How do I choose between more than one man?

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Wondering how to choose the right man? Dating multiple men who have good qualities can be really overwhelming
What if you choose the wrong one?
How do you know the “good” stuff you see in the one you choose won’t backfire?
How do you let a really good man down, after you’ve been looking for one for so long?
Can’t you just keep dating them both until one of them really messes up?
I dive into this exact question from a viewer in this episode of KavtaTV.
There are some very specific questions you need to be sure you ask the men you’re dating (and yourself) to get clear on who to choose.
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[@karishiller2565]

I had to pick out of two amazing men. One adored me and would do anything for me. He was such a help to me but was also clear he wasn’t one to date someone if they were dating others. I was also dating someone else that was smart and just had this amazing presence about him that kept me drawn to him. I ended up choosing the first guy (the supportive guy). I felt rushed to make a decision. I’m still heartbroken over losing the other guy. I feel I didn’t give him/us a fair chance. My decision still haunts me. I truly think both men are wonderful choices I just hope I don’t mess it up with the guy I did choose over feelings of regret.

[@aartisachdeva]

So u made the right choice by choosing the first one ?

[@kactapuzzle]

How’s it going now, Kari?

[@emilyc5625]

I’m in the EXACT same situation and I will have to choose someone in the next 2 -3weeks . If I pick one I won’t stop thinking about the other and if I pick the other I also know I won’t stop thinking about the other . Really a curse I’ll be rolling the dice just an awful feeling

[@rcjacksonbrighton]

@@emilyc5625yes!!!! I can relate 😢

[@Anna-ov6wc]

How are u now?

[@fatimarehman3463]

How do you choose between a very nice guy who you somehow don’t have a lot of feelings for and someone you’re really attracted to but don’t really have a deeper connection 🥲

[@nandigeiger8082]

Doing this now. I broke up with my long distance ex for my closer ex and now I’m leaning more toward the long distance guy. Some things money can’t buy. Faked spirituality and things don’t equate to a genuine connection and care. There were some doubts before but the more I stay with the vulgar man the more I see what I gave up. Time tells all. Screw New York, I’m moving to Germany!

[@christina2901]

Omg, did you actually?

[@doriangrey9702]

I chose myself and left them both. I regret not knowing what would have happened. One was my best friend and I miss him the most. So now I know .

[@lovekavita]

Have you reached out to your best friend since?

[@doriangrey9702]

@@lovekavita he passed away from glioblastoma last October.

[@Anna-ov6wc]

Guys, you should leave both

[@jamestolliver6233]

I would have to be desired! after all don't Women usually make the decisions? I say bring it all together and each provides a unique talent filling up the desires to keep it up to the highest levels! Super Hot! they are in deep enough to be the best of them LOL Will be at peace with the friends and all drama stops, need to know and I'll see what the hell she's almost every day and night and I will complete the game! SHOW AND TELL TIME!

[@violet2043]

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[@marthajohelson59]

Hey Kavita, just watching in 2018. I need your help, am confused about 2 guys . There's this one guy i just can't get over, we talk just about anything, he believes in my dreams but we''ve distant due to locations and also this other new guy, his great, rich, older than me and he also supports my dreams. Am really having a had time choosing!

[@shenees8568]

Martha Johelson you’re describing what I’m going through. Who did you pick and how is it going??

[@marthajohelson59]

@@shenees8568 Am with the rich guy currently however it's along distance r/ship trouble comes when I meet face to face with the other guy. I just can't resist him

[@shenees8568]

Martha Johelson oh girl🙃 we are in the same boat. It’s like they are both halves you want and if you could take the attraction to one and stability from the other then boom you’d be happy

[@marthajohelson59]

But we gotta choose one someday, take the risk with whomever we choose and take full responsibility of our decision.

[@shenees8568]

Martha Johelson yes, before there is no option. Which do you feel like you will choose? Money or love?

[@usernmae77]

I have 1 guy who is ready made family man but works too much, then I have my ex who doesn't work at all and has no ambition-but has all the time for me. Help!

[@usernmae77]

I value family, goals, money and love. They both split those qualities. Hard to choose!

[@lovekavita]

Why do you think you are attracting men that can’t hold or take care of all of you? Where does that come from? This is the pattern I can see, and know everyone has patterns in love.

[@violet2043]

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