my ovaries just locked themselves and threw away the key.
@trixieee54225 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@mirageseekr5 жыл бұрын
Menopause is a relief.
@trixieee54225 жыл бұрын
@@mirageseekr can't wait.
@ozzy36695 жыл бұрын
Dead😂😂
@the_key_x5 жыл бұрын
@@ozzy3669 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@brendaaz47454 жыл бұрын
The second mother seems so depressed. She was forced to get married to a man who is obsessed with having children he can’t afford. I can hear the pain through her voice. That poor woman wishes to be free but it will never happen. 😢
@supriyasuresh88114 жыл бұрын
Brenda Az yes... I really feel for her.. married to a tyrant pretending to be a clown ... with no job or prospects. I don’t think he has 7 degrees... he seems like a fraud to me. And he is twice her age... Poor gal...
@GreySalt4 жыл бұрын
Sadly she can never be free. She will be killed by her own family, if she tried to run away. Honor killing is still relevant in Muslim religion/countries. Look it up.
@KmaK954 жыл бұрын
And the husband is showing no ounce of support for her and their family..
@KmaK954 жыл бұрын
He's setting such a bad example for his kids..
@tlpricescope77724 жыл бұрын
And she was 16, and he 32!!!!! Poor lady.
@JadeCanada2375 жыл бұрын
"Mohammad was 32 and Noreen was 16 when their marriage was arranged by her grandfather in Pakistan" Says it all doesn't it? She was nothing more than a baby factory for him. A child having children.
@Venus-pd3ml5 жыл бұрын
Creepy af
@pinkelephant45915 жыл бұрын
He's so gross
@SC-mw9vr5 жыл бұрын
if it was her choice it was her choice but her being forced is a different story. and what are you implying when you said says it all?
@JadeCanada2375 жыл бұрын
@@SC-mw9vr She was a 16 year old child married off to a 32 year old man. I doubt there was choice in there for her. As for "says it all" it means that he just wanted a baby factory to fulfill his dream of having children so he could have the tribe of playmates he wanted as a kid and never got(says it in the show) He doesn't respect her. You can clearly see that. She is in tears and he just laughs at her, and says he wants more kids.
@JadeCanada2375 жыл бұрын
@@SC-mw9vr Yes he is a bad example, but of course he doesn't represent anyone but himself. Have a good day
@lanietalk3 жыл бұрын
10:51 Noreen looks like she’s gonna cry watching that video. She probably realized what a baby she was at 16. I mean her 19 yo daughter and 21 yo son are still living with her
@cdc23173 жыл бұрын
@Kayla Bayla just curious… was it arranged?
@laurenmay20983 жыл бұрын
@@cdc2317 yes, she looks miserable.
@AnwesaChaudhury2 жыл бұрын
Well it’s a non-western tradition for kids to live at home after 18
@Clawsonjackson2 ай бұрын
I understand but are you saying she should kick them out or something
@slenaloveu4 жыл бұрын
The teamwork of the first couple is AMAZING. They’re good at being parents because they know their responsibilities. Mad respect.
@jasminesanders77374 жыл бұрын
True but she said she wants more kids
@ballllzz4 жыл бұрын
Hmmmm it's made not mad..
@kayleecakes3184 жыл бұрын
They're actually geniuses. 👌
@kimma5084 жыл бұрын
I agree. I love their interactions and how they work together. I applaud this couple and give them a lot of credit.
@estherwanjiku83454 жыл бұрын
@@jasminesanders7737 9
@Nonyah1234 жыл бұрын
The second mother was forced to get married when she herself was a child, forced to have 10 children and suffer, and her 'husband' is a completely selfish failure. I feel so bad for her, she never even got a choice. I hope her older children look out for her and help give her a good life.
@bonnieparkertheoutlaw73533 жыл бұрын
Her older children should go out and get jobs.
@louisbarningham3 жыл бұрын
He is fked... and then living off the benny to that extent when they are not even from the uk.. i hope they get deported and she can be saved
@benw38643 жыл бұрын
@@bonnieparkertheoutlaw7353 its not the kids faults that their father is a deadbeat. its their parents job to provide for them, not the other way around.
@sylvestersalad3 жыл бұрын
@@benw3864 the eldest is 20 lol
@hakiikah83433 жыл бұрын
@@OsirusIrdia excuse me??? He doesn’t beat het enough?? You’re mad.
@tpine25045 жыл бұрын
The 1st parents are Rock stars. They are a team. If you’re going to have a large family that’s the way to do it.
@purplexninjamom5 жыл бұрын
Yes. Finally, someone who doesn´t hate on them!
@epicosity845 жыл бұрын
They have more videos and are up to 19 kids now. They are truly amazing hard working people who love their kids.
@reneejane1245 жыл бұрын
And I’m sorry but considering the second family they’re house is pretty clean. I don’t understand how both the mother and father don’t work and their house looks like that
@myrabbitispink5 жыл бұрын
@@epicosity84 what's their youtube/instagram, do you know?
@epicosity845 жыл бұрын
@@myrabbitispink no I dont know I've seen them on different unrelated videos.
@asbisi Жыл бұрын
"Let go of me." My heart breaks for this woman. She did not choose this husband nor that life. OMG, she is so depressed.
@lotusflower89894 жыл бұрын
Mohammed is so blissfully oblivious. His wife is completely overwhelmed, literally says she’s broken inside through tears, and he barely bats an eye. All he cares about is having her churn out more kids to feed his greed. If he was truly grateful for his wife and his children like he says he is, then he would humble himself and provide for them by any means necessary.
@elxhqiwsum86174 жыл бұрын
PERIOD
@mimsley54 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!!!
@nadiashireensiddiqi3 жыл бұрын
He was an only child, muslim, Pakistani and 11, the 16 children of the Baker seem better off.
@gardengirl6943 жыл бұрын
Nadia Shireen Siddiqi ya bc he works and disciplines his kids and doesn’t live in squalor.
@redajah61873 жыл бұрын
completely agree!
@katherinelua68004 жыл бұрын
The second family’s mom is chained to a man that can’t provide. She’s not a baby maker, she’s a person with feelings & needs.
@liorasitelman18564 жыл бұрын
Yes and she’s in the UK where she can easily get her tubes tubes no questions asked
@leshagayle59914 жыл бұрын
Real Talk
@ayushikumar42364 жыл бұрын
So true
@armyvetgrl27313 жыл бұрын
@@liorasitelman1856 if that’s not her religious belief then she won’t get her tubes tied, guess what that’s her own personal choice! She shouldn’t be judged either! It’s HER reproductive system! Why are u making a statement like it’s her fault? It takes two to have children! Her husband is fully capable of working and providing for his children! This woman was forced into an arranged marriage at 16 years old to a 32 year old man! She is stuck with this trifling man! Your western mindset is not the standard for other cultures and nationalities! 🤷🏾♀️
@liorasitelman18563 жыл бұрын
@@armyvetgrl2731 someone else’s reproductive rights end when my taxes are being infringed upon
@srijasingh65335 жыл бұрын
"It's difficult" "it's expensive" " people with 2 kids have it easy"... Who exactly is forcing these couples to have so many kids???
@Hspark15 жыл бұрын
They said difficult, not bad.
@srijasingh65335 жыл бұрын
@@Hspark1 and I am just repeating what they said, but just so you know, the rate with which the population is growing, it is bad... and if it's kids they want, why is adoption not an option??
@Hspark15 жыл бұрын
@@srijasingh6533 my point is difficult does not mean bad. And they probably aren't able to adopt because of their family size. International adoption is very costly and almost impossible in some countries because of their requirements.
@srijasingh65335 жыл бұрын
@@Hspark1 and I didn't use the word "bad", though personally I do believe it's irresponsible of them to have so many kids, especially if it means they are going to be financially stretched soooo thin and ultimately the children don't get the opportunity to be their best selves.
@Hspark15 жыл бұрын
@@srijasingh6533 No, I know you didn't use the word bad, but often people equate the word difficult with bad. I think perhaps you don't have a lot of experience with large families. I'm sure there are large families with difficult situations, but by and large, most children in large families are happy and thankful for their many siblings, especially when they get older.
@yelswebtoon20232 жыл бұрын
How the first family husband still wanted to treat his wife for just the two of them is so amazing. Husbands who sees their wife's hardwork and struggles and still want to make them special are total gem
@NB72815 жыл бұрын
The second man doesn't realize all the stuff he's putting his kids and wife through. He seems very selfish and rather ignorant
@Kiwiwanderer5 жыл бұрын
NB7281 or put simply he’s a lazy thoughtless bludger
@veesancez5 жыл бұрын
Hes smart but no common sense
@EllyinAdelaide5 жыл бұрын
It’s like she has an extra child...
@garybrunecz77855 жыл бұрын
Who does not putting their penis into a warm wet place. That does not give you the right to over breed, especially when famine, drought and constant war is what humans rely on to get what they need. These people from Europe stole this land and killed millions so they could breed like rabbits.
@garybrunecz77855 жыл бұрын
I do not know you, but I admire you for your common sense and intellect.
@BLamorous5 жыл бұрын
Mohammed needs to listen & respect his wife. He needs to listen to her. She's clearly expressing that she's stressed, heart broken & hates relying on benefits cause she wants the best for her children & to be in a bigger home for her family, yet, hes seeing it as a joke. I feel so sorry for her.
@elshanum66285 жыл бұрын
Can't agree more
@esreen5 жыл бұрын
Abuse. She should approach the Islamic judicial council
@irenerandazzo42065 жыл бұрын
@@esreen i am muslim and my husband behaves exactly like that man. What is this islamic juridical council and what do they do? Maybe they can put some sense into him.
@diyashikha935 жыл бұрын
I think we should Google it as I myself don’t know about it
@amandawitherspoon52255 жыл бұрын
He is treating his poor wife so badly. And as a grown man, he should have felt ashamed to marry a child. He needs to get off his butt and get a job, and start helping his wife with the children. It's not fair for her or the children to not have him making an attempt to provide and take care of them. At his age and lack of concern for what his wife is going through, he needs to be neutered.
@jaymepittroff4 жыл бұрын
How is it that Mohamed has 7 college degrees and a doctorate and hasn't found work in 7 years? Could he not, at least, be a teacher??
@OhanaAndMommy4 жыл бұрын
He may be overqualified 😔so sad
@MallieAnn134 жыл бұрын
Thandeka Mthethwa He could still get a job and provide something for his family.
@TheScintillady4 жыл бұрын
He could do something. His wife suggested that he drive a cab or get a job in the shops and he shut her right down. He stated that a man with degrees couldn't be doing something like selling chocolates or something.
@sineadking18244 жыл бұрын
He chooses not to work. He would get extra benefits for studying. He just wants to live on benefits.
@sineadking18244 жыл бұрын
DeeVaBae Chronicles it has nothing to do with racism. There are plenty of high paid people of Indian decent in the UK. Around the world, you will find highly educated Indian doctors etc. This man chooses not to work.
@jeanettebird27393 жыл бұрын
The Radfords are amazing , they now have 22 kids, 5 grandchildren and are one huge and loving family . A family to admire ! I enjoy watching their videos . Omg , how can the second family possibly live in that mess ? I’d have a nervous breakdown ! Despite his degrees Dad, doesn’t seem to be enthusiastic about finding a job, he is about more kids though !
@ang123brando8 Жыл бұрын
If your on benefits, you just need to stop!
@kandydewey128610 ай бұрын
Are they on KZbin?
@wutangswordd6 ай бұрын
@@kandydewey1286yes, search "the radford family"
@moniquew36034 жыл бұрын
Did Mohammed really say, " Many times I've thought about walking away, and having a free easy life?" But in the next breath express he wants more children??This guy is ridiculous. How do you have so much education? So many children, but NO JOB??? Your wife is expressing her concerns and you still stay jobless???
@ctabs66464 жыл бұрын
A total douchebag...wants the sex but doesn't want the resonsibility of raising kids
@heidihofman42484 жыл бұрын
H
@liorasitelman18564 жыл бұрын
Narcissism
@mariemartin70564 жыл бұрын
American news would have a field day with him
@tdftigray45004 жыл бұрын
Read Dogulas Murray's book. "The strange death of Europe " it explains everything. Btw, I'm an immigrant but I despise these looters who don't work collect benefits and hate the country support their need.
@ruyiblossom21004 жыл бұрын
Mohammed needs therapy. He's using children a replacement for whatever love he's looking for. HIS own child even said as much. Tsk. Its a shame.
@PrivateUser7373 жыл бұрын
One thing I can optimistically hope for is that all of these children he's made have the potential to touch others' lives in beautiful and positive ways.
@prlegal4113 жыл бұрын
My heart breaks for the children in the second family. If the father bothered to work at any job, even a job that isn’t teaching their lives could be so much better. My heart goes out to the wife too. She was airing her frustrations and crying because she’s so upset and the husband didn’t care at all.
@debbieflaherty1975 Жыл бұрын
His benefits are more than he’d make at just any job.
@Bootsandglasses Жыл бұрын
She seemed on the verge of tears in every shot she was in, it’s heartbreaking to see her under all that stress
@bruholojist3276 Жыл бұрын
she was married when she was 16. a kid who has zero experience in life.. ı am not surprised that he is living with benefits. he says they want more child and don't care about money but ı am %100 sure he never asked his wife's opinion about the matter... a terrible human being
@DebbiePotter-xh7kv6 ай бұрын
Well there is a word called no.
@elizabethm33273 жыл бұрын
"A doctor of philosophy selling chocolates" is honest work, and far better than a guy taking check after check of money he didn't earn. Wow, guy #2 needs a reality check. His family deserves more.
@javiersilva15772 жыл бұрын
He acts like he’s above any job. Any job, as long as it’s honest work, is honorable. To provide for your family is honorable. He should be ashamed of himself.
@kathymac8884 Жыл бұрын
He also needs to stop yelling
@LunaShimmyDiva7 ай бұрын
Seems to me he’d be brilliant caring for other people’s children. It’s honest work, very much on demand, and might satisfy his desire for more children.
@earthlyworld46984 ай бұрын
The first dad needs to teach the second dad about honest work
@1991LMR5 жыл бұрын
I don't even want one child, let alone 16. But I have to admit, the Radfords all seem well loved, well fed, well organized and well clothed.
@debshreebasu81374 жыл бұрын
I dont want either ... but no one understands . @Lauren
@carolyngrindrod23844 жыл бұрын
Julie Sprik they have a utube channel called the radfords
@ItAGR-rv3dc4 жыл бұрын
It's great to have at least 3 kids, and at least this way you'd have someone to take care of you when ur older
@leeceyyjane4 жыл бұрын
Tv pays well
@isaa21624 жыл бұрын
Julie Sprik They actually have a yt channel!!
@Justteejayy3 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for Noreen. Their house is a mess and she’s noticeably depressed even around family and friends. You noticed he spoke for them the entire time? Her husband is very irresponsible & thinks having kids is like shopping at the mall
@emmadimas17313 жыл бұрын
My heart hurts for her dude
@123rororose2 жыл бұрын
Really i told mines this is the last we have 6 it can't get too ur body ur mine but some men don't really care bout that
@asgharakram2 жыл бұрын
I’m exhausted with 2boys , it’s a blessing but more kids are more work, idk if any of the Pakistani wife family help around the house the other big family houses were much neater
@JewelPray2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, it seems like this is all fun and games to him 😵💫
@Sulelektra2 жыл бұрын
I know she's miserable, she reminds me of my mother
@remymariano72925 жыл бұрын
OMg The father of 16 looks happy and work every minute for his children and still manage to make his wife smile and happy...i think he got 16 balls no comment for the 2nd family
@fayezentner6195 жыл бұрын
This was taped long ago she now has 20 plus children
@Lisa.anders5 жыл бұрын
True , he’s amazing and his wife happy..not like that second dad..lazy ass
@fauxmanchu80945 жыл бұрын
Jean Mariano You do not see all of their problems. Quality time with each child is non-existent as shown in the video. These parents should have their heads examined. Smh.
@annyeonghaseyo57585 жыл бұрын
@@fauxmanchu8094 but if you could see how they spend money for foods we could see that the father really work hard to let his kids eat and eat and eat as the mother said
@sunday3pm7353 жыл бұрын
Noreen’s older kids gotta step in and protect their mommy when they grow older and leave home
@jennahrashed38193 жыл бұрын
Hes not doing anything bad to her. Hes just not getting a job and making their lives better. Just bc hes muslim and older dont mean he hurts her. Its actually haram and not allowed to not fulfill any of your wives rights upon you (make sure she has a home of her own, food that she ants, things that she need, etc. )
@crystaledits18593 жыл бұрын
@@jennahrashed3819 yes but she was literally 16 when she married him and he was way older she had no choice also she just seems unhappy but the husband just wants a bigger family it’s annoying and sometimes sad
@SS-mh2ye3 жыл бұрын
@@jennahrashed3819 Nobody mentioned muslims. . And ofc that much age gap is tough on women especially in an arrange marriage set up. .where she is forced to push a baby out to an unemployed man child
@nothankspleaseАй бұрын
@@jennahrashed3819 literally was an arranged marriage to a child and he isnt even working. yeah hes terrible.
@nothankspleaseАй бұрын
this marriage disgust me. these poor woman and her poor babies. ):
@darrenhcook4 жыл бұрын
I'm a progressive and all for supporting families with children (to an extent). BUT, if you've got 11 children and living off government benefits, another child should be the LAST thing on your mind.
@donthireddysneha3 жыл бұрын
Its unfair to the system.
@Supiel3 жыл бұрын
Well, poor people have less access to birth control so.....although this case is different.... it's not always their fault.
@darrenhcook3 жыл бұрын
@@Supiel If you watch the story you will see that the father isn't even trying to get a job or put his degrees to good use. He is deliberately trying to have more and more children because he knows he will get government benefits.
@Supiel3 жыл бұрын
@@darrenhcook I literally said this case is different. I just don't believe you can blame poor people for having a lot of kids, especially when they don't have access to abortion, or good sex education, or birth control ect. Its obvious that this dude was shitty, but we only know this because we saw the video. Hopefully when you see other poor families with multiple kids, you don't pass the same judgment. [Like I said, this case is different] but if ppl have 11 kids and are living off government benefits, it doesn't always mean they have those kids because they want more money.
@slouberiee3 жыл бұрын
@@Supiel Well, you don't need a pill to not have babies. The man could pull out just in time... Many people do it. But some men are just selfish. Also, condoms are not expensive either. And if they don't know how sex and making babies work as you are trying to persuade us, well shame on educational institutions in the UK... or they are just stupid and irresponsible, I bet this is the truth here.
@sgjgarcia61655 жыл бұрын
If you can barely give your children what they need now why in the world would you continue to keep having kids makes no sense to me🙄🤦🏻♀️
@snickerdoodle31925 жыл бұрын
I dont understand it either if you can be able to have a big family and want go for it but if you cant dont do it my parents had to go bankrupt years ago and there's only three of us know we are way better and bought a house in a very quiet area
@Ladeliciadelinda5 жыл бұрын
Samantha Garcia some people really like big families. Or maybe it was unplanned. Having 16 plus kids is quiet common in places that don’t believe in contraception. And if you are traditional, sometimes people believe the more kids the better so they have choices on the children to take care of them when you’re old.
@judithreynolds16575 жыл бұрын
It’s breeding and absolutely terrible to expect the rest of us pay for their "pleasure". Go get a job, than you might be preoccupied with something useful instead of using public money!
@kelleyabitbol61565 жыл бұрын
I cannot judge others..it really os not my place. I will say...i had one child..then one more so she wouldnt be lonely and because i had more love to give. Then we stopped because we wanted to give them a quality childhood. Financially we wanted them to be better off than we were when we grew up.
@lorinhussein1375 жыл бұрын
Its like doing drugs. You know its bad for you but you cant stop just that easily
@kathk74393 жыл бұрын
For the First family: The relationships between and the mom and oldest daughters is so wonderful to see! And the husband and wife! And all the kids, geeze! Just the fact that the kids want to share a room and sleep together, and how the older ones are happy their parents are going out instead of complaining. Just a very nice family. Those parents did a wonderful job raising their kids!
@engnder3 жыл бұрын
Right! People say they don't get enough attention, but they seem content and are well taken care of
@ellencsias3 жыл бұрын
Yes! I really feel like they’re happy, and trully care for the children
@auroraaxel54943 жыл бұрын
They have a KZbin channel and they really are an amazing family, the mum and dad do a wonderful job.
@fergieingrid25213 жыл бұрын
You didn't hear the young girls saying they cant get nice things because there are so many of them and if there was less children they would have better things?
@pillowtalk19252 жыл бұрын
@@fergieingrid2521 did you watch? They have plenty.
@optimisticnihlist97053 жыл бұрын
"it all boils down to just... Jealousy." Absolutely no one is jealous of your situation, sir, but, keep believing that...
@seektruth5750Ай бұрын
He did say that he makes them believe that just so they can cope.
@violetg69025 жыл бұрын
that second dad seems so oblivious he thinks that the whole family is happy but his wife looks like she’s about to crack from the pressure
@xoxohayaati5 жыл бұрын
Violet G, he’s so immature, I get anxiety.
@brittanylamar13744 жыл бұрын
my anxiety has anxiety seeing the Salim home and the pure feeling of being overwhelmed on the moms face. She’s surrounded but looks so alone
@mahrukhfarooq3 жыл бұрын
Noreen is just this reaIIy sweet person who never reaIIy got the chance to expIore freedom. I can't imagine being married at such a young age to such an oIder man.
@charlottebonnie53203 жыл бұрын
Mahrukh Farooq/April 5th, 2021: Why didn't he choose a wife aged 25 or 30??????
@mahrukhfarooq3 жыл бұрын
@@charlottebonnie5320 because he's a jerk
@ash87313 жыл бұрын
@@mahrukhfarooq and because it was a forced Marriage 😔I feel so bad for her she deserves better
@Jesussavedme3 жыл бұрын
@@ash8731 yeah she never had a chance to choose love 😔 now she's not happy an overwhelmed living poor
@ash87313 жыл бұрын
@@Jesussavedme exactly she could’ve chosen someone she actually loved and wanted to marry and maybe have kids if she wanted them and she could’ve been at least humble but sadly she couldn’t 😔
@beckybear53 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for the second lady. The husbands all like, “I do what it says in the Bible. Go forth and multiply.” Dude, that doesn’t mean making your wife a baby making machine. Her parents sure did pick the wrong man for her. He also needs to get a job if wants to have a big family. Plus he wants to expand his family and he barely can take care of the family he has now.
@flufflepuffle11 ай бұрын
Right? The Qur'an mandates that the husband provides, and that the wife has a right to her money. None of that is happening here.
@lisamcilvain49923 жыл бұрын
Enjoyed the hardworking first couple so much. The second family made my head hurt. Everything about them was pure chaos, from the hoarder house to the screaming kids. That poor mom. Her life is sad.
@laurenmay20983 жыл бұрын
What amazes me is the fact that they will apply for money help for the kids, but she is clearly depressed. Why the agency that help them with money, does not help this woman with psychological help? It is beyond me, she looks miserable.
@PhuongHuynh-qm5th5 жыл бұрын
My heart broke when the second wife started to cry and talked about her dreams, broken heart, and her children’s future. No one should be pressured to have a ton of kids and live a life they didn’t agree to because of their husbands dream. That’s why arrange marriages are a crap shoot. People’s aspirations and dreams don’t exactly match up, and one partners dream tend to dominate at the expense of the other
@childofthemosthighyah81454 жыл бұрын
It's so sad. He was 32 and she was 16. I'm pretty sure she didn't even want to get married. I got two children and I feel like I'm gunna go crazy sometimes. I feel for her. Plus he's doesn't work. He wants all these children but can't afford them.
@mahi931624 жыл бұрын
I agree, it’s very sad, but not all arranged marriages are like this. I think you mean forced marriages
@josefinejohansson55265 жыл бұрын
The baker dad is hardworking and a good dad
@oonaallen95504 жыл бұрын
Yes
@Oddbisket4 жыл бұрын
So is his wife. I can't believe she still irons lol. Two hard workers who are frugal and on the same page. They do better than most parents no matter how many kids they have
@tiffanybazarte99734 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@jojo154 жыл бұрын
Completely! I love that family, they are the hardest working and best parents I’ve ever seen! I have so much respect for them ❤️
@victorianacastro26334 жыл бұрын
💯%
@rosepink93873 жыл бұрын
The Mom looks good for having 16 kids and one grand baby...they look young still. I don’t know how they can handle so much stress with so many kids such a big family..? Wow they are amazing parents!!! 💕
@pollackmorgan31492 жыл бұрын
Hello how are you doing👋👋👋
@abcdef53015 Жыл бұрын
She had the first one at 14, and I think they said she was 37.
@zbzb9234 жыл бұрын
I am from Pakistan and 16 years old no offense the second family is making me feel uncomfortable 😣
@infinite43924 жыл бұрын
What all is similar and what is different from your own experience? Also these days is it common for arranged marriages to have such a huge age gap?
@fazza78664 жыл бұрын
@@infinite4392 this generation now we actually have a choice its not forced so we can choose if we want to get married
@Happy_Potato04 жыл бұрын
@@infinite4392 not at all.. now new generations are independent and it will be a taboo actually to have 16 children and a family like this mohammad in Pakistan lol..😂
@Happy_Potato04 жыл бұрын
Really mate..I am from Pakistan too & we cannot find any people now a days like this Mohammad he is such a bad example..he is still living in the past like 40 years ago.. 😑
@elxhqiwsum86174 жыл бұрын
infinite43 eh no my parents are Muslim and I can still date but I am not allowed to have sex until I’m 18 then I can choose things myself
@Phoenix-vt9sz4 жыл бұрын
It pains me to see the wife of the 2nd family... A victim of an arranged marriage while still underage & now is suffering from financial + emotional abuse from her greedy, selfish, pompous husband. I hope she gets the courage divorces him & break free.
@sabajahanzeb71153 жыл бұрын
what do you mean by victim ...arranged married is not a prison or something, their marriege still have the same rights as love marriege no difference .
@juliaj79393 жыл бұрын
@@sabajahanzeb7115 But the husband doesn't respect the wife at all. She said she's unhappy and doesn't want more children but yet he still insists. He just sees her as a baby making machine. Plus, she was child, only 16 years old, when she was forced to marry him. "Arranged marriage" is just trash.
@hannahf.5723 жыл бұрын
Me to
@jeisselima3 жыл бұрын
@@juliaj7939 Fair arranged marriage can work but a woman should never be married against her will and this is the problem with culture and traditions specially when they are being dictated by man.
@shakiraarif62853 жыл бұрын
There is a big difference between arranged and forced marriages
@LaRavenYT5 жыл бұрын
"I realized we need to spend more time together as a couple." YOU HAVE 16 KIDS!!! I think you should stay away from each other!
@SaltySirenFloriduh5 жыл бұрын
Mandy St. Onge 😂 I was thinking the same!
@a.rauscher21375 жыл бұрын
I cry 🤣🤣
@sakurakawai64985 жыл бұрын
only married couple understand.. they might have time for sex but they dont have time to go out dating or holiday or honeymoon...
@lynnrobi5 жыл бұрын
Lmao! 😂😂😂
@Flamsterette5 жыл бұрын
They now have 20 kids! Or is it 21?
@CupOfTae_SugaKookies_Sprite2 жыл бұрын
Parents can truly be remarkable. I have no idea how they do it. I’m still in awe when I hear the stories of my grandma. She had 7 kids. When my grandfather wasn’t working, he was out drinking. So she was pretty much left to care, bathe, and feed all 7 children. 3 of them being tall muscular athlethic boys with bottomless pits for a stomach. She managed to care for each one during the day and THEN worked night shift cleaning a local hospital and at one point, volunteered to care for 2 elderly in-laws that use to hate her just because they thought she wasn’t good enough for their son. And in her older age, she raised and cared for 3 grandchildren (while still working night shift) all the way up until the day she died. No clue how that superwoman did it. But I’ve never been, nor will I ever be more proud of anyone in my life. I miss her so much.
@j.khuster2024 Жыл бұрын
Wow what an amazing woman. I admire her without ever meeting her. RIP beautiful soul 🙏❤️
@sokawai5 Жыл бұрын
My grandma on my dads side had 13☠️☠️☠️☠️
@angelaberni8873 Жыл бұрын
They certainly don't make them like that anymore. A truly amazing woman!!!
@javiersilva15774 ай бұрын
Why was she raising 3 grand children and working the night shift when she was a grandma?? You say you loved her, but it sounds like you and your siblings failed her. The fact that she was still working a night shift and taking care of her grandchildren is a disgrace.
@princesslyor2.0954 жыл бұрын
Theres no way in hell imma bring a child into this world if I'm not financially stable
@emailercc35654 жыл бұрын
this pretty much sums up the current millenial situation, as boomers had kids at 17 millenials are waiting till 3o. they have no money or house
@playboiROCKY4 жыл бұрын
You are the complete opposite of Filipino couples. Income: $200 a month Children: 8
@Cathycupcake684 жыл бұрын
Maybe that may never happen in current climate
@isabeladorie12744 жыл бұрын
Thank you so fucking much . I don’t understand why people don’t get that .
@cyntiaj39994 жыл бұрын
Well some people don’t have choice and they have to keep the baby
@flowergirl17655 жыл бұрын
This guy says he sometimes wants to run away to a free life...your wife married you when she was 16!! You had 31 years of a free life! Respect your wife! Shame on you for wanting more..so you love kids? Love the ones you have!!
@rjsils38425 жыл бұрын
He only sees his wife as a baby factory. He needs to feel labor pain himself so he'll know what it feels like to give birth.
@ThahnG4135 жыл бұрын
@@rjsils3842 thing is he's so crazy if could he'd probably impregnate himself as well lol
@rjsils38425 жыл бұрын
@@ThahnG413 Your coment made my day lol
@rjsils38425 жыл бұрын
@@ThahnG413 I mean, my wife brought me to a clinic that made me feel labor pain. Now, even if she still wants to have more babies, I refused since I felt bad for the pain she has to go though just to give birth.
@ThahnG4135 жыл бұрын
@@rjsils3842 oh Jesus now she's gonna want to adopt instead 😂 choose wisely my friend
@hippymama1005 жыл бұрын
Every pregnancy/birth/breastfeeding a woman carries out is really rough on the body!!! A woman should have the right to say when she is finished with her child birthing years, with no pressure or guilt.
@hippymama1005 жыл бұрын
@@uscgal04 no. It's not a decision for couples to make. The man can suggest, but the woman gets the absolute, final word on the matter. With no fear of judgement. It's her body that had to do the hard, dangerous work. No one else has a say in the matter but her.
@ZacandSophie5 жыл бұрын
34 weeks with baby #4 and my body feels like it is going to break! I don't know how these women manage to do it without major medical issues!
@haleyelizabeth21905 жыл бұрын
@@ZacandSophie Some women's bodies are just good at giving birth, others aren't. It depends on the person.
@seeyouinhell89615 жыл бұрын
I assume her body is just used to it by now tbh
@hartmannhartmann92355 жыл бұрын
@@ZacandSophie ikr? Pregnant 19 weeks now with no.3 and I don't want more kids anyway, but I realize my body couldn't stand another pregnancy. This is the first time I really have some medical issues and here we are with these families and their 16 kids 💁♀️🙄
@gardenjoy52233 жыл бұрын
Imagine the Corona lockdowns with such large families. Especially the second one, since they live on benefits and thus smaller. Enough to drive anyone crazy.
@zelyaa20915 жыл бұрын
The first family with 16 kids she got the real man, a responsible dad. And you can see him preparing the lunch boxes gasshhh 😻
@twizack224 жыл бұрын
That's how the magic keeps happening...
@Whomppp4 жыл бұрын
They have 20 kids now
@notacanadian2784 жыл бұрын
@@Whomppp I believe it's actually gone up to 22 kids recently
@Whomppp4 жыл бұрын
@@notacanadian278 wow
@tanishalondon13974 жыл бұрын
These are the families that should ve extreme couponing
@catherinegee27415 жыл бұрын
The second husband makes me sick. He is a lazy self centered man. He should be willing to work any and all jobs to support them. I would leave any man who was like that.
@mommieofdos5 жыл бұрын
His voice though....I can't
@TheTeamcullen75 жыл бұрын
Catherine Gee agreed but in there culture they are not suppose to divorce and the husband is the leader
@almightydawnthegreat5 жыл бұрын
Agreed.. he is so useless. If you're not going to go get a job, at least clean the house
@Username264255 жыл бұрын
@@TheTeamcullen7 Not arguing with you, but thats so stupid. He clearly isn't thinking of the children he has now and all of their quality of life. Poor wife.
@tiffanyabigail91035 жыл бұрын
Mika Contreras yeah dumb patriarchy
@lostinthelookingglas5 жыл бұрын
Mrs. Saleem is only 37, but she looks like she's 50. She's had a rough time with all those kids.
@myroom46405 жыл бұрын
lostinthelookingglas She doesn’t look 50, she just looks her age.
@myroom46405 жыл бұрын
takkatt I don’t think so.
@Nashia_5 жыл бұрын
takkatt P .” B
@laura-janehickson63045 жыл бұрын
She looks good for her age!
@Trd15015 жыл бұрын
Agreed I thought she was about 50 also at first sight
@Lizquiz73 жыл бұрын
I think Mouhammed just doesn't want to work. His wife said it herself-he has seven degrees but no job.
@deaththefairy3 жыл бұрын
That's probably why he has so many degrees
@bryanj28813 жыл бұрын
Why work when you can get redistribute money from other workers taxes?
@callmecayllie81974 жыл бұрын
mad respect for the first family’s dad, my dad ran away from his responsibility to us his 3 daughters
@MsDezsoe4 жыл бұрын
The Radfords don't just have children for joy, they are well aware of both financial and emotional needs of the kids and they work hard to give them everything. Good parents, good people, nice family. :)
@LookNstyle3 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@crochetwithapril3 жыл бұрын
Love thier channel.
@seyoung24893 жыл бұрын
I love that family
@crochetwithapril3 жыл бұрын
@Anne Day If you search "The Radford Family" it'll pop up.
@MrHjacky3 жыл бұрын
Then for what? For what purpose(s) do they want so many kids?
@angelataylor88793 жыл бұрын
How can children and family services not be involved with that second family? It blows my mind the filth, nastiness, and unruliness that goes on in that house. The dad is like a big kid himself.
@audreydoyle52683 жыл бұрын
Sadly, FACS don't check every case or family, because, well, they're lazy too. So many children live like this, and only in cases of very extreme abuse, there's intervention.
@bonnieparkertheoutlaw73533 жыл бұрын
When I first saw the house i was shocked how nasty it was! It was like an episode of hoarders
@ilovefred96243 жыл бұрын
Their system in the UK is super over worked. They have loving parents that aren’t on drugs, feed them, and make sure they go to school. The services are only getting involved in the worst of the worst
@KeresiRLomata3 жыл бұрын
@@bonnieparkertheoutlaw7353 exactly! I compared it to the first family and their house was organized, clean and when there were droppings on the carpet, their mom would clean it up. Unlike the other family, it's just chaos. The man wants more children and he is so deaf to his wife's plea and blind to her unhappiness. He is forever talking and has not worked in 6 year's. Goodness gracious and he's still wanting more children. Somebody should tell him to get a job!
@athenatatnell13333 жыл бұрын
@@audreydoyle5268 I wouldn't say their lazy but rather it is a broken system that lacks the proper funding, support and structure to properly protect children and families at risk. It is like this in many countries.
@prabhukripa45283 жыл бұрын
My goodness the mother is so beautiful. The patience they must have with all those kids, hats off
@Angel-td9yk5 жыл бұрын
The Radfords are goals. Like not the 16 kids part but they have home cooked dinners and packed lunches and their children are well behaved, get along with each other, and there is clearly lots of openness, love and trust between parents and children.
@cherryrussell76482 жыл бұрын
You’re so right about that, except for if you’re the type of person who is not opposed to having a huge family 🥰 the radfords are cool as parents
@esmeraldamejia27415 жыл бұрын
How does he have 7 degrees and a PhD in philosophy and he’s living off of benefits ???!!! Ok clearly he’s lazy
@yippehanako5 жыл бұрын
It's philosophy lol
@ruthcleopatra5 жыл бұрын
He's so lazy, no job with all those degrees, not even a teaching job
@rebecca43475 жыл бұрын
@@yippehanako Ph.D. or doctorate of philosophy can be in anything, including engineering, science, accounting or psychology (anything except medicine). I would not be laughing too hard considering a considerable amount of technology around us is developed by scientists/researchers of whom have a Ph.D. But he is not utilizing his degree that is for sure.
@Ladeliciadelinda5 жыл бұрын
He kinda seems that way with how he fights with his wife about employment.... but to give him the benefit of the doubt, I don’t want to judge. He could possibly be overqualified. We once rented out a room to someone who had a PhD and his wife left him because he couldn’t find a job. He couldn’t even apply for McDonalds because he was “too smart” for the job
@legalfictionnaturalfact39695 жыл бұрын
@@yippehanako you have no idea what you're talking about. sorry.
@markusbergen5065 жыл бұрын
"He has a bank". "Yeah, but you need money to put in the bank duhh". that was so funny.
@racheljohnson28734 жыл бұрын
That is exactly how siblings behave. XD
@Kloetenhenne4 жыл бұрын
She said bank card
@jessicaemilia1013 жыл бұрын
Lots of respect for the first family. As for the 2nd family...I feel for his wife. The man needs to ground himself in reality.
@kristalhiggins5 жыл бұрын
I felt bad for Dr. Salim's wife when she said her heart is broken inside.
@genevawhite69545 жыл бұрын
do you some need help kids feed and your children need helping
@abanaabana57575 жыл бұрын
Me too
@legalfictionnaturalfact39695 жыл бұрын
yeah, "dr", my ass. don't care what his magic paper says.
@xoxohayaati5 жыл бұрын
Kristal Bell, he’s a Dr that doesn’t want to work??
@AliceAmane5 жыл бұрын
Happens when u get forced into marriage as a child with an adult.
@yellefam95655 жыл бұрын
"I've got a degree in Philosophy and you want me to sell chocolates?" Sir, I don't think you have the right to choose what job you should have considering the number of mouths you have to feed. There are successful people who have a degree somewhere far from their current job but they are more than financially stable. I believe that opportunities out there could lead you again to the profession that you love but first, you must do the role of a parent to your kids. Realistically speaking, the emotional support that you are providing for your kids is not enough for them. They need decent housing, proper education, and good environment for them to develop. If you want an easy life, then the number of your kids should not be like that.
@Burningredroses5 жыл бұрын
Actually he could make a lot money being a chocolatier.
@tararasque9325 жыл бұрын
Same crap in France: "I spent 5 years getting an electrical engineering degree on the state dime... it's EVERYONE ELSE"S fault that I'm too stupid to get one of the 15 electrical engineering jobs available this year! So I'm going to live off the dole... no way am I going to stack cans in a warehouse for minimum wage!... The world owes me a living!"
@nurulakmalzainuddin79634 жыл бұрын
@@tararasque932 same like in malaysia. some graduates whine when some employers comment about their attitude and attire during job interview - we go into university to study, not to learn how to talk and wear clothes. when they dont get the job - 'those who get job have cables. we don't know anyone so we don't get the job' or 'we studied hard in the university and you want us to work in a shop/factory/etc?'
@zoezoe44784 жыл бұрын
He is crazy
@zoezoe44784 жыл бұрын
@@tararasque932 i understand where you are coming from as long as you dont have kids or an responsibility to others.If thats not the case you might need to start sorting out your prioirities
@flamingololli5 жыл бұрын
Hearing Mohammed say "I love kids" felt so wrong when you know he was in his 30s and married his wife at 16 years old 😩
@staceyrhoades47885 жыл бұрын
I definitely got a nasty vibe just from watching the video! I feel for her and her children. She even called him out and said he has hands and feet he should be working! They wouldn’t last in America that’s for damn sure.
@staceyrhoades47885 жыл бұрын
takkatt very well said! Couldn’t agree more
@frankiedominguez68915 жыл бұрын
Henrietta Eriksson it was arraigned I don’t he had much of a choice
@xoxohayaati5 жыл бұрын
Henrietta Eriksson, you’re looking at it wrong and from a different culture. Man and woman both don’t have a say in their arranged marriages. 16 is the age of consent. Besides, they most probably got married in South Asia, where it’s common. Don’t accuse an innocent man of something like that. Although lazy and immature, he loves his wife and kids.
@xoxohayaati5 жыл бұрын
takkatt. Tell that to their parents. They clearly said they got married in Pakistan. It’s 100% normal. They clearly love each other. Even if he’s a child and frustrates Mrs salim. The doc isn’t even about their marriage all those years ago. Next.
@ilovemyservicedog88622 жыл бұрын
Felt so sorry for the second family especially the mother I don’t think people understand what really occurs during arranged marriages. My best friend was taken on a trip to Pakistan when she arrived she was taken to buy a new dress for a party which she didn’t know was that the party was her engagement party she was walked in and fat was told that there were three men sitting on a couch and that she was going to choose one of them and get married now she got to pick which man she was going to be married to that day. One of them was an educated another one simply wanted away to the US and pick a number 3 actually was a college graduate. She picked number three. She was forced to sign papers in a language she couldn’t read it was basically considered married. I’ll never forget that phone call from the party of her crying on the phone she could not believe what it happened to her she’s disabled and her parents thought they getting rid of her as in getting married would fix the problem. If that wasn’t bad enough when she came back to the US with her new husband although technically they weren’t married in the US he basically drained her account. With the American wedding was being handled he was told to babysit a baby for about an hour when they came back they found the infant laying on the floor where they asked him why he had simply lay the baby on the floor and he said I don’t take care of babies that’s woman’s work. The day came for the wedding my friend cried and cried and cried at one point she refused to marry him in America she was slapped so hard that she fell onto the bed the next time I saw her she was obviously drugged she could even keep her eyes open and it was helped down the aisle by her parents. The grooms mother getting angry because she was basically asleep on the couch that they were doing photos she quickly became pregnant and when her new husband found out the baby was a girl he wanted nothing to do with it he wouldn’t buy her maternity clothes and didn’t even show up for the birth the nurses basically had to pin him when he finally did show up to get a car seat after that happened she was dropped off at her family‘s house because he didn’t want to deal with his new baby and wife she luckily was able to get a divorce after that she did cancel his visa although he begged her and offered to pay her money he later paid another person but I can’t imagine what she went through although she did end up with a beautiful daughter but it was your nightmare for her. I can pretty much guarantee that this poor woman never actually had any say as to what was happening in our marriage I feel very sorry for her.
@annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 Жыл бұрын
Oh my God that’s horrible 😞
@indieviolet6981 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for educating us. I feel for your friend and the mother of 10 kids who was forced to marry a man at 16.
@beholdtheman3161 Жыл бұрын
Please long messages like these are not important, Just go straight to the point.
@sokawai5 Жыл бұрын
@@beholdtheman3161 don't tell me you read the whole thing bro. Or at least tried to read the whole things cause that's dumb. I read half of it like the 1st paragraph & I understood what happened (I skipped some parts so I didn't really read the WHOLE paragraph). Cope.
@beholdtheman3161 Жыл бұрын
@@sokawai5 Nah bro, I didn't even look at it. Such messages are a waste of time.
@ebonyberyl70265 жыл бұрын
I love the Rad fords, the family is happy, they are financially conscious,the man minds the wife and is a team player, he hasn't abandoned the responsibility to the wife. ........
@dineshamrutha14 жыл бұрын
so true and on the other hand the mohamed is the complete opposite and their house is disgusting.
@crochetwithapril4 жыл бұрын
Ugh.... That second family makes me sick. He's lazy, she's depressed and their house is disgusting squawler. They need to stop.
@jeng60834 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing! Like wtf! He's on benefits and wants more kids! He needs too get a vasectomy or get a dam job!
@teresawm61274 жыл бұрын
32yr old weds a 16yr old? I realize different cultures but she was a CHILD!! So very wrong on so many levels.
@elxhqiwsum86174 жыл бұрын
Teresa Miller yeah she ruined her life I feel so bad
@-afrodite4 жыл бұрын
Elxhq Iwsum he * he ruined her life
@elxhqiwsum86174 жыл бұрын
*-nice-* she too she could’ve said I don’t want no more babies and get a divorce
@PrincessKLS5 жыл бұрын
No offense but couldn’t the older Salim kids get jobs for themselves and qualify for their own council houses?
@mh564875 жыл бұрын
to be fair its not the kids responsibilty to take care of their siblings if the parents decide to have that many kids. The dad and/or the mom should be working
@dchanelb.32895 жыл бұрын
maja hellborg12 totally agree 💯💯
@bakekanghilme52945 жыл бұрын
@@mh56487 I totally agree! No offense meant but the father is well educated so what's the reason for being unemployed? He just doesn't want to work. He's contented with living off from taxpayers' hardearned money, and he's still wanting more kids! Unbelievable!
@cheyennezeller37205 жыл бұрын
Well older kids can make money for themselves for things they want. Certain things like makeup or a license is something parents shouldn't have to pay for.
@mohamudjamma55375 жыл бұрын
Good idea
@cindyramos59573 жыл бұрын
The 21 yr old from the second family should really be working and studying so he can become independent and leave the household.
@infinity-hr3qi3 жыл бұрын
No he will not leave becoz he is a male. Only females will as they will get married max by 21 or 22.
@samanthapentz33475 жыл бұрын
She IRONS?! That's the craziest part of this whole show. I haven't ironed in 5 years.
@katiewallk11094 жыл бұрын
😂
@cat_pb4 жыл бұрын
JUST WHAT I WAS THINKING
@EvilBee474 жыл бұрын
I still iron 🤷♀️ isnt that a thing anymore 😅
@latoyamitchell99034 жыл бұрын
I try to fold straight away but if I don't i just throw the clothes in the dryer problem solved
@JuniperRose854 жыл бұрын
Samantha Pentz lmfaoooo
@AliceP.3 жыл бұрын
As someone who doesn't want *any* kids, watching this video makes me at the same time relieved for my choices and sad that so many women, like the second wife, didn't really get to choose.
@GR-dw9nm3 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@diaryofarealmom32643 жыл бұрын
She can choose, she lives in the UK where she has rights... she can make choices. It will be hard but she needs to decide what is best for her and her children, but her first. Without a happy healthy mom, there is no happy healthy children.
@mija15703 жыл бұрын
sameeee
@anywayhereswonderwall73033 жыл бұрын
@@diaryofarealmom3264 so by that logic is addiction a choice also?
@diaryofarealmom32643 жыл бұрын
@@anywayhereswonderwall7303 yes, absolutely. When people say it’s a disease they undermine all the hard choices made by those that choose to get clean and stay clean. It’s a total spit in the face.
@Ordinarydays5 жыл бұрын
When Muhammad's wife said "hat ja" it doesn't mean "stop it" 😂 it acutally means "stay away" . She is frustrated poor thing. I feel for her.
@joycepugh97265 жыл бұрын
I saw tears in her eyes when she told him that he has burdened her and the kids. So sad to feel this way at him.
@trevorandhaleylillis33265 жыл бұрын
Hat ja means yes not stay away
@everythingisawesome29035 жыл бұрын
@@trevorandhaleylillis3326 "hat ja" in Hindi means stay away.
@somdutt63035 жыл бұрын
@@trevorandhaleylillis3326 wtf. When tf was "hat ja" yes?
@amyharding42085 жыл бұрын
Trevorandhaley Lillis it’s “Hat Jao” (Hindi) and it means either “Move away ,Get aside” or “Get lost, Go Away”
@lita88353 жыл бұрын
The second mother was arranged to marry a successful man in education at 32 but slowly watched his ambition dissipate in the real world.. I can see there is lots of love in that home but they do deserve more coming from him.
@misakit.41104 жыл бұрын
"God will do it." "God gave you hands and feet - go do something" FINALLY THANK YOU
@zagorskaewelina3 жыл бұрын
And then he says: "What, a doctor of philosophy working in a shop"? This is like the worst attitude ever :/
@danajames31815 жыл бұрын
Did anyone else heart break for mrs saleem 😭❤ the poor lady just wants what's best for her children and her husband is falling to see that
@SuperOneill1235 жыл бұрын
Maybe Mohammad should be a teacher if he loves children so much, put that passion into his work and be paid for it rather than treat his wife like an incubator to essentially produce him his personal classroom.
@heatheralisa86584 жыл бұрын
Oh Well they said that he had a job teaching
@megandunnett79004 жыл бұрын
Heather Alisa Yeah, but judging by his degree it was at a university not the primary/high school teaching that I believe Oh Well was talking about.
@spumantemerrick28323 жыл бұрын
Mr Salim can teach if he wants too. He seems to want a plush university job. There's a need for teachers all over the country.
@historyoflif1003 жыл бұрын
He doesn't want to teach because he is getting twice the salary a teacher gets, so he would rather enslave other people through taxes to pay for his lifestyle. Like he does with his wife and kids... see the pattern.
@breakme193 жыл бұрын
I can’t think of anything more depressing than an arranged marriage. I’d rather gouge my eyeballs out with a claw hammer. It’s daunting enough just finding someone who shares ur feelings as well as values / overall outlook on life. The idea of tying urself to an absolute stranger someone else chooses for u is just morbid.
@jannananaa3 жыл бұрын
For real tho...
@Isaalicious2 жыл бұрын
Not all arranged marriages are like this.. i think you’re talking about forced marriages
@infinitecuriosity92104 жыл бұрын
If the physical burden of pregnancy was on men ,this scenario would not happen, even for one child. I'm sure.
@trynatural234 жыл бұрын
@red x17 I doubt it. The innate nature of the male species is to multiply, NOT to endure the actual burden. Men hit it and quit it. They'd die if they were bloated and couldnt get their rocks off every night of the week😂
@berca64204 жыл бұрын
@@trynatural23 how do you know
@trynatural234 жыл бұрын
It's science people. Why do you think women outnumber men on the planet?🙄😂🤦🏽♀️ Men are designed to hunt. They were created as the pollinator of the planet to sustain the population. It takes 9 months for 1 woman to bring forth a child. If circumstances allow, twins, triplets, etc. A man can impregnate more than woman at a time. In many cases, HE DOES!🙄 I would argue men are hoes by nature.🤷🏾♀️ it is what it is. All by natural design. And HELL NO a man is NOT going to want to be pregnant! That shit is painful! Men can barely survive the damn flu.😒
@trynatural234 жыл бұрын
@red x17 liberals, Muslims (a Muslim is one who submits their will to the One God. They can be of any race.) and Asians all do multiply. By way OF THE LIBERAL, MUSLIM, AND ASIAN WOMAN! DUH!🙄 the MEN are too busy trying to tell US what to do with our uterus. They not trying to have their own!🙄😒😂
@trynatural234 жыл бұрын
@@berca6420 because I passed the 4th grade. THAT'S how I know🙄😒🙄
@lilacboujee1484 жыл бұрын
the first woman is so lucky having a husband like that. he's responsible and very handy around his wife and children. may more men be like him.
@nicholemaclean18885 жыл бұрын
I like the Radfords. They seem like a sweet couple, their kids seems mostly happy and they’re tidy, financially organized and hard workers. They show a stressful evening but even as a mom of three I have nights like that. It doesn’t mean that they’re always like that. The Salim’s are so noisy, always yelling and wrestling, so messy, a financial mess, and the husband seems so immature and they seem at odds as a couple. He’s delusional about their financial state and more kids🤦🏼♀️ the tidy up was just a joke
@annikahs77725 жыл бұрын
Nichole MacLean 100% your opinion. so well said
@hazeldior62855 жыл бұрын
The Salim family seems like any other mormal family. The kids play and are active and make a mess and make noise. Thats what kids do. Also all those kids have smiles on their faces. However the dad should make the older kids should go and get jobs
@twdjt62455 жыл бұрын
Hazel Dior they’re kids of course they have smiles on their faces. The wife however I feel really bad for and seems miserable tbh
@indakgalak5 жыл бұрын
Hazel Dior They look disgusting and their mother looks depressed!
@hazeldior62855 жыл бұрын
@@twdjt6245 Yea the husband should be more mindful of what his wife wants
@ohitsbre75353 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for the second family, especially the wife. She looks so so sad and uncomfortable.
@neoho60963 жыл бұрын
"A Doctor of Philosophy selling chocolates" that spoke VOLUMES about Mahomed's mindset. He is comfortable with the benefits.
@mariamustermann65273 жыл бұрын
Doctors of Philosophy are not exactly known as moneymakers...
@shafqi10003 жыл бұрын
@@mariamustermann6527 he has a PhD. There is no excuse for being unemployed 7 yrs..
@ranjapi6933 жыл бұрын
Exactly.. I got a ph.d. too in literary studies and guess what? I went mopping the floor for Money.. I feel angry at this man. His wife is totally right, hes got hands and feet to work!
@krisaissosmart3 жыл бұрын
A doctor of philosophy that refuses to take care of his family. There's no shame in taking a job that you feel is "beneath" you, if it's helping to feed and clothe your kids. What's shameful is putting your pride above taking care of your responsibilities as a parent. I feel so bad for his wife and kids. He only cares about what he wants, no matter how much strain it puts on everyone else around him.
@laurenmay20983 жыл бұрын
I was not going to say anything, but since you mentioned, I agreed.
@runkeral9014 жыл бұрын
"I am greedy for more children ". Yes, why not, when someone else will give birth to them and will feel all the pain and the discomfort. This father might be a good guy, but he is selfish. He doesn't realise what it costs his wife all those children they have. Not to mention their arranged marriage. I hope she was not forced into it.
@ifiwereazombie82614 жыл бұрын
LOL I bet she was forced. She was 16 and he was 32. Says a lot don't it?
@zbzb9234 жыл бұрын
Run Keral it feels like forced
@donnapatton22194 жыл бұрын
@@ifiwereazombie8261 Poor girl! It gives me the creeps just thinking of it!
@jenniharris81054 жыл бұрын
I think the wife is deeply unhappy and resents him for not working to provide a better life for their children , he has the education to do so but he’s lazy, I feel sorry for her , she’s trapped in a situation she has no control of . Those poor kids need more space . The father needs a reality check and maybe listen to his wife instead of just wanting more kids .
@ambycakes4 жыл бұрын
he's not a good guy. He chooses not to work and forces his wife to have the use kids, they live in a filthy home and their kids instead of helping their mom out are all acting chaotic and rude.
@riseofvikingz22875 жыл бұрын
Who else is stressed just by watching this video?😅
@eniaofe98534 жыл бұрын
Me.
@Layla-ir3sl4 жыл бұрын
This is beyond crazy
@sistasoldier77744 жыл бұрын
Julian Inox that second family! Lawd!
@gangstergurlsubas83994 жыл бұрын
🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️
@manolitalanneaux82704 жыл бұрын
Omg the house so crowded and dirty😜
@k.a.n.27782 жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for the second family. The first one decided to have them and they work and can afford it but living on benefits, being a babymaking machine is depressing. A colleague of mine is from Lebanon and his wife is 15 years younger and constantly pregnant. It makes me sad that she doesn't have a say in it or a life on her own.
@gloryamburn29883 жыл бұрын
My husband and I are lucky enough to be financially stable and have a 4 bedroom home, and we still aren't making children. We are adopting from foster care
@sophielorber45713 жыл бұрын
Finally someone with common sense.
@fithrildith71883 жыл бұрын
Financially stable, responsible people like yourselves should have their own children.
@dikovich.3 жыл бұрын
@@fithrildith7188 why? You have to be stable to adopt too
@katexfob3 жыл бұрын
@@fithrildith7188 if they want to take care of a kid that needs parents then they should go for it, I'm glad they want to take the responsibility
@kiba143faye3 жыл бұрын
You and your husband are rare and wonderful people.
@LimeGrinds4 жыл бұрын
First family ✔️ Second family ❌
@tlpricescope77724 жыл бұрын
Miriam Balayo not crazy about the unwed 19 year old mother living with them.
@lolamoon72964 жыл бұрын
TL Pricescope Yes that’s just terrible, such little commitment between their relationship to be having a child that requires so much commitment.
@Scurvywormstudios4 жыл бұрын
@@tlpricescope7772 we don't know their situation. They could of got pregnant on accident. Even with all the birth control, pregnancy still happens.
@luvlullaby40624 жыл бұрын
TL Pricescope shut up and stop shaming her
@pau80334 жыл бұрын
@@tlpricescope7772 she's caring for her Child and also helps caring for her siblings... What's the problem then?? This things happen.
@chrisbank16214 жыл бұрын
The second family’s mom deserves better. She wants the best for her kids 🥺.
@cthulucoon2 жыл бұрын
What I'm wondering is "do they know their kids?" With so many, how do you spend time with each of them, grow a bond with them, have them not feel like they're just one more but are loved for who they are?
@gloriaius5 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for Mrs Salim :( she's so worried about her children's future, while her husband doesn't really pay mind to her.
@anniesilver14615 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for Mrs. Saleem! Get off her dude...she's done having kids! The husband is lazy. Get a job...hard working people in England shouldn't be responsible for paying for all those kids!!!
@genevawhite69545 жыл бұрын
Annie Silver do you need help for kids and children feed and missy rooms Nevi is working people in England I’m having a child Called Ashley and Carrie at Olivia one day Nevi s husband get a job hard be for paying for your kids safe
@abanaabana57575 жыл бұрын
I agree
@cataamonster5 жыл бұрын
Poor woman.. 😔
@fellowadult5 жыл бұрын
imagine being 16 and your dad married you off to that 32 year old bum that knocks you up 11 times and lives off benefits
@msfat80745 жыл бұрын
Annie Silver I would run away from him and them kids
@zamakhumalo27975 жыл бұрын
“A Dr. of philosophy selling chocolates?” Absolutely yes sir you better get out there and do everything you need to do to make your family’s life easier.
@tangatawhenua1477 Жыл бұрын
They come back with a baby atleast once a year 😂 the parents of 16 children are lovely and the kids are too, how amazing 👏
@trynatural234 жыл бұрын
Noreen is a BOSS! "Let go of me!"😂 I'm proud of her for speaking up and verbalizing her dismay with her husband. She is my HERO! Men need to be checked when they are living delusional dreams depending on God for everything.
@miclazy-5m4 жыл бұрын
shes not into him at all lol
@realascanb2224 жыл бұрын
Lol poor lady
@nikkinikki48353 жыл бұрын
I wonder if he would want more children if he carried the babies. Pregnancy is not for lazy people.
@TaylorNebrae3 жыл бұрын
I agreed with everything you said, except the last part.
@shainamontreuil97593 жыл бұрын
@@TaylorNebrae what’s wrong with the last part?
@natashamerline5 жыл бұрын
Why isn't he working?? WHY?? He keeps trying to evade that question when his wife brought it up.
@khalilahmartin87775 жыл бұрын
Because he doesn't want to.
@staceyannmorgan31864 жыл бұрын
Im saying he want more kids and cant take care of these ones i think he has a metal issuse the first family seem to manage well thou
@samiadilrus4 жыл бұрын
he probably just wants to live off the benefits provided per child by the government. lazy man. doesn’t do the kids’ work like the radfords’ dad does.
@chizyjean5 жыл бұрын
I am impressed because they can pair all those socks... I cant even pair my only child's socks.
@ProductiveChi5 жыл бұрын
Ikr. Some socks just don't make it out of the washing machine lol
@rubij19895 жыл бұрын
Lol its the sock trolls 🤣. Specially baby socks gone and never seen again.
@tzahbull35045 жыл бұрын
👏😂
@jessicabarela1535 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 we need advice what in world she can pair it or not loosing a sock😂😂 i hve 4 kids and every end of d month i hve to buy new ones😂 i gave up hunting and pairing them socks😂😂😂
@laisloureiro2875 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I can't pair my own socks 😅
@LittleRaven223 жыл бұрын
The first family is so calm and organized despite having 16kids.. the second family gives me headache I think the difference in these two families is that first family both parents actually wants more kids.. the second only dad wants
@pollackmorgan31493 жыл бұрын
Hello how are you doing 👋👋😀☺️☺️👋
@sharonb58124 жыл бұрын
I feel like the second family wife is so unhappy. I get the feeling SHE didn't want that many kids plus its an arranged marriage she had no say in. Their house is a complete mess. If the husband isn't working can he not at least clean??? He needed to get a job 7 years ago. Completely selfish and beyond lazy 😒
@dhegadheer26003 жыл бұрын
@Lilianna .D the truth
@CazKing433 жыл бұрын
In their culture men don’t clean, it’s the women’s job. Very unfortunate!
@bryanj28813 жыл бұрын
You are just racist and Islamphobic. That's his rights to not work and get money
@amandaburdick23213 жыл бұрын
@@bryanj2881 That’s a ridiculous, poor attempt at a joke, right? Please tell me it is.
@sanelisiwelurai60313 жыл бұрын
X J are you serious?
@misscoty36174 жыл бұрын
Shame on the second father for not doing what needs to be done to provide a clean and happy home for his kids and wife.
@melodygee14035 жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for mr. salim. her husband keeps saying he strives for their happiness yet the kids are being bullied and the wife begged for a better life and he thinks its all a joke. he doesn't care for his family or wife, he is a selfish man self centered on his own happiness.
@a.akhila45805 жыл бұрын
Yeah and he speaks utternonsense which is quite irritating 😫😫😫
@veronikab15863 жыл бұрын
Aww the shot of their darling little socks hanging on the clothesline is so adorable!
@jaedam80053 жыл бұрын
the second dad “i love children” yeah, we know bc you married one 🤢
@thathippiechickk3 жыл бұрын
My exact words
@luhmelly_3 жыл бұрын
Frllll 16?????
@Ashlynn_Morgan3 жыл бұрын
I believe it's tradition where they were from. It's considered normal, and in America, you CAN get married at 16 as well.
@yeyosilver70673 жыл бұрын
16 years old is not a child, moreover it was a culture factor Taking into account that 8-year-olds have arranged marriages, the age issue was not as severe
@luhmelly_3 жыл бұрын
@@Ashlynn_Morgan yeah but to someone that is 32🤮
@fw614 жыл бұрын
The Radford family has a KZbin channel of their own, for those who want to see how they are. I've been following their family for quite some time now and I only have respect and admiration for Sue and Noel. The kids on this video are grown now and in my opinion, they are the most adorable set of kids on KZbin.
@legatsabine87203 жыл бұрын
Thanks, I just subscribed.
@laceyrodriguez72692 жыл бұрын
I’ve been following them for a long time now, as well. I absolutely adore all of them 💚
@katekat10642 жыл бұрын
I just subscribed
@theaccidentalhousewife2 жыл бұрын
Late to the game here but what's their channel? I can't seem to find it
@kayulab51004 жыл бұрын
Wonder how they're managing in this quarantine? Covid 19
@Moasandwich4 жыл бұрын
I was just thinking
@Shaowraven22664 жыл бұрын
you can see that answer to that! the first family has a youtube channel
@Anonymous-eo2er4 жыл бұрын
Must be really fun trying to get them to do all their schoolwork during quarantine. I have two younger siblings and getting them to finish up their work takes a couple hours every day
@josphinegatheru54194 жыл бұрын
Me too
@angelhaz4 жыл бұрын
Ugh i jus think bout it n wanna run away
@annabees3 жыл бұрын
The second family in IKEA is exactly why me and my 4 siblings would get treats at the end of the meal in every restaurants we went to. We were just so quiet and calm that servers & owners always got from "omg noooo" to "your kids are so nice!" XD