwell1871]

+beyonce fuii its when u like everyone like trans, gender neutral, girl and guy etc

[@erikaa.1295]

@ 0:20 loved the Detroit T shirt!!! Much love from the D!!!

[@damnbratillsue1034]

I knew, because Hermione. And Harry. Both.

[@remhenshaw4313]

Welcome me back into the closet??? no thanks!!! been out for 6 years

[@naromngin]

Jen playing truth or gay trying to get some action

[@Tiani707]

Very true. I get so annoyed when people allow the gender of the person I'm currently dating to determine my sexuality. Not gay enough for the gays, not straight enough for the straight people... it really is a struggle and it's discouraging when you don't know many other bisexual people so watching videos like this and seeing other bisexual people go through the same struggles as you is very comforting. Thanks for the video!

[@weery33]

So if bi is liking two different genders, is pan liking all genders? If so, what is omnisexual?

[@caitlinmorrison2411]

Martin Schmidt bi is basically just people that are born either male or female, pans includes transgenders, transvestites, unisexuals, (? Is that the word?) etc

[@simonelebaron4985]

omnisexual=Captain Jack Harkness

[@sophia-pp2pv]

Martin Schmidt omnisexual is liking all genders equally, pan can be one gender more than others

[@ferninthehouse]

Omnisexual and pansexual are the same thing. One is Greek and one is Latin.

[@maisielynch2626]

Martin Schmidt Pan is not taking gender into account, whereas omni is liking all genders.

[@jennydunn340]

I'm not bisexual, I'm gay but I have friends that are bi and if they have a girlfriend, someone will say "oh you're gay" and they so "I'm bi" and they're like "if you're going out with the same gender that makes you gay" like no, they're still bi.

[@trini5793]

I THINK IM BI BUT I HAVENT DATED ANYONE YET 😭

[@savannahmorrison1461]

that's fine if you ever date a girl/guy and realize you aren't into it there's no shame in changing your label your as long as your happy that's all that matters

[@CKIndyJack]

How do straight people know they're straight as kids with no dating or sexual experience? Same with us. You don't have to know right away.

[@milenalavalle1754]

It's okay! You are still valid and part of the LG*B*TQ community, don't let anyone say otherwise!

[@felicityrivas583]

Same but idk if I would just use bi as an umbrella term for maybe say biromantic (for me at least) because I've had crushes on some of my very close girl friends and think that girls are attractive but I've never felt the "fvck her" part of be her or fvck her. It's all so complicated rn I might just leave it alone for now and say I'm straight until I feel otherwise ¯\(ツ)/¯

[@laundrybasketlyfe5596]

Thanks, I needed it in words

[@asmolgaytree]

Probably my favorite In The Closet by far, love how Jen has her own show cause she's my favorite

[@rachellee483]

i agree. because im married to a man, i feel like im not "gay enough" or just "not gay" even though i know that i am. i cant help who im attracted to and i cant help who i love. i still think that alot of people think that bisexual, means youre just indecisive or want to be "interesting" and that bisexual isnt a real sexual orientation

[@audreydurham7637]

Aye I'm pansexual

[@DenverTheNinja]

pan club

[@bandtrash3658]

same.

[@blazenightvault]

What is pan sexual?

[@rachelt.8686]

when u like anybody straight or from the lgtq community

[@darby8448]

+Khai (exe) Being attracted to all types of people, not just male and female. Like being attracted to trans peeps and stuff. So great at explaining 😂😂

[@ren8427]

Jen is my favourite person on the planet

[@randomjean]

well i dunno... im kinda on the fence between her, Eugene and my best friend

[@rubyfox3424]

they are so chillaxed and welcoming and real, it's wonderful

[@youtubeuser84848]

Is everyone on buzzfeed either gay or bi????

[@Claire.Chenault]

No

[@HiBye-rw1ng]

+Pesco There's actually plenty of straight people.

[@ikAEmmA]

Ned is straight...and always talks about his wife....😹😹😹

[@diamonddog2638]

+ikAEmmA ALWAYS.

[@bunneh5563]

+ikAEmmA it's not a buzzfeed video if Ned doesn't mention his wife

[@JamesRevan]

"When someone tells you who they are, believe them!" I am a waffle maker.

[@jordanhines2417]

Girls/Girls/Boys (p!atd) Girls like girls (Hayley kiyIFORGOT) Heaven (Troye Sivan) Just some recommendations for da peeps

[@byankagonzalez0729]

It’s Hayley kiyoko

[@talaarezoumand8546]

Please make more of this series It's really helpful

[@jordanhines2417]

This is so weird, because my name is also Jordan and I'm also bi

[@craftytay101love]

I FOUND MY BI CRYBABY FAM 💦🍼👶🏼👏🏻😍

[@FlownOut]

+Mabel Pines Where is my prescription, Doctor, doctor please listen

[@jayramirez866]

Omg that's too good 😂

[@nb7673]

I am also Jordan and Bi lol

[@jordanhines2417]

***** this is so weird

[@camrynaleyanolen]

I'm so bi but I know my conservative mom won't accept me😭

[@tyandbrookebeauty1018]

😂

[@tyandbrookebeauty1018]

*😭

[@kiiidollasign]

Same except I live with my grandmother and I have no other place to go... so I don't really have a choice😭

[@theconfusedamuser3930]

Fire her.

[@reemanabulsi86]

+Saltmeister Shut up keemstar

[@missionimpossibleimpossibl8013]

I'm thirteen and I'm lesbian but I haven't came out to any of my friends: what do I do

[@katzevanille1811]

wait till it feels right and tell a close friend.

[@missionimpossibleimpossibl8013]

Thank you I'll take your advice😆

[@katzevanille1811]

honestly you don't need to tell them if you dont want to, like, your sexuality does not define you :) like if they're asking you if a guy is hot etc, just explain that you don't really like guys etc. Young people can be very very cruel and may be shocked by your orientation but true friends won't care at all.

[@swimmerzo]

honestly I'd think about it for a while. take a step back and observe your feelings. let yourself have time to think and grow. things change or they don't, but either way it's healthier to give yourself time to be certain and comfortable with yourself before you come out

[@peterturkeyburger4708]

well im late but if you dont want to make it a big deal you can just caually "come out" (you can think of ways) or just bring your girlfriend and be like "Hey this is my girlfriend". anyways, no one is automatically straight, you "come out" when you're ready

[@sarahnorment]

That squirrel pillow is everything! 💕

[@caplan9986]

Should I come out as bi? Btw, I'm 13. I really need support at this time, so please help me.

[@emilyconnell7091]

Same

[@lupe7763]

You should If you can't pick which gender you prefer.

[@technicolourjpg]

what are your parents opinion on the lgbtq+ community? I mean it is pride month so you can easily just slip that into a convo if you don't know what your parents think. like you could say "hey the pride parade looks so cool, what do you guys think" make sure your parents are like relaxed at the time and chilled, don't I repeat DONT approach when they are stressed/busy. if they seem supportive give it a few months and ask yourself "do I accept myself for being (in your case) bi?" ask that over and over you want to be 110% positive that you're ready. if your parents seem not supportive of the lgbtq+ community give it time. i'd say a year or two and during that time build a relationship with them, get to know them and be comfortable around them. worst case possible you'll have to wait till your in collage/uni where you're already a legal adult and have a place to stay if your parents decide to (heaven forbid) kick you out/temporarily remove you from their life. best of luck xx

[@technicolourjpg]

if you need any more advice feel free to reply asking questions, I can only fit so much in a comment haha xx

[@kate_2v]

If you are unsure which gender you like then you definitely should

[@jamiespencer3705]

Proud bisexual right here

[@jaykatara8860]

Man, that closet is so cool. It's nice and spacious. And there's some cool clothes hanging behind them. I wish I was in the closet. ...oh wait, I am.

[@lellieari]

This is my favourite ever buzzfeed show. Probably because it always has Jen :) Jen is the best ❤️

[@LauraAura123123]

Me: **comes out of the closet** Me: **trips**

[@trex_god5772]

"what if I was gay" that's how I would wanna discover myself

[@rosemantique9989]

"i'm lesboon" Jen is adorable

[@yeahno744]

A lot of people also assume I'm straight. I'm bi, only about 5-6 people know. I found out when I found feelings for a friend of mine