How Do You Define Love? | The Bachelor's Sean & Catherine Lowe

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[@Dolltronvr]

My absolute favorite bachelor couple. I truly hope they last forever!!!! Love you guys!!

[@rainbowrain58]

lorraindoll I love them and Ashley and jp too

[@JeffersonBethkepage]

NEW VIDEO!! The Bachelor's Sean & Catherine Lowe define love and their answer is amazing!! A must watch, especially the last few seconds.

[@LanceKirkman]

Who is Sean & Catherine and what are their stories ***** ?

[@AlishaAbraham_HEAVEN4ME]

Nancy Tedesco GOD IS LOVE !!!!

[@nena2oo4]

It sounds perfect hearing from other people but when you are in the middle of the situation yourself its hard! I love the fact that I after 1 yr and half my husband and I still argues like there is no tomorrow and still cant get over hoe much I love him. God is good in so many levels that it amazes me when He asks the men to love his wife like He loves His church and to the women to submit to her husband and still get hurt over this love every day. Love is forgiveness and so much more like it says on I Co .13 that you can turn around and around and find every excuses in the whole world to try to ease yourself from give in but at the end you only loving your perfect "self". God is so amazing that He still loves me so much even after I hurt, cheat and forget him with my sins!

[@AlishaAbraham_HEAVEN4ME]

Lorena Fonseca Valente Well Jefferson Bethke himself has said in one of his video that when the husband and wife OR girlfriend and boyfriend together focuses on God,he sees to it that their relationship lasts stronger even through hardships. Have faith. And may God bless you two to find the love that brought you together in the first place.

[@Frankiponken]

Lorena Fonseca Valente Reading a book, yesterday read: When arguiing, try not to "win" but to understand each other. :D

[@itsmeLize]

Recently learned that my mom wasn't in love with my dad when they got married. Today they've been more than happily married and in love for 26 years. Talk about choosing to love, and working at it. Love this video. :)

[@iMrPrimetime]

I agree completely, love is an action and a choice.

[@dynamicwomankrys412]

Yes iv always believed that since as i was a kid

[@DevBee]

Agree!

[@SarahVargasMúsica]

They are very transparent, very real and genuine! Love them! I think God was never mentioned not because Shawn wasn't interested in mentioning it but because of how specific the questions were asked. God is the source of love and they know that.

[@MarkHumphreysChannel]

Love is a verb! Great advice Sean! Thanks for bringing them on your channel for a great video Jeff!

[@KatieCongrove]

I'm excited to read Sean's book. I loved having a real Christian guy on The Bachelor.

[@cyidream]

Love you guys! So glad to see that you are hanging in there. With God all things are possible! Be Blessed!

[@rchari1]

Great message and thank you for being real. Love is a verb and you really do continue to work on it daily. Have been married for 29 years and we are still working on loving each other. I love that you have made a commitment to love each other and that is very important and it help during the time when feeling cannot cut it. Continue to share, God is truly using you guys!!

[@MichelleCarrozza]

I totally agree! LOVE IS A VERB...and its a commitment to work at it everyday, but it's also the most beautiful thing God has blessed us with:)))

[@CassandraBarthelemy]

Omg!!! I love these two!!! There wedding ceremony had me in tears! It was wonderful!

[@strayabeatz5102]

Jefferson. Can you do a video on, do we need to be baptised to be saved, women and speaking in the church, bible prophesy or revelation? I just think some of those things would be interesting to hear your opinion

[@CB-lg8hj]

this would be great! @jeffersonbethke

[@overcomeevilwithgood]

sean your wife has a great smile. thanks for the message

[@KerenHMorales]

FINALLY! I had long awaited this video because to this day, they remain my favorite bachelor couple. The video was quick, and fun, and genuine. Also, Sean's "to quote the great John Mayer..." Made my night. I'm a huge Mayer fan. Great video!!

[@airam-sj2172]

They are so real and honest, there are some days that I don't like my husband either and I am sure he doesn't like me as well.

[@alexmedina7266]

I LOVED THEM!!

[@candacealvarez2106]

When God brings you that person. .the spiritual connection is there beyond your reasoning

[@Stephanieleanne94]

Omg I love them and I'm so happy for them ❤️

[@LNatureblush]

I am so in love with this couple

[@maa3979]

We are to give God the glory in all that we do...No mention of that anywhere in this video....Cmon Jeff....

[@alexanderuneev9744]

It's amazing how yr videos help so much jeff

[@abahellojello]

Is there more to this video with them including Christ in their relationship?

[@taytaytaylorj]

I hope there are more videos to come!

[@NaomiIris]

Love is a verb...Yep Indeed!

[@erindullaway9913]

Thank you for this!

[@osirisasmr1936]

Beautiful!!!!

[@JesusHippy78]

omg they are soooo perfect!

[@adrianbed6984]

I love it! Jesus is love. Praise his name!

[@hugo52]

Does anyone know the music that played in the background?? Also, it was interesting hearing their thoughts in this topic as most people tend to struggle with it its nice to hear their view on it.

[@devmikael2327]

love the interview! just a quick question though... song name please...

[@starliight54]

ohmygod life goals af

[@JessicaBurgo]

They are my absolute 1 thousand percent my role models when it comes to relationship goals!

[@SoldierForChrist98]

Nice!

[@mimilocke4442]

Yes there were times I don't like my husband at all but I love him more than I like him that's why I stayed with him. :-)

[@estrelladavila1776]

I'm bisexual and goth and a Christain! PLS make a video on that!!!

[@joshuag2700]

Maybe you should read your bible and then make a video first ;)

[@adrianbed6984]

Joshua G Exactly! Nicole needs to read the Bible so she can see what an abomination she's being. Never compromise the Word of God to fit your life style. Leviticus 20:13 "If a man has sexual relations with a man, both of them have done what is detestable. They are to be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads."

[@TooningLife]

Dont listen to the above comment , you are not an abomination you are beautifully made , do not feel any less , because you are worth so much more than you can ever imagine . Read the bible , yes , but dont do it because you have to or are told to :) Have a great day !

[@estrelladavila1776]

***** So everyone sins. Sorry but being a Christian is about being loving accepting and accepting and beliving Jesus is the son of god etc. Why is this your main focus?

[@adrianbed6984]

***** I wasn't aware that being a Christian also means to completely ignore what the Bible says.

[@elainechatham5188]

I love u 2. Happiness 4ever for u

[@TfMG539]

GUY CODE All most of y'all don't know this ....open your hears up and listen to your gf And this is for gays also the guy(girl) listen what she or he says and if you don't wanna just listen cos you may learn or not few things of what he or she says who cares who knows you listen to your gf or bf (or the whole dating a lot of people well in a number) and girls or guys like that in a person ..well some

[@175cool]

The title could be improved.

[@caskettlover70]

They are such a cheesy couple (if that makes sense). I love them though

[@phantom2k10]

you see when you put Christ first everything falls into place and your hearts desires will be fulfilled.why go out looking for love when you can wait on God to reveal your adam or eve in his time and in his will? i want to get married and have children,but in the meantime i'm trying to draw closer and closer to Christ/ma'shiach,indulging in his word more and growing in godliness by the guidance of his RUACH(spirit).i know my future wife is out there somewhere and when i meet her there will be no doubt in my mind that this is who God has predestined me to be with.why would i be sceptic if i know this is who God has made me to be with? it doesn't make any sense.anyway, i pray that the spirit of God molds my wife into the women he has predestined her to be,strengthens her spiritually,physically and emotionally,continues to bless her and prepares her for when the time is right. forget going out there looking for love.God will reveal my rib when the time is right,in the meantime i'm chilling yo

[@child_ofGod]

Haha oh my. I have never heard us being referred to a ribs before. May you be blessed abundantly.

[@ianb2107]

yo phantom, I like your passion, and the dedication you have. I just want to warn you though, that us guys were made from dust, and creation got more and more complete and perfect as it went on. Also, marriage is hard work, even if you are with the one God has destined for you. She is still going to mold and shape you and show you things that you did not know or understand. 2 people becoming one, so pain, purification, and refinement are all expected to happen even more after marriage. Your soul mate will help you (both) draw closer to God.

[@phantom2k10]

Ian Blair i appreciate everything you've said brother,i'm guessing you're married.i understand that we were formed from the dust,nobody is perfect and marriage isn't a fairytale.i also understand and fully appreciate the fact that marriage is hard work,it takes both parties to make it work and the women will bring out things in the man that he didn't know existed and the man will bring out things in his wife that she didn't know existed and this is part of the reason i want,or should i say cannot wait to get married. meeting the women,or the rib of my ribs that God has predestined for me before the foundations of the world is going to be awesome,i honestly cannot wait and though marriage will not be a walk in the park,i know with Christ at the forefront and both of us filled with his RUACH(spirit) everything will work out for the better and fall into place.trust me brother,when the time is right,i'll be ready and i know my wife iwll be to.this is my daily prayer. God bless you brother

[@melchizedekwarrior]

For the Right Reasons goes behind the scenes of ABC's megahits The Bachelor and The Bachelorette and into the private life of the shows' most captivating leading man. After two intense seasons on primetime's most popular reality shows-culminating in his fairytale wedding to Catherine Giudici Lowe finally bares the secrets of life in (and beyond) the spotlight. His gripping tell-all uncovers: the backstage drama that fuels The Bachelor and The Bachelorette the personal struggles and Christian faith that have made him the man he is today how he overcame heartbreak to find his true love the keys to pursuing purity in the cynical, sexually charged Hollywood culture ...and much more In the end, Lowe found that good does win, that truth brings deception to light, and that "nice guys" do ultimately finish first.

[@alexvalero7059]

Hey ***** , Can you give make a video giving a shoutout to Clayton Jennings ? He is on a mission to tell the world about Jesus and he is changing lives through the word of god. He does spoken word poetry just like you and his work is really similar to yours. The more people know about him and what hes doing the more sinners will be saved and the more lives will be changed.

[@SPSKDM]

she reminds me of demi lovatoo

[@africanqueen552]

Cha! this is non sense Did I just heard Catherine right? talking about she doesn't like her husband sometimes? this is foolishness If I was truly in love with my hubby I would never say I don't like him common on now..maybe she was just joking lol. But yeah what I don't understand is why is it Sean & Catherine have become the King and Queen of Bachelor's show? What happened to Desiree and Chris? Those two their love are so amazing! I don't know why we don't hear too much about them, Every where I turn around is Sean & Catherine...I don't have nothing against them and I truly wished them the best but I would love to hear about Desiree and Chris too, Im just saying.

[@paupiette8334]

I didn't understand either when she said she doesn't love him sometimes. I don't really get it ^^

[@WhitneyLawson]

Whatttttt, come on! There are times that I really don't 'like' my husband, but no matter what I still love him. Their point was that it isn't always sunshine and rainbows and happy feelings. Sometimes love is much more intentional. Sometimes love is hard. Marriage and that commitment is a choice that we make every single moment of every single day. If you've disliked something your husband says or does, then kudos, but y'all must have superpowers!

[@taytaytaylorj]

I complete understand what they are saying... You love your parents and siblings to bits, just love them and would do anything for them but there are times where they are bothering you and they've made you upset and you can't stand to be around them... It's the same exact thing except in the instance of marriage, there is that level of intimacy involved that sort of ups the ante in this analogy.

[@jeniferwendt15]

When she said sometimes she doesn't like him it meant sometimes she is temporarily annoyed or mad or whatever it may be at him. But regardless she loves him. It is totally normal and actually more real to be in love with someone but at times not like what they are doing, or saying.

[@SpamFaceJr]

Love is a choice, not something you 'fall' into.

[@blurbthenerd]

Chris picked Whitney. So rest assured, Catherine will continue to be the only winner who married the bachelor. No way Chris and Whitney make it. Not with that voice.

[@OverPerformer]

way to spoil it idiot.

[@catherinecanary3523]

I just want you to know that I really enjoy this show and you have just ruined the season for me. You should really be more careful what you post online because I'm really disappointed I saw this :(

[@catherinecanary3523]

Please consider deleting your comment so you don't also ruin it for others :(

[@JeanMarie16]

nooo why would you do that :'(

[@mturner81]

grrr.. why did you do that!!

[@beautybaby7270]

she can do so much better! :)

[@chrisbessey358]

It's disheartening to me that Jeff would choose to talk to and showcase a couple from a TV reality show that is notorious for divorces. Instead, it would have been much better to interview an older married couple from his church family that can speak about how much the gospel has shaped how they love each other. But I guess that wouldn't have gotten as many views. Those who don't have faith in Christ CAN have a good marriage, but Christian or not, when a marriage is strongest, it is a hearty display of the gospel. In lieu of this, it is helpful and right to focus on the gospel and its implications for a healthy relationship and those who have intentionally used the gospel as a model to shape their marriage.

[@chrisbessey358]

Kind of yes, and kind of no. But I think if you were to read my comment, you'd understand why. A healthy marriage, Christian or not, is a display of the gospel. It's most helpful to get a couple who explicitly understand that.

[@chrisbessey358]

And again, romantic earthly love, defined in the gospel, hinges upon marriage. If we get this wrong, we get everything wrong. And it's hard to hear from contestants from a show that are known to crank out divorsees (though I hope that is not the case here!).

[@chrisbessey358]

***** I will commence listing the end of every single Bachelor season that ended in proposal. The ones I don't list did NOT end in proposal: *Season 2*: They broke up after several weeks. *Season 3*: Schefft and Firestone broke up after several months but remained friends. *Season 6*: Velvick and Delgado split after five years. *Season 10*: Horst and Baldwin called off their engagement one month after the finale, but continued their relationship. They broke off the relationship in September 2007. *Season 12*: Grant and Lamas broke up in July 2008 as they felt their lives were going in different directions, but stated they would remain close friends. *Season 13*: On the season's finale, Mesnick had called off the engagement with Rycroft, and resumed a relationship with runner-up Malaney. Rycroft later appeared on the eighth season of Dancing with the Stars and is now married to Tye Strickland and has two children. *Season 14*: They ended their relationship in June 2010. *Season 15*: Womack and Maynard broke up while their season was airing, but got back together after the show's finale. However, they called it quits for good in May 2011 but remained friends. *Season 16*: Flajnik and Robertson originally broke up in February 2012 while their season was airing. However, they were later reconciled and got engaged for the second time, but broke up again in October 2012 for good. All the proposal seasons of the Bachelor before Sean and Catherine (the most recent completed proposal season: 17) ended in divorce. (Source: Wikipedia)

[@CourtNaza]

***** Exactly. There has been no divorce, because those who broke up,never got married.

[@PizzaRiia]

Did I miss any shows or comments on homosexuality? Maybe I'll just watch these hetero stories....maybe not. :) Can you believe in the fact that soulmates can be of the same gender?

[@joshuag2700]

Not if you Follow Jesus Christ ;)

[@PizzaRiia]

If you understand Jesus Christ, you'd understand that LOVE matters, not heterosexist or sexist attitudes.

[@PizzaRiia]

I think you read some "God's Word" without understanding the history, cultures etc. But believe LOVE includes acceptance - and celebration of diversity! :)

[@emanueldelacruz1101]

Love do not includes acceptance (Satan is very subtle, isnt he?). Love includes obedience. John 14:15-31 "If you love me, you will obey what I command." ..and if you want to use logic, just look at your genitals and tell me if they are compatible with a person of the/your same sex it is not obvious that homosexuality is not from God? It is a result of the fall of man.

[@yvana2445]

What an absolute strike of luck for a woman to hear a man saying those words.

[@amiV3977]

Video was a waste of time unfortunately..